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  • Show #77: Conquer Your Fear of Talking to a Good Looking Man!

    Dating Advice for Women - Dating Tips for Women | Single in Stilettos
    Suzanne Oshima
    16 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Do you ever become completely tongue tied around a good looking man? Find out how to talk to a good looking man without getting nervous.
  • 10 Complaints of Unhappy Wives & Husbands

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    Heckle Radio
    30 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    We all know that more than half of all marriages end in divorce, but what does it take to get there? We've got the scoop on the 10 most common complaints of unhappy wives and husbands. What causes a rift between couples? We're going to find out today! We've also got Headlines, Douche of the Day, Crazy Train, Tweets of the Day, and more! Tune in!
  • I Thought I Knew Him – The Story of a 14 Year Friendship

    I Quit Dating
    27 Oct 2014 | 11:18 am
    I’ve been working diligently on stories for this blog, but in the meantime I want to invite you to check out some of my early posts. Excerpt from “Best Friends and Broken Hearts” (To read the full story) With a white picket fence and a gingerbread trim that closely resembles the old-timey, old-money feel of […]
  • The Clooney Choice: Marry Your Equal
    8 Oct 2014 | 10:45 am
    George Clooney; photo courtesy of BAFTA/Michael Kovak It could happen to you  George Clooney has made headlines for something besides dumping his latest leggy beauty—this time, the tables have turned: he married her! “Her” is stunning human rights lawyer and author Amal Alamuddin, whom the Hollywood heartthrob and seemingly confirmed bachelor married in a lavish star-studded ceremony late last month at Venice’s Aman Canal Grande Hotel in Italy under an archway of imported white roses. Not to diminish the importance of Clooney’s past loves, but they weren’t his…
  • Halloween: It's Not Just For Kids!

    Ellen Walker, Ph.D.
    30 Oct 2014 | 3:25 pm
    Halloween: It's not just for kids!read more
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  • The Science of Smiling

    Adrian Furnham, Ph.D.
    30 Oct 2014 | 9:48 pm
    Can there really be a science of smiling. Using the research of cross-cultural, evolutionary and social psychology researchers have built up a surprising amount of interesting information about the smileread more
  • Personality Problems

    Helen M. Farrell, M.D.
    30 Oct 2014 | 6:05 pm
    Harmful people are encountered in day-to-day life. A new book provides useful tools that could save your life!read more
  • Halloween: It's Not Just For Kids!

    Ellen Walker, Ph.D.
    30 Oct 2014 | 3:25 pm
    Halloween: It's not just for kids!read more
  • What to Do when Your Soul Screams, “Enough!”

    Julie J. Exline, Ph.D.
    30 Oct 2014 | 2:47 pm
    You’ve been putting so much energy into this. It could be a strenuous task, a tough relationship, or a major goal. But persistence is good, right? So you keep pressing on. Then, at some point, you start to experience an internal shift. Even as you forge ahead, a voice seems to well up from within: “Enough!” Should you heed that inner voice and stop what you’ve been doing? read more
  • Shared Experience of Depression Heals Two from Two Cultures

    Julie K. Hersh
    30 Oct 2014 | 2:24 pm
    Decidí Vivir, the Spanish translation of Struck by Living, released this week. The translation process helped heal two families of different languages and culture, but a shared experience of more
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Are you comfortable with your status quo?

    Natalie (NML)
    29 Oct 2014 | 4:24 pm
      If you’ve ever been involved with a Mr/Miss Unavailable, you will be familiar with being managed right down into their status quo. If you imagine that on a scale of 1-10, their status quo is that they like things to be around a 5, whatever they do whether it’s blowing smoke up your bum and promising you the world or insisting that things will be different “this time” (going into 7,8 + territory), or whether it’s at the opposite end and frustrating you to the point where things become mighty tense or you give them the heave ho, if they have their way (they love doing…
  • ‘I Can Change Him/Her’ syndrome: Don’t tie your worth to trying to control the uncontrollable

    Natalie (NML)
    23 Oct 2014 | 3:36 pm
    When people share their stories with me and a recurring theme emerges, I ask: If we look at this story a different way, why are you consistently attracted to and involved with partners who pretty much need to spontaneously combust into another person with a different set of values and habits in order to make you happy? Many people believe that if a person loves you, they’ll change and make you the exception to their rule of behaviour and when this doesn’t happen, they personalise it and blame their worth. Why is our happiness and sense of purpose tied up in whether we can get…
  • When we’re afraid of letting ourselves or others ‘off the hook’

    Natalie (NML)
    15 Oct 2014 | 2:39 pm
    Being let off the hook is about being released out of what could be an unpleasant or at the very least difficult situation, or being released out of something that we don’t want to do. When we feel that we or someone is on the hook for something, it’s fundamentally tied to a sense of obligation, after all, if we didn’t feel that we or they were duty bound to do something, we’d opt out without fanfare. The decision to step away wouldn’t be laden with such turbulent emotions and even a fear of appearing forgiving. Two scenarios in life are likely to hold on tight to the negativity…
  • Buffers: When You’re The One That They Turn To When They’re Unhappy With Their Current Relationship

    Natalie (NML)
    9 Oct 2014 | 3:42 pm
    We are creatures of habit and have to pay close attention to where there are running themes in our lives because it points to where we are not only repeating a pattern of thinking and behaviour but that we’re doing so because we’re getting something out of it. A recurring theme that some Fallback Girls/Guys experience in unavailable relationships is being the person who lends a willing ear, a shoulder to lean on, and even a bed to lie in for people who are having doubts about their current relationship, who want to have a bitch and a gripe about their partners, and who essentially…
  • Despite ‘good points’, we deal with the consequences of people coming as full packages

    Natalie (NML)
    1 Oct 2014 | 3:22 pm
    Any toxic relationship that I’ve been involved in, has always kept going due to me essentially cherry-picking what I wanted to remember about the person and the relationship whether romantic or otherwise. While I did spend most of my life feeling wounded by my father’s absence and the sporadic periods or even moments spent with him, what I mostly remembered was how I felt around him and the happy times, which of course there were some but I’d admittedly romanticised the hell out of them. I’d selectively remember spending visitations with him and how thrilled I always…
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  • Road-Testing a High End Stroller: A Look at the Stokke Xplory

    Leena Bandhoo
    3 Oct 2014 | 11:40 am
    Buying a new stroller doesn't have to feel as overwhelming as buying a new car. In our We Love, You Need series, we ask parents to review the latest baby gear -- from bargain steals to splurge-worthy buys. Our latest review is of the pricey Xplory stroller from Stokke, which starts at $1,000 without accessories. Here's what our mom reviewer had to say:
  • Weekend at the Parents? How to Get It On in a Full House

    Heidi Raykeil
    27 Aug 2014 | 2:17 pm
    Let's face it, sex at your parent’s house (or worse, the in-law’s!) can be tricky. Between the awkward bunking, all that family around, and the total lack of privacy, it often seems hardly worth the effort. But hey, it's still your vacation! Here's how you can sneak in some lovin'.
  • 20 of Our Favorite Lunchboxes and Water Bottles

    Daria Meoli
    21 Aug 2014 | 1:48 pm
    Whether your kid will be packing bologna sandwiches or quinoa and bean sloppy joes, what makes the food the most fun to eat is the lunch box it is packed in.  Here we go way beyond the brown bag lunch options to include some of this season's hottest characters and coolest colors. Game On! Dabba Walla
  • Ninja Turtles, Colorblock and 18 More Stylish Backpacks

    Daria Meoli
    21 Aug 2014 | 1:46 pm
    Oh, the pressure of picking the perfect backpack. While back-to-school sneakers run out of rubber by January and the ankle length jeans purchased in September look like capris by March, the backpack is expected to last until June. That is quite a style commitment for a kid. Here, we've rounded up 20 of our favorite hardworking backpacks for the new school year.
  • 31 Fun Activities to Do With Your Kids Before Summer Ends

    Jenna McCarthy
    25 Jul 2014 | 2:20 pm
    Is your summer flying by? Don't let it without making time to pitch a tent in the backyard, catch fireflies, have a water balloon fight -- or one of the 29 other fun activities listed here! How many can your family check off your bucket list this summer?  
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    31 Oct 2014 | 12:30 am
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  • 10 Complaints of Unhappy Wives & Husbands

    Heckle Radio
    30 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    We all know that more than half of all marriages end in divorce, but what does it take to get there? We've got the scoop on the 10 most common complaints of unhappy wives and husbands. What causes a rift between couples? We're going to find out today! We've also got Headlines, Douche of the Day, Crazy Train, Tweets of the Day, and more! Tune in!
  • VOC Nation Entertainment: Her Dork World, His Dork World

    VOC Nation Radio Network
    30 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Attention Geeks, Dorks, Nerds, Sci Fi fans, Book Worms, and even Hardcore Harry Potter fans... His Dork World, Her Dork World comes to VOC Nation with the sole purpose of pleasing those of us who grew up or continue to be...well...socially awkward. Newest VOC Nation Personality Dean Compton teams up with chic geek Emily to give listeners the male and female side of geek pop culture.  Books, movies, dating advice and much more!  Stay tuned to Twitter for the latest on upcoming topics. Follow Dean Compton on Twitter @antifascist Follow VOC Nation on Twitter @vocnation Visit VOC Nation on the…
  • Psychic Vampire & Energy Draining People

    Spiritual Readings Life Advice
    30 Oct 2014 | 8:30 pm
    We all have those people in our lives that just suck the life out of us. The passive aggressive partner; the overbearing parent; the emotionally exhausting situations or social connections. We've all been there, and we've all been trapped, cornered or bled dry by their constant need to "plug into" us and re-energize themselves while leaving us exhausted.  Tonight's show will be teaching you valuable tools on how to keep your energy from being zapped, or changing these relationships. It's about setting boundaries and using your voice.  Please feel free to call in at the number listed above,…
  • Meeting of the Minds: Red Flag Her

    This is Lawrence
    30 Oct 2014 | 8:30 pm
    Dan, Jonah, Angelo, Chase and Lawrence share a few laughs over old dating experiences. The guys share red flags that they have used in the past to identify crazy girls.  They also get into some of the reasons why they never got back in contact with a woman after dating her.  If you know these guys you know you are in for a good laugh.  
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    Advice From A Single Dating Expert

  • Friends with… Benefits? Is It For You?

    29 Oct 2014 | 9:49 pm
    There are times that you just can’t get sex out of your head. There are times that you may feel lonely and alone. There are times that you feel that you have needs that you want to be fulfilled. Sometimes you just crave intimacy and sensuality. There are also times that you’re so damn busy that you don’t have time to go out on dates. There are times that you just want to celebrate your body. There are times that you feel that you just want no nonsense sex. There are times that you may have thought about having a FUBU – a friend with benefits. On the other hand, you’re wondering is…
  • Your First Time: Losing Your Virginity

    4 Jul 2014 | 2:23 am
    Life is full of firsts, from your first day of school to your first kiss. Being the first is what makes things or moments in your life so memorable and meaningful. When it comes to losing your virginity, this is one first that you do not want to rush or regret. There is no such thing as the perfect first sexual experience, but you can make sure that you are ready and have chosen the right person. Sex is awkward and a little painful the first time, but you can make it special by choosing someone that you have genuine feelings for. There are many factors that go into losing your virginity from…
  • How to overcome your jealousy

    9 Jun 2014 | 8:25 am
    Overcoming Jealousy – You CAN do it! There are few emotions that can be as toxic to a relationship in the way that jealousy can.  If you can get over this now you can make way for a healthy relationship and enjoy the dating process. Jealousy is a natural emotion and it can be managed in a healthy way. However, it can also poison any romance and result in your partner feeling smothered or controlled. You have to get to the root of the jealousy to determine if the relationship is healthy for both individuals. Sometimes jealousy is the result of a larger problem that can’t be fixed. If…
  • Hello All

    9 Jun 2014 | 8:15 am
    Welcome to my expert dating blog, where you’ll find my very best stories and tips to share.  Expect many more articles to come!
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • JDI Dating Fined $616K For Fake Profiles (Mark Brooks)
    30 Oct 2014 | 12:15 pm
    OPW - Oct 29 - In one of the most significant fines imposed by a government on an online dating site, UK based JDI Dating Ltd was fined by the U.S. Federal Trade Commission $616,165 for use of fake profiles. The FTC claimed that JDI dating and its owner William Mark Thomas misrepresented their fake members to lure consumers to pay for memberships.  Called "virtual cupids," fake profiles were indicated by a small “v” encircled by a “C” and observed within the profile. The FTC viewed the icon as difficult to both see and understand. Jessica Rich, Director of the FTC’s Bureau of…
  • Plenty Of Fish Is Responsible For 1M Babies (Mark Brooks)
    29 Oct 2014 | 12:51 pm
    CBC.CA - Oct 27 - POF ( is the biggest dating site with 90M users that sends 30K messages a minute. According to POF founder & CEO, Markus Frind, POF is responsible for over 1M babies. See full article at CBC News See all posts on Summarized by
  • Plenty Of Fish Bets It All On Mobile (Mark Brooks)
    29 Oct 2014 | 12:48 pm
    BCBUSINESS - Oct 21 - POF grew into one of the world’s most popular dating websites. Despite the popularity of its iPhone and Android apps, POF's old revenue model is under siege, as advertising doesn’t work well on the smaller screens of smartphones. POF will need to evolve to survive. POF CEO & Founder, Markus Frind, says that for people under the age of 35, 90% of POF’s visits now come from phones rather than web browsers. Frind says up to 60% of the company’s “tens of millions of EBITDA” still comes from its website. POF’s apps make money from upgraded memberships Frind…
  • Match Group Dating Revenue Up 5% (Mark Brooks)
    29 Oct 2014 | 12:43 pm
    WSJ - Oct 29 - IAC’s Match Group reported revenue of $230.2M, an YOY increase of 12%. Dating revenue grew 5% due to 6% growth in North America and 3% growth in International. The growth in Dating revenue was driven by increased paid subscribers (up 9%). Adjusted EBITDA decreased 11%. by Michael CaliaSee full article at WSJ See all posts on Summarized by
  • Online Dating Startup Raised 600K (Mark Brooks)
    29 Oct 2014 | 4:01 am
    PEHUB - Oct 28 - San Diego-based has raised $600K in seed funding from undisclosed investors. The startup, founded by two female execs, uses DNA analysis to determine if a potential date has the “chances for long-term chemistry, greater compatibility and overall relationship success.” by Alastair GoldfisherSee full article at PEHub See all posts on SingldOut This post also appears on InternetDatingInvestments. Summarized by
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  • Power Vs Love and the Tinder Problem

    14 Oct 2014 | 2:43 pm
    The principle of least interest is the idea that the person in a relationship who has the least interest in its success, has the most power. This idea governs many interpersonal reactions. Though this principle was identified in the late 1930’s, it seems that with all of our communication incredibly documented, levels of interest have become increasingly easy to evaluate. In “I’m Exhausted by the ‘Rules’ of Text Messaging” Obvi’s own Becky brought up the close attention that we now pay to our interactions with people. “Who was the last to text?” “How long did they…
  • This Is Why Your Relationship Should Never Be Equal

    James Michael Sama
    14 Oct 2014 | 1:13 pm
    Wait…what? Did you read that right? I thought I was the guy who was always supposed to be advocating for equality and fairness, particularly between genders and in relationships. Well, I still am, but the reality is that your relationship will never be truly equal. And on top of that – it shouldn’t be anyway. How could I say such a thing? Because complete equality in a relationship is not the road to happiness, as some may think. We should all be equal in terms of rights and respect given to us, especially when part of a couple. We should all be treated fairly. But if…
  • Chronicles of Dating

    14 Oct 2014 | 9:12 am
    1. I was hungover as shit, but going on the date anyway. My blood sugar was still high because of the drinking the night before, and I bolused for that in my car. Luckily our plan was only coffee. I started drinking my coffee and completely forgot about the insulin needed. When I finally remembered I pulled out my pump and didn’t try to hide it. I held it above then below the table as he was telling a story and he stopped short and said “Is that a pager?” (I held it below the table, so I wouldn’t seem rude if he thought it was a phone.) I explained what it was, he…
  • Here's Why Women Shouldn't Play Hard To Get

    James Michael Sama
    14 Oct 2014 | 7:46 am
    So as a woman, you are consistently told that you shouldn’t show too much interest in a man. That you should play hard to get. Make him work for it. While this is sound advice in the respect that you should of course never lower your standards and accept advances from just any random man who shows interest in you, it is too broad to really be useful. If all of this was such great advice, then why are so many women who follow it still single? Because women aren’t the ones who should follow it – men are. That’s right, but don’t take my word for it, there are…
  • Monogamy Is Not Natural (And Why It Doesn't Matter)

    James Michael Sama
    13 Oct 2014 | 5:32 pm
    It may be surprising to some of you to hear me say that monogamy is not natural, considering I talk about building healthy relationships with one person and not running around picking up women at bars, or something. Well, it’s not natural. In many ways it’s quite unnatural for us, actually. On a biological and instinctual level, if we did not have the societal construct of marriage, we would probably be like most other animal species on the planet, just working to reproduce. Sure, there are some naturally monogamous animal species, but they are far outnumbered by those which…
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  • How Being A New Couple At A Party Can Be Really Awkward

    30 Oct 2014 | 8:35 pm
    Buzzfeed gives us some dating insight on what it’s like to be the new couple at a party. These things that you'll go through pretty much just tip the iceberg. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • How To Be An A**hole On The First Date: 14 Dating Hacks For Men

    30 Oct 2014 | 3:24 pm
    Charles Orlando goes through the 12 steps you should take if you want to act like an a**hole on the first date. His dating advice for men is truly...priceless! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 16 Stages Of Online Dating You KNOW Are True

    30 Oct 2014 | 10:30 am
    The internet can house some really awesome things … and some especially strange things too. And when it comes to finding love and online dating, there are 16 odd stages we all go through. Some rock, some suck worse than a pelvic exam, but they are all the absolute truth, and we all know it. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post
  • 7 Reasons Frankenstein Would Be The Perfect Boyfriend

    30 Oct 2014 | 8:44 am
    It's National Frankenstein Day, and that's made us realize that the underrated monster would actually make the best boyfriend ever! Here's why we'd love to date him. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 10 Messages From Dating Sites We Can't Even Deal With Right Now

    29 Oct 2014 | 9:40 am
    Kids, be forewarned: the mother of all facepalms is coming your way. No, make that 10 of them. We polled the editors in the YourTango office, and came up with 10 messages from dating sites that are too ridiculous to believe. From propositions for sex to sketchy proposals to one that reeks of xenophobia, we can't quite make heads or tails of these messages. read more
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    Online Dating Insider

  • Happy 20th Anniversary Banner Ads
    27 Oct 2014 | 2:32 pm
    Twenty years ago I was working with Tangent Design and Modem Media to develop interactive content for AT&T and Zima. The guy who’s place I took at Tangent Design ended up founding Razorfish a few months later. Anyone remember The Blue Dot? This Is The’s World’s First Banner Ad: This is almost the exact size, almost the exact resolution, exact ad. Of course, it’s not *technically* the first banner ad. There was no “one” first banner ad. Instead, there were around 12-14 banners, which all went live 20 years ago today, on October 27th, 1994. That was when the website…
  • Dating Profile Moderation In the Philippines
    24 Oct 2014 | 8:15 am
    Most social sites, and some dating sites and apps, use humans in the Philippines to moderate profile content. Over 100,000 people there spend their days looking at the most disturbing things you could imagine, and then some. Everybody hits the wall, generally between three and five months. You just think, ‘Holy shit, what am I spending my day doing? This is awful.’ “It’s like PTSD…. There is a memory trace in their mind.” Denise and her team set up extensive monitoring systems for their clients. Employees are given a battery of psychological tests to determine their…
  • Second Life Creator Builds Next-Gen Virtual Worlds
    23 Oct 2014 | 3:10 pm
    In the early 1990’s I was part of the Boston Computer Society Virtual Reality Group. We built clunky virtual worlds viewable in scary head-mounted monitors and at any time someone in the group had very expensive high-performance computers on loan from various vendors. Things died out over the next few years, the computing power just wasn’t there to make the worlds look realistic. Fast forward to 2003 when Linden Lab launched SecondLife. More computing power and no head-mounted display required, but the navigation and tools were too geeky for most people. After that wave of hype,…
  • Tinder Turns on The Revenue Tap
    23 Oct 2014 | 2:12 pm
    Tinder is going to offer freemium services in a few weeks. The new premium service will likely let users break away from location limits and expand their Tinder reach. “We are adding features users have been begging us for,” said Rad. “They will offer so much value we think users are willing to pay for them.” Greg Blatt, the head of IAC’s Match division predicted Tinder could earn $75 million in 2015. Let’s put that number in an envelop and revisit it a year from now. What’s the over/under for them reaching $75 million? I would imagine that around 5% of Tinder users…
  • Crowdfunding A New TV Pilot, Love’s Bounty Hunter
    23 Oct 2014 | 8:52 am
      Love’s Bounty Hunter is a new comedy series that reveals the inner workings of a fictional online dating company and the people who play Cupid there. Our story follows Claire Desmond, who is coerced into signing a contract with America’s largest online dating company, Love’s Bounty Hunter, as a “featured dater” in Los Angeles. She’s entirely at the whim of the Love’s Bounty Hunter computer algorithms and must go on at least one date with every match the computer finds for her. In the series, the regular cast of characters will be supplemented with featured cameos…
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    Harassed Mom

  • Raising a rainbow nation

    29 Oct 2014 | 11:41 pm
    Racism is man’s gravest threat to man – the maximum of hatred for a minimum of reason.  ~Abraham Joshua Heschel Sharon has posted a lot recently about the challenges of racing mixed race children. Even though I did not adopt my older two kids, I still get a lot of the same questions and comments she does because if you look at us, you could assume that we did possibly adopt them. I must say for the most part I ignore stupid comments and questions because otherwise it could get ugly. Sharon’s latest blog post was about “Would you allow your child to marry a brown…
  • 5 Gadgets to improve your home safety!

    29 Oct 2014 | 11:01 pm
    Crime isn’t something I particularly like to talk about here but it is a reality of the country we live in. I am especially aware of it because I stay at home and Emma and Jane are also at home alone a lot. None of us want to turn our homes into prisons with alarms and barbed wire and cameras and beams. But again, we have to be realistic about where we live and ensure that our homes are safe and secure without over reacting. I have put together a few gadgets that you can add to your home to make it a little more safe without it feeling like it. *Digital Peephole viewer This is a really…
  • When saying goodbye is hard.

    29 Oct 2014 | 4:06 am
    I have had these deep sense of sadness the past few weeks. Not an unhappiness because I am happy but rather the sadness that comes with loss. Not the loss of your favourite pair of ear rings but the deep sense of loss when a friend leaves your life. Not leaves as in you fight and break up but when they physically leave you and no longer are a part of your daily life. I think it has been what has cause my writers block because I have had this post in my head for weeks now but have not had the words for it. I miss writing, I miss blogging so it is time to face it. This year was my second year…
  • Gratitude

    27 Oct 2014 | 3:55 am
    What a week last week was! It was all kinds of crazy and busy. This morning I sat down to catch up on admin, mails etc etc and when I got to the budget it depressed me completely. This month is about 25 days too long for our budget. We are jam packed with commitments all the way through November. I was feeling slightly over whelmed with life in general. So instead of focusing on what we don’t have I am going to assume the “head in sand” position and focus on all the the things I do have. My awesome husband. He watched the kids this weekend while I was packing boxes! I know…
  • Its all about the mundane here I am afraid!

    23 Oct 2014 | 7:58 am
    So my little #mundahappiness challenge has taken off better than I anticipated. My twitter and instagram feed are full of photos and updates (I am behind on blog reading so haven’t checked their yet). Thank you so much to everyone who is joining in! If you haven’t joined us then you can start now. Julia asked me this morning why there are no posts. There are two reasons. The first is that I have been busy and today our Santa Shoebox Drop Offs started so its crazy crazy. But the second reason is a little disturbing for me. I just haven’t had the inspiration/desire/motivation…
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  • RE-POST: "I Feel Like My Chances of Finding Love Are Hopeless" via The Frisky

    17 Oct 2014 | 11:48 am
    I'm not sure if you've seen it, but I've been doing an advice column called "Make It Stop!" over on The Frisky for the past few months. Mostly I field questions about pesky co-workers and thorny family problems. But this week's question was the most profound one yet. It was about how to deal with feeling hopeless in love. I've re-posted it in its entirety below. I'm proud of my answer and I thought it might help some of you out there that are struggling with the same thing. And if you have any questions you want to submit, email me at Hopefully I can nip…
  • Real Talk: I Need A Date To My Friend's Wedding

    29 Jul 2014 | 6:37 am
    As wedding season draws to its (merciful) close, I'm faced with one final nuptial hurrah, courtesy of two of my nearest and dearest friends who -- in a shameless attempt to make the rest of us feel bad about our lives -- had the nerve to fall madly, dizzily in love with each other. They're getting married this fall, and I will almost certainly be invited with a plus one. Which raises the question: who the hell am I taking to this wedding? Tempting as it would be to reinstate my OKStupid or Tinder accounts and troll for tail, the more practical approach seems to be tapping into the pool of…
  • Flippin' Our Shades At Author and Blogger Samantha Irby

    25 Jul 2014 | 12:34 pm
    Samantha Irby is my favorite writer. Her blog, Bitches Gotta Eat, is one of the best blogs I've ever read. And her debut book of essays, Meaty, is brilliant. People in the book industry talk a lot about having a "voice" in writing and I didn't really know what that meant until I read her stuff. Her voice leaps off the page (or screen or whatever device you read her stuff on). It truly feels like she's talking directly to you. It's incredible. And everything she writes--whether it's about dating, sex, friends, or family--is fresh, honest and relatable. She hails from my hometown of Chicago and…
  • Tip Our Hats: Guys Who Stake Their Claim On Me

    23 Jul 2014 | 12:06 pm
    I love, love, love when he does little gestures to let everyone around us know that we're together. Like when we're ending the night at his corner dive taking down beers the way Ryan Howard would take down pitchers. I catch him looking at me a little too long, and then he leans in for a quick kiss. I'm in Blush City, population: me.Or when we're splashing around at the beach with all my friends and he swims out to where I'm dog-paddling (at 5'1'', it's not that far from shore), wraps my arms around his shoulders and lets the water lap around us as we sway with the waves.  Or that…
  • Attention People With Dilemmas: I Can Help!

    21 Jul 2014 | 2:03 pm
    I'm not sure if you've heard, but I'm writing a NEW weekly advice column over on The Frisky called, "Make It Stop."So far I've taken on sneaky roommates and reality TV-shaming boyfriends. And last week I put the kibosh about pesky co-workers and nosy drunkards.Have a question you want answered? Email me: with the subject "make it stop" and I'll try my best to help you nip some shit in the bud.
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  • Street Harassment, the Black Community’s “Dirty Dark Secret”, and More

    30 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Rich and WIM discuss rental car realness, awkward race-based happenings, WIM’s trip to SoCal, Rich’s joint project with boobookins, Charles Barkley’s comments on a “dirty dark secret” in the black community, the viral street harassment video, listener questions including a really tough one, and more. Join the discussion about this episode on twitter using #TGOS44 or via our FB page at @TGOSPodcast, @WisdomIsMisery, @IAmRichJones tgospodcast at gmail dot com DOWNLOAD THE EPISODE (Right click and save as)…
  • The Problem with the ‘Can You Cook?’ Debate

    Amir Figueroa
    30 Oct 2014 | 3:38 am
    Original Article: This article sounds like someone is caught up in their feelings of being asked this question and it being a deal breaker for guy. Everyone has deal breakers…or not? Do you have any deal breakers? If so, let us know what they are, and why? It’s not always self explanatory. I don’t like jumping to conclusions or making assumptions, but either the author can’t cook or one of her friends can’t. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking someone you’re interested in, if they can perform…
  • Will America Ever Fully Embrace Women’s Sports?

    29 Oct 2014 | 8:00 am
    I could’ve chose any woman to place above but I selfishly had to put up Skylar Diggins because I’m not sure of many things in the world better than her. But today is about some new business and a subject that strays from my usual M.O. I love sports and today’s topic is about the business of sports and how we the fans view it. This past Sunday I got into a great debate about the equality of women in sports. In particular, the debate stemmed from the idea that women should be paid as much as their male counterparts. I would side with this statement if professional athletes…
  • The NBA Season is Back! Here’s Why Cleveland Will Win the Championship

    Joe Sargent
    27 Oct 2014 | 9:01 pm
    We made it, you guys. Our long national nightmare is over. The NBA has returned. 20 hours after this posts, the Dallas Mavericks will take on the defending champion San Antonio Spurs on TNT. That is the first thing I’m happiest about with the return of the season…not the game, but NBA on TNT. Even with Shaq on set, this is the best show on TV. Let’s enjoy one of my favorite moments: Charles Barkley falling asleep ON NATIONAL TELEVISION. Ok then. Let’s talk about the teams that actually have a shot at the championship this season: Atlanta Hawks – They don’t really have a shot at…
  • Drake Likes Blac Chyna’s Pics, Poor Customer Service, and the End of Boardwalk Empire

    26 Oct 2014 | 10:07 pm
    So first up, you might’ve heard that Tyga recently stated in an interview “I don’t like Drake as a person. He’s just fake to me.” Which is super corny to me, because honestly who cares whether Mr. Twist the Lime in the Coconut likes the King of the 6 or not. But what did excite me was Drake’s passive response. Instead of going into a sh*t slinging contest with Tyga, Drake goes and likes a few of  Blac Chyna’s(Tyga’s baby mother) pics- it’s my type of repsonse. Like that’s a boss move, when your the current hottest cat in the game.
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    SMS And Shayari Collection From

  • SMS’s Shayaris – Aasoo Aa Jate Hain Ankhon Me Rone Se Pehle

    31 Oct 2014 | 1:18 am
    Aasoo Aa Jate Hain Ankhon Me Rone Se Pehle Her Khwab Toot Jate Hain Sone Se Pehle Ishq Hai Gunah Ye To Samajh Gaye Kaash Koi Rok Leta Ye Gunah Hone Se Pehleek Baat Bata Do Rasta Wo Mujhe B Dikha Do Apni Sari Yaadon Se Chutkara Dila Do Tm Bhule Ho Jaise Tm Tareeka Wo Mujhe Bi Sikha DoNafrat Kabhi Na Karna Hum Se, Ye hum Kabi na Seh Payein Gey, Ek bar keh Dena humse k Zarorat Nahi Ab Tumhari Hum Tumhari Duniya se Hans k Chalay Jaein Gey!Dil Jalana Khwaish Hai Yaar Ki, Uff Ye Kaisi Aazmaish Hai Yaar Ki, Abhi Sukh Bhi Nhi Paye The Zakhm Dil K Fir Se Kuredna Farmaish He Yaar KiHasata Hai Mujko Or…
  • Dil Ke Isharey Koi Bataye Beeghi Ruthein Kyun Tham Jaaye

    30 Oct 2014 | 7:13 pm
    Yeh Faselay Jo Darmiyaan Aaye Shaam Ke Saaye Rukh Jaaye Dil Ke Isharey Koi Bataye Beeghi Ruthein Kyun Tham JaayePas Nahin Tum To Phir Kya Ho Gaya Mausum Dobara Laut Aayein Ge Saagar Se Maujoon Ko Milna Hai Zaroori Aik Din To Dono Mil Jaayein GeYeh Faselay Jo Darmiyaan Aaye Shaam Ke Saaye Rukh Jaaye Dil Ke Isharey Koi Bataye Beeghi Ruthein Kyun Tham JaayeTum Bin Mera Jeevan To Kya Pal Bhi Na Beet Paye Ga Tum Jo Na Aaye Janam Mere Sapnoon Ka Ghar Tuut Jaaye GaPas Nahin Tum To Phir Kya Ho Gaya Mausum Dobara Laut Aayein Ge Saagar Se Maujoon Ko Milna Hai Zaroori Aik Din To Dono Mil Jaayein GeYeh…
  • Happy New Year 2010 SMS – Shayari- Greetings

    Heeren Tanna
    30 Oct 2014 | 1:03 pm
    Before the golden sun sets,2008’s calender is destroyed,And mobile networks get jammed,I wish in 2009 every moment is enjoyed~ ~ ~ ~ New Year SMS Greetings 2010~ ~ ~ ~ For last year’s words belong to last year’s languageAnd next year’s words await another voice.And to make an end is to make a beginning.Happy New Year.~ ~ ~ ~ New Year SMS Greetings 2010~ ~ ~ ~ God Bless U N Keep U Safe Not Only Today But Throughout Life That is coming In Ur Way.May Year To Follow Be Among The Best U ve Ever Spend.~ ~ ~ ~ New Year SMS Greetings 2010~ ~ ~ ~ Gul ne gulshan se gulfam bheja…
  • Birthday Shayari In Hindi

    30 Oct 2014 | 6:59 am
    Near or far wherever U are,My best wishes are with U,Aap jiyo hazaro saal,May success & joy be yours every day,Yehi hai meri wish heart se!The post Birthday Shayari In Hindi appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Yosemite (Yosemite) Flame Falls National Park

    30 Oct 2014 | 12:52 am
    California, Yosemite (Yosemite) Flame Falls National ParkThis falls every sunset, it looks like volcanic lava in general, so the waterfall was Named “Yosemite Fire Falls.”The post Yosemite (Yosemite) Flame Falls National Park appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
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    Online Dating Guide

  • eHarmony 60% Off for Halloween

    30 Oct 2014 | 9:45 pm
    eHarmony is having a promotion running this weekend where you can save 60% off of the 6-month subscription. This is a really big savings and normally a 20% savings is as high as I generally see on the 6-month plan. With 60% off, the amount you’d pay in total should come out to about $107, assuming my math is correct. That’s $20 a month (more like $18 but let’s just call it $20 to make things simple). If you consider that their monthly plan currently runs at $60 per month, this is a great promotion to take advantage of: you end up getting six months for cheaper than what you’d…
  • Free Weekend October 2014

    30 Oct 2014 | 9:41 pm is having a free weekend this weekend, starting on Friday, October 31st and running until the end of the day on Sunday, November 2nd. During this free weekend, anyone who creates a free account will be able to communicate for free with others on the dating site. If you’re not familiar with, it’s a dating service that aims to offer you direction as you date online by providing people that you will match well with, based on your personalities. Even though it’s a “matches” based dating service, is a bit less strict than…
  • Letting Go of Expectation

    26 Oct 2014 | 11:30 pm
    Everyone to be found on an online dating interface is registered precisely because they are on a search. We sign up to have access to these databases of singles because we are looking for something to satisfy our wanting, and not everyone has the same goal in mind. While browsing the profiles of potentials, one is quick to notice that people desire everything from a serious relationship to casual dating, a hook up or simple companionship to roll with in friendly conversation. Regardless of what has brought someone to the world of online dating, the gist remains that everyone is holding on to…
  • Does Asking a Woman Out Quickly in Online Dating Work?

    22 Oct 2014 | 9:29 pm
    I’m a big fan of getting to the first date quickly in online dating. I wrote about this in detail in my article on planning the first date. I didn’t realize this when I started my website, but it turns out that lots of people giving online dating advice hold this opinion too. Personally, I had success with this approach. But one reader contacted me with some doubts: I have a question regarding when to ask a girl out through online dating. I’ve read a lot of advise saying that a guy should ask for a first date within the first four or five emails. Some advice suggests even…
  • How to Write an Impacting Profile

    21 Oct 2014 | 10:58 pm
    While filling out a dating profile, have you ever felt you were merely indulging in egotism, or worried over how to present yourself in an honest yet alluring fashion? I remember feeling a subtle yet smug satisfaction at being able to speak in depth about myself, what I wanted from a partner and posting my favourite pictures of myself. After all, who does not find some pleasure in showing the world how wonderful they can be? Yet, another layer of me felt conflicted about the process of creating a profile due to a fear of making statements about myself that I knew were not permanent truths,…
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    I Hate 2 Date

  • I See You See Me

    28 Oct 2014 | 4:26 am
    I wouldn’t say I stopped writing per se, more like a hiatus – a mental vacation from the rigors of both dating and writing. My life has undergone some major changes. Not bad or good necessarily, but different. I’ve found … Continue reading →
  • My Virtual Boyfriend – Part 2

    28 Apr 2014 | 4:13 pm
    The plans went back and forth for weeks with him changing his mind and not being able to commit to a meeting location or city. Do we meet up by him? A few hours south, down by where I was … Continue reading →
  • My Virtual Boyfriend – Part 1

    23 Apr 2014 | 2:31 pm
    Sad to admit this was the last encounter I had dating, and to be honest, it sorta sucked the wind out of me and left me with no idea how to relay the story. A guy online contacted me and when … Continue reading →
  • The Mysterious Case of the Two Widowers

    6 Nov 2013 | 5:09 pm
    Not long ago I discovered a profile online that, quite frankly, seemed too good to be true. Alas, the optimistic romantic in me had no reason to not believe what he said. Late 40’s, handsome widower, professional, no kids etc … Continue reading →
  • An Open Letter to My Future Husband

    30 Sep 2013 | 6:48 pm
    Dear Future Husband, As we were in the early stages of getting to know one another, I thought it was only fair to point out a few things about myself that perhaps, may not be so obvious. I mean, how … Continue reading →
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • How to Meet Hot & Sexy Flight Attendants

    28 Oct 2014 | 4:51 pm
    Now, I will discuss the best place to meet flight attendants, and that's on the ground. Particularly in the bars of hotels that have regular limousine service to and from the local airport. Where  do  flight  attendants  hang  out  between flights? It may surprise  you but  usually they stick around  the hotels they stay  in. You might think they would  be  out  partying  till  the wee hours between flights. This is just not  so and here are reasons for this.Being a flight attendant is not all glamour. It's a…
  • How to Avoid Boring Conversation with Women

    19 Oct 2014 | 10:38 am
    Avoid Dull Subjects Sometimes it is the girl who keeps the conversation on a subject uninteresting to you. If she is really interested in it herself you can cater to her for a while, but you should eventually try to change the subject rather than suffer too much boredom yourself. You can probably find something interesting to both of you.
  • Amazing Pheromone Cologne Drives Women Wild for Sex!

    12 Oct 2014 | 6:32 pm
    This powerful pheromone cologne containing a secret rare ancient Hawaiian pheromone formula discovered by scientists drives women wild for sex! Would you like to turn beautiful single women on instantly? Would you like beautiful hot girls to ignore your face and stare at your pants? Can you picture yourself with a harem of horny gals wondering what it is about you that they can't resist? What would it be worth to you for sexy gorgeous single women to want to share their warm, writhing bodies with you? How would it be to have women get hot and horny just from a whiff of your aroma? You can get…
  • Some of the Best Dating Tips Ever to Succeed with Women

    5 Oct 2014 | 9:50 am
    Don't always do what women expect you to do. Someone who does exactly what is expected on cue is boring. By being a little unpredictable, you become elusive, you keep women on their toes, wondering about you, and slightly insecure with respect to where they stand. If they expect you to try and make a move sexually - don't. If they expect you ask them out for Saturday night, ask them out for Tuesday night. If they think you aren't interested, call out of the blue. If they expect you to call that night, call the next day. You must convince a girl that she would be lucky to be with you. You may…
  • How to Attract Topless Dancers with Celebrity Status

    25 Sep 2014 | 6:25 pm
    If you are a celebrity, movie star, rock star, wealthy, don't try to hide it. Exploit it to the max, but be cool and don't brag.              Your celebrity status will attract topless dancers like a magnet. If you have a yacht, mansion, Lexus, airplane, etc., let her know about it. It will make a big impression on her because these girls are obsessed with money and material things. They are true "Material Girls."              Just overlook the fact that she may just…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • Dr. Wakina gave us love

    30 Oct 2014 | 2:07 pm
    New Answer - I felt hated by my boyfriend’s mother because I am 5years older. My boyfriend’s mother sworn that she can never be alive to see her son marry me. This was embarrassing for me because I have established almost all my life around him and we both love each other for almost 6years and her mother called me “Old Woman” now. I cried when my guy told me that her mother won’t support our marriage because of my age. We then agreed to look for means to convince her mother and make her bless us, but we couldn’t succeed. Thanks to testimonies I read on local newspaper and blogs…
  • Wild Wipes intimate wipes

    29 Oct 2014 | 7:59 pm
    New Answer - My husband and I recently started Wild Wipes and we love them! They're really soft and smell really husband and I can get messy, and these are great for cleaning up after a good time ;-) I suggest you go to, we used promo code "wild" and got free shipping, so you should try it in case it still works.

    28 Oct 2014 | 3:07 am
    New Answer - Me and my ex-husband at all times have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early September this year. So i met with this spell caster Lord shinnok on the internet after a long search. And he told me everything that i needed to do, and he also asured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 27th Oct. You are not going to believe this. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I'm fully persuaded that you are a legit and…

    28 Oct 2014 | 3:06 am
    New Question - Me and my ex-husband at all times have always tried to stay friendly over again after our divorce which occurred in early September this year. So i met with this spell caster Lord shinnok on the internet after a long search. And he told me everything that i needed to do, and he also asured me that he is going to reunite us in just 24 hours later after his spell casting. So he started his work on Monday 27th Oct. You are not going to believe this. He is back!!! Yes, he really came back in 24 hours just as you guaranteed Sir. Now I'm fully persuaded that you are a legit and…

    25 Oct 2014 | 3:39 pm
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  • The Clooney Choice: Marry Your Equal

    8 Oct 2014 | 10:45 am
    George Clooney; photo courtesy of BAFTA/Michael Kovak It could happen to you  George Clooney has made headlines for something besides dumping his latest leggy beauty—this time, the tables have turned: he married her! “Her” is stunning human rights lawyer and author Amal Alamuddin, whom the Hollywood heartthrob and seemingly confirmed bachelor married in a lavish star-studded ceremony late last month at Venice’s Aman Canal Grande Hotel in Italy under an archway of imported white roses. Not to diminish the importance of Clooney’s past loves, but they weren’t his…
  • Brad & Angelina Tie the Knot—Big Whoop

    3 Sep 2014 | 10:40 am
      The wedding of the century? Isn’t that supposed to be YOUR wedding? OK, I know very few of us are as genetically blessed as Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, and it isn’t likely that anyone reading this is an Academy Award-winning movie star (though I never say never)…but come on. For the amount of hoopla the surrounding the power couple’s wedding, you’d think it was like we discovered the two came out as aliens from a distant planet. OK, so let’s get the details out of the way first (you know you want to hear them if you haven’t already). The…
  • 7 Shocking Facts About Infidelity

    1 Aug 2014 | 7:12 am
    #143920085 / Are we genetically predisposed to stray? Infidelity is a subject that fascinates me. As I’ve aged, the thought of it—of cheating on the person you’re meant to love and honor—makes me sick. If your relationship isn’t working, why not either put some effort in, or else end it before you’ve hurt the person who’s meant the most? It’s a pretty critical statement to make, true, but everyone views things differently. Some people simply can’t be alone, and so cheat to segue from one relationship to another, while others think…
  • Watch the Steamy Fifty Shades of Grey Trailer

    28 Jul 2014 | 6:22 am
    Fifty Shade of Grey trailer It’s finally here! We all had our top choices for who we wanted to play Christian Grey in E.L. James’ best-selling Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, and the role eventually went to Burberry model Jamie Dornan with Don Johnson and Melanie Griffith‘s daughter, Dakota Johnson, playing leading lady Anastasia Steele. The books, which featured love, sex and domination (perhaps not in that order) were the most buzzed about thing of 2011. How will the film fare? The jury’s not out yet, but we do know that the trailer broke records as the most-watched…
  • When It Comes to Love, Father DOES Know Best

    12 Jun 2014 | 12:35 pm
    #177148881 / Father Knows Best  isn’t just an iconic, Emmy winning sitcom of 1950′s and 1960′s, but it’s also, in my case, a fact. My dad does know all (or most): especially when it comes to my boyfriends. When I was 14, he simply shook his head when I tried to date our next-door neighbor who, though sweet, was a bit simple. He shook his head when I fell in love with the the (dyed) golden-haired soccer star in high school, saying he was a “nice boy, but not for me.” I got more than admonishment when I snuck out of the house late night to…
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    Online Dating

  • Test for STDs at Home? myLAB Box Launches

    13 Oct 2014 | 8:50 am
    Pioneering myLAB Box Empowers You to Take Control of Your Health by Screening for Major STDs Anytime and Anywhere. Let’s face it, the conventional STD testing process is so riddled with inconvenience and discomfort, it causes many Americans – possibly even you! – to skip their annual exam. With the ability to test remotely via mail and receive lab results electronically innovative new service, myLAB Box, is set to transform the way we test, talk and think about STDs in the US today one click at a time. Try it out today and save 20%, it is easy as 1-2-3: 1. Order your box at…
  • An Online Dating Guide for the Rest of Us

    26 Sep 2012 | 6:35 pm
    We all have that coworker, sister-in-law or neighbor that found her fairy tale ending on an online date-to-love site like or eHarmony. We use social media for everything else, so it’s no surprise that nearly 20% of us have now tried online dating. Now that it’s an acceptable and “normal” option, how do we play the online dating game and win? The truth is, most of the anxieties and pitfalls of dating are the same on and offline. And landing that first date with your online sweetheart might take a little more social media savvy than you think. Consider these tips to grabbing…
  • Required Reading: The Authoritative Guide to Safer Sex

    Online Dating
    18 Sep 2012 | 1:24 pm
    Conventional wisdom tells us to practice safer sex. But what does safer sex really mean? Asking your peers and consulting the Internet can lead to information overload, and you may not be getting the truth. Professionals say that many people are grossly misinformed about safer sex and so they suffer the consequences. Check out our  six-part guide to safer sex.  All of the information presented has been carefully examined for accuracy and credibility – this is a guide you can count on.  Start here, or jump to a section of your choosing: Part I: An Introduction to Safer Sex Part II:…
  • Not Your Mom’s Grinder: All You Need to Know About Grindr

    Online Dating
    30 Aug 2012 | 4:51 pm
    First launched in 2009 by founder and CEO Joel Simkhai, Grindr is arguably the best “geosocial networking” and location-based mobile app for gay men. It is currently used in over 192 countries and includes millions of members; at any given time, 71,000 users are logged onto Grindr and close to a million users log into the mobile app daily. Grindr has been described by users as a “revolutionary dating tool,” as well as the “scariest gay bar on earth.”  Either way, Grindr has made an indelible mark on the dating scene for gay men, winning awards like the “Best Dating…
  • 29th Edition of the Carnival of Online Dating

    Online Dating
    30 May 2012 | 2:00 am
    Welcome to the May 30, 2012 edition of the Carnival of Online Dating! This is the twenty-ninth — and final — edition of the blog carnival, and we really appreciate those who have submitted their links for inclusion. Rediscover our previous editions by visiting our Carnival of Online Dating archives page! Dating Tips & Advice Tom Hass presents Thinking Vs Feeling posted at Personal Hack. Aleksey presents The First Date posted at Get Social Blog. Jon Rhodes presents Bodybuilding Hypnosis posted at HypnoBusters, saying, “This article shows you how you can use hypnosis to…
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  • 8 Tips To Avoid First Date Fails

    Katy Red
    29 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    First dates, no matter how many you go on, can be a nerve-wracking experience. After the initial process of recognising you have the hots for each other online, followed often, by a brief conversation, the actual ‘first date’ can feel more like an audition than an informal meeting between two people who want to get to know each other a bit better. The first thing to remember when on a first date, is that it is supposed to be fun! You are not at an audition (leave the jazz hands at home) or a job interview (note pad and previous dating history CV not required) you are there to meet…
  • 20 People Reveal Their Top Dating Confessions

    Alicia Drewnicki
    27 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    We’ve all got secrets; some more scandalous than others. I asked 20 people to divulge the details and share their dating  and relationship related confessions with me. From tales of infidelity to spying on partners and having inappropriate crushes, some of these stories left me speechless. Shhh…don’t tell… 1) “I have two maps of the world on my computer – one for all the counties I’ve been to, the other for all the women I’ve been with! The best part of it is that the second map is bigger than the first!” 2) “I noticed my husband…
  • 20 Gay Men From Around the World Tell Us the #1 Thing They Want in a Boyfriend

    Oliver Johnston
    27 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    It can be difficult growing up gay and not having any cinematic role models to relate to. In Disney movies, the girl always rides off into the sunset with the handsome prince, and this can be a tad frustrating for the young gay guy who might think that he and the handsome prince would be a better match. This perhaps explains why poorly written and acted straight to DVD gay themed films (or should that be gay to DVD?) can be popular – they’re relatable. It could also be because many of them feature full frontal male nudity by the fifth page of the script. Disney movies are maybe not…
  • How To Break Up With Your Boyfriend

    Elizabeth Marie
    24 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    Breaking up with someone is the worst. Dare I say that being the dumper is actually harder than being the dumpee (technical terms) because really, who enjoys hurting someone great? Someone who at one time you saw a future with, someone who gave you butterflies and made you feel weak in the knees. It’s much easier to break-up with someone when there is a clean cut reason, like if they are a total jerk who made you feel terrible. Bye! See, that was easy! But ending a relationship with a person who you care about, a great guy who hasn’t done anything wrong is a totally different…
  • 12 Halloween Themed Date Ideas In Southern California

    Almie Rose
    23 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    Halloween is upon us once again! (Did the year just fly by for anyone else?) So it’s time for some spooky date ideas, aside from a scary movie marathon, which is definitely fun, but not so much if you want to get out of the house and away from those pesky little trick-or-treaters. Here are some fun, Halloween-themed date ideas you can do in Southern California. 1.  Los Angeles Haunted Hayride 4730 Crystal Springs Dr Los Angeles, CA 90027 (310) 993-8289 This one is an LA classic. Instead of walking through a haunted house, you’re treated to a 25 minute hayride through various…
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    The Art of Charm Podcast

  • Dr. Geoff Miller | Mating Grounds (Episode 334)

    Jordan Harbinger
    31 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Find out what women really want (it’s science!) “As humans we are not a species that runs on physical dominance; we are a species that runs on social status, respect.”-Dr. Geoff Miller The Cheat Sheet: What body types are women most attracted to? (13:00) Phenotype: what is it and why should you care? (18:40) IUDs vs. The Pills: the details you need to know (and yes you actually do). (33:00) Why women want men with money- it’s not because they’re gold diggers. (36:45) The correlation between the cost of shoes and how attractive women find them: explained.
  • Dorie Clark | Reinventing You (Episode 333)

    Jordan Harbinger
    29 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    It’s better if you tell your own story. “In order to be successful today we have to make reinvention a constant part of our repertoire.”-Dorie Clark The Cheat Sheet: Elements of a personal brand: what are they and how can you use them? (7:00) Why the days of being a “lifer” are over. (12:00) How you can determine and define your personal brand. (21:00) The wingman strategy and how it can enhance EVERY area of your life. (27:30) Why having no online presence is just as much of a red flag as a negative one. (41:00) How to have attention and respect before you…
  • AJ Jacobs | Life As An Experiment (Episode 332)

    Jordan Harbinger
    27 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Experiment with your own life. “I wouldn’t say fail faster, I’d say fail more. For every ten failures you’re going to get one success.”-AJ Jacobs The Cheat Sheet: Digital reminders: how to use them to become happier. (10:00) How to use the Song of Solomon to get a date. (14:40) Radical honesty: can it be effective in dating and relationships? (19:30) Cafeteria Religion defined. (24:45) The Odysseus Strategy:what it is and how to use it to make yourself happier. (27:35) Posture affects your testosterone levels: true or false? (44:40) And so much more… If you…
  • BONUS: Jordan Harbinger on Secret Entourage Academy

    26 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    Full Interview Here Have you ever been out and noticed certain individuals get VIP treatment wherever they go? Sometimes they cut the lines, or even get free drinks or meals. For Jordan Harbinger, this was the life he lived during his stint as an attorney in law school. However, this way of life wasn’t just granted, it was earned through the constant pursuit of relationship building and bringing value to others around him. As others started to notice Jordan’s lifestyle, including his suave behavior with women, they began to question how he did it. With more and more requests to…
  • Todd Henry | Die Empty (Episode 331)

    Jordan Harbinger
    24 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Give your all while you can. “I want to know that on my last day when they lay me down in my grave, I am not taking my best work to the grave with me.”-Todd Henry The Cheat Sheet: The best possible education experience you can have. (10:30) Should anyone go to college? (20:50) The key to overcoming America’s economic malaise revealed. (27:00) Why it’s never too late to enter the marketplace. (29:50) What’s one of the biggest issues people have, according to Todd? (32:10) The most valuable land in the world is where? (37:30) And so much more… If you chose…
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    The Indie Chicks

  • 5 Things Every Girl Who Dates an Asshole Should Understand

    Sarah Williams
    30 Oct 2014 | 7:07 am
    We’ve all heard stories about an arrogant, self-centered man breaking a woman’s heart. He seems perfect in the beginning, but over time, things start getting complicated. His schedule becomes vague and his whereabouts are suspect and mysterious. He becomes withdrawn...
  • Send Jealousy Packing

    Miranda Hunt
    30 Oct 2014 | 4:05 am
    Picture this: you’re sitting at your desk on another typical Monday, doing the same, mundane work that you loathe, when your phone vibrates with a new text. You notice it’s from your best friend, so you waste no time opening...
  • An Introvert’s Guide to Coming Out of Your Shell

    Julie Zantopoulos
    29 Oct 2014 | 7:07 am
    “Introverts, in contrast, may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen...
  • Break up and Move On

    Sherita McAdams
    29 Oct 2014 | 4:03 am
    Overall when it comes to reading advice on being forever alone single, dealing with men and dating/relationship advice, it normally goes in one little drunken ear and out the other. “Ten fashion trends men hate … NEXT “It’s a huge turn...
  • Understanding Domestic Violence

    Chrystal Rose
    28 Oct 2014 | 7:00 am
    With domestic violence creeping up in the news and the world of sports, the ignorance around the subject has been burning in my ears and my eyes. I’ve felt so disappointed in people who passed judgment on the victims. It...
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    Dating pictures |Online Dating Photos | Dating Headshots

  • Dateless? Time to Revamp Your Online Dating Photos

    Dating Headshots
    23 Oct 2014 | 8:45 am
    Were you still dateless last month? Don’t think for a minute that the problem is with you. Take a look at your Online Dating Photos.  There’s someone special out there for each of us; we just have to find each other. And that’s the trick, isn’t it? Whether you’re young, time-strapped and singly focused on building a career, recently divorced and struggling to adapt to the modern dating scene or a silver-haired fox ready to embrace new experiences; finding that special someone can be like looking for a needle in a haystack. What you have to do is improve your odds. In effect, you…
  • When to Pick Up the Check?

    Dating Headshots
    21 Oct 2014 | 7:42 am
    When is it time to pick up the check?  Who picks up the check is one of those thorny subjects for which there is no single “right” answer. Changing social mores have turned the long-held tradition of “the man pays” into a bewildering muddle. Making things even more confusing, expectations about who pays seem to vary with age. The findings of a 2008 online poll by Elle magazine and point out just how confusing the check issue has become as illustrated by the contradictory results: 66% of men, particularly younger men, want women to help with the check after the first couple…
  • What Do Women Want?

    Dating Headshots
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:09 am
    What Do Women Want? That’s a question for the ages right? They say men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and the differences between the sexes do often seem to be worlds apart. Interestingly, scientists now say that a lot of that has to do with the way male and female brains are hard-wired; but changing social mores also play a significant role. Since the dawn of feminism in the 1960s (actually much earlier than that, but for simplicity we’ll use the ‘60s when “the times, they were a changin’”), women have been pushing for an equal seat at life’s table (especially  in…
  • Post Break up Dating Tips

    Dating Headshots
    14 Oct 2014 | 5:14 am
    Ending a relationship is distressing, yet you will recuperate. It just takes time. Just how much time depends upon you, how invested you were in the connection, just how long you were together, the conditions that tore you apart and your strategy to break-up recovery. When you’re done wallowing in self-pity, blaming your ex-boyfriend and deciding on apart every minute of your life together– all flawlessly regular responses to a bad breakup– it’s time to close guide on your old connection and welcome the new chapter in your life that is about to begin. The road to…
  • Are You a Normal Dater?

    Dating Headshots
    9 Oct 2014 | 8:30 am
    So are you a normal dater?  Despite our efforts to appreciate the uniqueness of each person, there is something in the human psyche that pushes us to be “normal.” Maybe it’s human herd mentality; but while we each want to stand out from the crowd and be considered exceptional, we also find comfort in being just like everyone else – normal. The problem, of course, is that everyone defines “normal” just a little bit differently. What you consider normal could be considered either boring, risky or risqué by someone else. What each of us perceives to be normal depends on a veritable…
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    Digital Romance Inc.

  • Help! My Boyfriend is Too Clingy!

    Claire Casey
    30 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    There are those boyfriends who just can't seem to keep their hands off you and too clingy. What's at the root why he is clingy? Watch » The post Help! My Boyfriend is Too Clingy! appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Does Separated Mean Dateable?

    Marcia King-Gamble
    30 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    Separated yet dating is a conundrum to me. Call me risk averse, but why add another complication to the mix? Are you truly free to date while separated? Read » The post Does Separated Mean Dateable? appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • How to Be a Priority, Not an Option in Your Relationship

    Christine Robb
    30 Oct 2014 | 4:00 am
    There are a lot of do's and dont's when it comes to dating. But there is one common mistake that people make that kills a relationship: becoming an option. Read » The post How to Be a Priority, Not an Option in Your Relationship appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Stop Keeping Score and Save Your Relationship!

    Debra Smouse
    29 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    Do you want to know one of the destroyers of a long term relationship? Seeking the pursuit of balance and fairness... When you demand constant of “fair”... Read » The post Stop Keeping Score and Save Your Relationship! appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Is “Shacking Up” The New Marriage?

    Troy Spry
    29 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    Just because he agrees in shacking up with you doesn’t mean he plans to marry you! Here are 5 common reasons people give for shacking up... Read » The post Is “Shacking Up” The New Marriage? appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
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  • About What Raven-Symoné Said

    8 Oct 2014 | 1:43 pm
    SHAUNTEE About What Raven-Symoné Said I, like many others watched Oprah’s Where Are They Now interview with Raven-Symoné. Many of you may remember her as adorable Olivia on the hit show The Cosby Show from way back when. On Sunday’s episode, she made one statement that I knew would cause a stir on social media. She stated: I’m tired of being labeled, I’m an American. I’m not an African-American. I’m an American.” “I connect with Caucasian. I connect with Asian. I connect with Black. I connect with Indian. I connect with each culture.” As I expected, it caused some to go on…
  • Ray Rice Scandal: Would You Help A Victim of Domestic Violence

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:43 am
    SHAUNTEE Ray Rice Scandal: Would You Help A Victim of Domestic Violence I was watching Queen Latifah’s talk show last week and found myself cheering her on when she mentioned the whole Ray Rice situation. In case anyone has been living under a rock for the past month or so. Ray Rice, an NFL player, was caught on camera in February putting the smack down on his then fiancé in an elevator. The next month, she married him despite the infamous elevator altercation. What is it about elevators this year? Anyway, the NFL suspended him indefinitely, and the Ravens terminated his contract. And of…
  • Nothing New: My Thoughts on Donald Sterling

    30 Apr 2014 | 12:00 pm
    SHAUNTEE Nothing New: My Thoughts on Donald Sterling I’ve been working in corporate America for 20 years. I got my first job at a law firm when I was 18 years old. With that being said, I’m no stranger to people pretending they’re not racist as hell while acting as though they’re ready to get in a circle and sing “We Shall Overcome” with us black folk. When Donald Sterling’s Black/Mexican girlfriend recorded his racist rant and it got publicized, let’s just call this the side chick revenge, I was in no way surprise.  There is no way an 80 year old white man can be…
  • Dating & Religion: Changing Your Beliefs for Love

    24 Feb 2014 | 11:27 am
    SHAUNTEE UPDATE: As with any tabloid or rumor; this one has been found to be false. Janet & hubby are reported as being blissfully in love. Although this story was false; it was certainly a good topic with great feedback. Feel free to read more here.   Dating & Religion: Would You Change Your Beliefs for Love? Photo Credit: Janet Jackson married business man Wissam Al Mana and then basically dropped off the face of the earth. There have been no photographs of her looking blissfully happy or any regular sightings of her since she announced she was retiring and…
  • ShoeMint Haul: A Girl Can Never Have Too Many Pairs of Shoes

    17 Feb 2014 | 8:13 am
    SHAUNTEE Shoe Mint Haul: A Girl Can Never Have Too Many Pairs of Shoes During this deep freeze, no one wants to go out unless they have to. When you do venture outdoors you have to put on so many layers of clothing until you don’t feel like it’s even worth it.  The question now becomes what do you do with all of the glorious free time one has while stuck indoors. The answer is simple; you shop! Well at least that’s what I did; right along with cursing myself for not living in the south. A girl can never have too many pairs of shoes; so when ShoeMint kicked off their shoe slice…
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  • My Top 7, Ultimate, Super-Amazing PUA Openers for 2014

    30 Oct 2014 | 5:37 am
    The BEST New PUA openers… These are the “top 7″ conversation starters that have helped me successfully start conversations with women this year so far. And by success I mean eventually leading to fun dates and/or sex. Brace yourself, because these are impressive, never-before-heard, top-secret openers. They just might blow your fucking mind. 1. Those are pretty cool shoes I pulled this super-awesome opener on a girl in the subway. I was walking behind her, and when I got over in her vicinity, I noticed her interesting shoes so I commented on them. What makes it so good?
  • No More Token Resistance From Women?

    23 Oct 2014 | 6:43 am
    This article on the recent “Yes Means Yes” law in California generated some controversy. It features a letter from a recent male college graduate. He talks about an experience with a woman he went out with: One night I ended up back in a girl’s room after a first date… She had invited me in and was clearly attracted to me. We were kissing on her bed, outer layers of clothing removed, but when my hands wandered downward she said, “No, wait.” I waited. She began kissing me again, passionately, so again I moved to remove her underwear. “Stop,” she said, “this is…
  • Are Direct Openers Better in the Day Than the Night?

    21 Oct 2014 | 6:23 am
    In general, the “opener” (or conversation starter) that you use does not really matter. What matters is that you are speaking genuinely and from your heart. If you feel like opening indirect by complimenting her earrings, then do that. If you feel like just expressing your appreciation of her beauty, do that. But there was a reason why Mystery and other early PUAs focused on indirect openers. They were approaching women in bars and night clubs. In those places, the women assume you are hitting on them. The nature of the mainstream night club or bar on a Friday night is that women…
  • Ready to Meet & Seduce Women? Get Live Training in NYC: Nov. 7-9

    17 Oct 2014 | 1:46 pm
    If you will be in New York City the first weekend of November, join my weekend intensive boot camp: a full-weekend intensive course in attraction, seduction and social growth with two NYC dating coaches. About 30% of the time will be in-class lectures, theory, principles, drills and exercises. 70% will be in the field, talking to women, flirting, sexually escalating, and pushing your social boundaries. We are intentionally limiting this to only Five Clients. We want to dedicate tons of time and personal attention to each client and make sure they make rapid progress. The Boot Camp is a…
  • Don’t Be a Creepy PUA

    16 Oct 2014 | 6:49 am
    European dating coach Steve Jabba recently made this video below about PUA guys in London, but the same lessons apply here in New York and elsewhere. I think there are a lot of guys that see crazy antics on YouTube and think they can pull off these things in real life. They are socially maladjusted or socially retarded, and end up hurting themselves more than helping. They follow stupid self-improvement advice under the guise of “getting out of their shell.” They are also susceptible to the trap of flash game. Steve mentions when he saw a guy literally chasing a girl down the…
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    Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield

  • Why Being Happy Is The Best Gift You Can Give Your Partner

    3 Oct 2014 | 12:53 pm
    You have to be happy with yourself before you can ever be happy with someone else. When Pharell’s song “Happy” comes on the radio, he wants us all to clap along and feel happy, too. Granted, the tune is catchy, but have you ever listened to the lyrics? “Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof?”  Wow. That’s deep. He also posits “happiness is The Truth.” I wish it were that simple. While happiness has become a big buzzword in psychological circles, what happiness actually looks and feels like in modern society is still not clear. Are…
  • Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.!

    24 Sep 2014 | 3:49 pm
    Thank you to for naming me as one of their top 17 dating coaches in Los Angeles! Read their list here! Add A CommentThe post Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.! appeared first on Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield.
  • Do Younger Men Find Older Women Sexy? The Answer Will Surprise You!

    15 Sep 2014 | 12:19 pm
    “She’s just the sexiest woman alive,” said my male client, a guy in his early 30′s who was fit, kind, and looking to date a woman like the one he was talking about. You’re probably rolling your eyes right now, thinking that he’s referring to Megan Fox or Jennifer Lawrence. Maybe you’d be pleasantly surprised, or even shocked, to know that he was talking about Diane Lane, who is 19 years his senior at 49 years old! Why did my client find this older woman so irresistible? “It’s less about age and more about…the way some women make…
  • How I Celebrated the Happiest 10 Years of My Life

    11 Sep 2014 | 2:30 pm
    Last night at 8:30pm marked 12 years since my first date with my husband, Benjamin, and 10 years since we were married. We met in the early days of Internet dating, at a time when few people would have even admitted to posting a profile online. For me it was just the opposite. All my life, I had felt incredibly shy around men, and I never liked having go out in public and trawl for them.  So, I thought Internet dating was a godsend, and I told everyone. I knew that I needed lots of practice dating. For the first time I could get as many dates as I wanted and meet a lot of different men.  I…
  • 5 Ways to Stop Being A Dazed and Confused Dater

    19 Aug 2014 | 3:35 pm
    It’s happening again: you find yourself staring at your phone, waiting for a text back from someone you thought you had a particularly good date with. “But the night went so well!” you tell a friend, perplexed by the abrupt end to the previously steady flow of communication. As the negative thoughts begin to flood your mind, you start to make a mental list all the things you might have done wrong: a joke that fell flat, that shirt you were unsure about, a kiss that was good for you…but was it good for him? No matter how hard you try to reassure yourself, you can’t stop wondering,…
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    Dating Website Reviews

  • ONLINE DATING SCAM ALERT! (JDI Dating & others)

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    29 Oct 2014 | 8:13 pm
    I am pleased to share the U.S. Federal Trade Commission today levied a substantial fine against (JDI Dating) which covers misleading billing practices and completely fake dating profiles that were sending emails to unsuspecting victims in order to trick them into paying upgrade fees. Here is a copy of FTC complaint again JDI Dating and the […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post ONLINE DATING SCAM ALERT! (JDI Dating & others) appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • Launches New iPad App.

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    21 Oct 2014 | 6:58 pm is one of the leading dating sites in existence and of course the largest dating site in the world as well and how they maintain their position of industry leader year over year is by adapting to the latest technologies and staying ahead of the pack. If you have not used in the last […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Launches New iPad App. appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • ‘Online Dating Association’ Has Few REAL Associations!

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    21 Oct 2014 | 12:40 am
    Last week I strolled onto an obscure new website calling itself the ‘UK Dating Awards’ . This organization is now preparing to hand out, you guessed it, ‘Their OFFICIAL UK Dating Awards’. I am not going to link to the site because after reviewing their process (or rather lack thereof) I found there to be […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post ‘Online Dating Association’ Has Few REAL Associations! appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • 2015 Golden Heart Online Dating Awards Nominations, Coming Soon!

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    19 Oct 2014 | 4:30 pm
    I am happy to share that our list for the nominations for the best online dating sites for 2015 is going live this week. This year we’re covering more niches than we did in 2014, our first year of Golden Heart Online Dating Awards. However, we are also simplifying things as well to make it […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post 2015 Golden Heart Online Dating Awards Nominations, Coming Soon! appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas)

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    19 Oct 2014 | 3:25 pm
    Since 2004, iDate the Online Dating Industry Conference and Awards show has grown to become a more and more valuable networking and educational event for those in the internet dating business. The conferences now spans much of the globe with events all over the world. However, the main conference and the one that is most […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas) appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
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    Dating Sites XO

  • Latin Love Search

    Heather Dundon
    30 Oct 2014 | 6:26 am
    Latin Love Search is one of the largest totally-free Latina and Latino dating sites in the world.
  • Whim

    Heather Dundon
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:50 am
    Whim is an LA-based dating app that's got the right idea. Show you a couple matches, suggest a restaurant, and get you out on a date TONIGHT!
  • SingldOut

    Heather Dundon
    9 Oct 2014 | 7:29 am
    New dating site using DNA mapping to find your perfect match.
  • Sugar Baby Australia

    Dating Sites XO
    2 Oct 2014 | 9:46 am
    Sugar Baby Australia, a division of Sugar Baby Meet, is the most widely-used sugar baby/sugar daddy dating site in Australia.
  • Gothic Match

    Heather Dundon
    25 Sep 2014 | 5:05 am
    Looking for someone who shares your dark outlook and love for eyeliner? is the #1 Gothic dating site in the world.
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    Bachelor Uncut

  • Trick and NO Treat

    Bachelor Uncut
    29 Oct 2014 | 5:27 pm
    The Top Five Most Unsexy Halloween Costumes EVER! There’s something about a slutty girl and Halloween that should make for the perfect combo. It is, after all, the one time of the year that a chick can wear next-to-nothing and not be criticized by jealous prudes who probably haven’t gotten laid since Friends went off the air. So imagine my shock and horror of seeing costumes that blow a golden opportunity to get beautiful women looking their absolute whorish best. Special thanks to the folks at Popsugar (and for bringing these travesties to my attention. Here’s hoping…
  • Real Women Watch Porn

    Bachelor Uncut
    27 Oct 2014 | 7:46 pm
    It takes a special kind of chick to appreciate the art of sucking and squirting on camera. Depending on whom you ask, there are two types of women out there (at least when it comes to porn): Those who watch it…and the boring ones (a.k.a. those who don’t). And to those women who avoid fornication on film like the plague, they may very well be jeopardizing their own relationships and not even realize it. Yes, you read it here first: The couple that ‘porns’ together, stays together! How so? Well, given that at least half of all failed marriages stem from dwindling sex lives, one could…
  • Confessions of a Cheater, Part Three

    Bachelor Uncut
    24 Oct 2014 | 5:43 pm
    Do Couples That Cheat Together, Stay Together? If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em. Right? Ever wonder why people stray? The answer may not be so surprising after all. As part of an exclusive and ongoing series, BachelorUNCUT attempts to get into the minds of those who vowed to stay faithful for life, but somehow wound up falling off the wagon–while trying to hide their wedding rings in the process. In today’s third and final installment, we meet a married twosome who claim the secret to a healthy relationship is embracing infidelity, not shunning it. Are they crazy…or brilliant? You…
  • The Joys of (Swiss) Sex

    Bachelor Uncut
    22 Oct 2014 | 8:42 am
    If you live in Switzerland, you apparently have the best sex life. Do you know which other countries topped the list? Why generations of immigrants continue to come to North America is beyond me, especially when it seems every other country is much better off–at least in the getting laid department (and isn’t that THE MOST important thing?) At least that’s the story according to the folks at Alternet. They compiled a list of the most Most Sexually Satisfied Countries and Canada and the U.S. are nowhere to be found. Are we really just prudes in promiscuous clothing? Here are the…
  • I Lust New York

    Bachelor Uncut
    20 Oct 2014 | 7:35 pm
    If You Can Fuck Here, You can Fuck Anywhere! New York City. It isn’t just a Mecca for commerce and the arts; it also happens to be the thriving epicenter for all things SEX. Whether you’re looking for a casual fling, or are just desperate to get any kind of action, the Big Apple has got you covered. It’s uninhibited, it’s in-your-face and, much like your very first hand job, it can leave you with a gratifying memory that will last a lifetime. But what makes the world’s greatest city the best dating pool to swim in as well? I’ve always considered New York (and by New York I of…
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    The DayGame

  • Most Pick up Systems Will Never Teach This

    Serge Solonenko
    29 Oct 2014 | 8:59 am
    Most Pick Up Systems Will Never Teach This  Since you’re reading this, you have obviously realized why the Nice Guy Isn’t working for anyone. If it was, you’d be working the nice guy angle all day until you beat it to death and then some more. Most people are so blinded by the absurdity of social conditioning that they will not admit the fact they need to re-think their strategies big time. Here is the truth: Most men who rate on the scale of 10 as a 9 are dating 8s and slumming it. The truth is that he should be dating above, and not down, but the reality is sad for most men. What…
  • 3 Extremely Powerful Pickup Artist Tips That Work

    Serge Solonenko
    28 Oct 2014 | 8:06 pm
    3 Extremely Powerful Pickup Artist Tips That Work   For many men seducing a former soviet girl often seems like an impossible task to achieve. It is indeed the pinnacle of daygame seduction. I’ve come across far too many and failed many times with them to deny the obvious nature of this process. It’s tough and very few are capable of achieving this. Let’s discuss why. 1) The tall Russian “Greyhound Model” is often motionless and comes across cold and uninterested. She will often do this for a whole minute or two and might even give you attitude along the lines of “What Do You…
  • One Deadly Technique, the Best Pickup Artists Use

    Serge Solonenko
    27 Oct 2014 | 10:07 pm
    One Deadly Technique, the Best Pickup Artists Use The absolute best pickup artists love to use this deadly technique and we encourage you to use it in your daygame approaches as much as possible. You will definitely see a massive difference in your game when you begin to utilize these skills. Most naturals use this at their will and you can learn to implement this one approach at a time. Now, a huge temptation among beginners is to talk incessantly without leaving much pauses in the interaction at all. They only indicate to a girl that she can speak by asking her a direct question. This…
  • Crucial Conversational Elements of EVERY Best Pickup Artist

    Serge Solonenko
    23 Oct 2014 | 10:10 pm
    Crucial Conversational Elements of EVERY Best Pickup Artist Flaking is a huge problem for guys in the beginning stages of learning daygame. A lot frustration and problems arise from this. It’s been a huge problem for us here at The Daygame as well, but after hammering away for many years we figured out the small root cause of the problem. It comes down strictly to your interaction with the girl, your commitment to improving your approach, keeping on plowing through your sticking points and improving all your weaknesses to get a very solid number. However, the next set of ideas are more than…
  • 5 Strange Loopholes Used by the Best Pickup Artists

    Serge Solonenko
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:31 pm
    These 5 Strange Loopholes Are Used by the Best Pickup Artists   It’s important to realize that for you to become the best pickup artist you can be you must avoid being The Interviewer or The Hairdresser. You’re likey naturally jumping from one topic to another if you’re still learning how to push the conversation along it’s destined path. One way you can stop jumping around is to practice teasing out further information from a girl so she expands a topic, offering more of her thoughts. The easiest way to do this is to have quite genuine interest in the topic and her real opinions…
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    Mesh Blog

  • 10 better foodie first dates

    Marci Buehler
    29 Oct 2014 | 11:46 am
    On a quest to find the best foodie date? Don’t sweat it. Not to be confused with the more snobbish gourmet, a foodie is someone who has passion, love, and knowledge about the foods they eat and the dining choices they make. They’re also some of the best company when it comes to eating good food,  you’ll get a new appreciation for what you eat as you learn more about it. These are some of the best places NYC has for a foodie date. 1. Make it a daytime date and grab some BRUNCH We’re in NYC so the possibilities with this one are endless. You can’t go wrong with…
  • A Mix for Halloween

    Yeni Sleidi
    28 Oct 2014 | 10:36 am
    Here’s a treat for all you witches and ghouls! A mix of songs to do the Pumpkin Dance to.
  • 10 Better NYC First Date Ideas

    Marci Buehler
    24 Oct 2014 | 11:07 am
    Picture this: You’ve gotten past the initial messages and found someone you want to actually meet in person – nice work! But this is just the beginning. Plans need to be made, and the location of your first date sets the tone of your meeting. Depending on where you choose to go, it could ultimately make or break your budding relationship (no pressure) How can you make such an important decision when there’s so much to do in the great city of New York? Don’t worry ­– we’ve got you covered. Here are some ideas for fun, memorable, and affordable first dates in NYC. 1. Walk the High…
  • Stop Playing by These 4 Dating Rules

    Alexandra Wee
    22 Oct 2014 | 10:18 am
    Sometimes, change can be pretty darn fabulous. Just a few years ago, online dating was tabooed as a “last resort” for the older/desperate/socially awkward crowd. Today, it’s quickly become our favorite matchmaking choice: an easy and spontaneous way to look for love. Click. Swipe. Swoon. Those knight-in-shining-armor days? Long gone. No more waiting by the phone for him to call, and no more pacing by the door, hands too clammy to ring her doorbell. Daters today have taken on a new mindset: if you want something, just go for it! That said, here are four dusty dating rules we dare you to…
  • Monday’s Mix: Namesakes

    Yeni Sleidi
    13 Oct 2014 | 10:09 am
    Got someone on your mind this Monday? Maybe you’ll spot their name in this playlist. And remember, hit “private mode” before you listen to it 10 times in a row.
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    Over 40 Dating Site

  • The secret of successful 40 plus dating

    8 Oct 2014 | 7:35 am
    What is the “the secret of successful 40 plus dating”…It is fair to say that online dating is an appealing and more affordable place to meet new people. After the age of thirty five plus, (for some of us, and for a variety of reasons), it can be difficult to go out and meet members of the opposite sex in traditional settings, bars and clubs for example. Worldwide, there has been a 57% increase in the use of online dating sites, so tip no one is to just take the bit between the teeth and Join. In the first instance, when writing your profile pay careful attention to spelling and…
  • Dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:32 am
    Clothes reveal what is really going on internally, according to an American psychologist who explains what your frock can tell the rest of the world about you….so how do you dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating? Top of the frocks is still the little black dress, it is named as the favourite wardrobe staple by 64% of women. The little black dress was created by Coco Chanel in 1926 and paved the way for a colour that was normally worn for funerals. Typical problems fall into several categories, here are just a few of them: wearing office clothes all of the time; buying designer labels…
  • Over 40′s dating tips for men

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:31 am
    Mature dating, or in this case over 40’s dating tips for men, is written with the best of intentions and hopefully will help you relax and enjoy your online journey. Try to keep it as local as possible. Too much distance in a relationship can be off putting, especially if you are really busy people. Secondly it is meant to be fun. We know it is difficult to put yourself out there, warts and all, it is easy to be someone else in this digital age. What women want however, is the true you, your authentic self. Leave your super ego at home, speak from the heart. If you are not who you say you…
  • The Increase in Plus-40 Dating on the Internet

    5 Sep 2014 | 6:47 am
    for the over 40s is something of an industry shocker. Quite simply, nobody foresaw just how popular online dating for over 40s would be. In 2012, there was a 57% increase in online dating amongst the over forties, and today 33% of couples have met online. By 2040, this figure is expected to rise to 70%. Internet dating is a growth industry. Clearly something is going right. Why No Stigma? In the old days there was something tinged with sadness about dating remotely. People would fill in a questionnaire in the newspaper and send it off, with the hope of meeting someone. Online dating has…
  • Getting back on the scene after divorce

    2 Sep 2014 | 4:03 am
    Getting back on the scene after divorce  Divorce is one of the single most upsetting and disturbing things we can go through as adults. It is often immensely hurtful, particularly when there are children involved. Divorce can leave your confidence shattered, and some people wonder whether they will ever be able to trust a partner again. How can you get past these understandable feelings of anxiety, and back into your stride when dating over 40, after a divorce? Take Your Time Don’t rush things. If you are still grieving for the end of your marriage, don’t push yourself to start a new one…
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    Why Men Leave

  • 8 True Reasons Why Guys “Pop Up” Months Later

    Elizabeth Stone
    25 Oct 2014 | 3:00 am
    One of the more puzzling behaviors of the hot blooded male is his sudden disappearance (“pulling a Houdini”) and subsequent lack of future contact. Usually his later contact occurs the moment… no the very SECOND… that you’ve finally moved on and quit thinking about him.Here are some of the reasons why guys pop up months later (sometimes years) after either a breakup or complete disappearing act.1. He wants sex.It’s a basic motivation, but it’s often easier for him to seduce someone he’s already been with than someone new. If he’s bored and wants to get some, you’re a…
  • How to Maintain a Long Distance Relationship

    Uju Morah
    23 Oct 2014 | 7:08 am
    Long distance relationships do not rely on physical love, long distance relationships are driven by the love that inspires your heart, mind and soul. ― AnonymousI was always in search of true love— nursing the feeling that my prince charming would suddenly appear out of the blue and save the damsel in distress. Reality dawned on me when I ended up having several failed relationships that dealt me some hard blows, and taught me things I refused to learn the easy way.I remember talking to a close friend of mine back then, asking him when I was going to find my soul mate, the one who…
  • Been Cheated On? How to Trust Again

    Uju Morah
    15 Sep 2014 | 7:11 am
    “I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”— Friedrich NietzscheThey say trust is the bedrock of good and successful relationships. Have you ever felt like you can’t seem to trust people any longer? Maybe because of past bad experiences? Trust me- I have been there. So many people find themselves dealing with how to trust after being cheated on.Now trust goes along with loyalty.If your significant other can trust you- it means that they can take you at your word, and this brings confidence. If you have trust in an intimate relationship,…
  • Opening The Kimono: Behind The Scenes

    Elizabeth Stone
    5 Sep 2014 | 10:09 am
    I was invited to be a part of this blog tour by Debra Smouse, a colleague, life coach and fellow writer. Her work is centered on helping women fall in love with their lives and invite the kind of decluttering that brings about widespread mindset shifts in people’s lives.Debra is currently working on several big projects, including a self-published self-improvement book on growth, a memoir and an eBook specifically for her newsletter subscribers.In addition to her roles as writer and lifestyle coach, she is an “expert detangler,” centered on helping her clients achieve greater clarity…
  • How to Overcome Any Setback, Keep Your Husband Interested

    Elizabeth Stone
    8 Aug 2014 | 6:34 am
    Well hello! The last two weeks have been hectic! Lots of things going on! Check out what looked interesting this week:This was particularly helpful to me this week, since I’m juggling everything at one time and sometimes it seems impossible:The Secret to Overcoming Any Setback [PsychologyToday]I loved this piece about creating a remarkable life:The Dare [MidlifeMidwifeProject]Wondering how to keep things from getting stale in a long term relationship? The answer is love nuggets. Find out what they are:How Do I Keep My Husband Interested? I Make Him Lunch Everyday [YourTango]Okay, so I…
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  • Tinder – 12 Pick-Up Lines that work!

    7 Oct 2014 | 4:29 am
    Currently you should know the truth about tinder and after you have set up the perfect tinder profile, you got many matches. Now you ask yourself, which lines are the best to open her and get the conversation started. At first make yourself clear that there is a huge difference between opening girls in real life vs girls on tinder. These girls use tinder, because they want to be approached and if they match with you it means they are already waiting for your line. The only problem is, that she also gave 10 to 100 other guys this opportunity and just like Sperm Wars, the best one will win.
  • Escalation – 3 Hints to consider

    23 Sep 2014 | 1:04 pm
    Escalation takes a PUA’s new-found ability to approach and be friendly with random people, and converts it into a means to achieve more than friendly conversation. However this process can be a minefield to the uninitiated, and particularly when you are new to the game, your brain looks for an “excuse” for each step, wanting a socially acceptable justification for every action. I have found one particular technique to be very helpful in creating the ‘excuse’ your brains need. This backdoor should work not only in your mind, but in hers (never forget that the girl is likely to be…
  • The Perception of Difficulty

    8 Sep 2014 | 12:11 pm
    I managed to squeeze my lunch into the 10 minutes I had before boarding my train. Not an especially unique story, but people were looking at me as though it was offensive to eat 250g of salmon, 250g of cherry tomatoes, and a whole avocado in a train station. They probably would have been even more shocked to know that all of those ingredients had been acquired 10 minutes beforehand for less than the cost of their big macs. This is not meant to be a lesson in healthy eating, but rather a demonstration of how easy it is to do the right thing. Whether it is eating healthily, going to the gym, or…
  • Advantages of Dating Psychos

    27 Aug 2014 | 9:05 am
    You know what, I took the first option months ago. I haven’t been with her about 7 months. I mean, we love the chase, we love to conquer, to succeed, to put in our meat flag and scream “victory”. But Sean, whats the point of dating a psycho? Its a lot of work and they can get you into a huge mess. You could end as another “investigation discovery” show. Part of the game, for me, is to be experienced, to know human behaviour, to recognize good opportunities and bad ones, and been able to take a chance when I tough the time fit. This girl has issues. Her emotional…
  • She doesn’t want a relationship

    Sean Winn
    22 Aug 2014 | 7:41 am
    I recently got this interesting question from a reader and I’m sure many guys have faced a situation where the girl is better in controlling her emotions than themselves. That’s why I wrote articles like How to be less sensible man and why you need to control your emotions. This time it’s about the situation when you want a relationship but the girl wants to keep it casual: I started dating this girl, the sexual connection was awesome. The problem was, I wanted to change the only sex nature of the relation, into a normal relationship. It was like I was the girl and she was…
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    Love My Brit

  • Vlog #2: Weiner Dogs & Drive Through Banks

    Chris Martin
    25 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Vlog #2! With a full day together in Bellingham, Chelsea and I decided to take Apple (the Miniature Daschund) for a walk around Zuanich Point Park by the sea. Then, with time to spare, Chelsea showed me some of the experiences Americans have which might seem a little different to those of us from across […] The post Vlog #2: Weiner Dogs & Drive Through Banks appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Vlog #1: Harrison Hot Springs Anniversary Celebration

    Chris Martin
    11 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Chelsea and I took a short break to Harrison Hot Springs, British Columbia to celebrate our belated one year anniversary. As we are dating long distance, we were not able to be together for this special occasion. But finally, we were able to celebrate it in person! We also thought it would be a great […] The post Vlog #1: Harrison Hot Springs Anniversary Celebration appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Top 20 Activities To Do in Person for LDR Couples

    Chris Martin
    2 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Most long distance couples will spend a significant time apart, so what little time you do have to be together in person becomes very precious. We all want to make the most of that time, enjoy ourselves and make it as special as possible. So we have compiled a list of our Top 20 Activities for […] The post Top 20 Activities To Do in Person for LDR Couples appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Love My Brit Photoshoot!

    Chris Martin
    27 Sep 2014 | 3:30 am
    During our time spent together in America this September, we had the opportunity to have photos taken professionally by a friend of  Chelsea’s. We loved the idea, and immediately headed for Fairhaven (a historic district of Bellingham, WA) for our first ever Love My Brit photoshoot. We wanted to incorporate the theme of both English […] The post Love My Brit Photoshoot! appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Finding Accommodation for Trips with Airbnb

    Chris Martin
    24 Sep 2014 | 3:29 pm
    Most of the time when you visit your partner, you will have guaranteed accommodation with them. However, this is not always the case. When Chelsea has visited me at university in Lancaster, she has been able to stay with me in my rented house with my housemates and I. When I have visited her in […] The post Finding Accommodation for Trips with Airbnb appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • How to Remain Dignified While Being Rejected

    Nick Notas
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:11 am
      I looked around the club and saw her. She had tanned skin, tall black boots, and danced hypnotically with her girl friends. I had to meet her. A dozen guys stood around the room, holding their drinks and leering. No one had the guts to go up to the group of girls. I wanted to be the guy to do it. With the help of some liquid courage, of course. I downed my drink and walked towards her. My legs felt like jello with every step. I stopped in front of her, smiled, and said, “Hey.” She gazed into my eyes and returned a smile. Her friends listened closely. I thought to myself, Yes, Im…
  • How to Reject Men Safely and Respectfully

    Nick Notas
    17 Oct 2014 | 6:22 am
    Being rejected sucks. But rejecting someone can suck just as much. Contrary to what many men believe, most women don’t enjoy turning someone down. It’s awkward. It’s intense. And it can lead to uncomfortable or even dangerous situations. Because of this, women try to reject others “gently” to protect themselves. Ironically, this usually ends up hurting men more and causes worse problems for everyone. I’m here to show you how to reject men in a mature, respectful way that’s in your best interests, too. Where problems start  You can’t avoid hurting someone’s feelings…
  • Should You Try to Get Your Ex Back?

    Nick Notas
    9 Oct 2014 | 7:14 am
    Yesterday I was on the phone with a long-time client, Jon. Jon told me how he finally feels like he’s in a good place. His business is thriving, he’s grown tremendously as a person over the last few years, and he’s casually seeing two gorgeous women. He then asked me, “So, do you think I should reach out to my ex, to see if anything’s still there?” This surprised me. Why? Because of the way he phrased the question. I have an endless supply of guys asking me, “How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?” They’ve already made up their mind and are determined to win her at all costs.
  • Do or Die (Literally): The Surefire Way to Achieve Your Goals

    Nick Notas
    2 Oct 2014 | 9:12 am
    You can bet Raymond went to Veterinary school. If you don’t get this picture, click to watch the video.   During a drive the other day, I listened to “Quitters, Inc.” by Stephen King. It’s the tale of a married man named Dick Morrison. An old college roommate runs into Dick and refers him to a company called, “Quitters, Inc.” With their help, his roommate successfully quit smoking and got a big promotion at work. However, he’s unable to reveal exactly how they turned his life around. Dick eventually decides to go for a consultation. He meets with his case officer Victor…
  • How to Avoid Having a Shitty Relationship

    Nick Notas
    26 Sep 2014 | 5:19 am
      We all know about the running joke that romantic relationships are a source of misery. We grew up on shows like Married With Children where Al Bundy hated having to hang out with his wife Peg. We hear friends challenge each other with, “You’re so whipped!” And serious couples give us ominous warnings such as, “Don’t get married.” or “It’s all good now, but wait until the honeymoon is over.” These may make us laugh but they also reinforce that our partners are a burden on our lives. It’s true that maintaining a happy, healthy relationship takes work. But that…
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  • Warm Up the Winter with Affair Dating

    23 Oct 2014 | 6:37 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at So the nights are drawing in and before too long we’ll be facing another several months of the seemingly never ending British winter. You know the score, leaving home when it’s still dark in the morning only to wistfully spend the day staring out the window as the light draws in before five o’clock. Depressing isn’t it? Getting home feeling more tired than usual because it is pitch black, cold and invariably drizzling with rain. It’s even worse if you get home to find your…
  • Better Married Dating with Performance Enhancing foods

    17 Oct 2014 | 12:58 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at In this day and age of Love Shops, sex toys and artificial stimulants, it may do us well to remember that there are several natural ways to enhance sexual performance, many of which can be found in the food we eat. In most instances, these food items may already be part of your diet. But, if they are not, it would be pretty easy to incorporate them into your daily routine and ensure that your married dating experience is as enjoyable as it should be. Go nuts Most nuts and seeds, such as cashews and…
  • 5 Motivations That Fuel a Marital Affair

    9 Oct 2014 | 5:32 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at In today’s modern world, with rumours of high profile celebrity hook-ups and the ability to easily share our own photos with a secret friend, it can often seem like sex, or at the very least some innocent snogging, is on everyone’s mind. With such thoughts in mind, today we’ll be exploring five common reasons why men and women start an affair. For each reason, we’ll look a little bit at the differences between the sexes to better understand what gets everyone ready to dive under…
  • Is There An Optimum Length for an Affair Dating Journey?

    2 Oct 2014 | 9:04 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Affair Dating stories are as individual as the two people involved in them.  Some last for several years, even a lifetime, while others may fizzle out after one night.  Is there an optimum length for an affair?  Should they be long, short, or does it really matter at all?  These are some questions that married partners who are active in affairs outside of the marriage may ask.  The answer is that it depends upon your preferences and several other factors that may be affecting your life. Reasons…
  • Is Your Married Affair Leading to More than Just Sex

    25 Sep 2014 | 6:42 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at You’ve been in an extramarital affair that has been based upon mutual sexual attraction for some time, but something has changed.  For some reason you don’t have the same feelings for your man (if you are having an affair with a married man).  You may wonder what is happening.  Could it be possible that your affair is becoming about more than just sex? There are some tell-tale signs that may signal the sexy romps with your married partner are transforming into a different kind of marital…
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  • The Unspoken Truth About How To Get Girls To Want You

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:20 am
    you have success at approaching women and getting their number, then you may feel like you will be able to succeed with them from that point forward. They are attracted to you, right? They did give you their number and agree to a date, but that doesn’t mean that they want you. You need to impress them and seduce them in order to make them want you. Let’s talk about seven ways how to get girls to want you. #1. Have Female FriendsStudies have shown that when women see other women desiring a guy, they too desire him. While your female friends may not desire you in an intimate type way,…
  • The Ex Recovery System – Get Your Girlfriend Back!

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:09 am
    There is hardly any long term relationships that goes without fights and break ups, but if you are a couple made for each other or if you believe her to be the one, then you are going to come together again, after some conscious effort for a reunion, especially on your part, as girls are privileged to receive loads of attention, or you can also call it the law of nature.If you really want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back then there is every reason to believe that you can resolve the blunder you have committed. Identifying the reasons that have made your girlfriend walk away from you…
  • The Tao of Badass Ebook Review

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Joshua Pellicer is the first to admit that he didn’t understand women at one point. In fact, he will tell you that it is not usually the woman’s fault a guy is rejected; instead, the reason is that guys just don’t understand women. Now, he successfully coaches men in various ways to bring the best out in guys so that they can land the woman they want, and he has even written an eBook. Following are four reasons to read The Tao of Badass eBook written by Josh. #1. Learn Something That Isn’t Taught OftenIn many dating books, various methods are taught on how to ‘play’ a girl and…
  • How To Use Affirmations More Effectively To Help You Attract Ladies

    11 Oct 2014 | 11:53 pm
    Right now, you are saying many affirmations to yourself about your ability to attract women, whether you know it or not. Those affirmations are having a direct influence over your ability to get women.If you are affirming negative things about yourself then you will not be able to attract women easily; however, if you are saying positive things about yourself then you will have much more luck with women.Following are five steps to help you start affirming positive things to yourself that help you attract women.#1. Decide Where Your Strengths AreFirst, you need to focus on the positive traits…
  • 10 Positive Affirmations to Help You Attract Beautiful Women

    11 Oct 2014 | 11:45 pm
    Attracting beautiful women may seem like rocket science to the uninitiated man. If you’ve experienced being turned down by a lady or being passed over for another guy more often than you’d like, don’t despair. Even if you feel like a failure, there’s a way to turn things around. Change your attitude and your mindset through daily positive affirmations. These thoughts train your subconscious mind and in turn, translate to positive physical actions. To start you off, here’s a list of 10 positive affirmations that help you to attract beautiful women. Chant them to yourself daily and…
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  • First Ebola Case Recorded In New York

    24 Oct 2014 | 3:41 pm
    A New York doctor who recently returned from Ebola-hit Guinea in West Africa has tested positive for the disease.Dr Craig Spencer, who treated Ebola patients while working for the charity Medecins Sans Frontieres (MSF), came downwith a fever on Thursday, days after his return, officials say.He is the first Ebola case diagnosed in New York, and the fourth in the US. More than 4,800 people have died of Ebola – mainly in Liberia, Guinea and Sierra Leone – since March.
  • Nicki Minaj Sizzles In Photos To Promote MTV EMAs

    24 Oct 2014 | 3:35 pm
    Nicki Minaj shared these photos from the teaser trailer for the MTV EMA’s and she looks hot and banging.There’s a reason why she is the Queen of Rap, she even has a throne and a crown to match.
  • 8 Ways to Be Cheap and Save Money

    23 Oct 2014 | 1:05 pm
    Have you been tightening your purse strings after a little overspending?It’s the little things that count, so consider these interesting tips to help you save money.1. Separate your bananas: This will keep them yellow for longer. Bananas produce ethylene, a gas that causes them to ripen. Separating them can slow down that process.You can also slow down the ripening process by wrapping a piece of plastic cling wrap around the crown of the banana bunch.2. Store your lettuce: Seal it in a zip-lock bag with a moistened paper towel to add days of leafy goodness to them.Get 10% Off all…
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    23 Oct 2014 | 5:49 am
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  • Happy Online Dating UK

    Sugar Daters
    27 Oct 2014 | 12:50 pm
    How is the future looking for online dating in the UK? After having a long chat with a few of our friends in UK, researching internet, looking at different dating websites, reading news articles and business news (about online dating business) – we can safely say that the future is not bleak at all for online dating UK industry. So everyone needs to calm down and relax while they look for partners and dates online. We will not state any numbers here, just a few interesting facts: Despite the huge controversy about sugar dating in the UK, online dating industry is not just booming but also…
  • How to Share Your Household Cleaning Without Fighting

    21 Oct 2014 | 1:14 pm
    A great part of the people are not usually keen on providing the household cleaning duties. If we are honest, we often avoid all these annoying cleaning chores not because we are too busy but also because we somehow feel reluctant to take our part in these activities. Of course everyone needs to contribute to the clean and welcoming environment in their homes, but sometimes we find it difficult to share the household chores with out partner in the right way. In order to avoid the disputes on this question you had better find ways in which everyone has takes an equal part in this activity. We…
  • Why this sugar daddy got into the sugar dating world?

    Sugar Daters
    16 Oct 2014 | 12:57 pm
    Note: This is a contribution post by an anonymous Sugar Daddy. The views are his/her own and may not always reflect Sugar Daters views. It is posted as it is received, not alterations have been made. It is a question I have been trying to answer myself since I began. I continue to refine the answer now about 12 months after exploring the option. As I roll the answers around in my head at times it sounds quite cogent and plausible, whiles sometimes it sounds like I am only justifying my actions. Brief background: I am a single (divorced) man in my mid-forties, living alone with one child in…
  • Announcing Sugardating Diaries

    Sugar Daters
    11 Oct 2014 | 1:03 pm
    It’s only fair to hear about your experience(s) with sugar dating. Sugar Daters would love to hear from all the readers who would like to be a part of our Sugardating Diaries. Every Friday we will post one of your stories or experiences on our blog. All you have to do is remember a few simple rules while writing your post: Sugar dating can be of many different types, intimate or not, we’d like our readers and writers to open their minds and speak from heart. This is not a competition nor a judgment court You don’t have to be a member to submit a post, anyone from anywhere can be a part…
  • 5 quick facts about sugar babes!

    Sugar Daters
    10 Oct 2014 | 2:43 am
    If you’re still wondering why you should sign up as a sugar daddy with us then we can help with some facts about sugar babes: There are more sugar babes than sugar daddies. Actually, far more! – The best of the lot in Scandinavia! Sugar babes have between 3 to 5 photos in their private albums. This allows you to browse more pictures than you can with an incomplete profile Over 25% of all sugar babes are looking abroad. Sugar daddies are thus welcomed on our platform from around the world Over 80% of sugar babes are under 30. Most of them are not looking for a rich sugar daddy,…
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  • TEST II Yep

    31 Oct 2014 | 3:42 am
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  • Online Dating Part I

    31 Oct 2014 | 3:42 am
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • From Virtual Connection to WTF

    31 Oct 2014 | 3:42 am
    You might remind Jack from the Virtual Connection post. You might be also curious about our date. Let's say that basically, I was right in my assumptions. I will follow my own advice from now on: Do not engage in excessive online conversation with someone before knowing them in person.So as most of you know, I was looking forward to going to this date. I had been exchanging texts with Jack for a few days and our conversations were quite elaborate and intense. There was some sort of virtual connection there (or maybe I was desperately looking for one).I was perfectly aware that I was creating…
  • Persistence to "MeetUp"

    31 Oct 2014 | 3:42 am
    So after I broke up with Connor, I admit that I was feeling lonely. Plus, I knew that my flatmate was going on holidays for a while which only contributed to my panic. I would never imagine that I would feel as free, as independent and happy as I feel now! So before she departed, she told me I should 1) stop seeing Connor as it wouldn't do us any good and 2) do some activities and meet new people, not necessarily guys!I actually thought it was a good idea! First, I joined a few dance classes with my friend Esmeralda and we had a lot of fun doing it (We are still doing it on a weekly basis)!
  • Two Dates, Two Kisses - Online Dating Part II

    31 Oct 2014 | 3:42 am
    When I first started on my Online Dating adventures, I have agreed in going on two different dates on my first week.As I had explained before, those were the ones who had actually been able to maintain a certain level of conversation (nothing too special but definitely better than nothing!); I thought I really needed to meet new people and it was worth a shot.Bachelor #1 was very alternative looking: full of tattoos, cute smile, very sexy voice (yes, if I was able to notice such thing, imagine how sexy it was!), not too short and not too tall (could be taller, I have a thing for tall guys),…
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    I Quit Dating

  • The Art of Dating Yourself

    29 Oct 2014 | 10:45 am
    I shy away from giving advice on this blog, mostly because I’m not qualified to advise people on the topics of which I discuss. Dating? Relationships? Why would I encourage people to take advice about such subjects from a girl like me who is blogging at a link like this? Don’t worry, I wouldn’t either. […]
  • I Thought I Knew Him – The Story of a 14 Year Friendship

    27 Oct 2014 | 11:18 am
    I’ve been working diligently on stories for this blog, but in the meantime I want to invite you to check out some of my early posts. Excerpt from “Best Friends and Broken Hearts” (To read the full story) With a white picket fence and a gingerbread trim that closely resembles the old-timey, old-money feel of […]
  • I’m Here For the Blondes – Tinder Tumble: Six Date Stumble – Part VII

    24 Oct 2014 | 10:58 pm
    And then one night as I lounged in my Hello Kitty pajamas, while drinking wine and binging on “Orange is the New Black,” because that is what single women do, I found myself right swiping on a blurry person, with an outline of a good-looking person, who was wearing a tux and sharing the frame with very large… […]
  • Swiping Soulmates

    24 Oct 2014 | 10:16 am
    Originally posted on The Fickle Heartbeat:Shared by Jennifer. “ Brown hair, Blue eyes…Swipe…Swipe… David, Michael….Swipe..Swipe… All these faces…All these names….All these photos…All these people with their hobbies.. Their friends…Their lives….or at least the part of their lives that they’re comfortable sharing with the world. Partly truth, Partly lies… They share the most perfect part of…
  • I Didn’t Follow The Rules – Tinder Tumble: Six Date Stumble – Part VI

    23 Oct 2014 | 7:44 am
    I convinced myself and everyone around me that I was a going to be a confident socialite with a carefree attitude who was going to date multiple people like a “Charlotte-esque” pick-up artist. This was the way modern people date and I was finally going to put my monogamous dating patterns to rest. I was […]
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