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  • The Clooney Choice: Marry Your Equal
    8 Oct 2014 | 10:45 am
    George Clooney; photo courtesy of BAFTA/Michael Kovak It could happen to you  George Clooney has made headlines for something besides dumping his latest leggy beauty—this time, the tables have turned: he married her! “Her” is stunning human rights lawyer and author Amal Alamuddin, whom the Hollywood heartthrob and seemingly confirmed bachelor married in a lavish star-studded ceremony late last month at Venice’s Aman Canal Grande Hotel in Italy under an archway of imported white roses. Not to diminish the importance of Clooney’s past loves, but they weren’t his…
  • Are Wives Secretly Sexually Frustrated?

    Donna Flagg
    21 Oct 2014 | 9:07 am
    Many husbands, and now wives, are turning to sexual outlets rather than to each other for more
  • If you saw someone on the street with totally white cloths what would you think? - Recent Questions
    21 Oct 2014 | 12:40 pm
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  • When we’re afraid of letting ourselves or others ‘off the hook’

    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.
    Natalie (NML)
    15 Oct 2014 | 2:39 pm
    Being let off the hook is about being released out of what could be an unpleasant or at the very least difficult situation, or being released out of something that we don’t want to do. When we feel that we or someone is on the hook for something, it’s fundamentally tied to a sense of obligation, after all, if we didn’t feel that we or they were duty bound to do something, we’d opt out without fanfare. The decision to step away wouldn’t be laden with such turbulent emotions and even a fear of appearing forgiving. Two scenarios in life are likely to hold on tight to the negativity…
  • Road-Testing a High End Stroller: A Look at the Stokke Xplory

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    Leena Bandhoo
    3 Oct 2014 | 11:40 am
    Buying a new stroller doesn't have to feel as overwhelming as buying a new car. In our We Love, You Need series, we ask parents to review the latest baby gear -- from bargain steals to splurge-worthy buys. Our latest review is of the pricey Xplory stroller from Stokke, which starts at $1,000 without accessories. Here's what our mom reviewer had to say:
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  • Are Wives Secretly Sexually Frustrated?

    Donna Flagg
    21 Oct 2014 | 9:07 am
    Many husbands, and now wives, are turning to sexual outlets rather than to each other for more
  • 10 Surprising Facts about Loneliness

    Guy Winch, Ph.D.
    21 Oct 2014 | 9:05 am
    Many of us will feel lonely in our lifetimes but few of us realize how drastically loneliness can impact our psychological and physical more
  • 5 Sure-Fire Ways to Handle a Snob

    Susan Krauss Whitbourne, Ph.D.
    21 Oct 2014 | 8:57 am
    It’s no fun being the target of someone’s snobbery. These 5 tools are all you need to manage the unhappiness a snob can cause. You don’t have to out-snob the snob, but you can overcome the feelings of shame, envy, and inferiority that snobbery can more
  • Compassionate Eating: The Food of Love

    Deanna Minich
    21 Oct 2014 | 7:37 am
    All the emphasis that has been placed on the intellect for so many years is now proving to be misplaced. Research from the HeartMath Institute shows that the heart generates a more significant field than the brain, making it the “most powerful electromagnetic field produced by the body.” read more
  • Peyton Place Goes Digital in 'Men, Women & Children'

    Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT-S
    21 Oct 2014 | 6:10 am
    A couple of weeks ago I was asked by Paramount Pictures to host a pre-release screening and audience discussion of Jason Reitman’s new film Men, Women & Children at the famed ArcLight Theater in more
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • When we’re afraid of letting ourselves or others ‘off the hook’

    Natalie (NML)
    15 Oct 2014 | 2:39 pm
    Being let off the hook is about being released out of what could be an unpleasant or at the very least difficult situation, or being released out of something that we don’t want to do. When we feel that we or someone is on the hook for something, it’s fundamentally tied to a sense of obligation, after all, if we didn’t feel that we or they were duty bound to do something, we’d opt out without fanfare. The decision to step away wouldn’t be laden with such turbulent emotions and even a fear of appearing forgiving. Two scenarios in life are likely to hold on tight to the negativity…
  • Buffers: When You’re The One That They Turn To When They’re Unhappy With Their Current Relationship

    Natalie (NML)
    9 Oct 2014 | 3:42 pm
    We are creatures of habit and have to pay close attention to where there are running themes in our lives because it points to where we are not only repeating a pattern of thinking and behaviour but that we’re doing so because we’re getting something out of it. A recurring theme that some Fallback Girls/Guys experience in unavailable relationships is being the person who lends a willing ear, a shoulder to lean on, and even a bed to lie in for people who are having doubts about their current relationship, who want to have a bitch and a gripe about their partners, and who essentially…
  • Despite ‘good points’, we deal with the consequences of people coming as full packages

    Natalie (NML)
    1 Oct 2014 | 3:22 pm
    Any toxic relationship that I’ve been involved in, has always kept going due to me essentially cherry-picking what I wanted to remember about the person and the relationship whether romantic or otherwise. While I did spend most of my life feeling wounded by my father’s absence and the sporadic periods or even moments spent with him, what I mostly remembered was how I felt around him and the happy times, which of course there were some but I’d admittedly romanticised the hell out of them. I’d selectively remember spending visitations with him and how thrilled I always…
  • Understanding why it’s difficult to be trusting when discrepancies with a person’s dating profile or story are discovered

    Natalie (NML)
    24 Sep 2014 | 2:52 pm
    Picture this (adopts Sophia from Golden Girls voice): You meet somebody on a dating website (read: introduction website after all, you can’t actually ‘date’ on it), you exchange a few emails and texts, maybe you chat on the phone a few times and then you meet up, hopefully within the first week or two because beyond that you get into building sandcastles in the sky territory. Between reading their profile, viewing any photos and these initial exchanges, you glean information about that person but at some point, maybe when you meet up, it comes to light that this person…
  • You can change your version of normal at any time

    Natalie (NML)
    17 Sep 2014 | 3:03 pm
    When you’ve witnessed or been through a lot of stuff as a child, a chunk of adulthood is spent trying to work out what’s normal because it quickly becomes apparent that what was ‘normal’ to you isn’t how things are in general or what you want to continue with, especially as you’ll be feeling the pain of putting your pattern on repeat. Normalising what may be really poor behaviour and dynamics only really equips you for abusive and dysfunctional relationships. It trains you to be a pleaser devoted to trying to influence people’s feelings and behaviour…
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  • Road-Testing a High End Stroller: A Look at the Stokke Xplory

    Leena Bandhoo
    3 Oct 2014 | 11:40 am
    Buying a new stroller doesn't have to feel as overwhelming as buying a new car. In our We Love, You Need series, we ask parents to review the latest baby gear -- from bargain steals to splurge-worthy buys. Our latest review is of the pricey Xplory stroller from Stokke, which starts at $1,000 without accessories. Here's what our mom reviewer had to say:
  • Weekend at the Parents? How to Get It On in a Full House

    Heidi Raykeil
    27 Aug 2014 | 2:17 pm
    Let's face it, sex at your parent’s house (or worse, the in-law’s!) can be tricky. Between the awkward bunking, all that family around, and the total lack of privacy, it often seems hardly worth the effort. But hey, it's still your vacation! Here's how you can sneak in some lovin'.
  • 20 of Our Favorite Lunchboxes and Water Bottles

    Daria Meoli
    21 Aug 2014 | 1:48 pm
    Whether your kid will be packing bologna sandwiches or quinoa and bean sloppy joes, what makes the food the most fun to eat is the lunch box it is packed in.  Here we go way beyond the brown bag lunch options to include some of this season's hottest characters and coolest colors. Game On! Dabba Walla
  • Ninja Turtles, Colorblock and 18 More Stylish Backpacks

    Daria Meoli
    21 Aug 2014 | 1:46 pm
    Oh, the pressure of picking the perfect backpack. While back-to-school sneakers run out of rubber by January and the ankle length jeans purchased in September look like capris by March, the backpack is expected to last until June. That is quite a style commitment for a kid. Here, we've rounded up 20 of our favorite hardworking backpacks for the new school year.
  • 31 Fun Activities to Do With Your Kids Before Summer Ends

    Jenna McCarthy
    25 Jul 2014 | 2:20 pm
    Is your summer flying by? Don't let it without making time to pitch a tent in the backyard, catch fireflies, have a water balloon fight -- or one of the 29 other fun activities listed here! How many can your family check off your bucket list this summer?  
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  • Come out and hear me at Lit Crawl on Saturday, Oct. 18

    30 Sep 2014 | 12:08 pm
    I’m thrilled to be reading with Lit Camp — the juried writers conference sponsored by the SF Writers Grotto — during San Francisco’s annual Lit Crawl on Saturday, October 18. Six writers will be sharing tales of poor judgment, lack of regret, and possible depravity. I’ll be reading a piece called Please Me, about a desperate trip to Good Vibrations…. I encourage you to come to any of the Lit Quake events in October. They’re so much fun! If you’re in the Bay Area, please join us at 6 p.m. on Saturday, October 18: Upstairs at the Elbo Room 647…
  • Small as an Elephant: Book Give Away with Jennifer Jacobson

    15 Aug 2014 | 10:21 am
    Small as an Elephant, by Jennifer Jacobson, is one of the most beautiful, heart-wrenching middle grade novels I’ve ever read. Jack’s mom is gone again. This time, she has left 11-year-old Jack alone on a campsite in Maine. When he wakes up, there is no sign of his mother, who suffers from bipolar disorder — no rental car, camping gear or food. Can he find his way back to Boston before the authorities realize what happened? I’m honored to have Jennifer here today to chat about her gripping novel. Thank you! Q: Ever since Jack can remember, his mom has been unpredictable,…
  • Snapshot: How to blend your family and have another baby

    5 Jul 2014 | 7:29 am
    When I sent an over-the-top enthusiastic email to the lovely Jessica Ashley from Sassafrass — because, wow, it’s amazing how much we have in common, including our ages (42), our years as single mamas (almost decade for each of us), the whole “Oh, you have two first names” comment we both must get, and now our growing families — I was a little worried that my eagerness might scare her off. Fortunately, Jessica seemed to take my enthusiasm just fine because she wrote back, “I’m totally in.” Please welcome Jessica, former senior editor at Yahoo!
  • Write on Mamas Giveaway!

    10 May 2014 | 9:39 pm
    On Mothers Day, this one is for you, mamas! Thank you for picking up your kids when they fall and holding them tight. Thank you for giving and doing it all when you’re out of steam. On that note… I’m thrilled to introduce you to the Write On Mamas! Founded out of a desire to connect, the Write on Mamasis a group of more than 40 moms — and one dad! — who meet online and in person to write, revise, and share. They’ve recently published a fabulous collection of essays about how parenting shaped them as writers. It’s a book full of promise. Ms.
  • A Smidgen of Sky: Book Give Away with Dianna Dorisi Winget

    10 Apr 2014 | 1:10 pm
    When Dianna Dorisi Winget got married, she became an instant mom to a 4-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter. Their mother had died from cancer two years earlier. Dianna and her husband went on to add another daughter to their family. That experience is what planted the seed for Dianna’s first novel. I recently read her debut middle grade, A Smidgen of Sky, and the story softened my heart. Piper Lee, a spunky girl from the South, is determined to stop her mother from getting remarried. Her dad disappeared in an airplane crash four years earlier, and Piper Lee still holds onto the hope…
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  • Relationship Questions With An Expert

    Judy H WrightXAuntie Artichoke
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:00 am
    Do you have questions about parenting, co-workers, dating or any other relationships in your life?  Then now is the chance to ask an expert, Judy Helm Wright aka "Auntie Artichoke"  Every week we willl have another disscussion about some aspect of inter-personal relationships.  Check out the schedule at    
  • If You Are Sick, Broke, Hurt Depressed Or Lonely, Join Drfaye In The War Room

    21 Oct 2014 | 9:30 am
    Join DrFaye and The International Prayer Team for Prayer-Praise every Monday at 9:00pm (EST), 8:00pm (CST), 7:00pm (MST), or 6:00pm (PST) Call 646-468-0060 or log in at Share The Link The International Prayer Group is sponsored by The Global Church Inc., a 501 (3) C organization. Your gifts are tax deductible at Pay Pal. Log in to your Pay Pal account and send your gift to or mail it direct to Global, P.O. Box 3943, Wilmington, NC 28406.
  • Ministry through Community Partnerships

    21 Oct 2014 | 9:00 am
    "We'd love to do more disability ministry, but we just don't have the budget!" This is a cry of frustration for lots of churches with BIG hearts for ministry but limited monies to fund them. Listen is as Vangie interviews Ryan Wolfe about how his church built a thriving and diverse diability ministry without adding budget dollars by utilzing relationships through existing agencies in the community. Ryan is the Developmental Disabilities Pastor at First Christian Church in Canton, Ohio. “First Christian Church believes each person with a disability has the right to participate in a faith…
  • Louie Veleski Launches Dates4Hire

    21 Oct 2014 | 9:00 am
    Louie Veleski is from Melbourne Australia, and is the founder of a brand new type of dating site called Dates4Hire. His website allows people to hire a platonic date or non-sexual companion for just about any type of social event. To learn more:    
  • Interview with Claudia Azula Altucher: The Power of No

    Magnificent Time
    21 Oct 2014 | 9:00 am
    “No” is sometimes the hardest word to say. It’s also the most necessary. How many times have you heard yourself saying yes to the wrong things—overwhelming requests, bad relationships, time-consuming obligations? How often have you wished you could summon the power to turn them down? Cloris Kylie welcomes Claudia Azula Altucher to “Magnificent Time.” The co-author of the WSJ and USA Today bestseller, The Power of No, Claudia will share practical strategies to help you take back your power, and will show you that a well-placed No can not only save you time and trouble, it can save…
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • Internet Dating Moderation Survey (Mark Brooks)
    26 Oct 2014 | 9:23 am
    OPW - Oct 20 - Feedback is the breakfast of champions, and we're hungry! We want to know what you do to moderate your internet dating site? Please answer this survey and we'll let you know the results. The price of the survey results report is your time to fill it in. If you work at an Internet dating site please take this 6 question survey This survey is kindly sponsored by Thanks for your time and consideration. Post by Mark Brooks @
  • eHarmony Internal Memo (Mark Brooks)
    20 Oct 2014 | 12:40 pm
    OPW - Oct 20 - Dr Neil Clark Warren is my hero. The CEO of eHarmony kindly allowed me to share this internal memo with you as insight into what's been happening with eHarmony, and how they're doing. I've decided to run it in its entirety. Here it is.... Dr. Warren wanted to share his message below to the company regarding his comeback 2 years ago as you had shown interest in the company previously. Thank you for all that you do for the industry. It has been a brilliant but grueling turnaround. It’s August 22nd, 2014, and it is the 14th anniversary of this little company of ours that is on…
  • Mark Brooks Speaking At Wearable Computing Conference In London (Mark Brooks)
    20 Oct 2014 | 8:25 am
    OPW - Oct 20 - Mark Brooks, CEO of Courtland Brooks and Publisher of Online Personals Watch and, will be hosting a panel on marketing strategy and crowdfunding, and speaking about the state of the wearables industry at the GLAZEDcon London event this Wednesday 22nd October. It brings together the most inspiring and innovative executives in Wearables, Internet of Things, government, gaming, health and fitness, and lifestyle industries to discuss the future of wearable technology. Mark believes the Internet dating industry needs to learn and share and work with wearable technology…
  • Momo Reportedly Targets December For US IPO (Mark Brooks)
    17 Oct 2014 | 11:12 am
    TECH IN ASIA - Sept 30 - The Chinese tech media is reporting that the company plans to release its prospectus on November 11 and will be shooting for a December IPO in the USA. It’s looking to raise between $200 and $300M and targeting an overall valuation of $3B. Momo had more than 50M monthly active users as of July. by C. Custer See full article at Tech In Asia See all posts on Momo app Summarized by
  • Cloud Brings To A New High (Mark Brooks)
    17 Oct 2014 | 11:01 am
    INFORMATION WEEK - Oct 17 - With Rackspace managed cloud hosting services, has scaled to 30M users and is able to handle over 200M page views per month and over 10K registrations daily. by Prerna SharmaSee full article at Information Week See all posts on Shaadi Summarized by
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  • Girlfriend Vetoes Troubled Son

    3 Oct 2014 | 5:01 pm
    A dating and relationship friend asks, “My girlfriend wants to break up. My troubled 28 year old son, who basically lives on the streets in California, is a recovering heroin addict, with two felony charges and a warrant for his arrest in our state. He was recently stabbed and spent a week in hospital. His mother, my ex and I, helped him with medical and living costs for two weeks. He’s called me now for more money and I didn’t want to give it to him, as I have refused many times in the past, but in this case, I felt he needed it since he was still healing from the stabbing.
  • The Real Reason Women Are Becoming More Unapproachable

    James Michael Sama
    3 Oct 2014 | 12:03 pm
    There is sort of an unspoken secret among all men that we are all aware of, and have always been aware of since the moment we became old enough to recognize our interest in women. It is something that is not frequently spoken about and therefore women do not usually have the same innate understanding of the issue. They may not even realize that it exists.   Here it is: It is terrifying for a man to approach a woman. As (single) men, we find ourselves in the midst of countless women that we would like to talk to every single day. Whether it be passing in the halls at work, on the subway,…
  • #SAF Presents: Dating Advice For The Struggling 20-Something Vol. 1

    Thought Catalog
    3 Oct 2014 | 10:42 am
    The Mindy Project Earlier this week I announced Emma, Kovie, and I would be starting a weekly column for our readers who, like us, are single as fuck and looking for advice and guidance on all matters dealing with love, sex, dating, and relationships. We’ll select one question and publish our answers on Friday. Have a question you’d like to submit to the team? Send it to We look forward to hearing from you!  And now, without further ado, #SAF Presents: Vol 1.  “Someone needs to help a sister out.  I just moved to a new city and have been going…
  • losing hope.

    2 Oct 2014 | 9:58 pm
    I don’t know at this point if I see a future with him anymore…if I see us getting back together…because everything I’ve been feeling is beginning to push me away from him. I can guarantee you this has everything to do with what happened in the past and that’s unfortunate because I really wanted to let all of that go and start over. But past behaviors predict future ones. The feelings I’m getting are all signs that I do not trust him. That’s no way to begin a relationship, if we were to get back in one again. This sucks…my heart wants him, but…
  • True Love Is Real: Meet The Couple Who Reunited After 62 Years Apart

    James Michael Sama
    2 Oct 2014 | 7:24 pm
    So, you think that stories of epic, lifelong romance are reserved for novels or movies? Think again. This couple, Cynthia and Howard, first met over 60 years ago. Today, after all that time apart, they sit side by side on Martha’s Vineyard as husband and wife. The course of events that brought them together again is not only the very definition of true love, but it is an inspiration to all of us that men who are loving and romantic to their very core are still out there, and so are the women who appreciate them. Cynthia was used to having groups of men tease her when she was younger.
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  • 3 Issues He Probably Has If He's Been Cheated On (& How To Help)

    21 Oct 2014 | 10:44 am
    You really love him, but his insecurity from infidelity in past relationships makes things more difficult. How do you cope with his trust issues? Find out from expert Samantha Jayne. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Dating A Dog Lover? Here’s How To Win Them (BOTH) Over

    21 Oct 2014 | 8:23 am
    Has online dating gone to the dogs? "Partner with pets" is the big trend in online dating these days. Find out why so many daters refuse to settle down with anyone who doesn't love their pooch as much as they do. Is this a smart screening process or just down right foolish? Is your boyfriend obsessed with his pet? Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Show's Over! 10 Guys Reveal The TV Shows Making You Undatable

    21 Oct 2014 | 7:36 am
    There are a lot of things men put up with when it comes to love, whether it's waiting an hour for you to get ready, to sitting through that new Ryan Gosling chick flick. But when it comes to committing their time watching TV shows, these 10 guys are putting their foot down. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 4 Ways To Learn About His Past Relationships Without Being Sneaky

    20 Oct 2014 | 10:57 am
    Women over 40 that date or enter into a new relationship are often curious to learn about their partner's past with the women before them. The key is to share, but not too much, and remain positive. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 10 Relationship Rules Every Sarcastic Woman Must Follow

    Susannah B. Lewis
    20 Oct 2014 | 9:59 am
    Sarcastic ladies, your sense of humor isn't for wimps. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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  • Cupid Subscriber Count Plummets
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:07 am
    I always thought of Cupid as Spark Networks with more adult services. Judging by their current situation, I stand by this. Cupid, which runs subscription-based dating websites such as, and, announced £3m ($4.9m) in pre-tax losses for the six months ending June, an increase of 20% from the previous year. Show me niche dating network that’s not running a deficit. This is par for the course. But then, scary subscriber numbers. At the end of June 2012, Cupid’s sites had 113,000 paying subscribers; by June 2014, they had just 48,000, each…
  • Zoosk IPO: The Offering Price Is Everything
    20 Oct 2014 | 11:44 am
    Seeking Alpha has an article about the planned Zoosk IPO. A couple of datapoints for those tracking this evolving situation. High Operating Expenses Raise Red Flag: The extremely high operating expenses (72% of revenue in fiscal 2013) raise concerns that this is a company simply buying its users with little network effects and/or organic growth. Based on options granted in April 2014 at an exercise price of $7.72, we can assume the pricing discussions are in the range of $8-$16. The question arises though: Is any price in that range a good incentive to purchase shares, or could this be a…
  • HowAboutWe co-founder: How to Avoid Delusional Thinking in Start-up Growth Strategy
    20 Oct 2014 | 11:28 am
    Over the years I have posted many links to Andrew Chen. Andrew has a great guest post written by Aaron Schildkrout, co-counder of HowAboutWe, which Match recently acquired. While we’re talking about the industry, SFGate has some great stories about the online dating industry. For IAC, it was just another day at the top of the digital dating food chain. HowAboutWe needed an exit; IAC was the only one buying. “It was opportunistic,” said Sam Yagan, CEO of IAC’s dating division, Match Group. “It wasn’t like, ‘Oh my God, we need to have…
  • Siri, Get Me A Date
    16 Oct 2014 | 9:50 am
    The team of engineers that created Siri, Apple’s voice-driven intelligent assistant, are creating a an advanced form of AI which “will be able to teach itself, giving it almost limitless capabilities. The stealth startup, Viv Labs, has been working on the new service, called Viv, for two years. In time, they assert, their creation will be able to use your personal preferences and a near-infinite web of connections to answer almost any query and perform almost any function.” See Cortana from Microsoft and Sherpa for Google Glass for other voice-driven options. Reading the…
  • Can Dating Sites Make Us More Civil?
    15 Oct 2014 | 12:37 pm
    Anyone who has spent more than a few minutes on YouTube or Tinder quickly understands that thought-impaired people spewing invectives using terrible grammar make up the majority of commenters and right-swipers. Thankfully we now we have apps like Tinderliker to do the swiping for us. Nudging uses technology to push people gently towards a specific outcome. When you pay your taxes or buy a domain on Godaddy, alert boxes pop up, asking you to donate to health or political causes. Those are nudges. The Atlantic has two good articles, Nudge, Nudge: Can Software Prod Us Into Being More Civil?
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  • The wheels on the bus go round and round (and round and round)

    20 Oct 2014 | 7:07 am
    This post is part of a new challenge I have started over at Blog Share Connect - please join us. Its going to be fun. I moan often about the driving around of my many kids in the afternoon. It is tiring and no really a whole lot of fun especially now that its warmer. It’s not all bad though, far from it. There really are a lot of reasons why it is great to be able to play moms taxi in the afternoon. Jack is always so super happy to see me. Every single day. Last week I was a little bit late to fetch him, the look on his face when I arrived was priceless. I get to stalk watch Cameron…
  • Standing up for yourself is NEVER wrong even if you get pushed down again.

    16 Oct 2014 | 6:44 am
    Articles and posts about bullies are everywhere. Stories of teens committing suicide as a result of bullies are almost a daily occurrence. I have blogged about it. Kiara has been bullied. Sharon has blogged about it. Bullies are everywhere, everyday. Wikipedia defines bullying as follows; Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively dominate others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. One essential prerequisite is the perception, by the bully or by others, of an imbalance of social or physical power. Behaviors used to assert such domination…
  • If you are happy and you know it, leave a comment!

    15 Oct 2014 | 2:09 am
    I had about three blog posts in my head yesterday but I got so distracted with the next #jozimeetup and catching up on blog reading etc etc.that I missed my window to actually write at least one of them. So this morning I sat down ready to go because I had three options to choose from so I figured it would be a quick thing! WRONG! Here I sit 3 hours later and still NOTHING. I considered the post I had planned about bullying but then figured theirs enough fuel on that fire at the moment BUT there is still a post to come, then I wanted to write about teaching my kids to stand up for themselves…
  • Parenting just got real!

    13 Oct 2014 | 1:24 am
    There is nothing more overwhelming that giving birth. That moment you are handed that screaming little person is possibly one of life’s greatest moments. You are overwhelmed by every emotion there is  – fear, love, panic, wonder, admiration – you feel it all at once every few seconds but the love is rather overwhelming. I don’t you realise it until the second day when the sister comes to do those first vaccinations and you hear your baby scream, I remember wanting to punch the nurse with every single baby. You realise in that moment though, that you would lay down…
  • Lets talk about the baby – the answers my friends are blowing in the wind

    10 Oct 2014 | 3:38 am
    You know how they say that by the fourth kid it should be easy? Well they lied! Just like pretty much everything else they say. Who are they anyway? The same people who say it gets easier as they grow up or don’t shout, talk to your child (have they ever talked 34680 times and had no one listen) or don’t pick them up too much (have they ever listened to crying for 50 solid minutes) or don’t let them fall asleep on the bottle/boob (have ever not slept for days on end) or just say no (have they ever said no to a 3rd old?). Do they even have kids? Emma has been a challenge,…
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  • RE-POST: "I Feel Like My Chances of Finding Love Are Hopeless" via The Frisky

    17 Oct 2014 | 11:48 am
    I'm not sure if you've seen it, but I've been doing an advice column called "Make It Stop!" over on The Frisky for the past few months. Mostly I field questions about pesky co-workers and thorny family problems. But this week's question was the most profound one yet. It was about how to deal with feeling hopeless in love. I've re-posted it in its entirety below. I'm proud of my answer and I thought it might help some of you out there that are struggling with the same thing. And if you have any questions you want to submit, email me at Hopefully I can nip…
  • Real Talk: I Need A Date To My Friend's Wedding

    29 Jul 2014 | 6:37 am
    As wedding season draws to its (merciful) close, I'm faced with one final nuptial hurrah, courtesy of two of my nearest and dearest friends who -- in a shameless attempt to make the rest of us feel bad about our lives -- had the nerve to fall madly, dizzily in love with each other. They're getting married this fall, and I will almost certainly be invited with a plus one. Which raises the question: who the hell am I taking to this wedding? Tempting as it would be to reinstate my OKStupid or Tinder accounts and troll for tail, the more practical approach seems to be tapping into the pool of…
  • Flippin' Our Shades At Author and Blogger Samantha Irby

    25 Jul 2014 | 12:34 pm
    Samantha Irby is my favorite writer. Her blog, Bitches Gotta Eat, is one of the best blogs I've ever read. And her debut book of essays, Meaty, is brilliant. People in the book industry talk a lot about having a "voice" in writing and I didn't really know what that meant until I read her stuff. Her voice leaps off the page (or screen or whatever device you read her stuff on). It truly feels like she's talking directly to you. It's incredible. And everything she writes--whether it's about dating, sex, friends, or family--is fresh, honest and relatable. She hails from my hometown of Chicago and…
  • Tip Our Hats: Guys Who Stake Their Claim On Me

    23 Jul 2014 | 12:06 pm
    I love, love, love when he does little gestures to let everyone around us know that we're together. Like when we're ending the night at his corner dive taking down beers the way Ryan Howard would take down pitchers. I catch him looking at me a little too long, and then he leans in for a quick kiss. I'm in Blush City, population: me.Or when we're splashing around at the beach with all my friends and he swims out to where I'm dog-paddling (at 5'1'', it's not that far from shore), wraps my arms around his shoulders and lets the water lap around us as we sway with the waves.  Or that…
  • Attention People With Dilemmas: I Can Help!

    21 Jul 2014 | 2:03 pm
    I'm not sure if you've heard, but I'm writing a NEW weekly advice column over on The Frisky called, "Make It Stop."So far I've taken on sneaky roommates and reality TV-shaming boyfriends. And last week I put the kibosh about pesky co-workers and nosy drunkards.Have a question you want answered? Email me: with the subject "make it stop" and I'll try my best to help you nip some shit in the bud.
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  • Who’s the Best QB in the NFL, Right Now?

    Joe Sargent
    20 Oct 2014 | 9:05 pm
      In case you missed it Sunday, Peyton Manning passed the most overhyped QB of all time Brett Favre in career passing touchdowns. He only needed 246 fewer games, 1,514 fewer passes, and managed not to also set the record for interceptions in the process. Seriously, get Brett Favre tf outta here. Anyway, that got me thinking: is Manning the best QB in the league right now? We’ve seen Tom Brady decline. Drew Brees is looking as mortal as ever right now. Does Manning still hold the WWE belt at the league’s most important position? Only one way to find out: shoddy internet analysis…
  • He Wants Me to Meet His Parents, But Who Else is Worth Meeting?

    19 Oct 2014 | 9:05 pm
    You guys are in a blossoming new relationship and you’ve moved passed the awkward stage of “What are we?” You’re not pulling your hair out in frustration because the future is unclear. You are officially his boo thang and now you want to know exactly how serious he is. Well, a good measurement of this is the people he makes an effort to introduce you to claiming you as his own. So now you want to know, “Who’s truly worth meeting?” This list was made in order of appearance or meeting. However everyone is different so some may not apply. Note that,…
  • When Feminists Attack Male Bloggers

    Dr. J
    17 Oct 2014 | 6:37 am
    I love the Internet. It’s the only place where people create fictional images of themselves and then project that image until they either develop a following or earn notoriety. At times that notoriety is for being absolutely ridiculous. And while I’ve been no stranger to attacks on the Internet by people who have created an online persona, it never ceases to amaze me when I’m in some mess. If you haven’t heard, I ended up in some tiff with a certain feminist on Twitter yesterday. It was silly and I had to seriously resist the urge to act silly too. In fact, when someone is already…
  • No Such Thing as a G-Spot? [Podcast]

    16 Oct 2014 | 7:55 am
    Rich and WIM discover a newfound hatred for technology. The Two Guys also discuss a range of topics including the outrage around Thug Kitchen’s white creators, a 22 year old teacher that found a new way to make six figures, female climax, a surprisingly good segment on The Breakfast Club show, and more. **Don’t forget to leave us a five-star rating on iTunes and/or Stitcher!** @TGOSPodcast, @WisdomIsMisery, @IAmRichJones tgospodcast at gmail dot com DOWNLOAD THE EPISODE Original content from SBM. If you discover this content…
  • Why Are More Women Choosing to Not Marry?

    Dr. J
    15 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    I came across an article yesterday and it gave me pause for thought. I thought i’d share some excerpts with you all today and see what your thoughts were. The gist of the article is that more and more women are choosing not to marry and happy being single for the rest of their life. While I think this may be a bit of a defense mechanism, it’s an interesting notion. Here are a few clips: Currently, 53% of women over 18 are in the singles column. Put another way, women now have choices that allow them to customize the arc of their lives and some of them find that it is best for them…
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    SMS And Shayari Collection From

  • Khushbu me ehsaas hota hai – Shayari Sms Collection

    21 Oct 2014 | 8:11 am
    Najane q waqt is trah chala jata h. Jo waqt bura h wo palat k samne ata h. Aur jis waqt ko hm chate h, Wo waqt Ek lamha bankr beet jata h.KIS HAD TAK JANA HAI YE KAUN JAANTA HE kis manzil ko pana he ye kaun janta he DOSTI KE 2PAL JI BHAR KE JI LO kis roz bichad janahe ye kaun janta h Yeh Meri deewangi thi yeh ishq ki inteha, Mein uske pass se guzra khamosh uske khayalon mein.Tumhari Duniya me ham jese hazaaron hai Hum hi pagal thy jo tumhay paa k itraanay lagay…kushbu me ehsaas hota hai. dosti ka rista kuch khaas hota hai. har baat juba se kehna mumkin nahi,, isliye to dosti ka naam…
  • Good Morning

    Heeren Tanna
    21 Oct 2014 | 2:11 am
    Hum Itne Sweet Nahi, Ki Diabeties Hojaye!Na Itne Salty Ki, B.P. Badha Jaye!!Na Itane Testy Ki Maza Aajaye,Par Itne Kadwe Bhi Nahi Ki Yad Na Aye!!!!Gud Morning.Raj LalaniThe post Good Morning appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Happy New Year SMS

    20 Oct 2014 | 8:06 pm
    Poore ho aapke sare Aim, Sada badhti rahe aap ki Fame, Milte rahe sabse Pyar aur Dosti, Aur mila a lot of Fun & Masti. Wish you a Happy New Year with a Plenty of Peace & Prosperity.””Year’s end is neither an end nor a beginning but a going on, With all the wisdom that experience can instill in us. Happy New Year””Nights are Dark but Days are Light, Wish your Life will always be Bright. So my Dear don’t get Fear Coz, God Gift us a “BRAND NEW YEAR”. *****HAPPY NEW YEAR****””Day by day teri khusiya ho jaye double, Teri zindagi…
  • Haso Magar Pyar Se

    Heeren Tanna
    20 Oct 2014 | 2:06 pm
    Stri Aur Purush Ke Aansuo Me Yahi Antar Hai Ki Stri KeAansu Farmaish Puri Hone Se Pahle Nikalte Hai JabkiPurush Ke Aansu FARMAISH Puri Ho Jane Ke BaadThe post Haso Magar Pyar Se appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • English Good Night SMS

    20 Oct 2014 | 7:57 am
    Master of puppets is pulling your strings, twisting ur mind n SmasHing ur dreams. blinded by me, u can’t see a thing when i count to 3 u shall fall a sleep 1,2,3,Zzzsomewhere out there beneath the pale moon light someone think in of u some where out there where dreams come true… goodnite & sweet dreams 2 youAs nite falls upon the land, it is time 2 Zz again. With the moon hangin in the starlit sky, i’m here to wish U NiteNite! Sweet dreams, cover blanket tight tight As u go 2 bed 2night, I ordered bats 2 guard u tight. I told some ghosts to dance in white, & 2 make…
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    Online Dating Guide

  • How Do I Approach a Woman I See Every Day But Don’t Know?

    19 Oct 2014 | 12:19 am
    For me, online dating was a godsend: I always had trouble approaching women in day-to-day life. For example, if I’m remembering correctly, I only got two phone numbers at a bar in my life prior to online dating (and one of those only applies if Applebee’s counts as a bar). It was always something I overthought and the benefits of online dating propelled my ability to find and connect with people. If you’ve read my guide, you know that after I started dating online I did get much more comfortable approaching women (it had reached a point where rejection didn’t matter…
  • Dataclysm: Insights from an OkCupid Cofounder

    7 Oct 2014 | 10:28 pm
    OkCupid is one of the higher quality free dating services out there. It was created by very passionate people who were genuinely excited to craft the perfect algorithm for matching couples. Of course we all know there’s no such thing as a magic formula to find the right person for us, but with the huge pool of people trying online dating, it sure doesn’t hurt to be able to narrow down the options with decent accuracy. Coupled with a nicely polished website and creative features, OkCupid has been many people’s first dip in the online dating waters for many years. We tend to…
  • September 2014: Save 50% at eHarmony

    25 Sep 2014 | 5:24 am
    eHarmony is offering a new promotion where you can get 50% off of the 6-month subscription. To take advantage of this, enter the promo code GET50OFF when signing up for the six month subscription. For many of us new to online dating, six months may sound like a long commitment. However, with a promotion like this (where the price drops to about $29.95 a month), there’s more reason to give it a try. If you don’t already have a free account at eHarmony, you sign-up here Lots of Promotions at eHarmony this year I do my best to discuss every eHarmony free weekend on this website and…
  • Online Dating Scams are More than Requests for Money

    22 Sep 2014 | 11:02 pm
    Online dating scams are something that are happening all the time. I would say that most weeks I receive emails from someone who is dealing with a scam, sadly it’s often after they’ve already sent money to the scammer. In the past when I wrote on identifying online dating scammers, I often concentrated on the fact that scammers would ask for money. My advice, which I still believe, is that if someone asks you for money through an online dating service then you should immediately assume you’re dealing with a scammer. Yes, even if you’ve been talking for months on the…
  • 3 Mistakes a Guy Should Avoid in His Online Dating Profile

    17 Sep 2014 | 5:14 pm
    There are many areas of things you should avoid in your dating profile. One thing I really try to push people to do is to stay positive, but unfortunately many of us guys can wander into some negativity when we write our profile. And, in addition to staying positive, we want to be interesting! Today I want to talk about a few common approaches that guys take with their profiles and why you should avoid them. Also, be sure to check my article on creating your dating profile to see what I think should go into it! 1. Apologizing One temptation some men have is to include apologies for the fact…
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • How to Avoid Boring Conversation with Women

    19 Oct 2014 | 10:38 am
    Avoid Dull Subjects Sometimes it is the girl who keeps the conversation on a subject uninteresting to you. If she is really interested in it herself you can cater to her for a while, but you should eventually try to change the subject rather than suffer too much boredom yourself. You can probably find something interesting to both of you.
  • Amazing Pheromone Cologne Drives Women Wild for Sex!

    12 Oct 2014 | 6:32 pm
    This powerful pheromone cologne containing a secret rare ancient Hawaiian pheromone formula discovered by scientists drives women wild for sex! Would you like to turn beautiful single women on instantly? Would you like beautiful hot girls to ignore your face and stare at your pants? Can you picture yourself with a harem of horny gals wondering what it is about you that they can't resist? What would it be worth to you for sexy gorgeous single women to want to share their warm, writhing bodies with you? How would it be to have women get hot and horny just from a whiff of your aroma? You can get…
  • Some of the Best Dating Tips Ever to Succeed with Women

    5 Oct 2014 | 9:50 am
    Don't always do what women expect you to do. Someone who does exactly what is expected on cue is boring. By being a little unpredictable, you become elusive, you keep women on their toes, wondering about you, and slightly insecure with respect to where they stand. If they expect you to try and make a move sexually - don't. If they expect you ask them out for Saturday night, ask them out for Tuesday night. If they think you aren't interested, call out of the blue. If they expect you to call that night, call the next day. You must convince a girl that she would be lucky to be with you. You may…
  • How to Attract Topless Dancers with Celebrity Status

    25 Sep 2014 | 6:25 pm
    If you are a celebrity, movie star, rock star, wealthy, don't try to hide it. Exploit it to the max, but be cool and don't brag.              Your celebrity status will attract topless dancers like a magnet. If you have a yacht, mansion, Lexus, airplane, etc., let her know about it. It will make a big impression on her because these girls are obsessed with money and material things. They are true "Material Girls."              Just overlook the fact that she may just…
  • How to Pick Up Sexy Flight Attendants in the Air

    18 Sep 2014 | 4:21 pm
    Here's  how to approach  them in the  air, if you want to  give it  a try:  After you're  in the air and things  have calmed down and  things are slow, ask the flight  attendant  for  some  coffee. Try  to establish  some  eye  contact  while  she's taking your order  and be sure and give her a warm and sexy smile. Literally try to melt her  with your bedroom eyes and tell her, "You sure look great today." When she returns with your coffee  say, "Being a flight  attendant sure…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • How i won my boyfriend back from my twin sister

    21 Oct 2014 | 9:23 am
    New Answer - Have never believed in the supernatural or talk less of spell or even voodoo.In my head there was nothing on earth that was ever going to get me involved in such thing but life as we know throw s**t at your door and some how the doors opens up and let it strike you.************* About five years ago if anyone had asked me if i trust my twin sister with my life, believe me i would bet my life on it that i can.I couldn't even bring myself to think that my twin sister can put a knife at my back Yes i know everything about our childhood and youth age was always about who is better…

    20 Oct 2014 | 12:43 am
    New Opinion - Have never believed in the supernatural or talk less of spell or even voodoo.In my head there was nothing on earth that was ever going to get me involved in such thing but life as we know throw s**t at your door and some how the doors opens up and let it strike you.************* About five years ago if anyone had asked me if i trust my twin sister with my life, believe me i would bet my life on it that i can.I couldn't even bring myself to think that my twin sister can put a knife at my back Yes i know everything about our childhood and youth age was always about who is better…

    17 Oct 2014 | 11:41 pm
    New Opinion - Hello I am ROBERTSON ANGELIA from CALIFORNIA, When I eventually found testimonies about this spell caster DR.IYAYI, how he helped many people to get their lovers and broken homes back, i contacted him through his email address because I was absolutely desperate to get my husband back. Life without my husband was a real mess for me and my two kids. i wanted a dramatic change and I thought magic could be the solution. After discussing the resolution with DR. IYAYIr, he gave me hope that he will restore my marriage. I felt confident that he will…

    17 Oct 2014 | 11:39 pm
    New Answer - Hello I am ROBERTSON ANGELIA from CALIFORNIA, When I eventually found testimonies about this spell caster DR.IYAYI, how he helped many people to get their lovers and broken homes back, i contacted him through his email address because I was absolutely desperate to get my husband back. Life without my husband was a real mess for me and my two kids. i wanted a dramatic change and I thought magic could be the solution. After discussing the resolution with DR. IYAYIr, he gave me hope that he will restore my marriage. I felt confident that he will…

    17 Oct 2014 | 11:38 pm
    New Answer - Hello I am ROBERTSON ANGELIA from CALIFORNIA, When I eventually found testimonies about this spell caster DR.IYAYI, how he helped many people to get their lovers and broken homes back, i contacted him through his email address because I was absolutely desperate to get my husband back. Life without my husband was a real mess for me and my two kids. i wanted a dramatic change and I thought magic could be the solution. After discussing the resolution with DR. IYAYIr, he gave me hope that he will restore my marriage. I felt confident that he will…
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  • The Clooney Choice: Marry Your Equal

    8 Oct 2014 | 10:45 am
    George Clooney; photo courtesy of BAFTA/Michael Kovak It could happen to you  George Clooney has made headlines for something besides dumping his latest leggy beauty—this time, the tables have turned: he married her! “Her” is stunning human rights lawyer and author Amal Alamuddin, whom the Hollywood heartthrob and seemingly confirmed bachelor married in a lavish star-studded ceremony late last month at Venice’s Aman Canal Grande Hotel in Italy under an archway of imported white roses. Not to diminish the importance of Clooney’s past loves, but they weren’t his…
  • Brad & Angelina Tie the Knot—Big Whoop

    3 Sep 2014 | 10:40 am
      The wedding of the century? Isn’t that supposed to be YOUR wedding? OK, I know very few of us are as genetically blessed as Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, and it isn’t likely that anyone reading this is an Academy Award-winning movie star (though I never say never)…but come on. For the amount of hoopla the surrounding the power couple’s wedding, you’d think it was like we discovered the two came out as aliens from a distant planet. OK, so let’s get the details out of the way first (you know you want to hear them if you haven’t already). The…
  • 7 Shocking Facts About Infidelity

    1 Aug 2014 | 7:12 am
    #143920085 / Are we genetically predisposed to stray? Infidelity is a subject that fascinates me. As I’ve aged, the thought of it—of cheating on the person you’re meant to love and honor—makes me sick. If your relationship isn’t working, why not either put some effort in, or else end it before you’ve hurt the person who’s meant the most? It’s a pretty critical statement to make, true, but everyone views things differently. Some people simply can’t be alone, and so cheat to segue from one relationship to another, while others think…
  • Watch the Steamy Fifty Shades of Grey Trailer

    28 Jul 2014 | 6:22 am
    Fifty Shade of Grey trailer It’s finally here! We all had our top choices for who we wanted to play Christian Grey in E.L. James’ best-selling Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, and the role eventually went to Burberry model Jamie Dornan with Don Johnson and Melanie Griffith‘s daughter, Dakota Johnson, playing leading lady Anastasia Steele. The books, which featured love, sex and domination (perhaps not in that order) were the most buzzed about thing of 2011. How will the film fare? The jury’s not out yet, but we do know that the trailer broke records as the most-watched…
  • When It Comes to Love, Father DOES Know Best

    12 Jun 2014 | 12:35 pm
    #177148881 / Father Knows Best  isn’t just an iconic, Emmy winning sitcom of 1950′s and 1960′s, but it’s also, in my case, a fact. My dad does know all (or most): especially when it comes to my boyfriends. When I was 14, he simply shook his head when I tried to date our next-door neighbor who, though sweet, was a bit simple. He shook his head when I fell in love with the the (dyed) golden-haired soccer star in high school, saying he was a “nice boy, but not for me.” I got more than admonishment when I snuck out of the house late night to…
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    Online Dating

  • Test for STDs at Home? myLAB Box Launches

    13 Oct 2014 | 8:50 am
    Pioneering myLAB Box Empowers You to Take Control of Your Health by Screening for Major STDs Anytime and Anywhere. Let’s face it, the conventional STD testing process is so riddled with inconvenience and discomfort, it causes many Americans – possibly even you! – to skip their annual exam. With the ability to test remotely via mail and receive lab results electronically innovative new service, myLAB Box, is set to transform the way we test, talk and think about STDs in the US today one click at a time. Try it out today and save 20%, it is easy as 1-2-3: 1. Order your box at…
  • An Online Dating Guide for the Rest of Us

    26 Sep 2012 | 6:35 pm
    We all have that coworker, sister-in-law or neighbor that found her fairy tale ending on an online date-to-love site like or eHarmony. We use social media for everything else, so it’s no surprise that nearly 20% of us have now tried online dating. Now that it’s an acceptable and “normal” option, how do we play the online dating game and win? The truth is, most of the anxieties and pitfalls of dating are the same on and offline. And landing that first date with your online sweetheart might take a little more social media savvy than you think. Consider these tips to grabbing…
  • Required Reading: The Authoritative Guide to Safer Sex

    Online Dating
    18 Sep 2012 | 1:24 pm
    Conventional wisdom tells us to practice safer sex. But what does safer sex really mean? Asking your peers and consulting the Internet can lead to information overload, and you may not be getting the truth. Professionals say that many people are grossly misinformed about safer sex and so they suffer the consequences. Check out our  six-part guide to safer sex.  All of the information presented has been carefully examined for accuracy and credibility – this is a guide you can count on.  Start here, or jump to a section of your choosing: Part I: An Introduction to Safer Sex Part II:…
  • Not Your Mom’s Grinder: All You Need to Know About Grindr

    Online Dating
    30 Aug 2012 | 4:51 pm
    First launched in 2009 by founder and CEO Joel Simkhai, Grindr is arguably the best “geosocial networking” and location-based mobile app for gay men. It is currently used in over 192 countries and includes millions of members; at any given time, 71,000 users are logged onto Grindr and close to a million users log into the mobile app daily. Grindr has been described by users as a “revolutionary dating tool,” as well as the “scariest gay bar on earth.”  Either way, Grindr has made an indelible mark on the dating scene for gay men, winning awards like the “Best Dating…
  • 29th Edition of the Carnival of Online Dating

    Online Dating
    30 May 2012 | 2:00 am
    Welcome to the May 30, 2012 edition of the Carnival of Online Dating! This is the twenty-ninth — and final — edition of the blog carnival, and we really appreciate those who have submitted their links for inclusion. Rediscover our previous editions by visiting our Carnival of Online Dating archives page! Dating Tips & Advice Tom Hass presents Thinking Vs Feeling posted at Personal Hack. Aleksey presents The First Date posted at Get Social Blog. Jon Rhodes presents Bodybuilding Hypnosis posted at HypnoBusters, saying, “This article shows you how you can use hypnosis to…
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    WeLoveDates » Blog

  • Want To Date a Rich Person? Better Make Them Laugh!

    Elizabeth Marie
    20 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    One of the most common qualities that both men and women claim to look for in a potential date is sense of humor. But just how important is someone who can make you laugh in the long run? A new study and accompanying infographic from reveal that 1 in 4 Americans say a solid sense of humor is the number one thing they want in a partner, above looks, money or morality. The study goes on to say that of the singles who love to laugh, 34% have an income between $100,000 and $124,999…which is to say, they’re rich. So what is the correlation between laughter and wealth?
  • Best Social Media Campaign Award Winner at the White Label Dating Awards

    Elizabeth Marie
    20 Oct 2014 | 11:19 am
    We’re thrilled to announce that we’ve won the Best Social Media Campaign award at the White Label Dating 2014 Partner Conference. It was a great event and we are honored to take home this award! As always, we’re looking forward to even more social media fun, whether that be interactive maps, award winning dating advice blog posts, flowcharts or competitions! Thanks again to everyone at White Label Dating! Image via whitelabeldatinginc on Instagram. Speaking of social media, are you following us on: Twitter Facebook Pinterest Youtube G+ Just checking! Join the fun! Best…
  • Ladies’ Guide To Making Yourself Feel Glam Over 50

    Alicia Drewnicki
    19 Oct 2014 | 5:01 pm
    Glamourous goddesses over 50, it’s time to embrace your beauty and show the world how gorgeous you truly are. From style tips to makeup tricks and having the right attitude, WeLoveDates is here to give you the boost of self-confidence you need. Here’s a guide to feeling glam over 50. 1) HOW TO FEEL CONFIDENT Top Tip 1: The first thing that comes to mind is to smile – there’s nothing more beautiful than a woman who enjoys life and looks happy. If you feel confident inside, you’ll radiate this and glow. Top Tip 2: Look at your mature idols for inspiration. A lot of…
  • Nine Women You Should Experience Dating Before Settling Down

    Kevin Murray
    17 Oct 2014 | 9:51 am
    There comes a point in every man’s life when he just doesn’t have the physical or mental energy to compete in the dating game; going out to some bar and paying for a random broads nine dollar drinks gets old. You want more, you need more. But, before you’re at piece with settling down, you have to make sure you’re in the right place to do so. Back in the day, people used to date high school sweet hearts and live happily ever after – those days are long gone. Now there’s years of college, careers and temptations of social media combined with dating sites. This makes single life…
  • One on One With Nixalina of Sex & London City

    Elizabeth Marie
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    Nixalina is the beauty and brains behind Sex & London City, one of the UK’s most popular dating, fashion and beauty blogs. Sex & London City just won Cosmopolitan UK’s 2014 Blog Award for Best Sex and Relationship Blog and Nixalina is the brand new resident dating vlogger for Metro UK. So, it’s safe to say she knows a thing or two about this whole dating game! Nixalina was kind enough to answer a few of our dating, fashion and beauty questions–let’s get started! 1. What is the #1 dating mistake you see women making? And men? Being too keen too quickly. It…
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    The Art of Charm Podcast

  • Scott Barry Kaufman | Mating Intelligence Unleashed (Episode 329)

    Jordan Harbinger
    20 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    It only takes one. “Assertiveness and kindness is the combination most attractive to women.” -Scott Kaufman The Cheat Sheet: Dopamine is the pleasure molecule: true or false? (7:25) Scott defines a true alpha male. (18:40) The Dark Triad revealed: is it as ominous as it sounds? (19:10) What is positive psychology really about? (31:00) Why chat-up lines don’t work. (39:50) Mate copying: what does the term mean? (43:10) And so much more… If you’ve listened to the show before, you know we don’t buy into the whole “alpha or beta male” mindset…
  • Guy Winch, PhD | Emotional First Aid (Episode 328)

    Jordan Harbinger
    17 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Negative self-talk amplifies painful experiences. “We need to monitor our emotional health like we monitor our physical health. It has nothing to do with self-esteem, it has nothing to do with masculinity.” -Guy Winch The Cheat Sheet: Why avoidance doesn’t work and can actually make areas of your life worse. (10:30) Chronic loneliness is like smoking a pack of cigarettes a day: true or false? (16:50) Stewing vs doing: how and why to avoid the former. (26:20) Why affirmations are not useful. (36:20) Failure distorts our perceptions: the study that proves this. (41:35) How…
  • Dandapani | Monk with a MacBook (Episode 327)

    Jordan Harbinger
    15 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    No one has the right to hold you back. “There’s nothing more important than knowing who you are, the path you are on and its final end.” -Dandapani The Cheat Sheet: Why you should make your bed every day. (5:10) They watched 30 minutes of the news in his monastery: true or false? (14:20) The hierarchy of where to spend your energy as a parent and spouse. (27:50) What the law of thermodynamics has to do with relationships. (35:05) Affectionate detachment: what is it and do you need to implement it? (46:20) Why happiness should never be your goal in life. (54:05) And so…
  • Alex Kouts | The Art of Negotiating (Episode 326)

    Jordan Harbinger
    13 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Negotiating isn’t just about what you want. “The person on the other side of the table is terrified of losing you, terrified of losing the negotiation and losing face to somebody else, so you can leverage that if you know it.” – Alex Kouts The Cheat Sheet: Why everybody’s price is an f-you price, according to Alex. (11:15) How to emotionally prepare for awkwardness of negotiations. (23:20) BATNA: what is it and why is it so important? (31:10) Why women are better at negotiating than men. (32:30) When to apply the silent strategy. (35:05) What’s the nuclear option…
  • Patricia Madson | Improv Wisdom (Episode 325)

    Jordan Harbinger
    10 Oct 2014 | 12:00 am
    Your brain is an improvising machine. “Improvisation is being right here, right now in this moment.” -Patricia Madson The Cheat Sheet: How to “yes, and” your way to better conversations. (9:40) The general rule to being a good conversationalist. (17:40) What’s the distinction between impulsive and improv? (22:05) Why not talking isn’t the same as listening. (24:30) The most sincere form of love is ____. Patricia fills in the blank. (30:20) The importance of being grateful every day. (38:00) And so much more… When I say improv is your first thought…
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    The Indie Chicks

  • Reconnecting with Girlfriends

    Chrystal Rose
    21 Oct 2014 | 7:05 am
    We’ve all been there. Whether it’s because life has gotten too hectic or we’ve fallen in love, we’ve all become disconnected from our girlfriends at one point or another. Suddenly, months have passed and you realize you haven’t seen your...
  • Be Nothing Less Than Perfect

    Chiara Mazzucco
    20 Oct 2014 | 7:01 am
    What should you do with society’s definition of perfection? Should you become slave to their standards or should you turn away from them completely? With women constantly being bombarded with images of what it means to be #Flawless, is society...
  • You May Not Have Low Self-Esteem at All

    Julie Zantopoulos
    20 Oct 2014 | 4:00 am
    Low self-esteem is an issue that plagues people and can be one of the most difficult things to fix. It is usually a result of years spent doubting yourself, listening to negative comments, and measuring yourself against impossible ideals. Sometimes...

    The Indie Chicks
    19 Oct 2014 | 7:40 am
    “My boyfriend pees sitting down, my best friend pees in the shower, my girl boy dog humps my boy cat… my life in a nutshell.” “If I don’t want to cook something I just throw it away so I don’t...
  • Advice From Your GBF (Gay Best Friend)

    Brian Kearney
    17 Oct 2014 | 7:00 am
    Being gay has taught me a lot of things. I’ve had the privilege of seeing my girl friends go in and out of relationships, both good and bad, as well as having some of my own. Over the years, I’ve...
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    Dating pictures |Online Dating Photos | Dating Headshots

  • When to Pick Up the Check?

    Dating Headshots
    21 Oct 2014 | 7:42 am
    When is it time to pick up the check?  Who picks up the check is one of those thorny subjects for which there is no single “right” answer. Changing social mores have turned the long-held tradition of “the man pays” into a bewildering muddle. Making things even more confusing, expectations about who pays seem to vary with age. The findings of a 2008 online poll by Elle magazine and point out just how confusing the check issue has become as illustrated by the contradictory results: 66% of men, particularly younger men, want women to help with the check after the first couple…
  • What Do Women Want?

    Dating Headshots
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:09 am
    What Do Women Want? That’s a question for the ages right? They say men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and the differences between the sexes do often seem to be worlds apart. Interestingly, scientists now say that a lot of that has to do with the way male and female brains are hard-wired; but changing social mores also play a significant role. Since the dawn of feminism in the 1960s (actually much earlier than that, but for simplicity we’ll use the ‘60s when “the times, they were a changin’”), women have been pushing for an equal seat at life’s table (especially  in…
  • Post Break up Dating Tips

    Dating Headshots
    14 Oct 2014 | 5:14 am
    Ending a relationship is distressing, yet you will recuperate. It just takes time. Just how much time depends upon you, how invested you were in the connection, just how long you were together, the conditions that tore you apart and your strategy to break-up recovery. When you’re done wallowing in self-pity, blaming your ex-boyfriend and deciding on apart every minute of your life together– all flawlessly regular responses to a bad breakup– it’s time to close guide on your old connection and welcome the new chapter in your life that is about to begin. The road to…
  • Are You a Normal Dater?

    Dating Headshots
    9 Oct 2014 | 8:30 am
    So are you a normal dater?  Despite our efforts to appreciate the uniqueness of each person, there is something in the human psyche that pushes us to be “normal.” Maybe it’s human herd mentality; but while we each want to stand out from the crowd and be considered exceptional, we also find comfort in being just like everyone else – normal. The problem, of course, is that everyone defines “normal” just a little bit differently. What you consider normal could be considered either boring, risky or risqué by someone else. What each of us perceives to be normal depends on a veritable…
  • Are Men Afraid of Commitment?

    Dating Headshots
    7 Oct 2014 | 9:59 am
    Please note that this post will take into account those guys that are always on Tinder looking for a hook-up or sending DTF messages to women. Are men afraid of commitment more than women?  That question embodies the stereotype that has launched hundreds of movie plots, provided the catalyst for thousands of romance novels, and fueled millions of hours of girl talk. It’s the universal excuse used by both men and women to explain why a relationship isn’t moving to the next level.  But what if we got it wrong? What if single men are no more afraid of commitment than single women? A new…
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    Digital Romance Inc.

  • Why Women Say No…

    Jennifer Elizabeth Masters
    21 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    Women are complex creatures. Many women seem to require the alignment of the stars and planets, before they will respond to a man’s advances. Here are 20 Reasons Women Say “NO!” Read »
  • Is Being “Hot” Ruining Your Relationship Success?

    Susan Bremer O’Neill
    21 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    You’ve seen them in magazines and commercials, on billboards and runways—aloof, pouty, extremely sexy and hot fashion models, actresses and actors. You try to emulate them... Read »
  • Do The Clothes Make The Man?

    Joe Gaspard
    21 Oct 2014 | 4:00 am
    You’ve probably heard the saying “Dress for the job you want, not the job you have.” Well it’s a saying for a reason. Read »
  • Can You Judge Long Term Reality By Your First 2 Months Together?

    Donna Barnes
    20 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    The beginning of a relationship is exciting and fun. You can have a great time together and get along great because none of your personal issues have come to the surface yet. Watch »
  • 4 Keys to Being a Quality Woman in Demand

    Camille Thurnherr
    20 Oct 2014 | 4:00 am
    After supporting my clients on their search for ‘Mr Right’ for many years, I discovered that once a woman is in touch with certain aspects of ‘femininity’, she tends to find it a lot easier to attract a great guy into her life. Read »
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  • About What Raven-Symoné Said

    8 Oct 2014 | 1:43 pm
    SHAUNTEE About What Raven-Symoné Said I, like many others watched Oprah’s Where Are They Now interview with Raven-Symoné. Many of you may remember her as adorable Olivia on the hit show The Cosby Show from way back when. On Sunday’s episode, she made one statement that I knew would cause a stir on social media. She stated: I’m tired of being labeled, I’m an American. I’m not an African-American. I’m an American.” “I connect with Caucasian. I connect with Asian. I connect with Black. I connect with Indian. I connect with each culture.” As I expected, it caused some to go on…
  • Ray Rice Scandal: Would You Help A Victim of Domestic Violence

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:43 am
    SHAUNTEE Ray Rice Scandal: Would You Help A Victim of Domestic Violence I was watching Queen Latifah’s talk show last week and found myself cheering her on when she mentioned the whole Ray Rice situation. In case anyone has been living under a rock for the past month or so. Ray Rice, an NFL player, was caught on camera in February putting the smack down on his then fiancé in an elevator. The next month, she married him despite the infamous elevator altercation. What is it about elevators this year? Anyway, the NFL suspended him indefinitely, and the Ravens terminated his contract. And of…
  • Nothing New: My Thoughts on Donald Sterling

    30 Apr 2014 | 12:00 pm
    SHAUNTEE Nothing New: My Thoughts on Donald Sterling I’ve been working in corporate America for 20 years. I got my first job at a law firm when I was 18 years old. With that being said, I’m no stranger to people pretending they’re not racist as hell while acting as though they’re ready to get in a circle and sing “We Shall Overcome” with us black folk. When Donald Sterling’s Black/Mexican girlfriend recorded his racist rant and it got publicized, let’s just call this the side chick revenge, I was in no way surprise.  There is no way an 80 year old white man can be…
  • Dating & Religion: Changing Your Beliefs for Love

    24 Feb 2014 | 11:27 am
    SHAUNTEE UPDATE: As with any tabloid or rumor; this one has been found to be false. Janet & hubby are reported as being blissfully in love. Although this story was false; it was certainly a good topic with great feedback. Feel free to read more here.   Dating & Religion: Would You Change Your Beliefs for Love? Photo Credit: Janet Jackson married business man Wissam Al Mana and then basically dropped off the face of the earth. There have been no photographs of her looking blissfully happy or any regular sightings of her since she announced she was retiring and…
  • ShoeMint Haul: A Girl Can Never Have Too Many Pairs of Shoes

    17 Feb 2014 | 8:13 am
    SHAUNTEE Shoe Mint Haul: A Girl Can Never Have Too Many Pairs of Shoes During this deep freeze, no one wants to go out unless they have to. When you do venture outdoors you have to put on so many layers of clothing until you don’t feel like it’s even worth it.  The question now becomes what do you do with all of the glorious free time one has while stuck indoors. The answer is simple; you shop! Well at least that’s what I did; right along with cursing myself for not living in the south. A girl can never have too many pairs of shoes; so when ShoeMint kicked off their shoe slice…
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  • Are Direct Openers Better in the Day Than the Night?

    21 Oct 2014 | 6:23 am
    In general, the “opener” (or conversation starter) that you use does not really matter. What matters is that you are speaking genuinely and from your heart. If you feel like opening indirect by complimenting her earrings, then do that. If you feel like just expressing your appreciation of her beauty, do that. But there was a reason why Mystery and other early PUAs focused on indirect openers. They were approaching women in bars and night clubs. In those places, the women assume you are hitting on them. The nature of the mainstream night club or bar on a Friday night is that women…
  • Ready to Meet & Seduce Women? Get Live Training in NYC: Nov. 7-9

    17 Oct 2014 | 1:46 pm
    If you will be in New York City the first weekend of November, join my weekend intensive boot camp: a full-weekend intensive course in attraction, seduction and social growth with two NYC dating coaches. About 30% of the time will be in-class lectures, theory, principles, drills and exercises. 70% will be in the field, talking to women, flirting, sexually escalating, and pushing your social boundaries. We are intentionally limiting this to only Five Clients. We want to dedicate tons of time and personal attention to each client and make sure they make rapid progress. The Boot Camp is a…
  • Don’t Be a Creepy PUA

    16 Oct 2014 | 6:49 am
    European dating coach Steve Jabba recently made this video below about PUA guys in London, but the same lessons apply here in New York and elsewhere. I think there are a lot of guys that see crazy antics on YouTube and think they can pull off these things in real life. They are socially maladjusted or socially retarded, and end up hurting themselves more than helping. They follow stupid self-improvement advice under the guise of “getting out of their shell.” They are also susceptible to the trap of flash game. Steve mentions when he saw a guy literally chasing a girl down the…
  • Positive Energy and Getting Physical on the First Date

    11 Oct 2014 | 7:38 am
    The last 3 clips of my talk with Sarah of about her first date with her future boyfriend. Check out part 1-3 here and part 4-6 here. Part 7: Connecting with her and positive energy Part 8: Their first kiss and more on physical escalation Part 9: Connection, sexual openness and the path of improvement Positive Energy and Getting Physical on the First Date
  • Avoid Neediness – The Difference Between Needing and Wanting

    10 Oct 2014 | 6:40 am
    Neediness is known as an unattractive quality. But how do we sexually escalate with women, or get any kind of result, without coming across as needy? I recently posted a video of a guy asking 100 girls to have sex on the street. One thing you notice about him is that he doesn’t exhibit much neediness, if any. He expresses desire in the women, but not a “need” to have sex. This is the key to overcoming neediness with women while still being sexual and open. You need to distinguish between the need to get a specific result, and the desire to get that result. When someone has…
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    Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield

  • Why Being Happy Is The Best Gift You Can Give Your Partner

    3 Oct 2014 | 12:53 pm
    You have to be happy with yourself before you can ever be happy with someone else. When Pharell’s song “Happy” comes on the radio, he wants us all to clap along and feel happy, too. Granted, the tune is catchy, but have you ever listened to the lyrics? “Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof?”  Wow. That’s deep. He also posits “happiness is The Truth.” I wish it were that simple. While happiness has become a big buzzword in psychological circles, what happiness actually looks and feels like in modern society is still not clear. Are…
  • Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.!

    24 Sep 2014 | 3:49 pm
    Thank you to for naming me as one of their top 17 dating coaches in Los Angeles! Read their list here! Add A CommentThe post Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.! appeared first on Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield.
  • Do Younger Men Find Older Women Sexy? The Answer Will Surprise You!

    15 Sep 2014 | 12:19 pm
    “She’s just the sexiest woman alive,” said my male client, a guy in his early 30′s who was fit, kind, and looking to date a woman like the one he was talking about. You’re probably rolling your eyes right now, thinking that he’s referring to Megan Fox or Jennifer Lawrence. Maybe you’d be pleasantly surprised, or even shocked, to know that he was talking about Diane Lane, who is 19 years his senior at 49 years old! Why did my client find this older woman so irresistible? “It’s less about age and more about…the way some women make…
  • How I Celebrated the Happiest 10 Years of My Life

    11 Sep 2014 | 2:30 pm
    Last night at 8:30pm marked 12 years since my first date with my husband, Benjamin, and 10 years since we were married. We met in the early days of Internet dating, at a time when few people would have even admitted to posting a profile online. For me it was just the opposite. All my life, I had felt incredibly shy around men, and I never liked having go out in public and trawl for them.  So, I thought Internet dating was a godsend, and I told everyone. I knew that I needed lots of practice dating. For the first time I could get as many dates as I wanted and meet a lot of different men.  I…
  • 5 Ways to Stop Being A Dazed and Confused Dater

    19 Aug 2014 | 3:35 pm
    It’s happening again: you find yourself staring at your phone, waiting for a text back from someone you thought you had a particularly good date with. “But the night went so well!” you tell a friend, perplexed by the abrupt end to the previously steady flow of communication. As the negative thoughts begin to flood your mind, you start to make a mental list all the things you might have done wrong: a joke that fell flat, that shirt you were unsure about, a kiss that was good for you…but was it good for him? No matter how hard you try to reassure yourself, you can’t stop wondering,…
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    Dating Website Reviews

  • 2015 Golden Heart Online Dating Awards Nominations, Coming Soon!

    Jason Lee
    19 Oct 2014 | 4:30 pm
    I am happy to share that our list for the nominations for the best online dating sites for 2015 is going live this week. This year we’re covering more niches than we did in 2014, our first year of Golden Heart Online Dating Awards. However, we are also simplifying things as well to make it […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post 2015 Golden Heart Online Dating Awards Nominations, Coming Soon! appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas)

    Jason Lee
    19 Oct 2014 | 3:25 pm
    Since 2004, iDate the Online Dating Industry Conference and Awards show has grown to become a more and more valuable networking and educational event for those in the internet dating business. The conferences now spans much of the globe with events all over the world. However, the main conference and the one that is most […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas) appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • Interview with Lisa Clampitt President & Founder of the Matchmaking Institute

    Jason Lee
    10 Sep 2014 | 2:52 pm
    Today we are exploring where online dating and matchmaking cross paths with Lisa Clampitt, President & Founder of the Matchmaking Institute. IT’S 8 ON ONLINE DATING, our continuing series of online dating industry interviews. I am happy to share a recent interview I had with matchmaking and relationship expert Lisa Clampitt. Lisa Clampitt is the President & Founder […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Interview with Lisa Clampitt President & Founder of the Matchmaking Institute appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • SingldOut is the Latest Genetic Matchmaking Site.

    Jason Lee
    5 Sep 2014 | 10:20 pm
    A new dating site called SingldOut uses LinkedIn as the primary registration method and then employs a DNA matchmaking system. SingldOut partners with InstantChemistry, a leading solution into the DNA or genetic matchmaking niche. Dr. Wendy Walsh is associated with the Instant Chemisty but I don’t think has any association with the SingldOut dating site. […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post SingldOut is the Latest Genetic Matchmaking Site. appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • New Dating App Matches You With The Best Dating Sites!

    Jason Lee
    5 Sep 2014 | 9:06 pm
    There’s a new dating app in town and it’s not what you might expect! The dating app that screens dating sites has arrived. Have you even considered that maybe it’s not the people you are meeting but rather the dating sites that you’re using? DatingChimp ®, The Dating Site Reviews App has 1 purpose and 1 purpose alone; […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post New Dating App Matches You With The Best Dating Sites! appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
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    Dating Sites XO

  • Whim

    Heather Dundon
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:50 am
    Whim is an LA-based dating app that's got the right idea. Show you a couple matches, suggest a restaurant, and get you out on a date TONIGHT!
  • SingldOut

    Heather Dundon
    9 Oct 2014 | 7:29 am
    Is SingldOut the new frontier in online dating? See how this dating site using DNA mapping to find your perfect match.
  • Sugar Baby Australia

    Dating Sites XO
    2 Oct 2014 | 9:46 am
    Sugar Baby Australia, a division of Sugar Baby Meet, is the most widely-used sugar baby/sugar daddy dating site in Australia.
  • Gothic Match

    Heather Dundon
    25 Sep 2014 | 5:05 am
    Looking for someone who shares your dark outlook and love for eyeliner? is the #1 Gothic dating site in the world.
  • Same Plate

    Heather Dundon
    18 Sep 2014 | 5:30 am
    Same Plate is a dating site created by foodies, for foodies. Meet people with similar interests in fine dining, ethnic cuisine, or specialty diets for dating or a meal!
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    Book Review. Dating. Stories. Rants. Poetry.

  • How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 2

    26 Sep 2014 | 7:46 pm
    How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 1Kissing techniquesThe close your eyesTell the girl to close her eyes in the middle of conversation or dancing. If she resist, tell her you won’t kiss her. If she closed her eyes, you know what to do. Note: The girl knows what’s happening here – she knows that you will kiss her. She just doesn’t want to look like a slut. She wants to be a victim – the victim of the circumstance. It’s called the victim mentality. If she closes her eyes, there’s a 100% that you will be able to kiss her (obviously). Another Note: Build sufficient sexual…
  • How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 1

    25 Sep 2014 | 7:36 pm
    John: Please visit my girlfriend's awesome blog www.kikaysikat.comIntroductionKissing a girl in a club is not only a natural phenomenon but also an acceptable form of fornication in our culture. The exchange of saliva and other body fluids with a stranger in a club is viewed as fun, exciting, and sexy. The only disgusting or nauseating thing you can found in clubs is two guys eating each other faces. It’s opposite, two girls making out, gives us the hardest boner.Kissing makes our body excrete serotonin (the good feeling hormone) that makes us happy as a villain. Ecstasy too has the same…
  • Hank Moody is not just a Fictitious Character

    7 Aug 2014 | 10:48 pm
    Hank Moody sees the world differently. They say he was dark in his writing, but in person he always lean towards the brighter side. He’s a positive, happy-go-lucky, and I-don’t-give-a-fuck-on-the-outcome person. He sees problems in a fun challenging way. Seeing the world as an absurd place rather than a dark hole that saps life. He believe that you can’t always get what you want in life, but you don’t have to frown or be negative, because most of the times, you get what you need.He loves women. He desires them but not in a lecherous way. He desires the companionship. The banter and…
  • Rant: Women and their Shaved Pudenda

    6 Aug 2014 | 11:53 am
    Ladies today had gone too far on the sex positive feminism. They always say, "men do it." They say, "men have sex for fun." They say, "men watch pornography." They say, "men posts their sexual exploits on blogs." "Why not us?"Do they really think that's the path to liberation?Aside from the fact that women are men's greatest weakness, they are the fairer sex. If they act like fucking looney toons, watching pornography, walking around topless, posting on blog that they had just fucked a guy and what not, what will happen to this society of ours?This society needs to preserve that sweet smell…
  • Book Review: Diary by Chuck Palahniuk

    29 Jul 2014 | 7:24 pm
    I was kind of sad when I found out that Chuck Palahniuk was gay. I don’t know why. I don’t hate gay people. It’s just that…why the fuck are you gay? You could be my hero. But I could never tell my future kids that my hero was gay.On Diary.For the first few pages, I wanted to tear up my kindle. Chuck Palahniuk’s voice was so unique he was giving me hard time understanding him. If I don’t like a book after reading a few pages, I usually delete that shit on my kindle. Or in a case of a paperback, I wrap it in a piece of paper and send it as a gift to a friend. But I love…
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    Bachelor Uncut

  • I Lust New York

    Bachelor Uncut
    20 Oct 2014 | 7:35 pm
    If You Can Fuck Here, You can Fuck Anywhere! New York City. It isn’t just a Mecca for commerce and the arts; it also happens to be the thriving epicenter for all things SEX. Whether you’re looking for a casual fling, or are just desperate to get any kind of action, the Big Apple has got you covered. It’s uninhibited, it’s in-your-face and, much like your very first hand job, it can leave you with a gratifying memory that will last a lifetime. But what makes the world’s greatest city the best dating pool to swim in as well? I’ve always considered New York (and by New York I of…
  • My Favorite Sex Facts, Part One

    Bachelor Uncut
    17 Oct 2014 | 7:09 pm
    From slamming to swallowing, the X-Rated world is just filled with juicy tidbits! If you think sex is just about random flirtations, heavy petting and the sacred penetration, you’re missing some of the more interesting subtleties (and cool, “behind-the-scenes” factoids). The great thing is that there’s NO shortage of sexual fun facts that would make for perfect conversation-starters at your next dinner party–provided you’re with the right crowd. Here are some of my favorites. Click ‘Next’ to Continue.  
  • Successful Girlfriend, Rocky Relationship?

    Bachelor Uncut
    15 Oct 2014 | 8:47 pm
    How one macho man turned his own insecurities into the best orgasms of his life. When Brad started working for his girlfriend’s mega-successful PR firm, it marked the beginning of what would become a very tough road—at first anyway. Like most alpha-males, he was used to calling the shots in his previous life as an independent commercial painter. And he had always fashioned himself to be a great provider (as a single dad) for his two children. Just like Mr. Sinatra, he did it all his way. But what a difference a year, the shitty economy and a new girlfriend can make. With times getting…
  • Top Five Hottest Italian Women

    Bachelor Uncut
    13 Oct 2014 | 5:42 pm
    Here are five Italian beauties who can make your heart turn green, white and red (and your penis turn purple). When I raved about the wonders of Greek women a while back, I hadn’t expected so many Italians to take it personally. My inbox proved me wrong however. And so, as a Bachelor who’s always considered himself to be an equal opportunist when it comes to Mediterranean pussy hotties, I thought it only fair to give some important shout-outs to those Italian bombshells who can give any Greek goddess a run for her money. Here, then, are five babes who prove Italy’s best…
  • Top Five Signs You’re Dating A Zombie

    Bachelor Uncut
    10 Oct 2014 | 12:00 pm
    You may think that walking corpses are mere science fiction, but the truth is, you’ve probably already f*cked a few! With all of the hoopla surrounding this Sunday’s fifth season premiere of “The Walking Dead,” I can’t help but wonder if there aren’t actual zombies walking among us—you know, those soulless, blood-sucking boyfriends and girlfriends that tear you up from the inside out and make you wish you had never crossed paths with them in the first place. In fact, AMC’s hit show could actually be seen as an embellished microcosm for what’s become of today’s dating…
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    Tao System Of Badass

  • 5 Mistakes Most Guys Make – Relationship Advice

    Alauddin Mia
    27 Sep 2014 | 9:39 pm
    You can find endless amounts of relationship advice online, in books, from friends….wherever. But regardless of what action you take on the dating advice you find, just try to avoid these 5 dating mistakes. Mistake #1 – Being Too Nice I know it sounds crazy but its true. For whatever reasons women aren’t attracted to the nice guys. Ever wonder why the most attractive women tend to fall for the bad boy? Its because she has a deep level of attraction to him. And while I am not advising you to go out and be a jerk to every girl you met, I am saying that trying to be a nice guy to win her…
  • Online Dating Site Reviews

    Alauddin Mia
    8 Sep 2014 | 9:27 pm
    Finding True Love on the Web It’s been estimated that approximately 30% of web users have romance and dating on their mind when using the Internet. The popularity of online dating sites has grown, with more and more people finding their perfect match by using these sites. However, not all of these sites work in the same fashion. If you’re looking for love online, here is a review of 12 of the most popular sites to help you find the one that is right for you. Online Dating Site – If you’re looking for a bit of help in finding Mr. or Ms. Right, eHarmony could be the perfect…
  • How to End an Extra-Marital Affair

    Alauddin Mia
    8 Sep 2014 | 9:12 pm
    here are many reasons that may have led you to become involved in an affair outside of your marriage, and if you are reading this article, you are likely trying to determine the best way to end the affair and move on with your life.  You’re not alone. Infidelity is alarmingly prevalent in our society today, and no matter what reason you have for your indiscretions, the tips that follow can help you put an end to your affair once and for all. Be Sure that You’re Ready to End the Affair In theory, it’s easy to walk away from a lover, especially if you are married, but in practice, it can…
  • Rebuild Trust in a Relationship After a Marital Affair

    Alauddin Mia
    2 Sep 2014 | 7:36 am
    When one of my friends got caught cheating he asked me, “Can I get my ex back even after I was caught cheating in the relationship?” The answer to his question wasn’t an easy one, but once I realized his sincere desire to rebuild trust and to restore the relationship, I gave him some advice on how to go about it and How To Regain Trust. Some may say cheating on your partner should always end a relationship but you want to regain trust in someone. Well that really depends on the couple.  I feel every relationship can be save if the couple involve really want it to make it work. Perhaps…
  • Sanctify your marriage relation

    Alauddin Mia
    14 Aug 2014 | 7:53 am
    it is appropriate for me to begin with the relationship of people. if you are a young adult and contemplating marriage, it is paramount that you consider deeply the lifelong commitment you will need to make to marriage partner. if you have decided to have children, you will be required to assume an even larger responsibility. According to capture his heart program marriage is the first institution that god gave to mankind. it is a sacred institution, that has been reduced to a sexual institution. if you don’t like one partner, hop over to the next. we are acting like animals instead of…
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    The DayGame

  • A Woman Is

    Serge Solonenko
    20 Oct 2014 | 6:47 pm
    A Woman Is… A woman is your biggest nightmare and your biggest joy. A woman is a classical mystery murder novel without an ending. A woman is a universal free flowing energy waiting for direction. A woman is an empty vessel of chaos waiting to come alive through a man. A woman will hate you and love you simultaneously. A woman is a free caring soul waiting for someone to unleash her inner child. A woman loves boundaries because she wants to cross them. A woman craves your attention and validation so she can feel beautiful. A woman prefers the fairy tale white lie, over realistic truth.
  • A Day Game PUA Uses These 3 Crazy Vibing Techniques

    Serge Solonenko
    18 Oct 2014 | 3:20 pm
    Why Does a Newbie Day Game PUA Fail in the Vibing Phase Sometimes?  Once you’ve hooked the girl, your goal is to slowly drift away from any kind of structured communication and stop trying to bring anymore value to the interaction. That’s overly gamey and does more harm than good. Realize when you have to stop. A strong day game PUA thinks of his first 60 seconds as a pre-planned “assault” on a beach to establish your presence there. Now that you’ve established yourself, you can focus on simply channeling your value through a more conventional means. strong day game pua Keep on…
  • PUA Day Game Openers Are Dead ?

    Serge Solonenko
    14 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    PUA Day Game Openers Are Dead ? There is a huge obsession with PUA day game openers in the PUA community. It’s quite hilarious and for some reason a lot of beginners who get into the community are thinking there is a magical opener that drops her panties in under 10 seconds. We’ve been day-gaming for over 4 years and are still searching for this panty dropping opener. Email us when you find it. We’ll write a sensational post about it immediately. For some mystical reason a lot of guys have this notion that a magical opener exists. The girl will hear your magical line and get down on…
  • Are You Missing These Crucial Elements in Your Daygame Model?

    Serge Solonenko
    13 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
     Crucial Elements of Your Daygame Model   Phase 1 – Your Daygame Model Should Include These 3 Qualities in Your Vibe:    Step 1) Sexual Intent – semi-direct vibe that focuses on bringing value to the interaction and a reason why you’re there in the first place to eliminate any confusion. Step 2) Momentum – creating your own momentum and bringing that into the girl’s world through the vibing phase. Step 3) Strong Emotional Control – Being icy cool in your head and in your approach itself.   The Daygame Model Phase 2 – The Daygame Model –…
  • How to Unleash Her Inner Child With Daygame Pickup?

    Serge Solonenko
    13 Oct 2014 | 11:01 am
    How to Unleash Her Inner Child With Daygame Pickup? How would you approach daygame pickup if you knew women are simply children? There is an old saying that says: Men reach maturity when they turn 18, but women never do. It’s a practical answer to many questions. Women don’t mature beyond the point of post-puberty. Even a middle-aged woman is merely the oldest teenager in the house. Fan of Melvin Udall: How Do You Write Women So Well? Melvin: It’s simple really. I take away reason and accountability. Men are designed to go into the world, understand the terrain, and then design and…
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    Mesh Blog

  • Monday’s Mix: Namesakes

    Yeni Sleidi
    13 Oct 2014 | 10:09 am
    Got someone on your mind this Monday? Maybe you’ll spot their name in this playlist. And remember, hit “private mode” before you listen to it 10 times in a row.
  • Reading Between the Texts: A Definitive Guide

    8 Oct 2014 | 3:37 pm
    Dating during the time of texting has made courtship easier… and messier. On the one hand both parties have the ability to virtually and rather non-intrusively check in whenever they want. But on the other hand — what in God’s name did that text mean? The phrase lost in translation has rarely seemed so apt. Below we attempt to outline some common texts and timing of said texts and what they might mean for your blooming (or rapidly decaying) relationship. The Morning Wake-Up Call:   A chirpy 8 am ping — unless it’s a reply to a forgotten late night text — often means…
  • Beta Week 4: More Features, Freebies and Updates!

    Alexandra Wee
    8 Oct 2014 | 10:17 am
    Happy  October, Meshers! Can you believe a whole month has flown by since we launched into the Beta life? Crazy, we know, but we wouldn’t have made it this far without you. For starters, you helped us gain more than 1000 new users in the past three weeks alone. And, thanks to your feedback, our team’s been able to create tons of new features that we can’t wait to show you. So give yourself a pat on the back (we did!) Newly Added Features: Safety from Catfishes Improved international filtering ensures that you don’t get reeled into someone’s online dating scheme. We want you to feel…
  • 6 Ways to Recover from a First Date Faux Pas

    29 Sep 2014 | 10:28 am
    Ah, first dates. A necessary evil for all of us who never want to go on another again — so don’t blow it. Nah, we kid.  Relax and have fun, afterall you’re sussing them out too. That being said, there are some very human errors that may happen in that tiny window between stranger and possible romantic partner that could shoot you in the foot before it even gets out the door. Thankfully, we’ve provided a few ways to swoop in and be your own savior when a first meeting with someone promising is beginning to look like to may be your last. ERROR #1: Lateness Hovering Around The Half…
  • 6 Hidden Dealbreakers And How to Spot Them

    Allison Geller
    24 Sep 2014 | 9:41 am
    Dating someone new? Look out for these red flags to save yourself unnecessary heartbreak. We’ve all been there. Looking back, stunned, on a failed relationship… and suddenly the red flags are popping up all over. How did you not see it at the time? You ask yourself, your friends, your bottle of cheap Merlot. You were so blind! Hindsight may be 20/20, but if you’re willing to look hard enough you can spot these six hidden Dealbreakers before it’s too late. Dealbreaker #1 – You Need Alcohol to Have Chemistry It’s a fact proven by Science: we all get wittier, more attractive, and…
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    Over 40 Dating Site

  • The secret of successful 40 plus dating

    8 Oct 2014 | 7:35 am
    What is the “the secret of successful 40 plus dating”…It is fair to say that online dating is an appealing and more affordable place to meet new people. After the age of thirty five plus, (for some of us, and for a variety of reasons), it can be difficult to go out and meet members of the opposite sex in traditional settings, bars and clubs for example. Worldwide, there has been a 57% increase in the use of online dating sites, so tip no one is to just take the bit between the teeth and Join. In the first instance, when writing your profile pay careful attention to spelling and…
  • Dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:32 am
    Clothes reveal what is really going on internally, according to an American psychologist who explains what your frock can tell the rest of the world about you….so how do you dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating? Top of the frocks is still the little black dress, it is named as the favourite wardrobe staple by 64% of women. The little black dress was created by Coco Chanel in 1926 and paved the way for a colour that was normally worn for funerals. Typical problems fall into several categories, here are just a few of them: wearing office clothes all of the time; buying designer labels…
  • Over 40′s dating tips for men

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:31 am
    Mature dating, or in this case over 40’s dating tips for men, is written with the best of intentions and hopefully will help you relax and enjoy your online journey. Try to keep it as local as possible. Too much distance in a relationship can be off putting, especially if you are really busy people. Secondly it is meant to be fun. We know it is difficult to put yourself out there, warts and all, it is easy to be someone else in this digital age. What women want however, is the true you, your authentic self. Leave your super ego at home, speak from the heart. If you are not who you say you…
  • The Increase in Plus-40 Dating on the Internet

    5 Sep 2014 | 6:47 am
    for the over 40s is something of an industry shocker. Quite simply, nobody foresaw just how popular online dating for over 40s would be. In 2012, there was a 57% increase in online dating amongst the over forties, and today 33% of couples have met online. By 2040, this figure is expected to rise to 70%. Internet dating is a growth industry. Clearly something is going right. Why No Stigma? In the old days there was something tinged with sadness about dating remotely. People would fill in a questionnaire in the newspaper and send it off, with the hope of meeting someone. Online dating has…
  • Getting back on the scene after divorce

    2 Sep 2014 | 4:03 am
    Getting back on the scene after divorce  Divorce is one of the single most upsetting and disturbing things we can go through as adults. It is often immensely hurtful, particularly when there are children involved. Divorce can leave your confidence shattered, and some people wonder whether they will ever be able to trust a partner again. How can you get past these understandable feelings of anxiety, and back into your stride when dating over 40, after a divorce? Take Your Time Don’t rush things. If you are still grieving for the end of your marriage, don’t push yourself to start a new one…
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  • Tinder – 12 Pick-Up Lines that work!

    7 Oct 2014 | 4:29 am
    Currently you should know the truth about tinder and after you have set up the perfect tinder profile, you got many matches. Now you ask yourself, which lines are the best to open her and get the conversation started. At first make yourself clear that there is a huge difference between opening girls in real life vs girls on tinder. These girls use tinder, because they want to be approached and if they match with you it means they are already waiting for your line. The only problem is, that she also gave 10 to 100 other guys this opportunity and just like Sperm Wars, the best one will win.
  • Escalation – 3 Hints to consider

    23 Sep 2014 | 1:04 pm
    Escalation takes a PUA’s new-found ability to approach and be friendly with random people, and converts it into a means to achieve more than friendly conversation. However this process can be a minefield to the uninitiated, and particularly when you are new to the game, your brain looks for an “excuse” for each step, wanting a socially acceptable justification for every action. I have found one particular technique to be very helpful in creating the ‘excuse’ your brains need. This backdoor should work not only in your mind, but in hers (never forget that the girl is likely to be…
  • The Perception of Difficulty

    8 Sep 2014 | 12:11 pm
    I managed to squeeze my lunch into the 10 minutes I had before boarding my train. Not an especially unique story, but people were looking at me as though it was offensive to eat 250g of salmon, 250g of cherry tomatoes, and a whole avocado in a train station. They probably would have been even more shocked to know that all of those ingredients had been acquired 10 minutes beforehand for less than the cost of their big macs. This is not meant to be a lesson in healthy eating, but rather a demonstration of how easy it is to do the right thing. Whether it is eating healthily, going to the gym, or…
  • Advantages of Dating Psychos

    27 Aug 2014 | 9:05 am
    You know what, I took the first option months ago. I haven’t been with her about 7 months. I mean, we love the chase, we love to conquer, to succeed, to put in our meat flag and scream “victory”. But Sean, whats the point of dating a psycho? Its a lot of work and they can get you into a huge mess. You could end as another “investigation discovery” show. Part of the game, for me, is to be experienced, to know human behaviour, to recognize good opportunities and bad ones, and been able to take a chance when I tough the time fit. This girl has issues. Her emotional…
  • She doesn’t want a relationship

    Sean Winn
    22 Aug 2014 | 7:41 am
    I recently got this interesting question from a reader and I’m sure many guys have faced a situation where the girl is better in controlling her emotions than themselves. That’s why I wrote articles like How to be less sensible man and why you need to control your emotions. This time it’s about the situation when you want a relationship but the girl wants to keep it casual: I started dating this girl, the sexual connection was awesome. The problem was, I wanted to change the only sex nature of the relation, into a normal relationship. It was like I was the girl and she was…
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    Love My Brit

  • Vlog #1: Harrison Hot Springs Anniversary Celebration

    Chris Martin
    11 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Chelsea and I took a short break to Harrison Hot Springs, British Columbia to celebrate our belated one year anniversary. As we are dating long distance, we were not able to be together for this special occasion. But finally, we were able to celebrate it in person! We also thought it would be a great […] The post Vlog #1: Harrison Hot Springs Anniversary Celebration appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Top 20 Activities To Do in Person for LDR Couples

    Chris Martin
    2 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Most long distance couples will spend a significant time apart, so what little time you do have to be together in person becomes very precious. We all want to make the most of that time, enjoy ourselves and make it as special as possible. So we have compiled a list of our Top 20 Activities for […] The post Top 20 Activities To Do in Person for LDR Couples appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Love My Brit Photoshoot!

    Chris Martin
    27 Sep 2014 | 3:30 am
    During our time spent together in America this September, we had the opportunity to have photos taken professionally by a friend of  Chelsea’s. We loved the idea, and immediately headed for Fairhaven (a historic district of Bellingham, WA) for our first ever Love My Brit photoshoot. We wanted to incorporate the theme of both English […] The post Love My Brit Photoshoot! appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Finding Accommodation for Trips with Airbnb

    Chris Martin
    24 Sep 2014 | 3:29 pm
    Most of the time when you visit your partner, you will have guaranteed accommodation with them. However, this is not always the case. When Chelsea has visited me at university in Lancaster, she has been able to stay with me in my rented house with my housemates and I. When I have visited her in […] The post Finding Accommodation for Trips with Airbnb appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Weekly Featured Couple: Stephanie and Patrick

    Chris Martin
    22 Sep 2014 | 9:18 pm
    Our featured couple this week is Stephanie and Patrick. With an 8 hour time difference between them (California to England) we can certainly relate to their situation! This couple met through friends at church almost five years ago and have been dating ever since. How Did You Meet? Hello! My name is Stephanie and I’m […] The post Weekly Featured Couple: Stephanie and Patrick appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • How to Reject Men Safely and Respectfully

    Nick Notas
    17 Oct 2014 | 6:22 am
    Being rejected sucks. But rejecting someone can suck just as much. Contrary to what many men believe, most women don’t enjoy turning someone down. It’s awkward. It’s intense. And it can lead to uncomfortable or even dangerous situations. Because of this, women try to reject others “gently” to protect themselves. Ironically, this usually ends up hurting men more and causes worse problems for everyone. I’m here to show you how to reject men in a mature, respectful way that’s in your best interests, too. Where problems start  You can’t avoid hurting someone’s feelings…
  • Should You Try to Get Your Ex Back?

    Nick Notas
    9 Oct 2014 | 7:14 am
    Yesterday I was on the phone with a long-time client, Jon. Jon told me how he finally feels like he’s in a good place. His business is thriving, he’s grown tremendously as a person over the last few years, and he’s casually seeing two gorgeous women. He then asked me, “So, do you think I should reach out to my ex, to see if anything’s still there?” This surprised me. Why? Because of the way he phrased the question. I have an endless supply of guys asking me, “How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?” They’ve already made up their mind and are determined to win her at all costs.
  • Do or Die (Literally): The Surefire Way to Achieve Your Goals

    Nick Notas
    2 Oct 2014 | 9:12 am
    You can bet Raymond went to Veterinary school. If you don’t get this picture, click to watch the video.   During a drive the other day, I listened to “Quitters, Inc.” by Stephen King. It’s the tale of a married man named Dick Morrison. An old college roommate runs into Dick and refers him to a company called, “Quitters, Inc.” With their help, his roommate successfully quit smoking and got a big promotion at work. However, he’s unable to reveal exactly how they turned his life around. Dick eventually decides to go for a consultation. He meets with his case officer Victor…
  • How to Avoid Having a Shitty Relationship

    Nick Notas
    26 Sep 2014 | 5:19 am
      We all know about the running joke that romantic relationships are a source of misery. We grew up on shows like Married With Children where Al Bundy hated having to hang out with his wife Peg. We hear friends challenge each other with, “You’re so whipped!” And serious couples give us ominous warnings such as, “Don’t get married.” or “It’s all good now, but wait until the honeymoon is over.” These may make us laugh but they also reinforce that our partners are a burden on our lives. It’s true that maintaining a happy, healthy relationship takes work. But that…
  • You Need to Stop Selling Yourself to Women

    Nick Notas
    18 Sep 2014 | 6:38 am
      No one likes being sold to. When I worked in real estate, I cold called people to pitch them on refinancing their mortgage. Nearly every person who picked up the phone was annoyed. Even when my offer was potentially useful, I struggled to get anyone to hear me out. I had way more people tell me “Fuck off!” than “Oh yes, I’m so happy you called!” It’s because people are turned off by “salesmen”. They envision guys with ill-fitting suits trying to convince them to buy something they don’t want. So where dating is concerned, I tell my clients: “Be the…
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    Marital Affair » Blog

  • 5 Motivations That Fuel a Marital Affair

    9 Oct 2014 | 5:32 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at In today’s modern world, with rumours of high profile celebrity hook-ups and the ability to easily share our own photos with a secret friend, it can often seem like sex, or at the very least some innocent snogging, is on everyone’s mind. With such thoughts in mind, today we’ll be exploring five common reasons why men and women start an affair. For each reason, we’ll look a little bit at the differences between the sexes to better understand what gets everyone ready to dive under…
  • Is There An Optimum Length for an Affair Dating Journey?

    2 Oct 2014 | 9:04 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Affair Dating stories are as individual as the two people involved in them.  Some last for several years, even a lifetime, while others may fizzle out after one night.  Is there an optimum length for an affair?  Should they be long, short, or does it really matter at all?  These are some questions that married partners who are active in affairs outside of the marriage may ask.  The answer is that it depends upon your preferences and several other factors that may be affecting your life. Reasons…
  • Is Your Married Affair Leading to More than Just Sex

    25 Sep 2014 | 6:42 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at You’ve been in an extramarital affair that has been based upon mutual sexual attraction for some time, but something has changed.  For some reason you don’t have the same feelings for your man (if you are having an affair with a married man).  You may wonder what is happening.  Could it be possible that your affair is becoming about more than just sex? There are some tell-tale signs that may signal the sexy romps with your married partner are transforming into a different kind of marital…
  • Smart Phones are changing the Way We Cheat

    18 Sep 2014 | 3:54 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at For those of us who are in the married affair dating game, there are great new advances in technology that are making it easier than ever to connect with people and stay better in touch. It is a fact that smart phones are changing the way that we cheat on our partners. New and improved applications are available that help us maintain a higher level of privacy and keep snooping spouses from tracking our activities through our smart phones. Old cell phone technology vs. increased privacy measures Up…
  • Phubbing on a Date: How to Escape a Mobile Phone Addict

    11 Sep 2014 | 7:43 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Phubbing is the new social snubbing. A newly coined term, it refers to someone who would rather check their mobile phone than have a conversation with you. When this happens on a date the fall out can be fast and furious. When we speak with some of our married affair dating members they make it clear that dating a repeated ‘phubber’ – someone who just can’t leave their phone alone – leads to distrust which can rapidly become disgust! Let’s face it, most of us in the western…
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    Bookish Date

  • The Unspoken Truth About How To Get Girls To Want You

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:20 am
    you have success at approaching women and getting their number, then you may feel like you will be able to succeed with them from that point forward. They are attracted to you, right? They did give you their number and agree to a date, but that doesn’t mean that they want you. You need to impress them and seduce them in order to make them want you. Let’s talk about seven ways how to get girls to want you. #1. Have Female FriendsStudies have shown that when women see other women desiring a guy, they too desire him. While your female friends may not desire you in an intimate type way,…
  • The Ex Recovery System – Get Your Girlfriend Back!

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:09 am
    There is hardly any long term relationships that goes without fights and break ups, but if you are a couple made for each other or if you believe her to be the one, then you are going to come together again, after some conscious effort for a reunion, especially on your part, as girls are privileged to receive loads of attention, or you can also call it the law of nature.If you really want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back then there is every reason to believe that you can resolve the blunder you have committed. Identifying the reasons that have made your girlfriend walk away from you…
  • The Tao of Badass Ebook Review

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Joshua Pellicer is the first to admit that he didn’t understand women at one point. In fact, he will tell you that it is not usually the woman’s fault a guy is rejected; instead, the reason is that guys just don’t understand women. Now, he successfully coaches men in various ways to bring the best out in guys so that they can land the woman they want, and he has even written an eBook. Following are four reasons to read The Tao of Badass eBook written by Josh. #1. Learn Something That Isn’t Taught OftenIn many dating books, various methods are taught on how to ‘play’ a girl and…
  • How To Use Affirmations More Effectively To Help You Attract Ladies

    11 Oct 2014 | 11:53 pm
    Right now, you are saying many affirmations to yourself about your ability to attract women, whether you know it or not. Those affirmations are having a direct influence over your ability to get women.If you are affirming negative things about yourself then you will not be able to attract women easily; however, if you are saying positive things about yourself then you will have much more luck with women.Following are five steps to help you start affirming positive things to yourself that help you attract women.#1. Decide Where Your Strengths AreFirst, you need to focus on the positive traits…
  • 10 Positive Affirmations to Help You Attract Beautiful Women

    11 Oct 2014 | 11:45 pm
    Attracting beautiful women may seem like rocket science to the uninitiated man. If you’ve experienced being turned down by a lady or being passed over for another guy more often than you’d like, don’t despair. Even if you feel like a failure, there’s a way to turn things around. Change your attitude and your mindset through daily positive affirmations. These thoughts train your subconscious mind and in turn, translate to positive physical actions. To start you off, here’s a list of 10 positive affirmations that help you to attract beautiful women. Chant them to yourself daily and…
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  • Why this sugar daddy got into the sugar dating world?

    Sugar Daters
    16 Oct 2014 | 12:57 pm
    Note: This is a contribution post by an anonymous Sugar Daddy. The views are his/her own and may not always reflect Sugar Daters views. It is posted as it is received, not alterations have been made. It is a question I have been trying to answer myself since I began. I continue to refine the answer now about 12 months after exploring the option. As I roll the answers around in my head at times it sounds quite cogent and plausible, whiles sometimes it sounds like I am only justifying my actions. Brief background: I am a single (divorced) man in my mid-forties, living alone with one child in…
  • Announcing Sugardating Diaries

    Sugar Daters
    11 Oct 2014 | 1:03 pm
    It’s only fair to hear about your experience(s) with sugar dating. Sugar Daters would love to hear from all the readers who would like to be a part of our Sugardating Diaries. Every Friday we will post one of your stories or experiences on our blog. All you have to do is remember a few simple rules while writing your post: Sugar dating can be of many different types, intimate or not, we’d like our readers and writers to open their minds and speak from heart. This is not a competition nor a judgment court You don’t have to be a member to submit a post, anyone from anywhere can be a part…
  • 5 quick facts about sugar babes!

    Sugar Daters
    10 Oct 2014 | 2:43 am
    If you’re still wondering why you should sign up as a sugar daddy with us then we can help with some facts about sugar babes: There are more sugar babes than sugar daddies. Actually, far more! – The best of the lot in Scandinavia! Sugar babes have between 3 to 5 photos in their private albums. This allows you to browse more pictures than you can with an incomplete profile Over 25% of all sugar babes are looking abroad. Sugar daddies are thus welcomed on our platform from around the world Over 80% of sugar babes are under 30. Most of them are not looking for a rich sugar daddy,…
  • Sex Toys – It is playtime

    Sugar Daters
    17 Sep 2014 | 2:09 pm
    Sex Toys InfographicSource: Ann Summer’s Website Did you guys think that adults don’t play?  We know you all have been watching this space for some sex talk on our dating blog. Well, here you go then.  Today we will talk about adult fun world – Sex Toys. Sex toys are not unheard of. Just like sugar dating, sex toys are also something people do hide facts about, especially if they engage in “adult fun” ;). At sugar daters, we believe, it is okay to have fun. In fact, if you know how to have good sex and please your date or partner then the whole hoo haa about “Beautiful…
  • Nude Jennifer Lawrence OR Nude Apple iCould?

    Sugar Daters
    9 Sep 2014 | 11:05 am
    Looking at Jennifer Lawrence’s nude pics or stripping iCloud naked had given the world a temporary happiness. Lesson learnt – This world is run by sex and lust… This blog post is written especially to remind everyone that we should have our own stock of permanent happiness just a click away Of course, Sugar Daters have to say something about this recent happening which left a huge number of people stunned with surprise for obvious reasons. People who were wishing to look at Jennifer Lawrence’s revealing pics met by an early Christmas present. People who were wondering if…
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  • Online Dating Part I

    21 Oct 2014 | 11:03 am
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • Jack, Virtual Connection

    21 Oct 2014 | 11:03 am
    Ok, so I know that I have other topics that I should be writing about first: my two first Tinder dates from last week; how I ended up going to the movies with Connor as friends (don't ask); the Mr 'Right Kind of Wrong' who I have already mentioned several times but haven't actually written a proper post about him; etc.But I am going to have my first date with Jack tonight and I wanted to write about him before I actually meet him.So who is Jack and why Jack? Again, I took a name from the same book that inspired the name for Connor. Don't ask me why. The book is nothing special but I found it…
  • TEST II Yep

    21 Oct 2014 | 11:03 am
    Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Aliquam feugiat nulla quis eros vestibulum convallis. Quisque vestibulum quis tellus commodo eleifend. Integer malesuada purus a lacus dignissim, id sollicitudin elit pellentesque. Praesent ipsum elit, vehicula at laoreet vel, porttitor sit amet erat. Praesent efficitur nec ipsum in rhoncus. Cras pellentesque lacus non urna euismod malesuada. Duis in felis at felis cursus iaculis. Nulla ullamcorper ullamcorper magna id lacinia. Mauris fermentum efficitur maximus. Nullam mollis, felis tempus imperdiet cursus, quam elit fringilla leo, sit…
  • Offline Dating Part I (Club)

    21 Oct 2014 | 11:03 am
    Clubs and bars are by far the places where I had met most people during all of my life and where most of my dates originated from. It is just so easy to meet new people there and it worked perfectly fine as a teenager. Nowadays? Not so much...No matter which club I go, it seems like I only attract the attention of the youngsters. Okay, I know, 27 is not exactly old, but seeing how long men take to mature, I do not think I'd be at the same stage in life as a 20 year old kid! And then again, there is so little in common between a girl like me, who practically left everything behind in pursue of…
  • Whatever you do, do not pretend that you like Jazz

    21 Oct 2014 | 11:03 am
    First of all, let me start my first blog post by giving you a clue of how unstable and undecided I am to the point I do not even understand myself: Why is the title of the blog "Ready To Mingle"? Because after a constant string of unsuccessful relationships, (which contributed to me not being able to be single for longer than a month - Yes, I have a problem)  I am surely not "Ready To Mingle",  I am damn "Ready To Be Single"!If there is any expert in matters of subconscious matters of the heart, they might be able to clarify this.So I was reading this book where girl meets…
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  • Helpless Finding Help in the Self-Help?

    19 Oct 2014 | 9:58 pm
    I was in Barnes & Nobles today browsing in the self-help section. I’m sure those of you who have been following me on this journey are thinking, FINALLY! This whole “I Quit Dating” charade is over and this girl is finally going to get back out there. She’s seeking help! And if you thought that, […]
  • Swiping Soulmates – Tinder Tumble: Six Date Stumble Part IV

    18 Oct 2014 | 10:54 am
    Brown hair, Blue eyes…Swipe…Swipe… David, Michael….Swipe..Swipe… All these faces…All these names….All these photos…All these people with their hobbies.. Their friends…Their lives….or at least the part of their lives that they’re comfortable sharing with the world. Partly truth, Partly lies… They share the most perfect part of their lives…. This one has a nice smile. This […]
  • Seeing a Heart in the Dark – Night in West Los Angeles

    17 Oct 2014 | 9:57 am
    Seeing a heart in the dark or two trees talking to each other? Taken by Me / Night in West Los Angeles
  • Tinder Shiver – Tinder Tumble: Six Date Stumble Part III

    15 Oct 2014 | 12:26 pm
    In my last post, I talked about how I was taking control of my romantic fate, jumping in the pool and exploring my options by setting my sites on dating MULTIPLE people in order to compare and contrast them just as the “experts” suggest. I was going to find my match and have fun doing it […]
  • Hoping Floating Hearts

    14 Oct 2014 | 12:02 pm
    When I told my barista about my blog…..xo, J
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