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  • Ashley Madison Courted Several Buyers Before Hack

    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business (Mark Brooks)
    31 Aug 2015 | 2:53 am
    REUTERS - Aug 28 - Ashley Madison has been struggling to sell itself or raise funds for at least three years before the hack, according to internal documents and emails also released by hackers. CEO Noel Biderman was trying to secure a meeting with IAC. "They would be crazy not to speak with us," wrote Biderman in February this year. But one IAC director replied: "They don't want it." The emails also show that Avid Life came close to selling itself at least three times in 2012. See full article at Newsweek See all posts on AshleyMadison Summarized by
  • I Was On A Tinder Date When I Met My Boyfriend

    Dating | YourTango
    26 Aug 2015 | 4:20 pm
    It was the first night of the NBA Finals and I got to a sports bar early to grab a booth for my friends. I was meeting up with one of my best friends and a couple of new friends I had just made the previous weekend. My friends knew some of the other guys at the bar, and I decided to text one of the guys I met on Tinder a couple of weeks before to see if he wanted to join us.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Hinge Survey: Majority Of Dating App Users Want Relationship

    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business (Mark Brooks)
    31 Aug 2015 | 2:46 am
    INDEPENDENT.CO.UK - Aug 29 - The dating app Hinge surveyed its users, and found that only 2% stated that they just wanted casual ‘hook-ups’, whereas 63% were looking for relationships and 33% for dates. This has led them to add a new feature: users can disclose their ‘relationship intentions’ on their profile. by Olivia BlairSee full article at See all posts on Hinge Summarized by
  • Russian-speaking Hackers Breach 97 Websites

    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business (Mark Brooks)
    31 Aug 2015 | 3:12 am
    IDG NEWS - Aug 31 - Russian-speaking hackers have breached 97 sites, mostly dating-related, and stolen login credentials. They don't appear to be selling the data just yet. Many of the sites appear to have database flaws known as SQL injection flaws. by Jeremy KirkSee full article at CIO Summarized by
  • Does Porn Damage Men? A Look at the Lasting, Unspoken Effects

    All Sex, Love & Life
    Caitlin Moscatello
    7 Jul 2015 | 9:45 am
    Going beyond the physical, many experts still feel there may be deeper, less visible effects that porn has on the average man.
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Podcast: Triggered? What’s the Baggage Behind It?, “You complete me”, What To Do When You Bump Into Your Ex When NC

    28 Aug 2015 | 11:11 am
    Thank you so much to everyone who has listened to “The Baggage Reclaim Sessions” podcast and been in touch so far. I’m excited to announce that the second episode is now available. Each week I cover topics around empowering you to discover and reclaim the great you that already exists, offloading excess emotional baggage, and navigating dating, interpersonal relationships and tricky situations. I also feature a listener question plus I share something from that week that has helped me to know and care for me better. Here’s what I cover in episode 2: If they’re not…
  • Shifting from blame to taking responsibility for you

    24 Aug 2015 | 2:15 pm
    One of the things that can prove to be a tricky balancing act is knowing that line between blame and responsibility. Some people think that they’re one and the same thing but blame, which is really a focus on finding fault rather than positive, decisive, growth-led action, is either about being a blame absorber, so taking so-called responsibility for other people’s feelings and behaviour, or about avoiding responsibility by putting not acknowledging our part no matter how small or seeing it as other people’s responsibility to make us feel or act better. When we have…
  • Podcast: Yay! The first episode of “The Baggage Sessions” is live!

    21 Aug 2015 | 1:46 pm
    Jaysus! I feel as if I’ve birthed a child! I am thrilled to announce that I have launched my very own podcast! It’s called “The Baggage Reclaim Sessions” and it’s a weekly podcast where I’ll be sharing inspiration, practices and stories, for living and loving with healthy self-esteem. Em (my husband) has been on my case to do a podcast for ages and combined with guesting on my local radio station each month, I realised that I love gassing away but also that there’s a real need for Baggage Reclaim to have this show. I must admit that launching the…
  • Sometimes we prefer radio silence over vulnerability

    18 Aug 2015 | 1:28 pm
    Some people roll with the You’re either with me or against me attitudeso they have a dangerous expectation that if we are their family member / friend / partner etc, we must always agree with them (even if we don’t) and anything they perceive as criticism can be met with a great deal of hostility and/or radio silence, so we can be chopped from their lives temporarily or permanently and not always know why, or be baffled as to how it escalated to that level or why there was little or no conversation. Even without this attitude, conflict and criticism (C-situations), whether…
  • Acknowledge your blind spots around compatibility

    14 Aug 2015 | 11:49 am
    Have you ever felt as if someone was going to be or do certain things only to be surprised about how far off base you are? While this may have come about due to proclamations and promises on their part, if your hopes and expectations stemmed from your own vision of things, you have an understanding of what it feels like to be caught out by assumptions. It can feel as if you’ve been in your own version of Inception – a dream within a dream within another dream. You can struggle to get a sense of what was real and what was fake. Why can’t they go back to being the person I thought…
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    Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40™

  • Lopsided love

    Dating Goddess
    24 Aug 2015 | 9:48 pm
    Shakespeare popularized the term “unrequited love.” I had no idea how frequently this happens until I started dating after 40. People often ask me, “Why haven’t you found someone?” I say, “I have. Unfortunately, the men I felt were a great match didn’t feel the same. And those who thought I was perfect for them — I didn’t feel it.” I had a few false starts with men where we both seemed equally enamored only to have the relationship fizzle. I’ve learned it’s uncommon for both people to feel similarly attracted. It’s…
  • Is he emotionally abusive?

    Dating Goddess
    29 Jul 2015 | 9:04 am
    She said he has given her a 2-week probation to decide if he wanted to stay or go. This just a week after she learned he had slept with someone else while she was on a business trip. They have been living together for over a year. But he is unhappy because she cramps his player style. He is in his mid-50’s and never married because he likes to sleep around. He told her he’d had over 800 lovers. He wants to go back to that life. He told her although he’d been monogamous up until the trip, it wasn’t his style. He wants her to break up with him — he doesn’t…
  • When your ex dies

    Dating Goddess
    2 Jul 2015 | 9:18 am
    My ex learned he had cancer 2 years ago. Since we didn’t keep in touch, I learned of it a year ago. He did semi-weekly podcasts for a few dozen friends to update them on his health. I listened to the previous 100 podcasts before reaching out via email. He said he was thrilled to hear from me and was stunned that I would listen to all 100 previous podcasts. I’d asked if now we could be friends and he said he’d like nothing better. We exchanged a few emails and he said he’d like to talk about the end of our marriage as he was sure I had some questions — which I…
  • How much mind space does he take?

    Dating Goddess
    19 Jun 2015 | 3:39 pm
    When I’m smitten, or even in the beginning of a budding relationship, I think about the guy a lot. “I wonder how his day is going. Should I text him? “I should ask if he wants to come over for dinner Friday.” “I need to ask him why his marriage broke up.” “I think I’ll ask him to accompany to the party next weekend.” This sort of incessant chatter fills my idle thoughts. I rarely have time to think of my other interests. Since I’m between men now, I’ve noticed how creative I am and how much I get done because I’m thinking…
  • Right man; wrong continent

    Dating Goddess
    22 May 2015 | 11:41 pm
    He was not classically good looking. He had a pronounced nose and craggy face etched from decades of intense work. But his entrancing blue eyes made everything else fade away. He stood straight so his fit 57-year-old body seemed decades younger. And when he looked at you, it felt like he really saw you. He listened and asked intelligent relevant questions. The combination was sexy — my married gal pals felt it too. He was divorced. We met speaking at a conference in Singapore. We spent all our downtime together the next 3 days. I invited him to a small dinner party with some of my pals.
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    All Sex, Love & Life

  • I Transitioned From Female to Male as a Teen. Here's My Story

    Arin Andrews
    6 Aug 2015 | 10:00 am
    Lots of people are confused by me. First I was a girl who liked girls, and then a boy who liked girls, and now—finally—a dude who likes other dudes. I get it—it is kind of confusing. The best way I've heard it explained: Gender is who you want to sleep as, and sexuality is who you want to sleep with. It took me some time to figure out that last part.
  • The Pro-Con Love List

    Jessica Goldstein
    29 Jul 2015 | 9:00 am
    Should you leave him? Marry him? Or—careful!—get back together? Here's what to do when you don't know what to do.
  • The Dos & Don'ts of Real Dating

    Alanis Morissette
    9 Jul 2015 | 6:00 am
    As Jagged Little Pill turns 20, the woman who made a career out of singing about relationships shares everything she's learned.
  • Does Porn Damage Men? A Look at the Lasting, Unspoken Effects

    Caitlin Moscatello
    7 Jul 2015 | 9:45 am
    Going beyond the physical, many experts still feel there may be deeper, less visible effects that porn has on the average man.
  • How to Hack Dating Apps: 5 Tricks From the Cofounder of Tinder

    Whitney Wolfe
    24 Jun 2015 | 7:00 am
    Want to know how to make your profile stand out? I may have a few ideas. (I cofounded Tinder in 2012, and I'm now the founder and CEO of a new dating app, Bumble, so I've got a few secrets up my sleeve.) Here are five insider tricks to help you get that guy of your dreams.
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  • Understand the Wisdom of Your Sleeping Mind

    BITEradio me
    31 Aug 2015 | 1:00 pm
    Dream Interpretation for Beginners: Understand the Wisdom of Your Sleeping Mind with Diane Brandon Decode the wisdom of your dreams to enrich your life and achieve your personal goals. This fantastic book shows you how to use dreams for improved problem-solving, better relationships, creative inspiration, and spiritual growth. Join dream expert Diane Brandon as she explores:  • Types of dreams and common meanings • Dream recall techniques • Precognitive and clairvoyant dreams • Step-by-step instructions for dream interpretation • Dreams for health and healing • Using dreams to…
  • Mindshifter's Radio With Host Dr. Michael and Jeanie Ryce

    Earth Angels Radio
    31 Aug 2015 | 10:00 am
    The Forgiveness Dr., dr. michael and jeanie ryce are the founder and director of HeartLand, a self-healing center in the Ozark mountains. He is a world renowned lecturer and teacher on health and healing, with doctorates in Naturopathic Medicine and in Holistic Philosophy. The focus of his studies has combined bodymind principles, physics and ancient Aramaic studies into a unique body of pioneering work in the fields of self-healing, healing through relationships, anger and grief resolution, world peace and the inner process of Forgiveness. For more information visit
  • A Potential Solution for PFS? Meet Your Guest John Davis

    PFS Global Support
    31 Aug 2015 | 9:59 am
    Mr. John Davis was your typical Post Finasteride Syndrome (PFS) case.  He lost his job, went into severe depression and had many of the symptoms PFS men are used to having. After talking to John, he has told me and many others suffering, how he has relieved many of his symptoms thru trial and error.  We'll be discussing what he did and what you can do to help alleviate some of the symptoms of PFS. *PLEASE NOTE: The guest nor the host are medical professionals.  Any methods or advice given by us is not medical advice.  Please consult your Doctor or medical professional for any medical…
  • The Power of the Spoken -- and Unspoken -- Word: Communication for Your Life

    Life Coach Chat Channel
    31 Aug 2015 | 9:00 am
    We've been doing it all of our lives. Some of us started at a younger age than others, but regardless of our backgrounds everyone communicates in one form or another. When it comes right down to it, life is about relationships and relationships are based on communication -- or even the lack of it. Join my esteemed co-hosts and me as we define, dissect and demystify the power of the spoken and unspoken word and how you can use it to transform any situation. Danica Trebel is a Perspective & Family Dynamics Coach who knows first-hand the power of the spoken and unspoken word. It was…
  • Are You Excuse Laden? How to Tell and What to Do About it!

    What If You Just Imagine
    31 Aug 2015 | 9:00 am
    Today's incredible show is teaching you how to eliminate the excuses.  Mary and Janice will teach how to step out from behind the excuses and move into the flow of your life.    Stay tuned for this week's surprise at the end of the show. This show is to assist you with your spiritual development and journey. Our vision is to assist you with your life's journey.  The vision of this show is to help you make the changes you would like to have with ease and grace, to create a more fulfilling happier life.  Janice is a transformational coach helping your life Beyond YOUR Bliss and a…
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • iDate Is Back In Miami - January 25 - 27, 2016 (Mark Brooks)
    2 Sep 2015 | 2:06 pm
    OPW - Aug 27 - The 43rd annual Internet Dating Conference (iDate) will be held in Miami at the Kovens Conference Center and the official hotel for the event is the Deauville Beach Resort ($150/night). We recommend booking the hotel now as the rates will go up. There will be a complimentary transfer from the hotel to the conference center. A keynote speaker is Kelly Steckelberg, CEO of Zoosk. Post by
  • Russian-speaking Hackers Breach 97 Websites (Mark Brooks)
    31 Aug 2015 | 3:12 am
    IDG NEWS - Aug 31 - Russian-speaking hackers have breached 97 sites, mostly dating-related, and stolen login credentials. They don't appear to be selling the data just yet. Many of the sites appear to have database flaws known as SQL injection flaws. by Jeremy KirkSee full article at CIO Summarized by
  • Parship And ElitePartner Will Remain Independent For Now (Mark Brooks)
    31 Aug 2015 | 3:00 am
    DIE WELT - Aug 30 - Parship and ElitePartner, two German dating sites that were bought by Oakley Capital, won't be merged. "We will see later how the companies can work together. Our intention is to maintain both brands and to sharpen their profile," said Parship CEO Tim Schiffers. by Birger NicolaiSee full article at Die Welt See all posts on ElitePartnerSee all posts on Parship Summarized by
  • Ashley Madison Courted Several Buyers Before Hack (Mark Brooks)
    31 Aug 2015 | 2:53 am
    REUTERS - Aug 28 - Ashley Madison has been struggling to sell itself or raise funds for at least three years before the hack, according to internal documents and emails also released by hackers. CEO Noel Biderman was trying to secure a meeting with IAC. "They would be crazy not to speak with us," wrote Biderman in February this year. But one IAC director replied: "They don't want it." The emails also show that Avid Life came close to selling itself at least three times in 2012. See full article at Newsweek See all posts on AshleyMadison Summarized by
  • Hinge Survey: Majority Of Dating App Users Want Relationship (Mark Brooks)
    31 Aug 2015 | 2:46 am
    INDEPENDENT.CO.UK - Aug 29 - The dating app Hinge surveyed its users, and found that only 2% stated that they just wanted casual ‘hook-ups’, whereas 63% were looking for relationships and 33% for dates. This has led them to add a new feature: users can disclose their ‘relationship intentions’ on their profile. by Olivia BlairSee full article at See all posts on Hinge Summarized by
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  • She wants to get a drink, I've never been drinking. Help?

    Demetrius - Tao of Indifference
    31 Aug 2015 | 9:32 am
    abeltbuckle asks: So I’m reconnecting with a friend I made awhile back and, while it’s clear enough we both share a common interest in each other, I don’t have a lot of dating experience and no experience drinking socially. I’ve only actual drank with friends over some group Skype calls over a few weekends. She is a more sociable sort than me and honestly prolly knows what she’s doing a good deal more than me. Questions: Where can a couple go for a first date out to get a drink? What can I expect having never stepped foot in a bar or anywhere else that has…
  • 7 Rules To Live By For A Better Life

    James Michael Sama
    29 Aug 2015 | 11:27 am
    As I sit here to write this, the first article produced in my new apartment, I look around and refle
  • Podcast Ep.51: Is Ghosting ever okay?

    Demetrius - Tao of Indifference
    29 Aug 2015 | 11:21 am
    Welcome back listeners! Thanks for checking in with us, we’ve got a fun episode for you today. We’re talking about Ghosting. Ghosting is a hot topic these days and we wanted to tackle it. Many daters have been Ghosted, many daters have Ghosted, and the NY Times even wrote an article about Ghosting after Charlize Theron Ghosted her then boyfriend Sean Penn. Since it’s at the forefront of modern dating, we wanted to sit down and talk about ghosting. Is it ever okay to Ghost, have we ever Ghosted, when is it never okay to Ghost, we really wanted to tackle the topic from all…
  • Is online dating the Christian way?

    28 Aug 2015 | 9:30 pm
    Since breaking up with my ex earlier this year I’ve had numerous people attempt to set me up w
  • Why Jess From "New Girl" is Your Role Model

    Hannah Elaine
    28 Aug 2015 | 8:51 am
    If you know me, then you know I love to watch the show New Girl (maybe a little too much!). When I’m having a bad day, there’s nothing that can cheer me up like watching an episode. When things aren’t really going my way, I can’t help but wish that I could be more like Zooey Deschanel’s character, Jess, the show’s main character. Here a just a few reasons why Jess is my role model and why she’s your’s, too! 1. She finds good in a bad situation There was an episode where Jess was let go from her job as a teacher. Of course, she was sad that she lost her job of doing something…
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  • 3 Reasons Why I’m Happy I Went Through the Pain of My Breakup

    Eddie Corbano
    18 Aug 2015 | 3:30 am
    When we decide to start our recovery after a breakup – and this has to be a conscious decision – we are often faced with the frightening prospect of pain and suffering. It then helps to remind ourselves of WHAT we really want to accomplish. When I look back at my personal recovery journey, there […]
  • Why My Relationship Failed… And What You Can Learn From It Today

    Eddie Corbano
    17 Mar 2015 | 4:30 am
    The reasons for a relationship ending are not always obvious to the one who was left alone. One of the true benefits of break-up recovery is that we discover what went wrong, and are able to learn from these mistakes. When I got to the point where I was aware of what led to our […]
  • How To Turn Your Painful Break-Up Into A Victory

    Eddie Corbano
    25 Nov 2014 | 3:30 am
    A break-up is usually followed by pain – if you cared, there’s no way around it. But it doesn’t have to stay this way. You have the choice to turn this around and make your break-up the best thing that ever happened to you – a success. Something that changed your life profoundly. As I […]
  • 5 Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love

    Eddie Corbano
    16 Sep 2014 | 3:30 am
    Why do people suddenly fall out of love and how is that even possible? Isn’t real love supposed to be eternal? What first seems so unimaginable for those left behind after a breakup, becomes bitter reality. People do fall out of love and there are 5 main reasons they do so. Please read on to […]
  • The Need For Revenge On Your Ex: How To Use It To Fuel Your Recovery

    Eddie Corbano
    24 Jun 2014 | 3:30 am
    Revenge on your Ex. That’s what you want when you start your recovery. No matter how, we want them to feel our pain. While taking revenge might help us short-term, the anger must be resolved in healthy ways… ways that profit us and don’t do us harm. There are many ways to do this, but […]
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    Dating | YourTango

  • Time To Lose The Story

    28 Aug 2015 | 2:12 am
    I go to this place called Cryro Healthcare in Los Angeles, Google it. I’m sure you'd get a kick out of it. It gives you the chance to stand in a tank at 251 degrees below zero. It’s one of the coolest (literally) feelings I’ve ever had. In fact, if I were ever franchising something it would be this. I think it’s going to be the rage because health-wise, I’ve never felt better. My aches and pains have gone, and I’m no longer stiff.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • The Fail-Proof Way To Tell If A Guy REALLY Likes You

    27 Aug 2015 | 4:29 pm
    WeHeartIt Curious how to know if a guy likes you? TRULY likes you? Here is the ONE super simple way to gauge is true interest without leaving ANY doubt. Keywords: how to tell if a guy likes you, men, how to find a boyfriend, how to find a husband, dating advice, how to find the one, finding a man, find true loveBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 4 New Studies Which Make Online Dating Easier

    Blue Sullivan
    27 Aug 2015 | 12:32 pm
    I have already spoken about the wonderful potential of online dating here twice before (see links below). It’s how I found my amazing girlfriend (shout out-out to Stacie Pink!).  It’s worth noting that it took me over a year to find the right person this way, but in my life, I’ve gone through a lot longer periods seeking someone the “normal” way, too.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Ashley Madison Isn't The Only Dating Site Using Fake Profiles

    27 Aug 2015 | 7:15 am
    WeHeartIt Ashley Madison is only one of MANY dating sites using fake profiles. The truth is — dating sites don't want you to find love. And THIS is why ... Keywords: Ashley Madison, dating profile, dating sites, fake dating profile, dating websites, online dating websites, finding love online, fake profiles, cheating, Cheating Online internet infidelity affairs, adulteryBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • I Was On A Tinder Date When I Met My Boyfriend

    26 Aug 2015 | 4:20 pm
    It was the first night of the NBA Finals and I got to a sports bar early to grab a booth for my friends. I was meeting up with one of my best friends and a couple of new friends I had just made the previous weekend. My friends knew some of the other guys at the bar, and I decided to text one of the guys I met on Tinder a couple of weeks before to see if he wanted to join us.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
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    Vanae: Dating Coach / Social Skills / Empowerment

  • The Power of Feedback

    27 Aug 2015 | 11:31 pm
    When I was in my early 20’s, my sister and then-best friend did a ”self-centered intervention” with me. Basically, called me out specifically for things I did: leaving them in conversation or leaving them behind when I saw a cute boy. Mistakes. I was, you know, young and immature. I …
  • What you need to know about traveling in Italy

    13 Nov 2014 | 6:49 pm
    Traveling tips that you probably won’t read in the books. Travel is one of my greatest passions. I recently embarked on a 3 week adventure, traveling alone through Italy first for 10 days then onwards to Eastern Europe and Tokyo. Thanks to the Priceline Glitch, I was able to book a flight …
  • feature: Lean Dating workshop

    28 Sep 2014 | 5:29 pm
    Feeling thankful for Laura Montini from’s writeup of my Lean Dating workshop in San Francisco.  I love doing workshops and it was such a fun time! Below is her article: Love Lessons from the Lean Dating Method If Silicon Valley engineers and executives can use the Lean Startup method to …
  • What I Learned From Standing Still

    27 Feb 2014 | 8:14 am
    For the past few weeks, I’ve been on a journey of self-love and reflecting on my growth from it. It’s been incredible. Healing, emotional, grand and lovely. Here, I’m sharing with you what I learned from standing still. The greatest gift i ever gave myself was this self-love journey and …
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    Online Dating Insider

  • Tinder Invented Sex, Goes Insane
    12 Aug 2015 | 12:56 pm
    Longtime dating expert Julie Spira wrote a piece onHuffPoabout a Vanity Fair article,  Tinder and the Dawn of “Dating Apocalypse.”. Update: Tinder just lost its mind on Twitter over a Vanity Fair story. Grab the popcorn, this is going to be good. I couldn’t even bring myself to finish the VF article. Story after story about relationship-challenged New Yorkers. Men in New York treat women terribly and brag about it in Vanity Fair. Wow, you don’t say? The VF article is a retread of a topic that’s been beaten to death by the media and dating bloggers for almost two…
  • Why Bots Like Dating Sites
    24 Jul 2015 | 11:09 am
    Dating services employ any number of  anti-fraud solutions. Over the years I’ve seen registered devices (doesn’t work), geo-IP lookups and all sorts of home-brewed solutions. Are You Human is a technology used to fight bots, which supposedly account for 2/3’s of most dating site traffic. Back in the day, Markus at POF told me that something like 75% (I think?) of their code base was focused on anti-fraud measures. That blew me away. The humans at Are You Human say: Instead of searching for bots, which evolve in a matter of days, “Are You Human” finds and verifies…
  • Is The End Of Ashley Madison Near?
    21 Jul 2015 | 9:33 am
    Cheater dating site Ashley Madison has been hacked by someone who worked there in the past in a technical capacity. The person was upset that AM was charging people to remove their profiles completely. Instead of doing what everyone else supposedly does, AM charged $17 for what amounts to running an SQL database query to remove all traces of a user from their system. And that was complete BS. The hacker states: “Full Delete netted ALM $1.7mm in revenue in 2014. It’s also a complete lie,” the hacking group wrote. “Users almost always pay with credit card; their purchase details are not…
  • Plentyoffish 2006 Canadian National TV Interview
    17 Jul 2015 | 10:39 am
    Fun look at POF from the early days. In 2006 POF served up 600M pageviews each month, earning $10,000 a day. LOL@ 1:58. The video owner has a video showing the new Match Mobile circa 2007. Plentyoffish 2006 Canadian National TV Interview was written By David Evans %BLOGDESCLINK%%
  • The Match Group to Acquire POF (PlentyOfFish)
    14 Jul 2015 | 2:21 pm
    Sam Yagan, CEO of The Match Group, David Evans, Online Dating Insider, and Markus Frind, founder of POF   The Match Group, the global operator of digital dating products such as Match, Tinder, OkCupid and Meetic, and a subsidiary of IAC, announced today that it has entered into a definitive agreement to purchase PlentyOfFish for US$575 million in cash. I wrote Be Plenty Scared of Plenty Of Fish in 2oo5 and again in an Inc. Magazine article, And the Money Comes Rolling In. POF founder Markus Frind stands to make around $525 million on the deal. This is an extraordinary move for Match.
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  • What time is it? It’s SANTA SHOEBOX time!

    31 Aug 2015 | 12:16 am
    Can you believe that it is Santa Shoebox time already??? When pledging opens it is downhill until Christmas!! Pledging opens tomorrow people – 1 September. For those of you new to these parts, I have been involved with this awesome project for 4 years, this is my third year on the committee. It is a great initiative that does some amazing work.  The short version of the project – you select a child when pledging opens on 1 September, you put the box together (a list of all the goodies you need is supplied), you drop the box off on drop off day and then we, as the committee,…
  • How to build your child’s self-esteem

    28 Aug 2015 | 12:25 am
    Self-esteem is made up primarily of two things: feeling lovable and feeling capable. Jack Canfield. Raising a child with a healthy self-esteem is so important but often something we do overlook because we are so focused on then reaching milestones, getting homework done and making sure they are happy. One of the easiest ways to raise children with a healthy self-esteem is to make sure we, as their parents, have a healthy self-esteem, but there are  few other ways to build your child’s self-esteem. Love without condition. We probably all do love our children unconditionally but…
  • DIY – How to paint glass jars

    27 Aug 2015 | 3:37 am
    I saw this on Pinterest and have been wanting to try it for ages. I eventually got around to it last week and I am so chuffed with how they came out.  It was obviously not as simple as Pinterest made it look but still a pretty quick and easy project to do. What do you need   Glass jars/bottles Paint – I just used paint I already had but I think next time I will buy craft paint. Newspaper How do you do it Make sure your jars are clean and dry.  Pour a little bit of paint into each jar. You may need to add more, depending on the size of the jar. Tip the jar upside down and…
  • 5 Things you should consider before becoming a stay-at-home-mom

    26 Aug 2015 | 4:19 am
    The decision to become a stay at home mom is not one that should ever be taken lightly. It is a life changing decision that has far reaching effects for your you, your partner, your relationship and your children. I sort of ended up here when our plans didn’t work out as we would have liked, it is not always easy but it works for our family. Every parent, working or not, wants to spend more time with their children but there are a few more things you need to consider before making the decision to stop working. Is your husband on board! Becoming a SAHM is going to change the dynamic of…
  • Quick Apple Crumble

    25 Aug 2015 | 12:05 am
    On the days I weigh-in I generally give myself a little treat so yesterday I decided to make us an Apple Crumble for dinner. This is the first time I have used the food processor and it worked so well, super quick and easy and I didn’t have to suffer my way through my sensory issues but rubbing the butter into the flour. It really is one of the quickest but yummiest recipes you can make and is a winner with everyone (except my fussy eaters) Save Print Quick Apple Crumble Author: Laura Recipe type: Dessert Prep time:  10 mins Cook time:  35 mins Total time:  45…
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  • NetFlix And Chilling Tells A Small Story In The Book Of Dating

    27 Aug 2015 | 8:25 am
    We are in 2015 and the world is as trendy as it has ever been. Everything seems to trend. The creation of memes and starter packs trend. The increase of people wearing joggers trend. The amount of grown men wearing wigs to impersonate women trends!! That’s who we are right now. Another trendy activity that has now taken the center stage is “Netflix and chill” sessions. Netflix and chilling isn’t new to me (or any of us millennials for that matter). I was fortunate to live on campus as an undergrad and Netflix and chilling was your go to Kyrie to the basket move many…
  • My Curiosity With A Single Mother Who Is Dating

    20 Aug 2015 | 9:32 am
    Yes yes! It’s really me and I’ve missed you way more than you have missed me. But if you’ve missed me more I won’t complain. There are some things on my mind lately. Single mothers who actively date is a subject I don’t see enough written on. I have a fascination with the topic because I think there are two schools of philosophies on it. From my experiences with talking to some single moms, either nothing really changes in how you choose to date men, or whomever you choose to date is taken a lot more seriously. Once I made this distinction, I began to wonder…
  • Play Your Role: Should Men Wake Up With Crying Babies?

    Keita Wheats
    19 Aug 2015 | 8:39 am
    Last week I had a conversation with a friend of mine. He was venting to me about his marriage and shared an argument that he was having with his wife. I’m friends with both of them, so I knew he trusted me to have a non biased opinion. When he began his story, I listened. I made it a point not to respond right away, and I hoped that my opinion wouldn’t cause any more damage. Here we go. My guy friend works. He actually works two jobs. His wife is a stay at home mom. They also have 3 small children. If you need to read that again, feel free. Having small children, as in babies, we know…
  • Fair or Foul: Mike Epps makes me wonder, When does flirting become cheating?

    Dr. J
    18 Aug 2015 | 10:05 am
    Sup fam, I know y’all don’t hear from me that much and I apologize. I’m working on getting my thoughts out there more frequently. I hope the contributions from other writers on the blog have held y’all down. I wish I could write everyday… but the way my job is setup is I got a blog and job. Nonetheless, quick post today and I wanted to get the thoughts of the group on when exactly does cheating occur. I’m not sure if you all were able to see but Mike Epps got caught cheating on his wife on Twitter… allegedly. I say, “allegedly” because…
  • No But Seriously, I Think I’m Picking the Dallas Cowboys for the Super Bowl :-/

    Joe Sargent
    17 Aug 2015 | 9:34 pm
    I teased this last week, but it’s officially time to come clean: I think the Dallas Cowboys will do well this season. Like…really well. *dons flame suit* As a Detroit Lions fan, I’m well aware of how stupid it is to put your faith in a team that will surely let you down. When the Cowboys and Lions faced off in the playoffs last year, I knew something stupid would happen. Turns out I was right. So how will Dallas come back after a 12-4 season with a playoff victory? Dare I say it…Dallas could make the NFC Championship game and possibly (gulp) the Super Bowl? I know! Sounds weird to…
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  • Dosti SMS In Hindi

    Heeren Tanna
    19 Aug 2015 | 12:31 am
    Khushi Itni Ho Ki Aap Dikha Sako,Gum Bas Itna Ho Ki Aap Chupa Sako,Zindagi Me 1 Dost Aisa Rakna,Jiske Liye Aap Mood Off Me Bhi Muskura SakoThe post Dosti SMS In Hindi appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Neha Ke Nyare Nyare SMS

    18 Aug 2015 | 6:24 pm
    Waqt ke daayre se ham nikal na jaaye,Aapke dil se kahi ham utar na jaaye,Ham roj aapko yaad dilaya karenge,Varna kahi aap hame bhool na jaayeThe post Neha Ke Nyare Nyare SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Dil Se..

    18 Aug 2015 | 12:08 pm
    Dur rehkar kareeb rehne ki aadat hai,yaad bankar aankho se behne ki aadat hai,kareeb na hote hue bhi kareeb paoge,mujhe ehsaas bankar rehne ki aadat hai.Jinke liye hum yaha khud ko jala rahe hai,woh dur humse kahi khushiyan mana rahe hai,jinki judai hamare jaan pe aayi,wo apni zindagi saja rahe hai.The post Dil Se.. appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Yeh Ishq Hi Hai Shayad…..

    18 Aug 2015 | 6:01 am
    Yeh Ishq Hi Hai Shayad Kai Haste Haste Ankhoun Se, Ansu Chalak Se Jate Hain, Jitna Tumhai Bhulate Hain,Tum Or Yaad Aate Ho, Tum Or Hamein Satate Ho, Mera Dil Kai Khamosh Samandar Ko Tum Bekarar Kar Jate Ho,Dor Kharay Jese Mere Ghamoun Pe Muskurate Ho, Nazar Se Ghayab Ho Lekin As Pas Nazar Bhi Aate Ho.The post Yeh Ishq Hi Hai Shayad….. appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Neha Ke Nyare Nyare SMS

    17 Aug 2015 | 11:53 pm
    Aaj raat pe noor haiThe post Neha Ke Nyare Nyare SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
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    Online Dating Guide

  • How Do Algorithms Work & How Do They Influence Us?

    11 Aug 2015 | 10:02 pm
    View image | Online dating websites have designed algorithms that serve to connect singles based on their compatibility. Each programme holds claim that the technology behind the algorithm is intelligent, innovative and accurate. They are uniquely developed by the hosting company and operate with some variances when compared to one another, though the general technologies at work and meaningful data are relatively the same. How do online dating algorithms work? When we explore the function of online dating algorithms, we discover there are several layers operating at once.
  • Monogamy, Polyamory & Online Dating

    3 Aug 2015 | 10:41 pm
    View image | Monogamy signifies a style of relationship whereby two people are exclusive with one another. This may refer to marital monogamy which means an individual has one mate throughout his or her lifetime. Monogamy may also refer to serial monogamy which is a term that encapsulates individuals who date one person exclusively several times in their life, i.e., having two or more serious relationships throughout their life in which they are exclusive.. Polyamory is a term that means ‘many loves.’ It may form into a variety of relationship styles that allow for the…
  • eHarmony Free Weekend, July 2015

    16 Jul 2015 | 9:18 pm
    eHarmony is running a free weekend promotion beginning at midnight Friday July 16th and running through the end of Monday July 20th. This actually gives you four full days to try the service which is a great opportunity if you’ve been thinking about trying it but weren’t ready to take the plunge. eHarmony often runs these promotions over holiday weekends, in this case just think of it as a post-4th of July surprise (however the promo is good for our Canadian readers as well!). If you’re wondering how eHarmony compares to the other services out there, check out our article…
  • Should I Tell Anyone I am Giving Online Dating a Try?

    14 Jul 2015 | 8:00 pm
    First things first: there is nothing you should do aside from what you are ready for. Telling people you are giving online dating a try really is not a huge deal, rather it is an opportunity to express, to share and in turn receive feedback and support. If you remain stuck in what to do, however, then let us break it down together. What would I gain? Being open about the existence and tales of your online dating adventures creates the potentiality for new opportunities. While actively seeking romance, it helps to keep as many doors open so that your future partner may come into your life.
  • Are You Ready For a Relationship?

    28 Jun 2015 | 8:30 pm
    Before you jump online and start filling out a dating profile and joyfully browsing the singles in your area, it would be wise to take a moment to assess your readiness to enter into the world of dating. It is not uncommon for people to jump blindfolded into a relationship they are not truly ready for, nor is it uncommon for people to connect with someone who is not currently capable of offering all that a relationship requires. In both cases, both people get hurt when the romantic connection faces challenges. Relationships are not meant to be the source of our love and good health, rather a…
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • Free ebook on How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs

    24 Aug 2015 | 6:46 pm
     At Last! This Amazing New ebook Shows You ExactlyHow to Score with Women at Nightclubs...Do you stand on the sidelines at nightclubs watching other men meet and pick up women? Have you ever been at a nightclub and seen a beautiful woman that you were dying to approach but you couldn't get up the courage? Do you continually strike out with women? Are you shy and don't know what to say to women in nightclubs? Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert) has written a new ebook called, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs" that will help you overcome these problems and you'll be meeting…
  • Awesome Dating Tips for Men

    8 Aug 2015 | 2:54 pm
    TIP #1 - How many times should you ask a girl out for a date before you give up? A friend of ours told us that he would ask a girl three times before he would give up. Why he arbitrarily picked three, we don't know. Probably because in baseball you get three strikes before you are out.Our rule of thumb is once. If she legitimately has other plans and wants to do something with you, she will communicate this. "Oh, I'd love to, but I just can't. I can make it some other time..." If she is uninterested, she will make herself unavailable. In this case, drop it. You only make matters worse…
  • How to Get Women Romantically Attracted to You

    31 Jul 2015 | 7:40 pm
    The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In return, she will feel that you are also special and unique.So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so exotic I can't explain it.
  • Be Sure and Mention That You Have Kids in a Personal Ad

    23 Jul 2015 | 8:59 pm
    When it comes to placing or answering a personal ad I don't think that there is an advantage or disadvantage to having or not having children. Some people, even those without children, prefer to date people who have children. Some people are neutral. Others would never consider dating someone with children.If you have children, you should mention that fact and the relevant details as early as possible. If the fact that you do or do not have children matters to someone else, you might as well find out as soon as possible. If you are placing an ad, I think that you should state in the…
  • How to Use Body Language to Attract Women

    15 Jul 2015 | 6:42 pm
    How to Use Body Language to Attract Women        Step by step I  will  guide  you  in  the  usage of successful body language using the following methods:1. Develop a graceful,  arrogant sort of walk.  A walk that is free and easy with fluid  movements. This kind of walk  transmits a sexual message  which will turn a woman's head.2. When  leaning against  a wall  or whatever,  thrust your hips forward, with your legs apart. This position also transmits a sexual message.3. While…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • The Most Wonderful and Marvelous spell caster on Earth

    24 Aug 2015 | 8:16 pm
    New Answer - When your spouse is having an affair, your world becomes a confusing, scary place full of hurt, shame, and anger. You will wonder why this has happened and what action(s) to take. The question of what to do when you learn your spouse is having an affair will have a different answer at different times and under different circumstances. What you should do in your specific situation might be a lot different from what someone else should consider doing, but in most cases, it starts by deciding what you really want to take place, and why you want the answer. If you have decided to…
  • How i got my spouse back with the help of the only real spell caster

    24 Aug 2015 | 8:09 pm
    New Opinion - When your spouse is having an affair, your world becomes a confusing, scary place full of hurt, shame, and anger. You will wonder why this has happened and what action(s) to take. The question of what to do when you learn your spouse is having an affair will have a different answer at different times and under different circumstances. What you should do in your specific situation might be a lot different from what someone else should consider doing, but in most cases, it starts by deciding what you really want to take place, and why you want the answer. If you have decided to…
  • Your spell casting are real and powerful

    24 Aug 2015 | 8:07 pm
    New Question - I have seen a lot of testimony about his work on the the internet on blog pages and so on. I literally took a lip of faith to contact him and it turn out that it paid off. In my own case i didn't ask that him to make anyone fall in love with me or ask that my cheating wife comes back.This time i was at fault i messed up. I wasn't so surprise when she asked that we go our separate ways. It was right about that time i asked Akpe Osilama help me get my wife to love as she did before. I was able to provide the items he asked that i get for the spell and send then down to him.The…
  • How I Got Back My Lover with the help of a powerful spell caster(

    24 Aug 2015 | 9:31 am
    New Question - Hello My name is Kathie Sherine, Am from USA, Texas. and I am very happy for posting on this blog on how a great spell caster helped me in bringing back the love of my life. I know there are lots of women like me out there who have done so much to have back their Husband, I am here to tell you all to search no further because the answer is right here. I sincerely believe if there are up to five spell casters like Dr Eboehi this world would be a better place, I have seen people complaining on how fake spell castes promised to help them but couldn't but with Dr Eboehi I tell you…
  • How Dr Eboehi The Great Spell Caster help Bring Back My Ex Lover: Husband

    24 Aug 2015 | 9:29 am
    New Answer - Hello My name is Kathie Sherine, Am from USA, Texas. and I am very happy for posting on this blog on how a great spell caster helped me in bringing back the love of my life. I know there are lots of women like me out there who have done so much to have back their Husband, I am here to tell you all to search no further because the answer is right here. I sincerely believe if there are up to five spell casters like Dr Eboehi this world would be a better place, I have seen people complaining on how fake spell castes promised to help them but couldn't but with Dr Eboehi I tell you…
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    Top UK Dating Sites - Online Dating Site Reviews 2011, 2012, 2013

  • Online Dating Industry Facts 2015

    10 Aug 2015 | 4:22 am
    Online dating can be either one of the most stressful activities you can take part in or it can be one of the most entertaining, depending on each individual’s situation. For those people with an outgoing personality, meeting strangers online for dating will probably be quite exciting. On the other hand, shy people will likely […]
  • Infographic: TOP 10 UK Adult Dating Websites

    james idoko
    28 Mar 2013 | 7:51 am
    The infographic below illustrates the TOP 10 most popular adult dating websites founded online with active members based in United Kingdom. You can get the facts about UK adult dating websites and how effective they are. Check it out and see how they work.  
  • Top Dating Sites for Easter 2013

    james idoko
    8 Mar 2013 | 2:55 am
      As Easter is fast approaching and many couples are prepared for the inevitable festivities, it sometimes helps to use websites that will help your dating methods. These top dating sites for Easter 2013 aren’t just for couples either. Typically, Easter is a time of religious celebration but nowadays it’s generally a great time to […]
  • Online Dating Profile Explained

    james idoko
    21 Feb 2013 | 11:06 am
      An online dating profile is really the only thing that you have to tell people about yourself. It will showcase who you are, what you are about, what you are looking for, your interests and others. It is the single most important thing when it comes to your dating online experience. Your online profile […]
  • Why It Is More Difficult for Men to Find Love

    james idoko
    13 Feb 2013 | 9:01 am
      Love has always been elusive but more so for men. The reason behind this is no secret. True love is rare for men plainly because most of them neither know nor care about it in the first place. However, there will come a point in a man’s life when they’ll get sick of sowing […]
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    Sugar, Spice and a Little Advice

  • Quote of the Day

    27 Aug 2015 | 8:55 am
    When bitterness seems to be the only choice, choose joy. When darkness is closing in, BE the light. Don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t rise from whatever is holding you down, including yourself.
  • I Have a Healthy Sex Drive and I’m Not Ashamed of It

    16 Aug 2015 | 6:04 pm
    I’ve always been fascinated with sex from a fairly early age. I basically inhaled romance novels growing up through my high school years fantasizing what it would be like to have someone who wanted me so much that they wanted to see me naked. Amazing! I pretty much knew the mechanics of it but was holding on with a tightly clenched fist to my girlish need for everything around my “first time” to be perfect. I wanted to have my first time to be with a guy I was madly in love with who would make sure everything about that time was perfect, just like in the books. I held onto this up to…
  • Quote of the Day

    14 Aug 2015 | 2:41 pm
    Everyone should experience a moment of randomness. Let your mind open and just go with it.
  • Quote of the Day

    13 Aug 2015 | 6:55 pm
    I look in the past to gain perspective. I meditate on the present to decide my future. I walk in both to sketch the road map.
  • The Seven Deadly Sins of Relationships

    8 Aug 2015 | 4:27 pm
    For those that have been following me for some time might notice that I started this topic a couple of years ago but never finished part three. I finally got into a rhythm on writing this week and have finished what I started. Here’s “Seven Deadly Sins of Relationships” in its entirety. Read, comment and share!! There is definitely an argument for the well-known “seven deadly sins” to also apply to relationships. Do you find yourself being guilty of one or more of the deadly sins in YOUR relationship? Wrath- We’ve all heard at one time or another: “Don’t let the…
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    The Art of Charm | Confidence | Relationship & Dating Advice | Biohacking | Productivity

  • 439: Robert Patrick Lewis | Green Beret MBA

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    31 Aug 2015 | 1:00 am
    Discover how lessons learned by a special forces veteran can be applied to the worlds of business, finance, strategy, and marketing. "It's not survival of the fittest; it's survival of the most adaptable." -Robert Patrick Lewis The Cheat Sheet: The worst time to plan for an emergency is after it's already happened. Understand the importance of teamwork, but be prepared to rely on your own strengths and adapt to a situation for those times when teamwork falls through. How much could you write if you never had writer's block? Why is there a disconnect between veterans and the HR departments of…
  • BONUS: Hal Elrod | Beyond the Bestseller

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    29 Aug 2015 | 1:00 am
    If you want to write a book that creates a movement, earns you a fortune, and changes the world, you need to think beyond the bestseller. "The best time to start was yesterday; the next-best time to start is today." -Hal Elrod The Cheat Sheet: What's the difference between a book that enjoys momentary success as a bestseller and one that endures to influence people for years to come? What's the number one nugget of advice that can make this difference for the aspiring author? How can you build a 'pay it forward' element into your content? What is the most convenient way to assemble your…
  • Fan Mail Friday #25 | Why the Frat Hate, Bro?

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    28 Aug 2015 | 1:00 am
    Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #25! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend! In this episode: You can't hold a whole fraternity responsible for the behavior of a few sick, twisted individuals. Find out what happened when George followed our advice about lending money to an irresponsible sibling. You won't miss with the Swiss if you listen to this. Solid work experience now makes bad grades of the past matter less. How can you hang with the wolves and not the runts? Show notes at…
  • 438: Chester Santos | International Man of Memory

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    26 Aug 2015 | 1:00 am
    Think you have a lousy time remembering things? You're probably not giving your brain enough credit. According to this expert, it's never too late to expand your capacity for memory. "Definitely everyone can dramatically improve their memory from where it currently is with the right training and practice." -Chester Santos The Cheat Sheet: Even the worst memory can be improved dramatically -- at any age. Learn how you can (and why you should) give speeches and presentations without any notes. What forgotten (and practical) skill can help you spark the powers of recollection? Use all your…
  • 437: Rick Hanson | Taking in the Good

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    24 Aug 2015 | 1:00 am
    Self-doubt is normal, but it can be overwritten. Harness the innate ability of the confident brain to grow and learn over time to change your life for the better. "The brain is velcro for the bad and teflon for the good." -Rick Hanson The Cheat Sheet: What's the difference between a neuropsychologist and a run-of-the-mill psychologist? Did you know you have a lizard, a mouse, and a monkey inside of your skull? Evolutionary psychology tells us the brain is velcro for the bad and teflon for the good. How can we overcome this negativity bias? From state to trait: how to encode beneficial…
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    Blog with Benefits

  • 5 Things to Consider Before Moving in Together

    Jessica Druck
    24 Aug 2015 | 7:57 am
    Thinking about moving in with your SO? Wait, stop right there. Drop the packing tape and sit down.Now, I'm a firm believer in the "when you know, you know," theory, and I think everyone's relationships are different and everyone moves at different paces, however, I do believe there are certain things that should be considered before moving in together whether you've been dating a year or five years.1. Make sure you're on the same page with whatever it is you are to each other: want to get married? Say it. Want to Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell it? Say it. Basically, have the "where is this…
  • A Funny Podcast About Diaries

    Jessica Druck
    12 Aug 2015 | 9:32 pm
    Raise your hand if you kept a diary that housed your deepest, darkest secrets (RAISES HAND HIGH)!When I heard about Mortified, an awesome podcast about people reading their diary entries publicly, and on purpose, I had to hear it. I had only recently dug mine out after a move and lamented over my own tween tribulations, which for the most part consisted of entries about my crushes that were signed with a Lip Smacker kiss, when all those gross feelings of teenage angst came rushing back.My diaries came in all shapes and sizes: once I tried to emulate the one from Harriet the Spy using a Mead…
  • Movie Spotlight: Overboard

    Jessica Druck
    2 Jul 2015 | 10:37 pm
    In honor of the 4th of July, and all things patriotic, bedazzled and 80s, I thought I'd celebrate one of my favorite movies: Overboard.Overboard is a scintillating tale of a bitchy rich lady who falls off her yacht and is taken to a local hospital where it's discovered that she lost her memory. To her rescue comes the hillbilly repair man she treated like dirt who claims her as his wife and turns her into his redneck trophy. It's quite fun.I know it's not your typical star spangled movie, but hey, Goldie Hawn wears enough red and white getups and bedazzles enough of her sunglasses for it to…
  • A Playlist For Every Single Feeling

    Jessica Druck
    18 Jun 2015 | 7:50 pm
    Because it's practically the weekend and we're all practically checked out, here's a little something to get you through whatever you need to get through before drowning in vodka and donuts for two days. Enjoy the playlist here!
  • Love Story No. 14: Realizing You Were Never In Love

    Jessica Druck
    9 Jun 2015 | 7:54 am
    Broken, beaten down, devastated and facing a life of emptiness.  This break-up was surely going to finish me off.  Or so I thought. The blunt end of her sentence resulted in an almost cathartic feeling in every cell of my body.  But I didn’t want it to be this way.  I want pain, tears but nope…nothing.  But I thought she was the one, my all, and now she’s letting me go, I demand to feel the sadness!My efforts came to no avail.  Try as I did, there wasn’t an ounce of pain present in my body. I think it had all been left behind in the relationship that…
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    Tripp Advice

  • When Should You Cut Ties With A Woman?

    31 Aug 2015 | 3:00 am
    Attracting the right women and avoiding the wrong ones go hand-in-hand. Sadly, you can’t always land a gem. That’s why you need to know exactly when to call it quits…before an emotional vampire drains all the energy and fun from your life. There isn’t one simple answer for when you should break it off with a girl, and that’s mainly because it depends on your relationship. Did you meet 2 weeks ago at a bar, and you still haven’t gone on a date? Is she a short-term friend-with-benefits? Have you been dating for a year? Your reasons for splitting with a…
  • A Step-by-Step Guide for Picking Up Older Women

    23 Aug 2015 | 10:00 pm
    I want to introduce you to a good friend of mine. His name is Dave Perrotta. He’s the founder of It’s a website for men who make things happen. Dave knows his stuff when it comes to getting what you want in career, women, and life. And today, Dave is doing a guest blog post for us. A Step-by-Step Guide for Attracting Older Women I’ve always liked women who can challenge me. Women who have an edge – who know what they want, and go for it. And of course, are sexy to boot. More often than not, these types of women have been older than me. In some cases, ten…
  • The 10 Best Cities In The U.S. For Meeting Women In Their 20’s

    16 Aug 2015 | 10:00 pm
    Cities are the best places for meeting women in their 20’s. More specifically, big cities. Using factors such as average fitness levels, things to do, nightlife quality, local friendliness and cost of living, I’ve narrowed down the field to 10 of the best places to look for women in the USA. Here they are… 10. Boston, Massachusetts Boston is a city full of history, proud people, diverse nightlife and packed with over 100 colleges and universities. There are about 250,000 college students in the Boston area. In simpler terms, that means there are 125,000 female college…
  • Gorilla Mindset Book Review

    10 Aug 2015 | 1:00 am
    High-quality men attract high-quality women. Written by Mike Cernovich, Gorilla Mindset—while not directly about picking up girls—is still a great book for improving your success with women. Mike Cernovich runs Danger & Play and hosts The Mike Cernovich Podcast, and his latest book is a road map to leading a life of purpose and meaning. If you’re still wondering how that helps you attract women, the answer is simple—as we’ve said before, women are part of the journey, not the destination. No matter how much you practice your pickup lines or lock down your…
  • How To Hijack A Woman’s Brain Feat. Scot McKay

    4 Aug 2015 | 1:11 am
    In this interview, world famous dating coach Scot McKay, talks about how he went from only being able to attract women that he didn’t want, to becoming known as…”The Chick Whisperer”. Here’s what we cover: 1. Scot’s secret ingredient for attracting beautiful women. 2. The skill that all women love in a man, yet few men have . 3. How to make a woman feel safe and secure around you. 4. How to attract a 10 without being tall, rich, or good looking. 5. The 4 Keys for unlocking female persuasion. <–– this is the good stuff And much more……
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    Digital Romance Inc.

  • How to Keep Your Partner From Winding Up on Ashley Madison

    Deborah Kagan
    31 Aug 2015 | 6:00 am
    At this point we’ve all heard about the Ashley Madison hack. It’s been on every major news outlet around the world. Here are some mojolicious ways... Read » The post How to Keep Your Partner From Winding Up on Ashley Madison appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Dating After Divorce: Do’s and Don’ts

    Natalie Moore, MsEd., MFT., ChT
    31 Aug 2015 | 5:00 am
    It's very natural to feel insecure about yourself, your choices, and your looks after a divorce. Here are some dating and relationship tips that will... Read » The post Dating After Divorce: Do’s and Don’ts appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Could Texting Be the Death of Your Relationship?

    Rachel Moheban-Wachtel
    31 Aug 2015 | 4:00 am
    It’s easy to get caught in the trap. Here's how to overcome the communication hurdles caused by texting... Read » The post Could Texting Be the Death of Your Relationship? appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Bring the Spark Back Into Your Relationship

    Lori Ann Davis, MA, CRS
    30 Aug 2015 | 6:00 am
    As the relationship matures, we learn more and more about our partners, and we become comfortable. Eventually, even the best relationships can become stale. Read » The post Bring the Spark Back Into Your Relationship appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • The Truth About Why You’re So Obsessed With Getting Married

    Selina Almodovar
    30 Aug 2015 | 5:00 am
    We were taught that marriage would lead to our “happily ever after”. Instead of believing that your joy and happiness will come from getting married... Read » The post The Truth About Why You’re So Obsessed With Getting Married appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
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  • Ready for Fall: 9 Awesome Trendy Backpacks

    28 Aug 2015 | 6:43 am
    Today, I left my house with a denim jacket and a scarf draped around my neck. Chicago weather this week has been acting all types of funny. I started thinking about fall and the items I want for the fall/winter season. On my list is a  few trendy backpacks. At one point, I use to see women sporting cute mini backpacks and then the trend disappeared. My first trendy backpack came from Coach at least 15 years ago when they only sold leather bags. I loved my Coach backpacks; I carried them everywhere. They were made to withstand a nuclear disaster. When the backpack trend started to fade, I…
  • I Survived My First Zumba Class

    25 Aug 2015 | 7:25 am
    I Survived My First Zumba Class My sister has been bugging me for months to take a dance class with her. I finally found a local class not too far from my home that offered a Zumba class multiple times a week. I figured that was good enough because it was the only class I could find without driving 20 miles from the southwest suburbs to the north side of Chicago. I was not looking forward to taking this class. Taking any workout class as a plus size woman can be intimidating. This class was not my first time doing Zumba. I mastered the beginner level of Zumba on the Wii, so I felt that at…
  • Be Afraid: Internet and Mobile Dating Experiences

    20 Aug 2015 | 9:36 am
    Be Afraid: Internet and Mobile Dating Experiences This week, I got into an interesting conversation about online dating. I used online dating websites off and on until 2012 when I got fed up with the foolishness. I found myself thinking that almost everyone I met on an internet and mobile dating environment is “off their rocker”. However, I wondered if the same could be said about me since I was on there as well. When dating apps like Badoo and Tinder came out, I decided to try those. I soon learned that it was the same fishbowl of people. All it takes is one good conversation…
  • NWA Straight Outta Compton Movie Review

    15 Aug 2015 | 12:11 am
    NWA Straight Outta Compton Movie Review Attention: This post does NOT contain any spoilers I’ll admit that I’m not much into rap anymore. The older I got, the more my taste in music changed. I listen to some rap, I love Rae Sremmurd, but most of it gets no airplay in my home. I’m now going back in time, 28 years ago when I acquired an NWA cassette tape from a source I fail to remember at this time. It was before music came with warning labels about explicit language. I remember listening to their music in my room on my walkman with my mouth wide open in shock from what I was hearing.
  • 5 Tacky Situations People Share on Social Media

    11 Aug 2015 | 5:12 am
    5 Tacky Situations People Share on Social Media This topic has been on my mind for awhile. As much as I love social media it has it pros and cons. Lately, I’ve seen, read, and viewed posts that make me question what exactly is going through someone’s head. Social media is not a share all tell all. As with anything we say, we should also be mindful of what we share online. Here are 5 tacky situations people share on social media. Dirty Laundry I love hearing that you’re doing well, and life is awesome for you. I cheer you on, and I applaud that everything is going well in your life. But…
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  • The Truth About Persistence

    12 Aug 2015 | 1:51 am
    I’ve tried the persistence game. That’s where you have a girl who is either really on the fence, or just plain not interested, and you keep trying to talk to her/ text her/ get physical anyway. It doesn’t work. I have enough experience now to say that, contrary to what many might say, persistence with an individual girl is NOT an effective use of your time. Leaving aside the questionable ethics of pushing on someone who has already indicated they aren’t interested, it just does not lead to good results for you. We assume that persistence pays off for several…
  • Become the Person You Want to Attract

    13 Jul 2015 | 4:05 pm
    It’s one thing to be attractive to women in general. General attractiveness is enough to get you dates or sex. But most guys that are really trying to improve their dating life are after specific kinds of women. If you can get some women interested, but it never seems to be the women that you’re really hoping for–the really hot women, the women with awesome lifestyles, the women who are always dressed amazingly well, the women with really fun and interesting personalities–you have to look deeper at what you’re doing. There’s an old saying: “Become…
  • What a Rude Rejection Teaches Us About Ourselves

    19 May 2015 | 1:43 pm
    The other night I was out with some friends at a bar in the city. Towards the end of the night, I spotted one of the most beautiful girls, if not the most beautiful, of the entire night. I decided to walk over and try to talk to her. She’s so hot she probably has a boyfriend (she seemed to be in a group of guys and girls). And she also didn’t seem in a very good mood as she was talking to her friend. But I don’t really care. I walk up to her and her (also extremely hot) friend, totally confident and relaxed, and say “Hi, how are you doing” with a smile. No…
  • What She Means By “I Want to Make Friends First”

    17 May 2015 | 4:58 pm
    If you look at women’s online dating profiles, a lot of them say “I want to make friends first, and then see where things go from there.” She wants to become “friends” with a guy, before getting into a sexual or romantic relationship. Women might often say this in person as well. But we are all familiar with the “friend zone”: where a girl sees you as a platonic friend, but not a real candidate for sex or dating. So what’s going on here? Does she want a guy to be a “friend” before sleeping with/ dating him, or not? Here’s the…
  • Kill the Ego to Attract Women

    13 May 2015 | 1:17 pm
    What is your “ego”? Ego has different definitions. My definition of “ego” is: your false sense of self or identity, along with the feelings and beliefs associated with it. I’m not spiritual, but a lot of this discussion is inspired by the writings of Ekhart Tolle. When you think about it, the ego is the source of countless problems in our lives: feelings of being threatened, diminished, anxious, feelings of dread, foreboding, regret, depression, feeling oppressed, victimized. Ego plays a huge role in men’s problems with attracting women. It is one…
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    Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield

  • Asking for What You Want in Relationships

    21 Aug 2015 | 2:18 pm
    Asking for what you want in relationships is the only way to get what you need! Do you have trouble asking for what you want in relationships? Lots of women do. Part of what makes asking for what you want in relationships so hard is that well-meaning friends, Hollywood gossip columns, blogs by other disillusioned daters, etc. tell us not to speak up for ourselves and to wait for men to make all the moves. Are you being needy if you ask a man about the future of your relationship? Maybe you’ve read that asking for what you want in relationships will make a man think you’re pushy or needy.
  • BAD DATING ADVICE: Won’t get you the man you want

    18 Aug 2015 | 2:29 pm
    Following Bad Dating Advice Won’t Attract the Man You Really Want     Recently, I’ve been receiving calls from several highly intelligent, attractive, and independent women who had been following some bad dating advice they’d been reading online and in some popular dating books. They told me they were afraid to initiate contact online, return texts or calls from men, or ask a guy if he wants a relationship. They’d read that such behaviors would be perceived as aggressive and chase men away. These women had been advised to “let the man be the man” and trust that he…

    1 Jul 2015 | 9:00 am
    Listen to an Interview with Lisa Shield at the 2015 Pillow TalkSummit   21 “Intimacy Experts” Reveal Their HiddenSecrets To A Better Love Life… FREE! Dear Clients, While I typically don’t send out these emails, I am excited to have been invited to be a guest speaker at the 2015 Pillow Talk Summit: Groundreaking Communications Techniques. Have the Sex You Want Now! Starting June 22nd, this 21 speaker, 11-day event is poised to be the sexual transformational event of the year. Here’s just a small sampling of what some of these expert speakers will be covering: • You’ll…
  • Online Dating: Getting Back in the Groove

    24 Apr 2015 | 12:43 pm
    Are you in a slump and need some help getting back into the online dating groove? Here’s the first thing you need to know: after a few months of online dating, it is inevitable to go through a slump and for feelings of futility and frustration to set in. This can feel especially discouraging if you’re doing everything can at your end to meet someone. It’s hard not to feel disheartened when the initial rush of emails you got when you first signed up dies down, your searches for a partner net fewer and fewer prospects, and you start to see the same boring profiles over and over again. But…
  • Being Too Strong Won’t Attract The Right Man

    30 Jan 2015 | 1:15 pm
    Right before my 40th birthday it hit me: being too strong wasn’t attracting the right man. It had been eight years since I divorced my first husband. I’d spent most of this time working on myself. Now it was time to put myself back on the dating circuit. As I started going out on dates, I began to question some of my long held beliefs about men, women, and relationships. Because I was a strong and independent woman, I had always thought that my ideal man would have to be stronger than me so that he would “challenge me” and “take the lead.” Now I began to wonder if there…
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    Relationship Advice Pro

  • 4 Yoga Sex Poses That Will Improve Your Love Life

    William Thomson
    26 Aug 2015 | 12:03 am
    The chances are that you’ve thought about signing up for a yoga class before. Your other half might have tried to talk you into it once or twice, but for some reason the concept never really stuck. However, if you’re not sure, consider the fact that a bit of yoga in your life could improve your sex life. Not only does yoga help to release chemicals in your brain similar to the ones you get from sex, it also: Ensures that you feel higher doses of sexual desire Increases the flow of blood to your pelvic region and Super boosts your sexuality Here are some positions to try out if…
  • Simple Tips to Make Your Sex Life Hotter

    William Thomson
    18 Aug 2015 | 11:33 pm
    It’s not an entirely uncommon issue. Although you don’t know when or how it happened, your sex life may suddenly appear to be less exciting than it once was. You used to have so much fun with your other half, but these days you find yourself becoming more interested in what’s on television than indulging in a steamy session with your man or woman. Even when you do find the energy to start a romp, the sex might seem more predictable than raunchy, meaning that passion and excitement take a back seat. The truth is that there are numerous barriers around that can have an impact…
  • Tips on How to Make a Good Relationship Great

    William Thomson
    12 Aug 2015 | 2:28 am
    There are plenty of blogs and articles out there that are raring to offer you advice on how to get the healthiest body or improve your diet, but not many people cover what you need to do for a nourished and fighting-fit relationship. Finding the man or woman of your dreams is only half the battle when it comes to discovering true happiness in love. The rest is maintaining and building that relationship into something that will hopefully stay with you for the rest of your life. Here are some tips on how you can make a good relationship into something truly great. 1.) Remember What it Was Like…
  • A Guide to Finding and Keeping Your Ideal Relationship

    William Thomson
    5 Aug 2015 | 1:30 am
    A healthy and strong relationship can be one of the best and most supportive things you have in your life. Good relationships can improve various aspects of your life, from your psychological well being, your health, and even your confidence. If a relationship isn’t working, on the other hand, you can end up feeling a huge drain on your life. Relationships are investment, and like anything else, the more you put into one, the more you will get back. This guide can help you to find and keep your ideal relationship. Get Up and Get Started One of the biggest mistakes people make when it…
  • Advice to Help You Achieve A Wonderful Love Life

    William Thomson
    28 Jul 2015 | 1:07 am
    Finding the person that you want to be with is an amazing thing, but just because you appreciate your other half doesn’t mean that you’ll never experience a stale moment in your relationship. We all have moments when romance starts to take a backseat, and we find ourselves quickly allowing ourselves to fall victim to the old problems of routine and complacency. In a long term relationship that lasts a number of months or years, you might start to feel boredom seeping in around the edges of your love life. Fortunately, there are plenty of ways that you can ensure that you achieve a…
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    Dating Sites XO

  • Date My Ride

    Heather Dundon
    27 Aug 2015 | 5:26 am
    Date My Ride is a dating site specifically for car enthusiasts...does your ride measure up? Whether you're looking for a Mercedes Man or a BMW Babe, this site's got you covered.
  • Tindog

    Heather Dundon
    20 Aug 2015 | 5:04 am
    Tindog is a dating app for...dogs? Find someone special through your furriest friend, and maybe get Fido a date, too!
  • JSwipe

    Heather Dundon
    13 Aug 2015 | 6:36 am
    Is JSwipe the dating app you've been looking for? If you're a Jewish single hoping for something a little bit serious, we've got the scoop on this popular dating platform.
  • Open Minded

    Heather Dundon
    6 Aug 2015 | 5:45 am
    Is the answer to creepy, adult-oriented swinger sites? We take a look at the newest, glitziest dating site designed to serve people looking to explore open relationships.
  • Sway

    Heather Dundon
    30 Jul 2015 | 6:00 am
    Sway is a millennial-centric dating app designed to put hundreds of singles in front of you at once. Would it work for you?
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    The Daygame

  • 3 Racism Beliefs Killing Your Daygame Success

    26 Aug 2015 | 9:39 pm
    3 Racism Beliefs Killing Your Daygame Success   Today, I’d like to discuss 3 critical beliefs when it comes to daytime approaching and why most guys won’t even consider applying these basic skills in their life on daily basis to achieve true daygame success.  The first belief that you might hold is something along the lines of: It’s not for me because I’m too ugly, too fat or even to skinny for this. Some of the other one’s I hear are: I’m too poor, already rich and don’t need this, still in high school and I’m too young. I’m over 30 and now I’m just an old creepy…
  • 6 Reasons Why Daytime Approaching Destroys Every Other Type of Game (+infield)

    24 Aug 2015 | 9:48 pm
    6 Reasons Why Daytime Approaching Destroys Every Other Type of Game The first reason to try daygame is that you see the same hot women walking around that you would also find in a bar, but you’re faced with drastically less competition and your chance of “getting the girl” if you will, increase exponentially. The girl is sober, and it’s the real deal here. You see exactly what you get without all the glamour and make up and you can build a real authentic connection with the girl during the day given your approach is sharp and on point. You can just build a real authentic connection…
  • What To Text A Girl: 3 Horrific Daygame PUA Texting Mistakes

    7 Mar 2015 | 10:35 pm
    What To Text A Girl: 3 Horrific Daygame PUA Texting Mistakes ~What To Text A Girl After Meeting Her On The Street Through Daygame~   The biggest thing in cold approach pick that frustrates a big majority of men is that majority of numbers go nowhere, and it’s just the nature of cold approach pick up. The sooner you accept it, the easier life will be. When you get some downtime between your number farming sessions in Daygame, take a quick second and consider the timing of your first text. Ultimately there is no perfect answer for the perfect amount of time you should wait before the…
  • 5 Ridiculous PUA Tips Will Make Her Want To See You Again

    5 Mar 2015 | 8:54 pm
    These 5 Ridiculous PUA Tips Will Make Her Want To See You Again     You will read all kinds of crazy closing techniques and routines all over the internet that you need some crazy close technique or you have to come up with a sure-fire proof wayto get her number with this 1 weird trick.  Your First Set of Simple PUA Tips Be Simple. Direct. Ask for the Number. (see example below) Use these 4 pua tips to avoid the following non-sense like wild-fire: “We should hang out sometime” “We’ll have to hit those places up” “Which would you prefer tea or milkshake?” “Put your…
  • 5 Easy Fixes For Your Phone Game PUA Going Wrong

    4 Mar 2015 | 8:17 am
    5 Easy Fixes For Your Phone Game PUA Going Wrong   The worst frame that many PUAs fall into with their phone game is endless banter. This is where you’ve become her “texting buddy”. Stop doing that. You will notice that once your game has improved to the level where girls enjoy the banter, you will be tempted into continuously texting her back and forth over and over again. Avoid this like the plague. What ends up happening is, you end up in endless back-forth banter where she’s giggling and squealing and responding to your call-back humour and flirting. The only problem with…
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  • Review of Language of Lust by Lawrence Lanoff

    James Buzinko
    26 Aug 2015 | 5:50 pm
    HEY! DO NOT Buy This Course until you read My REVIEW based on Real, High Quality, and Fully Researched Information! I BOUGHT the The post Review of Language of Lust by Lawrence Lanoff appeared first on TheStallionStyle.
  • 80+ AWESOMELY Cute Pick Up Lines

    James Buzinko
    26 Aug 2015 | 4:09 am
    REMEMBER: These Pick Up Lines Are Really EFFECTIVE. They May Cause POWERFUL Reaction! Do Not ABUSE Them! If you’re trying to pick up a The post 80+ AWESOMELY Cute Pick Up Lines appeared first on TheStallionStyle.
  • 80+ Dirty Pick Up Lines for Girls to Use on Guys

    James Buzinko
    26 Aug 2015 | 3:43 am
    REMEMBER: These Pick Up Lines Are Really EFFECTIVE. They May Cause POWERFUL Reaction! Do Not ABUSE Them! You’re a strong, independent girl that isn’t The post 80+ Dirty Pick Up Lines for Girls to Use on Guys appeared first on TheStallionStyle.
  • Addium Review: Is This The ULTIMATE Limitless Pill or Not?

    James Buzinko
    26 Aug 2015 | 2:29 am
    “If You Think That You’ll Take Addium Tonight & Be Einstein Tomorrow, I Am Sorry, But This Is Not The Pill for The post Addium Review: Is This The ULTIMATE Limitless Pill or Not? appeared first on TheStallionStyle.
  • Seduction Mindhacks & Efficient Pickup: New Way to Seduce Women?

    James Buzinko
    16 Mar 2015 | 5:41 am
    HEY! DO NOT Buy This Course until you read My REVIEW based on Real, High Quality and Fully Researched Information! I Will Show The post Seduction Mindhacks & Efficient Pickup: New Way to Seduce Women? appeared first on TheStallionStyle.
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    Mesh Blog

  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    28 Aug 2015 | 5:39 am
    Sweatin’ that summer is coming to an end? Good thing we’ve got you covered with tons to do to take your mind of August being over (already!) Form derbies to dirty films, philosophical love talks to bones for sale, we’ve got something for everyone. Happy Friday! FRI 28 Hump! Dirty Film Festival by Dan Savage Roulette, 509 Atlantic Ave., Brooklyn; 7pm; $25 It’s the amateur porn fest we’ve all been waiting for. Celebrating a decade of this dirty film fun, Dan Savage is back with his Pacific Northwest Tour stopping, of course, in Brooklyn. Get down to a collection of…
  • Podcasts for your Dating Smarts: No NPR Edition

    Jessica Coyle
    26 Aug 2015 | 5:40 am
    You’ve got a problem. You’ve started on the path Podcast Nerdom, but it feels like the road has run out and you don’t know where to go now. Is NPR all that exists in the world?! Don’t get me wrong, I love NPR. In Part 1 of our series of podcasts you should be listening to for your intellectual well-being, three NPR podcasts made an appearance. However, this behemoth of public broadcasting is not the only producer in the game. This week I went deep into the depths to find some podcasts you may have never heard of. Let’s dive right into it. Science Vs Charming…
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    21 Aug 2015 | 6:03 am
    Hey-o, Meshers! First off, congrats on making it through another week. We’ve got all you need to unwind this weekend, from an HP Lovecraft party and a David Foster Wallace play, to sunset yoga, nighttime kayaking, and vegan buffets. FRI 21 SKINS & MISFITS Party Videology, 308 Bedford Ave.; 9:30PM-11:30PM; $5 Craving those Brit’ teen TV dramas lately? What, you’ve never seen one? Change your ways at this video venue’s latest theme night—a British Invasion! Featuring two popular UK teen dramas, SKINS and MISFITS, the evening promises episode screenings, drinking games and…
  • What are we waiting for?

    Jamie Silverman
    19 Aug 2015 | 9:06 am
    Last week, I took my maiden voyage to the Montauk with three friends. I’m from Brooklyn so it’s tantamount to blasphemy that I’ve never stepped foot into onto those gilded shores, but so it goes. A short week prior, my friends, on a whim, decided it would be fun to take a mini-vacay. A bit of planning ensued and we were booked. We headed out for what was surely one of the most beautiful weekends of the summer. My view at sunset :) We spent our days sunbathing at the pool of the lovely and understated Harborside Motel and our nights rabble rousing with the entire population of New…
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things to Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    14 Aug 2015 | 5:34 am
    Summer parties come in all shapes and sizes: dance parties, outdoor parties, beer parties, slightly-naughty parties – you know what we’re talking about. So, while you still can, why not really get your summer party on? (We’re definitely not stopping you!) This week, go meet a Bollywood celebrity, sample 20 beers under one roof, or hit up the coolest 80s dance party in town followed by a sexy, underground Paris-themed party. You’ve earned it. FRI 14 Cruel Summer 80s Dance Party The Bell House; 8pm; $10 First, we brought you to The Bayside Tigers’ 90s dance-a-thon.
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    Over 40 Dating Site

  • New YouTube Video

    14 Aug 2015 | 8:22 am
    OK, we admit it didn’t cost a great deal but it gets a very simple message out that we are the UK’s largest membership database for over 40 daters! The post New YouTube Video appeared first on Over 40 Dating Site.
  • Is on-line dating the new norm for over 40s?

    3 Jun 2015 | 6:01 am
    Is on line dating the new norm? A study published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, which was funded by eHarmony, looked at the marital status and satisfaction of just over nineteen thousand people who married between 2005 and 2012. Of their respondents, a whopping thirty five percent met their other halves, online;  within that group, nearly half met through online dating sites. Some met through social media sites and chat room venues. The report found that nearly eight per-cent of marriages initiated offline ended in breakups, however, couples who met online…
  • Can More Sex Make You Less Happy?

    3 Jun 2015 | 5:47 am
    According to new research having more sex may not bolster your happiness ratings. The research carried out by George Lowenstein, a professor of economics and psychology at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, stated that “We were expecting that the people who had more sex would enjoy it a lot and would be happier, and it would be good for the relationship” The research was carried out on two sets of couples, asking one group to double how many times they had sex every week, while asking the control group to stay the course and have sex as they normally would. By the end of the…
  • Introducing Children to a New Partner

    12 Apr 2015 | 4:54 am
      If you have children but are dating again in your forties one of your biggest concerns is likely how this will affect your children, especially if they are still quite young. Whilst you can not anticipate how they will react to the news, there are steps you can take to ensure that you are introducing your new partner and your children in the best possible way. Whilst you can’t be sure whether a relationship is going to be permanent, it is often considered best to only introduce children to partners who are likely to last. This is because children do often form strong bonds to adult…
  • The secret of successful 40 plus dating

    8 Oct 2014 | 7:35 am
    What is the “the secret of successful 40 plus dating”…It is fair to say that online dating is an appealing and more affordable place to meet new people. After the age of thirty five plus, (for some of us, and for a variety of reasons), it can be difficult to go out and meet members of the opposite sex in traditional settings, bars and clubs for example. Worldwide, there has been a 57% increase in the use of online dating sites, so tip no one is to just take the bit between the teeth and Join. In the first instance, when writing your profile pay careful attention to spelling and…
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    Attract The One

  • 9 Text Messages You Should Never, EVER Send Your Ex

    Elizabeth Stone
    29 Aug 2015 | 5:00 am
    Breakups cause a kind of temporary insanity that people don’t usually realize or snap out of until it’s too late. Either they’ve already totally alienated themselves from their ex or they’ve made themselves look so pathetic that they can never come back from it. That’s why texting your ex is a tricky minefield. Whether you […] The post 9 Text Messages You Should Never, EVER Send Your Ex appeared first on Attract The One.
  • 14 Signs You’re a Stage 5 Clinger And How To Stop (#3 Made Me Cringe)

    Megan Bostic
    28 Aug 2015 | 5:00 am
    Did you just start dating someone new? Maybe you’ve had two or three dates and you’re really into him. A lot. Too much? How do you know if you’re overdoing it? You might think you’re being sweet and affectionate; he may think you’re a text away from stalkerdom. I know from experience how fast you […] The post 14 Signs You’re a Stage 5 Clinger And How To Stop (#3 Made Me Cringe) appeared first on Attract The One.
  • 8 Powerful Lessons To Learn From Your Breakup (And How It’ll Make You a Better Person)

    Ben Neal
    27 Aug 2015 | 9:30 am
    When a relationship ends, it can feel like the end of the world. Oftentimes, hearts have been broken on both sides. There may be feelings of anger, pain, guilt, resentment, even hatred. There are nights of almost unbearable loneliness, and moments when you wonder if you will ever find someone to love again, someone to […] The post 8 Powerful Lessons To Learn From Your Breakup (And How It’ll Make You a Better Person) appeared first on Attract The One.
  • Creating a Life You Really Love Might Piss Everyone Off (And Why That’s Perfectly Okay)

    Debra Smouse
    26 Aug 2015 | 11:03 am
    Let me tell you something, darling. Sometimes, creating a life that you love is going to rub people the wrong way. In fact, it’s going to royally piss some people off. I don’t tell you this to discourage you from boldly stepping into your life. I share this with you so that you aren’t surprised. […] The post Creating a Life You Really Love Might Piss Everyone Off (And Why That’s Perfectly Okay) appeared first on Attract The One.
  • How The Pursuit Of Perfection Is Preventing You From Falling In Love

    Debra Smouse
    14 Aug 2015 | 8:43 am
    Once upon a time, I became convinced that if I had a perfect body, then I would be able to fix my failing marriage. I worked out seven days a week and spent at least two hours a day at the gym. I worked out with a personal trainer, attended spin classes, and in between […] The post How The Pursuit Of Perfection Is Preventing You From Falling In Love appeared first on Attract The One.
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    The Dating Captain

  • How and What Women Really Think About Men

    The Dating Captain
    31 Aug 2015 | 12:26 pm I made this site so men have a better understanding of women. While many men want to know what attracts women, which I cover all the time, they also want to know what they think about men in general. Basically how women think about men, is the way that women really view us as guys. Women would say we just view them as sexual objects, but the way women view us is much more interesting. I used to use the example of “real estate” when it comes to how women view men. Recently though, a redditor described what his cousin thought about men, and I thought the analogy…
  • My Girlfriends Parents Hate Me, What can I do?

    The Dating Captain
    14 Aug 2015 | 9:33 pm This topic hits close to home for me, I made many mistakes when I was younger when it came to my girlfriends and how I was viewed by parents. I think it’s especially common for young guys who are naturally “alpha males” to experience this problem. It’s hard to be different from who you are around someone’s parents. This is a common rookie mistake for young guys and I know I made it way too often. I’m writing this to help guys out who are in this situation and to help guys avoid it in the future. There’s a lot of lessons to be…
  • How to get Over a Break Up

    The Dating Captain
    6 Aug 2015 | 9:36 pm All too often I come across many questions about moving on from an ex and recent breakup. All of these questions have inspired me to create an article about getting over a break up and moving on from special women in your life. Break ups are difficult and moving on from a girl who possibly friend zoned you can be just as hard. The loss of any kind of relationship is hard to deal with, the emotional impact can be similar to the death of a loved one, especially if the circumstances are not good. The longer you have emotional feelings for someone the harder the break up will…
  • Dating and Relationship Advice for Introverts

    The Dating Captain
    5 Aug 2015 | 11:04 pm When you lurk around online dating forums you realize many men blame introversion for lack of communication with women. Introversion also seems to be the go to excuse for lackluster social skills. Being an introverted person is actually helpful, when the introversion stems from insecurity, that’s when a quiet person runs into social dilemmas and awkwardness.This guide will help explain the differences between the aspects of being an introvert and how to use it effectively in relationships and even your career. Being Introverted vs Insecure and Shy Being introverted…
  • What are DHVs and DLVs – PUA Definition Series

    The Dating Captain
    1 Aug 2015 | 6:28 pm Terms: Demonstrations of Higher Value and Demonstrations of Lower Value Acronyms: DHV, DLV Demonstrations of higher value and demonstrations of lower value both have to do with storytelling and having a conversation. DHVs are positive attributes that come out when telling a story and DLVs are negative ones. The more intriguing a story and interesting that you are in general, the more likely you’ll be managing DHVs instead of DLVs Demonstrations of Higher Value (DHVs) Talking about something awesome that you did, without bragging, but sincerely telling a story is the…
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  • The 6 Pillars of Self-Development

    12 Aug 2015 | 5:42 am
    No matter who you are, there is always room for improvement. After all, no one is perfect (except maybe Natalie Portman). For most people, identifying the aspects of their life that they need or want to change can be quite difficult, as it requires honesty and often painful soul-searching. Even then, actually taking the necessary action to implement and achieve change can be difficult and requires major persistence and motivation. It is simply impossible to produce a solution or remedy to a problem that hasn’t already been previously identified. It’s like trying to score a goal in…
  • Swedish Girls

    25 Jun 2015 | 10:45 pm
    The idea that Sweden is a tall, blonde, beautiful paradise is about as common as the idea that Iraq is not a great place to holiday right now. Having lived in Sweden for half a year now I feel a little qualified to provide a little advice on the seduction of you’re average Swedish Girl. I guess a genuine Swede would be able to add few things, but these are the views of an observer in the shoes of a tourist. Be prepared, along the way we are going to chop a few branches off the Swedish myth tree. Appearance The Internet seems obsessed with the idea that Sweden is full of tall busty women…
  • 38 Signs to know when a Relationship Is Over

    1 Jun 2015 | 6:16 am
    Your Girlfriend is very cold and distant lately. Something feels wrong, it seems like she lost interest in you and the relationship. You are afraid that she doesn’t want to be with you anymore. In this article, I’m going to show you different signs how to know when a relationship is over. Use this signs to find out if she doesn’t love you anymore. It helps you to know the truth before your relationship is coming to an end. Maybe there is still a chance to turn things around. However the more of these signs she is showing, the harder it will be to save your relationship. More…
  • 21 Signs She’s Girlfriend Material

    Sean Winn
    28 Apr 2015 | 1:00 am
    Cliché as it may seem, it is very safe to say that no man is an island. After countless first dates and constant night-outs, we eventually get tired of putting ourselves out there and wish that she will be “the one”. At the end of the day, perhaps what we are yearning for is to have someone who will be a constant part of our lives, day-in and day-out. Unfortunately, it doesn’t come easy. One tricky part of the dating cycle is knowing when to transition from casually going out and getting to know each other to officially being in a relationship. Here are 15 signs that can help you…
  • 10 Ways – How to get over someone you love

    PUAmore Team
    13 Apr 2015 | 12:08 am
    Recovering from a breakup or simply trying to forget an unrequited love can be a very daunting task. You may find yourself incapable of moving forward and convinced that forgetting that someone is totally impossible. This person is everywhere and moving on isn’t just an option as of the moment. Technically, this is pretty much normal for everyone who loved someone and is now trying to forget that someone. However, this is not how things have to be and should be. There is more to life than this pit of depression that you’re letting yourself getting sunk into. By simply doing some…
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  • The Ultimate Guide to the UK Fiancé & Spouse Visas

    Chris Martin
    24 Aug 2015 | 3:30 am
    We have written a lot in the past about the the application process for the UK Fiancé & Spouse visas. To give these articles structure, and make it easier for you to understand the different elements of the process we have compiled everything into this guide. In here you will find links to detailed information on […] The post The Ultimate Guide to the UK Fiancé & Spouse Visas appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • UK Fiancé & Spouse Visa Checklist (Guest Submission)

    Chris Martin
    17 Aug 2015 | 3:30 am
    Although we try to post as much detailed information about the UK Fiancé & Spouse visa process as we can, we are still yet to complete the process ourselves. So it’s good to hear from people who have been through the experience before and their advice. When Robbie contacted us to ask if he could share […] The post UK Fiancé & Spouse Visa Checklist (Guest Submission) appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Featured App: Personal Messenger

    Chris Martin
    10 Aug 2015 | 3:30 am
    Recently we were lucky enough to chat to Jay of Anomaly Innovations. Jay is also the developer of Personal Messenger – a long distance relationship app. The app functions similar to Face Time but is specifically designed with long distance couples in mind. To this end, it has a couple of extra features that make the distance […] The post Featured App: Personal Messenger appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Pet Passports: A Guide to Bringing Your Pet to the UK

    Chelsea Johnson
    24 Jul 2015 | 11:01 am
    According to the 2013-2014 National Pet Owners Survey conducted by the American Pet Products Association (APPA) Sixty-eight percent of US households, or about 82.5 million families, own a pet. I’m one of those people in the sixty-eight percentile. I have been lucky enough to own a miniature Dachshund since she was 7 weeks old. Apple […] The post Pet Passports: A Guide to Bringing Your Pet to the UK appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • UK Fiancé Visa: Accommodation Requirements

    Chris Martin
    7 Jun 2015 | 3:30 am
    There are a number of requirements couples need to fulfil in order to obtain a UK Fiancé visa. In this guide we break down the accommodation requirements, to make it a little easier to understand. In our previous articles, we have discussed the evidence the sponsor will need to provide, the evidence the applicant will need […] The post UK Fiancé Visa: Accommodation Requirements appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • The Ancient Greek Secret to a More Social Way of Life

    Nick Notas
    25 Aug 2015 | 9:49 am
      Greece is a country in turmoil. Banks were shut down and their economy’s best hope is now another bailout. Their politicians are notoriously corrupt and in turn, Greek citizens seek out any loopholes to avoid paying taxes. There are pickpockets everywhere and anarchists wreak havoc in Athens. And I just spent my last two weeks of vacation there. However, from the outside, everything looked like business as usual. Restaurants had no empty tables and the shops were bustling. I observed that no matter how bad things had become, Greece was still one of the friendliest and most social…
  • 8 Childish Traits That Improve the Quality of Adult Life

    Nick Notas
    6 Aug 2015 | 11:38 am
    During my recent visit to Chicago, I had to share a house with two kids – ages 11 and 14. And I wasn’t sure how it was going to turn out. But you know what? It was awesome. It was refreshing. It gave me hope for future generations. (Damn, I sound old.) I was fortunate to spend this time with well-socialized, healthy children who haven’t endured the harsh realities of the world. They reminded me of the incredible traits we all start out with in life. But because of the inevitable deception, heartbreak, and loss we experience as we grow up, we become more jaded and cynical over time.
  • What Women Want That They Don’t Tell You

    Sarah Jones
    21 Jul 2015 | 10:14 pm
      Nick’s Note: Today we’re going back to basics — and I mean that in the best way possible. We’re reviewing some of the most important dating fundamentals reinforced through a woman’s perspective. I’m thrilled to have Sarah Jones from Introverted Alpha writing here today. It isn’t your imagination.  We women don’t always tell you exactly what we want. Even though we won’t always spell out exactly what we want from you, as sometimes we don’t even realize what we want at first, that doesn’t mean you have to stay in the dark. There’s a…
  • How to Ditch Small Talk and Get Deep Quickly

    Nick Notas
    14 Jul 2015 | 2:24 am
      We all know that celebrities rehearse their same stock, boring answers to common interview questions. So why is it that Howard Stern is one of the only talk show hosts who gets them to ditch the PR talk and reveal deep, dark secrets? Some people say, “Yeah, well it’s Howard Stern…” as if his specific biological makeup allows him to be the only person who gets people to open up. When really, he’s worked very hard to learn how to push people’s buttons and allow them to be vulnerable. It’s a skill he’s refined for decades and I believe anyone else can master…
  • Older Men Who Like Younger Women Aren’t Creeps

    Nick Notas
    2 Jul 2015 | 10:07 am
    Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So a 34-year old guy can date a 24-year old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 23 years old…that guy’s a pervert. Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But many people in society still look down upon older men dating younger girls. They think it’s creepy and even put them the same category as pedophiles. This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences. So much so, that they don’t go after women they’re actually interested…
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  • Why Adult Personals Sites are the Easiest Way to Get Laid

    19 Aug 2015 | 7:27 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Whether you are in a relationship or currently single, if you like the idea of casual sex, then an adult personals site is a great choice for you. In fact, it is probably the quickest and easiest way for you to get laid. Let’s take a look at why that’s the case. Convenient Like most types of dating sites, an adult personals website is really simple to access. Whenever you have access to the Internet, either through a computer, a laptop or a mobile device, you can search for compatible sex dating…
  • Adult Dating for Pleasure Seekers

    12 Aug 2015 | 6:37 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Pleasure seekers are always looking for their next thrill and finding new ways to have some fun and sex is an important element of the pleasure people get in their lives. If you are looking for more excitement from your sex life, then adult dating might be just the thing for you. Risk-taking and the thrill of the chase For some people, the most pleasurable part of adult dating is the risks you take when you get involved in connecting with likeminded partners. Many people miss the thrill of the chase…
  • Avoiding Emotional Attachment When Adult Dating

    5 Aug 2015 | 7:48 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at When most people decide to try adult dating, it is something they want to do purely for the physical side of a relationship. They do not want any emotional commitment; just no strings attached sex. However, developing a bond with someone, and this becoming an emotional attachment, is one of the risks associated with this type of dating. Here are some tips on how you can avoid emotional attachment: Be clear about your expectations When you are completing your profile information on an adult personals…
  • Married Dating: An Opportunity for Experimentation

    29 Jul 2015 | 9:18 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at There are many reasons why people choose to embark on a sexual relationship outside of their marriage. Some of these include having fun, taking risks, fulfilling sexual needs and breaking away from their daily routine. Another reason why people may try married dating is because they want to explore their sexuality further and experiment a little. Boring sex life at home Having a boring or non-existent sex life with your spouse is one of the main motivations for people turning to adult dating for sexual…
  • Fun Topics of Conversation for Adult Dating

    22 Jul 2015 | 2:47 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at To attract a person and make them want to become involved in having an extramarital affair with you, you will need to expand on your conversational repertoire. You will begin to correspond with likely adult dating candidates through the messages you exchange and then expand on these once you start dating for real. The types of conversations you have will impact on your success whilst dating. Injecting some fun into these exchanges will make a difference to the type of person you attract, and how much…
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  • Liverpool 0 west ham 3

    29 Aug 2015 | 2:33 pm
    A blistering start by West Ham United at Liverpool culminated in a stunning 3-0 victory on the road for Slaven Bilic’s men. Philipe Coutinho and Mark Noble saw red for hosts Liverpool and West Ham respectively as both sides ended the game with ten men. The home side named an unchanged 11 from Monday night’s goalless draw at Arsenal, but James Tomkins and Manuel Lanzini started for the Hammers
  • Childhood friend who made cristiano ronaldo famous

    29 Aug 2015 | 2:21 pm
    Cristiano Ronaldo has given his old friend and former football teammate, Albert Fantrau a special recognition publicly after recounting how he sacrificed his own football career so that he(Ronaldo) could become a global football icon today. The ultimate sacrifice made by one man named Albert Fantrau sealed his fate for the rest of his life and guaranteed him a meal ticket. The man happens
  • Rapper the game caught fingering 18 year old girl

    29 Aug 2015 | 2:07 pm
    The Game gets close with 18-year old girlfriend, India Love and has a playful time with her in a public park. An exclusive and shocking report by, ex G-Unit rapper, The Game was caught by paparazzi in a public park with his recently turned 18-year old girlfriend, India Love. The compton rapper can be seen performing the lewd act with his finger and giving it a taste as well

    19 Aug 2015 | 2:38 am
    **Introduction** Addmefast is free social exchange network which helps you grow your social presence. Currently thanks to Addmefast you can get more and more Facebook likes, Facebook subcriptions, Google circles, Google +1 , Twitter followers, YouTube views , YouTube channel subscription, YouTube Video likes , Pinterest followers, Soundcloud music listening, Digg followers, StumbleUpon
  • Things to Consider when Getting a Website

    19 Aug 2015 | 2:32 am
    There are lots of people who want to become famous with the help of the internet, and they tend to make various websites in order to make that possible. It’s because this modern world of businesses and internet has guaranteed us a new set of opportunities that we can exploit and apply for the sake of our own income to make our lives better. With the help of the right web designers, for sure
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  • TEST II Yep

    31 Aug 2015 | 4:05 pm
    Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Aliquam feugiat nulla quis eros vestibulum convallis. Quisque vestibulum quis tellus commodo eleifend. Integer malesuada purus a lacus dignissim, id sollicitudin elit pellentesque. Praesent ipsum elit, vehicula at laoreet vel, porttitor sit amet erat. Praesent efficitur nec ipsum in rhoncus. Cras pellentesque lacus non urna euismod malesuada. Duis in felis at felis cursus iaculis. Nulla ullamcorper ullamcorper magna id lacinia. Mauris fermentum efficitur maximus. Nullam mollis, felis tempus imperdiet cursus, quam elit fringilla leo, sit…
  • Think Like a Man! - Part I

    31 Aug 2015 | 4:05 pm
    I am now officially using two of the most superficial apps to date people: Tinder and Happn - I have to say I quite like the concept of Happn; however it doesn't work as it is marketed to. These two apps, which look more like games, give me more dating options than I could possibly handle. It's literally driving me crazy. It's as if the 'candidates' are being shortlisted all the time. Each single word counts. But.. damn! I just wanted some sort of meaningful conversation! Ok, Maybe...just maybe... being swept off my feet! I am not asking too much, am I?I lost count of how many messages are…
  • Online Dating Part I

    31 Aug 2015 | 4:05 pm
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • From Virtual Connection to WTF

    31 Aug 2015 | 4:05 pm
    You might remind Jack from the Virtual Connection post. You might be also curious about our date. Let's say that basically, I was right in my assumptions. I will follow my own advice from now on: Do not engage in excessive online conversation with someone before knowing them in person.So as most of you know, I was looking forward to going to this date. I had been exchanging texts with Jack for a few days and our conversations were quite elaborate and intense. There was some sort of virtual connection there (or maybe I was desperately looking for one).I was perfectly aware that I was creating…
  • Persistence to "MeetUp"

    31 Aug 2015 | 4:05 pm
    So after I broke up with Connor, I admit that I was feeling lonely. Plus, I knew that my flatmate was going on holidays for a while which only contributed to my panic. I would never imagine that I would feel as free, as independent and happy as I feel now! So before she departed, she told me I should 1) stop seeing Connor as it wouldn't do us any good and 2) do some activities and meet new people, not necessarily guys!I actually thought it was a good idea! First, I joined a few dance classes with my friend Esmeralda and we had a lot of fun doing it (We are still doing it on a weekly basis)!
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    I Quit Dating

  • Snap! Snap! A Snap of a Chat: It’s OK That You Don’t Stay Forever

    13 Aug 2015 | 8:08 am
    It’s hard to say exactly where my love for music began. Was it listening to the Beach Boys and The Beatles with my parents while growing up in the sticks of Pennsylvania? Was it covering every inch of my room with The New Kids on the Block as I sang “Step By Step?” Was it … Continue reading Snap! Snap! A Snap of a Chat: It’s OK That You Don’t Stay Forever
  • Dating is Dead 

    8 Aug 2015 | 9:25 am
    Everyone thought I was crazy when I started this blog nearly a year ago – while the others who stood silent couldn’t understand where I was coming from. Then something amazing started to happen – Real writers with real statistics from real psychologists started writing about this new, real world of dating.  Maybe that girl … Continue reading Dating is Dead 
  • The City That Never Sleeps Sleeps Alone

    3 Aug 2015 | 4:23 pm
    The type of evening that cliché romantics are made of. It was even raining. And not the kind of rain where you get uncomfortably and unflatteringly drenched. It was the ambiance-driven, pitter-patter kind of rain that is reflected on the sidewalks and decorates the lights. Even I had to admit that it was lovely. The … Continue reading The City That Never Sleeps Sleeps Alone
  • Let’s Get Back Together…..

    28 Jul 2015 | 11:31 am
    It’s been a long three months my friends. So long that I wish I had a better story to tell as to how this blog – one that started with so much fist punching dating anarchy ended up buried. Did she meet someone? Did she get married? Did she start dating? Did she die? No? … Continue reading Let’s Get Back Together…..
  • I Am a Banana – Stand Too Close and I’ll Rot

    9 Apr 2015 | 2:15 pm
    One minute you have a beautiful bunch of green bananas and the next they’re ALL a bundle of mush. How many times has this happened to you? I never inquired, I never thought about it, I just thought, “This must be life as a banana” until I met a very helpful cashier at Trader Joe’s … Continue reading I Am a Banana – Stand Too Close and I’ll Rot
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    The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful

  • Kate Winslet Takes on Fat Shamers & a Groundbreaking Book asks, “What’s Wrong With Fat?”

    31 Aug 2015 | 9:29 am
    I love Kate Winslet. I want to invite her over for dinner. This desire was compounded when she started a fire using only lip balm and a tampon on Running Wild with Bear Grylls last week and yesterday when she took a stance against online bullies by posting a photo of herself without hair & make-up accompanied by this message: “I know I am chubby, I have big feet, and have bad hair days. When I grew up and even now sometimes, I hardly hear any positive reinforcement about body image from any female. I mostly hear negatives. But I know most of the negatives come from the people who are…
  • Red Flags #5 and #6 That You’re Dating an Asshat!

    28 Aug 2015 | 3:48 pm
    My online #AsshatRecovery tutorial is up and running on my relationship site and I’m now taking clients who would like to ditch their Asshat and find real love. Pop over and have a look. In the meantime you can pop over to read Red Flag #5 and #6 to get your bearings. The post Red Flags #5 and #6 That You’re Dating an Asshat! appeared first on The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful.
  • How to Seduce Your Wife

    25 Aug 2015 | 11:07 am
    My husband is a very canny man. But I didn’t realize exactly how much so until last Mother’s Day. I’d convinced him we should spend it with his mother. (Did an inchoate Dread shadow his footsteps after agreeing? Breathe down his back in the still of the night? Were there warning omens and vexing portents that he was heading into a trap? And even worse, a woman’s trap?) I said things like this. And actually thought I meant them: “I don’t really care that much about Mother’s Day. It’s a Hallmark holiday and I’m sick of being held hostage by…
  • Best Dating, Sex, Love & Life Advice Around The Web This Week

    21 Aug 2015 | 7:00 am Because self-promotion. If you’re trying to quit a Casanova (male or female) you’re going to want to take a look at Week 6 in my Asshat Recovery Program. The following image hints at my latest revelation: Breaking Through With Dr. Gary Penn I love Dr. Penn because I can just put one of his podcasts on while I’m driving, cooking, online shopping and/or perfecting my Cuban Motion for my Rhumba class and walk away feeling my emotional intelligence IQ has risen several extra points. His latest half-hour podcast, Why Can’t You Find Someone To Love! The…
  • WTH? Alpha Phi are you Serious With This? aka All Blondes Look Alike

    18 Aug 2015 | 10:25 am
    Just when you thought it was safe to send your Hispanic, African-American, Asian or Redheaded daughter to college, the Alpha Phi of Alabama Recruitment Video Happens: I feel that I must apologize, on behalf of all Blondes, for our marginalization of any other shade of hair, save for a few token Brunettes. Please tell me this Alpha Phi recruitment video was meant ironically? Thoughts? The post WTH? Alpha Phi are you Serious With This? aka All Blondes Look Alike appeared first on The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful.
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    Get A Beautiful Girlfriend

  • Salesman, Scientist and White Space

    Captain Jack
    30 Aug 2015 | 9:01 pm
    This post is going to give you some of the MOST IMPORTANT ideas you’ll need to become successful. Seriously. Take it to heart. Really examine it and put yourself to the test. Are you measuring up? You wanna be successful with women? (Or, anything else?)  I bet you do! Shit man, I know I was HUNGRY at the beginning and even later when I started to get good and got a real solid idea of just how good a person could get I got even HUNGRIER. I’ve talked quite a bit about being scientific. The people who are the most methodical come out ahead eventually. (That doesn’t mean…
  • The End of Social Debt: You Are Going to Succeed with Women

    Captain Jack
    14 Aug 2015 | 3:54 pm
    I’m writing this from my sweet home office. I’m about to make another bedroom into a mini-studio for audio and video stuff that I have coming at you in the near future. Right now, I’ve got a few minutes to spare before Ratisse interviews me.  I’ll let you guys know when that interview is up. The MAIN reason I’m writing is because I want you to know that you ARE going to succeed. You are going to get your dating life in a fantastic place. I’ve seen so many do it, I’ve done it myself in several different ways. I’m coaching guys RIGHT NOW in doing…
  • Creating an Abundance of Choices

    Captain Jack
    30 Jun 2015 | 10:13 am
    I’ve been coaching off and on for almost 10 years now. Most men struggle because they don’t know WHAT to say when they are engaged in a conversation to start the relationship down the path they want… ..or… …they have so few women in their life they don’t get enough opportunities to make the connection. Fortunately, both of those problems are solvable and already solved.  In getting a Beautiful Girlfriend the first situation you want to handle is to recognize that you’ve most likely structured your life (or it just sort of happened this way with not…
  • The Search

    Captain Jack
    30 Jun 2015 | 7:58 am
    This is article 4 in a series… if you’ve not read the previous article “A Game Where Both Players Win” click the link. If you’ve not read any of the articles go to the beginning. Now that you’ve seen that we are talking about a Game where both Players can win we can start laying the groundwork. It is how to FIND and then ATTRACT a woman. But, even before that, you have a few decisions to make. The first thing you have to decide is that you really WANT a beautiful girlfriend. For the best chances of long-term success you shouldn’t just get sucked into…
  • A Game Where Both Players Win

    Captain Jack
    30 Jun 2015 | 7:07 am
    This is Part 3 of a series. If you haven’t read the previous post in this series go here… or, if you haven’t read ANY of the posts go to the beginning of the series here Have you ever thought why it’s called “The Dating Game?” Or, why it’s been called a “Game” for hundreds of years? And… why men who see a lot of women at once are called “Players?” Remember, that book from the 1990s called “The Rules” by Fein and Schneider which gave women a set of ‘Rules’ to follow in Dating? The Courtship process…
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    Sexy Confidence

  • Is Dating An Older Man Weird? EXPLAINED

    Adam LoDolce
    20 Aug 2015 | 11:42 am
    Fun Fact: My mom knitted my uncle this sweater almost 50 years ago.We see it all the time – the 24 year old actress dating the 45 year old producer or the 28 year old “yo pro” dating the 34 year old engineer. Is it weird? Is it gross? Or is it perfectly natural? In this week’s video I’m going to answer the age old question, should you date older men? Watch it below. What do you think? I’d love to hear from you in the comments section. Your coach, Adam
  • How to Make Him Chase You

    Adam LoDolce
    13 Aug 2015 | 5:56 am
    Do you feel like the only guys that are chasing you, are the guys you DON’T want? And when you finally start falling for a guy, he doesn’t chase you… Well, all of that nonsense stops today. In this week’s video I teach you three strategies that will make any man chase you. Watch the video “How to Make Him Chase You” Have you ever chased a guy and regretted it? I’d love to hear from you, leave a comment below. Your Bud, Adam
  • How to Stop Being Clingy

    Adam LoDolce
    5 Aug 2015 | 7:04 am
    If you can’t shower alone…then you’re a stage 5 clinger.Have you ever been in a relationship and lost your “sense of self”? And once that happens, you find yourself clinging to your boyfriend/girlfriend for dear life because your partner has become your only hope for happiness. Well, if this has ever happened to you, then you’ll probably agree that it can be very dangerous. So in this week’s video, I show you how to maintain your independent identity in a relationship. Watch the video “How to Stop Being Clingy (And Maintain Your…
  • What Men Find Beautiful In a Woman

    Adam LoDolce
    30 Jul 2015 | 6:04 am
    There’s nothing sexy about brushing teeth. We’ve heard it time and again that “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. This may be true – but there is still ONE key component to beauty that all men find wildly attractive in a woman. And no, it has nothing to do with your hair, nails or perfume. It’s something much deeper. Find out in this new video, “What Men Find Beautiful in a Woman”. I know this video is going to be a bit controversial, so I’d love to hear from you. Do you agree with my definition of beauty? Leave a comment below. Your…
  • 9 Signs He ONLY Wants to Hook Up

    Adam LoDolce
    22 Jul 2015 | 5:38 am
    If he doesn’t sick around after making love…then he’s probably not in love. Truth: Men are much more capable of having a purely sexual relationship than women. Do some women ONLY want sex? Yes, of course, but it’s much more rare than with men – even in the 21st century. There are some guys out there that ONLY want to hook up, and have zero interest in a relationship. They don’t want to meet your Dad. They don’t want to give you flowers. And they definitely don’t want to snuggle for hours on end. So what can you do? Watch out for the signs in…
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    Getting to TRUE Love

  • Should I Be Worried He'll Never Talk To Me Again?

    28 Aug 2015 | 2:45 am
    I still can't help but feel I've done something wrong. One of our gorgeous readers, Emma, has been dating a guy for five months who suddenly told her that he needed some space, and then subsequently disappeared. Here's her email: Dear Jane, I have been dating this guy for around five months. We aren't officially together yet but we have both expressed the interest in being officially together. He works night shift and has to work most weekends with his job and lives a hour and a half away. I only get to see him once a week usually. We have had many successful dates together even a weekend…
  • It Begins With One Simple Act

    25 Aug 2015 | 2:45 am
    Each and every act sends the same subtle message; you matter. It’s the simplest thing. It all begins simply by noticing. Noticing. You have to stop long enough to notice if you’re going to see anything different at all. Your soft skin, your silky hair, your beautiful eyes. Your strong arms. Your long legs. Brushing each strand of your gorgeous, sensuous hair in long, broad, strokes. Consciously noticing. Applying moisturizer to your beautiful soft, skin. Feeling the lotion on your body. It feels different from your usual routine when you leave a little extra time for the process instead…
  • He's Playing With My Heart

    21 Aug 2015 | 2:45 am
    He's playing games with me and it really hurts. One of our beautiful readers, who has chosen to remain anonymous (I've called her "Hurting"), has been dating a man for 3-1/2 years who has been playing with her heart, but she just can't bring herself to let go. Here's her story: Hi Jane: I would like to start off by saying how much I enjoy receiving your newsletters everyday. Sometimes, when I read them, I feel like you can see right into my current situation. I have been with a man for 3 1/2 years now (IF you want to call it being with) who has been playing with my heart. For the first year…
  • Has he changed? Can a person change?

    14 Aug 2015 | 2:45 am
    Why did he tell me he didn't want a serious relationship, and now he's in a serious relationship with her? One of our beautiful readers, who calls herself "Bdoll", has been with an emotionally unavailable guy on and off for the better part of the last five years. He had consistently told her that he didn't want a serious relationship, only to suddenly break up with her and start a serious relationship with another woman. Here's her email: I dated someone for 4.5 years on and off.  They say when someone says they don't want to get married, or have a long term relationship, it means "with…
  • He's Choosing, Too

    11 Aug 2015 | 2:45 am
    What he wants is what he's choosing. Amidst all the excuses we have for him. Amidst all the stories we tell ourselves about why he treats us the way he does. Amidst all the reasons we have for staying with him, there lies one simple truth. He’s choosing, too. He’s choosing to do what works for him. He’s choosing to not call. He’s choosing to text you for last minute plans. These are choices, not excuses, not reasons, not subconscious dilemmas or long-thought out processes. This is him choosing, too. He’s choosing what feels comfortable to him. He’s choosing what works for him.
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  • Attraction Is Not A Choice, So Why Aren’t You Taking In Charge?

    31 Aug 2015 | 5:44 am
    Well-meaning people will tell you that attraction is not a choice, and you have probably heard that line repeated time and time again in relation to dating and meeting women. While it may sound like good advice, you may not have thought what it means to you and your relationships. Consider this: if attraction is not a choice in women, it is also not a choice for you. Where attraction is concerned, you simply do not control the steering wheel and you are neither the driver nor the pilot. When real, spontaneous attraction happens, it happens – whether or not you have permission.
  • PUA Openers: Never Use A Pickup Line Again

    28 Aug 2015 | 6:16 am
    It’s no secret, getting somewhere with a beautiful woman can be difficult. You will be ahead of the game if you understand the following principle: the absolute most important part of capturing the interest of any woman is your initial approach. Your approach sets the stage for the entire rest of your encounter with her. In fact, your approach is the single most significant factor of whether or not you will be ultimately successful. This is where pua openers can work magic. A pua opener is more than just a pickup line. It is a strategy, a philosophy, and a state of mind. I want you to…
  • 7 Surprising Lessons Travelling Solo Can Teach You About Meeting Girls

    David Eschenlohr
    24 Aug 2015 | 5:04 am
    Travelling is good, travelling on your own is better–at least when it comes to developing your personality. There is something magical about being exposed to different environments and cultures. I’ve been away from home for 3 years now, and whenever I visit a new place, I pick up some valuable lessons about myself and meeting girls. Here is what I’ve learned so far: 1) Embrace The Unpredictable Both traveling and meeting girls are unpredictable ventures. As men, we like to categorize things and systematize our efforts. But oftentimes these efforts don’t help. Just when…
  • How To Become Less Needy In A Relationship

    20 Aug 2015 | 6:45 am
    MR. Nice Guy No More If you always appear needy when talking to a girl, you are an easy catch. Bro, girls want challenge, they want to get what they cannot have, therefore if you are always putting that Mr. Nice Guy look complete with a fake smile, when talking to girls, you will watch as the players take the hottest girls and all you will be left with will be spoils. And you will be asking yourself: what did he say that was so special that made that girl fall for him? You will try to figure out what players are doing, you will even watch them talk to girls with all the jealousy boiling on…
  • How To Talk To A Girl On Facebook That You’ve Never Met

    15 Aug 2015 | 4:24 am
    I know what you are thinking: girls, women are very complicated creatures. So complicated, in fact that walking on hot coals would be much easier than getting up the nerve to talk to them, especially the ones you’ve never met in person. You’d think that with the advent of the Internet, social media, private messaging and its ilk that dating would be so much easier. Well, is it? Actually, you’re right. Meeting a girl and talking to her just got that much more convenient thanks to online platforms and apps. These days, you don’t have to look like a supermodel or be a…
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  • SF Is Very Very Small

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    30 Aug 2015 | 3:32 pm
    I keep forgetting SF is very very small.  While I was walking around by Yerba Buena, saw this guy I went on a date with a month ago.  I think we both pretended not to see each other, LOL.  This did not offend me, feelings of no spark were mutual.
  • No Thanks

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    29 Aug 2015 | 10:01 pm
    Went out with a new guy tonight.  Don't plan on seeing him again.  He gave me a speech about my job and said I looked different from my picture, LOL.  He also wanted to argue.  He tried to make the date a lot longer, no thanks.  We did have a good meal, (the food was good).
  • Grow Up

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    27 Aug 2015 | 3:10 pm
    New Leaf Guy has been trying to play facebook games with me while he's on his work trips.  I'll check in somewhere and he'll email me something long and obnoxious about how I'm having a great time while he's slaving away.  Then he'll post some photo of a nice meal.  I'm not playing and he's been disqualified, so?He has sent me a few emails, texts, facebook messages about business related things.  I have responded cordially to those.
  • Categories

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    25 Aug 2015 | 10:22 am
    I was thinking about Smart Guy the other day because he texted me...again.  Smart Guy used to try throw me into categories (they included:  alcoholic, slut, prude, cheater, et al).  Every time he thought he figured it out, he learned he was wrong.  Why was there a need to categorize me?  We should have been getting to know each other not trying to label each other.He was the type who liked to ask "Why" and argue.  The "why" was okay, the wanting to argue was not okay.  He'd basically tried to "prove" my opinion was wrong.  Bruh, it's an opinion.
  • Dating Coach

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    23 Aug 2015 | 8:35 pm
    Many guys in San Francisco could use a dating coach.  I'm often tempted to offer constructive feedback when I go on a terrible date.  I don't do it.  The worst thing is, I don't think many of these SF men are aware that their dating skills suck.
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  • 13 Ways to Know If a Woman Is Flirting With You

    Thomas Edwards
    28 Aug 2015 | 12:00 pm
    Here's a fun infographic I found on detailing how to know if a woman is flirting with you. The key here is understanding it's not just ONE but MULTIPLE signs that will tell if she's being flirty or just friendly.Also, see the amazing stat at the bottom that talks about flirting versus looks. After reading it, you'll have one less excuse – not that you had one anyway.
  • How to Find a Date is Easy If You Open Your Eyes

    Thomas Edwards
    4 Aug 2015 | 12:10 pm
    My friend, Jesse Morris sent me an email this past weekend, showing me a video by his good buddy Max Stossel, basically talking about what could be missed if we just focus on getting from A to B.As you know, I've talked about this often, even going as far as writing my guide to meeting women on public transportation. But this video illustrates what could happen if you just opened your eyes.* To see the original piece on Elite Daily, click here.*dancing in the station and subway isn't guaranteed.
  • 5 Ways To Tell If There's Sexual Chemistry On The First Date

    Thomas Edwards
    28 Jul 2015 | 8:29 am
    Credit: You’ve had those dates that start with disappointment and end with a hangover. The ones where your date fabricated their entire Tinder profile, ones who showed up intoxicated or couldn’t maintain eye contact — unless your eyes are suddenly on your chest, that is.It’s hard to keep on keepin’ on when so many dates go from bad to worse before you finish your glass of vino — but what inspires you to go for gold? Or at least venture out on thirsty Thursday? The possibility of sexual chemistry on the first date. As well as you know the terrible…
  • 15 Things Entourage Can Teach You About Dating (Part 2)

    Thomas Edwards
    22 Jul 2015 | 11:13 am
    Credit: This is part 2 of a 3 part series where I chat about the characters of Entourage, their personalities, what made them attractive, but most importantly, how you can incorporate some of these characteristics into your own DNA.Missed the first part? Check it out here. Credit: Johnny “Drama” ChaseThe older half-brother of Vincent Chase, most people forget that Drama was the one who moved out to LA first. Not only that, but he also boarded Vince and Turtle for several months when they first came over from Queens, New York.And…
  • 10 Ways to End A Date Like A Gentleman (I.E. Without Hurting Her Feelings)

    Thomas Edwards
    9 Jul 2015 | 12:35 pm
    Credit: I regularly contribute my expertise with the writers of AskMen on various topics on dating and relationships. Here's one of them.You’ve been there: the girl you’re out with is fine, but you’re not really that interested. You’re not sure what it is about her — maybe you’re not attracted to her, maybe the conversation is dry, maybe you’re not over your ex-girlfriend — whatever it is, you want to get out of the date… now.But since going to the bathroom and sneaking away is a total jerk move, how do you exit a date-gone-bad without hurting her feelings?Thomas…
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  • How to Flirt With a Guy Over Text

    23 Aug 2015 | 3:16 pm
    How to Flirt With a Guy Over Text If you want to know how to flirt with a guy over text, then you will need to identify a couple of things first.  Like have you met in person yet?  Trying to flirt with a guy over text will be a little more difficult if you […] The post How to Flirt With a Guy Over Text appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • How to Meet Men Who Make You Feel Special

    10 Aug 2015 | 11:24 am
    How to Meet Men Who Make You Feel Special Ever wondered how to meet men who can make you feel such a way that you don’t want to do anything but be with them 24/7? Well you are not alone as thousands of women looking for men worldwide are asking the experts the question of […] The post How to Meet Men Who Make You Feel Special appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • How to Determine Whether a Man Really Loves You

    5 Aug 2015 | 8:36 am
    How to Determine Whether a Man Really Loves You If you have been in a relationship for a while you may be trying to determine if the man really loves you or not.  This can be a complicated question and many women will not ask because they do not want to frighten the man away.  […] The post How to Determine Whether a Man Really Loves You appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • How to Get Him to See Who You Really Are

    28 Jul 2015 | 9:05 am
    How to Get Him to See Who You Really Are If you are in a relationship with an occasionally inattentive man and want to know how to get him to see who you really are, you have to show yourself to him.  After all, he has probably become complacent with you or just needs a nudge in […] The post How to Get Him to See Who You Really Are appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • Looking for Mr Right after Age 40

    20 Jul 2015 | 10:43 am
    Looking for Mr Right after Age 40 Looking for Mr Right is what every woman who dreams of happiness, love, and marriage seeks from childhood to adulthood.  The journey is a profoundly changing one that can end swiftly or take some time to play out. Not every journey has a happy ending however.  For some […] The post Looking for Mr Right after Age 40 appeared first on Finding A Man.
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