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  • Uncovering the Most Toxic Pattern in Relationship

    Peg Streep
    18 Dec 2014 | 8:58 am
    Of all the behaviors that can damage or torpedo relationships, there's one that's been singled out as especially pernicious. Is this a pattern of interaction at your house? Or do you sometimes get perilously close? If so, ignore this post at your own more
  • The 100 Best Dating Sites of 2014

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    Heather Dundon
    17 Dec 2014 | 5:05 am
    Are 100 dating sites really enough?
  • Tinder VS Real Life

    Sean Winn
    3 Dec 2014 | 8:38 am
    Imagine live in a bigger city, it’s a sunny Saturday and you walk trough the streets with a friend of yours. Whenever you see a girl that you find attractive, one of you has to approach her. How many do you need to approach until you got 1 number? I would guess between 2-10 for most guys, dependent on how good their game and experience is. That’s somewhere around 30%. Second scenario, you’re sitting at home, it’s a rainy boring day and you swipe through tinder trying to get lucky. How many girls do you have to like until you got a match? On average around 50!
  • The Art of Dating Yourself

    I Quit Dating
    8 Dec 2014 | 10:44 am
    I shy away from giving advice on this blog, mostly because I’m not qualified to advise people on the topics of which I discuss. Dating? Relationships? Why would I encourage people to take advice about such subjects from a girl like me who is blogging at a link like this? Don’t worry, I wouldn’t either. […]
  • The 20 Best Dating Articles We Read In November 2014

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    Elizabeth Marie
    4 Dec 2014 | 8:43 am
    Happy December! It’s definitely the most wonderful time of the year! Before we dive headfirst into December and all the holiday goodness it has to offer, let’s take a minute to appreciate the best dating articles we read in November. 1. Chances are you’ll be watching Love Actually many times this winter, I know I will! But have you ever thought how different Love Actually would be if it were made today? Hilarious. (Cosmopolitan UK) 2. Tis the season for overindulgence and eating ourselves into a coma! Fun, right? Here are some great tips on how to stay healthy and sexy this…
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  • “Mr. Mom” The Old Normal

    Darcia Narvaez, Ph.D.
    18 Dec 2014 | 12:31 pm
    When it comes to parenting, mothers traditionally get all of the attention. But biology and evolution show us that dads are essential more
  • Uncovering the Most Toxic Pattern in Relationship

    Peg Streep
    18 Dec 2014 | 8:58 am
    Of all the behaviors that can damage or torpedo relationships, there's one that's been singled out as especially pernicious. Is this a pattern of interaction at your house? Or do you sometimes get perilously close? If so, ignore this post at your own more
  • The Power of Befriending Our Feelings

    John Amodeo, PhD, MFT
    17 Dec 2014 | 9:46 pm
    This article offers a path to develop a skillful relationship with the full range of our feelings as they arise in the moment. This is a middle path between avoiding our feelings and fueling them. The article describes a way of being mindful of feelings without merging with them and getting lost in more
  • Do You Need a Best Friend at Work?

    Ron Friedman, Ph.D.
    17 Dec 2014 | 10:46 am
    Studies reveal why friends are better at working together than more
  • Don’t Just Salvage Your Relationship—Recreate It!

    Leon F. Seltzer, Ph.D.
    17 Dec 2014 | 10:06 am
    Positive connotations for the word "salvage" aren’t very favorable. For salvaging something typically involves rescuing it after it’s been all but lost or destroyed. Whatever is retrieved is hardly in the best shape. If you’re in a relationship that has seriously decayed, merely “saving” it from its final demise doesn’t mean you’ve made it all that much more
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • Just Because You’ve Agreed To Something Previously, It Doesn’t Mean That You ‘Should’ Do So Again

    Natalie (NML)
    16 Dec 2014 | 2:41 pm
    At this time of year, I hear from a lot of people who are battling against what they perceive as the weighty expectations of their nearest and dearest about Christmas / The Holidays  In their heart of hearts, they don’t want to do whatever is being asked (or are assuming is expected) and yet based on this notion that because they’ve for instance, gone to Aunt Flo’s every year or because they are somebody’s child hence they must do what mom and dad say even if they’re a mum and dad themselves or just old enough to be an actual adult, they don’t feel as if they have a…
  • Other People’s Behaviour: Why do you want it to be about you?

    Natalie (NML)
    10 Dec 2014 | 4:37 pm
    When you find that you’re persisting down the Other People’s Behaviour Is All About Me track and are getting stuck on blame, ask yourself, “Why do I want it to be about me?”What are you getting out of making it all about you? Something about blame feels purposeful and may even be giving you a sense of importance that would be better felt through learning (or re-learning) to value and appreciate you, not from being a blame absorber.  If other people’s behaviour is about you, what is your own behaviour about? Who is your behaviour about? I used to be an equal…
  • There’s a difference between personality and character

    Natalie (NML)
    3 Dec 2014 | 2:49 pm
    Earlier this year (I can’t believe it’s already December), I explained how ‘charming’ tends to be a precursor to code red problems. Mistaking charm as being indicative of other characteristics and values is an example of where we fall into the trap of mistaking personality for character, which are not one and the same thing.  Personality is about persona and that ultimately comes down to the qualities and characteristics that we want to put across but this may not always be the same as those which represent our true and consistent character. It’s about ‘outside’…
  • Take the focus off them and bring it back to you

    Natalie (NML)
    26 Nov 2014 | 3:31 pm
    Our relationships romantic and otherwise, give us a window into understanding who we are and where we need to step up for ourselves. When we find that we’re experiencing the lather, rinse, repeat of the same type of person in a different package and the Groundhog Day of yet another situation that leaves us feeling and thinking a certain way, it’s time to ask: What am I missing here? What am I overlooking? When we experience the pain of a person unfolding into who they truly are and it falling short of who we wanted and even expected them to be, it’s hard to think about lessons and…
  • Being passive and a pleaser can make you a sitting duck for unavailable relationships

    Natalie (NML)
    18 Nov 2014 | 3:32 pm
    Sound familiar? You’re agreeable and try not to be or do anything that would give your date an opinion on you. Unsure of who you are and what you want, you rely on others to direct you. You’re also afraid of who you truly are being wrong and so you align yourself with ‘authorities’ (people with an overinflated sense of their own importance). You typically audition on dates and are more concerned with whether you can get them to like and validate you than you are with whether they’re a good fit. You’re so busy worrying about how awful it would be if these virtual…
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    Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40™

  • New guy

    Dating Goddess
    16 Dec 2014 | 3:07 pm
    The beginning of getting to know someone is both energizing and frightening. The energy comes from enjoying the conversation and fantasizing about what could be. The frightening part comes from remembering past first encounters that didn’t result in a second. If you found the man appealing and wanted to see him again but he felt otherwise, the rejection stings. So it is with a measured attitude I step into exploring a new man. He’s been wonderful during our two calls and dozen emails. I like his sense of humor, his humility, and what I can tell of his life view. But I’ve…
  • Scratching his head

    Dating Goddess
    30 Nov 2014 | 6:15 pm
    A friend’s 35-year-old son accompanied his father and step-mother to visit me recently. I’d gotten to know him as a young man and he was in town so they wanted us all to catch up. He’s a nice guy, but he has some “issues” most women would have a hard time getting around. As he shared that he’s had trouble getting a girlfriend I had to bite my tongue from saying, “I can understand why.” * He lives in his car when he’s not couch surfing at friends’ and relatives’. * He doesn’t have a job. * His hair is half-way down his…
  • Are you too clingy?

    Dating Goddess
    14 Aug 2014 | 12:50 pm
    “Clingy” has different definitions to different people. Some like their space, while others like to be continually touching when together. Others like to show their affection often and in public and some are more reserved. With this in mind, I watched as I spent time with a couple of six months. She was continually touching him, and frequently mentioning how much she loves him and what an amazing man he is. He didn’t initiate any physical contact nor verbal affection. While he didn’t recoil at her touch and comments, nor did he smile or reciprocate. It seemed totally…
  • What’s appropriate first-date attire?

    Dating Goddess
    3 Aug 2014 | 7:38 pm
    After a few good phone conversations, we agreed to meet for afternoon coffee. It was a beautiful perfect-weather day, so I decided to wear a cute summer outfit.  I spent an hour taking a shower, dressing and getting my cute on. Arriving early, I staked out an outdoor table at the coffee shop. He called to say he just drove by and was parking. That was thoughtful. So imagine was surprise when he walked up in work-out shorts, t-shirt and sneakers. He obviously didn’t spend a nano-second thinking about first impressions. He knew I was a successful businesswoman. Did he think he would be…
  • “Somebody That I Used To Know”

    Dating Goddess
    28 Jul 2014 | 2:16 pm
    I love that song by Gotye. I think it encapsulates the lingering hurt many of us feel after an unpleasant breakup. When I first heard the song, I immediately thought the title perfectly reflected my feelings about my ex. I didn’t have the resentment expressed in the lyrics, but the title seemed to fit. However, after 20 years together, how could he really be just be someone I used to know? Yes, it did feel like it was eons ago — another lifetime — that we were together. Yet there are sweet memories of the times we shared. But some recent news of his enduring some serious…
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  • 12 Days Of Christmas Love, Peace, & Joy For Christmas

    3 Dec 2014 | 4:25 am
    The best Christmas present is not the one that you want to receive in your relationship, it is the one inside of you waiting to be given to your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend. Many people make intense Christmas efforts to find the perfect material gift while already having the most precious Christmas gift of […]
  • Cheap Womens Rings Online, Ladies, Teens, & Girls Rings

    5 Nov 2014 | 9:21 am
    Many of the affordable women’s or ladies rings listed below may be made to order with personalization options. Please check the finger size of the lady, teen, girl, or daughter in advance for necessary accuracy. Some of the women’s rings include their own custom presentation cases, this makes them ideal for gift giving and for […]
  • Cheap Promise Rings Engraved Cheap Diamond Promise Rings Engraved

    1 Nov 2014 | 7:14 pm
    The diamond promise rings for women listed below will touch your girlfriends heart. She needs to know that your promise to her is meaningful. Making a promise with words is cheap without loves corresponding actions. Many boyfriends make fleeting word promises and never express their promises with promise rings. The promise rings below are fairly […]
  • True Love Feelings, Emotional Feelings Of Love

    26 Oct 2014 | 6:22 pm
    The feelings of love we feel come from an initiation of love, where love intercommunicates loving intentions. The feelings of love follow the affections of love by way of love intentionality. In other words, love feelings follow loving actions. Love feelings are felt within our hearts, we feel the love that others touch us with, […]
  • Virtues List, Positive Character Traits Healthy Love Attributes

    20 Oct 2014 | 7:14 pm
    A virtue is a character trait valued as being good. When the components of a relationship are right, then love will fill the voids. Love is not just looking at one another, but looking together in the same direction. Love needs to be intertwined with positive character attributes, in a complex mental state involving beliefs, feelings, values, and […]
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  • Bossman Show (JR The Bossman presents TrueSpeech Thursday)

    JR The Bossman Show
    18 Dec 2014 | 9:00 pm
    JR The Bossman (@JRTheBossman) and The Bossman Show (@BossmanShow) presents TrueSpeech (@myTRUESPEECH) Thursday where JR The Bossman and TrueSpeech dish knowledge to people on a vast array of topics ranging from life, sports, relationships, dating, business and a whole lot more. Stay connected with all things Bossman Show (@BossmanShow) at
  • ALTRUISM Is The New Sexy?? SPECIAL GUEST Gichi Gamba

    18 Dec 2014 | 7:00 pm
    Why wouldn’t the opposite sex be attracted to you? Well, maybe you still need to work on that onion breath and curly back hair, but aside from that, you’re personality is emitting ‘sexy’ left and right!  Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice—which means; self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction—which means: the self as a standard of evil,…
  • The King Me Show: When The Love Is Gone (Should You Stay)?

    Restoring Your Reality
    18 Dec 2014 | 7:00 pm
    When the love fades away, why do we stay? Do we stay because of the kids? Do we stay because its cheaper to keep her or him? Do we stay because of time? Can a person feel when someone is falling out of love with them? How much of ourselves should we compromise or sacrifice while in a relationship? When the love is gone can it always come back? Can you hate a person and love them at the same time? Can you be in a relationship and love someone else at the same time?
  • Why the idea of trying to make a good impression on a man or woman is a mistake

    Alan Roger Currie
    18 Dec 2014 | 7:00 pm
    "Upfront & Straightforward" Host Alan Roger Currie conducts another one of his entertaining "Open Forum Discussion" format shows, with this one centering on the drawbacks and weaknesses of attempting to leave men and women with a "good impression" of yourself in a first conversation and/or a first date Get a FREE copy of Alan Roger Currie's "Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking" on Get a FREE copy of Alan Roger Currie's "The Possibility of Sex: How Naïve and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly" on  Alan Roger Currie on
  • #IGNITEyourLife with Toy Parker: #TheLoveFactor - Make Love Your Superpower

    IGNITE your Life w Toy Parker
    18 Dec 2014 | 6:30 pm
    Are you ready for a #life shift from the ordinary to the AMAZING?! Join Toy Parker every Thursday at 9:30pm EST for our weekly #IGNITEyourLife session! Get power points from Toy and other industry experts on how to live an #EPICLIFENOW in love, business and life! We are going to unblock the roadblocks to your life success! Follow us and get ready for the sparks that will truly #IGNITEyourLife! This week, my monthly guest co-host Jason Peele joins me again to talk about love and relationships in our monthly segment #TheLoveFactor. We will finish our conversation on Love Languages and how to…
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • Zoosk Ditches IPO Plan As Founders Exit Leadership Roles (Mark Brooks)
    19 Dec 2014 | 12:39 am
    TECH CRUNCH - Dec 17 - Zoosk's CFO Kelly Steckelberg is taking over as CEO. She will be replacing co-founder Shayan Zadeh, who is becoming a member of the board, and his co-founder Alex Mehr (currently president) will also be moving into a board position. The shift comes at a time when Zoosk is reassessing the idea of an IPO. The company filed an S-1 for a $100M IPO, but has since decided to revisit that option at a later date. by Jordan CrookSee full article at Tech Crunch See all posts on Zoosk This post also appears on InternetDatingInvestments. Summarized by
  • Joel Simkhai About His 6 Years Old Grindr (Mark Brooks)
    18 Dec 2014 | 10:39 am
    NY TIMES - Dec 18 - It has been nearly six years since Mr. Simkhai introduced the world to Grindr, a geosocial networking gay app. In both free and subscription-based versions, Grindr employs the GPS function of a smartphone to allow a user to identify men within relative proximity. The app claims 4M users in 192 countries, reportedly including Afghanistan, Iraq, Iran and Ghana, places where by being gay, people sometimes risk death. “Grindr is a very, very visual experience,” said Mr. Simkhai, who occasionally posts a shirtless photograph on his own profile. “Outside the gay community,…
  • Momo's Impressive IPO (Mark Brooks)
    18 Dec 2014 | 10:32 am
    NASDAQ - Dec 16 - Alibaba-backed Chinese social media firm Momo Inc.'s IPO was an impressive one. Shares of the company surged 26% to $17.02 on December 11. The IPO was priced at $13.50. Launched in 2011 by Tang Yan, Momo is a mobile IM app that lets users post their pictures and profiles. In Chinese, Momo means unacquainted and it is sometimes referred to as China's Tinder. The app is free. But users can upgrade to get "VIP logos," advanced search and the right to follow more users for $18 a year. The app had 180M registered accounts, 60M monthly active users (MAU) and 2.3M paying…
  • Spark Networks Appoints Michael S. Egan As CEO (Mark Brooks)
    18 Dec 2014 | 10:14 am
    MARKETWIRED - Dec 15 - Michael J. McConnell will step down from his position as Interim Executive Chairman on January 2, 2015, but will retain his role as Chairman of the Board of Directors. Michael S. Egan is the new CEO. He is joining the company from Internet Brands, Inc., where he served as its Senior VP and Group GM of the Home, Careers, Money and Health Divisions. He also held several senior positions at Yahoo! between 2003 - 2008. See full article at CNN Money See all posts on Spark Networks Summarized by
  • Grindr's Users Just Want To See Profile Pictures (Mark Brooks)
    18 Dec 2014 | 10:00 am
    GIGAOM - Dec 15 - Grindr redesigned its iOS and Android app this month, abolishing text from users' profiles. If a user wants more information on someone than just their picture, they’ll have to click further. Grindr founder Joel Simkhai says he’s just giving the users what they want. “Men are visual creatures,” Simkhai says. by Carmel DeAmicisSee full article at GigaOm See all posts on Grindr Summarized by
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  • 10 Red Flags He Won't Commit To You

    James Michael Sama
    24 Nov 2014 | 12:54 pm
    When we are committing our time, energy, and attention to someone – it is only natural that we
  • 11 Ways To Show A Man You Love Him

    James Michael Sama
    24 Nov 2014 | 9:30 am
    In recent articles, we have discussed how some men tend to communicate their love non-verbally. Whil

    24 Nov 2014 | 9:00 am
    It is no secret that I am unlucky in love. I date often and very rarely do I see somebody for a second time. A few weeks ago I met a doctor lesbian. I don’t mean medical doctor, she actually has her PhD in psychiatry, or something like that. We had dinner at a sushi restaurant in Northampton. We drank, of course, and had really nice conversation. After our date I met up with another date for drinks, but decided to meet up with the doctor after those drinks for more drinks. The doctor was a little shorter than I am, but most women are because I’m tall. She was about 5’4,…
  • Dating Gurus Work! - Part 4

    24 Nov 2014 | 7:22 am
    I’ve also learnt it’s a good move to hear someone’s voice before you meet. A while
  • Dating Gurus Work! Part 3

    24 Nov 2014 | 7:19 am
    Okay, good news, isn’t it?! But I have come across a few drawbacks. It takes time to get used
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  • How To Turn Your Painful Break-Up Into A Victory

    Eddie Corbano
    25 Nov 2014 | 3:30 am
    A break-up is usually followed by pain - if you cared, there's no way around it. But it doesn't have to stay this way. You have the choice to turn this around and make your break-up the best thing that ever happened to you - a success. Something that changed your life profoundly. As I did back then.Please read on to understand what I mean.
  • 5 Reasons Why People Fall Out Of Love

    Eddie Corbano
    16 Sep 2014 | 3:30 am
    Why do people suddenly fall out of love and how is that even possible? Isn't real love supposed to be eternal?What first seems so unimaginable for those left behind after a breakup, becomes bitter reality. People do fall out of love and there are 5 main reasons they do so.Please read on to learn about these reasons and what you can do to prevent them from happening.
  • The Need For Revenge On Your Ex: How To Use It To Fuel Your Recovery

    Eddie Corbano
    24 Jun 2014 | 3:30 am
    Revenge on your Ex. That’s what you want when you start your recovery. No matter how, we want them to feel our pain. While taking revenge might help us short-term, the anger must be resolved in healthy ways… ways that profit us and don't do us harm.There are many ways to do this, but there is one in particular that helped me most during my break-up. Read the following article to learn all about it.
  • What Your Ex Left Behind

    Eddie Corbano
    13 May 2014 | 3:30 am
    Right after the break-up it is almost impossible to see the big picture. All we feel is loss and grief. It takes some time before we realize that we make a mistake when we think of the love we felt for our Ex.Is it a separate entity that can exist without the person of our Ex? Watch the following video that is heart-wrenching and inspirational at the same time. It illustrates so profoundly what it means to love and to let go. But heads-up, read the article first, before watching the video.
  • The Ultimate Goal After A Break-Up

    Eddie Corbano
    8 Apr 2014 | 3:30 am
    “I can handle anything that life throws at me”. This is not just a bold statement, it is a testament of strength of someone who has gone through hell and back. Someone who survived and earned the certainty that nothing can bring them down.But there's more. Please read on.
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    Savvy Miss Love & Sex

  • Do the Holidays Equal Relationship Doom?

    8 Dec 2014 | 12:00 am
    Yes, it's that time of year again. Thanksgiving kicks off the annual relationship freeze which lasts through the New Year. Much like government wage freezes that leave DMV workers and other civil servants with salaries stuck in 1973, the annual dating freeze cements you for three months in whatever...
  • Celebrate Your Single Self!

    6 Dec 2014 | 12:00 am
    Once upon a time, being single between the months of November and February could make a gal feel like a social misfit. Thank goodness times have changed! How to Celebrate Being Single Own your independence.Instead of dreading the office holiday party, your married-with-children friends’...
  • Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience

    19 Mar 2014 | 12:05 am
    The other day my girlfriend called up to regale me with yet another of her single and fabulous stories. This one involved cocktails, a hot tub and a couple of sexy strangers. It reminded me of my own single days, and for that matter my own pair of sexy strangers. After we hung up, I got to thinking...
  • 25 Universal Truths About Men

    27 Feb 2014 | 12:00 am
    Most of the time, it’s smart to stay away from making generalizations about “the unfamiliar.” But sometimes there’s truth in these statements and men can certainly fall into this category for us. That’s why Relationship Doctor Bob Grant risks being politically incorrect and reveals the 25 universal...
  • Why Women Feel More Attached after Sex than Men

    25 Feb 2014 | 12:00 am
    Could your hormones be the reason you feel close to him after sex? Find out what effect the hormone oxytocin could be having on your relationships and sex life.
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    Dating | YourTango

  • A Bizarre List Of Red Flags I Ignored ... Learn From My Mistakes!

    18 Dec 2014 | 1:43 pm
    Before my relationship with my current boo, I fought many a love battle, so many of which could have been avoided. Learn from my mistakes. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 3 Surprising Benefits Of Dating A Man Your Own Age

    18 Dec 2014 | 12:05 pm
    Women over 40 are free to date younger men, but studies show that dating men of a similar age increases the chances of forming a better connection and subsequent relationship. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 14 Warning Signs Your Prince Charming Is A Total Scammer

    18 Dec 2014 | 11:14 am
    Don't let his smooth talk — and your desperation — cloud your judgment. Watch out for these red flags. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Why Having A "Type" Isn’t Doing You Any Favors [VIDEO]

    18 Dec 2014 | 9:07 am
    NDN Video ID:  28268140 We're pretty sure that we all have a "type". But if you've noticed that all of your relationships end in the same way, you may want to reevaluate how you approach to the dating game. Seriously, while having a type can have its perks, it can also hurt your love life. In fact, dating the same type of person pretty much sets us up for more
  • Wanna Be His Girlfriend? 3 Things He'd Like You To Know First

    18 Dec 2014 | 6:30 am
    What can do in the first few dates with a man to make sure he keeps asking you out? Women and men go about dating differently, with men taking a slower approach to choosing the right woman. If you want him to be your boyfriend, instead of just the guy who takes you out on dates, YourTango expert Christian Carter offers this advice from "his" perspective. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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    Online Dating Insider

  • Whitney Wolfe, Other Former Tinder Employees To Launch Direct Competitor Called Bumble
    8 Dec 2014 | 3:51 pm
    A bunch of ex-Tinder staff have left to start a competing service. They may or may not have raised several million dollars. This reminds me of the mass staff exodus from JDate who left to start a competing site. That site lasted a year then faded into oblivion. Whitney Wolfe, an early employee at Tinder who sued the company for sexual harassment and workplace discrimination, has joined up with two other early Tinder employees, Chris Gulczynski and his parnter Sarah Mick (cofounders of YayNext), to launch a direct competitor to Tinder called Bumble, sources tell TechCrunch. The company, which…
  • Sapiosexual Seeks Same: A New Lexicon Enters Online Dating Mainstream
    8 Dec 2014 | 2:29 pm
    OkCupid is adding a lot more options for gender and sexual orientation, including androgynous and genderqueer. And then there’s sapiosexual, meaning someone who’s attracted to smart people. Source:
  • Dating App The Grade is Tinder With Report Cards
    8 Dec 2014 | 2:24 pm
    SNAP Interactive, creators of Are You Interested, have launched a new dating app called The Grade, which bans “failing singles.” The Grade, which uses an algorithm to assign letter grades to users ranging from “A+” to “F,” is to create a community of high-quality daters.  By expelling low-quality users who receive an “F” grade, The Grade enables users to have a high-quality experience by viewing potential matches without sifting through hundreds of undesirable, inappropriate, and unresponsive people. Grades are based on entirely objective…
  • Does Facial Recognition Have A Role In Online Dating?
    14 Nov 2014 | 9:46 am’s matching algorithm is ridiculously complex, to the point where they are mashing up quiz answers with behavioral data, and now they are experimenting with facial recognition. Excellent to see them working on facial recognition. I brought that up when I visited the Match mothership a few years ago. Back then I was working with Sobayli, which offered basically any type of pattern matching in images. But they were too startup-y in that they wanted to immediately work with EMC and large data storage companies. I brought them to iDate and…crickets. Sobayli offered image…
  • Tinder, the Fast-Growing Dating App, Taps an Age-Old Truth –
    14 Nov 2014 | 9:32 am
    Here’s a bunch of stories about Tinder. CEO leaves Tinder. Tinder raises cash. Would you pay for an Undo button on Tinder? What about a travel feature? Tinder premium features. Tinder is learning things that the dating industry has known for a decade. But they’re learning based on a billion swipes a day.    
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  • 2015 – Whats the plan?

    17 Dec 2014 | 6:04 am
    Every year since David and I met we have had some life changing event happen every year (and in writing this post I discovered they have all happened around May/June). We met on 26 June 2009. June 2010 we moved into our new home together. June 2011 we had Jack. May 2012 I had my hip replacement. May 2013 we got married. February 2014 we had Emma. Each year we have had something major to focus on. We have had to organise, plan, welcome, save and prepare for something for the last 5 years. 2015 is the first year that there is nothing major planned. We have our house, we have our babies, we are…
  • A few things

    15 Dec 2014 | 1:58 am
    I opened my laptop on Saturday morning for the first time in a week. It was the longest time I had gone without blogging or even checking in via my laptop. So needless to say once I got over the tiredness from the trip I had lots and lots to say. (LOTS) Writing here every day has become so much a part of me that when I don’t do it for an extended period I feel almost incomplete. So this is a catch up of sorts. Heather from SA Mom Blogs is running a small competition. I made the finals with my post about parenting Cameron. So if you are a blogger then please vote for me. Louisa won the…
  • 10 tips to Survive an 18 hour car ride with kids

    15 Dec 2014 | 12:06 am
    A big part of me wants to yell - DO NOT PLAN AN 18 HOUR CAR RIDE WITH KIDS EVER! But when you have four kids, a budget and family who live 18 hours away you often don’t have much of a choice. It was an experience. That really is all I have to say about that! But we did, as you do, learn a few things along the way. These are a few tips I have for traveling long distances with kids (FOUR of them to be exact). 1. REST the day before. Obviously things worked out a little different than what I planned with the last minute trip to Tanzania and it was not ideal getting an early start after a…
  • Tanzanian Trip – Part Three – Photos

    14 Dec 2014 | 10:35 am
    These are just a few of my favourite photos from the trip. I really wish now that I had paid more attention when people tried to help me take better photos. There were so many great opportunities but either my setting was wrong or I was too far away but I still got a few nice ones
  • Tanzanian Trip – Part Two

    14 Dec 2014 | 10:12 am
    I have told and retold stories of this trip a few times over the last few days to family and friends but I still find it hard to put into words how positive the experience was and how much I loved being in Dar Es Salaam and Zanzibar. The projects we visited were spread all over Dar Es Salaam so we saw a fair amount of the city just through traveling from one place to the other, which was really great.There was a nice mix of rural and urban life. Dar Es Salaam has a lot more infrastructure than I suspected. There are high rise buildings going up, shopping malls and even a Smooch, Rhapsodys and…
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  • A Guide To First Date Conversations For Men

    18 Dec 2014 | 5:00 am
     Share on Tumblr This past weekend I had a date night and went to go see “Top Five.” I t was a good time, and the movie fascinated me for a few reasons. None of those reasons really correlate with this post. So maybe another time we’ll get into that. More importantly I’m here to tell a short story today. I happened to make a great impression on someone without realizing it. Once it was brought to my attention I thought it would be great to share here. Hopefully you all swing this post to the fellas you think may need it. I bought the movie tickets ahead of time.
  • Why Andrew Hawkins and Derrick Rose are Winning the Month in Sports

    Joe Sargent
    15 Dec 2014 | 9:01 pm
     Share on Tumblr It has been three weeks since the Ferguson grand jury decided not to indict Darren Wilson for killing Michael Brown. In that short time, many similar incidents have occurred (both killings of unarmed Black males and the failure to indict their killers), and the nation, generally, has erupted. I write about sports here, so I paid particular attention as the protests crossed over into the athletic realm. These stories have started meaningful discussions about policing and race in America. Let’s look at the varied reactions among professional athletes. You’re doing…
  • Overnight Visitor: Make Your Home Feel Like Her Home, For the Night

    15 Dec 2014 | 6:40 am
     Share on Tumblr True players are always prepared for overnight visitors. They know that if the date goes well they have to make their visitor feel at home. The goal is to make her never want to leave. Leaving should be out of necessity, not out of want or desire. When she’s over your house the world should be vacant of responsibilities and obligations. Here is what you need to Make Your Home Feel Like Her Home: A Clean House The first thing you must have is a clean house. Nothing makes a woman more comfortable and turned on than a clean house. If your crib is clean and fly, the…
  • Still Single? Blame Your Friends.

    Dr. J
    12 Dec 2014 | 8:15 am
     Share on Tumblr Let’s think about it. We all have some friends and while we love them dearly we know that they’re kind of messed up. The secret is we’re not telling them. We don’t want to hurt their feelings because we love them. What happens next is that our friends keep going through life in and out of relationships, some good and some bad, and nothing seems to stick. Or the relationships that do stick are completely dysfunctional and you are certain they’re only in it because they’re afraid to be single. Why don’t you just tell them what their flaws are? Why not just…
  • Diddy, Drake, The Black Community, and More [Podcast]

    11 Dec 2014 | 8:31 am
     Share on Tumblr Rich and WIM of Two Guys One Show discuss end-of-year syndrome, a potential gift recommendation, being out of balance in life, a heart-warming holiday story with a valuable lesson, Diddy putting the paws on Drake, Twitter users turning a tragedy into a reason to be mad at Floyd Mayweather, listener feedback and questions, a cool podcast to check out, debt management, why it IS about race, and more. **Don’t forget to give us a five-star rating on iTunes and/or Stitcher!** @TGOSPodcast, @WisdomIsMisery, @IAmRichJones tgospodcast at gmail dot…
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  • Hindi Chocolate Day SMS

    18 Dec 2014 | 6:25 pm
    Mithaas bhari hui harr aur hai,Lage hai jaise khoobsurat sama pur-zor hai,Dhoonda toh paya aapki hai ye mithaasJo aaj ki din ek chocalate ki tarahaNThe post Hindi Chocolate Day SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
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    18 Dec 2014 | 12:11 pm
  • Hindi Dard Shayari SMS

    18 Dec 2014 | 6:04 am
    Kabhi ro ke muskuraye , kabhi muskura ke roye,Jab bhi teri yaad aayi tujhe bhula ke roye,ek tera hi to naam tha jise hazar bar likha,Jitna likh ke khush hue us se jayada mita ke royeThe post Hindi Dard Shayari SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Dashara Free SMS Quotes

    17 Dec 2014 | 11:57 pm
    May this Dasara,light up for you.The hopes of Happy times,And dreams for a year full of smiles!Wish you Happy Dasara.The post Dashara Free SMS Quotes appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Lokpal Bill – What makes the difference?

    Heeren Tanna
    17 Dec 2014 | 5:51 pm
    For yourinformationif you do not already know this—- See howLokpal Bill can curb the politicians , Circulate it to create awareness  Existing System System Proposed by civil society No politician or senior officer ever goes to jail despite huge evidence because Anti Corruption Branch (ACB) and CBI directly come under the government. Before starting investigation or initiating prosecution in any case, they have to take permission from the same bosses, against whom the case has to be investigated. Lokpal at centre andLokayukta at state level will be independent bodies.ACB and CBI…
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  • Is Every Person You Meet Horrible…or Something Else Going On?

    17 Dec 2014 | 10:49 pm
    There have been times in my life, often at work, where someone has pointed out a way that I could improve how I’m doing things. I’m almost always surprised when I receive this advice: mostly because I can’t believe I didn’t see that what I was doing was a bad way of doing things. I think that most of us, from time to time at least, lose a little bit of our self-awareness. When a celebrity says something absolutely crazy, something that shows just how disconnected they are from “everyday people”, we tend to be hard on them. But I think each of us is guilty…
  • Being Open Versus Being Miserable

    7 Dec 2014 | 11:05 pm
    In my online dating guide one of the things I emphasize is being open to different qualities people may have. I recommend this because people get a bit odd with online dating. That may sound rude, so let me explain. When we meet people in the “real” world, often we have no idea when our next opportunity to date someone may come. As long as some key things line up, we’re happy to give the person a chance. “What’s the harm in one date?”, we’ll often say to ourselves. However, with online dating, we suddenly turn into the pickiest people on the planet.
  • Unique Challenges to Online Dating as a Single Parent

    29 Nov 2014 | 10:40 am
    Online dating can be challenging at the best of times, but single parents encounter a unique set of extra obstacles. Thankfully, there are smart ways to combat each potential setback, increasing your chances of finding a good match. 1. Time Life can get hectic as you juggle your parental responsibilities and try to squeeze a few hours of socializing into the week. Meanwhile, it also takes time to set up a good online dating profile, browse through potentially attractive matches and read or respond to messages. It’s easy to get the balance wrong, either forgetting your online dating…
  • eHarmony Free Weekend Starting November 27th, 2014

    26 Nov 2014 | 5:42 pm
    eHarmony has a free weekend starting this Thursday, November 27th and running until the end of the day on Monday, December 1st 2014. As with many of the “free weekends”, this is technically more than just a weekend as there are 5 days free to try eHarmony. If you’re not familiar with eHarmony, check out my article on how eHarmony works. As you’ll see in my article, there are some very unique features to this dating service, many of which you can’t experience unless you pay to be a subscriber to the service. Because of that, there service can have a catch-22…
  • Niche Sites

    6 Nov 2014 | 10:59 pm
    Big dating websites often market themselves on their high number of active users, which is appealing precisely because it ignites a sense of confidence that your search for love will be successful. However, what if too much choice puts strain on your search rather than aide in its success? The fact is, the more profiles that are on a database, the more time and effort required for you to sift through and find someone who seems to be a possible match. Thankfully, an array of niche sites have been developed and are now thriving, making it easier for people to join specialized communities that…
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • How to Pay for a Dance from Topless Dancers

    15 Dec 2014 | 6:19 pm
    A word about paying for a dance.  Always pay cash if possible.  Why?  Because if you use your credit card, they usually charge you a processing fee of $5.  This is a rip off to me.  Also, you might want to offer her a barter deal for a dance. Offer to wash & wax her car, change her oil & filter, lottery tickets, jewelry, gift certificates, any services related to your business, etc.             Accept  this as something you have to put up with in topless clubs.  You will constantly be hustled for…
  • How to Conquer Women

    5 Dec 2014 | 5:36 pm
    Since the days of the cavemen, men have lead and women have followed. CONQUERING WOMEN arms men with the secrets and power they need to always be in control of and conquer women. Men can finally take back what’s theirs-- CONTROL and DOMINION over all women.The gloves are off; the day of reckoning is here. It’s us versus them. There will be a winner in the battle of the sexes, and it will be you. In this all new CD, Gary Brodsky teaches you to CONQUER WOMEN. It’s for any man that wants to be in control of women, no matter what he wants from them, sex, money, power or all three, it…
  • How to Meet Women Using a Circular

    29 Nov 2014 | 7:29 pm
    This is what I refer to as the "Circular Method." It's a very unique way of advertising for  romance and several nice and attractive women will contact you. What you will be doing is  simply  putting  circulars  on windshields  of  cars  in  nightclub and singles bars parking lots.This is how to do it. Have  500 circulars printed at your  local print shop. Here's a  sample of what to say: "Single  bars  are  great  if  you  want  to stay single. I don't. And I want  a woman who doesn't either.
  • Top 10 Things to Do to Impress Women on a Date

    19 Nov 2014 | 5:20 pm
    1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will give you some good topics for conversation.2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women are attracted to men who can make them laugh.3. Act like you are genuinely interested in what she is saying. Even to the point when you have to fake it. She will be impressed that you're such a good listener.4. Don't act too serious. Act carefree and light-hearted and don't give a long and boring monologue about yourself. Drive Women Wild for Sex with Powerful Pheromone Cologne5. You will be…
  • Topics for Conversation When Talking to Women

    5 Nov 2014 | 5:47 pm
    Your conversation is the SECOND PHASE of your approach to a girl has three basic objectives: 1. Killing time by "small talk" to make the girl more at ease in your company.2. Drawing the girl out to speak of herself.3. Impressing the girl by talking in an exciting, interesting manner.Generally, correct, polite, logical and serious conversation is best in business situations. But aggressive, frivolous, showy conversation is usually more effective when talking with girls. You should tend toward being an extrovert. If you can remember a time when you were very outgoing at a party or other…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • thanks to Dr Akobe magic spell caster

    18 Dec 2014 | 8:51 pm
    New Opinion - My Names is sharon britto,AM from United States. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business Assignment i met a man called Dr Akobe the great magic spell caster, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back your love gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our…
  • How I Got My Ex Husband Back Home Thanks To Great Dr. Okoko

    15 Dec 2014 | 1:35 pm
    New Opinion - My name is Rachael Vivian, and I base in United States New York City...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr okoko, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other…
  • I need help of my relationship contact

    13 Dec 2014 | 2:40 pm
    New Question - My name is Judy, I'm from California. i want to use this opportunity to thank the great Prophet Ogunjimi the Great who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man OGUNJIMI brought my husband back to me, i already have 2 lovely kids for my husband, before he left me for another lady, because she charmed him In 2010 some years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel and some misunderstandings, life was so miserable for me, until he finally left me for the other lady. For 2years i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father…

    13 Dec 2014 | 9:59 am
    New Answer - Lord Shinnok, Here is my testimony from your Heart Warming indebted Client (Myranda Hammons from United states) Sir i had to write back to you though I am at work now to let you know that your spell has sucessfully worked, and he has returned back to me just as you said it sir. A beautiful bud vase of red roses was just brought to my place of work from the man I contacted you about on Dec 1st. Sir i am so happy to tell it to the whole world now that he returned back to me through your powerful spells yesterday at about 4:00pm. Everything worked out just the way you said it. No…
  • Lord Shinnok, Here is my testimony from ...

    13 Dec 2014 | 9:57 am
    New Answer - Lord Shinnok, Here is my testimony from your Heart Warming indebted Client (Myranda Hammons from United states) Sir i had to write back to you though I am at work now to let you know that your spell has sucessfully worked, and he has returned back to me just as you said it sir. A beautiful bud vase of red roses was just brought to my place of work from the man I contacted you about on Dec 1st. Sir i am so happy to tell it to the whole world now that he returned back to me through your powerful spells yesterday at about 4:00pm. Everything worked out just the way you said it. No…
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  • 15 Things Not To Do At Your Office Christmas Party

    Alicia Drewnicki
    4 Dec 2014 | 5:00 pm
    Christmas is quickly approaching and it’s almost time for the biggest event in your work social calendar – the notorious office Christmas party! Being single, you can’t wait. You’ve had a crush on the office hottie ever since he started but have never got further than a flirty smile and the odd wink when passing in the lift. Now is your time to shine – but beware. Office Christmas parties are known for being the time of ‘embarrassing incidents’, and if you’re the unlucky one, they could haunt you and tarnish your reputation. To help ensure that the…
  • The 20 Best Dating Articles We Read In November 2014

    Elizabeth Marie
    4 Dec 2014 | 8:43 am
    Happy December! It’s definitely the most wonderful time of the year! Before we dive headfirst into December and all the holiday goodness it has to offer, let’s take a minute to appreciate the best dating articles we read in November. 1. Chances are you’ll be watching Love Actually many times this winter, I know I will! But have you ever thought how different Love Actually would be if it were made today? Hilarious. (Cosmopolitan UK) 2. Tis the season for overindulgence and eating ourselves into a coma! Fun, right? Here are some great tips on how to stay healthy and sexy this…
  • Holiday Gift Guide for the Awkward Early Stages of Dating

    Naomi Lane
    3 Dec 2014 | 12:33 pm
    It is better to give than to receive. Unless, of course, we’re talking about oral sex. Oh, and in one other situation: when it’s holiday time and you’re in a relationship that has yet to be defined as the ever-elusive “exclusive.” In this case, the entire gift-giving jam can be as awkward as one of Uncle Len’s “accidental” ass grabs during Thanksgiving dinner. The whole ordeal just adds insult to injury, as dating someone new is uncomfortable enough under normal circumstances. There are just so many unanswered questions: Do they like you? Do you like them? Should I…
  • This Is What Happens When the Man You’re Dating is Obsessed with Football

    Kevin Murray
    27 Nov 2014 | 4:00 am
    (This is from my backyard at a football party I held earlier this year)  How much football is enough? The Wall Street Journal tried to answer this question in an article a week ago and it got me thinking – where do I fall on this? Let’s see, I don’t really watch too much college football other than seeing my alma mater Rutgers get their ass kicked in the Big 10. But that’s where my exclusions stop. I’m in one fantasy football league, watch Monday night, Thursday night and then about 11 hours of games on Sundays. And this isn’t including the pregame shows and features on NFL…
  • 7 Dating Lessons I’m Thankful My Mother Taught Me

    Anna Wickham
    26 Nov 2014 | 3:00 am
    My mother was always ahead of her time when it came to dating advice. Before the wise advice of He’s Just Not That Into You, my mom was telling me that some guy just wasn’t that into me. Before Sex and the City made it okay for women to date a lot of men in order to discover what they are really interested in, my mom was encouraging me to date around to learn my preferences and not just settle for the first guy that I liked who liked me too. And before Laura Schessinger was exhorting women not to make stupid mistakes with men, my mom was helping me avoid missteps that would cause me…
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    The Art of Charm Podcast

  • Andrew Hallam | The Millionaire Teacher (Episode 354)

    Jordan Harbinger
    17 Dec 2014 | 12:01 am
    Why financial advisors are not always in your corner. “Learn to master money, and not let money master you.” -Andrew Hallam The Cheat Sheet: How much would the average US stock from 20 years ago have earned you today? How $6.45 a day can get you a million dollars in 39 years. Why budgeting doesn’t work, and what to do instead. Auto loans: why they’re a bad idea. Who is Saint Jack and why should you care? And so much more… Nearly anyone in any industry or profession, with proper education, planning and execution can become a millionaire: true or false? True…
  • Scott H Young | Language Hacks for Everyday Life (Episode 353)

    Jordan Harbinger
    15 Dec 2014 | 12:01 am
    Language hacks aren’t just for languages. “Vulnerability is the best way to show strength, and vulnerability and respect go hand in hand.”-The Art of Charm The Cheat Sheet: How he condensed four years of MIT curriculum into 12 months. The new learning paradigm: Scott explains. When is it most important to speak with natives of a language you’re learning? The two things employers look for when hiring: what are they? How to get anyone to open up and let you in. And so much more… There’s a skill to learning a new language and we’ve discussed this topic…
  • Dale Thomas Vaughn | Healthy Masculinity (Episode 352)

    Jordan Harbinger
    12 Dec 2014 | 12:01 am
    Actions + goals = authentic power. “My biggest fear is to look back on a mediocre life and wonder what went wrong.”-Dale Thomas Vaughn The Cheat Sheet: Why and how goal-setting can get in the way of success. What’s the Camino de Santiago and why should you care? What is goal blindness and do you have it? A good plan or a perfect plan: which is better? How to change your life in an hour according to Dale. And so much more… What is healthy masculinity? On this show we talk a lot about what isn’t healthy, behavior like the alpha male syndrome or the opposite: acting…
  • Jon Levy | The Influencers Dinner (Episode 351)

    Jordan Harbinger
    10 Dec 2014 | 12:01 am
    Create your own influential network. “Just start something. Test something out, let it fail and let it fail often.”-Jon Levy The Cheat Sheet: The statistical impact your friendships have on you. What are the two types of epidemics? The ninja strategy for following up by email. How to invite people from all backgrounds and walks of life. Why people like you even more if you ask them for a favor.. And so much more… What would it be like to have an Olympic athlete, an Oscar-winning actor and a CEO of a billion-dollar company at your dining room table? How could you create an…
  • Steve Sisler | How to Read People (Episode 350)

    Jordan Harbinger
    8 Dec 2014 | 12:01 am
    Adjust your style to connect. “We don’t see people as they are, we see people as we are.”-Steve Sisler The Cheat Sheet: The three reasons people listen. How much of communication is verbal, how much body language? What behavioral profile do nurses most often fit? Why meek does not equal weak. The secret to saying anything to anyone, Steve reveals. And so much more… Beyond any degree, any certification, any technical skill set, the most important factor in how far you go in your career, and every area of life is how well you connect with people. On The Art of Charm…
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  • DatingHeadshots Featured in the Philadelphia Inquirer

    Dating Headshots
    5 Dec 2014 | 1:13 pm
    DatingHeadshots is proud to be featured in the December 3rd issue of the Philadelphia Inquirer and on in the article titled “Professional photos on dating sites make a first-impression difference”.  In the article you will find valuable information on what makes a good online dating photo and why professional dating photos are so important.  “People are becoming more aware that they have a personal brand and that they need to take care of it,” says Gordon Gooch of DatingHeadshots.  We hope you find informative.   The post DatingHeadshots Featured in…
  • Dateless? Time to Revamp Your Online Dating Photos

    Dating Headshots
    23 Oct 2014 | 8:45 am
    Were you still dateless last month? Don’t think for a minute that the problem is with you. Take a look at your Online Dating Photos.  There’s someone special out there for each of us; we just have to find each other. And that’s the trick, isn’t it? Whether you’re young, time-strapped and singly focused on building a career, recently divorced and struggling to adapt to the modern dating scene or a silver-haired fox ready to embrace new experiences; finding that special someone can be like looking for a needle in a haystack. What you have to do is improve your odds. In effect, you…
  • When to Pick Up the Check?

    Dating Headshots
    21 Oct 2014 | 7:42 am
    When is it time to pick up the check?  Who picks up the check is one of those thorny subjects for which there is no single “right” answer. Changing social mores have turned the long-held tradition of “the man pays” into a bewildering muddle. Making things even more confusing, expectations about who pays seem to vary with age. The findings of a 2008 online poll by Elle magazine and point out just how confusing the check issue has become as illustrated by the contradictory results: 66% of men, particularly younger men, want women to help with the check after the first couple…
  • What Do Women Want?

    Dating Headshots
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:09 am
    What Do Women Want? That’s a question for the ages right? They say men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and the differences between the sexes do often seem to be worlds apart. Interestingly, scientists now say that a lot of that has to do with the way male and female brains are hard-wired; but changing social mores also play a significant role. Since the dawn of feminism in the 1960s (actually much earlier than that, but for simplicity we’ll use the ‘60s when “the times, they were a changin’”), women have been pushing for an equal seat at life’s table (especially  in…
  • Post Break up Dating Tips

    Dating Headshots
    14 Oct 2014 | 5:14 am
    Ending a relationship is distressing, yet you will recuperate. It just takes time. Just how much time depends upon you, how invested you were in the connection, just how long you were together, the conditions that tore you apart and your strategy to break-up recovery. When you’re done wallowing in self-pity, blaming your ex-boyfriend and deciding on apart every minute of your life together– all flawlessly regular responses to a bad breakup– it’s time to close guide on your old connection and welcome the new chapter in your life that is about to begin. The road to…
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  • MISSION: Change your game NOW with Qualification

    Andrew B
    3 Dec 2014 | 2:45 pm
    Three of the most common questions I get from guys, online or in seminar are: How do I stop running out of things to say? How do I get women to open up about themselves instead of being boring? How do I get women turned on, and chasing ME? The answer to ALL these questions (and more) is Qualification. Qualification is one of the most POWERFUL tools that you can use in your game, but it’s also one of the ones that most guys ignore. In this post, I’m going to show you how to fix ALL these problems, using a simple technique that I teach in my bootcamps. I want you guys to go out and…
  • Five Dating Mistakes Most Men Don’t Know They’re Making

    Chris Shepherd
    12 Jun 2014 | 8:36 am
      So here’s my appearance on Global Montreal this morning. I talked about the five dating mistakes that most men don’t know they’re making.   The mistakes I mentioned (and some ideas to improve if you have these problems) are: #1 Bodylanguage – Read this article on Attractive Posture if you want some quick body language tips. #2 Being Too Logical – Check out this Story Telling Webinar for some tips on being less logical. #3  Text Etiquette – Here’s some quick advice on What to Text Her. #4 Not being Confident enough – Read about the…
  • Montreal Seminar – June 29th

    Chris Shepherd
    12 Jun 2014 | 4:17 am
    This morning I’m going to be on Global Montreal talking about the five things that guys do wrong in dating, and I’m going to be promoting my upcoming Seminar that will be held in Montreal on June 29th. As part of the promotion, for Today (June 12th), I will be giving away Ten (10) tickets for free (these are normally $99) to people who saw my spot on Global Montreal. At the seminar, we’re going to go over the basic elements of Love Systems, with a special emphasis on the first five minutes of an interaction and generating intrigue and attraction. No lines, no cheezy crap,…
  • Love Systems Review (Sydney)

    Chris Shepherd
    3 Mar 2014 | 8:17 am
    I always love getting in touch with former students and finding out where they are in life. A lot of them wind up meeting their “dream girl” within a few months of the bootcamp, and dropping off the face of the earth, but others stay in touch over time.  When I was in Sydney in Jan I met up with a former client who took my Love Systems Bootcamp  back in 2010, we talked a bit about how things have changed (for both of us) since our bootcamp together in Vancouver. His story was so compelling I asked him to do a review of his Love Systems bootcamp and he agreed. What you’ll…
  • Stop Using Alcohol as A Crutch! [Video Below]

    Chris Shepherd
    7 Feb 2014 | 8:21 am
    Be honest with yourself. How many times has this happened? You’re in a bar or at a party, and you see a girl you’re interested in, and you want to talk to her. But instead of talking to her, you think to yourself “I’ll just have a drink first, to loosen up“. And then maybe you have another drink, and maybe another after that. And then maybe you wind up talking to her, and it actually goes pretty well. And then you have another drink. And then it all kind of falls apart, or just goes nowhere, but you’re happy because you talked to the girl you liked and had…
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  • How To Get Good at Daygame: Internalize New Life Skills (my article at Daygame Review)

    18 Dec 2014 | 2:32 pm
    If you want to get good at daygame, you have to go through the motions I was talking with a coaching client the other day. He’s great at meeting women at night, in bars or clubs. But he wants to meet more women in the daytime. He mentioned that it’s tough to practice the skills we’re going over because it doesn’t feel “natural.” This is actually a very common objection guys have. On the one hand, they want to build a set of skills (conversational, flirting or sexual escalation skills). But on the other hand, they don’t want anything to feel unnatural or awkward. Read the…
  • Embrace your Sexual Intent In Daytime Interactions (my article at Daygame Review)

    8 Dec 2014 | 12:46 pm
    One big difference between day game and night game: the daytime, unlike bars and clubs, is a nonsexual place. This is why, for many guys, approaching and attracting women in the daytime is actually tougher than the nighttime. Even though in the day you can be much more relaxed, low-energy and laid back than at night. It just feels inappropriate or unusual to approach, chat and flirt with women. The good news is that it doesn’t take much to get sexual in the daytime, especially because of how rarely men approach women. Here are some tips to increase your sexual energy in the daytime. Read…
  • Guy Picks Up Women With a Sports Car – And Don’t Be Mad About it (video)

    2 Dec 2014 | 6:34 am
    This is a hilarious video where a guy talks to women walking past him while he pretends to own an expensive sports car. I love how the first blonde girl immediately snapped her head around when he said “hi.” Lol. (Admittedly, part of it was the sports car, but part of it was also that she was looking for attention. Hence why she was walking around wearing almost nothing.) Some people say “those girls are just gold diggers!” But it goes beyond just gold diggers. When a man has a sports car, not only does it look hot in its own right, but it sends a signal about his…
  • 4 Ways to Make it Clear You Want Something Casual

    29 Nov 2014 | 6:54 am
    The last thing you want is to waste your time dating a girl for weeks or months who wants something different than you. If you want a casual relationship, and she wants something serious, you are wasting a lot of time and energy on a relationship that is doomed. Use these tips to avoid those problems. It’s not just about telling her with your words (although that’s important). It’s also about your behavior and actions towards her. If you make it clear what you want, you will quickly filter out the girls who aren’t down for that, and quickly discover (and keep) the…
  • Introverts: Too Tired to Socialize? What’s Really Happening

    27 Nov 2014 | 2:13 pm
    There are two big reasons why introverts might be too tired to socialize. One is an indication you need to rest and be alone for a while. The other indicates you actually need to push harder, be more social and approach more women. I always say that social skills are like a muscle. Just like you need to exercise your muscles to get stronger, you must exercise your social skills to become more confident and more effective socially. 1. Being tired because of too much socializing This is pretty straightforward. Interacting with people takes energy. So the more interaction you do, the more…
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    Dating Site Reviews

  • Totally Free Fri. 12/12/14 – Sun. 12/14/14

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    12 Dec 2014 | 1:07 am free weekend starts now… Hi friends, just wanted to make sure to updated our readers that is completely and totally free right now as of about 8 minutes ago. The free promotion is set to go from Friday 12/12/14 until Sunday 12/14/14. This is a GREAT TIME to try one of the most popular premium […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Totally Free Fri. 12/12/14 – Sun. 12/14/14 appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas)

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    8 Dec 2014 | 2:25 pm
    Since 2004, iDate the Online Dating Industry Conference and Awards show has grown to become a more and more valuable networking and educational event for those in the internet dating business. The conferences now spans much of the globe with events all over the world. However, the main conference and the one that is most […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas) appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • WhiteBoxDating, New Private Label Platform Launches!

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    3 Dec 2014 | 12:18 am
    WhiteBoxDating, a new private label online dating business platform offered by niche dating network FriendsWorldwide has just recently launched. is a rapidly growing network of niche dating sites that has been around since 2001. The company offers 75+ quality singles communities across a wide and diverse swath of interests from bbw to military dating. Two of […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post WhiteBoxDating, New Private Label Platform Launches! appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • eHarmony is totally free Thanksgiving Weekend!

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    27 Nov 2014 | 8:05 pm
    Hi all, just a quick note to let you know that eHarmony, one of the leading dating sites and one of our nominations for the best dating sites of 2105 is TOTALLY 100% free for new registrants from November 27th 2014 – December 1st 2014. So once you wrap up those black Friday shopping lists […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post eHarmony is totally free Thanksgiving Weekend! appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • Dating Sites Reviews By Category

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    24 Nov 2014 | 2:45 pm
    Hi everyone. Two quick updates. 1. First off I am happy to share that over the past 8 months we were finally able to complete the new categories to make it that much easier to locate the latest 2015 dating site reviews. We are still working on filling in some missing data for total members […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Dating Sites Reviews By Category appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
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    Dating Sites XO

  • Darwin Dating

    Heather Dundon
    18 Dec 2014 | 8:20 am
    Darwin Dating makes no apologies: they're a dating site for beautiful people ONLY! Do you have what it takes to make the cut?
  • The 100 Best Dating Sites of 2014

    Heather Dundon
    17 Dec 2014 | 5:05 am
    Are 100 dating sites really enough?
  • World Friends

    Heather Dundon
    11 Dec 2014 | 4:01 am
    World Friends is one of the largest global dating sites in the world. It's also a great place to learn a new language, meet people with common interests, and find a pen pal!
  • Jzoog

    Dating Sites XO
    4 Dec 2014 | 10:15 am
    Jzoog is one of the newest dating apps around and it's exclusively for Jewish singles.
  • Free Dating Australia

    Dating Sites XO
    27 Nov 2014 | 5:05 am
    An Australian Dating Website that prides itself in being free.
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    Bachelor Uncut

  • Five “It” Girls to Watch Out For in 2015

    Bachelor Uncut
    15 Dec 2014 | 7:46 am
    They’re popular…they’re hot…and they’re ready to explode in the new year! While guys can spend their days thinking about any woman with two legs and a pulse, it’s always more fun to focus on the Flavors of the Month (relevancy is hot, no?) And as we get ready to usher in a new year, there are some gals who’ll be more likely than others to be on the top of the “It List,” as they eat up the lion’s share of news stories and water-cooler gossip–willingly or not! Here are the top five women to keep a lustful eye on come Jan. 1. Click ‘next’ to…
  • Why the World Needs Sluts

    Bachelor Uncut
    8 Dec 2014 | 6:44 pm
    Judge them all you want, but whores are the ones who keep this world turning…and coming. Have you ever wondered what a cold, desolate place this planet would be if we didn’t have that oh-so-special sub-section of women who spread their legs with no muss or fuss? In fact, I’d go so far to say that the trampy, vampy girls are what get folks through the day. And by “folks,” I mean anyone who’s gone more than a week without slamming (typically those who are married, in long-term relationships, or genetically-challenged). Sluts keep men’s blood flowing and their spirits…
  • BachelorUNCUT’s First Year: Five Key Learnings

    Bachelor Uncut
    1 Dec 2014 | 6:53 pm
    It’s amazing what you can learn about people when you blog about sex (and the occasional fingering). What a crazy, controversial and x-rated 12 months it’s been for BachelorUNCUT, the site that dares to go where no other single-centric dating blog has gone before! And throughout the highs and lows of trying to tell it like it is, some interesting discoveries were made about what gets people  riled up…and what gets them off. Here are five key takeaways (either from humans in general, or just those who read these articles) from BachelorUNCUT’s unforgettable first year on this…
  • Top Five Questions No Man Wants to Hear

    Bachelor Uncut
    24 Nov 2014 | 7:24 pm
    Want a dude to be gone in 60 seconds? Just whisper these sweet nothings in his ear. Like a gas tanker to a flame, there are some questions, especially when spoken by female significant others, that can cause men to explode–or at very least jam a fork in their eye (i.e. something less painful to keep them distracted). That’s the problem with Mars and Venus trying to get together–they’re two planets that belong in separate galaxies when it comes to the art of frustration conversation. Here are the Top Five Questions no man wants to hear…ever: Number Five – “Are you…
  • Top Five Looks That Won’t Get You Laid

    Bachelor Uncut
    17 Nov 2014 | 5:09 pm
    Whoever said, “You shouldn’t judge a man by his clothes,” is probably a 40-year-old virgin. In this materialistic, image-conscious, and sexually-uninhibited world we live in, clothes are everything. Luckily, that doesn’t mean you need to spend $800 on a belt buckle and socks (though it can’t hurt); rather, you just need to look good. For guys, a “presentable” outfit can mean the difference between getting a girl’s number after you bought her a cosmo, and watching her walk away after she downs it–without so much as a Thank You.  So dress…
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    Date My Pet

  • Four Common Relationship Problems

    Lisa Reynolds
    14 Dec 2014 | 11:04 am
    Love is such an incredible thing! It’s the reason why we spend half our lives trying to find the one. But when we do that is only half the story. We are bound to have our problems along the way in any relationship but there is ways to try to resolve these all too common [&hellip
  • What Do Women Want in a Relationship?

    Nidhi Mathew
    14 Dec 2014 | 10:52 am
    According to a study conducted in 2012, 41% first marriages, 60% second marriages and 73% third marriages in the United States end in divorce. These are really alarming numbers and show that men and women in the US are struggling to have really strong relationships. For a relationship to be strong, both partners must understand [&hellip
  • Express Your Love Without Words

    Lisa Reynolds
    12 Dec 2014 | 12:14 pm
    Extreme said it best when they said, “More than words is all you have to do to make it real. Then you wouldn’t have to say that you love me. Cos I’d already know.” in their huge hit from the ’80′s, More Than Words. And that is kind of the ultimate that we all hope [&hellip
  • 5 Do’s and Don’ts of Successful Online Dating

    April Aragam
    12 Dec 2014 | 12:02 pm
    Online dating has become one of the most popular ways to meet new people. Online dating, like anything else, has its positive and negative points. So how can you make it a success for yourself? This article outlines 5 do’s and don’ts that will help you navigate online dating a little more smoothly. Do: Fill [&hellip
  • Four Types Of Men Women Go For

    Lisa Reynolds
    10 Dec 2014 | 2:55 pm
    The key to a man’s heart is not through his stomach. It is through his mind. The use of psychology and observation can win you the man of your dreams and lead to a short-term romance or lifelong happiness. Whatever you are looking for at this point in your life. Getting to know their personalities [&hellip
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    The Daygame

  • Quick Review of The Mystery Pickup Artist Book

    6 Dec 2014 | 7:00 pm
    Review of The Mystery Pickup Artist Book    After roughly ten years of trying, Erik von Markovic, better known as Mystery, assumingly learnt how to seduce women. Not satisfied with being the only seducer in the world, he came up with a mystery method of picking up women. This made him earn the title of the greatest pick up artist in the world. He went on to write a book that detailed his mystery method and the techniques used. Below is a look at the mystery pickup artist book.  Mystery would probably not have become so popular had it been for Neil Strauss’s book The Game: Penetrating…
  • 4 Massive Benefits of Undergoing Pick Up Training

    2 Dec 2014 | 9:04 pm
    The Benefits of Undergoing Pick Up Training    Going through pick up training is the best way for someone to become a top pickup artist. This training offers various effective methods on attracting, seducing and picking up women. This is particularly of help to men who do not consider themselves good looking, and those lacking the necessary self-confidence to approach women. This article is an overview of pick up training.  1) It is worth bearing in mind that one does not have to be strikingly handsome in order to attract the attention of women. All what someone has to do is figure out…
  • Top 10 Best PUA Books

    1 Dec 2014 | 12:03 am
    Top 10 Best PUA Books   The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick Up Artists Neil Strauss (One of the best pua books) The game is responsible for bringing out more guys to the world of pick-up as well as attraction. The game traces journalists like Neil Strauss’s vocation from normal irritated chump (AFC) to become the legitimate Pick up Artist (PUA) through the title associated with Design. The most important thing concerning the Game is actually the high quality of the writing. Strauss is a convincing author who is the master of depiction in addition to informing.  …
  • These Deadly “ Daytime Game ” Subtleties Cost You Numbers

    27 Nov 2014 | 8:20 pm
    These Deadly Subtleties in “ Daytime Game ” Get You Solid Numbers   Vibing with a girl on the street when you’re running daytime game is not an easy thing to do. However, the following subtleties will help you make the numbers more solid so she follows up with you later. PUA – The Game You should focus your attention on having a fun two-way conversation that gradually draws her in and then you gradually add sprinkles on top to strengthen the hook of the interaction or conversely ease the tension, but it’s essentially riding the wave of the sexual energy. Remember to throw…
  • These Mystery Openers Get Girls To Talk To YOU

    26 Nov 2014 | 8:59 am
    These Mystery Openers Get Girls To Talk To YOU   Mystery Openers That Work The mystery method is a breakdown and analysis of the process of approaching a woman. This means the time leading to a full-fledged sexual relationship, and usually involves a number of steps. A general consensus among pick up artists is that it would take some time to do all the steps, from the time of meeting a woman to the time of closing her. The good news is that the steps should not take months of build-up but rather within the first few dates. This pick up method usually involves the artist applying some…
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    Mesh Blog

  • The Gift-Decoding Guide: What Your Present Is Really Saying

    Alexandra Wee
    16 Dec 2014 | 10:40 am
    So, you and your partner decided to swap prezies this holiday, but now comes the trickier part: what the heck do you give? We know you want to gift the right message, but perhaps a personalized engraved photo frame says too much, too early and a gift card doesn’t say quite enough. Here’s a handy guide on decoding your gift-giving choices so you can avoid any awkward reactions and keep things fun and festive. After all, actions–or pretty, wrapped packages–can sometimes speak louder than words. Clothing: Gifting NAY Wrapping up a Christmas sweater for your sweetie might seem…
  • 5 of LA’s Most Romantic Restaurants

    Nicollette Balassanian
    4 Dec 2014 | 11:26 am
    There are over 9,000 full-service restaurants in Los Angeles, so choosing the perfect date spot can be tricky. But fear not. Grab a pen and take notes, because these are the ones that’ll leave a lasting impression on your new catch, or loved one. 1. Firefly People have loved outdoor-indoor establishments even before A Night at the Roxbury, and Firefly is the perfect way to enjoy the romance of an outdoor setting while spending less time eyeing mosquitos and more time eyeing each other. Make sure to order a cheese plate to start, and a glass or bottle of wine to set that European romance…
  • Don’t Be a Turkey: 4 Tips for Meeting Your Partner’s Family

    Marci Buehler
    26 Nov 2014 | 4:00 am
    If a new love is something you’re thankful for this holiday season, there’s a good chance Turkey Day will mark the first time you meet your beau’s family. To many people, this can be a very nerve-racking time. But don’t worry — we’ve got you covered. Follow these steps and you’ll be the apple of their family’s eye before dessert is even served. 1. Prepare Alexander Graham Bell said, “Preparation is the key to success.” He was a pretty smart guy, so I say you listen to him and do your homework before you head off to Thanksgiving dinner. Talk to your special someone and…
  • Mom’s Thanksgiving Recipes

    Nicollette Balassanian
    25 Nov 2014 | 2:17 am
    Ever wonder what it would be like to have Giada de Laurentiis or Bobby Flay prepare your Thanksgiving dinner? Well, Thanksgiving with my mom sure comes close! Mom’s always been a foodie, and loves sharing her homemade gourmet cuisine with her family and guests. You won’t see canned cranberry sauce, powder-whipped mash potatoes, or plain old green bean casserole served at her table. So I’m bringing some of her crowd pleasers to help spice up your Thanksgiving dinner this year! Balsamic Roasted Pearl Onions Ingredients: 1/4 lbs fresh pearl onions 1/4 cup of balsamic vinegar 1…
  • Monday’s Mix: On the Road

    Yeni Sleidi
    24 Nov 2014 | 1:58 am
    Here’s a mix for everyone who’s skipping the long airport lines and driving back home for Thanksgiving. As for me, I’m Friendsgiving hopping and bringing all my leftover containers with me.
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    Why Men Leave

  • The Onion’s 5 Funniest Dating Articles

    Elizabeth Stone
    23 Nov 2014 | 4:47 pm
    In honor of the coming holiday season, here are my five favorite dating articles from America’s finest news source.1. Man Who Has Something Seriously Wrong With Him On A Fundamental Level Leaves That Part Off OKCupid Profile2. Woman Confusingly Tells Area Man She’s Not Interested In Him3. Smitten Man Can’t Believe Woman He’s On Date With Also Into The Beatles4. Tips For Using Online Dating Sites5. Last-Ditch Dating Website Simply Asks Users To Check ‘Yes’ If They Have Open SoresThe post The Onion’s 5 Funniest Dating Articles appeared first on Why Men Leave.
  • Q&A Ask Elizabeth: Am I Wearing Man Repellent?

    Elizabeth Stone
    21 Nov 2014 | 10:01 am
    Today’s Question:Hi Elizabeth,I was hoping you could give me some perspective here. I’m 36 years old, and I have never been in a serious relationship. Partly this is because I was super shy and grew up with parents who were ultra conservative when it came to dating. But… a huge part of it is that I’ve never been able to connect emotionally with men.My girlfriends tell me I’m friendly and awesome (though…that’s what girlfriends do, right? I’ll start off on the right foot with a man, but somewhere down the line, 2 weeks, 2 days even, he’ll…
  • How to Make Him Miss You: 8 Ways to Make Him Come Around

    Elizabeth Stone
    14 Nov 2014 | 10:26 am
    I’ve covered how to get your ex back, but I haven’t really covered exactly how to make him miss you in more depth. That’s what we’re going to talk about today.First, one main point I have to make is this: you don’t miss people who are still around, you miss them because they’re gone, right?That is simple as hell, but in after a breakup, it’s really worth mentioning since people overlook it all the time. Your first instinct may be to try and keep up the communication so he doesn’t forget you. That will not work! He can’t miss you and realize the breakup was…
  • 4 Key Things I Learned About Dirty Talk

    Elizabeth Stone
    11 Nov 2014 | 10:37 am
    IMAGE: Belovodchenko AntonEver had a man ask you to talk dirty to him?If you’re like me, you froze like a deer in the headlights, rock solid and completely unsure of what to say, not to mention totally embarrassed about your inability to come up with anything that would satisfy him.Here’s what happened to me, and how you can prevent it from happening to you.Without getting too graphic, here’s what went down one rainy evening.“Talk dirty to me,” he said lustily.“Umm… you’re soo sexy,” I said, scared and without enthusiasm.“More!” he said enthusiastically.“I’m not..
  • 8 True Reasons Why Guys “Pop Up” Months Later

    Elizabeth Stone
    25 Oct 2014 | 3:00 am
    One of the more puzzling behaviors of the hot blooded male is his sudden disappearance (“pulling a Houdini”) and subsequent lack of future contact. Usually his later contact occurs the moment… no the very SECOND… that you’ve finally moved on and quit thinking about him.Here are some of the reasons why guys pop up months later (sometimes years) after either a breakup or complete disappearing act.1. He wants sex.It’s a basic motivation, but it’s often easier for him to seduce someone he’s already been with than someone new. If he’s bored and wants to get some, you’re a…
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  • Tinder VS Real Life

    Sean Winn
    3 Dec 2014 | 8:38 am
    Imagine live in a bigger city, it’s a sunny Saturday and you walk trough the streets with a friend of yours. Whenever you see a girl that you find attractive, one of you has to approach her. How many do you need to approach until you got 1 number? I would guess between 2-10 for most guys, dependent on how good their game and experience is. That’s somewhere around 30%. Second scenario, you’re sitting at home, it’s a rainy boring day and you swipe through tinder trying to get lucky. How many girls do you have to like until you got a match? On average around 50!
  • Why White Knights Don’t Get Laid

    PUAmore Team
    2 Dec 2014 | 8:18 am
    I have a good friend who definitely fits the definition of AFC. In his mid twenties, he is still a virgin, once kissed a girl (one of his proudest stories), and constantly moans about how women “always go for the douchebags who don’t care for them”. But by far and away the biggest thing that marks him out as an AFC to me is the fact that he feels constantly compelled to defend women in situations where they aren’t receiving any insult or danger. We call the need to ‘defend’ women white knight syndrome, and sadly, I tend to meet a lot of white knights. When I flirt, I tend to keep…
  • Julien Blanc will lose this battle, but he will win the war

    Sean Winn
    7 Nov 2014 | 8:31 am
    The video on the right sums up perfectly what’s going on right now with RSD and Julien Blanc. Let’s concentrate on the important parts of this whole situation, because it’s easy to blame someone and go with the masses instead of making a fair judgement. I will also tell you, why this situation is the best that could ever happen to Julien. First of all, I’m absolutely not supporting his behavior. What he did was unacceptable and very stupid. Even if most girls are attracted to dominant men and even if 90% reacted positively, it’s not okay towards the 10% to…
  • Tinder – 12 Pick-Up Lines that work!

    Sean Winn
    7 Oct 2014 | 4:29 am
    Currently you should know the truth about tinder and after you have set up the perfect tinder profile, you got many matches. Now you ask yourself, which lines are the best to open her and get the conversation started. At first make yourself clear that there is a huge difference between opening girls in real life vs girls on tinder. These girls use tinder, because they want to be approached and if they match with you it means they are already waiting for your line. The only problem is, that she also gave 10 to 100 other guys this opportunity and just like Sperm Wars, the best one will win.
  • Escalation – 3 Hints to consider

    23 Sep 2014 | 1:04 pm
    Escalation takes a PUA’s new-found ability to approach and be friendly with random people, and converts it into a means to achieve more than friendly conversation. However this process can be a minefield to the uninitiated, and particularly when you are new to the game, your brain looks for an “excuse” for each step, wanting a socially acceptable justification for every action. I have found one particular technique to be very helpful in creating the ‘excuse’ your brains need. This backdoor should work not only in your mind, but in hers (never forget that the girl is likely to be…
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    Love My Brit

  • Top 20 Getting To Know You Questions

    Chris Martin
    17 Dec 2014 | 2:00 am
    Asking questions can be a fun date night activity, but they can also be a great way to get to know your partner a little better. Many websites will frame these questions as ‘things you should know about your partner before you get engaged/ married’ but we don’t necessarily agree with that. Yours and your […] The post Top 20 Getting To Know You Questions appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Weekly Featured Couple: Lovely and Andrew

    Chris Martin
    12 Dec 2014 | 1:00 pm
    This week we had the pleasure of speaking to Lovely and Andrew, an amazing couple who met online through a shared love of piano music. They have lived a 10 hour drive apart for the entirely of their long distance relationship, but are finally in a position where they are ready to close the gap! […] The post Weekly Featured Couple: Lovely and Andrew appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • I Want to Start a LDR Blog: Where Do I Begin?

    Chris Martin
    9 Dec 2014 | 11:34 am
    Love My Brit was started with a simple premise, to bring Chelsea and I closer together. Spending so much time apart, we wanted a way to spend more time together, and something that we were able to work on, improve and create together. A blog was the natural choice, and it is for the same […] The post I Want to Start a LDR Blog: Where Do I Begin? appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Vlog #5: Car Dilemma & Belly Rubs

    Chris Martin
    1 Dec 2014 | 2:30 am
    In this latest installment of our escapades around Bellingham, Chelsea’s tire gets a puncture, Apple takes a bath and we eat at Menchies. It was a mixed day, Apple definitely wasn’t happy with her bath, but after a long walk in the morning, she needed it. And, of course, we enjoyed ourselves too! Check out more […] The post Vlog #5: Car Dilemma & Belly Rubs appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Top 20 Benefits of a Long Distance Relationship

    Chris Martin
    25 Nov 2014 | 3:38 am
    When trying to think of what to call this post, I came up with a few ideas. One that I nearly used was ‘Top 20 Reasons to Choose a Long Distance Relationship’. But then I actually sat and thought about what I was saying. No-one chooses a long distance relationship; they are difficult and require […] The post Top 20 Benefits of a Long Distance Relationship appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • 9 Holiday Gifts That Make Life Better

    Nick Notas
    17 Dec 2014 | 5:26 pm
    Every holiday season, we all have to accept gifts that we know we’ll never use. We smile, say thank you, but inside we’re really thinking, “What the hell am I going to do with this?”   But I believe with a bit of thought, the right gift can be thought-provoking and invaluable. You can give someone a useful gift that they never knew they needed. You can give them something that improves their day-to-day routine. You can even change their life. Here are my suggestions for holiday gifts that make our lives better. For the home cook ThermoWorks ThermoPop Super-Fast Thermometer -…
  • Do’s and Don’ts For Your Online Dating Profile

    Nick Notas
    12 Dec 2014 | 7:31 am
    When most men write their online dating profile, they go about it the wrong way. They pen a factual biography that details their life story. They create a resume that only focuses on their skills and accomplishments. Or they write a sales pitch trying to convince women why they should choose them. All three of these methods fail spectacularly. Instead, you have to understand that the real purpose of your online profile is… Marketing yourself. Therefore, your goals should be to… Build interest. We all want the best for ourselves and women are no different. They’re looking…
  • Should You Even Try? (For That Girl or Guy)

    Nick Notas
    3 Dec 2014 | 8:38 am
    When Hamlet contemplated life, he needed to answer the question, “to be or not to be?” But in romantic pursuit, we all struggle to answer, “to try or not to try?” That is the question. Every week you tell me about all kinds of situations… “There’s a girl at my gym that I always see. Sometimes she even smiles at me. Should I approach her and introduce myself?” “I’m friends with a guy that I’ve developed feelings for. Should I see if something’s there?” “I’m 26 and there’s this 19 year old girl who…
  • Physical Attraction is Not Shallow

    Nick Notas
    19 Nov 2014 | 7:27 am
    Why is there so much judgement towards the physical preferences of others? We’re all guilty of it one time or another. Think about these scenarios… A girl who has specific height requirements for suitors in her online dating profiles A guy you like who always chooses blonde girls with big breasts instead A girl who dates a perfect guy and breaks up with him because of his small penis size A guy who only flirts with fit, athletic girls What do you think of these people? How do their actions make you feel? Are you angry that they could be so shallow? Do you feel disgusted with how…
  • Becoming the Man Women Pursue

    Nick Notas
    7 Nov 2014 | 9:39 am
    I’ve noticed a trend among the guys I work with lately. They go on seemingly amazing dates only to never hear from the girl again. Or to hear, “I just didn’t feel any chemistry.” I’m not even talking about desperate “nice guys”. These are genuine, respectful men who really like the girls they go out with. I’ve also been speaking with more women about how they chase guys who treat them poorly. Guys who ignore them, act like assholes, or have proven to be serial cheaters. And sometimes, that only has the girl trying harder. Because of this, I can see how a lot of guys come to…
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    Marital Affair » Blog

  • 10 Spontaneous Places To Have Sex

    16 Dec 2014 | 6:07 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at 1. Elevator Tips: Definitely not during rush hour (mornings and late afternoons). The best bet is in the middle of the night. Try and make sure it’s in a tall building to have at least a bit of time to fulfil those needs of yours. If you’re feeling really dangerous, hit the emergency button to stop the lift Just be sure to be finished before the emergency services arrive! 2. Car Tips: Wait till it’s dark enough for the windows to steam up so passers by can’t catch you. Choose a…
  • Is Affair Dating Having Your Cake and Eating It?

    11 Dec 2014 | 6:56 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Everyone’s relationship is different and what suits some couples may not suit another. Society is much more open-minded these days about what constitutes a relationship, and a normal relationship is a somewhat outdated concept. Affair dating is a form of dating that some people in relationships turn to for no strings attached sexual gratification. While for some people this is a perfect solution to a sexual need, others consider it to be having your cake and eating it. So which is it? Different…
  • 20 Beautiful Men To Fantasise Over During Sex

    11 Dec 2014 | 5:36 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at David Beckham Jamie Dornan Jason Statham George Clooney Patrick Dempsey Blair Redford Ed Westwick Ryan Gosling Josh Duhamel Bradley Cooper Justin Timberlake Kellan Lutz Ashton Kutcher Will Smith Jude Law Johnny Depp Tom Cruise Brad Pitt Eric Drane Leonardo DiCaprio 20 Beautiful Men To Fantasise Over During Sex appeared first on Marital Affair.
  • Getting the Most from Your Adult Dating Experience

    4 Dec 2014 | 6:44 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at If you are thinking about joining a married dating site then you’ll want to start out on the right foot. Adult dating is becoming more popular as people find that it can add something extra to their permanent relationship. An increasing number of married people find that their job takes them away from home a lot, at times far more than they would like. Sales people, for example, often have to attend conventions that are related to their particular industry which could be many miles away from home.
  • 8 Bondage Tips For Beginners

    2 Dec 2014 | 7:16 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at 1. Safety First Make sure you both agree on a safe word. It’s essential. It’s a way for the submissive to say ‘stop!’ when it becomes a bit too much to handle. Try not to choose words you would use when having sex though. Choose something out of the ordinary. Something that you’d never use during sex. If you end up veering towards being a little more hardcore and are using gags and bounds, choose a safe signal for you to use instead. 2. No Rules The fun thing about bondage is that…
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  • Two Is Better Than One: Shared Experiences

    5 Dec 2014 | 2:18 am
    If you are in a couple, maybe you will find it easy to understand this article. If not, I will be glad to give you my arguments why being in a couple is better than living all alone. It is true that everything depends on the type of person that you are, and on the stage of your life that you pass through, but you can agree that being in a couple has its benefits, concerning many experiences. Everyone understands fun and joy in its own way and that is why couples often argue about how to spend their free time together. If I have to be honest, however, despite all the arguments I always find it…
  • Sugar Dating – Why Stigma When Fantasy of All?

    Sugar Daters
    10 Nov 2014 | 2:32 am
    We have created this Sugar Dating discussion thread especially for those who would like to enlighten us with their “for” or “against” arguments. Our research and Online Dating industry stats show that the industry is going strong since past decade. Why do people consider sugar dating to be a stigma and then sign up for such services at the same time?  Rules: No promotional links unless it is your own original content and you belong to our industry as well You must be 21 of age at least No profanity or hate speech Please respond by commenting (moderated but quick…
  • Happy Online Dating UK

    Sugar Daters
    27 Oct 2014 | 12:50 pm
    How is the future looking for online dating in the UK? After having a long chat with a few of our friends in UK, researching internet, looking at different dating websites, reading news articles and business news (about online dating business) – we can safely say that the future is not bleak at all for online dating UK industry. So everyone needs to calm down and relax while they look for partners and dates online. We will not state any numbers here, just a few interesting facts: Despite the huge controversy about sugar dating in the UK, online dating industry is not just booming but also…
  • How to Share Your Household Cleaning Without Fighting

    21 Oct 2014 | 1:14 pm
    A great part of the people are not usually keen on providing the household cleaning duties. If we are honest, we often avoid all these annoying cleaning chores not because we are too busy but also because we somehow feel reluctant to take our part in these activities. Of course everyone needs to contribute to the clean and welcoming environment in their homes, but sometimes we find it difficult to share the household chores with out partner in the right way. In order to avoid the disputes on this question you had better find ways in which everyone has takes an equal part in this activity. We…
  • Why this sugar daddy got into the sugar dating world?

    Sugar Daters
    16 Oct 2014 | 12:57 pm
    Note: This is a contribution post by an anonymous Sugar Daddy. The views are his/her own and may not always reflect Sugar Daters views. It is posted as it is received, not alterations have been made. It is a question I have been trying to answer myself since I began. I continue to refine the answer now about 12 months after exploring the option. As I roll the answers around in my head at times it sounds quite cogent and plausible, whiles sometimes it sounds like I am only justifying my actions. Brief background: I am a single (divorced) man in my mid-forties, living alone with one child in…
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  • TEST II Yep

    18 Dec 2014 | 9:42 pm
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  • Think Like a Man! - Part I

    18 Dec 2014 | 9:42 pm
    I am now officially using two of the most superficial apps to date people: Tinder and Happn - I have to say I quite like the concept of Happn; however it doesn't work as it is marketed to. These two apps, which look more like games, give me more dating options than I could possibly handle. It's literally driving me crazy. It's as if the 'candidates' are being shortlisted all the time. Each single word counts. But.. damn! I just wanted some sort of meaningful conversation! Ok, Maybe...just maybe... being swept off my feet! I am not asking too much, am I?I lost count of how many messages are…
  • Online Dating Part I

    18 Dec 2014 | 9:42 pm
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • From Virtual Connection to WTF

    18 Dec 2014 | 9:42 pm
    You might remind Jack from the Virtual Connection post. You might be also curious about our date. Let's say that basically, I was right in my assumptions. I will follow my own advice from now on: Do not engage in excessive online conversation with someone before knowing them in person.So as most of you know, I was looking forward to going to this date. I had been exchanging texts with Jack for a few days and our conversations were quite elaborate and intense. There was some sort of virtual connection there (or maybe I was desperately looking for one).I was perfectly aware that I was creating…
  • Persistence to "MeetUp"

    18 Dec 2014 | 9:42 pm
    So after I broke up with Connor, I admit that I was feeling lonely. Plus, I knew that my flatmate was going on holidays for a while which only contributed to my panic. I would never imagine that I would feel as free, as independent and happy as I feel now! So before she departed, she told me I should 1) stop seeing Connor as it wouldn't do us any good and 2) do some activities and meet new people, not necessarily guys!I actually thought it was a good idea! First, I joined a few dance classes with my friend Esmeralda and we had a lot of fun doing it (We are still doing it on a weekly basis)!
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    I Quit Dating

  • Everybody Has A Story: Courage, Critics, Commenting and Commentating

    16 Dec 2014 | 9:38 pm
    It takes tremendous courage to tell your story. The bad stories, the good stories, the good stories that turn out to be bad stories and the bad stories that end up being good ones – In whatever form these stories take, the one thing that always remains constant is the powerful display of courage that […]
  • I’m Not Like You: Conclusion – What I Learned From A Man Named B*

    15 Dec 2014 | 10:37 am
    Last week I went online to purchase two toys for Toys For Tots. A natural born shopper and a lover of all things pretty, I took my time, weighed my options and ended up choosing based on my interest and what I would love to receive if someone said that I could pick anything I […]
  • Things We Steal From Those We Love: The Real Reason Why I Took Your Sweatshirt

    11 Dec 2014 | 1:35 pm
    I steal stuff. And I don’t mean in the conventional sense where my sticky fingers walk into a chic boutique to swipe expensive wares, nor do I steal from most people, meaning you don’t have to hide your valuables when I come to your house, or second guess when you ask me to hold your […]
  • I Can’t Change – Tinder Tumble Six Date Stumble: Part XV

    10 Dec 2014 | 10:52 am
    Recently I read an interview with one of the writers from “Sex in The City” who admitted that there was talk of the beloved series ending differently, yet she says, “We felt a big responsibility to end the show right. And by having every character with somebody, it means that ultimately, the show is about finding […]
  • The Art of Dating Yourself

    8 Dec 2014 | 10:44 am
    I shy away from giving advice on this blog, mostly because I’m not qualified to advise people on the topics of which I discuss. Dating? Relationships? Why would I encourage people to take advice about such subjects from a girl like me who is blogging at a link like this? Don’t worry, I wouldn’t either. […]
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    The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful

  • 5 Reasons You Have to Stop Seeing the Asshat as a Human Being

    17 Dec 2014 | 10:01 am
    Webster’s Dictionary: Objectification — to treat (someone) as an object rather than as a person. Objectification has become a bad word. Women are more that their breasts. Men are more than their abs. Children are more than performing seals. Cats are more than attractive home adornments (although cats don’t mind being objectified. They’re shallow like that). But when it comes to your Asshat you must learn to objectify him (her, if you’re a man). You are not objectifying his appearance, you are objectifying his behavior. When he lies to, cheats on, disrespects,…
  • The Colleary Family Christmas Letter

    15 Dec 2014 | 10:27 am
    2014 was neither the best of times, nor the worst of times. It was just, well, the times. Nobody contracted ebola, nobody was kidnapped by the FARC in Colombia, nobody gambled away the nest egg, nobody inadvertently married Stephen Collins, nobody crashed Kim Kardashian’s nude booty shoot … … nobody became a horcrux for part of Charlie Sheen’s soul … … and nobody had a pinnacle moment. But, we did get to start the year in Paris where we each did exactly what we wanted. Henry ran off to Verdun to relive World War I. Clare and Bridget accosted the same art…
  • Device Addiction: Does the Quest to Constantly Quantify our Lives Diminish Them?

    11 Dec 2014 | 6:59 am
    This story first appeared in my favorite online mag Purple Clover. Not too long ago, on a flight back from Boulder, Colorado, I struck up a conversation with my seatmate (who, btw, was living a double life. Foreshadowing). He was wearing an interesting black bracelet on his wrist that occasionally emitted a blast of pink, neon numbers. Curious, I asked why his bracelet was making such a fuss. He explained that the bracelet was a Jawbone Up—a device that tracks how many steps he takes each day, how many hours he sleeps at night and which of those hours are cycles of deep REM. He’s also…
  • Do These Panties Make me Look Fat?

    9 Dec 2014 | 8:13 am
    Don’t you get cheeky with me! Panties have been my secret superhero strength from age nineteen on. In my twenties the lacy black thong was my weapon of choice. Feeling that thin filament of fabric between the heart-shaped globes of my derriere felt naughty, which suited my rapid-fire flight from the pews of the church of my childhood. In my thirties I matured into the boy short that rode low across my hipbones, enunciating the delicate curve of a still-concave tummy and riding high across the ass in order to reveal a peek of cheeks beneath them. My husband was particularly fond of a…
  • How to get out of an Abusive Realationship: get into the Audience of your own Life

    8 Dec 2014 | 11:29 am
    Getting into the audience of our lives can help us spend more time with the people who truly love us, like dear friends. How to get out of an abusive relationship: Jerry Springer moments. Oh, how I’ve had them. When we date an Asshat we get a little batshit. Here’s one that would’ve made Jerry Springer chortle with glee. My first Asshat, the Greek God, came to a party/adult sleepover at my childhood home when my parents were out of town. He decided to play pool all night and wouldn’t talk to me at all. I don’t still don’t know why. My guess is that he had a…
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    Get A Beautiful Girlfriend

  • How to Meet, Attract and Seduce Women Using Game Dynamics

    Captain Jack
    9 Dec 2014 | 10:35 am
    Hola PUAs! Recall from “Game Dynamics and Player in the Game = Elegance” Game Dynamic 1:  You and her must agree you are both Players. So, I’m going to introduce “Player States of Existence” to you to help you improve Dynamic 1. Before she sees you or is aware of your presence your state is “Persona Non Grata.” After she becomes aware of you and/or you open and the set progresses, she updates your State to one of the following: Potential Player of a Game I Want to Play  Doubt (could be Doubt about Dynamic 2, 3, 4) Playing a Different Game Someone I Want to Play With…
  • Make Dating Women Easy with Game Dynamics

    Captain Jack
    9 Dec 2014 | 10:07 am
    Hola, The Game Dynamics posts have really gotten around. I’ve had DOUBLE the normal traffic and linking as my normal stuff and a lot of guys are resonating with it. It’s gotten to the point where I look at all the words out of her mouth, text messages or emails as attempts to Clarify on the Dynamics. I can HEAR which Dynamic is out of whack by the topics she brings up and stuff she says or questions she asks. Now that I know what she is getting at I can smoothly feed her the info she needs and ONLY the info she needs to get it Clarified. Sexual Framing, while elegant in itself, did a lot…
  • Become More Attractive to Women with Captain Jack’s Game Dynamics

    Captain Jack
    9 Dec 2014 | 9:52 am
    A comment from a reader on the previous Game Dynamics post: Hmm I think this is boiling down to a bit of semantics and how you exactly define it. If I go to a bar with my hot female friends I get tons more AIs that if I go with my male buddies. Sure, if I don’t do anything about it then the AIs will die down over time (except for new girls entering the venue). But either way simply having hot girls with you gets you more interest than not, therefore scientifically proving that social proof is a contributory factor! It won’t get you laid (you’ll still have to open… duh!) but is…
  • How to Get Women More Attracted to You

    Captain Jack
    9 Dec 2014 | 9:04 am
    This was the first real Game Dynamics post written in August 2009. It caused a HUGE STIR in the dating world and sent thousands of people to my blog. Reports of guy’s fear of approaching diminishing greatly followed.  ~ CJ ~ Since I’m going out to meet and seduce women more and actually working on Sticking Points I’ve done a bit more experimentation and then, OUTSIDE THE FIELD, analysis of what I’ve noticed versus what I expected versus what I want. I noticed the other day I was only marginally interesting to the hot bartenders and wait staff until I started talking to cougar and…
  • Gun to the Head Gaming: Charred Remains Checklist

    Captain Jack
    9 Dec 2014 | 3:41 am
    After charring your doubters with the flamethrower (part 1 of 2) you’ll probably want to get some fresh air and reflect. What if you are not as good as Sinn or El Topo (yet!) and you DID NOT get a Same Night Lay?  Well, now it’s time for some Brutal Honesty. Use this checklist to hold your ass to the fire. This is the time to be honest and real about your effort level and whether or not you have your shit together. “When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.” – Thomas Monson Use a…
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