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  • How to Talk to Women

    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog
    11 Apr 2015 | 10:40 am
     Now I will teach you the art ofconversation after you have made contact with a woman. Let me tell you what not to do first. Don't make the mistake of coming on with a lot of B.S. about yourself. Don't try to make a big impression by bragging about yourself or your material possessions. The trick to the whole art of conversation is becoming interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you. People aren't interested in you. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon, and night. This is an important fact to remember. After all, why should she be interested in you…
  • How to Get a Girlfriend Online vs. in Real Life?

    Dating advice for men & women
    Chris Tanny
    19 Apr 2015 | 3:25 am
    I ask women out and get nowhere! I’m near 40 years old and cannot get a girlfriend. I’m not doing this at bars where things have a good chance of just being a dead-end. I’m talking women everywhere. How to get a girlfriend fast? Ever since I can remember… all the way back through college […] The post How to Get a Girlfriend Online vs. in Real Life? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • If She Liked Me, How Come She Didn’t Respond to My Text?

    20 Apr 2015 | 11:46 pm
    One of the classic sources of confusion about women is why the attraction in person doesn’t seem to translate over text. A girl might seem really into you, but then doesn’t respond when you text her. Or she texts back a few times but eventually fades. I’m going to try to identify the most common reasons why this happens. 1. The Premise is Wrong: She Didn’t Actually Like You But why would she give you her number if she didn’t like you? Men tend to not understand that women have lots of issues and considerations in their heads that we are not privy to. A woman…
  • Can Men and Women Really Be Friends?
    Nick Notas
    24 Apr 2015 | 8:40 am
    Few questions spark a more passionate debate than this one.  When asking women, you’ll usually hear, “Yes!” When asking men, you’ll usually hear, “Of course not.” or “Only if the guy is gay.” This sucks for many women to hear. It’s depressing to think that no man can be a real friend, no matter how well you get along. However, it’s not that black and white. I think the correct answer is, “Yes…but only under the right circumstances.” Growing up, two of my best friends were girls. But I’ll admit, things were made easier because I was never physically attracted…
  • Mixology Acquired By AgapeMatch

    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2015 | 1:45 am
    PRESS RELEASE - Apr 22 - Agape Match, the NYC based matchmaking service, bought Mixology, a LGBT matchmaking service. The terms of the deal were not disclosed. See full article at InternetDatingNewswire See all posts on AgapeMatchSee all posts on Mixology This post also appears on InternetDatingInvestments. Summarized by
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  • We need to talk about “selfish”

    Natalie (NML)
    21 Apr 2015 | 2:40 pm
    When we suppress and repress our own feelings, opinions, needs, expectations and desires, we become oversensitised to those of others and develop a pesky habit of taking ownership of their feelings and behaviour. It’s as if in silencing us and being on high alert, we think that we’re feeling their feelings and thinking their thoughts, causing us to anticipate and forecast doom while burdening us with ‘duties’. When we take ownership of other people’s feelings and behaviour, we spend a lot of our time grappling with doubt, guilt and shame. We fear that we are being…
  • We’ve got to stop procrastinating in unavailable relationships

    Natalie (NML)
    15 Apr 2015 | 2:30 pm
    Over the years, many a reader has claimed that they’ve been emotionally available to an emotionally unavailable partner. Here’s the thing: If we are truly emotionally available and want to keep our integrity and basically not be met with tumbleweeds or the equivalent of, “What? What was that? You’re breaking up…” or even a ‘dead ringtone’, why are we choosing to be emotionally available to somebody who is afraid of intimacy, commitment, progression, balance, and consistency? Why are we claiming to be emotionally available to somebody who…
  • Some people just love trying to come up smelling of roses even when they leave you for someone else

    Natalie (NML)
    8 Apr 2015 | 2:24 pm
    Have you ever been on the best date ever or best few dates ever, only to be unceremoniously blanked afterwards despite promises of another date? This person wanted to leave you with a really good impression and fill you up with good feelings and memories so that when you didn’t hear from them again, they could move on with a clear conscience. Some people extend this beyond dates and devote their energies to trying to come out smelling of roses when really, it’s Eau de Bullsh*t (BS). It doesn’t matter whether it’s months or years; they engage in compartmentalisation and image…
  • We must stop reinforcing shame. It’s OK for us to like and love ourselves.

    Natalie (NML)
    31 Mar 2015 | 1:55 pm
    What’s so bad about saying that we like and love ourselves? Or, what’s so bad about saying that we would like to get to know ourselves and evolve our relationship to one that’s coming from a place of healthier self-esteem and personal security? Doesn’t this benefit everyone all round? Isn’t this better than looking for romantic partners and other people in our lives, to fill voids or even parent us? Isn’t this better than rocking up to relationships expecting this person to tell us who we are and validate us? What’s so bad about saying,…
  • Admit The Cover-Up & Stop Overcompensating

    Natalie (NML)
    27 Mar 2015 | 1:52 pm
    Over the years of writing BR, I’ve emphasised how relationships are 100:100. We have to own our own and let others own theirs. We have to show up and be our true selves rather than show up on the basis that we are half of a person and that we’ll do a bit and they’ll do the rest. With the whole 50:50 premise, we’re leaving a lot out. Where did the other 50% of us go? It’s difficult to dispute when we’re putting our whole selves in and are willing to evolve but once we start making others responsible for part of what we should be doing, the waters get murky.
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    Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40™

  • The woo dance

    Dating Goddess
    22 Apr 2015 | 1:59 pm
    Wooing can be exhilarating, fun, and exciting. It’s nice to be the recipient of a man’s attention and affection. It’s especially nice when he’s good at it, but not so good it seems practiced. I’ve been the recipient of good woos and not so good ones. The latter wooers seem clumsy, perhaps out of nervousness or lack of confidence. The former seem relaxed; the wooing feels natural, comfortable and sincere. But of course, that could also come from frequent wooing. This week I’m the target of a man’s woo who seems sincere and not overly practiced. But I…
  • Cruisin’ for love

    Dating Goddess
    16 Mar 2015 | 8:11 am
    I’m on an 11-day cruise. It’s not a singles’ cruise. Am I here looking for love? Yes and no. I’m speaking onboard. But I’m also got my eyes peeled for eligible men. Unfortunately, many more single women cruise with gal pals than men. Plus, out of 1800 passengers, I’d say only fewer than 50 of us (not counting children) are under age 60. Not that I’m limiting my search to those under 60, but it would be nice if he wasn’t too far beyond that age. I know there are healthy, energetic, vital men 65+, but on this ship more have health issues when they…
  • When a former date passes on

    Dating Goddess
    23 Feb 2015 | 11:58 am
    One of the unexpected experiences of dating after 40 is when someone you dated dies. I’ve had it happen twice now. Of course, death occurs at all ages. It’s just shocking when it’s someone you have met and become even a little fond of. During the Oscar show memorial of those who died this year, I was shocked to see the name and pic of a man I dated briefly a few years ago. During our dates, I noticed he had a few drinks every few hours, from several mimosas or bloody Marys at breakfast, to two Irish coffees mid-morning and/or mid-afternoon, beer, wine or a few cocktails at…
  • Can you be wacko on dates?

    Dating Goddess
    11 Feb 2015 | 8:26 pm
    We all have stories of some date gone awry because your companion acted strangely. In fact, we love to regale our friends with these stories whenever mid-life dating enters the conversation. We never see that we might have been the one someone is telling a story about. How could we be the focus of a wacko story? It can’t be true! But it is. In reviewing some of my out-of-kilter dates, I saw that it was not always the guy who acted oddly. When I rerun the mental film of the encounter, I see that I acted like a nutcase when I see it from his perspective. One memorable date gone wrong was…
  • Dating as sport

    Dating Goddess
    28 Jan 2015 | 11:25 pm
    I spent some time recently with a mid-50s, never-married, long-time friend. He’s been in relationships lasting a few years, but never found someone he wanted to be with long term. But he does love women and he loves to date. He had 3 dates last weekend with different women. He said he liked all of them but only planned to see one of them again. And he had another set of women lined up for the following week. I asked why he didn’t just focus on one. He said he loved taking out beautiful, interesting women. It was a form of entertainment for him. When I pointed out he was probably…
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  • How To Keep Your Orifices Clean & Healthy

    Twanna A. Hines
    10 Apr 2015 | 4:30 am
    Maybe I’ve been out of the loop, but I hadn’t heard of Vani Hari until the recent press. For a pretty good summary of her schtick, read The “Food Babe” Blogger Is Full of Shit. I don’t have any personal views about Hari. She probably wanted more orifices gobbling healthy eats (good!), but maybe she was a bit uninformed? “Our food education is woefully inadequate,” Salon smartly notices. “Many people still don’t know what makes a meal genuinely healthy.” I know certainly didn’t until relatively recently! I like shoving whatever I…
  • Watch This: An Interracial Threesome Love Triangle

    Twanna A. Hines
    8 Apr 2015 | 4:08 am
    Hot blasian love! When’s the last time you saw an interracial threesome love triangle on a theater’s stage — including a delicious blend of skin tones? Never? That’s what I thought. Woolly Mammoth Theatre Company‘s world premiere play Lights Rise on Grace is a gritty love story about a shy daughter of Chinese immigrants, Grace, who falls in love with a charismatic young black man, Large, who goes to prison for a bit and falls in lust with a white guy named Riece. If you live in or near Washington, D.C., come see the 8:00 pm show next Thursday, April 16th.
  • Here’s What I Learned About Life By Writing About Sex

    Twanna A. Hines
    7 Apr 2015 | 4:09 am
    There’s a reason you can make anyone fall in love with you if you ask them 36 Questions. (Psst, the Times’ mobile app guides you through the list.) Question #11 gives it away: Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible. Apparently, we’re all such sad, broken, happy, fragile, interesting, contradictory, strong and confused little individuals that piecing together those tiny, intimate fragments with someone is exactly what makes them care for us. Writing sex columns and answering the very tough questions people ask about relating…
  • What A Difference A Year (or 10!) Makes

    Twanna A. Hines
    5 Apr 2015 | 10:17 pm
    I’ve been naughty because I haven’t posted an update in ages. Apologies and kisses. Over the past year, I penned freelance articles for outlets including The Guardian, wrote a weekly column for print editions of Metro International’s three domestic markets—New York City, Boston, and Philadelphia—and produced, co-directed, and starred in my DC-based theatrical debut. (The one-woman show attracted sold-out audiences and favorable reviews from The Washington Post, DCist, DC Metro Theater Arts, and DC Theatre Scene.)When I wasn’t doing all that, I was on camera…
  • 5 Things I Learned from the FIFA World Cup Trophy

    Twanna A. Hines
    15 Apr 2014 | 7:11 am
    I’m well aware my current life offers more opportunities than I dreamed possible. I grew up with relatives in rural Mississippi until, at age 10, I reunited with my single mom in small-town Illinois. We didn’t have the kind of money that covered family vacations, so I didn’t dip my toes in an ocean or sit in a plane’s cabinet until later in life. As I kid, I just thought: My life will be what it always has been. I support internationalism and exchange programs because they expose participants to different worlds. Having studied, lived, traveled, and worked abroad…
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  • Hummin Along

    27 Apr 2015 | 9:00 pm
    HUMMIN ALONG Supporting our Brothers and Sisters of Humanity, as well as ourselves, addressing the underlying stigmas and programming embedded in the consciousness of man and Working towards symbiotic relationships for us all. It’s essential for us to break down these barriers of division in order to establish unity among humanity. Come Hummin Along with us towards global change!
  • Nurturing YOU Beyond Grief

    moving beyond grief
    27 Apr 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Most people define nurturing as self care . What if that is just the start? When there is loss, there are also new possibilities for creating  something different . Something beyond what you knew was possible before your life changed . What if grief could be a catalyst for new choices that create even more for you and your life ? Join me as I interview Lisa Murray, Founder of Creativity Lab about ways we can begin to nuture a new life into being .  What is it that your grief is contributing to you? Lets find out! and have some fun with Lisa . A little about Lisa Today I've invited Lisa…
  • Open For Discussion April 2015

    9 Comm Media
    27 Apr 2015 | 9:00 pm
    "THE INNERMIX SHOW" #Life #Love & #Relationships Monday 9 p.m pst Hosts: Simply D & Jules Call in talk Live 347-857-1344 Tonight on the show it is open for discussion! Which means we will be answering your questions.  Yes that's right... Tonight you guys run the show! So let us know what's been on your mind by calling in and sharing your thoughts. We will also be having another round of  Yahoo questions, Innermix answers. Follow Us Twitter: @Innermix_Show Instagram: @Innermix360 Facebook: Innermix
  • Dating Today With Fernando Uribe-Monday April 27, 2015

    Dating Today with Fernando Uribe
    27 Apr 2015 | 8:30 pm
    Coming up, I will discuss signs you know you're getting the right attention from the opposite sex and how you can maximize your chances when meeting new people.
  • SHIFT TODAY "God's Plan, Purpose and Position for The MRS."

    27 Apr 2015 | 7:00 pm
    THE MRS. "Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs" SHIFT TODAY Monday evening segments, “God’s Marriage Position for The MRS.” are designed with wives in mind and singles preparing for marriage.   Host Nina Roach and Guests Wives of MRS. MINISTRIES are women after God’s heart.  Together they’ll address the heart challenges and joys that wives face, by transparently sharing wisdom, laughter, love, real- time life experiences and restoration strategies, in hope that marriages thrive by the power of God’s love, word and Spirit.  Connect weekly and extract…
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    Dating advice for men & women

  • Boyfriend Not Interested In Me Sexually Anymore

    Chris Tanny
    19 Apr 2015 | 3:30 am
    Many times, most of the time as a response to me saying it. He never just says it. Ever. It’s either me saying it first and him just saying thank you, and sometimes saying it back, or me asking him to tell me he loves me. My boyfriend seems uninterested in me Also, he doesn’t […] The post Boyfriend Not Interested In Me Sexually Anymore appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • My Boyfriend Seems Uninterested In Me: Relationship Is Cooling Off

    Chris Tanny
    19 Apr 2015 | 3:29 am
    Many times, most of the time as a response to me saying it. He never just says it. Ever. It’s either me saying it first and him just saying thank you, and sometimes saying it back, or me asking him to tell me he loves me. (Pathetic, I know.) Cooling off period in a relationship […] The post My Boyfriend Seems Uninterested In Me: Relationship Is Cooling Off appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • How to Turn a Friend Into Lover: Simple Pickup Lines?

    Chris Tanny
    19 Apr 2015 | 3:28 am
    I’ve known this girl for a very long time. A very long time!! 10 years now I think. We went from being close to being distant friends that talked to each other once in a while online…to catch up and to just recall some old jokes. Our families used to be pretty close but they […] The post How to Turn a Friend Into Lover: Simple Pickup Lines? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • How to Get Your Parents to Like Your Boyfriend?

    Chris Tanny
    19 Apr 2015 | 3:26 am
    My parents despise my boyfriend, however they have never met him. I understand that this is a huge age gap and I understand how my parents view it. I have known my boyfriend for over three years now. We dated for a lot of that time but it was always kept secret because my parents […] The post How to Get Your Parents to Like Your Boyfriend? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • How to Get a Girlfriend Online vs. in Real Life?

    Chris Tanny
    19 Apr 2015 | 3:25 am
    I ask women out and get nowhere! I’m near 40 years old and cannot get a girlfriend. I’m not doing this at bars where things have a good chance of just being a dead-end. I’m talking women everywhere. How to get a girlfriend fast? Ever since I can remember… all the way back through college […] The post How to Get a Girlfriend Online vs. in Real Life? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • Match Introduces App For The Apple Watch (Mark Brooks)
    27 Apr 2015 | 11:39 am
    PR NEWSWIRE - Apr 24 - Features within the new Apple Watch app include: - In Discover - users can review and rate their matches from their writs. - Send messages - users can tap the microphone to use voice-to-text dictation to compose emails. See full article at PR Newswire See all posts on This post also appears on Summarized by
  • Thanks To Our Sponsors (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2015 | 9:28 am
  • Jack’d - First Gay App On The Apple Watch (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2015 | 2:03 am
    NEWNOWNEXT - Apr 23 - Online Buddies, Jack'd's parent company, has launched the Apple Watch app extension. The new Jack'd Apple Watch app features default responses and emojis for quick responses, bookmarked favorites, and full profile options with multiple public and private photos. Online Buddies also owns Manhunt, and a new dating app - Dandy. by Dan AverySee full article at NewNowNext See all posts on Online BuddiesSee all posts on Jack'd This post also appears on Summarized by
  • Would You Buy Shares In Ashley Madison? (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2015 | 1:53 am
    MARKETWATCH - Apr 23 - Avid Life Media, the parent company of Ashley Madison, hopes to raise $200M in an IPO in London later this year. Ashley Madison makes up ~70% of Avid's $150M annual revenue, says Noel Biderman, CEO of the site. AM alone has ~33M members worldwide with 2.3M active users. The IPO plans may be mere flirtation with the media or a way to attract a suitor keen to invest. AM has little direct competition. "The entire business is built on the premise that few will follow," says Mark Brooks, a dating-industry analyst and the editor of Online Personals Watch. "It’s…
  • Mixology Acquired By AgapeMatch (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2015 | 1:45 am
    PRESS RELEASE - Apr 22 - Agape Match, the NYC based matchmaking service, bought Mixology, a LGBT matchmaking service. The terms of the deal were not disclosed. See full article at InternetDatingNewswire See all posts on AgapeMatchSee all posts on Mixology This post also appears on InternetDatingInvestments. Summarized by
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  • 19 Great Drake Quotes That Will Make You Feel Like No One Understands Your Pain Better Than Him

    Koty Neelis
    15 Apr 2015 | 12:31 pm
    Drake – Vevo I went to a lit reading a couple weeks ago in Brooklyn that combined music + literature by making the reading themed all things Drake or all things ~inspired~ by the emotional poignancy of his lyrics. It was pretty fun. After the reading I realized he knows how to truly cut into the core of modern dating and relationships. Here are some of his best lyrics that will have you nodding your head in agreement because you’ve likely experienced something similar. 1. “I know they say the first love is the sweetest, but that first cut is the deepest.” –…
  • How Would You Respond If A Girl Asked You Out On Facebook?

    Demetrius - Tao of Indifference
    15 Apr 2015 | 11:49 am
    whatshouldido09 asks:  So this is the situation. This guy in my graduate program and I have been casually sort of flirting as we see each other. I feel him looking at me a lot and he playfully teases me a lot when we chat, but I am a huge coward when I like someone and tend to just ignore them rather than make it clear that I am interested. Helpful. Anyway, we run into each other a few times a week at the most and we haven’t texted or chatted online and I’m starting to worry that my in-person apparent lack of interest is scaring him off or discouraging him too much, which would…
  • Why I'm Grateful For The Almost Relationship I Had

    Koty Neelis
    15 Apr 2015 | 6:43 am
    jessicafoley Before I say anything further, I will be honest with you: it hurt. Yes, it hurt big time the moment I realized the relationship would never be what I wish it could be and he was never going to feel for me the way I felt for him. All what I had was something almost. I blamed myself. I traced back to every second we were together, asking myself what I did wrong that ruined my chance of something more, something solid. Since we were never in a relationship, there was no break up, no closure but only me with a broken heart and millions of what-ifs. It was hard, very hard,…
  • Podcast Ep.32 - Ten Ways You're Screwing Up Your First Online Date

    Demetrius - Tao of Indifference
    14 Apr 2015 | 12:14 pm
    Have a date coming up and you’re absolutely terrified that you’ll screw it up? Lucky for you, I called in a special favor from my favorite therapist. In this episode I’m joined by guest Emily Roberts, LPC. Emily Roberts (aka The Guidance Girl) is a Psychotherapist, Parenting Consultant, Educational Speaker and Published Author. She’s a frequent guest on Dr. Drew On Call on HLNTV and recently appeared on an episode of Loveline. Emily’s got 5 tips for all the guys out there on what you shouldn’t do on your first online date, and I’ve got 5 tips for the…
  • Why Do Some Women Leave Their Dreams Behind to Follow a Man?! Find Out How Loving Yourself First is Truly the BEST Remedy...

    Bev Knox Ph.D. of Bev Knox Institute of Self-Enhancement / BevKnoxFabulous
    14 Apr 2015 | 8:12 am
    Many women now a days in relationships don’t put themselves first.  Pretty simple statement, right?!  Right.  What I mean by this is that they’re so focused on their man and what they bring to the relationship, they loose sight of themselves and what they had planned their future! I know plenty of women who lost themselves in a relationship, and that’s really NOT good!  When you’re getting into a relationship, you’re supposed to be joining a partnership, a 50/50 type thing.  Your goals and ambitions and thoughts are just as important as your man’s!
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  • 4 Emphatic Statements About Why 'Too Picky' Is A Bad Statement!

    27 Apr 2015 | 5:56 pm
    Being a relationship coach should make one incredibly aware of their needs and wants. Otherwise, they're a hypocrite in Freud's clothing. I, for one, have incredibly high awareness of such things. I can recite my needs and wants like they were the words to my all-time favorite song which, if you're curious, is 'Exactly' by Amy Steinberg. And yet here I am 110 months post divorce and single. When I think about all of this, there are three words that come to mind--strange, sad and defiant.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Dating in LA and Not Going to Settle!

    27 Apr 2015 | 9:28 am
    I've worked as a Los Angeles matchmaker for over 21 years. I know being single in Los Angeles is no easy feat. It can feel as though you’re drowning in a sea of thousands of other singles hoping to meet their special someone. Unfortunately, LA singles are spoiled by too many choices. At every corner there is a new website, Los Angeles matchmaker service or place to meet singles. There are rapid dating events, dinner dates for groups and 200 online sites.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Is He Lying About Being Single? 6 Tests to Figure it Out

    25 Apr 2015 | 4:42 pm
    Hello my wonderful readers! Gregg here, and we need to talk about an important dating for women subject. There is nothing more that irritates me more than when a guy pretends he is single, while really he is married or deep in a relationship. This is the first of two posts – first, to give you the signs, and second, to give you the tests to expose him! He doesn’t give you his cell numberBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 7 Points to Consider When Dating An Entrepreneur!

    25 Apr 2015 | 12:00 pm
    Ever since the hit show “Shark Tank” came on air, a TV show featuring aspiring entrepreneurs, people have begun to pursue their passion to become an entrepreneur.  Both young and old, rich and poor have set out to achieve the American dream.  Entrepreneurs are highly driven, super ambitious and very passionate about what they do and how they contribute to society.  To the average person, loving them can be very challenging, especially when you don’t understand their way of life.  To help guide you in this process, I will share with you a few insights into this world and how you may…
  • The No. 1 Subliminal Behavior That Runs Off Online Men
    24 Apr 2015 | 1:54 pm
    If you’ve had one (1) online guy to unexplainably disappear—no biggie. But if two or more guys you were corresponding with mysteriously evaporated—Virginia, you may have a personal problem. Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
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  • Nido 3+ and StimuLearn Helping Moms everywhere

    28 Apr 2015 | 1:30 am
    Moms everywhere are constantly trying to find ways to ensure their kids are eating right, getting the right amount of vitamins and being stimulated enough. It is not always an easy thing to get right especially with toddlers who aren’t keen on trying new foods or who will only eat one type of food or just wont eat much at all. I have had fussy eaters, non eaters and more recently the non-stop-training-hard-eater. Each comes with a set of challenges of their own. During the first 3 years of your child’s life, his or her brain triples in weight and establishes approximately 1,000…
  • How do you not project onto your children?

    23 Apr 2015 | 2:10 am
      Last night we had a rather heated debate about schools and soccer. David said that I was manipulating steering Cameron to the option I wanted. HA! Obviously I denied it vehemently because honestly it was not my intention but the reality is, there is a lot of truth in what he is saying. While I am trying to make sure we all have all the information we need to make these decisions, I am emphasising or over playing the option I want. David is actually also doing the same – it is just very obvious now because him and I are on opposite sides. It got me thinking about how hard it is…
  • {Giveaway} Baby Registry Voucher

    23 Apr 2015 | 12:57 am
      Baby Showers are becoming an industry on their own. If you are a mom then you have an idea of what to buy but if you aren’t then heading into the isle of a baby store can be hugely intimidating. Even if you do have an idea of what to buy you often aren’t sure if the mom to be has it, wants or will even use it. And then there is time to get to the shops, wade through the shelves of bottles, dummies, monitors and wet wipes that all promise to be the best for your baby! Enter My Baby Registry! They take the hassle out of it all!!! They provide a platform for moms to be (or…
  • Did you queue today? I didn’t and not sure I would have.

    21 Apr 2015 | 1:55 am
    When I had my melt down earlier this year about Cameron’s high school choices for next year, everyone thought I was mad. They kept saying “It will work out” etc etc and obviously it will BUT I am still very glad I had that meltdown when I did because it meant I now have back up plans for the back up plan. Which meant I did not queue today with, what seems like, every parent in Gauteng with either a Grade 1 or Grade 8 in 2016. We have 3 private schools on our list – two of which have already granted Cameron a spot and one will confirm with us on the 18 May and 1 public…
  • How quirky are you?

    20 Apr 2015 | 1:06 am
    I have written about Jack’s quirkiness before. The other day when I had to stop mid-shop to take off my shoes and straighten my sock, I realised we are all a little quirky (well in my family anyway). Last week David mentioned he was struggling to run a 6.4km route. I suggested he run 3.2km and then turn around. Well I may has well have suggested he chew off his own legs. Apparently he can’t run the back on the same route so he has to run a loop. I can not wear socks that do not match – even if they are both black socks, if the one is longer than the other I can not wear…
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  • Are the Atlanta Hawks and Chicago Bulls Still Threats to Win the East?

    Joe Sargent
    27 Apr 2015 | 9:09 pm
    When the NBA Playoffs started, I was excited as always. After the first couple days, though, reality started to set in. Seven of the eight series were 2-0. I had been staying up way too late for nothing. As things have played out, a couple matchups in the East have become unexpectedly competitive. Now we’re left with one question as we wait for Round 2: Are the Bulls and Hawks contenders, or nah? Let’s break them down one by one: Chicago Bulls: Contenders (for the East) First of all, Chicago a’int winning the title. Whoever comes out of the West will beat them in five. Now, despite…
  • With Age Comes Clarity in Relationships

    Dr. J
    24 Apr 2015 | 9:00 am
    I asked a room full of women to take out a sheet of paper and fold it in half. On one side of the paper, write down the reason why you stopped talking to, dating, or even being married to every man you’ve ever been with. On the other side of the paper, write down the reasons on the left side of the paper that really matter to you now. Surprisingly, they all noticed how drastically shorter the list was on the right. I told them, as time goes on we realize that the things we were really upset with weren’t all that serious to begin with. I recently had a conversation with my mother and I…
  • Dating Diaries DMV: Junkie Love & JAILBAIT!

    Dr. J
    23 Apr 2015 | 9:58 am
    This is a testimonial submitted anonymously on Dating Diaries DMV. I recently did an event in DC with Nicole and we linked up to do some collaborating and add a little paint where it ain’t here at SBM. Dear Diary, I went on a date with this chick who was cool and towards the end of the night she asked if I “smoked”. I knew she didn’t mean cigarettes but figured it was something “green” so I was like no, but I didn’t care if she smoked. She said OK, but after wards I’m going to be horny. I was like OK, so I took her to her connect and this is where it messed me up. She came…
  • Ask A Black Man: The Experience

    22 Apr 2015 | 7:00 am
      We are in full swing of the second season of Ask A Black Man on Madame Noire. I had the opportunity to participate and was glad to. I was a fan of the first season and appreciated what the series was striving for. There’s nothing like seeing guys come together and speak candidly on issues that affect us. In this project the guys that I recorded with had varied experiences. I appreciated all of their ideas and contributions to the discussion. As you would expect when guys get together, we held conversation and held no punches. Some people seemed to not take kindly to references made…
  • Decriminalize Marijuana in the Bedroom: Which is Better Drunk or High Sex?

    20 Apr 2015 | 7:55 am
    You know that most of us believe sex to be one of the greatest wonders this world has had to offer. However, the funny part is that as people we are always in the pursuit of making what we have better. Because we always believe there is a better, like “sex would better, if we tried this position, in this place, with this person, how about we add a person, etc.” Most adults also know that sex is better with a few added ingredients like alcohol or weed. Today we’re going to discuss which is better drunk or high sex?: Sober Sex: Hopefully, everyones has had sober sex before.
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  • Ahmed Faraz Dard Shayari

    27 Apr 2015 | 11:02 pm
    Dard jitna hai meri nigahon me, na de khuda kisiki raho me, bitana chahte they zindagi jinki bahon me Shayad maut bhi na mil payegi unki panaho me The post Ahmed Faraz Dard Shayari appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Friendship Shayari

    27 Apr 2015 | 4:59 pm
    Tujhe dekhe bina teri tasweer bana sakta hoon, tujhse mile bina tera haal bata sakta hoon, hai meri dosti mein itna dum, apni aankh ka aansoo teri aankh segira sakta hoon. Hum se Na Ruthna kabhi, Andaaz E Dosti to ek ada hai Us ke bina Zindagi mein Na Maza hai, Is liye kehte hain Hum se Na Ruthna kabhi, kyon k DOST ka Ruthna bhi ek Saza hai. Phool Jese Doston Se Bhi Kya Dosti Karna, Kuch Pal K Baad Murjha Jatey Hain, Dosti KarNi Hai To Hum Jese Kaanton Se Karo, Jo Chubney K Baad Bhi Yaad Aatey hein, Shaam ki tanhai mein khoo na jana, kisi ki masti mein doob na jana, milegi zaroor kal manzil…
  • Bana Lenge Tumein Apna !!!

    27 Apr 2015 | 10:54 am
    Khalid Bana lenge tumein apna,zara tum sabar to karlo Mujhe duniya se ladna hai, zara tum sabar to karlo Tumhare bin kisi ko sauchna mumkin nahin jaana Yeh jeevan tum bin adhura hai,zara tum sabar to karlo Yeh duniya chhor de mujh ko,mujhe parwah nahin iski Faqat tum ko hi paana hai,zara tum sabar to karlo Tum apne dil ki basti mein,mujhe abaad hi rakhna Bahaut bardasht hai mujh mein,zara tum sabar to karlo(mkm) The post Bana Lenge Tumein Apna !!! appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Missing You SMS In Hindi

    27 Apr 2015 | 4:52 am
    Lamhe judai ke bekarar kerte hain, Haalat mere mujhe laachar karte hain, Aankhe meri pad lo kabhi, Ham khud kaise kahe ki aapse pyaar karte hain. Mere pyaar ka hisaab jo lagaoge, To mere pyar ko behisaab paoge, Paani ke bulbule sa hai mera pyar, Zara si thes lagi to dhundte rehjaoge. When u mix rice in milk u call it kheer. When u mix vinegar in milk u call it paneer.. When u mix a sweet person like me in ur life .. U call it takdeer. Yoon to zindagi ki rahoon main log hazar milengay Hum kya hum say achy hazar milengay Lekin bhool na jana bhool se bhi hamain Kyoon k hum kahan apko bar bar…
  • Hindi Jokes & SMS

    26 Apr 2015 | 10:49 pm
    Father: Tumhe kaisi biwi chahiye? Son: Mujhe chand jai si biwi chahiye, Jo raat ko aaye aur subha chali jaye! Teacher: The post Hindi Jokes & SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
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    Online Dating Guide

  • Signs You’ve Found Someone to Date Exclusively

    24 Apr 2015 | 6:00 am
    It’s a big move to make your online dating profile inactive or cancel your account. And hopefully, it’s a task that comes with great joy, knowing that you’ve met someone who really clicks, so much so that you have no interest in continuing your search for the right person. You may have found him/her! The best-case scenario is when you are able to cancel your account with absolute certainty that you have found the one or at least someone who has serious potential to become “the one” and you recognize that you just need to give the relationship the attention and…
  • Mobile Dating Apps: The Next Generation of Online Dating

    17 Apr 2015 | 6:44 am
    If online dating already felt like a step out-of-the-norm, take a look at all the online apps being developed for smart mobile devices. Now you don’t even have to wait to curl up by the computer (a la “You’ve Got Mail”) because you can get a notification right to your fingertips. As of yet, I haven’t touched Tinder (details and background info coming up later on each site!) For me, I could never quite nail down the type of user on Tinder, or true underlying motivations. Some say it’s a hookup app, some say it’s for finding real dates. All I know is that because it has the added…
  • A Woman’s Approach to Online Dating

    26 Feb 2015 | 4:30 pm
    Everybody online is looking for a little something different—some may be looking for a casual dinner partner on Friday nights, others may be looking for a new father-figure for their children. I make no claims to be in the mindset of everybody, but from my lips to your ears, here is my (fairly typical) thought process as I log-in to my online dating profile. It starts with a look at the subject line and first sentence I can read in my flooded inbox. (Often I’d only check once every week or two.) You can read my full blog posts regarding what “pickup lines” do and do not work elsewhere…
  • eHarmony Free Trial, February 2015

    13 Feb 2015 | 7:45 am
    eHarmony is having a free communication weekend starting Thursday, February 12th and running until the end of the day on Monday, February 16th. This free event is open to those in the US and Canada. Australia is also having a free trial this weekend, although it runs over different days (see below). Whenever eHarmony has these free communication weekends, you are able to communicate for free with your matches. Normally, you are able to review your matches but not start the communication process with them. eHarmony has been providing these free trials over holiday weekends for the few years so…
  • Online Dating Around Valentine’s Day

    9 Feb 2015 | 7:30 pm
    For singles, Valentine’s Day can bring one stinging reminder after the next of a person’s solo status. The onset of advertisements ranging from heart-shaped confections to fine dining promotions can be pretty pervasive and comes neatly wrapped in a red satin bow. But if your calendar is still wide open on February 14th, here are a few thoughts to consider. If you’re looking for a relationship, Valentine’s Day really isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. So don’t stress too much over this highly commercialized holiday with origins resulting in the execution of St. Valentine (no joke,…
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • No More Just Friends with a Woman - Turn Her Into Your Lover

    26 Apr 2015 | 1:46 pm
    No More Just Friends...Are you always the friend, never the lover? As soon you become close to a single woman, she finds another guy to be her boyfriend?It's easy to change "just friends" into much, much more. Simply stop waiting around for the woman to make the first move. Let your close single woman friend(s) know that you want more from your relationship (for example: seduction, intimacy, romance!). Put the idea into her head that you want to be intimate. You have to stop spending lots of time with women -- becoming close, sharing secrets, being the confidante -- but not getting what YOU…
  • How to Attract Women with Your Looks

    19 Apr 2015 | 1:49 pm
    TIP #1 - Yes, sexy single women are attracted sexually and romantically to men with nice bodies and having a fit body usually means that you take care of yourself and take pride in your body.However, there's one way that fitness can backfire on you and actually cause women to lose interest in you. Let me explain...if you are an exercise freak and your whole life revolves around body building and all you can talk about is your body and exercising, this can turn off women who don't share your enthusiasm. Due to your obsession with yourself, they may even think you are self-centered and…
  • How to Conquer Women

    11 Apr 2015 | 10:47 am
    Ever since the days of the cavemen, men have lead and women have followed. Our new powerful audio cd called, Conquering Women arms men with the secrets and power they need to always be in control of and conquer women. Men can finally take back what’s theirs-- CONTROL and DOMINION over all women.The gloves are off; the day of reckoning is here. It’s us versus them. There will be a winner in the battle of the sexes, and it will be you. In this all new audio CD, Gary Brodsky (One of the top dating experts in America) teaches you to CONQUER WOMEN. It’s for any man that wants to be in…
  • How to Talk to Women

    11 Apr 2015 | 10:40 am
     Now I will teach you the art ofconversation after you have made contact with a woman. Let me tell you what not to do first. Don't make the mistake of coming on with a lot of B.S. about yourself. Don't try to make a big impression by bragging about yourself or your material possessions. The trick to the whole art of conversation is becoming interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you. People aren't interested in you. They are interested in themselves - morning, noon, and night. This is an important fact to remember. After all, why should she be interested in you…
  • Signs That Topless Dancers Give That She May Not be Interested in You

    10 Apr 2015 | 1:42 pm
    Negative Signs That a Topless Danceris Not Interested In You1. You lean towards her and she leans back away from you.2. She starts turning away from you.3. She doesn't make eye contact with you.4. She folds her arms across her chest.5. Double crosses her legs at the ankle.6. She touches her nose often while she's with you.7. A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.8. When talking to you, her eyes keep glancing at other guys in the club. She's probably keeping her eye out for her next customer.9. She makes no effort to talk to you. She doesn't reply to any of your comments,…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • I won a 10000 euros in a lotto I played last week. This spell caster I met when I was in Washington did a lottery spell that worked.

    28 Apr 2015 | 1:57 am
    New Answer - I won a 10000 euros in a lotto I played last week. That was the last lotto I played. I play every 2 weeks and I must win, do you know how?. This spell caster I met when I was in Washington changed everything. I read about lottery spell, But i never wanted to give it a try until I was so frustrated to last month. Since I contact this spell caster, +14434591140. He is truly amazing on spell, I met him in my Friend's place. he came to do some spiritual work for him in his house. But I am back to Ireland now and I still play right here in Dublin and it still…
  • great spell caster

    27 Apr 2015 | 11:54 pm
    New Answer - At least i can say to the world that i have benefited from the powers of Dr.Adodo because through his help my broken relationship has been restored back and filled with love within 48 hours that i contacted Dr.Adodo. When i contacted Dr.Adodo i was not having an idea of what to expect but after proper explanation and i followed the instruction that Dr.Adodo gave and my relationship was reveal back, i guess whosoever that is in need for relationship help or any having any other problem can contact DR.Adodo at any time through these detail: or call…

    27 Apr 2015 | 7:54 pm
    New Answer - WOW!! This is the most wonderful thing i have ever experience and i need to share this great testimony..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 8TH MATCH 2015, And i saw a marvellous testimony of this powerful and great spell caster called DR MARVEL on the forum..I never believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before.. No body would have been able to convince me about magical spells, not until DR MARVEL did a marvellous work for me and restored my marriage of 6 years back to me and brought my spouse back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read…
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    27 Apr 2015 | 6:06 am
    New Answer - I am by name Keyser Marie from United states, i want to use this opportunity to thank the Great DR ADODO for helping in getting my Ex husband back to me, i have been in great pains until the day i contacted DR ADODO he cast a love spell for me and told me to wait for just 12 hours that my Ex husband will call me and i did according to the instructions given to me by him and surprisingly, in 12 hours, my Ex husband really called me and started apologizing for all he had caused me. I am the happiest Woman on earth today because DR ADODO has done a wonderful deeds in my life and i…
  • the powerful spell caster that helped me get my ex lover

    26 Apr 2015 | 10:43 pm
    New Answer - I want to share a testimony on how a spell caster helped me in getting my EX lover back, I was married to him in 2005, ever since then I was living happily with him, but everything changed when I was unable bare him a child, so last year January I was sent out packing from his home, I went out from his house, I was in great pain, I looked worried, I loved him so much, I told my friend about whats going on, she introduced me to the great spell caster , she gave me his email, I emailed him, he asked me to buy some items faithfully I did all he asked of me. He told me not to bother,…
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    Sugar, Spice and a Little Advice

  • How to Do a Background Check on Your New Date

    17 Apr 2015 | 10:36 am
    This is a wonderful article from guest blogger, Alexandra from Background Hawk on arming yourself with information when meeting someone new. Enjoy, comment, and share!   It takes a lot of effort and calming of the nerves to get to know someone on a deeper level and actually trust them enough to want to go out on a real face-to-face date with them; and in the crazy world we live in today, if you aren’t 100% sure that the John you imagined meeting, really is who he says he is, then chances are you could be up for some major disappointment…or worse. There are a lot of people out there…
  • Quote of the Day

    16 Apr 2015 | 5:22 pm
    Duty without honor is merely a burden to those who choose to let their actions be guided by praise; but those who would choose honor above reward find a contentment that lasts forever.
  • Quote of the Day

    9 Apr 2015 | 10:28 am
    Dream big. Work towards that dream. Get that dream. Repeat with another dream.
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    8 Apr 2015 | 9:42 am
    It doesn’t matter if your first step is small, as long as you’re moving forward.
  • Quote of the Day

    7 Apr 2015 | 7:45 am
    Sometimes, you have to sit with your situation to figure out what to do next.
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    WeLoveDates » Blog

  • WeLoveDates – Black Dating

    Rosie Valentine
    16 Apr 2015 | 9:40 am
    WeLoveDates – Black Dating is a post from the: WeLoveDates blog
  • WeLoveDates – Parent Dating

    Rosie Valentine
    16 Apr 2015 | 9:36 am
    WeLoveDates – Parent Dating is a post from the: WeLoveDates blog
  • 10 Ways to Totally Screw Up a First Date

    Katy Red
    9 Apr 2015 | 1:12 pm
    1) Not look like your profile picture What is the point of using a flattering picture on your online dating profile, that’s ten years out of date when your secret is going to be revealed the minute you meet up? ‘But she’ll fall for my personality!’ No, she will not. She’ll feel cheated and deceived by a stranger off the internet she has never met before. Do not do it. Look like your profile picture – and leave out the cocktail and motorbike. 2) Not take the initiative to suggest a venue You’re being asked to organise a few drinks out with a girl, not draft next years NATO…
  • The 25 Most Romantic Cities

    Rosie Valentine
    9 Apr 2015 | 3:35 am
    The 25 Most Romantic Cities is a post from the: WeLoveDates blog
  • WeLoveDates – Mature Dating

    Rosie Valentine
    9 Apr 2015 | 3:05 am
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    Lifestyle Arts

  • The 10 MUST Read Books for Men (REVISED)
    19 Apr 2015 | 7:09 pm
    I devour books, and so should you. I worked with an awesome guy over the weekend, and I recommended a few great books to him to read to further his studies of social dynamics, masculinity, dating & relationships. I decided then to post a list of these books, for your interest. YES, I recommend some books […]The post The 10 MUST Read Books for Men (REVISED) appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • NYC Meetup Set for May 2nd

    Stephen Nash
    14 Apr 2015 | 8:19 am
    I’m excited to announce that I’m planning to host monthly meetups here in New York City (and in San Diego, when I’m there)! The first one is all setup, and here are the details: Date: Saturday, May 2nd Time: 4-6pm Location: NYC (exact location will be given when you sign-up below) Cost: $5 This is a […]The post NYC Meetup Set for May 2nd appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • LSA 018: The Direct Approach
    20 Feb 2015 | 1:45 am
    Ever see a beautiful girl and want to approach her but aren't really clear on what to say? AND, do you dig serious adrenaline rushes? Then my direct approach is the technique for you. Simple, elegant and clear - it's the ultimate "carpe diem".The post LSA 018: The Direct Approach appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • LSA 017: The Internal Factors of Attraction

    Stephen Nash
    13 Feb 2015 | 6:32 am
    What are the internal aspects of attraction that men need to focus on? Things like confidence, masculinity, self-esteem...yeah, those really important things.The post LSA 017: The Internal Factors of Attraction appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • West Coast Tour

    Stephen Nash
    6 Feb 2015 | 3:06 pm
    Hey buddy – I’m posting this from a cafe in N San Diego, overlooking the Pacific (almost looks like that sunset pic)…so beautiful I can barely type. If you are an NYC friend or client, I AM SORRY (not really). So, I’m here for the entire month of February and early March, and am planning to […]The post West Coast Tour appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
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  • How to Bite Back in Dog-Eat-Dog World of Online Dating

    Dating Headshots
    22 Apr 2015 | 5:04 am
    We know, online dating can be tough.  In the dog-eat-dog world of online dating, it’s every man and woman for himself. The constant consumer complaints about unfair business practices and lousy customer service have made it crystal clear that when you join an online dating service, you’re pretty much on your own. Despite their lofty promises, you just can’t count on internet dating sites to have your best interests at heart. The only people they seem to care about are the dead presidents pictured on the cash their members keep shoveling into their coffers. But enough sour grapes.
  • Why Selfies Don’t Make Good Online Dating Photos

    Dating Headshots
    8 Apr 2015 | 6:06 am
    When you sign up for an online dating site, you want to make a good impression right?  A selfie certainly sends a message, but is it the one you want? If you are like most people, you are busy and you signed up for online dating services with one goal in mind: to meet more people. Among those new people, hopefully there is that special someone who is a great match for you and your goals. One of the best ways to do so is to spend a considerable amount of time on your online dating profile.  Put Your Best Foot Forward In fact, crafting an engaging profile is one of the best online dating tips…
  • Dating After 60- Getting Back in the Game

    Dating Headshots
    31 Mar 2015 | 4:47 am
    How do you get back into dating after 60?  Not all of the people cruising online dating sites are over-worked young professionals with little time or opportunity to meet people they might like to ask out. A fair number of older daters who left their 20s behind decades ago are getting back into the dating game. The Baby Boomer generation – 78 million strong — is looking for love and they’re looking online! Death of a spouse, divorce or their workaholic ways may have left many Boomers single as they head into their Golden Years; but they’re still active, energetic and as interested…
  • DatingHeadshots Featured in the Philadelphia Inquirer

    Dating Headshots
    5 Dec 2014 | 1:13 pm
    DatingHeadshots is proud to be featured in the December 3rd issue of the Philadelphia Inquirer and on in the article titled “Professional photos on dating sites make a first-impression difference”.  In the article you will find valuable information on what makes a good online dating photo and why professional dating photos are so important.  “People are becoming more aware that they have a personal brand and that they need to take care of it,” says Gordon Gooch of DatingHeadshots.  We hope you find informative.   The post DatingHeadshots Featured in…
  • Dateless? Time to Revamp Your Online Dating Photos

    Dating Headshots
    23 Oct 2014 | 8:45 am
    Were you still dateless last month? Don’t think for a minute that the problem is with you. Take a look at your Online Dating Photos.  There’s someone special out there for each of us; we just have to find each other. And that’s the trick, isn’t it? Whether you’re young, time-strapped and singly focused on building a career, recently divorced and struggling to adapt to the modern dating scene or a silver-haired fox ready to embrace new experiences; finding that special someone can be like looking for a needle in a haystack. What you have to do is improve your odds. In effect, you…
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  • Reddit AMA (Now Closed)

    Chris Shepherd
    18 Apr 2015 | 9:56 am
    Update Apr 21, 2015 Well, the Reddit AMA is now closed, but thanks to News.Com.Au for writing a story about us. Update: 4:36 PM eST Hey guys! Just wanted to let everyone know that my Reddit AMA is now LIVE. You can visit the link here. I have been answering questions since 1pm – about 40 people so far!  I’m going to take a break, but I will still check back this evening, so feel free to ask me anything!   The post Reddit AMA (Now Closed) appeared first on .
  • MISSION: Change your game NOW with Qualification

    Chris Shepherd
    3 Dec 2014 | 2:45 pm
    Three of the most common questions I get from guys, online or in seminar are: How do I stop running out of things to say? How do I get women to open up about themselves instead of being boring? How do I get women turned on, and chasing ME? The answer to ALL these questions (and more) is Qualification. Qualification is one of the most POWERFUL tools that you can use in your game, but it’s also one of the ones that most guys ignore. In this post, I’m going to show you how to fix ALL these problems, using a simple technique that I teach in my bootcamps. I want you guys to go out and…
  • Five Dating Mistakes Most Men Don’t Know They’re Making

    Chris Shepherd
    12 Jun 2014 | 8:36 am
      So here’s my appearance on Global Montreal this morning. I talked about the five dating mistakes that most men don’t know they’re making.   The mistakes I mentioned (and some ideas to improve if you have these problems) are: #1 Bodylanguage – Read this article on Attractive Posture if you want some quick body language tips. #2 Being Too Logical – Check out this Story Telling Webinar for some tips on being less logical. #3  Text Etiquette – Here’s some quick advice on What to Text Her. #4 Not being Confident enough – Read about the…
  • Montreal Seminar – June 29th

    Chris Shepherd
    12 Jun 2014 | 4:17 am
    This morning I’m going to be on Global Montreal talking about the five things that guys do wrong in dating, and I’m going to be promoting my upcoming Seminar that will be held in Montreal on June 29th. As part of the promotion, for Today (June 12th), I will be giving away Ten (10) tickets for free (these are normally $99) to people who saw my spot on Global Montreal. At the seminar, we’re going to go over the basic elements of Love Systems, with a special emphasis on the first five minutes of an interaction and generating intrigue and attraction. No lines, no cheezy crap,…
  • Love Systems Review (Sydney)

    Chris Shepherd
    3 Mar 2014 | 8:17 am
    I always love getting in touch with former students and finding out where they are in life. A lot of them wind up meeting their “dream girl” within a few months of the bootcamp, and dropping off the face of the earth, but others stay in touch over time.  When I was in Sydney in Jan I met up with a former client who took my Love Systems Bootcamp  back in 2010, we talked a bit about how things have changed (for both of us) since our bootcamp together in Vancouver. His story was so compelling I asked him to do a review of his Love Systems bootcamp and he agreed. What you’ll…
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  • Crash Test Dummies for Flirting

    Cedric Debono
    15 Apr 2015 | 10:30 am
    Car companies use crash test dummies when they want to figure out how to make their cars safer. Wanna know why they don’t use real people for that? Because it would be friggin’ stupid to do so. When you wanna test something, you don’t test it in a real-life situation right away. You use “crash test dummies”. Comedians do it too. They always test their new material in crappy bars first. They see what bombs, they take what works, they polish it some, and test it again and again and again till it’s top class. Here’s what’s weird. Despite the fact that they have their scripts…

    25 Feb 2015 | 2:46 pm
    What is your ultimate goal when it comes to getting girls? Is it to go out on a lot of dates? Is it to get a hot girlfriend? Is it to have more nights filled with wild sex? Is it to get married? Whatever your goal with girls is, it’s important to know how to text them in a way that they like and gets them excited, so that they always text you back and eventually want to be with you. Getting a girl’s phone number is only the first step in seducing her with text. To get that girl you need to know when to send your first texts to her and what they should say so you don’t come off too…
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    8 Jan 2015 | 6:46 am
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  • 5 Essential Books For The Up-And-Coming Ladies Man

    18 Dec 2014 | 12:11 am
    Reading non-fiction books gives you knowledge to achieve anything you want. Most people fail to realize that reading is the first step to getting better at anything you want in life. One of the first action steps I took to get better at meeting and dating women was reading a book. Simple words on a page (or screen for that matter) can make you think in different ways and almost instantly make you a new person. The biggest problem I’ve found when people read non-fiction books is that they don’t take the material very seriously and therefore don’t make massive improvements. Instead of…
  • Tarence, AGE 30

    4 Dec 2014 | 1:52 am
    “I didn’t know when a girl liked me, how to get out of the friend zone, get a number or flirt. Over the last 24 hours I’ve done that with groups of girls and I’ve gotten numbers with the prettiest girls.”
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    Digital Romance Inc.

  • What Men Really Want in a Woman But Would Never Tell You

    Clay Andrews
    27 Apr 2015 | 5:00 am
    What do men really want in a woman? Here are 3 internal qualities in a woman that makes men want to commit to them... Watch » The post What Men Really Want in a Woman But Would Never Tell You appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Top 5 Reasons Why Most Men Don’t Have Dating Abundance

    Chris Manak
    27 Apr 2015 | 4:00 am
    Dating abundance – what does it mean? For a man, it means having the ability to meet and date the woman (or women) that he WANTS to date. Read » The post Top 5 Reasons Why Most Men Don’t Have Dating Abundance appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Episode 119: Habits/Quirks

    Michael Fiore
    27 Apr 2015 | 12:48 am
    Does your partner have a strange habit or quirk you just don’t know what to do about? In this episode, Mike and Nora answer questions from listeners about the strange things their partners do and how they should deal with Listen » The post Episode 119: Habits/Quirks appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • The #1 Reason Your Partner Doesn’t Understand You (And How to Fix It)

    Pace Smith
    26 Apr 2015 | 5:00 am
    What's really going on here? To help him understand what it's like to live in your world, you need to... Read » The post The #1 Reason Your Partner Doesn’t Understand You (And How to Fix It) appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • 5 Signs To Tell a Guy Is Into You

    Michael Lindstrom
    26 Apr 2015 | 4:00 am
    This question is one of the most popular ones we get from our female readers. Our tips from the top—the ASK Dan & Mike Top 5 signs a guy is into you... Read » The post 5 Signs To Tell a Guy Is Into You appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
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  • Love Yourself Enough to Know Better #KylieJennerLipChallenge

    22 Apr 2015 | 8:31 pm
    SHAUNTEE I remember as a child and pre-teen being rather insecure about my lips. My lips in conjunction with my expressive eyes are trademarked features of mine since birth. I find it hilarious and somewhat sad that young women will now go to extreme measures to pull off the #kyliejennerlipchallenge. What is the purpose and why is it that young women try to emulate the wrong people? Why am I reading about young women lips exploding? That’s crazy, stupid, and so not cute! I guess no one ever told these young women you can achieve fuller lips with makeup. As my southern elders would say,…
  • Women Went Crazy Over Lilly Pulitzer for Target

    20 Apr 2015 | 11:19 am
    SHAUNTEE Women Went Crazy over Lilly Pulitzer for Target In the case of Lilly Pulitzer and Target, the phrase the early bird catches the worm comes to mind. The Lilly Pulitzer much-anticipated collection for Target hit the stores yesterday. The items available online were sold out by 8am! Crazy suburban women adorned in pastels, and floral prints  tore Target up in an attempt to grab clothing and housewares that were available. The rest of the people bought out the items to sale on eBay. Crazy for Lilly!!!!!!! Photo Source: Instagram User iq2thepon The downer for me was that Target did not…
  • Minding My Own Business Makes Me a Happier Person

    14 Apr 2015 | 12:34 pm
    SHAUNTEE I haven’t written anything in a long time. The holidays have passed, and spring is in full bloom, yet my blog remained in hibernation. I needed a break! This sista was burned out from dealing with so many issues last year. I felt I had nothing of value to offer at the moment other than a quick dry post that wouldn’t have sounded like much. Life never gives you a break. If it does, you’re dead. You deal with one thing and then another slaps you right in the face like someone you did dirty years ago. With each passing day, I learned something about life and people in general.
  • Shopping Etiquette: Dealing with Other People’s Bad Children

    10 Nov 2014 | 1:22 pm
    SHAUNTEE Shopping Etiquette: You Don’t Say Anything to Anyone about Their Children When it comes to people and their children, I have learned that you keep your mouth shut. This is especially true when shopping. Shopping etiquette is one of those unspoken rules that savvy shoppers like myself follow. I’ve walked around many malls in my lifetime. I’ve seen just about every tantrum a child can have. Everything from minor whimpering, to a full blown devil possession. One thing I have learned is by no means necessary do you say anything to anyone with bad children. Mother’s get…
  • Oprah’s Favorite Things List 2014 – Start Making Your List

    6 Nov 2014 | 6:49 am
    SHAUNTEE Oprah’s Favorite Things for 2014 In my opinion, the holidays are on fast forward this year. I can’t believe how fast this year has flown by; time waits for no one including little ole me.  Oprah released her Oprah’s favorite things list for 2014 today. Seventy-two products from beauty to food that would make anyone smile this holiday season. I’ll be the first to admit; some of these items are definitely for the rich. Pet beds for $700.00+ along with bikes and other gadgets that are beyond what I would pay also made the list. I do like that Oprah’s list is diverse…
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  • If She Liked Me, How Come She Didn’t Respond to My Text?

    20 Apr 2015 | 11:46 pm
    One of the classic sources of confusion about women is why the attraction in person doesn’t seem to translate over text. A girl might seem really into you, but then doesn’t respond when you text her. Or she texts back a few times but eventually fades. I’m going to try to identify the most common reasons why this happens. 1. The Premise is Wrong: She Didn’t Actually Like You But why would she give you her number if she didn’t like you? Men tend to not understand that women have lots of issues and considerations in their heads that we are not privy to. A woman…
  • There is a Lot More to Day Game Than Stopping Women

    14 Apr 2015 | 7:03 pm
    I’ve noticed a funny phenomenon in the last year or so. “Day game” was once understood as just the opposite of night game: instead of meeting women in bars and clubs at night, you meet them when the sun is out. But recently “day game” has been reduced to running up to women who are walking in the street and stopping them, and then initiating a conversation. The guys at were the first ones to use this approach with any seriousness. And they still advocate that as their main method of meeting women. But there are SO many other ways of meeting women in…
  • If You Want to Meet Women But Have No Idea How to Start, This is for You

    29 Mar 2015 | 7:48 am
    My latest free guide is full of practical information on how to start meeting women: A simple strategy to get started if you are shy How to take the lead in the conversation The super-simple way to avoid running out of things to say & more! I wanted to provide a simple, concise, easy-to-understand guide that almost any guy could use to get started. If you have been thinking for a while about changing your dating life or talking to more girls, this will help you actually get things started. Download my ebook “Start Meeting Women Now” If You Want to Meet Women But Have No…
  • How to Meet Women When You Have a Busy Schedule

    25 Mar 2015 | 8:53 pm
    A very common challenge I hear from clients is that they don’t have time to meet women. They might work long hours or otherwise have busy schedules. In a city like New York, people are always busy. If you’re gainfully employed and have normal commitments, you’re not going to have tons of time on your hands to approach women. (If you do find yourself with lots of free time, definitely take advantage because that’s a great asset.) So how do you make the most of the time you have? You have to be a little creative, but it’s doable. Let’s assume you work 9…
  • Optimize Your Social and Dating Life this April 2015

    9 Mar 2015 | 1:49 pm
    What’s up guys, I’m running an exciting new program this April in NYC: Social Dating Optimization. I’m doing this program with my friend Mike, of, who is also an experienced dating and lifestyle coach. We intend this program to be unlike anything else out there: a combination of attraction/ dating coaching and guided social circle and lifestyle development, with lectures, exercises, drills plus real-world practice in live social settings. You will not only improve your overall attractiveness as a man, but also enhance your social circle game, lifestyle…
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    Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield

  • Online Dating: Getting Back in the Groove

    24 Apr 2015 | 12:43 pm
    Are you in a slump and need some help getting back into the online dating groove? Here’s the first thing you need to know: after a few months of online dating, it is inevitable to go through a slump and for feelings of futility and frustration to set in. This can feel especially discouraging if you’re doing everything can at your end to meet someone. It’s hard not to feel disheartened when the initial rush of emails you got when you first signed up dies down, your searches for a partner net fewer and fewer prospects, and you start to see the same boring profiles over and over again. But…
  • Being Too Strong Won’t Attract The Right Man

    30 Jan 2015 | 1:15 pm
    Right before my 40th birthday it hit me: being too strong wasn’t attracting the right man. It had been eight years since I divorced my first husband. I’d spent most of this time working on myself. Now it was time to put myself back on the dating circuit. As I started going out on dates, I began to question some of my long held beliefs about men, women, and relationships. Because I was a strong and independent woman, I had always thought that my ideal man would have to be stronger than me so that he would “challenge me” and “take the lead.” Now I began to wonder if there…
  • Life is a Gift–Accept It!

    21 Jan 2015 | 6:19 pm
    For most people, it’s a whole lot easier to get physically naked in a relationship than it is to get emotionally naked. Usually, when we take off our clothes for someone, it’s because we are giving something to another other person—namely, SEX. It’s a whole different story when we get emotionally naked and bare what’s below our skin. Our fear of rejection makes it hard to let down our guard and reveal ourselves to another person, especially when we want that person to find us attractive. No one can be more critical of us than we are of ourselves. But if we don’t even love and…
  • Why Being Happy Is The Best Gift You Can Give Your Partner

    3 Oct 2014 | 12:53 pm
    You have to be happy with yourself before you can ever be happy with someone else. When Pharell’s song “Happy” comes on the radio, he wants us all to clap along and feel happy, too. Granted, the tune is catchy, but have you ever listened to the lyrics? “Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof?”  Wow. That’s deep. He also posits “happiness is The Truth.” I wish it were that simple. While happiness has become a big buzzword in psychological circles, what happiness actually looks and feels like in modern society is still not clear. Are…
  • Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.!

    24 Sep 2014 | 3:49 pm
    Thank you to for naming me as one of their top 17 dating coaches in Los Angeles! Read their list here! Add A CommentThe post Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.! appeared first on Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield.
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    Dating Sites XO

  • Arab Spark

    Heather Dundon
    23 Apr 2015 | 12:38 pm
    Have you heard of ArabSpark? If you're looking for an Arab single, it might be a site well-suited for you!
  • The Dating Ring

    Heather Dundon
    16 Apr 2015 | 6:38 am
    The Dating Ring is a location-based matchmaking service that sets you up on personalized dates...for free!
  • Spectrum Singles

    Heather Dundon
    9 Apr 2015 | 5:03 am
    Spectrum Singles is the first and only dating site created specifically for Autistic singles.
  • Glimpse

    Heather Dundon
    2 Apr 2015 | 5:25 am
    Glimpse is a simple new dating app designed to integrate through your Instagram account. Connect with singles in your area through photos!
  • Christian Crush

    Heather Dundon
    27 Mar 2015 | 6:02 am
    Not your average Christian Dating Platform.
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    Date My Pet

  • Date My Pet Dating Safety

    Date My Pet Staff
    16 Apr 2015 | 12:58 pm
    Online Dating Safety Advice Tips Online dating can be a safer experience than traditional dating. It gives you a wider scope of choice and you can remain at a distance until you are ready to meet. If you’ve never tried it before or if you are worried by any stories you may have heard, here [&hellip
  • 5 Things to Say to Remind Him He Needs You

    Lisa Reynolds
    20 Mar 2015 | 10:36 am
    It is really very easy to say the things that show a guy you care and yet, especially in long term relationships where we take the guy we’re with for granted, we tend not to. Mostly because in a long term relationship we feel like we’re past such openly loving gestures and to an extent [&hellip
  • First Impressions Matter: What Your Choices Say About You

    Date My Pet Staff
    20 Mar 2015 | 10:29 am
    Whether you like it or not, first impressions can be incredibly important. The way you present yourself can show others what you have to offer to the world. I mean, you wouldn’t go to an interview dressed in a sack of potatoes, would you? How you present yourself goes well beyond your clothing, though. For [&hellip
  • 5 Rules of Being a Wingman

    Jennifer Finney
    20 Mar 2015 | 10:24 am
    Having a trusted and expert wingman by your side can determine whether you will leave with a beautiful woman or solo. Below, we have compiled the best rules for being the ultimate wingman. Rule #1: He who approaches first, chooses Honestly, it takes courage to approach a group of women and strike up a conversation [&hellip
  • Top 5 Excuses for Being Late to a Date

    Jennifer Finney
    20 Mar 2015 | 10:18 am
    The worst part about being late for a date is coming face-to-face with the person who has been waiting on you. While it may be hard, honestly is always the best policy. Plus if your date is truly understanding, he/she will completely give you the benefit of the doubt. Below, are five credible excuses for [&hellip
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    Mesh Blog

  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    24 Apr 2015 | 4:47 am
    Happy Friday, Meshers! We bet you’re feeling fabulous and free about now. That’s why we’ve scoped out some of the best free events this week, just for you. We’re talking free pizza, free massages, free films, and tons of free comedy. You’re welcome. FRI 24: The Secret Loft Show: Free Comedy, Dance Party + Pizza 255 McKibbin St., Brooklyn; 8:30pm-3am; FREE Free laughs and cheese pies? We’re in. Jumpstart your weekend at this off-the-walls comedy show featuring Mike Recine (Conan), Sean Donnelly (Broad City), Carmen Lynch (Letterman) and more (plus a top secret…
  • 5 Online Daters Sound Off – Part 2

    Marci Buehler
    22 Apr 2015 | 8:59 am
    Welcome to Part 2 of our candid interviews with current online daters! Last week we asked five daters about their dealbreakers, messaging filters and what they’re looking for from online dating. In this week’s edition, things get a little weird as we check in with our daters about creepy dates, odd encounters and bizarre messages. And of course, we wrap things up with everyone’s thoughts on how the ease of online dating is changing the way we think about finding love.   Have you ever encountered a creepy person through online dating? I know people have had legit…
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    17 Apr 2015 | 6:30 am
    Whether you’re feeling hungry for eats, beats or just looking to get high off life, here are the best events this week to satiate all your cravings. FRI 17: National Poetry Month: Bronx Stories Bronx Museum of the Arts, 1040 Grand Concourse; 6:30pm-9pm; FREE Get your NaNoPoMo on with an evening of spoken word, open mics and original poetry inspired by the Bronx. Tour the museum’s galleries, enjoy drinks and celebrate the local heritage through multiple creative movements. FRI 17: Brooklyn Folk Festival St. Ann’s Church, 157 Montague St.; Friday 8pm-11:45pm; tickets start at $20…
  • 5 Online Daters Sound Off – Part 1

    Marci Buehler
    15 Apr 2015 | 6:12 am
    We know that being single can sometimes feel lonely, but trust us, you’re definitely not alone. Over 41 million people in the U.S. have tried online dating. We spoke to five of them to see how they’re currently feeling about the world wide web of dating. In part one of this two-part series, we ask our very diverse group of daters about their dealbreakers, what kind of messages turn them on/off, and what they’re looking for from online dating. Check out what they had to say, below.   What are some dealbreakers or red flags when you’re looking at profiles?  Guys with…
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    10 Apr 2015 | 6:48 am
    Forecasts say the weather is soon to be officially in the 50s’–three cheers! Time for you to heat up date night with this week’s best places to be, from a day with cartoons and a night with Bob Saget, to German films and secret worlds. FRI 10: Brooklyn Food Book Fair Wythe Hotel, 80 Wythe Ave.; 9am-7pm; tickets starting at $5 Take a bite out of this fourth annual smorgasbord of literature, food for thought, chefs, authors, and plenty of delicious to go around. Join the conversation on food labeling, turning your passion into business, and learn what the deal is on Chinese…
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    Over 40 Dating Site

  • Introducing Children to a New Partner

    12 Apr 2015 | 4:54 am
      If you have children but are dating again in your forties one of your biggest concerns is likely how this will affect your children, especially if they are still quite young. Whilst you can not anticipate how they will react to the news, there are steps you can take to ensure that you are introducing your new partner and your children in the best possible way. Whilst you can’t be sure whether a relationship is going to be permanent, it is often considered best to only introduce children to partners who are likely to last. This is because children do often form strong bonds to adult…
  • The secret of successful 40 plus dating

    8 Oct 2014 | 7:35 am
    What is the “the secret of successful 40 plus dating”…It is fair to say that online dating is an appealing and more affordable place to meet new people. After the age of thirty five plus, (for some of us, and for a variety of reasons), it can be difficult to go out and meet members of the opposite sex in traditional settings, bars and clubs for example. Worldwide, there has been a 57% increase in the use of online dating sites, so tip no one is to just take the bit between the teeth and Join. In the first instance, when writing your profile pay careful attention to spelling and…
  • Dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:32 am
    Clothes reveal what is really going on internally, according to an American psychologist who explains what your frock can tell the rest of the world about you….so how do you dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating? Top of the frocks is still the little black dress, it is named as the favourite wardrobe staple by 64% of women. The little black dress was created by Coco Chanel in 1926 and paved the way for a colour that was normally worn for funerals. Typical problems fall into several categories, here are just a few of them: wearing office clothes all of the time; buying designer labels…
  • Over 40’s dating tips for men

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:31 am
    Mature dating, or in this case over 40’s dating tips for men, is written with the best of intentions and hopefully will help you relax and enjoy your online journey. Try to keep it as local as possible. Too much distance in a relationship can be off putting, especially if you are really busy people. Secondly it is meant to be fun. We know it is difficult to put yourself out there, warts and all, it is easy to be someone else in this digital age. What women want however, is the true you, your authentic self. Leave your super ego at home, speak from the heart. If you are not who you say you…
  • The Increase in Plus-40 Dating on the Internet

    5 Sep 2014 | 6:47 am
    for the over 40s is something of an industry shocker. Quite simply, nobody foresaw just how popular online dating for over 40s would be. In 2012, there was a 57% increase in online dating amongst the over forties, and today 33% of couples have met online. By 2040, this figure is expected to rise to 70%. Internet dating is a growth industry. Clearly something is going right. Why No Stigma? In the old days there was something tinged with sadness about dating remotely. People would fill in a questionnaire in the newspaper and send it off, with the hope of meeting someone. Online dating has…
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    Attract The One

  • Is Your Marriage On The Brink? 5 Ways To Save Your Relationship

    Michael Webb
    22 Apr 2015 | 2:00 am
    Is your marriage in trouble? No matter how bad, there’s always hope and ways to turn your situation around. Here are five common ways to help create a better, more loving and harmonious relationship with your husband. 1. Handle arguments differently Every marriage and relationship has arguments, but it’s how you handle them that’s most important. At Junior High School, I said ‘no’ to drugs. At my wedding altar, I said ‘no’ to fighting. Nancy Reagan’s “Just Say No” anti-drug campaign was a huge success. Kids made a verbal commitment…
  • 5 Deadly Dating Mistakes That Women Make With Men

    Michael Webb
    15 Apr 2015 | 2:00 am
    It’s an unfortunate truth that great men are hard to find. So when you find one, don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly dating mistakes. Remember, most attractive men have dated a lot of women so they know what’s going on. The result? They’ll disappear before you realize you’ve done anything wrong. Here are 5 things that many women do that blow their chances with a man, and how to avoid them. Mistake #1: Sharing your feelings with him too early Men love their freedom and independence – no mystery there! So when you announce that you love him, it often sets off a…
  • 7 Ways To Rekindle His Interest In You and Your Relationship

    Michael Webb
    8 Apr 2015 | 2:00 am
    Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? Scared this may affect or eventually end your relationship? You’re not alone. Living with the same man for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also cause the loss of the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic: 1. Send him a unique gift at work. Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding…
  • Considering Getting Hitched? 5 Tips For a Successful Marriage

    Michael Webb
    2 Apr 2015 | 6:58 am
    Did you know that love does NOT conquer all? You see, often people get married with the idea that their “chemistry” or undying love for each other will keep them together forever. However, with almost 50% of marriages ending in divorce these days, it’s obvious that this isn’t the case. Therefore, it pays to know a few little secrets before getting married. Here are 5 tips that help keep couples together long after tying the knot: 1. Continue dating Over the years, people often drift apart or relationships and marriages become stale because couples fail to do new and special things…
  • 6 Fatal Relationship Mindsets and How To Fix Them

    Elizabeth Stone
    1 Apr 2015 | 7:17 am
    Ever gone through a string of failed relationships and wondered WTF? This could be the culprit. The pattern is a familiar one. At first, things are great. Your new boyfriend looks he might be the end-all, fantasy relationship that you’ve been searching for. After a while, doubts start to creep in, until they grow too big to ignore. Then, in the final death knell moment, you dump them for greener pastures and venture into the great dating unknown to find… nothing great. Regrets abound. The “I-never-do-anything-right” demon makes a visit and you might try in vain to get your ex back,…
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  • 21 Signs She’s Girlfriend Material

    Sean Winn
    28 Apr 2015 | 1:00 am
    Cliché as it may seem, it is very safe to say that no man is an island. After countless first dates and constant night-outs, we eventually get tired of putting ourselves out there and wish that she will be “the one”. At the end of the day, perhaps what we are yearning for is to have someone who will be a constant part of our lives, day-in and day-out. Unfortunately, it doesn’t come easy. One tricky part of the dating cycle is knowing when to transition from casually going out and getting to know each other to officially being in a relationship. Here are 15 signs that can help you…
  • 10 Ways – How to get over someone you love

    PUAmore Team
    13 Apr 2015 | 12:08 am
    Recovering from a breakup or simply trying to forget an unrequited love can be a very daunting task. You may find yourself incapable of moving forward and convinced that forgetting that someone is totally impossible. This person is everywhere and moving on isn’t just an option as of the moment. Technically, this is pretty much normal for everyone who loved someone and is now trying to forget that someone. However, this is not how things have to be and should be. There is more to life than this pit of depression that you’re letting yourself getting sunk into. By simply doing some…
  • How to get a girl to kiss you – Videos

    Sean Winn
    20 Feb 2015 | 10:50 am
    In this article I will help you to find out more about how to get a girl to kiss you. I think the best way to learn something is to watch examples of how other people do it. Monkey see, monkey do. In the best case these videos are not staged, but real live examples. That’s why I have collected all videos that I could find which show you a few guys who approach girls in all kind of situations. You can learn different things from each and implement it in your own game. There is also another article that I wrote about 10 first kiss tips, which you should also check out for some…
  • How to Get Laid on Tinder – Funny Example

    Sean Winn
    19 Feb 2015 | 1:34 am
    If you know Julien Blanc, then you have probably heard one of his jokes that goes like this: I pay for abortions with all the money I save on condoms… Just kidding, I never pay. His humor is often very mean, that’s why he got into a lot of trouble and this tweet is no longer online. However I really had to laugh about it, so I decided to use as a pick up line on girls in tinder and see how they are reacting. Just like most pickup lines, especially the mean lines, it didn’t work so well. But one conversation was really funny so I had to share it with you. I even took it a…
  • 6 Sneaky Ways To Get Her Number Without Seeming Needy

    12 Feb 2015 | 6:49 am
    This Guest Post was written Sarah Williams from the Wingman Magazine. She is a lifestyle writer specializing in men’s dating advice and believes that the key to true happiness is continuous self-improvement.  Do you know the single most important aspect to a great seduction? No? Well I’ll tell you. It’s simplicity. You see, seduction isn’t supposed to be like gymnastics. You don’t get extra points for making it any more complicated than it needs to be. But over the years I’ve learned that this is exactly where the majority of men go wrong in the dating game. Don’t get me…
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    Love My Brit

  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 3 – The UK

    Chris Martin
    22 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    At the end of March, Chelsea and I took our first true long distance relationship holiday. The original goal was to meet in the middle, so that we each travelled half the distance. However, we were unable to find anywhere between the UK & USA that could be called the middle. So, instead our plans […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 3 – The UK appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 2 – Italy

    Chris Martin
    15 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    Over the last few weeks, Chelsea and I have been on holiday around Europe. We made three stops along our way. The first was in Greece, the second Italy, and our final destination was the UK. In this article, we pick up where we left off. At the end of our time in Greece, I […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 2 – Italy appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 1 – Greece

    Chris Martin
    7 Apr 2015 | 7:25 am
    Chelsea and I have not posted much to Love My Brit recently, but there is a good reason for that! We have been on our first true holiday together. Like many LDRs this is not our first time together, we have made plenty of visits between the UK & USA before (which you can read […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 1 – Greece appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Top 20 Things Being in a LDR Has Taught Me

    Chris Martin
    11 Mar 2015 | 3:30 am
    Long distance relationships can be an enlightening experience. They are certainly not easy, and no-one chooses to be in a long distance relationship, it is just an unfortunate circumstance. However, through all the difficulties, there is a lot to be learnt. In all honesty I think that being in a LDR with Chelsea (which you […] The post Top 20 Things Being in a LDR Has Taught Me appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • The K-1 Fiancé Visa: A Guide to the Application

    Chelsea Johnson
    4 Mar 2015 | 2:30 am
    Preparing your application for the K-1 fiancé visa is without a doubt a daunting process. The opinion on what needs to be included varies depending on who you talk with, but there are a lot of simple things that are definitely required. It seems, however, that what is required is divided into two parts. First […] The post The K-1 Fiancé Visa: A Guide to the Application appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • Can Men and Women Really Be Friends?

    Nick Notas
    24 Apr 2015 | 8:40 am
    Few questions spark a more passionate debate than this one.  When asking women, you’ll usually hear, “Yes!” When asking men, you’ll usually hear, “Of course not.” or “Only if the guy is gay.” This sucks for many women to hear. It’s depressing to think that no man can be a real friend, no matter how well you get along. However, it’s not that black and white. I think the correct answer is, “Yes…but only under the right circumstances.” Growing up, two of my best friends were girls. But I’ll admit, things were made easier because I was never physically attracted…
  • How to Have Sexual Conversations with Women

    Nick Notas
    10 Apr 2015 | 10:39 am
    “My friend and I just made a bet and we want you to settle it. Who do you think masturbates more — men or women?” I’d just read some pick-up advice that told me to approach girls in bars with that question. And I was positive I was going to get slapped that night.  They stared back in disbelief and laughed nervously. One of the girls scoffed, “Are you serious right now? Why are you even asking us that?” I was mortified. I felt ashamed. I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm..I’m not trying to be weird. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They…
  • How to Break Up Without All the Heartbreak

    Nick Notas
    26 Mar 2015 | 10:41 am
      She said, “When I can’t sleep, I want you to stay up with me.” “I can’t do that. I have to get some sleep for work.” It was 3:00 AM and I had to leave for work in a few hours. The girl I’d been seeing for a couple months was an insomniac. “Well I don’t care, as long I’m your girlfriend then I expect you to stay awake.” She snapped. That was it for me. I lost it. “Get out of my bed and get your stuff. I’m taking you home.” We drove 20 minutes to her house in silence.  I dropped her off and the only thing I said was, “I’m sorry but this isn’t…
  • 10 Mistakes That Make You Look Desperate

    Nick Notas
    10 Mar 2015 | 8:48 am
    During the early stages of dating, a girl doesn’t want to feel that you’re way more invested than she is. She wants you to be secure, not clingy. She wants you to see her as a person, not idealize her. And she wants to know you are choosing her – and not just because you’re desperate for a girlfriend. Now I’ve written before about how neediness is a state of mind and not necessarily your actions. Anything you do can be needy or not needy. But I would be naive to think that some behaviors didn’t still look “desperate”, even if they’re coming from a healthy place. 1.
  • 10 Ways Men Blow Their Dating Opportunities

    Nick Notas
    25 Feb 2015 | 8:27 am
    Gaining new potential customers is the lifeblood for any business. Sales is not only about finding new connections, but nurturing them and creating deeper relationships. So any good salesperson knows that it’s not about how many names and numbers you collect, but how you follow up with them that counts. As you can guess, this also applies to dating. A lot of you come to me saying, “I don’t have any potential women in my life.” When I ask about your methods, I often learn that you HAVE opportunities, you just don’t capitalize on them! You throw away your romantic prospects for a…
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  • TEST II Yep

    28 Apr 2015 | 2:47 am
    Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Aliquam feugiat nulla quis eros vestibulum convallis. Quisque vestibulum quis tellus commodo eleifend. Integer malesuada purus a lacus dignissim, id sollicitudin elit pellentesque. Praesent ipsum elit, vehicula at laoreet vel, porttitor sit amet erat. Praesent efficitur nec ipsum in rhoncus. Cras pellentesque lacus non urna euismod malesuada. Duis in felis at felis cursus iaculis. Nulla ullamcorper ullamcorper magna id lacinia. Mauris fermentum efficitur maximus. Nullam mollis, felis tempus imperdiet cursus, quam elit fringilla leo, sit…
  • Think Like a Man! - Part I

    28 Apr 2015 | 2:47 am
    I am now officially using two of the most superficial apps to date people: Tinder and Happn - I have to say I quite like the concept of Happn; however it doesn't work as it is marketed to. These two apps, which look more like games, give me more dating options than I could possibly handle. It's literally driving me crazy. It's as if the 'candidates' are being shortlisted all the time. Each single word counts. But.. damn! I just wanted some sort of meaningful conversation! Ok, Maybe...just maybe... being swept off my feet! I am not asking too much, am I?I lost count of how many messages are…
  • Online Dating Part I

    28 Apr 2015 | 2:47 am
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • From Virtual Connection to WTF

    28 Apr 2015 | 2:47 am
    You might remind Jack from the Virtual Connection post. You might be also curious about our date. Let's say that basically, I was right in my assumptions. I will follow my own advice from now on: Do not engage in excessive online conversation with someone before knowing them in person.So as most of you know, I was looking forward to going to this date. I had been exchanging texts with Jack for a few days and our conversations were quite elaborate and intense. There was some sort of virtual connection there (or maybe I was desperately looking for one).I was perfectly aware that I was creating…
  • Persistence to "MeetUp"

    28 Apr 2015 | 2:47 am
    So after I broke up with Connor, I admit that I was feeling lonely. Plus, I knew that my flatmate was going on holidays for a while which only contributed to my panic. I would never imagine that I would feel as free, as independent and happy as I feel now! So before she departed, she told me I should 1) stop seeing Connor as it wouldn't do us any good and 2) do some activities and meet new people, not necessarily guys!I actually thought it was a good idea! First, I joined a few dance classes with my friend Esmeralda and we had a lot of fun doing it (We are still doing it on a weekly basis)!
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    I Quit Dating

  • I Am a Banana – Stand Too Close and I’ll Rot

    9 Apr 2015 | 2:15 pm
    One minute you have a beautiful bunch of green bananas and the next they’re ALL a bundle of mush. How many times has this happened to you? I never inquired, I never thought about it, I just thought, “This must be life as a banana” until I met a very helpful cashier at Trader Joe’s … Continue reading I Am a Banana – Stand Too Close and I’ll Rot
  • Eeyore in a World of Pooh

    18 Mar 2015 | 9:49 am
    I should do that. I should be like them. I should get a normal job and move to suburbia instead of working two jobs while living in a major city. I should be that. I should be a happier person instead of an Eeyore in a world of Piglets and Pooh….(The Winnie, not the other). The … Continue reading Eeyore in a World of Pooh
  • Being Happy: The Operative Should

    11 Mar 2015 | 1:11 pm
    I’ve always wanted to be a happy person. We all know the types. The types who float through life with a smile on their face as they brush the imaginary chip off their shoulder. They’re the ones who not only trek upward when life turns on them, but they pick themselves up with a certain tenacity and … Continue reading Being Happy: The Operative Should
  • To Everything There Is A Season: I’ve Had My Turn

    5 Mar 2015 | 10:07 am
    …..To everything there is a season…” I’m often asked, “Don’t you get jealous?” “Don’t you want what others have?” “Don’t you want to be like that couple walking down the street hand in hand? “Don’t you want to be like THEM?” With that I say, “I’ve had my season. I’ve had my turn….” I don’t … Continue reading To Everything There Is A Season: I’ve Had My Turn
  • Covering The Hate: My Night as a Street Artist

    2 Mar 2015 | 10:09 am
    It’s hard to explain how I felt when I read those hateful words. Vastly different from the typical “I Hate” relationship woes and dating suspicions that I talk about here, this wasn’t a hate that I was familiar with or one that I casual talk about. I hate school. I hate work. I hate to … Continue reading Covering The Hate: My Night as a Street Artist
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    The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful

  • This Mother of a Twice Exceptional Child Needs a New Normal

    27 Apr 2015 | 1:44 pm
    Hello Readers — I just had the incredible opportunity to read my piece, “My Name is Tom” at this year’s Listen To Your Mother show in Orange County along with a slew of talented women and one intrepid man. The pieces ranged in topic from one mother wrestling to stop her young sons from peeing on everything, to another mother’s cancer diagnosis, from one mother surviving her premature baby’s brain surgery to yet another mother (of kitties) discovering her stern, no-nonsense mail-order bride great grandmother had seven sons because “Swede’s are…
  • She Agreed to a Threesome and Lost Herself

    23 Apr 2015 | 12:51 pm
    A recent client I’ll call Sandy has been with Jim for almost four years. During that time he’s been unpredictable, unfaithful and unkind. But Sandy’s co-dependent addiction to Jim has made it impossible for her to leave him. Finally, in the hopes of pleasing him by letting him know she’s willing to do anything for his love, Sandy agreed to participate in a sexual threesome with Jim and a second woman, despite the fact that doing so made her incredibly uncomfortable. In the midst of the tryst Sandy bolted. She’d hit rock bottom, which is when she contacted me. To read the remainder…
  • The Design Mom Book is a Must Have – How to Live With Kids: A Room by Room Guide

    22 Apr 2015 | 1:14 pm
    This is Gabrielle with her lovely husband Ben Blair. I want to invite them for dinner. Photo Credit: The Mormon Women Project If you don’t know Gabrielle Stanley Blair you absolutely need to. Because she’s one of those people who turns everything she touches into a whimsical Wes Anderson movie set. I’m in love with her because she’s kind, generous and is the type of person I aspire to be someday. She’s the mother of six wildly intelligent, creative children who she integrates not just into the fabric of her life, but into the fabric of the work she does.
  • I’m Reading at the 2015 Orange County “Listen to Your Mother” Show on Sunday April 26th!

    15 Apr 2015 | 11:35 am
    Hello people who inexplicably read me! (and thank you for that!) I’ve been selected along with 12 other writers to read at this year’s Listen To Your Mother Orange County Show. Tickets are available HERE! Fabulous mom, producer and lady-with-a-gorgeous-set-of-gams, Ann Imig of Ann’s Rants, founded the Listen to Your Mother series in 2010 and it’s since spread like wildfire across the entire country. There are 39 productions of it this year alone! The mission of each LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER production is to take the audience on a well-crafted journey that celebrates and…
  • The Man With no Feet.

    15 Apr 2015 | 10:35 am
    (Author’s Note: I recognize that most of my posts are about how irresistible I am to sex workers and fetishists. Just know that I’m also frequently found completely undesirable. My Trader Joe’s debacle is just one example. Caveats in place …) Henry says I’m no longer allowed to open the door when I’m home alone. I think he’s overreacting. The Scene: It was noon yesterday and I was home alone watching Outlander  working when the doorbell rang. Admittedly I was still in my night shirt and barefoot, but what if it was UPS with my latest Boden…
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    Get A Beautiful Girlfriend

  • How to Learn Pickup

    Captain Jack
    24 Apr 2015 | 9:08 pm
    I first started to learn pickup shortly after my divorce. I had gotten into a relationship fairly young and gotten married with little experience in the dating world. Then, in my late 20s I found myself thrust into this strange world of unwritten rules and people way cooler than me. To make things worse, I was severely out of shape and in debt. I loved women. I was intrigued and fascinated by them. I enjoyed talking to them and interacting with them but I couldn’t seem to get THEM to be interested in me. Not even a little bit. In fact, in some ways it just seemed like I actually was…
  • How to Regain Your Killer Instinct!

    Captain Jack
    21 Apr 2015 | 6:04 pm
    If you’ve lost your Killer Instinct so to speak I’ve got some tips for you. I’ve lost it a few times in my life and had to get it back! If you’re on my email list you know about the divorce. The divorce itself actually helped me get it back. It was all the crap BEFORE that hampered it… lawyers, courts, bills from lawyers, fighting with ex… all energy draining. I won’t go about this in-depth here because I wrote about how to handle a break up already. But, quickly the solution to that was to get active. I started going out and working on something that…
  • Do You ‘Deserve’ To Date a Beautiful Woman?

    Captain Jack
    25 Mar 2015 | 11:01 am
    Howdy! There are a ton of men who struggle with the ‘deservedness’ idea. Mine came in the form of feeling ‘outside of the group.’ I felt like I was cool, a good guy but not in the ‘cool crowd’ and that’s where all the hot women seemed to be. And.. I was there on the outside of it all. But, once you change a simple thing in your mind on the issue you can dissolve it like I did. It’s not complicated at all. Watch the video below… and, be sure to download the new PDF I created to go along with it:  “Pick-up Scientist: How to Engineer…
  • Student FR+: He Spanked Her (and she liked it)

    Captain Jack
    20 Mar 2015 | 9:33 am
    Howdy! This is from a fellow pirate from our Clan (that’s the Poontang Clan, in case you don’t know). He had a Lay Report earlier so he’s stacking up quite a little body of work here. The only thing I modified was the beginning of the report where he talked about what a friggin’ genius I am for creating SxF and Game Dynamics. We all know that already so it was redundant :-). Here’s his report: I saw her standing alone watching some TV screen which had Cinderella playing. I can’t for the life of me remember the exact words that I opened her with, but I…
  • This Silly Theory Could Be Keeping You From Dating Beautiful Women

    Captain Jack
    8 Mar 2015 | 6:54 am
    A Primary Skill in Dating Beautiful Women is to Activate Her Feminine Nature Your goal: Beautiful women. An abundant dating life. Perhaps to settle down with a true beauty both inside and out. Maybe marriage. Kids? But, seeing a difference in what you want and what you are getting you set out to find someone who knows something about this huge and important are of life: Women and Dating. There’s PLENTY of information out there. A smidgen of it is even good… until you come across these guys… “Just be yourself!” is a popular mantra of the new anti-pickup teachers.
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  • 36 first date questions for your colleague to fall in love with you!

    27 Apr 2015 | 9:00 am
    According to a study, it is possible to fall in love when people answer these 36 questions Two strangers, 36 questions, 45 minutes … and you have the recipe for falling in love in almost no time. That was at least what a study showed. Maybe you could use it with a colleague you’re interested in? […] The post 36 first date questions for your colleague to fall in love with you! appeared first on
  • 10 Best places to have sex at office

    22 Apr 2015 | 9:00 am
    Top 10 places to have sex at the office It’s said that Tango is the vertical expression of horizontal desire. But you don’t have to dance tango to feel this way! The workspace can be as frustrating for many! So unless you work in places that are heavily filmed (hotels, airports, banks), there are many ways […] The post 10 Best places to have sex at office appeared first on
  • Videos of people getting caught having sex in office

    20 Apr 2015 | 9:00 am
    3 Videos of people getting caught having sex in office Caught having sex in office # 1  Busted at the storage room- Super funny Caught having sex in office # 2 In the cuisine Caught having sex in office # 3 Boss filmed with a secretary in Mexico If you want to get the weekly updates about […] The post Videos of people getting caught having sex in office appeared first on
  • 8 tips on how to attract a guy at work

    15 Apr 2015 | 9:00 am
    8 strategies on how to attract a guy at work Purely instinctively, men are not difficult to figure out of. Whenever they see a woman, they scan the woman. They look at her eyes, then her breasts and maybe even ties and behind.  It’s like a computer program that is standard for every man in this […] The post 8 tips on how to attract a guy at work appeared first on
  • 9 great tips on how to make a guy want you at work

    . Paul
    14 Apr 2015 | 9:00 am
    9 tips on how to make a guy want you at work (and everywhere else) How do you make a guy want you at work or any other place? Well, we know men are mainly attracted to the superficial, at least at the very beginning. If you make sure to look great, then you’ll be able to […] The post 9 great tips on how to make a guy want you at work appeared first on
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  • Best Outdoor Security Camera

    Sally Reiling
    28 Apr 2015 | 1:18 am
    They can be placed just about anywhere outside you home and they come in all shapes and sizes. Wired or wireless outdoor security cameras are a means of keeping a watchful eye out on what goes on outside your home or office, when you’re not there to see for yourself. You can comfortably sit back and see what’s going on outside with the help of a Digital Video Recorder (DVR) and a computer or a monitor, which transmits all the feeds from different cameras into one central location. What’s great about outdoor security cameras is the fact that they can easily be linked up to your existing…
  • How Much Does a Background Check Cost

    Sally Reiling
    23 Apr 2015 | 2:33 am
    When it comes to running a background check and expecting accurate and up to date results, you should know that you have to be able to pay for a decent service. This does not however mean that a background check should break the bank. However, reliable results will cost you a few dollars. Different providers charge different fees and off course the cost will heavily depend on what type of information you require and how extensive the search results need to be. Some background checking services offer a package where companies sign up on a monthly basis and they get X amount of background…
  • 20 Tiny Spy Camera Uses

    Sally Reiling
    22 Apr 2015 | 2:09 am
    If you think back about 15 years ago, you might recall that spy cameras back then weren’t nearly as effective or as seek in design as they are today, and not nearly as widely known as they are now. Fast forward to the present day and you land up with spy cameras that are super-efficient, offer various functions, are super durable and come in all shapes and sizes. What’s also changed is the fact that you no longer have to be some sort of undercover secret agent in order to know how to (or have the right to) use these discreet cameras. Before you start using a spy camera however, it’s a…
  • How To Find A Person By Phone Number

    Sally Reiling
    21 Apr 2015 | 1:52 am
    Whether you are searching for an old friend or trying to find someone to verify an address or perhaps even just trying to clarify that unknown number on your call records, sometimes all we have to go by is a simple phone number. The question then is how exactly does one go about finding someone just by a phone number? When it comes to cellphone users, they might be a little harder to track down than landline users and there’s always that annoying “blocked caller” factor that can come to play. Essentially if you want to find out more about a cellphone user’s details, there isn’t…
  • Best Home Security Cameras

    Sally Reiling
    16 Apr 2015 | 1:32 am
    The days where we could just lock up our doors and leave for the weekend are long gone and it seems like we literally need to safeguard our home and have a watchful eye on them all the time when we aren’t around to do it ourselves. A home security camera isn’t only a way of keeping an eye out on your valuable property, it’s also a way of showing potential criminals that you mean business and they will be captured on film if they trespass onto your property. Fining and installing a great home security system takes a lot of research and careful comparisons in order to find the one right…
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  • Don’t Worry & Regret When Love Fails On You

    Shannon Lagasse
    28 Apr 2015 | 1:07 am
    Have you ever had a relationship you regretted? Lost a love you were sure you’d never come back from? It’s easy in these situations to beat ourselves up and wish that we had done things differently. When we’re fresh out of heartbreak, sometimes all we want to do is jump back into it, because it’s […] The post Don’t Worry & Regret When Love Fails On You appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Can Promiscuity Be Done Right? Why, Absolutely!

    24 Apr 2015 | 1:17 am
    Humanity had grown so polarized when it comes to the issue of promiscuity. Why? I think it’s because we have some deep cultural programming of needing to feel shame and guilt about sex. I have to bring up the example of our closest genetic relatives, the Bonobos. This community of primates has very similar sexual […] The post Can Promiscuity Be Done Right? Why, Absolutely! appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • How To Kill A Man’s Attraction

    Andre Paradis
    22 Apr 2015 | 11:44 pm
    What does it take to kill a man’s attraction? In my coaching practice, I often hear about things that my clients do to try to win a man’s attention and affection that make me cringe knowing what occurs for men in those instances. Though these women are totally well-intentioned in doing these things, their actions have […] The post How To Kill A Man’s Attraction appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Three-inch Bob’s Secret To Glorious Sex: Revealed!

    Adam Armstrong
    21 Apr 2015 | 7:01 pm
    True Story: Man with three-inch Penis Gives Woman 17 Squirting Orgasms 17 squirting orgasms. Pretty cool, huh? What makes it even better is that it wasn’t 17 squirting orgasms in a day, week or month. It was 17 in under an hour! And the guy had a ‘three incher.’ three inches ERECT. That’s pretty damn […] The post Three-inch Bob’s Secret To Glorious Sex: Revealed! appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Are You A Sucker For Validation And Approval?

    Garrison Cohen
    21 Apr 2015 | 1:38 am
    Do you have this need for validation and approval? I have a girl-friend who is a hooker. No, not a prostitute. She has serious feminine charm and uses it to “hook” a guy’s attention. In fact, with just a glance, she can send a “sign” that has guys go for the bait, and stay “on […] The post Are You A Sucker For Validation And Approval? appeared first on The Daily Dater.
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  • Are You Making This One, Crucial Mistake When Approaching Women?

    Mike Kal
    21 Apr 2015 | 5:47 pm
      How many times has this happened to you…? You’re out at a bar and just across the room you see this GORGEOUS chick. You think to yourself, “Oh my God…I have to talk her.” You know what you’ve heard the “experts” say to do in this situation:  Three second rule bro. You HAVE to  [click to continue...]
  • How to Be the Man That Women Want

    Mike Kal
    23 Feb 2015 | 8:00 am
    When I was in college, I had a friend who had a gift with women. This wasn’t because he was a particularly attractive guy. He’s a pale guy who has never been in perfect shape and is about two inches shorter than the average women. My friend wasn’t any wealthier than any other college student  [click to continue...]
  • How to Get Out of the Friend Zone Bubble

    Mike Kal
    19 Feb 2015 | 8:00 am
    Having a friend that is a girl, that you like a lot, can be difficult. Not only do you want to be more than friends with her, but you want her to feel the same way about you. This, my friend, is known as ‘the friend zone’ and many guys, just like you are stuck  [click to continue...]
  • The 12 Biggest Turn Offs for Women

    Mike Kal
    16 Feb 2015 | 8:00 am
      Women may seem like hard people to figure out, especially if you’re a man wondering what you should and should not do around her. While some women will forgive and forget easily when you slip up, some women might take these slips ups as turn offs and it might just not work out the  [click to continue...]
  • I See An Attractive Girl in a Bar. Now What?

    Mike Kal
    12 Feb 2015 | 8:00 am
    While having a drink at the bar and socializing, you notice a hot girl across the way. You want to speak to her, and you want to get to know her but you’re not even sure where to begin. With the right steps, the right tips and tricks and the right frame of mind; you’re  [click to continue...]
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  • 10 Realities We Need To Accept About Modern Dating

    Adam Lodolce
    27 Apr 2015 | 7:09 am
    Things change. Dating has changed. Rather than objecting to it, we can embrace it. We can adapt and improve. We can evolve. 1. Technology plays a role. We can complain about it all we want. We can say it’s negative and detrimental to the health of human of communication. Either way, we won’t change anything. Technology is going to rule the sphere of communication from now on, and it’s something we have to adapt to. You have to make efforts to make dating more personal. You have to be brave enough to do both. Communicate clearly and honestly using both technology and face to face…
  • Why You Have To Love Yourself Before Anyone Else Can

    Adam Lodolce
    21 Apr 2015 | 10:00 am
    Learning to love is like learning to walk. You start out bewildered and curious. You watch the people around you moving about in such a magical way, and you want to do the same. You start to model your movements after theirs, but you always begin with a crawl. Crawling means holding your own body up for the first time. You’re feeling confident. You’re traveling on your own. But, you can’t stand just yet. You can’t stand and risk falling until your brave little mind realizes you are already capable of moving on your own. When you stand and do start to walk, you fall. You fall hard and…
  • 15 Biggest Turn Ons For Guys

    Adam LoDolce
    14 Apr 2015 | 4:33 am
    This is my “ooohhh, I like her” face. Sexy? Last month I released the 10 biggest turn offs for guys and it got a huge response. So this week I thought I’d compile a list of the 15 biggest turn ons. This is based on my personal preference, feedback from other men, and from tried and true research. You’ll not only learn a lot, but I guarantee to make you smile. Watch the 10 biggest turn ons for guys. Do these turn ons also work the other way around? Are these attractive traits in men? Leave a comment below. Your coach, Adam
  • 17 Ways a Woman’s Mind Can Be Sexier than Her Appearance

    Adam Lodolce
    9 Apr 2015 | 1:42 pm
    Smoking hot intellect.      She not only has opinions, but voices them confidently and openly.      She’s quick. Her humor is witty and keeps the people around her laughing and on their toes.      She remembers what others tell her and genuinely listens.      She has a taste for the more complex aspects of our culture. She can enjoy unique music, art and experiences.      She stands by her beliefs.      She’s interested in the world around her and actively engages herself in learning about it.      She makes decisions. She knows what she wants. She…
  • 1 Easy Way to Improve Social Skills

    Adam LoDolce
    9 Apr 2015 | 11:19 am
      1 simple way to Improve your social skills without even socializing. If you’re single and looking to mingle, then your social skills will dictate your success with dating. But we’re no longer in high school, and it can be difficult to practice these skills during the week (unless you have a social job). So this week’s video focuses on one easy way to improve your social skills without even socializing. And when you implement the advice in this video, you’ll also be more likely to get promoted at work. Sound too good to be true? Watch this week’s video to…
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    Getting to TRUE Love

  • If I Hadn't Seen This Woman’s Amazing Transformation Myself, I Never Would Have Believed It!

    28 Apr 2015 | 2:45 am
    She had men falling all over her! She was the woman everyone noticed as she walked into the room. "I love your dress", said one of the women at our table. "Something seems different about you", said another. I couldn't have agreed more. I vaguely recognized her from somewhere, but it took me a while to remember where I knew her from. Then I remembered. I had met her a month or so before at a mutual friend's party when she had overheard me talking with another woman about what I do. When my conversation had ended, she wanted to know more about what we were talking about, the emotionally…
  • Was I Just A Hot Mess With A Great Guy?

    24 Apr 2015 | 2:45 am
    Did I scare him off? One of our beautiful readers, Felicia, is wondering if she drove away a great guy by being (her words) a "hot mess". Here's her story: Hi Jane. I recently discovered your site to look for answers to many of my questions. I have seen many articles or posts everywhere that he was not just the one or bad boy, etc. But...what if, in fact, we were the one messing with a great guy? Or "Like attracts like"? I recently ended up with a person who was quite close to whom I am looking for while my mother was fighting for her life. I met him via online dating site after several…
  • Becoming Irresistibly You

    21 Apr 2015 | 2:45 am
    I have a secret for you: You already ARE irresistible! It doesn't matter who he is. It doesn't matter how much you made him into in your mind. There's only one question that matters … are you going to let someone incapable of loving you the way you deserve to be loved do this to you? This. This waiting around. This beating yourself up for what always takes two. This holding on to a fantasy that he was never capable of living up to. This hanging on to the "what ifs" that have nothing to do with what is. This going through the motions kind of living where you stay stuck in the past, longing…
  • Do Opposites Really Attract?

    14 Apr 2015 | 2:45 am
    Can it really work? My husband and I couldn't be more opposite in so many ways. I often say that he is everything I'm not, and I'm everything he's not. But when I talk about that, I'm talking about the practical day to day type things. His strengths are in areas that I used to view as my weaknesses. But the truth is, as much as we are opposite each other in many ways, in the things that really matter – like values, like morals, like our parenting styles, like our communication styles – we're anything but opposite. We may drive each other crazy sometimes (and yes, we do!) with his…
  • Ugh! He Has, Once Again, Completely Disappeared!

    10 Apr 2015 | 2:45 am
    I need to learn how to end this cycle! One of our dear friends, Kim, has been in a relationship with a guy that keeps on disappearing on her. Here's her email: Hi Jane: I read your article 'Why you're attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men' and it motivated me to take action with your Weekly Love Steps program. I am well versed in working with steps as I’m in recovery through AA, and have been sober now for 19 months after spending 10 months in limbo relapsing, and trying my best to be a social drinker but thankfully am an alcoholic and believe that today. It has been an incredible, life…
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  • What Are Some Good Things To Say When You Are Flirting With A Girl?

    24 Apr 2015 | 3:48 am
    Pity the guy who comes on too strong and talks to a woman’s breasts instead of her face, the one who opens with a cheesy line and a leering grin. Ever wonder how certain guys are able to hit all the right notes with women? While good looks help, you need to know some of the good things to say when you are flirting with a girl. You need charisma and the right set of personality traits, as well as a good sense of humor and good manners to pique their interest. Gone are the days when buying drinks and cheesy come–ons ruled the dating scene. Flirting is an incredibly powerful and fast…
  • What To Do When She Doesn’t Respond?

    17 Apr 2015 | 5:39 am
    It is a horrible feeling when you are interested in a lady and she does not respond to you. Knowing what to do when she doesn’t respond can make all the difference in the world. It is just a terrible feeling when you are chatting to a girl that you met recently and you suddenly get no response from her when you message or call her. You might be using a service like okCupid or Tinder, or you might have actually already met in person – either way, it is just not cool when she ignores you. Many guys will just give up and move on when this happens, which might be good advice, if you…
  • Cool Tips To Get Better With Women

    8 Apr 2015 | 4:30 am
    If you’re one of those guys who spend an awful lot of time wondering how to get better with women, you probably also read a great deal about tips to overcome anxiety and use the best pickups lines. Such tips are fine, of course, but what if you’re dealing with a more complex problem? Most men do not even know how to talk to or make friends with other men. Are you sure you’re not one of them? Being Friends with Other Men See for most men, it’s a challenge to talk to or make friends with other men. They have absolutely no idea how to act around the more popular guys who…
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