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  • The Worst Walk-of-Shame Stories of All Time

    All Sex, Love & Life
    Gena Kaufman
    13 Mar 2014 | 7:00 am
    We use the term "walk of shame" loosely, as we're more into Liz Lemon's "stride of pride" concept (there's no shame in spending the night!). Still, no one can deny that some mortifying situations can take place when you have to get home--or worse, to work--the morning after.
  • Love & Betrayal

    John Amodeo, PhD, MFT
    24 Apr 2014 | 10:31 pm
    Betrayal is one of life's more painful experiences. How can we bring gentleness toward ourselves so that we might see betrayal an a rite of passage to a deeper understanding of ourselves and rebuilding more
  • Days after having sex with a girl can you still? - Recent Questions
    25 Apr 2014 | 2:42 am
    Hear her moans? Taste her on your tongue or what you think is her (don't know how to explain) Or want her over and over? Is that a turn on? A good thing? Why?
  • How our perceived entitlement to what we want is keeping us stuck and why we need to challenge what we believe we’re owed

    Dating, singles, relationships, sex tips and advice blog for men and women.
    Natalie (NML)
    21 Apr 2014 | 3:15 pm
    I find with Baggage Reclaim, that there becomes a theme to the types of stories that people are sharing with me or a common thread in what it is that keeps each person stuck with their thinking and behaviour, and so far this year, that theme is obligation and entitlement. We’re either feeling duty bound even when we’re not, or we’re cycling through a thought process that rests on this sense that we’ve been and done all of the things that we feel that we’re ‘supposed’ to in order to have got what we desire and it hasn’t worked out, hence we…
  • Use What You Got! 15 Green Crafts for Kids

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    Jenn Sinrich
    18 Apr 2014 | 1:45 pm
    Skip the craft store trip and use materials you already have instead: That's the beauty of these green kids crafts -- cheap, creative and recycled! A perfect combo.
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  • Love & Betrayal

    John Amodeo, PhD, MFT
    24 Apr 2014 | 10:31 pm
    Betrayal is one of life's more painful experiences. How can we bring gentleness toward ourselves so that we might see betrayal an a rite of passage to a deeper understanding of ourselves and rebuilding more
  • Is Your Son Turning Into Pinocchio?

    Gregory L. Jantz, Ph.D.
    24 Apr 2014 | 1:42 pm
    Has your son become a chronic liar? There are many reasons why children, and especially boys, turn to lying. Understanding the cause for your son's lying behavior is the first step in correcting this behavior. Once the underlying issue is addressed, simple parenting techniques can transform your Pinocchio back into an Honest Abe. read more
  • Sexless Marriage Causes and Cures

    Susan Heitler, Ph.D.
    24 Apr 2014 | 11:04 am
    A sexless marriage is a vulnerable marriage. Here's some ideas to think about if yours looks in more
  • The Best Mate Money Can Buy

    Jesse Marczyk
    24 Apr 2014 | 9:55 am
    What does building a marriage partner from scratch tell us about mating preferences? read more
  • Resolving Conflicts When a Partner Is Chronically Ill

    Toni Bernhard, J.D.
    24 Apr 2014 | 8:25 am
    It’s hard enough to sustain a good relationship when neither partner is facing a health challenge. Illness ranks high on the list of life’s stressful events, so it’s no surprise that it can have a negative impact on a close more
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  • Days after having sex with a girl can you still?

    25 Apr 2014 | 2:42 am
    Hear her moans? Taste her on your tongue or what you think is her (don't know how to explain) Or want her over and over? Is that a turn on? A good thing? Why?
  • Is it me or are people, even friends, becoming more selfish and mean?

    25 Apr 2014 | 2:38 am
    I have a group of friends, though I thought some of them were friends. Firstly I heard someone in the group talked behind my back about me (cfr. other question, she told people I was a bit of a crybaby when it came to boyfriends when I was a teenager but that I've matured more) and my sister who she doesn't even know. Another friend told me about this, but refused to tell me who said those things, and now another friend ditched me (I asked her weeks ago if I could spend Saturdaymorning, tomorrow, at her place for a certain reason, she said it was fine, I told her again last week, no problem,…
  • Girls, choose between these two guys and tell me why?

    25 Apr 2014 | 2:34 am
    1st Guy: Active, Handsome, Intelligent, Popular, Busy. 2nd Guy: Discreet, Average, Intelligent, Selective, Result oriented. Girls, choose between these two guys as your husband/boyfried and tell me why?
  • Is there any sketcher or drawer here?

    25 Apr 2014 | 2:31 am
    If yes, you can post here, or directly contact me :)
  • Help! Fight with my mom. Who is right?

    25 Apr 2014 | 2:17 am
    I am at a loss here, and I ended up apologizing to her, as I might have been overly sensitive. But I would like to know how you'd interpret this: I told my mom that I don't really have any friends in my class and she said: Oh, so why don't you? And I said: "Well, I just like those from the other classes better" She replied "It's those younger than you. Right? Me: "Yes, not only, but primarily" She said: "A therapist could get a lot out of that..." Would you interpret that as a neutral or negative statement?
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    Dating, singles, relationships, sex tips and advice blog for men and women.

  • How our perceived entitlement to what we want is keeping us stuck and why we need to challenge what we believe we’re owed

    Natalie (NML)
    21 Apr 2014 | 3:15 pm
    I find with Baggage Reclaim, that there becomes a theme to the types of stories that people are sharing with me or a common thread in what it is that keeps each person stuck with their thinking and behaviour, and so far this year, that theme is obligation and entitlement. We’re either feeling duty bound even when we’re not, or we’re cycling through a thought process that rests on this sense that we’ve been and done all of the things that we feel that we’re ‘supposed’ to in order to have got what we desire and it hasn’t worked out, hence we…
  • Being you is better than changing to appease someone who is threatened by differences

    Natalie (NML)
    14 Apr 2014 | 3:13 pm
    It’s a pretty bemusing, baffling and sometimes downright annoying experience, when someone expresses discontent with who you are as a person by essentially claiming that who you are is ‘wrong’. It’s like, “You’re doing you wrong. It should be like this and this, not that.” Erm, who says? They’re not you. What you can immediately learn in this situation, is that when person claims that you’re ‘doing’ you wrong, they hold beliefs that people ‘should’ be the same as them, or that they should at the very least be and do…
  • Loneliness happens when we stop expressing how we feel and lose emotional connections (The importance of self-care and safe people)

    Natalie (NML)
    11 Apr 2014 | 3:09 pm
    When we stop expressing how we feel, we lose, not only that all vital connection to ourselves, but we also end up feeling lonely due to a lack of emotional connection with people who are theoretically in our Circle of Trust. We fear that if we’re honest, that they won’t want to know us, will be angry, or will tell us that we’re wrong, so we don’t express our feelings and opinions as we don’t trust them to handle them. It’s a vicious circle. Something similar happens when we determine that we’re not liked, which may not be a statement of fact but more…
  • Why do we want to be liked by people who we dislike?

    Natalie (NML)
    7 Apr 2014 | 3:21 pm
    One of the things that fascinates me about human nature, is our irrational desire and sometimes need to be liked by people who we ourselves do not like. We can be mad at a person and decide that we don’t like him/her but then feel wounded and even rejected when they don’t respond to our dislike in the way that we would prefer. It’s as if we need the validation of knowing that they’re negatively impacted by our opinion. We want them to chase after us for our ‘like’ and when they don’t or it even becomes apparent that the feeling is mutual, we feel…
  • There’s no point in following the ‘trend’ if you don’t end up liking or knowing you

    Natalie (NML)
    4 Apr 2014 | 3:36 pm
    When I was a teenager growing up in Dublin and battling with that very typical desire to ‘fit in’ by being and doing what I thought everyone else was, my mother would trot out her standard line – “Would you jump off a bridge if someone told you to?” As one of only a few black kids around at that time, finding things to help me ‘blend in’ was very high on my agenda. I thought people would overlook my differences or even my ‘flaws’ such as my parents not being together, the big scar on my right leg, and whatever it was that I thought was…
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  • Use What You Got! 15 Green Crafts for Kids

    Jenn Sinrich
    18 Apr 2014 | 1:45 pm
    Skip the craft store trip and use materials you already have instead: That's the beauty of these green kids crafts -- cheap, creative and recycled! A perfect combo.
  • Oh Baby! 11 First Month Moments You’ll Want to Savor

    Bonnie Gibbs Vengrow
    17 Apr 2014 | 8:16 pm
    When your baby is first born, everything she does is utterly perfect—and totally entertaining. Chances are, you won’t want to miss a thing, no small feat considering now that you’re heading home from the hospital, your hands will be full with feedings, diaper changes and burpings. But keep your cell phone handy so you can capture these 11 sweetest first month moments.
  • 3 Tips to Get the Most Out of Your Family Vacation

    Gail Eisenberg
    2 Apr 2014 | 2:16 pm
    There's nothing more exhilarating than hitting the road with your family to explore all the wonders the world has to offer. What’s more, it’s beneficial. “Relaxing together and spending time is an important part of growing a healthy family,” writes child psychologist Dr. Renee Clauselle.
  • 5 Tips to Make Your Commute Work for Your Family

    Jennifer Matlack
    2 Apr 2014 | 2:11 pm
    The time it takes you to leave the office and rejoin your family offers a valuable opportunity to decompress and transition from career woman to nurturing mom. And making that shift is essential.
  • Are We There Yet? Tips for Staying Sane On the Family Road Trip

    Gail Eisenberg
    2 Apr 2014 | 2:08 pm
    Whether it’s a bumper-to-bumper ride cross-town or an all-out trip cross-country, here’s how to put the breaks on “Are we there yet?” whining and make sure getting there is half the fun.
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    The World's Stage

  • 10 Random Things that Reality TV Shows are Looking For

    21 Apr 2014 | 12:22 pm
    Have you always dreamed of being a reality TV star? If you’re like me, idle hours of watching guilty pleasure television has probably led to an unhealthy daydream. Watching strangers date, fight, and compete on the myriad of reality shows on television today, I can’t help but wonder what I would do if I were on a reality show. For some, this is just a fun train of thought, but for others, it’s a serious quest. If you’re looking for reality stardom, check out these open casting calls. Most are available on the casting sites or 1. San Diego Partiers…
  • 5 Highlights of the MTV Movie Awards

    14 Apr 2014 | 11:38 am
    If you didn’t watch the MTV Movie Awards last night (let’s face it, GoT was on), here are a few quick highlights that you can catch on YouTube. 1. Mark Wahlberg‘s acceptance speech Mark Wahlberg won the Generations Award last night, because apparently all of MTV’s viewers are 12 years old and think that Marky Mark is old. Whatever. He spent the majority of his speech dropping f-bombs, and it was pretty hilarious. 2. The opening montage Conan was a great choice to host, because he has no shame, mostly. The MTV Movie Awards montage is always a great tribute to all the…
  • The Do’s and Don’ts of Graduation Season

    7 Apr 2014 | 10:29 am
    Graduation season is coming up for high school and college students across the nation. Commencement is a proud and joyous occasion that marks a turning point in a young person’s life. Both college and high school graduates are closing the door on one chapter of their lives and embarking on a new journey with new freedoms and responsibilities. Friends and family members cherish these celebrations with their loved ones and are often invited to both the commencement ceremony and a graduation party that celebrates the graduate. But along with this exciting time come many questions of etiquette:…
  • 10 Ways to Get the Color of the Year into Your Life

    4 Apr 2014 | 11:49 am
    I’m not sure how exactly Pantone was granted the gift of naming the color of the year, but they do a great job. Maybe I am the only one who eagerly awaits the unveiling of the new year’s color, but even if you’re not a fan, there are plenty of reasons to get Radiant Orchid into your decor. The color goes well with a number of pallets, and the vivid bright (without being overbearing) color is sure to inject some happiness into your life. 1. A Kiss of Color With just slightly more of a purple hue than a berry lipstick, orchid is still a very wearable lip color. Pair an orchid…
  • Seven Registry Items You Didn’t Think Of

    31 Mar 2014 | 11:54 am
    When you and your fiancé registered for your wedding gifts, what did you ask for? Something traditional like a blender, a slow cooker or a toaster oven? Something romantic like a gift card to the spa at your honeymoon resort? Despite the fact that you got everything you wanted, you may have missed out on a few useful items that you later had to buy for yourself. Newly-engaged couples, take note! Here are seven of the best registry items that everyone forgets about! Cleaning gadgets: Register for a portable vacuum to stow in the living room closet, a full-sized vacuum (especially if you have…
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    Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40™

  • Travel partner with benefits

    Dating Goddess
    23 Apr 2014 | 2:21 pm
    My post-divorce dating has not yielded a beau who liked — or had the means — to travel. I love to travel so have scratched my itch by traveling with or meeting up with friends. That doesn’t mean I haven’t been invited to travel with men, but unfortunately, they’ve been men I haven’t yet met or had met only once or twice. I knew they were really just looking for a travel partner with benefits, as they asked me to share their cruise cabin or their hotel room. I wanted to avoid being stuck on another continent with someone who was ponderous or obnoxious.
  • Moving from friends to more

    Dating Goddess
    26 Feb 2014 | 4:32 pm
    Have you ever had a guy friend-crush? A guy pal who you’d like to be more? But you haven’t flirted or made your interest known because he might already have a wife or girlfriend? Or maybe you’ve been too afraid of ruining the good friendship you have if a romance doesn’t work out? I was curious about how to move from the friend zone to more, as several previously coupled guy pals have recently become single. So I was thrilled to meet a woman whose boyfriend had been a long-time friend first. I grilled her for details of the transition. Since most people feel it’s…
  • Emotional cheating

    Dating Goddess
    17 Feb 2014 | 7:28 pm
    Much has been written about how Facebook has helped end many marriages because people rekindle relationships with old flames. They begin romancing each other through emails, texts and calls until their allegiance to their spouse withers and they have become etionally attached to their new-old flame. Sometimes the damage is done without their actually seeing each other after decades or having a physical affair. Recently, I heard a story of a marriage shattered by a similar story. But this one happened in real life, not just virtual. There was no sex involved, but the wife insisted on a divorce…
  • Would you date a man with no libido?

    Dating Goddess
    26 Jan 2014 | 6:51 pm
    A pal shared a story of his best friend, Mel, who had some recent health challenges which resulted in him having zero libido. Not just during the treatment of his health problem, but afterward. Prior to this circumstance, Mel’s sex drive had been high. He’s been married to his current wife for about 10 years so she knew him during the high-lust years. I barely know Mel and have never met his wife, and my pal had no word on what Mel’s wife felt about this change in their relationship. It made me wonder what midlife women would think about dating a no- or low-libido guy. Some…
  • Are you longing to end the quest too soon?

    Dating Goddess
    10 Jan 2014 | 6:11 pm
                  Most of the people I talk to about dating want to find “The One” quickly and get the dating roller coaster ride over. They don’t enjoy the process of meeting new people and being disappointed when there isn’t mutual attraction. Or if there is, it doesn’t last long. One 60-plus woman friend who recently found herself single after a 20+ year relationship ended, shared that she didn’t expect to be unattached within a year or so. However, her plan for finding her next mate mostly relies upon him finding her. She…
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  • 7 Ways to Improve Your Sex Life, No Guy Required

    Christine Coppa
    24 Apr 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, your sex life can benefit from a little self-love. Orgasms are proved to reduce symptoms of PMS and relieve stress--why wait to be in a relationship to get perks like that?We tapped experts to share some tips that will greatly benefit your sex life, with or without a partner.
  • 15 Things Single People Are Tired of Hearing

    Christine Coppa
    28 Mar 2014 | 10:00 am
    What's that sound? It's white noise blocking out the well-meaning person proclaiming groundbreaking news about where you can meet someone, asking why you're still single, or bugging you about when you're getting married already. Don't be that person. Here are 15 annoying things all single people don't want to hear.
  • The Dos and Don'ts of Getting Noticed on a Dating Site

    Gena Kaufman
    17 Mar 2014 | 7:00 am
    Online dating is more popular than ever, but how's a girl supposed to stand out from the crowd and get guys to notice her?
  • How to Give a Good Blow Job, According to Guys

    Christine Coppa
    13 Mar 2014 | 7:00 am
    Worried you're using the wrong moves? Want to learn the right ones? We went straight to the source and asked real men to share exactly what they like. Needless to say, this read is NSFW.
  • The Worst Walk-of-Shame Stories of All Time

    Gena Kaufman
    13 Mar 2014 | 7:00 am
    We use the term "walk of shame" loosely, as we're more into Liz Lemon's "stride of pride" concept (there's no shame in spending the night!). Still, no one can deny that some mortifying situations can take place when you have to get home--or worse, to work--the morning after.
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    Single Mom Seeking

  • A Smidgen of Sky: A book give away

    10 Apr 2014 | 1:10 pm
    When Dianna Dorisi Winget got married, she became an instant mom to a 4-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter. Their mother had died from cancer two years earlier. Dianna and her husband went on to add another daughter to their family. That experience is what planted the seed for Dianna’s first novel. I recently read her debut middle grade, A Smidgen of Sky, and the story softened my heart. Piper Lee, a spunky girl from the South, is determined to stop her mother from getting remarried. Her dad disappeared in an airplane crash four years earlier, and Piper Lee still holds onto the hope…
  • Dead Ends: A book giveaway

    26 Mar 2014 | 4:45 pm
    Exciting news! I’m starting a new book-giveaway series. I’ll be chatting with authors who write about single parent and blended families. Please join me. First up, I’m thrilled to introduce Erin Jade Lange (above), the 35-year-old Arizona author of Dead Ends. Dead Ends (Bloomsbury Publishing, 2013) is a poignant story that pulled me right in. I couldn’t let go. 16-year-old Dane Washington is a bully who takes out his anger on anyone who dares to look at him the wrong way. Until Billy D. comes along. Billy D. has Down syndrome. The boys bond over their missing fathers. Dane…
  • Snapshot: Are you dating again?

    7 Feb 2014 | 9:05 am
    Although five years (!) have passed since I met Chris, I remember the month of February as if it were a framed photo on my wall, my eyes resisting loneliness. I’ll admit it: Valentine’s Day has always brought out the mushiness in me. Every February, I’d vowed to stay open to love. Sure enough, a couple of weeks before Valentine’s Day five years ago, there I was,  sitting at another coffee shop, waiting with expectation and hope. Maybe this time, I’d get get love-struck over a latte? It was another disappointing date. Then a few days later, when I least expected…
  • Snapshot: When you and your husband disagree about parenting

    28 Dec 2013 | 1:53 pm
    Many of us make New Year’s resolutions. Do you? This coming year, I resolve to stop picking fights with Chris. It’s usually about little things, and almost always when I’m exhausted (Hello, mom of a toddler!). But still. Sometimes it’s not nice. So, there you have it. I’m going to do my best to be more mindful before I react. That’s not to say that Chris and I haven’t gotten into it over BIG things. Like how to co-parent. So, when you’re arguing about a big issue, how do you resolve it? I’m honored to feature one of my favorite blended…
  • Walking pneumonia

    6 Nov 2013 | 4:34 pm
    I had pneumonia last month. I guess it’s called “walking pneumonia” because I was still walking around. Barely. The thing is, I rarely get sick. Which was why — even though I was coughing and exhausted for weeks — I kept going. I thought I’d caught the cough that was going through our family. I thought, I got it worse than everyone. It’ll clear up. But I wasn’t getting a lot of rest. Our little CJ has teeth coming in, and she been waking up. And up. And up. The house was a mess. I pushed deadlines back. Chris and I started to argue. But I had no…
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  • 5 Things I Learned from the FIFA World Cup Trophy

    Twanna A. Hines
    15 Apr 2014 | 7:11 am
    I’m well aware my current life offers more opportunities than I dreamed possible. I grew up with relatives in rural Mississippi until, at age 10, I reunited with my single mom in small-town Illinois. We didn’t have the kind of money that covered family vacations, so I didn’t dip my toes in an ocean or sit in a plane’s cabinet until later in life. As I kid, I just thought: My life will be what it always has been. I support internationalism and exchange programs because they expose participants to different worlds. Having studied, lived,…
  • I Made St. Patrick’s Day 8K “Top 10 Female Teams”

    Twanna A. Hines
    22 Mar 2014 | 9:07 am
    In college, I  ate chocolate brownies and ice cream for dinner because that shit is delicious. Hell, if you knew you could eat whatever you wanted to without ever gaining weight, what would you eat?! In four years, I gained almost 20 pounds. At 22, I was 5’5” and 136 lbs, so I wasn’t fat—though, really, that should be irrelevant. That said, vanity was a great motivator. Although I started working out because I wanted to lose weight, I kept at it once I made the larger connection to overall health. I have a free scratch-off ticket for the Diabetes Gene Lottery. Many relatives…
  • I Füçkèd Your Country: 2014 Capital Fringe Festival

    Twanna A. Hines
    18 Mar 2014 | 5:12 pm
    Lovers, this past weekend, I spoke at a sexuality conference in  Washington, DC. I was happy to share the event’s spotlight with: Cornell University’s Developmental Psychology professor / Sex & Gender Lab director Dr. Ritch C. Savin-Williams; Woodhull Freedom Foundation board member Carol Queen; author Gram Ponante; United Nations consultant Francisco Ramirez, MPH; author Melissa Gira Grant; award-winning (and dashingly handsome!!) poet Mo Beasley; and that reserved-yet-oh-so-ridiculously-sexy Englishman Dr. Jamie F. Lawson. And many, many, more people who…
  • Join Me, Dan Savage & Others for the Sochi Olympics

    Twanna A. Hines
    6 Feb 2014 | 5:41 pm
    Well played, Google. If you haven’t already seen it, check out the Sochi Olympics doodle. That aside, dude, seriously, some of the news from Russia has been kind of hilarious. Read The New Yorker’s Sochi Hotel Guests Complain About Topless Portraits of Putin in Rooms by Andy Borowitz. “I did not travel thousands of miles just to be grossed out [by seminude portraits of Vladimir Putin].” How could anyone not love that?! By the way, thanks to The New York Times’ Nicholas Kristof for bringing my attention to this Washington Post gem: Journalists at Sochi Are…
  • Hi, I’m Your First Black Girlfriend

    Twanna A. Hines
    4 Jan 2014 | 3:08 pm
    Life is full of first-time experiences. The other week, a [black female] friend mentioned she hadn’t ever seen a white guy’s penis. Having seen more than one, I had the pleasure of showing her the most easily accessible one: my Mac’s desktop picture [NSFW]. Her response? “Awww, cute! It’s pink.” I love Akilah’s “Meet Your First Black Girlfriend” video because it’s fun and lighthearted. “When you begin your interracial relationship journey, you will encounter these very simple little conversations,” reads the description.
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  • The Disappearing Date - Or - Why Didn't He Call Back?

    24 Apr 2014 | 5:56 am
    Have you ever had a date that was so fantastic, so perfect, that you were on cloud nine for days (or even weeks) on end - just to have the other participant disappear? I know I have, and I've heard more than a few folks of late both asking for dating advice...Read Full Post
  • Would You Cheat?

    23 Apr 2014 | 5:46 pm
    For the past few days I've researched and wrote some content about Ashley Madison, the dating site that offers it's users an 'affair guarantee'. Basically anyone whose coupled up can sign up for their service, and if you follow a strict set of guidelines, you'll receive your money back if you don't find what you're after in six months. By writing this content, I'm not saying I support cheaters. Let's be clear: I don't. But whether I support or condone websites that offer cheaters a means to and end, the fact is, these sites exist because there's demand, and I get a lot of emails on the topic…
  • What Do You Consider a First Date?

    23 Apr 2014 | 1:19 pm
    "Are we on a first date?" whispered my client quietly into the phone, as I imagined her crouching in a busy bar's bathroom stall, calling me. "What do you mean, are you on a date? Did he ask you?" I inquired back, matching her tone and volume. I was met with silence for a few seconds, and then, heard a puzzled, "I don't know. Maybe? He asked if I wanted to go for a drink." The same week, I counseled a friend about what she thought was a dating relationship. She shared: "We've talked every day since we met about two months ago, hang out at least once a week, been intimate, he even said 'I love…
  • Does Love Really Last?

    31 Mar 2014 | 11:10 am
    I've recently found myself fascinated with the concept of everlasting romantic love - although just writing that term makes me sound like a sappy single, instead of one truly dedicated to researching and determining if love shared throughout a lifetime really does (or can) exist. There's a lot of research surrounding the topic from a variety of viewpoints, and I've done my best to summarize it here. (see: Does Love Last?) I can read until I'm blue in the face while the statistics swirl about in my head, and still feel confuddled as to what's what. I hope that I've been able to shed (a bit) of…
  • Research Shows What Tactics To Use To Meet Someone Special

    27 Mar 2014 | 3:08 am
    A few years ago the magazine Scientific American Mind discussed how we meet someone we marry, live with, or partner with (either short term or long term). Interestingly, some dating statistics presented in the article provided variations between the different relationship statuses and how we meet, and showed that it wasn't that different depending on how committed we were: the majority in all four scenarios meet through friends most of the time, with self-introduction and family members falling suit. Of course there were some predictable variations - such as short-term partnerships (i.e.
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  • Skilful & Godly Wisdom - Apr 25,2014

    Real Relationships
    24 Apr 2014 | 10:00 pm
    How far are you prepared to go to seek wisdom? Do you know that wisdom or insight is what you need to solve whatever challenge you may have right now? Whoever needs wisdom can ask God who will give it genorously without holding back. Let us continue our study on wisdom so that we can live life skilfully and attain our God-given dreams and visions. Join us for another session of Morning Devotion, you won't regret it
  • VOC Nation Entertainment: Her Dork World, His Dork World - Apr 25,2014

    VOC Nation Radio Network
    24 Apr 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Attention Geeks, Dorks, Nerds, Sci Fi fans, Book Worms, and even Hardcore Harry Potter fans... His Dork World, Her Dork World comes to VOC Nation with the sole purpose of pleasing those of us who grew up or continue to be...well...socially awkward. Newest VOC Nation Personality Dean Compton teams up with chic geek Emily to give listeners the male and female side of geek pop culture. Books, movies, dating advice and much more! Stay tuned to Twitter for the latest on upcoming topics. Follow Dean Compton on Twitter @antifascist Follow VOC Nation on Twitter @vocnation Visit VOC Nation on the web…
  • This Week in Current Events [RQRA] - Apr 25,2014

    Real Questions Real Answers
    24 Apr 2014 | 8:30 pm
    It's Thursday! In this episode the panel will be discussing several articles straight from the headlines and offering a unique perspective for each of them
  • Baaack! Hello, Ripe Nation!!! - Apr 25,2014

    The Ripeness
    24 Apr 2014 | 8:00 pm
    I'm baaack! After a semi hiatus, I am back and ready to talk about life, love current events.... all that good shit. Let's catch up!
  • DCR Ep6 - Apr 25,2014

    Da Clinic Radio
    24 Apr 2014 | 8:00 pm
    This Episode:
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • Great New Dating Domain Extensions (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2014 | 2:05 pm
    OPW - Apr 24 - Here's some cool new domain extensions worthy of your consideration. .dating - available for pre-registration  .love - available for pre-registration  .singles - available now for $39.99/year For the full post and listing see Courtland Brooks blog.
  • Launches New iPhone App (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2014 | 1:44 pm
    TECH CRUNCH - Apr 24 - is unveiling an entirely redesigned mobile app for iPhone users, with the release of Match 3.0. has implemented a few new features that are built specifically for mobile such as Discover page. There are two parts to the Discover page: Stream and Mixer. Stream is a list of people users might be interested in. The Mixer experience is very similar to Tinder. Users swipe right if they like someone, and swipe left if they don’t. by Jordan CrookSee full article at Tech Crunch See all posts on
  • 6 Weeks To Go Before iDate Mobile In LA (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2014 | 10:04 am
    OPW - Apr 24 - The next iDate (Internet Dating Conference) will take place in June 4-6, 2014 in L.A. at the SLS Hotel in Beverly Hills. The 3 day conference will focus on mobile and wearables. Register by May 2nd and save $430.
  • Delightful Hits The Deadpool (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2014 | 10:01 am
    TECH CRUNCH - Apr 24 - Just three months after its public launch, Delightful, the startup that helped build “tailored dates” for couples short on time, has shut down. Delightful was created as one of the first products out of OKCupid Labs. It looks like it had failed to gain enough traction. It’s in a competitive market: HowAboutWe has been operating a similar service for couples for some time. by Colleen TaylorSee full aticle at Tech Crunch See all posts on Delightful
  • Judge Gives HIV Dating Website A Break (Mark Brooks)
    24 Apr 2014 | 9:56 am
    COURTHOUSE NEWS - Apr 23 - Online daters failed to show that misled them into believing their HIV and STD statuses would remain private, a federal judge ruled. People HIV positive joined, a dating site that promised a free and "fully anonymous" profile. But its parent allows its users to scan the full profiles - including HIV status - of all its affiliates, including, according to the lawsuit. by William DottingaSee full article at Courthouse News See all posts on SuccessfulMatchSee all posts on PositiveSingles
  • add this feed to my.Alltop - The Shortcut To Break-Up Recovery

  • The Ultimate Goal After A Break-Up

    Eddie Corbano
    8 Apr 2014 | 3:30 am
    “I can handle anything that life throws at me”. This is not just a bold statement, it is a testament of strength of someone who has gone through hell and back. Someone who survived and earned the certainty that nothing can bring them down.But there's more. Please read on.
  • Are You Letting Go Or Just Giving Up? Rules Of Disengagement

    Eddie Corbano
    11 Mar 2014 | 4:30 am
    There will come a point in your recovery where you have to take a very important step - letting go of your Ex. If you are ready to do this, it will bring you freedom and boost your self-esteem.But there is a danger here. A fork in the road that can lead you in a false direction. Read all about how to avoid taking this wrong turn in the following article.
  • Why You Must Un-Love Your Ex

    Eddie Corbano
    26 Feb 2014 | 3:30 am
    How do you stop loving someone? How to overcome the battle between heart and mind? It is one of the most difficult decisions in life, to deliberately "un-love" your Ex because you know it's the right thing to do. But HOW do we do it? As always, a long journey begins with a decision and the first step. Please read on.
  • The Reason Why Your Ex Broke Up With You

    Eddie Corbano
    28 Jan 2014 | 3:30 am
    Right after a breakup, we torture ourselves by trying to figure out that one question that we think will make a big difference - the "Why". Why have they left us, why have they said and done all these things to us? It seems so important, so vital to our recovery.Is it really? Please read on.
  • How To Cope With The Finality Of A Breakup

    Eddie Corbano
    14 Jan 2014 | 3:30 am
    One of the most difficult things to cope with after a break-up is this awing feeling of finality. That you've reached a point-of-no-return. But what looks as something insurmountable is in fact the best thing that can happen to your recovery.Please read on, you will understand.
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    Dating | YourTango

  • Cream Of The Crop Top: How To Style This Trend For Date Night

    24 Apr 2014 | 2:11 pm
    When it comes to this season's cutest tops, more and more designers are cutting it short. Whether he's taking you for a casual walk in the park, or pulling out all the stops, read on for how to make the crop top work for you on your next date. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post
  • 4 Surefire Signs You're Dating A Narcissist

    24 Apr 2014 | 1:39 pm
    A small percentage of men and women — under 5 percent — meet the criteria for full-blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder, but a much higher number of people have narcissistic traits. If you find yourself dating someone who is narcissistic, the summary version involves you feeling frustrated, angry and hurt. Check out the telltale signs. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • How To Properly Approach Women At The Bar, According To Movies

    24 Apr 2014 | 8:11 am
    Maybe you've been out of the game for a while or perhaps you're doing just fine in that department, but you're just curious to look at someone else's playbook. Whatever the reason is, Ask Men has decided to not only spell out all the dos and don'ts for you but has also added clips from beloved movies where characters were successful at putting on the moves. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • The New Dating Rules: Why It's A Good Thing That Chivalry Is Dead

    the frisky
    24 Apr 2014 | 7:27 am
    Sometimes you may hear groaning over chivalry being dead. That men have changed and it's not for the better. But what exactly are people actually referring to when they give this complaint? Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Before You Hit Send: The Cold, Hard Truth About Sending Nude Pics

    23 Apr 2014 | 2:35 pm
    Ever thought about sharing nude photos or sexting with a new guy? Dating coach Ronnie Ann Ryan reveals what you need to watch for. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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  • The guilt ridden failure ghost

    24 Apr 2014 | 11:00 pm
    There are two words that nearly every single mother I know has used at some point in. They are two words that mothers unfortunately use to define what kind of mother they are and determine what kind of mother they become. They are two words that create self doubt. They eat away at our soul, as mothers. The one word causes the other which causes the first one all over again and so it creates a cycle of negativity and anxiety. They are words that rob moms of joy. They take away from us all that we achieve, all that we are as mothers. They are two words, I believe, should be illegal for moms to…
  • Project Budget: Lunch

    24 Apr 2014 | 12:52 am
    Lunches are pretty easy because all the kids are at school so I can play pretty well. Before any comment is given on the actual content of my kids lunch boxes please bare in mind I have tried EVERYTHING for both kids. We have done the mini dried fruit, sandwiches, fruit, yoghurts – we have DONE IT ALL. This is what works so when the choice is eating vs not eating – I choose eating! Cameron has a hotdog, muffin and a packet of chips. Kiara has popcorn and biltong. Jack has mini cheddars and a muffin. David buys lunch stuff that he keeps at work. I eat whatever is here – rice…
  • So tell me…

    24 Apr 2014 | 12:30 am
    Things are looking a little brighter around these parts. We had a really great afternoon with Jack, he was almost back to his “old self”. I am hoping we are turning the corner. I still have a little case of writers block and so my content is somewhat lacking. So for now lets talk about a few random things….. What series are you currently watching or do you enjoy? I am loving Scandal at the moment. I love that they depict Olivia Pope as strong and successful but don’t like that they still show her as a little girl lost – ultimately saying women can’t have it…
  • Project Budget: Breakfast

    23 Apr 2014 | 4:17 am
    Marcia has done a post, in an attempt to explain her grocery spend, she is doing it meal time by meal time – the breakfast post is here. I actually never thought she ate rubbish for two reasons – rubbish actually costs money AND I know Marcia well enough to know she won’t feed herself or her family crap. Same for my other friend. I think it has to do with the eating styles of each family. I know Marcia controls/monitors portions a lot more than we do which I suspect may be the biggest difference. We also don’t eat enough vegetables and too many carbs. So it is about…
  • The quickest way for a parent to get a child’s attention is to sit down and look comfortable. ~Lane Olinghouse

    22 Apr 2014 | 4:43 am
    I wrote an article recently on age gaps and one of the moms who sent me a quote mentioned that she found the jump from one child to two was a lot harder than she expected. I am feeling the same way now – the jump from three to four has been hard. I think Jack and I are the only ones really feeling it but we are both feeling it hard. But I shall not bore you with my rather shaky emotional state right now because I have had my “curl up in a ball in a corner and rock” moment and now I am back up doing what needs to be done. That’s what we do isn’t it? We had a great…
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    Shmitten Kitten

  • Come To This! I'm Judging Geekadelphia's "The Geek Shall Inherit the Earth: A Comedy Throwdown"

    3 Apr 2014 | 12:38 pm
    What up, homies? Philly Tech Week is comin' 'round the bend, and I'm excited to announce that I'll be judging Geekadelphia's comedy show, "The Geek Shall Inherit The Earth" alongside Drink Philly's Adam Schmidt and Skeletor. Here are the deets via the FB invite: Geekadelphia and Laughs on Fairmount are bringing something new to Philly Tech Week. Watch a colorful cast of characters as they’re pitted against each other in the premiere of "The Geek Shall Inherit The Earth: A Comedy Throwdown" at Urban Saloon. Be entertained by the comedy stylings of Philadelphia’s geek pride and joy,…
  • Want to Become BFFs With Your Ex? READ THIS POST!

    17 Mar 2014 | 1:05 pm
    I wrote a piece for Thought Catalog about How to Become Best Friends with your ex in 9 Easy-ish Steps. I had a lot of fun writing it and I hope it shows.
  • Pics and Vids:, The Dating Site For People Who Just Want Someone Near Them When They Die

    13 Mar 2014 | 6:05 pm
    Here's a cute spoof about online dating sites from the cool cats at Super Kudzo.Want someone, anyone, as long as he or she has a pulse? Are standards getting in the way of finding true love? Well, is the site for you. Watch:
  • Just Between Us: I'm Hot for Teacher (And Most Other Authority Figures, Really)

    11 Mar 2014 | 2:18 pm
    C'mon, gals. I can't be the only one who envied the boys in Varsity Blues when they realized that the exotic dancer at the strip club was in fact their teacher. (And then hated those boys' luck, because there's no way we lady-students are ever going to experience having our professor turn out to be Magic Mike.)  I don't know when my love for teachers started. Maybe it was ignited by the guy who played the deliciously inscrutable Sky Masterson in the high school production of Guys & Dolls. Or maybe it was the lead singer whose hips moved in directions that mine couldn't…
  • My Latest Good Idea: SoleMates, A Dating Site Where You Can View A Suitor's Shoes Before You Commit To Anything

    19 Feb 2014 | 12:37 pm
    Listen, it's 2014 and we're all busy as hell. We have to convince our friends to watch "True Detective" even though the first episode is a little boring, we have to tweet about the bad weather, and we have to avoid "House of Cards" spoilers. That's basically a full-time job on its own.Therefore, we've got to cut to the chase when it comes to online dating. Blurry photos from four years ago aren't gonna convince me that this guy is gonna be soulmate. I don't trust 'em! Frankly, I'm gonna need more information to go on before I commit to any kind of public outing.So before I invest too much…
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  • Things Women Need in a Relationship, the Future of Sidechicking, and More

    24 Apr 2014 | 6:38 am
    Rich and WIM discuss the power of naps, Nicki Minaj’s new look, Nigerian spellcaster spam, Pharrell’s Marilyn Monroe cover, Lil Terrio’s real age and other unfortunate facts, Palcohol, the #myNYPD hashtag, putative fathers, an article on things women need in a relationship, the non-future in sidechicking, the cycle of ambition and doubt, mentoring, another reason kids have it so easy these days, and more! **You can also listen to the show on iTunes, Stitcher Radio, and/or** @TGOSPodcast, @IAmRichJones, @WisdomIsMisery…
  • 5 Signs He Just Wants Sex

    23 Apr 2014 | 9:05 pm
    Sometimes the dating scene is a little foggy and you can’t even see ten feet ahead of yourself, but all you have to do is turn on those little yellow fog-lights to clear things up and give you perspective. It’s frustrating when you can’t tell if he wants a relationship or just on-call sex, but this blog will clear things up for you, 5 Signs He Just Wants Sex: He Only Plays With You During His Convenience So this guy never really moves obligations around to make things happen between you two. He only cares to catch up with you when nothing else is entertaining his time.
  • Is Affirmative Action On The Way Out?

    Dr. J
    23 Apr 2014 | 8:06 am
    Yesterday, the US Supreme Court decided that Michigan could do away with considering race in college admissions. There are arguments to be had on either side and I think that as African Americans we need to be careful not to react without knowing all the facts. That said, what alarmed me the most was the drastically different opinions between Justices Sotomayor and Roberts. It concludes with a quote from a Michigan attorney which brings it all together. “This refusal to accept the stark reality that race matters is regrettable,” Sotomayor wrote. “The way to stop discrimination on the…
  • Old Love vs New Chemistry: Which Do You Choose?

    22 Apr 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Wanting that old thing back can be a bitch can’t it? Well it sure can be when you’re aware of the dangers of it. We could end up paranoid sometimes about a situation like that. There’s only two ways things can go: right or wrong. We’re only human. With that, there’s been times that we’ve spent being very defensive. We get hurt, we put up walls. It’s absolutely warranted. Over time though, things change. Time heals so many wounds. Maybe you’re back in an amicable relationship with a past love. You might still have real feelings for that person as…
  • 6 Reasons Why Women Love Beards

    22 Apr 2014 | 8:38 am
    In 2013 we saw the re-emergence and adoration of one of man’s greatest accessories- facial hair, more specifically the beard. A few squiggly hairs on your chin wasn’t enough to suffice as sexy, unless you were Pharrell. Women were fawning over scruffy faces all over the U.S., you saw pages dedicated to beards on Twitter, Tumblr, and Instagram. Here are 6 Reasons Why Women Love Beards: Looks Like a Man Women got tired of those super-pretty negroes. They wanted men that wouldn’t take more time than them to get ready. Ladies, know that they should never have to fight a man over mirror…
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  • My Best SMS Shayari

    Heeren Tanna
    23 Apr 2014 | 4:46 am
    1..Itna bhi na rootho yar, k ye mera dil bhi tut jaye, ham itne bedard nahi k, aapko dard deke kush ho jaye. 2.. Wazood na ho to hasti kis kam ki, maza na ho to masti kis kam ki, yad aapki aaye aur ham sms na kare, to fir ye dosti kis kam ki.. 3.. Har phul khushbudar nahi hota, har pathar chamakdar nahi hota, dosti sochkar karna dost, kyok har dost ham jaisa dildar nahi hota.. 4.. Badi muddat se chaha hai tujhe, badi duaon se paya hai tujhe, tujhe bhulane ki sochu bhi to kaise, kismat ki lakiro se churaya hai tujhe.. 5.. Khuda se thoda raham kharid lu, tere zakhmo ka marham kharid lu, agar…
  • Hindi SMS

    21 Apr 2014 | 4:38 am
    Lamha lamha intzar kiya us lamhe ke liye or woh lamha aya bhi to bus ek lamhe ke liye, guzarish yehi hai khuda se ke kash woh lamha fir aye 1 lamhe ke liye . Ek mulakat anjan hoti hai, Anjan se hi to pehchan hoti hai. Jaha dekho waha ishq ke bimar bethe hai, Hajaro mar chuke hai lekin sekdo taiyar bethe hai. Kisiko apna banane me der lagti hai, ek vada nibhane me der lagti hai, pyar to pal bhar me ho jata hai, magar unhe bhulane me umar lagti hai
  • ek mian bhi tanha the sau me bhi akele hai

    Heeren Tanna
    19 Apr 2014 | 4:32 am
    Zindagi ki raahon mein Ranj-o-gham ke mele hein bheer hey qayamat ki …phir bhi hum akailey hein sazishein zamaney ki kaam ker gain aakhir aap hein udher tanha …hum idher akailey hein bheer hey qayamat ki …phir bhi hum akailey hein ab to apna saya bhi kho gaya andheron mein aap se bichar ker hum kis kadar akailey hein kon kis ka sathi hey hum to gham ki manzil mein pehley bhi akailey they …aaj bhi akailey hein aainey ke soo tukrey ker ke hum ne dekhey hein aik mein bhi tanha they soo mein bhi akailey hein bheer hey qayamat ki phir bhi hum akailey hein zindagi ki raahon…
  • Hindi SMS On Friendship

    17 Apr 2014 | 4:09 am
    Dosti Dil Hai Dimag Nahin, Dosti Soch Hain Aawaj Nahi, Koi Ankhon Se Nahi Dekh Sakta Dosti Ke Jajbo Ko, Kyunki Dosti Ehsaas Hai Andaz Nahin
  • Phir Se Shuru Kare Zindagi

    13 Apr 2014 | 10:19 am
    Shayad yeh waqt humse koi chaal chal gaya, rishta wafa ka aur hi rangon mein dhal gaya, ashqon ki chandni se thi behtar woh dhoop hi, uss modd se shuru kare phir se zindagi
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    Online Dating Guide

  • Don’t Call Me Babe – Bad Flattery in Online Dating

    20 Apr 2014 | 12:17 pm
    While flattery can be beneficial in a new dating situation, there is only so far you can take it before it crosses a line. Especially if you haven’t met in person yet! So with online dating, starting a conversation off with too much flattery, or the wrong kind of flattery, can be harmful to your success. To piggyback off of another recent article, Anyone can say ‘hi’, a typical conversation starter online often includes a compliment or other pick-up line… and that’s okay. However, while it’s true that everybody enjoys flattery, there is a fine line between…
  • Anyone Can Say “Hi”, but I’m not Looking for Just Anyone

    13 Apr 2014 | 12:00 pm
    The unfortunate truth is there are hundreds, if not thousands, of initial messages that go unanswered on a daily basis on online dating sites (spread to all users and not just to my account, of course…wouldn’t that make my odds great, though?!) Many things get in the way – timing, disinterest, forgetfulness – and you can’t help that. What you can help, however, is sending a message that your interest won’t know how to respond to… the nothing-but-hello. When I get messages that my inbox shows won’t be longer than just “hi” or…
  • The Superficial Truth about Profile Pictures

    6 Apr 2014 | 11:58 am
    Nobody wants to admit to having a superficial side, but the honest truth is that when it comes to online dating, a profile picture truly does speak a thousand words. We’re all judging books by their covers here because, honestly, how else do we know which book to read further? Now I know I have read studies proving that members with any profile picture get a higher rate of response than those without, but I’m sure you’re not looking for science here. However, I think it’s extremely important to reinforce the fact that people want to know who they are talking to –…
  • First Date Safety with Online Dating

    8 Mar 2014 | 4:24 am
    You’ve talked to your potential date for days, weeks, or sometimes months on the dating website. Maybe you exchanged numbers and spent time texting each other. Then, you get the invitation to lunch, dinner, or maybe just coffee. You’re a little apprehensive…and rightfully so. You set up your profile in the hopes of meeting that someone special. Yet now that it may be happening, many thoughts run through your mind. One of those thoughts is whether or not this person is who they say they are. You don’t want to be a missing person, but you don’t want to pass up…
  • Pros and Cons of Professionally Written Dating Profiles

    23 Feb 2014 | 2:05 pm
    The latest craze for the online dating world is the use of a professional writer to spruce up, rewrite, or create your dating profile. The goal is to bring out your most appealing attributes to increase the likelihood of attracting a potential companion. Is this a form of lying? What are the pros and cons of using a writer to charm the fish in the sea? Is a Professionally Written Profile Lying…? Employing a professional writer to ghostwrite your profile isn’t necessarily lying. The key to determining this is whether or not the information you provide to your hired gun is…
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  • 広告業界も安泰ではない?

    14 Apr 2014 | 7:22 pm
    広告代理店といえば、一時期は隆盛を極めた業界です。就職人気ランキングでも常に上位に食い込んでいましたね。詳細はリスティング広告 正規代理店に書いてあります。もちろん今でも人気がある業界ではありますが、以前ほど状況は楽観視できるわけではないようです。詳しく知りたい方はグーグルアドワーズ…
  • 洗面所で使うタイルについて

    9 Apr 2014 | 7:43 pm
    マイホームを建てる時、雑多な生活観を感じさせないような可愛い洗面台にしたいという希望がありました。ご相談する際には静岡 注文住宅へ行ってみましょう。小さなモザイクタイルを天板に使用して、真中に陶器で出来た洗面ボウルを取り付けてもらいたいと思っていたのです。よく知らない点がある場合は新築…
  • 幼児教室を選ぶ際に夫婦で対立

    9 Apr 2014 | 6:49 pm
  • 美容皮膚科に通って綺麗になりました

    6 Apr 2014 | 10:47 pm
    美容皮膚科ですっかり綺麗になりました。年齢と共に増える悩みには銀座 皮膚科ここに書いてます。私が美容皮膚科に行って治療をしてもらう理由、それは将来のためなのです。あなたに合った東京…
  • 私が毎日パズドラを続けている理由

    3 Apr 2014 | 7:31 pm
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    I Hate 2 Date

  • My Virtual Boyfriend – Part 1

    23 Apr 2014 | 2:31 pm
    Sad to admit this was the last encounter I had dating, and to be honest, it sorta sucked the wind out of me and left me with no idea how to relay the story. A guy online contacted me and when … Continue reading →
  • The Mysterious Case of the Two Widowers

    6 Nov 2013 | 5:09 pm
    Not long ago I discovered a profile online that, quite frankly, seemed too good to be true. Alas, the optimistic romantic in me had no reason to not believe what he said. Late 40’s, handsome widower, professional, no kids etc … Continue reading →
  • An Open Letter to My Future Husband

    30 Sep 2013 | 6:48 pm
    Dear Future Husband, As we were in the early stages of getting to know one another, I thought it was only fair to point out a few things about myself that perhaps, may not be so obvious. I mean, how … Continue reading →
  • How to Spot a Douchebag

    13 Sep 2013 | 8:35 am
    This one is actually not a challenge at all . As much as I respect someone who fully represents who they are, I wonder if this person has gone back and read what he wrote as his list of requirements….and … Continue reading →
  • A Date With My Future Husband

    15 Aug 2013 | 10:44 am
    Thought I’d mix things up for once with an optimistic, encouraging and positive spin on internet dating. There’s a shocker for ya! Even better, I’m not going to divulge anything personal about him in the hopes that I will have … Continue reading →
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • If You Get Stood Up for a Date, Here is What You Should Do

    21 Apr 2014 | 1:54 pm
    Has this ever happened to you? You just meet this hot & sexy beautiful single woman and you agree to meet for dinner at a local restaurant.You're all pumped up to see this girl again and you're hoping this meeting will lead to some romance and a potential relationship.You arrive right on time at the time you both agreed upon. And you're waiting and waiting for her to show up. Ten minutes goes by...then twenty minutes...then thirty minutes.What should you do? Leave in a fit of anger and never see her again? Call her up later and cuss her out?Here are my recommendations:1. Never wait more than…
  • Body Language Advice for Men

    9 Apr 2014 | 8:48 pm
    In the last ten years or so, much work has been done in this new field of personal communication. Basically body language concerns the message a person sends to others, either consciously or unconsciously, by the movement or placement of various parts of the body.Now it is realized that many actions of the body, previously considered of no real significance, play an important part in interpersonal communication. It is of great interest that many such actions are not made deliberately, and the persons seeing them do not realize that they are being influenced by them. But the message is…
  • How to Meet That Special Lady of Your Dreams

    2 Apr 2014 | 5:39 pm
    A friend once told us that just as he was getting into the checkout line at a grocery store, an attractive girl walked by him on her way to the produce section. She got in line directly behind him with one banana in her hand. He did not look at her until his food was being checked through.He looked at the girl and said, "One banana?"She shrugged her shoulders, not really giving an explanation, as she found herself on the spot.Just then, the attractive checkout girl said, "Will that be all for you?"He looked at the checkout girls and said, "No." Then, looking at the girl behind him, he picked…
  • Animate Your Listening When Talking to Women

    26 Mar 2014 | 5:03 pm
    Animate Your ListeningShe can't read your mind, but she can read your face to get a clue of your reactions. Look at yourself in a mirror and imagine things that make you sad, happy, astonished, shocked. Exaggerate your expressions - try so hard that every facial muscle feels strained!Experiment with every feeling you think may come up in a conversation - respect, admiration, sympathy. As you become more used to expressing your emotions this way, you will feel less as though you are overdoing it, and you will better convey your feelings.
  • My Favorite Personal Ad That Attracts Women Like a Magnet!

    18 Mar 2014 | 8:21 pm
    This is my favorite! Just run this personal ad and edit it to fit your description. You will get a lot of replies!Single male 1953 model, low mileage, high performance. Bumped a few times, but never wrecked. Proven ability to hug the road and not wander off course. Exterior in mint condition, warm, sentimental, sensitive interior, never soiled. Factory equipped entertainment package includes stereo, humor, depth, imagination and intelligence. Radio picks up all kinds of rock and jazz. Spacious seats with plenty of room for passenger...runs on high-octane fun and romance, lifetime supply…
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    Online Dating Paradox

  • OkCupid Blocks Firefox Users Over Anti-Gay CEO

    Matt Savage
    1 Apr 2014 | 8:56 am
    OkCupid users who use the Mozilla Firefox web browser had an interesting surprise today when they tried to visit the website. Instead of going to their main dashboard in the site, they were instead re-directed to a message stating the following: Hello there, Mozilla Firefox user. Pardon this interruption of your OkCupid experience. Mozilla’s new CEO, Brendan Eich, is an opponent of equal rights for gay couples. We would therefore prefer that our users not use Mozilla software to access OkCupid. Politics is normally not the business of a website, and we all know there’s…
  • Olympic Athletes Hook-up Using Tinder Dating App

    Matt Savage
    13 Feb 2014 | 1:16 pm
    It has been reported in past years that the Olympics are basically one big orgy that includes the most athletic and attractive people in the world. Well apparently, the sport of hooking up has become a lot more efficient thanks to the Olympians using the fast growing mobile dating app Tinder. For those that don’t know, Tinder is essentially a location and picture based dating app, which allows one to quickly confirm or deny possible dates by swiping people to the left or right. The app has been all the rage in the past year with its departure from traditional dating site matching…
  • Online Dating Articles – Statistics & Economics Editon

    Matt Savage
    31 Jan 2014 | 2:39 pm
    This month, being the first of the 2014 year, has proven to be a big one in terms of various dating sites and statisticians releasing articles which attempt to analyze and in some instances take advantage of the statistical data being offered by many online dating sites. It’s as if all these people suddenly realized that taking a page from OkCupid’s now defunct OkTrends blog could help to attract some more publicity. Within the first few days of the new year, we have seen both Zoosk and PlentyofFish release some online dating statistics pulled from data on their own sites.
  • 10 Online Dating Anxiety Tips For Your First Date

    Guest Author
    15 Jan 2014 | 9:39 am
    You have been chatting, texting, and messaging your potential online date successfully for multiple back and forth exchanges now. You have talked enough for each of you to realize that there is some initial interest. The moment to meet personally and have an actual one-on-one conversation has finally come. Isn’t it exciting? Of course! But why are you so anxious and nervous? Are you having cold feet? Don’t worry. Your feelings are normal. I mean, who wouldn’t have online dating anxiety prior to your first date? You finally will know if any of that initial online chemistry…
  • Why Women’s Bad Online Dating Profiles Still Attract Tons of Men

    Matt Savage
    8 Jan 2014 | 6:46 pm
    A writer recently conducted an online dating experiment to test the depravity and desperation of men when it comes to seeking potential dates online. The experiment was pretty basic; setup an OkCupid dating profile with pictures of a very attractive woman, yet make the written part of the profile sound like the girl was an idiotic narcissist with a terrible personality; then sit back and watch what happens. So what happened? Well, if you are a veteran of online dating and aware of how the average male uses online dating sites like OkCupid, then you would know that the attractive…
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  • Testimony about my life Hello my name is Lewis Cheney from USA

    6 Apr 2014 | 8:36 am
    New Opinion - Hello my name is Lewis Cheney from USA, My life is back!!! After 6 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our 2 kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted Dr ONIHA I explained my problem to him. In just 2 day, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr ONIHA i really appreciate the love spell you castes for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing…
  • The federal exchange platform is a means to attain cheaper health insurance

    14 Mar 2014 | 2:46 am
    New Answer - In a single word – subsidies. The federal exchange platform is a means to attain cheaper health insurance for people falling in the low income group. It does not matter if you are self-employed or not, these subsidies are available to people falling in 400% of the poverty level, and if you are eligible for those, you will receive major discounts on health insurance purchase.
  • What is the impact of federal exchange platform for low-income, self-employed groups?

    14 Mar 2014 | 12:35 am
    New Question - What is the impact of federal exchange platform for low-income, self-employed groups?
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    7 Mar 2014 | 3:38 am
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  • private healthcare exchanges is definitely one way to reduce the load and take some pressure off the federal marketplace, i

    6 Mar 2014 | 2:23 am
    New Answer - While direct enrollment capability for private healthcare exchanges is definitely one way to reduce the load and take some pressure off the federal marketplace, it isn’t a lasting solution for the problem. The best solution at this moment is to make the federal site capable enough to handle the load of signups.
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    The Dating Blog

  • The True Story Behind That Dating Profile Picture

    Guest Post
    3 Apr 2014 | 6:56 am
    I was one step away from finishing my first online dating profile when I was stopped dead in my tracks.  I somehow needed to find a photograph that captured the essence of the comfortable-wearing-a-tuxedo-as-blue-jeans-ballroom-dancing-skinny-dip-loving-cuddle-crazy-macho-poet Frankenstein that I created in my bio.  No photograph that I had could compete with that. When I put up my […]Related Posts:3 Online Dating Profile TipsTips for Writing Loving Wedding VowsHow the Dating Mistakes of Your 20s Benefit You NowTips to Meet Your Mate OnlineWhy Don’t Men Need to Be Good Looking…
  • Dating Tips for Single Moms

    Guest Post
    9 Mar 2014 | 5:51 pm
    Now you have successfully overcome all the hurt, anxiety and struggles of a divorce or split. The good thing is that you find being a single parent such a very rewarding stage in your life. However, that inner woman in you still yearns to have someone to share your hopes and dreams with. You wanted […]Related Posts:Should You Put a Stop to Your Divorce?Why Are You Single?How to Date CasuallyGrandma’s Dating Tips – UpdatedPace Your Dating Life: 3 Reasons Why It’s Better to…
  • 3 Online Dating Profile Tips

    Guest Post
    3 Mar 2014 | 6:49 am
    Online dating used to be the place for the outcasts and misfits to go in hopes of finding love. But not anymore. Today, online dating has exploded in popularity and now boasts millions of monthly users. Many of bigger online dating sites now have commercials touting how many of their users have gone on to […]Related Posts:Working With an Online Dating ConsultantStruggling to Stand Out OnlineWhy Don’t Men Need to Be Good Looking to Be AttractiveThe True Story Behind That Dating Profile Picture8 Common Online Dating Mistakes to Avoid
  • Why Do Men Seem to Care Less About Valentine’s Day?

    Guest Post
    3 Mar 2014 | 6:39 am
    Valentine’s Day allows men to have an opportunity to show their romantic nature and let the woman in their lives know how much he cares. But why do men seem to care less about Valentine’s day than women? Perhaps it is because women make it so difficult for men to get it right on Valentine’s […]Related Posts:How To Say I Like You On Valentine’s DayGet Valentine Ready5 Ways To Avoid Valentine’s Day DisasterPace Your Dating Life: 3 Reasons Why It’s Better to…Don’t Make Your First Date Her Worst Date
  • 5 Ways To Avoid Valentine’s Day Disaster

    Guest Post
    3 Mar 2014 | 6:36 am
    There are plenty of things that can go wrong in life. Valentine’s Day is one occasion that often seems to attract some disasters. It seems that although this day happens each year and always on the same date, some people still forget to prepare for it on time. To help you avoid forgetting to remember […]Related Posts:How To Say I Like You On Valentine’s DayWhy Do Men Seem to Care Less About Valentine’s Day?Ultimate Valentine’s Day Gifts For HerGet Valentine ReadyRomantic Gestures, After Marriage
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    The Dating Specialist

  • How to Stop Being Needy

    Nick Notas
    17 Apr 2014 | 9:01 pm
    Neediness is the most misunderstood concept in dating. Everyone seems to have an opinion on what they think being needy means: “Don’t text a girl too soon. Wait a while before you respond. Be careful of showing your interest early on — especially if she’s REALLY hot.” But what if I told you that those actions aren’t necessarily needy? Instead… What if I told you that constantly worrying about whether or not you’re being needy is actually being needy? Let’s clear up what neediness is and isn’t once and for all. The real definition of neediness To understand neediness in…
  • How to Use The Art of Persuasion to Attract Women

    Nick Notas
    11 Apr 2014 | 7:09 am
    How most people visualize the idea of persuasion The word “persuasion” makes people feel uneasy. It conjures up images of mind control or the dark arts. But in reality, persuasion is a part of our daily lives and comes in different forms. Have you watched a show or listened to a new band based on the recommendation of a friend? Have you ever returned a favor or assisted someone who’s helped you before? How you ever taken the advice of someone you respected as a mentor? These are all examples where you’re under the influence of persuasion. You can choose to deny it or you can learn how…
  • 6 Dating Truths Women Need to Hear But Don’t Want to

    Nick Notas
    4 Apr 2014 | 7:16 am
      Last week I wanted to give some hard-hitting advice. So I wrote a post on harsh dating truths that men need to hear. But, it would be unfair to only focus on men when there are many women who could use the same reality check, too. So here’s my follow up for all you ladies who need that advice you won’t get anywhere else.  Withholding sex does not ensure a man will commit. It also does not make you more of a “catch”. What most women don’t know is it usually has the opposite effect than they desire. They think guys who are just in it for sex will walk away. But from my…
  • 6 Dating Truths Men Need to Hear But Don’t Want to

    Nick Notas
    28 Mar 2014 | 7:49 am
    Sugar-coated and sweet — it’s how we love to hear advice and criticism. Getting the truth straight up makes us uncomfortable. It can be painful. It forces us to see parts of ourselves that need to be improved or changed completely.  So it’s usually easier to avoid it altogether. Some of the most important lessons I’ve learned were not what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. Harsh realities made me defensive and stuck in denial. But deep down, I struggled so much because I knew they were true. Part of my job as dating coach is to occasionally dole out some of these harsh…
  • A Forum for Gladiators, Not Spectators

    Nick Notas
    25 Mar 2014 | 8:54 am
    I got into self-improvement and learning to be a more attractive person seven years ago.  Unfortunately, none of my friends joined in. Some of them were skeptical. They thought it was a waste of time or that it couldn’t be studied. Others didn’t have the courage to put themselves out there and socialize regularly.  If it weren’t for some guys I met through online forums, I wouldn’t be The Dating Specialist today.  We motivated each other to meet and connect with new people. We could talk about our struggles and ask for guidance without shame because we were growing…
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  • Artist Knits Herself a Boyfriend

    9 Apr 2014 | 8:21 am
    Vimeo, Noorte de Keijzer That’s one way of creating the perfect man!  One woman has found the answer to today’s desolate wasteland of a dating scene: she’s created her own boyfriend. I don’t mean that she’s actually thought up the perfect man – she actually knit him, with fabric and yarn. And if you think this takes the idea of ‘creating the perfect guy’ to a whole ‘nother level, well, you’d be right. Dutch artist Noortje de Keijzer has created a piece of art called ”My Knitted Boyfriend”, which serves…
  • Chris Martin & Gwyneth Paltrow Call It Quits

    26 Mar 2014 | 8:07 am
    Can anything last forever? I totally didn’t see this one coming. I – and many others – have been blindsided by Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin‘s announcement that, after 11 years o f marriage, they’re separating. Seriously, can anything last forever? Now, I know the Gwynnie haters, of which there are many, might I add, will sneer that this would obviously happen. An upper crust NYC princess with a laid-back (dare I say even geeky) British rocker boy? Did they ever have a chance?  To that I say YES, and one that seemed to me, at least, destined to last more…
  • Lena Dunham’s Love Advice

    19 Mar 2014 | 11:22 am
    I should probably be talking about The Bachelor and Juan Pablo whatever-his-last-name-is and whether he’ll make it with whatever-her-name-is, but I refuse to indulge in such nonsense. Finding true love on The Bachelor?  Meh. The reality is that they’re chances are slim to none. I also won’t write about something I genuinely love and can talk for hours about, which has absolutely no correlation to anything resembling romance at all (True Detective I miss you so much already!) and I will write about a woman who seemingly has it all, including absolute confidence in herself…
  • The Bad Boy: Bad Idea

    6 Mar 2014 | 8:55 am
    Image courtesy of Getty Images for Purity Vodka Lupita and Jared? Ashton and Mila? Say it ain’t so! Typically I don’t indulge in celebrity nonsense, but I heard two such upsetting celebrity stories this week that I literally wanted to bang my head against a wall. Oscar winners Lupita Nyong’o and Jared Leto were dating? Mila Kunis was dumb enough to actually get engaged to the cheating Ashton Kutcher? What the what?! What is it with bad boys? Why do we love them so? Let’s talk Lupita first, Hollywood’s awards season “It” girl. Back in the day we had…
  • TIME’s Marriage App

    20 Feb 2014 | 12:08 pm
    The clock’s a-ticking! I’m sure you’ve all heard about TIME magazine’s “Marriage app” for Facebook by now, and if you haven’t, then please, let me explain. Based on scientific algorithms, Facebook rifles through the friends listed as “married” on your account, and constructs an algorithm to tell you when you should be getting married. Algorithms, as we all know, are 100%, factually correct. Yes, I’m bullshitting you. This marriage app is about as correct as a Buzzfeed quiz. Here’s how it works. The app considers the amount of…
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    Sugar, Spice and a Little Advice

  • I’m a Blogger and GASP, It’s Not About You

    22 Apr 2014 | 11:32 am
    Now before any of you think I’m speaking of someone in particular, I’m not. I’m speaking to every man who’s ever spoken to me and has found out that I have an active blog.  One of the first things to be noticed on my blog is that it was initially for quite some time a relationship blog. While writing my blog, I’ve usually made it a point to poke fun at myself or publicly fall on my own relationship sword as a way to give some teaching moments but also to show others that the road to love is usually full of obstacles and awesomely bad dates. I never aimed to be…
  • Quote of Day

    16 Apr 2014 | 6:50 am
    Complaints  are not an acceptable way of making it through life.  If you’re moved to raise your voice for a cause, let it be for the right reason and be ready to follow through. You can’t expect change to happen if you’re not willing to light the torch and carry it to the end.
  • Quote of the Day

    15 Apr 2014 | 8:27 am
    Never be ashamed of your backstory. It is your origin and ensuing journey that has influenced what you are now. You can never be what you are without a beginning.
  • Quote of the Day

    11 Apr 2014 | 5:58 am
    Though sorrow comes, it does not diminish love. Peace cannot fail to join where there is love.
  • Quote of the Day

    7 Apr 2014 | 10:21 am
    Eat until you’re nourished. Gorge on knowledge.
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    WeLoveDates » Blog

  • The 10 Best Dating Articles We’ve Read This Week: April 18th

    Simone Paget
    17 Apr 2014 | 10:54 pm
    Hello We Love Daters! It’s been a super busy week online with tons of fantastic dating & relationship articles. Need some good reads for the weekend? Here are a few of our favourites - 1. Calling all mature daters! Are you tired of dating advice that’s always geared towards people in their 20′s and 30′s? Here’s why Mature Dating rocks. ( 2. Do you always feel tempted to e-research your dates before you meet them? Here’s why you should stop Googling your dates. (Glamour) 3. Ladies, are you in a dating rut? Here’s how to tell if you…
  • 15 Signs That Your Girlfriend Is a Bunny Boiler

    Alicia Drewnicki
    16 Apr 2014 | 8:00 pm
    Inspired by a scene from the movie “Fatal Attraction” where the family pet was given an unfortunate introduction to a saucepan, the phrase “bunny boiler” is used to describe an unhinged, scarily obsessive and extremely jealous woman. If you’re worried that your girlfriend may fit into the category of “bunny boiler”, here are fifteen warning signs to look out for. 1) She texts and calls you non-stop A bunny boiler will constantly bombard her boyfriend with messages and calls to keep tabs on him and make sure she knows where he is. She would probably be…
  • Dinner Makes the Worst First Date Ever

    Jess Downey
    15 Apr 2014 | 8:00 pm
    When I was a single lady, I hated first dates. There always seemed like so much to worry about and it felt exhausting. And I realize I may have put a little too much of something into a first date, but that’s how my brain works so I can’t totally help it. I always found a way to get excited about it. I thought about the possibilities or at least the fact that I could check out a new bar or spot in the city. But still, they rattled my nerves. However, if a guy suggested dinner as our destination, it completely killed everything. Almost instantly. Going to dinner on a first date is…
  • 10 Adventurous Brisbane Date Ideas

    Alicia Drewnicki
    14 Apr 2014 | 8:16 pm
    Sometimes meeting for a drink can feel repetitive, so why not break the norm and plan a more adventurous date next time? Here are ten ideas for the best fun-filled dates in Brisbane, Australia. 1) Hire A City Cycle and Enjoy a Bike Ride Get out in the fresh air and enjoy the marvellous scenery that Brisbane has to offer. Meander along the path of the Brisbane river and spend time exploring South Bank. If you fancy a break, stop and refuel with a coffee and a delicious cake at the Espresso Garage cafe. 2) Night Kayaking at Riverlife Centre If you want a date with a difference, then take part…
  • The Importance of Keeping Your Options Open

    Elizabeth Marie
    13 Apr 2014 | 9:31 pm
    We each have our favourite flavour of ice cream, right? A handful of friends prefer strawberry, while my personal favourite is mint choc and chip (though a colleague swears by cinnamon – which for the life of me, I’ll never comprehend). Yet sometimes it can be sickly sticking to the same flavour; and before you know it, you become bored with this repetition – a bit like dating. While the majority of people in my social circle enjoy switching up their tastes from time to time, I’m guilty of sticking to one type: tall, dark and dorky. If you look back at my dating history, it’s…
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  • Using .co instead of .com – The Land Rush Where Only a Few Get Rich

    David Briard
    16 Apr 2014 | 3:58 am
    I’ve been seeing a rise in the usage of .co as a domain name extension. Does your extension really matter and why are people choosing .co over .com anyways?First off, the concept of domain extensions already confuses (or bores!) laymen internet users. My client base, people who are smart and tech savvy – but who just don’t understand the whole aspect of building a beautiful, professional website from scratch – honestly don’t care what their extension is. They just want to do what everyone else is doing.Yet there are still people out there who worry what  the…
  • I’m Back! Plan, Build, Promote, Profit – South East Asia and The Laptop Lifestyle

    David Briard
    11 Apr 2014 | 5:14 am
    Hi everyone! EOD has not been updated in some time…It’s been over a month since I’ve posted anything. However, behind the scenes I’ve been very busy working on a bunch of projects and enjoying the laptop lifestyle.laptop lifestyle?Every year around  March and April I usually take off to enjoy the fruits of my labor. I travel extensively to new countries and work from my laptop.I’m actually not one of those types to show off by posting pictures of my computer at different cafes from around the world or pictures of me working from a beach. I’m actually at my…
  • Your Parents are Delusional about Creative Work

    David Briard
    7 Feb 2014 | 3:05 am
    Does the economy suck?If you have the expectations your parents had it most certainly does.I read the Huffington Post regularly, it’s one of the few places I can connect to while traveling abroad to keep in touch with what is going on back home in the US. It pains me to have to watch videos like this…Graduating from college, being tens of thousands of dollars in debt, and working at Walmart…nice effective use of resources. What kind of future are we going to have with an entire generation of people who can’t make enough money to take care of themselves?My heart goes out to those in…
  • 15 Powerful “Black” Web Page Design Inspirations

    David Briard
    29 Jan 2014 | 3:05 am
    I’m fond of black as a color in web designIt’s a beautiful pallet for more hot, vibrant colors as well having the reading experience a bit easier on the eyes. I know I know, EOD is blue and white…why not black? Because black is the color of sophistication, authority, rebellion, and aggression. All ideas I am not attempting to convey.Black is also not really black in web design – UsuallyBlack is a color that overpowers everything else on a web page. Black is a color that should be used sparingly in your design – in fact, many designers are told to avoid black all…
  • Technology as an Excuse – Stop Flooking Around

    David Briard
    20 Jan 2014 | 9:52 am
    Defeating technology as a barrierIt’s not about becoming a programmer or designer. It’s not about learning how to code plug-ins with JAVA script for Minecraft. It’s about leveraging technology. It’s about developing a basic understanding of the technologies at play when making a website. It’s about using those technologies to reach an audience.ResourcefulnessPeople are lazy. I’m lazy. It’s sad. The propensity we wall have to lay about, sometimes from being tired, sometimes from being sad, sometimes from the fear we feel when we know we have difficult…
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  • If Meeting Women, or Becoming More Successful with Women, Is Your #1 Priority, You Are…

    Stephen Nash
    13 Apr 2014 | 10:36 am
    Screwed. Yup. And I can back it up from personal experience. Anytime I place “women” at the top of my priority list, I AM SCREWED.  This includes any/all of these scenarios: ~ I want that “one special girl” ~ I want to get better at meeting women ~ I want to meet MORE women ~ I want more dates ~ The post If Meeting Women, or Becoming More Successful with Women, Is Your #1 Priority, You Are… appeared first on HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND.
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  • Fellas: What Not to Wear on a Spring Date

    4 Apr 2014 | 1:23 pm
    As the weather warms up, animals get frisky – and everyone’s ready for a spring date. After the dark days of winter, you might feel like it’s the right time to bust out the bright neon colors and shower sandals. You would be wrong. Don’t jump the season, and avoid these fashion missteps so that […]
  • Fantastic World Dating Customs

    25 Mar 2014 | 8:38 am
    America’s single men and women have a large amount of freedom to date who they want and how they want. Starting in high school or even before, Americans start testing the waters to try out potential mates for marriage or maybe just a good time. But other cultures offer a different perspective on dating and […]
  • The Overeager Texter and Caller

    18 Mar 2014 | 11:49 am
    Today we live in a world where human beings can be constantly connected to one another… and sometimes that’s a horrible thing. Introducing: The Overeager Texter and Caller. Actually, there’s no need to introduce this person – because you’ve no doubt already been on a date with The Overeager Texter and Caller. Turning their mobile […]
  • Date Song Pick of the Week: Flogging Molly – The Likes of You Again

    17 Mar 2014 | 10:46 am
    Flogging Molly – The Likes of You Again
  • Date Song Pick of the Week: David Gray – Be Mine

    10 Mar 2014 | 2:06 pm
    David Gray – Be Mine
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    The Indie Chicks

  • Announcing Our 2nd Annual Badass Blog Awards!

    The Indie Chicks
    24 Apr 2014 | 6:00 am
    We launched our online magazine on May 1st, 2012. With the help of about twenty bloggers, we dropped the veil and embarked on a journey that would lead us to where we are today, two whole years later. We couldn’t have launched...
  • Dating Myths: Stop Lying to Yourself

    Kelly Seal
    24 Apr 2014 | 4:00 am
    I live in Los Angeles and I hear women complain about the dating scene all the time. Who can blame them? It’s L.A. – “where dating goes to die” according to one cheery blog. “There just aren’t any good men...
  • How to Hit on a Guy

    Chiara Mazzucco
    23 Apr 2014 | 7:00 am
    Don’t get me wrong, I’m definitely still a fan of the traditional wink-and-wait. I just personally think it’s a bore - for me. Why wait for life to happen? Wouldn’t you rather know whether or not something’s going to happen, and...
  • 5 Ways to Make your Relationship Better

    Chrystal Rose
    23 Apr 2014 | 4:00 am
    Chances are if you have a great relationship, it didn’t get that way from the two of you being attached at the hip. While my boyfriend and I spend an exorbitant amount of time together–there are plenty of things we...
  • Do You Ever Question Your Sexuality?

    Julie Zantopoulos
    22 Apr 2014 | 7:00 am
    It should go without saying that it’s perfectly normal to question your sexuality. Unfortunately, it doesn’t. In a world where coming out is no longer as big a deal as it once was, for some reason, people still fear letting...
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  • What was your first date like?

    Jessica Druck
    22 Apr 2014 | 7:30 am
    First dates. Don'tcha love them? I wrote about my experience here, and if you're too lazy to read it, here's the CliffsNotes version: I was too shy to eat my food, I barely said a word the entire time and then my jeans ripped in the crotch mid-date, but since I was too embarrassed to say anything, I instead walked like a penguin for the rest of the night trying to conceal the rip with my purse. Don't pity me. Yes, first dates tend to be terrifying for most at the time, but years later, all you can do is look back and laugh. So in the spirit of first dates, I asked a few friends to…
  • 8 inspiring engagement stories

    Jessica Druck
    27 Mar 2014 | 7:00 am
    I never used to be the type to melt over stuff like weddings, probably because of this and this. It just wasn't me to look at engagement rings or dream up wedding dresses. While I'm still not really that girl, the idea of love has totally changed for me over the years as I myself have experienced it incredibly, and I've watched so many friends fall in love too.So, I'm very excited to share one of my favorite Instagram accounts, @Stone_Fox_Bride. If you aren't familiar, they're a bridal shop specializing in unique rings, dresses, veils and even everyday clothing.What drew me to them is their…
  • First Kiss with a Stranger

    Jessica Druck
    12 Mar 2014 | 8:16 am
    We all remember our first kiss with a person; no matter how good or bad, it's a moment that's unforgettable which is why this short film by LA based filmmaker Tatia Pilieva really sang to me. Pilieva captured 20 strangers locking lips for the very first time in First Kiss, a video that romantically documents every emotion during that pivotal moment.Surprisingly, after a few minutes of nervous conversation between each couple, every one of them passionately embraced leaving you wondering, hoping, that's how good any of your first kisses looked. Enjoy...What did you think? 
  • 3 Date Night Ideas for Staying In

    Jessica Druck
    10 Mar 2014 | 8:39 am
    Date nights aren’t cheap. I don’t care if you’ve been together for years or a few months, unless you’re dining at Costco (which I’m totally not opposed to because a $1.50 hot dog and drink combo is unbeatable), then your credit card could probably use a break.Dinner, movies, drinks, concerts, museums - that shit adds up! And if you’re trying to impress your lady, or at least trying to keep the spark alive, you could go broke over steak frites. So I stand write before you with three date night ideas for staying IN. Now don’t get me wrong, I love going out, but a night in…
  • Love Story No. 13: Making the Same Mistake Twice

    Jessica Druck
    3 Mar 2014 | 8:31 am
    “We” were something, or maybe not anything at all. We talked every day, texted every day and saw each other frequently on the weekends. We held hands.But apparently that doesn't mean anything, at least from his end and from what I assume.Although he was an attention seeking whore and immature half the time, something about him drew me in. It was definitely his charm.He had a way to make you feel special. You know, the type that says the right words to slowly make you fall for him? With any small gesture, such as bringing you flowers to your meeting “just because” to make you fall…
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  • Break Up Recovery Tips to Get You Back in the Dating Game- Part 2

    Dating Headshots
    24 Apr 2014 | 5:02 am
    We have more Break Up Recovery Tips for you today.  Break ups are painful, but you will recover. It just takes time. How much time depends on you, how invested you were in the relationship, how long you were together, the circumstances that tore you apart and your approach to break-up recovery. When you’re done wallowing in self-pity, blaming your ex and picking apart every minute of your life together — all perfectly normal responses to a bad breakup – it’s time to close the book on your old relationship and embrace the new chapter in your life that is about to begin. The road…
  • Break Up Recovery Tips to Get You Back in the Dating Game!

    Dating Headshots
    22 Apr 2014 | 7:28 am
    Breaking up is hard to do, that’s why we created these break up recovery tips just for you.  Recovering from a nasty breakup can be very hard, particularly if you’re the one who got dumped. Nothing hurts more than rejection. A nasty break up, especially if you were married or in a long-term relationship, can leave emotional scars and make you gun-shy about getting back into the dating game. But a bad break up doesn’t have to be the death knell of your dating career. You can recover, throw off your emotional baggage and find love again. Don’t expect recovery to happen over night.
  • Online Sites for Group Dates or Double Dating

    Dating Headshots
    15 Apr 2014 | 5:04 am
    Have you tried online sites for group dates? When people look for dating tips, they often focus on dates between two people. But what about double dates or “group dates” where a number of people gather to flirt and enjoy each other’s company? If you would prefer to meet people in pairs, there are online dating sites that exist to help people go on double dates to get to know new people, as well as sites for groups of people to get together. Some people find it nerve-wracking or awkward to meet a date one-on-one and may be more relaxed if they can have a friend there, so for…
  • Too Soon to Invite Your Date Home for Easter?

    Dating Headshots
    10 Apr 2014 | 6:55 am
    With Easter just around the corner, many families will be gathering.  So is it Too Soon to Invite Your Date Home for Easter?  If you’re dating someone you met online, holidays and special family events frequently raise the questions: When is it time to take your date home to meet the family? When do you know when it’s the right time?  Have you been dating this person long enough? Taking your special someone home to meet the family doesn’t have the same impact today that it had a few of generations ago. As unbelievable as it may seem in today’s enlightened times, in your…
  • Chicago Dating Headshots Photographer- Paul

    Dating Headshots
    8 Apr 2014 | 6:36 am
    We know it can be hard to choose a photographer for your online dating photos.  With this new segment of our blog called “Photographer Introductions”, we will highlight some of the Dating Headshots photographers so that you can get to know them a little better.  We would like to introduce you to Chicago Dating Headshots Photographer, Paul.  He enjoys taking care of our Chicago clients. Here is our Q&A with him: 1. Where is your studio located? My studio is a 4200 sq. ft. space conveniently located just 10 minutes from the downtown area of Chicago. 2. Where do you like to shoot…
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    The Introverted Playboy

  • Don’t be a “nice guy,” be a good guy – The myth of the nice guy

    22 Apr 2014 | 3:28 pm
    Most attractive women are quite familiar with the so-called “nice guy.” He’s not an actual nice guy, he’s a guy who acts nice in order to get in her pants. Women quickly learn this when they are in their teens and early twenties. They figure out very soon that most apparently “nice” guys are actually hiding their true intentions. They are not really being nice to the girl for the sake of being nice. They are being nice for the purpose of getting something from her. It’s not genuine niceness, it’s niceness with an ulterior motive. This is the…
  • Hot girl picking up girls and getting their phone numbers video

    15 Apr 2014 | 1:09 am
    This funny video features a hot girl asking other girls for their number for a date. Perhaps unsurprisingly, she gets it most of the time, either straight away or with a little persistence. As we know, getting phone numbers from strangers is very easy. What would be more interesting is if we could see whether she actually got these girls out on a date. That would tell us a lot more about her “game.” A phone number is a very low level of investment. Most guys realize that, although they can get a very high success rate with phone numbers, there is a huge drop off in success at the…
  • The fallacy of the sexy outfit: 6 nonsexual reasons for her sexy clothes

    13 Apr 2014 | 3:18 pm
    The common belief is that a girl in a sexy outfit is “looking to meet guys.” Not necessarily. The reason we might think this is because we project our desires onto her. We see her in skimpy clothes, and we want to have sex with her, so we assume “wow, look at how much she is turning me on, she must really want sex.” First of all, not all girls in sexy outfits are looking for guys/ looking for quick sex. And second, among girls who are not dressed in a sexy outfit, many of them are open to meeting men/ having quick sex. Here are some very common reasons why a girl…
  • Difference between a pickup artist and a lifestyle artist

    7 Apr 2014 | 8:22 pm
    You could focus on pickup and game. Or you could improve your overall life so that beautiful, attractive women just naturally come into it. Here are some differences between a pickup artist (a guy who focuses on learning and developing the skill of meeting and attracting women) and what we might call a “lifestyle” artist. (I’m sure someone came up with that term before me, but I can’t recall who). Meeting new women: PUA: Go out “sarging” on a regular basis to do day game, night game or a combination of both. Dedicate a certain amount of time every week to…
  • Breaking rapport: is it necessary to develop attraction with women?

    5 Apr 2014 | 9:43 am
    The original purpose of “breaking rapport” from the PUA standpoint was to demonstrate that you have options, you don’t really care one way or the other whether the girl accepts you or rejects you. This was considered necessary because (1) if a guy is approaching a girl, he is automatically conveying interest and desire (which lowers his value), and (2) most guys express too much interest unconsciously through their body language and nonverbal communication. For both of these reasons, the guy has to compensate in the other direction by breaking rapport or teasing, and…
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    Dating Site Reviews

  • App Coming Soon…”The Last Honest Dating App!”

    Jason Lee
    9 Apr 2014 | 4:58 am
    Hiya Friends! I’ve been traveling this past week and so you will have to forgive me for the lack of updates. Rest assured I did not get hit by any trains or fall off the edge of the earth but rather I have just been transitioning back to Thailand where I’ve spent a good portion of the last few years completing my MBA. My mission now besides my daily musings on dating sites is studying Thai and hopefully eating more
  • ( NEW! ) Online Dating Industry Google Plus Community

    Jason Lee
    26 Mar 2014 | 12:01 pm
    Greetings and salutations fellow online dating industry professionals. I just wanted to pass along a note that we have created a Google Plus community for Online Dating Industry Professionals. In light of the absence of such a group it seemed fairly clear someone needed to do it. I will be adding administrators as more people join in order to make sure all views and interests are well represented within the group. Also we hope to develop permanent links with your
  • ’8 Online Dating’, Interview with Founder of Cheek’d Online Dating Site, Lori Cheek

    Jason Lee
    23 Mar 2014 | 10:03 am
    Today, I wanted to share an interview we just had with Lori Cheek, Founder and CEO of Cheek’d dating service. So perhaps some of you are asking what is Cheek’d? The Cheek’d website itself describes the service by saying,  ‘Cheek’d makes introducing yourself to an intriguing stranger less intimidating by combining the charm of witty, old school calling cards with the power of the internet. It’s like online dating, backwards’.  Here is how it works, in a nutshell: When you
  • ’8 on Online Dating’, Interview with DatingFactory Co-Founder & CEO Tanya Fathers

    Jason Lee
    20 Mar 2014 | 3:16 am
    For those of you who may not already be familiar with the company, DatingFactory is a leading private label dating site platform that provides anyone and everyone a one stop solution to start your own online dating business. Partners can register with and within minutes be able to create a full branded online dating site that is ready to market. The dating site platform is responsive and 100% mobile friendly as well as available in some 20+ languages. The
  • Interview with Scott Valdez, Founder of Virtual Dating Assistants

    Jason Lee
    18 Mar 2014 | 12:09 am
    Everywhere I turn it seem that Date Coaching seems to be growing ever more common with the ladies. However, the one thing that has always baffled me is why ladies pay so much for something that could cost them a lot less? (Or at least I have always thought so..) Admittedly, I am not an expert on the date coaching business or on other business models that help you locate a date or manage your online dating life. This is
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    Lifebytes Real Stories

  • Sexy Board Games

    Mariann O'Connor
    23 Apr 2014 | 8:15 am
    Sexy Board Games rule in the bedroom! Have you tried it? Well, if you have not, then I strongly recommend you break out the sexy board game and have a little fun at the roll of the dice or the spin of the wheel. Not sure what to do in the bedoom? That is OK. […]The post Sexy Board Games appeared first on Lifebytes Real Stories.
  • A Time For Reflection

    Mariann O'Connor
    18 Apr 2014 | 6:57 am
    Sharon and I would like to thank all of our readers and supporters of LifeBytes™ for being there for us. We appreciate it. We know people’s schedule are busy and you can spend your time doing a lot of other things than reading our blog or attending our book events. So, as this is a […]The post A Time For Reflection appeared first on Lifebytes Real Stories.
  • First Sex Jitters

    Mariann O'Connor
    9 Apr 2014 | 5:48 am
    You have been dating for awhile and you really like each other. The chemistry is there and the sexual attraction is palpable. But, you don’t like to rush physically into relationships so you take your time to get the know the person. In doing so, the sexual tension builds and you feel like a ticking […]The post First Sex Jitters appeared first on Lifebytes Real Stories.
  • Cooking Up Sexy In The Kitchen

    Mariann O'Connor
    3 Apr 2014 | 6:54 am
    Cooking is in. Cooking is popular. Cooking is hot. Cooking is fun. Cooking is sexy! So, if you haven’t been cooking lately, then you should run into the kitchen and start. Not sure how? Get a cookbook or look up some fun recipes online and start cooking up sexy in the kitchen. I love to cook, but […]The post Cooking Up Sexy In The Kitchen appeared first on Lifebytes Real Stories.
  • The Gift Of An Experience

    Shar & Mare
    12 Mar 2014 | 6:17 am
    Whether it is a holiday or a birthday, the gift of an experience will have long lasting memories. Sometimes, I wonder how many shirts, ties or bottles of scotch I can buy for a guy. But an activity or adventure is always more fun for a gift or date. Whether it is something just for […]The post The Gift Of An Experience appeared first on Lifebytes Real Stories.
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    Dating Sites XO

  • My Lovely Parent

    Heather Dundon
    24 Apr 2014 | 10:45 am
    My Lovely Parent makes it easy for friends and family members of older, lonely singles to help them start dating online!
  • Are You Interested

    Heather Dundon
    10 Apr 2014 | 6:11 am is one of the largest dating sites in the world, using Facebook to extract member data. It's young, fun, and fast-moving and it's free (if you want it to be!)
  • Cheek’d

    Heather Dundon
    3 Apr 2014 | 7:28 am
    Cheek'd is a cheeky idea in online dating. Instead of sifting through endless profiles users hand out real-word calling cards to sexy singles they want to know better!
  • Should I Go On That Dating Reality Show?

    Heather Dundon
    2 Apr 2014 | 9:01 pm
    Would you want to get cast on a dating reality show?
  • Albanian Personals

    Heather Dundon
    27 Mar 2014 | 6:22 am
    Albanian Personals is one of the largest Albanian Dating sites in the world and specializes in matching Albanian singles for love and marriage.
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    Uncracked Balls

  • Worn-out - Poetry

    11 Apr 2014 | 6:21 am
    There was a rough manHe gets very very oldHe can see what inside youIf you’re really out of soulHe’s baggy and junkieSmelling like Indian clothesHe’s old and saggyBut he never gets boredThe dust and the dirtHe just shrugs it offThe woman he touchesThe scent was his scoreHe’s hanging and waitingFor someone to dieWhen he’s not loved and neededHe’ll say his goodbyeRelated posts1) SNAFU2) Stinky Mary - Lyrics3) How to Get a Girl’s Number4) How to Approach a Girl- John Castle | UncrackedBalls
  • What is a Man?

    10 Apr 2014 | 6:03 am
    A man is he who walks tall. He shows the world that he’s a protector, that he can protect himself and his loved ones.A man is he who can walk to a woman and say she’s beautiful without being embarrassed and apologetic because he knows he’s just giving a compliment. He can appreciate beauty.A man is he who drinks beer because he knows how to have a good time. He don’t let the everyday crushing pressure of the real world interfere with the richness of his life as a social being. A man is he who plays sports and works his ass out because he knows that his body and his strength is the…
  • Living in Sin – A Story

    3 Apr 2014 | 5:48 am
    There are dark days in a man’s life and one of those are the times that he don’t believe in love.Her name is Rin (not her real name) and she met me when I think that women are just toys. In my fucked-up mind, they are just instruments for my own amusement, for my own desires, for my sexual gratification.It was a rainy Friday night (I guess. In my dark adulterous times, I lose track of days.) She was then a nursing student in a school with reputation of girls wearing pink panties with matching pink bras. She was beautiful in her own right. A sexual demeanor with playboy bunny-like body.
  • How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 2

    28 Mar 2014 | 7:46 pm
    How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 1Kissing techniquesThe close your eyesTell the girl to close her eyes in the middle of conversation or dancing. If she resist, tell her you won’t kiss her. If she closed her eyes, you know what to do. Note: The girl knows what’s happening here – she knows that you will kiss her. She just doesn’t want to look like a slut. She wants to be a victim – the victim of the circumstance. It’s called the victim mentality. If she closes her eyes, there’s a 100% that you will be able to kiss her (obviously). Another Note: Build sufficient sexual…
  • How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 1

    27 Mar 2014 | 7:36 pm
    IntroductionKissing a girl in a club is not only a natural phenomenon but also an acceptable form of fornication in our culture. The exchange of saliva and other body fluids with a stranger in a club is viewed as fun, exciting, and sexy. The only disgusting or nauseating thing you can found in clubs is two guys eating each other faces. It’s opposite, two girls making out, gives us the hardest boner.Kissing makes our body excrete serotonin (the good feeling hormone) that makes us happy as a villain. Ecstasy too has the same effect but unlike kissing, it’s not free, can cause hormonal…
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    Bachelor Uncut

  • Ivanabitch & BachelorUNCUT: Kindred Spirits!

    Bachelor Uncut
    23 Apr 2014 | 10:05 am
    Spread the word folks: There’s a new ‘bitch’ on the block, and it tastes good! Anyone who thinks there’s nothing better than sex has never known the joys of discovering a great new vodka (though I am biased, since the stuff pretty much flows through my veins at this point). And as someone who worships at the altar of whoever invented it, I’m as picky with vodka as…well, you know… So imagine my surprise when the folks at Ivanabitch came a knockin’ with an offer I couldn’t refuse: Become one of the lucky few Canadians to try a vodka that’s already made a…
  • If Jesus Were Alive Today…

    Bachelor Uncut
    21 Apr 2014 | 11:13 am
    He’d be one hell of a Mac Daddy. And here’s why… Jesus Christ is indeed a superstar. But how might today’s world look if he decided to make 2014 his comeback year? Probably something like this: He’d give Jared Leto a run for his money. Who else can pull off the long locks and facial hair better than the son of God himself? He’d Probably Stay Single. Why? Cause he’d be traumatized after seeing this: Or, He’d Be in a Casually-Exclusive Relationship Since he never got around to tying the knot in his first incarnation, he may very well opt for a…
  • The Top Five Worst Break-Up Lines EVER!

    Bachelor Uncut
    18 Apr 2014 | 9:20 am
    It’s ok to lie, especially when you have the worst possible reason to end a relationship. Breaking up is easy, unless you suffer from verbal diarrhea, in which case you’d probably want to get creative and come up with something—anything!—else to give your relationship the big kiss-off. Proving that, sometimes, silence is golden (and that some peeps were just meant to be single for life), here are the Top Five Worst Break-Up Lines of all time. Click “Next” to get started, and to discover the one thing that a man prefers more than a woman in the flesh…
  • Dear Rita Ora: Use Me, Abuse Me!

    Bachelor Uncut
    16 Apr 2014 | 2:53 pm
    If objectifying men is wrong, I don’t wanna be right. “Uh-oh! Girls are getting wet over a guy’s body! Why so cruel God? Why?!” If you can picture me saying that in an uber-sarcastic voice, while rubbing my non-existent pecs, you can pretty much sum up my mood right now. Actually, I haven’t laughed this hard in a LONG time, reading how everyone is losing their shit over this Zac Efron “controversy.” Apparently, Efron getting his shirt ripped open at the recent MTV Movie Awards has offended tons of people who don’t like seeing a man get sexually-exploited in front of a…
  • Oops, I Married A Racist!

    Bachelor Uncut
    14 Apr 2014 | 3:27 pm
    That awkward moment when you learn something new about your partner…a little too late. So, you finally found someone who could make you laugh, has a solid career and is great in bed. And you think to yourself, “I hit the jackpot!” Only problem? Your pot of gold has the stench of racism wafting out of it. Yup, you married a bigot. Suddenly, your annoying mother-in-law is the least of your worries. Whether it’s snoring louder than a freight train, or being a total slob around the house, there will always be some surprises (read: character defects) that rear their ugly head once you…
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    Tao System Of Badass

  • How to attract women by developing your innner game

    Alauddin Mia
    7 Apr 2014 | 11:25 am
    A lot has been said and written on how to make one a success with women. Usually its the cheeky one-liners and the do’s and don’ts on how to respond to certain scenarios. However, when you get to nurture your inner game, one can easily arouse attraction form women without knowledge, it comes easily without dropping those sneaky techniques or memorized lines. Intelligent women can easily get to tell when you’re simply doing the motions and will often call you out on it. So, what does one need to do in order to raise your inner game? Well, since it’s supposed to be…
  • How to make your girlfriend ready for marrige

    Alauddin Mia
    4 Mar 2014 | 6:46 pm
    Some women wait and wait for their girlfriend to propose and say those magic words of, will you marry me. In some cases, it can be years before he decides it is time. Why does he procrastinate about asking? Most of the women are willing and able and that’s half the battle. However, the other half seems to be standing off to the side and doing nothing. Women feel that marriage binds the commitment and unifies their relationship. Marriage is a huge step and a decision that shouldn’t be made in haste. It takes time to make sure that the two of you are compatible and establish a common ground…
  • Ways to start dating multiple women

    Alauddin Mia
    2 Mar 2014 | 9:46 pm
    While dating more than one woman may not be for every guy, the majority of men have at least thought about it and many have wanted to try it The main drawback for most men, is that it can be difficult enough to manage one woman let alone several. With just a few pointers, any man can successfully date more than one woman at a time and still have a fun and stress free time without any embarrassing dramatics. Dating Multiple Women Many men simply assume that women will not even consider dating multiple partners, but the dating scene is steadily changing. It is taking couples longer to settle…
  • How to make a woman to fall in love with you

    Alauddin Mia
    25 Feb 2014 | 10:59 pm
    Well, If you are a man want to make a woman to fall in love with you, you should be determined, positive and hopeful enough and apply some simple and easy to follow practices to garner his attention, at the same time not exemplifying to be too desperate or begging. Encourage his feelings in the right direction. If you fallen in love with a woman and want her to feel the same about you, you should work towards encouraging her feelings in the right direction, but all this needs to be done with subtleness and a bit of consideration. Your smile is your best weapon. Smile well and smile often;…
  • Utilize eye contact techniques to create powerful attraction

    Alauddin Mia
    17 Feb 2014 | 7:01 pm
    Role of eyes in creating powerful attractive forces find use in use in every field of social dealings today. Utilize eye contact techniques to create powerful attraction. Communication Social dominance Social interaction for developing meaningful relationships Aggression Scapegoating Shyness Altruism The first five are the positive projections of the eye contact methods. The last two are the softer aspects that nevertheless find mention because they form a limit of interaction. One should utilize eye contact techniques to create powerful attraction. History of Body language and Eye Contact…
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    Date My Pet

  • Pet vs. Partner Gifting – Who Will You Favour?

    Amilia Davidson
    17 Apr 2014 | 9:37 am
    Globally, pets are a huge part of most of our lives. We cannot live without them; we treat them like family members, we pamper them silly, we sometimes treat them better than our partners or spouse… Recent research has shown surprising figures on just how much we rely on our pets’ judge of character when [&hellip
  • 5 Things You Should Avoid Talking About On A First Date

    Mihaela Schwartz
    17 Apr 2014 | 9:22 am
    A first date can be the first chapter of a fairy tale, but it can also be a total disaster just because you touched an “untouchable” topic. Finding love seems so easy in the movies, but is it the same in real life? Romance doesn’t always fly smoothly, and finding your soul mate is not [&hellip
  • 6 Questions Couples Should Consider Before Getting A Pet

    Date My Pet Staff
    17 Apr 2014 | 9:12 am
    Picture it: You’ve found that special someone, and your relationship is fantastic. But what do you do when your significant other suggests taking the leap and making a commitment to each other…by getting a pet? Before you add that new dog or cat to your lives, consider keeping the following questions in mind. “Do we [&hellip
  • 3 Tips To Dating During Exam Period

    Connor Lamoureux
    8 Apr 2014 | 4:13 pm
    It’s that time of year again. Exam period has snuck up on you and has already become the bane of your existence. Countless all-nighters, days of stress and hours of cramming is what your life as a student consists of. I’ve already walked around campus and felt like I was in a zombie apocalypse- that’s [&hellip
  • Can Pet Allergies and Dating Coexist?

    Catherine Monreal
    8 Apr 2014 | 4:03 pm
    So, you have found someone that you want to get to know better. When you talk to them, whether in-person or online, there is a smile on your face. You feel that things couldn’t get any better then they are, and then you learn that they have a pet that you are allergic to. What’s [&hellip
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    PRO Magic of Making Up

  • How to Make Your Relationship The Ultimate Power Couple

    Bill Achola
    9 Apr 2014 | 8:15 am
    Have you ever thought about becoming famous? You most probably have and let's face it, we all do. It's safe to assume that we think of it daily.It's simply part of human nature, it's hard-wired into our brains, so to speak, and that will never change. We all read celebrity news daily, stories about Jay Z and Beyoncé for example.It's natural that we want to be famous. And as they say: "The primary desire of all human being is escaping anonymity."Now, this is all understandable, but how is it achieved in this day and age?If you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend, you have probably…
  • What Can The Tao of Badass Teach Us on How to Date a Divorced Man with a Child

    Bill Achola
    3 Apr 2014 | 2:59 am
    Don't you think that the dating world is far too complicated these days? Off course it is and it's like that for most people, but especially for divorced men with children. If you fall into this category, or if you're a woman who wants to date a man who is a single dad, you'll definitely agree. Needles to say, in our society, pop culture dictates everything and has therefore created a mass consciousness with clearly set and defined parameters of:what dating iswhat attractive is and what relationships are. And as they say: "Consciousness dictates…
  • The Metallica Guide on How to Get Your EX Back (Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!)

    Bill Achola
    16 Mar 2014 | 5:31 am
    Well, in this blog post you'll learn how to get your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back in 6 easy steps.If i may ask,Is your ex ignoring you?Are they seeing someone else?Need to get your ex back fast?If you're reviewing this right now, you're most likely experiencing over the loss of a person you adore greatly. I understand you have lost your lover, and I comprehend that the worst pain you can imagine is having the person that you enjoy the most inform you they don't desire you any longer.Quick Note: Have you ever broken up with the love of your life and…
  • How To Be in Love With a Church Girl

    Bill Achola
    14 Mar 2014 | 4:11 am
    Spiritual interest is one of the most precious things that couples can share in life, yet more often than not, people find themselves entangled in an affair with someone who has no idea of spirituality.Imagine a lady from a very strong Christian family meeting a worldly man who only believes that the closer you are to the Church, the far from God you are. This is the kind of guy who deals in drugs, smuggling and irresponsible sexual behavior.A lady from a strong Christian family believes in the Biblical account of marriage, that it should be sanctified and approved by God…
  • Why Do Men Love Bitches Who Are Like Circus Poodle?

    Bill Achola
    11 Mar 2014 | 6:48 am
    By accord, it may effectively be announced as a standout amongst the most prominent inquiries of the century.  An inquiry each young lady looks for a respond in due order regarding. You might discover the spot excessively sweet and giving kind occupied with the talk all the more frequently in this way, particularly each one time the sultry-cheeky meaner combo takes the "portion" away. A lady's aide to standing her Ground in the connections' rightly chosen to fulfill the kind every touch, by thundering out uproarious that Bitch is the best approach to be! Cautioning: The…
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    The DayGame

  • the Good, the Bad and the Ugly Body Language of Attraction

    Serge Solonenko
    24 Apr 2014 | 9:00 pm
    the Ugly Truth Behind Body Language of Attraction   The nature of daygame is to approach girls in situations where they can’t possible know anything about you other than what you display during the conversation. Daygame is a place where the battle field can be equalized. In this type of game you are competing on your well-practiced basics of body language of attraction, displayed through your charismatic value and strong frame control. The Good in “Body Language of Attraction” -  You are competing on your own field. You’ve spent years developing precisely the social…
  • Texting a Girl You Like After Meeting Her in Daygame

    Serge Solonenko
    24 Apr 2014 | 12:16 pm
    Texting a Girl After Daygame Pickup Now that you have a girls’ contact details you must do something about it. Texting a girl immediately after daygame pickup may not be the best option. Why? She has disappeared into the crowd, and within minutes the electricity you created will fade and the rapport between the two of you will weaken. She is no longer directly within your aura of masculine dominance and the love bubble will pop. The paragraphs below details how to use digital communication to get her out onto a date.     Ultimately you are facing two possibilities here: Short…
  • Why is Body Language Training in Daygame Useless?

    Serge Solonenko
    23 Apr 2014 | 9:00 pm
    Body Language Training in Daygame     Body language training in daygame is useless because it’s all about inner game, limiting beliefs, and a ton of practice. Let me elaborate further on this and prove to you that it’s vital to master your inner state, emotions, resolve inner conflicts and establish an unbreakable core full of confidence. I can guarantee you that, ultimately if you take care of those points above, and the ones I cover below, you won’t need time to waste on body language training, as it will take care of itself automatically . Inner game: Inner game…
  • 3 Body Language Attraction Principles to Get the Girl

    Serge Solonenko
    22 Apr 2014 | 9:30 pm
     3 Advanced Body Language Attraction Principles   The undeniable truth about developing body language attraction is that when you’re new to the game, your first couple of years approaching girls, processing feedback, straightening out your inner game, and so on, will lead to a deep-level identity change. However, your first 1500 approaches you don’t really have charismatic value just yet and your game is a bit of a pretense. At this point your game is just a value hologram instead of a real authentic thing. When you get all your issues sorted out, work on strong projecting body…
  • 3 Steps on How To Read Body Language in Daygame

    Serge Solonenko
    22 Apr 2014 | 12:57 pm
    How To Read Body Language in Daygame Fix your own mistakes by addressing your own body language flaws  If you want to know how to read body language, you have to understand it’s not an exact science. The insights I’m going to discuss below are merely insightful ideas to help you get proper understanding of how you’re doing in your interactions with women. The best way to learn how to read body language is to go out and literally practice it. Learning theory on body language and reading a body language pdf or taking body language courses is a great idea, but theory is only half the…
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  • 10 Effective Ways To Get A Girl To Like You

    James Buzinko
    2 Apr 2014 | 12:21 am
    How do you get a girl to like you? That is the question that millions of boys ask every day, and is it any wonder? Putting yourself out there and telling a lady you like her is one of the hardest things to do, so it makes sense that you would want to be prepared […]
  • The Perfect Lap Dance: 4 Tips & 5 Moves That Will Get Him

    James Buzinko
    1 Apr 2014 | 2:51 am
    You don’t have to be a professional stripper to give your man a lap dance he’s going to remember for a long time to come. All you really have to do is do 4 simple tips and 5 easy moves. These are a great way to drive him into a sexual frenzy, show him how […]
  • 8 Character Traits Of The Perfect Dominatrix

    James Buzinko
    31 Mar 2014 | 2:27 pm
    Being a dominatrix can provide you with the utmost amount of confidence and a clear understanding of discipline. As a woman who takes the primary dominant role in a sexual relationship, you can either be a paid one or you can simply participate in the act for fun. Either way, there are several characteristics that […]
  • 4 Vital Tools For Every Dominatrix

    James Buzinko
    31 Mar 2014 | 6:53 am
    There is a ton of fun to be had when you’re into the kinkier side of sexuality. The practice of BDSM has been around for many, many decades, even before it was officially given that well-known four-letter acronym. [Save Your Money! America’s Top 13 Sex Shops That Rock] It encompasses a wide spectrum of practices and […]
  • 8 Sure Signs That A Girl Likes You

    James Buzinko
    29 Mar 2014 | 12:32 pm
    Sometimes when the genders try to communicate, they give new meaning to the old adage that says “Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars”. Dudes and chicks simply communicate in different ways. This leaves room for a lot of confusion to anyone trying to explore the inter-gender “galaxy”. There is no worse time for this […]
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    Mesh Blog

  • Monday’s Mix: Start New

    21 Apr 2014 | 10:31 am
    I thought I’d never get over the world of hurt that followed my first breakup, but I did, with the help of some aides: time, friends, and music. Here are ten songs that bestow the cathartic power of music, and remind you to keep your chin up, because you can always chuck out the old and start new.
  • Mesh Makes us Fall in Love with Online Dating Again

    14 Apr 2014 | 2:15 am
    “Online dating is like a box of chocolates,” joked my friend Jen, after her date arrived 30 minutes late reeking of booze. “You never know what you’re going to get!” If you’re single like us, you’re probably all too familiar with the pitfalls of online dating: the inbox full of lame one-liners and the random matches that make you feel like you’re playing Russian roulette. And let’s not even get into the sketchy older guys or the trendy tiger huggers. No thanks! Mesh changes this. We spent a year reimagining online dating and made it better with smarter matching, better…
  • We See You and We Welcome You

    14 Apr 2014 | 2:08 am
    Sexuality and gender aren’t black and white, and the LGBTQ community has made great strides in pushing that point. But some people didn’t get the memo. Despite a growing demand for visibility, mainstream dating sites still don’t include queer and transgender as options. And why is that? Let’s be real. It’s because they’re businesses, and the people who run them have money on their minds. They think that by adding options that aren’t widely understood or accepted, they’ll risk scaring off their main contributors: cisgender and straight users. So even though most of them…
  • How to Bring Romance into Online Dating Messages: Poetic Tricks for the Digital Age

    11 Apr 2014 | 12:10 pm
    Correct us if we’re wrong, but as far as we know, zero great literary and cinematic love stories ever began with the phrase, “wut r u up 2 2nite?”. Alas as the age of digital love prevails further by the second, it is your job, dear daters, to find fresh ways to incorporate romance into new relationships. Don’t stress just yet. After all, unlike to picking up someone at a bar, online dating provides loads of opportunities for written expression and correspondence between potential soul mates. To sum it up, a few tricks from poetry 101 is all it takes to turn your profile and messages…
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  • Laying Rest to One of the Biggest Myths of Over 40’s Dating

    4 Apr 2014 | 2:59 am
    Laying Rest to One of the Biggest Myths of Over 40’s Dating Online dating can be a daunting prospect for anyone. You roll the dice, and then for an indeterminate period you’ll experience everything from sheer joy and elation to frustration, hopelessness and boredom. For some people, online dating is a great way to be social. For others it’s a period of anxiety, trying to present themselves in the perfect way and obsessing over online dating etiquette in order to find the right match. In a recent survey it was revealed that the number one challenge for women engaging in over forties…
  • Dating over 40 – Top 5 Tips to Have a Successful Relationship

    19 Mar 2014 | 9:13 am
    Have you crossed 40, but willing to date with some good relation? Don’t feel ashamed to share your desire with any. Dating over 40 is not a matter of being shy or shameful; modern society definitely accepts your wish in positive way. Dating over 40 has become common now days; it indicates your youth and love hidden within you. Looking for a serious relation or a date for fun, whatever it is you will be having great fun for sure. Do you know why survey concludes that 40+ is the ideal age for dating? Its al because of their experience and way of thinking as well as behavior compared to the…
  • Over Forties Online Dating Tips – Mature Dating is Alive and Well!

    7 Mar 2014 | 8:11 am
    Commonly, when we think of ‘online dating’ our minds quickly snap to people in their twenties and thirties, but over the past few years all that has changed. The over forties dating scene is growing in numbers and becoming a vibrant and exciting place to date and meet that significant other. Initially, the idea of online dating may seem daunting or even scary, but the dating community has grown up and moved on since its inception all those years ago and there’s really nothing more to fear. Here are few tips and ideas on dating etiquette for the over 40′s and how to get…
  • How To Make a Good First Impression When Online Dating

    25 Feb 2014 | 1:13 am
    “This is the worst bit!” We hear this over and over when people ask for our advice on making a good impression with their online dating profile. It is a subject of much discussion, but it need not be as complicated as people would have you think. If you were asked ‘How do you make a good impression when you go on a first date?’ you would have plenty of ideas. Let’s look at some basic principles that apply to both situations, to make writing your profile seem a little less daunting.  1.       Don’t Tell All One of the biggest mistake people make, both on first dates and on…
  • Get smart and Do Your Dating Online

    14 Feb 2014 | 1:11 am
    Single and surfing? Online dating has so many advantages over the casual meeting in a bar or club, that the clever money in 2014 is on the online dating experience. People are discovering the sheer fun of it, aside from great outcomes when looking for long-term partners. In what ways is online dating the smart option? Read on for five reasons you should take the plunge.  It Makes Sense Fate can be cruel. You know in your heart that somewhere out there is your perfect partner. But how likely is fate to throw you and your soul mate together? When you have a packed work life, and maybe a family…
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