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  • How to Get (and Keep) A Beautiful Girlfriend

    Get A Beautiful Girlfriend
    Captain Jack
    29 Jun 2015 | 5:34 pm
    Welcome! This site is all about “How to Get (and Keep) A Beautiful Girlfriend”. If you’ve heard about me before you know I pioneered a lot of innovations in mid to late 2000s in the area of meeting women. Most of them had to do with getting to sex as quickly as possible because at the time that is EXACTLY what my goal was… however, I learned after a few years of that it wasn’t all it was cracked up to be. So, I switched gears and started thinking more in terms of relationships. Interestingly, when I talked to other guys this is MOSTLY what they wanted to achieve…
  • Five Reasons Why Summer Is a Single Gal’s Best Season

    Savvy Miss Love & Sex
    21 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    So you’re single this summer—so what? There’s no better time of year to be on your own, so celebrate your status and make the most of the season with our list.
  • Does Love at First Sight Exist?

    Dating | YourTango
    2 Jul 2015 | 3:34 pm
    This is an age-old topic, and there is no shortage of opinions on the subject. After asking a number of women and men, I've found one overriding truth. Most people seem to think that the concept is true, but when I probed, I found out that there were other steps necessary in connecting beyond a random look and there were plenty of instances where people thought it was love at first sight, but things never developed.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 6 Tips on Finding the Best Photos for Your Online Dating Profile

    Dating | YourTango
    2 Jul 2015 | 3:05 pm
    Want to set yourself up for success when it comes to online dating? Start with great photos. It’s all about creating a visually engaging online showcase that demonstrates that you are a wonderful catch. Here are some pointers. 1. Show only between three and five photos of yourself to give a full picture of the brand that is you.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Seriously: When Did Dating Get So Weird?!

    All Sex, Love & Life
    Aziz Ansari
    9 Jun 2015 | 9:30 am
    Comedian Aziz Ansari spent a year trying to answer that question. What he learned about texting, hooking up, and soulmate-searching could change your love life forever.
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • If they lie to themselves, why are they going to be honest with us?

    2 Jul 2015 | 2:34 pm
    When you really take the time to get to know you, you will find that as a result of paying attention to your feelings, opinions, needs, expectations and desires, you are not only armed with a great deal of self-knowledge and self-awareness but you have so much more power in your life because you know your own bullsh*t (BS). As humans, we’re all prone to BS’ng ourselves to lesser and greater degrees but the great thing is that when we know our own and we own it instead of believing it, we are coming from an entirely different level of awareness to somebody who doesn’t acknowledge their…
  • The under-receiving over-giver: Are you able to receive gifts, compliments or help?

    29 Jun 2015 | 3:07 pm
    At a surprise party a few months back, I noticed something about the birthday girl: she was near having palpitations due to not being the organiser and she was visibly stressed about receiving gifts and compliments. She didn’t know how to receive. If you struggle to receive compliments, gifts, help, support etc., you have receiving issues and in actual fact, you’re also likely to be an over-giving people pleaser (over-givers tend to under-receive), possibly because each time somebody does something for you, you feel as if you have to bump up your efforts and almost prove that you…
  • Super Late: How we treat time says a lot about how much we respect other people’s time

    23 Jun 2015 | 2:40 pm
    If you’ve ever stood (or sat) around waiting for somebody who is late, you will understand how frustrating and downright awkward this can be, especially when they either don’t warn you that they’re going to be late or they have a habit of being late on the regular. Equally, if you are typically late and have received flack for it, you may struggle to understand what the problem is because from your end of things, you either feel that there are genuine reasons for your lateness or that they’re making an unnecessarily big deal out of it. A friend of mine was recently kept waiting for…
  • Are you trying to 419 me? Use your self-esteem operating system to filter out BS & shadiness

    16 Jun 2015 | 1:34 pm
    Do you remember many moons ago when the internet was shiny and new and you used to get excited about receiving an email? I remember when dating websites started and how love was blossoming all over the place. I also remember two things that most of us gradually became aware of : there are people out there who send spam designed to either wreck your computer or gain your hard earned money, and there are people online who are not what they seem. Back in the day when my friends and I used to spend our weekends in nightclubs pretending to be on a girls night out but secretly hungering for ‘Mr…
  • “No one will love you better” – what the what now?

    12 Jun 2015 | 11:08 am
    I knew it was going to be one of those crazy busy weeks – I have a Baggage Reclaim stall at the Blogtacular conference tomorrow and am currently waiting for my youngest to finish her first ballet exam (she had a meltdown ten minutes beforehand – give me strength!) – and so I made another video, and this time, it’s on the subject of when somebody tells you that, “No one will love you better [than me]”, and the equally as bad, “I’m the one who loves you the most”. Talk about having a big ego! I mean – how exactly do they know what the…
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    Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40™

  • When your ex dies

    Dating Goddess
    2 Jul 2015 | 9:18 am
    My ex learned he had cancer 2 years ago. Since we didn’t keep in touch, I learned of it a year ago. He did semi-weekly podcasts for a few dozen friends to update them on his health. I listened to the previous 100 podcasts before reaching out via email. He said he was thrilled to hear from me and was stunned that I would listen to all 100 previous podcasts. I’d asked if now we could be friends and he said he’d like nothing better. We exchanged a few emails and he said he’d like to talk about the end of our marriage as he was sure I had some questions — which I…
  • How much mind space does he take?

    Dating Goddess
    19 Jun 2015 | 3:39 pm
    When I’m smitten, or even in the beginning of a budding relationship, I think about the guy a lot. “I wonder how his day is going. Should I text him? “I should ask if he wants to come over for dinner Friday.” “I need to ask him why his marriage broke up.” “I think I’ll ask him to accompany to the party next weekend.” This sort of incessant chatter fills my idle thoughts. I rarely have time to think of my other interests. Since I’m between men now, I’ve noticed how creative I am and how much I get done because I’m thinking…
  • Right man; wrong continent

    Dating Goddess
    22 May 2015 | 11:41 pm
    He was not classically good looking. He had a pronounced nose and craggy face etched from decades of intense work. But his entrancing blue eyes made everything else fade away. He stood straight so his fit 57-year-old body seemed decades younger. And when he looked at you, it felt like he really saw you. He listened and asked intelligent relevant questions. The combination was sexy — my married gal pals felt it too. He was divorced. We met speaking at a conference in Singapore. We spent all our downtime together the next 3 days. I invited him to a small dinner party with some of my pals.
  • When certainty is a bad thing in dating

    Dating Goddess
    10 May 2015 | 8:44 am
    Both genders say confidence is one of the most appealing attributes in a sweetie. However, there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Certainty is part of both. Here’s an example of when certainty turned unappealing. Mr. R had been calling and texting for a few weeks as he was making arrangements for a flight to meet me. He was so certain I was “the one” — without yet meeting me, he’d deleted his profile from the dating site. In one of our calls, I’d mentioned a friend was coming from out of town for a big birthday party we were throwing for me…
  • The woo dance

    Dating Goddess
    22 Apr 2015 | 1:59 pm
    Wooing can be exhilarating, fun, and exciting. It’s nice to be the recipient of a man’s attention and affection. It’s especially nice when he’s good at it, but not so good it seems practiced. I’ve been the recipient of good woos and not so good ones. The latter wooers seem clumsy, perhaps out of nervousness or lack of confidence. The former seem relaxed; the wooing feels natural, comfortable and sincere. But of course, that could also come from frequent wooing. This week I’m the target of a man’s woo who seems sincere and not overly practiced. But I…
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  • Eat Me: Skinny Shrimp Scampi with Zucchini Noodles

    Twanna A. Hines
    22 Jun 2015 | 10:29 pm
    Strong minds, hearts, and bodies make better lovers. ;) It’s difficult, but possible, to eat well on a budget and with very little prep time. Need something new on your dinner plate? Last night, I made Skinny Shrimp Scampi with Zucchini Noodles. It was an easy recipe, and I recommend the following adaptations (which were yummy!): Add avocado, tomatoes, extra garlic and red onions. Use 1/2, rather than a full, pound of shrimp. Total cost: $16. Servings: 2 – 3, approximately $5 per meal. Time: 20 minutes. A photo posted by Twanna Hines (@funkybrownchick) on Jun 22, 2015 at 5:32pm…
  • Sexing Rachel Dolezal

    Twanna A. Hines
    14 Jun 2015 | 7:39 am
    If you haven’t already heard (hasn’t everyone?), Spokane NAACP​ president Rachel Dolezal was recently outed as a white woman. I’ve never spoken to Rachel, spotted her on the street, nor otherwise interacted with her in any way. As someone who has had others write things about me that weren’t true, I feel obligated to start my tirade by saying: Be skeptical of everything you read. As facts, anecdotes, and “Rachel told me” stories continue to unfold, consume them critically. In case you’re wondering, “What the hell does this have to do with…
  • Are You Ready for an International Affair?

    Twanna A. Hines
    28 May 2015 | 11:40 pm
    Whoa, Thomas R. Pickering and Edward J. Perkins!! If you haven’t already checked out their Washington Post article, “The Foreign Service is too white. We’d know — we’re top diplomats,” you should. And, if you don’t already know about Foreign Service career options, get the scoop. I think I’ve already told this story, but I started my career with State Department via a Foreign Service fellowship for Americans interested in interning at the Embassies in Paris and The Hague. Fluent in Dutch, my French-speaking abilities pretty much rival those of…
  • What?! Yes, Pakistan Airs Sex on TV.

    Twanna A. Hines
    26 May 2015 | 1:15 pm
    And you thought conservative, Islamic countries were afraid of sex. ;) Did you know Pakistani television airs a national, cable, call-in show called Clinic Online? Each week, viewers ask a doctor live questions about their sex lives. A few days ago, NPR ran a story about it. Listen to the clip. Earlier this year, Salon published a good story about it, too: “In Pakistan, a TV show focuses on a topic once taboo: Sex.” It’s interesting. Americans sometimes consider sex vulgar, sex education controversial. So far, that’s worked out great for us: We’re…
  • Hey, Sailor! Need a Fleet Week Hookup?

    Twanna A. Hines
    22 May 2015 | 11:46 am
    Watch the video. That crazy sexcapade called Fleet Week is raging through New York City’s streets, mattresses, dark alleys, and parks again. I love it because men and women from the Navy, Marines, and Coast Guard certainly deserve sexual healing. News items about sex in the military have traditionally highlighted: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell; barring same-sex unions; and sexual assault. At a time when women Newsweek reports women in the armed forces are now more likely to be assaulted by a fellow soldier than killed in combat, we certainly need media coverage of such stories. At…
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    Dating advice for men & women

  • Is Sex On The First Date A Relationship Killer?

    Chris Tanny
    18 Jun 2015 | 8:20 am
    Last weekend I hung out with a guy I’ve known almost my whole life. Our parents were friends, and he’s only a year younger than me. We have at least a few things in common that I know of. Fishing, Camping, etc. We didn’t keep in touch over the years and we were never really […] The post Is Sex On The First Date A Relationship Killer? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • How To Know If A Girl Likes You While Chatting?

    Chris Tanny
    18 Jun 2015 | 8:19 am
    I want to know if it’s not awkward to call a girl I have met last weekend (first date), but not called since. The date didn’t go so well; There were some unwanted silence moments, but there were no signs of rejection neither; At the end of the date she told me to keep in […] The post How To Know If A Girl Likes You While Chatting? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • How Do You Know If A Girl Likes You Or Not?

    Chris Tanny
    18 Jun 2015 | 8:18 am
    I know everyone is going to laugh so laugh it out. What do women want? Like I think I know what women want, but they all say no here. Like I thought I was reading the signs correctly, but I’m not. I’m just trying to be me. How do you get a girl that you […] The post How Do You Know If A Girl Likes You Or Not? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • How To Avoid Getting Jealous Scenes With A Girl?

    Chris Tanny
    18 Jun 2015 | 8:17 am
    I am not really the jealous type, she has a lot of guy friends, and she goes out with all of em sometimes, and I trust her, and I know she trusts me too. With this guy, I am growing a bit wary. How to stop being jealous and insecure in a relationship? When she […] The post How To Avoid Getting Jealous Scenes With A Girl? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • I Want To Kiss My Ex-Boyfriend: What Does It Mean?

    Chris Tanny
    4 Jun 2015 | 1:21 am
    We broke up a little over a week ago. Mostly because he turned into a rude jerk who ignored me. I brought up the break and told him I was stressed out. And then he followed up by telling me all of my flaws and saying I was awkward. Kissing ex-boyfriend in dream We dated […] The post I Want To Kiss My Ex-Boyfriend: What Does It Mean? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • To Be Biracial Means More Attention On Dating Sites (Mark Brooks)
    2 Jul 2015 | 8:12 am
    WASHINGTON POST - June 29 - A new study presented to the Council on Contemporary Families and published in the American Sociological Review suggests that online daters aren’t always attracted to people who look like themselves. In some instances, multiracial daters are getting a lot of right swipes. Asian-white women get the most attention. Hispanic women preferred men who identified as Hispanic-white above all else. Hispanic men were less selective. Among all groups, men didn’t play racial favorites as much as women did. Except when it comes to black women, who were responded to the…
  • Nominations Are Now Open For iDate Awards (Mark Brooks)
    2 Jul 2015 | 7:58 am
    WEBWIRE - July 1 - Nominations for the next iDate Awards are now being accepted until October 31. There is no cost to participate and self-nominations are accepted. You can nominate in these categories: Best Dating Site Best Matchmaker Best Dating Software & SAAS Provider Best Mobile Dating App Best Product Design Best Dating Coach Most Innovative Company Best New Technology Best Payment System Best Affiliate Program Best Marketing Campaign Best Niche Dating Site Best Up and Coming Dating Site The awards have the following schedule: Now to October 31 - Nominations Accepted November 10 to…
  • Pop Stars Turn To Dating Apps Like Tinder, Grindr To Promote Music (Mark Brooks)
    2 Jul 2015 | 7:52 am
    GLOBAL NEWS - July 1 - Madonna's latest album was advertised on Grindr, while Jason Derulo looked to Tinder to debut a music video. Carey launched a profile on to premiere her music video for the single, "Infinity," and last week DJ-producer Afrojack took over Match's Twitter account for eight hours to answer questions about love and relationships while promoting his new single, "SummerThing!". PlentyofFish also worked with Derulo when the website appeared in the music video for his song "Ridin Solo" in 2010. POF also appeared in Britney Spears, Flo Rida and Kesha’s videos. by…
  • OkCupid Launches New, Gender-Inclusive 'Identity' Project (Mark Brooks)
    2 Jul 2015 | 7:40 am
    ADVOCATE - June 29 - OkCupid launched a new website called Identity, a project that seeks to expand the conversation about sexual orientations and gender identities. The new site allows anyone, whether a regular OkCupid user or not, to share and contribute their own gender identity stories through a simple questionnaire. Identity also acts as a one-stop resource for various definitions of different sexual identities to be viewed. Currently, definitions of 13 gender identities, including transgender, cisgender, agender, androgynous, etc., and 22 orientations — gay, lesbian, bisexual,…
  • Spark Is Profitable Again But Needs Sustainable Strategy (Mark Brooks)
    29 Jun 2015 | 2:16 pm
    SEEKING ALPHA - June 26 - Spark Networks had been suffering significant losses until mid 2014 when new management came in. Their first action was to cut the marketing spent on ChristianMingle. Almost immediately, the company became profitable, but this strategy is unsustainable. A prolonged period of subscriber attrition can be devastating. However, temporarily propping up the company has given new management time to implement its plan to reinvigorate Spark without having to worry about cash. The plan is simple: upgrade technology and begin redeploying ads dollars for ChristianMingle in a…
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  • The Perfect Woman Without Borders

    Linna Xiong
    3 Jul 2015 | 1:42 pm
    It was 2005. Sitting on a cramped seat flying across the Pacific Ocean, for the first time by myself, my tears kept streaming down my face not knowing when I would be able to see my family and friends again. My mind was flooded with questions about how my new life in a foreign land would be like and whether people on the other side of the world would like me or not. And one particular question that also crossed my mind was: will men like me there? It took me 10 years to find the answer to that particular question. As relieving as it is to finally put a closure to my own inquiry, the end…
  • He reminds me of my ex. How can I get past this?

    Demetrius - Tao of Indifference
    3 Jul 2015 | 1:00 pm
    haveagreatdayguys asks:  I met a guy on Tinder and things have been going really well between us. But the more we hang out, the more he reminds me of my ex boyfriend. I can’t quite put my finger on it, but something about his looks and his voice just reminds me too much of him, even though they have different voices and they don’t look alike. Also, it doesn’t help that he also has the same name as my first boyfriend. However that’s so far into the past that I’m not really concerned about it. So how can I keep seeing him without him reminding me so much of my ex?
  • It Is A Luxury to Feel Fear

    Linna Xiong
    2 Jul 2015 | 2:15 pm
    Ask the ants. They will tell you all about it. Every summer, when it gets really hot for a week or so, I will get my annual visit from my old friends ants and their extended families. They throw parties in my kitchen cabinets, dance on my bathroom floor, get wasted in my closet, and occasionally crawl in my bed at night. Yes, it is a total nightmare. So naturally, I felt the urge to, you know, take care o’ business, with my own hands. And here is my grand idea-I’ll kill some ants and leave their dead bodies around the house, so that their fellow members will sense the danger…
  • I want to repair my relationship with her. What should I do?

    Demetrius - Tao of Indifference
    2 Jul 2015 | 8:17 am
    MJKno1 asks: I fell in love with my childhood best friend for a long time and 6 months ago i finally got the courage to tell her about my feelings. She said she wants us to be friend first because she’s not sure about her feelings yet, I’m okay with that and we carry on our life as usual. But after that our relationship become closer than ever before and we text almost every day talking about random stuff. Until something that I can’t explain here happened in my life that causes I can’t give her more attention that I used to give to her before. We rarely talked and…
  • 8 Clear Warning Signs Of A Toxic Relationship

    James Michael Sama
    2 Jul 2015 | 6:39 am
    This is a very difficult topic to discuss – because you’ve got to be sensitive to people’s feelings,
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    Savvy Miss Love & Sex

  • Five Reasons Why Summer Is a Single Gal’s Best Season

    21 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    So you’re single this summer—so what? There’s no better time of year to be on your own, so celebrate your status and make the most of the season with our list.
  • Why He Doesn't Think You're Fat

    20 Jun 2015 | 12:05 am
    By now, the whole “Honey, do I look fat in this?” scene has been fully unmasked as the farce it is, useful today only as a reference to stand-up comic hacks. But be aware that the sentiment behind it lives on in more modern variations, including: “I look fat in this,” (a subtly aggressive form,...
  • The Top 10 Signs He’s a Keeper

    14 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    If you think you've found your loyal Colin Firth in the sea of one-night stand Colin Farrells, then you might just have a keeper. Here are the top 10 signs.
  • Business & Life Coaching for Savvy Women!

    18 May 2015 | 12:05 am
    Do you feel there's a bigger and better life you're meant to live? Is it time you made a living doing what you love or achieved a long-term goal?
  • The Single Gal's Checklist

    16 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    When I went out for cocktails the other night, I took mental notes of my single-girl night out checklist: cash, keys, lip gloss, cell phone. But what else do we need to navigate our single gal lives?
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    Dating | YourTango

  • Does Love at First Sight Exist?

    2 Jul 2015 | 3:34 pm
    This is an age-old topic, and there is no shortage of opinions on the subject. After asking a number of women and men, I've found one overriding truth. Most people seem to think that the concept is true, but when I probed, I found out that there were other steps necessary in connecting beyond a random look and there were plenty of instances where people thought it was love at first sight, but things never developed.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • How to Turn a First Date into a Second

    2 Jul 2015 | 3:10 pm
    "Just don’t throw up on his shoes.” That’s what an ex-boss advised me before my meeting a potentially game-changing new client. It looked like a slam-dunk, but in advertising, clients have the final say, and I needed the gig. The meeting went fine, but I was reminded to never take anything for granted. The same thing goes for dating.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 6 Tips on Finding the Best Photos for Your Online Dating Profile

    2 Jul 2015 | 3:05 pm
    Want to set yourself up for success when it comes to online dating? Start with great photos. It’s all about creating a visually engaging online showcase that demonstrates that you are a wonderful catch. Here are some pointers. 1. Show only between three and five photos of yourself to give a full picture of the brand that is you.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 4th Of July Date Ideas in Los Angeles

    Jarone Ashkenazi
    2 Jul 2015 | 2:28 pm
    July 4th might not be the most romantic holiday, but as it falls on a Saturday this upcoming weekend, it makes for a great excuse to plan a date night with your significant other. Daters can opt for the typical backyard BBQ and evening fireworks (in hopes that will lead to late-night fireworks!) but step it up this year and do something special to celebrate your relationship. Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • How To Handle Intimacy When You’re Not Exclusive

    Samantha Burns
    30 Jun 2015 | 9:50 pm
    Casual dating can lead to casual sex. If you're a Bachelor nation fan, then you probably saw the drama unfold on The Bachelorette over the past two weeks when Kaitlyn Bristowe slept with a contestant, Nick, prior to the fantasy suite dates (because we all know what really happens on those overnight dates)!Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
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    Online Dating Insider

  • AARP Wants Dating Sites To Crack Down On Fraud
    11 Jun 2015 | 8:22 am
    How interesting that the AARP ignored the dating industry for over a decade and now calls for the industry to crack down on fraud, probably because lots of their members are getting scammed on their own dating site, powered by HowAboutWe, which is owned by Match. More info on the deal. I wonder if AARP talked to Match before they started a media campaign that attacks their own business partner?   According to the FBI, Americans lost $82 million to online dating fraud in just the last six months of 2014.  The dating industry has left singles to fend for themselves since it’s…
  • Cuban Disses CMB, Funds Competitor Courtem
    19 Feb 2015 | 1:06 pm
    The Coffee Meets Bagel crash & burn on Shark Tank has led to an interesting development. Mark Cuban, who’s $30M offer the CMB sisters turned down, has invested in Courtem, a dating app from the Anheuser-Busch family. Cuban serves as an advisor and holds an equity stake in the company. Singles join Courtem to see, “what someone might offer them as the best date of their life.” Courtem goes beyond simply the shallow (at first glance) interactions of other dating apps and urges users to thoroughly review another’s profile, interests, friends-in-common,…
  • Scamalytics Release Industry Report on Scammers and Dating Fraud | Scamalytics
    19 Feb 2015 | 12:39 pm
    Global Dating Insights and Scamalytics have collaborated on a scammers and dating fraud report. The report covers scammers and dating fraud and what the industry and third-parties can do to combat the threat they pose. They look at the current frauds infecting mobile apps like Tinder, trends like sextortion, and how these scammers are adapting their methods to the new dating landscape, and cleverly circumventing security measures. The report also seeks to show that stopping dating scammers is not only a huge positive for both the customer and the industry as the whole, but can also be…
  • Coffee Meets Bagel Lands $7.8M Funding
    18 Feb 2015 | 1:30 pm
    Today’s dating industry jaw-dropper is that Coffee Meets Bagel has managed to convince investors to give them almost $8M to continue to build and grow the straggling service. Investors just gave a niche service a huge pot of gold. Full details at TechCrunch. Only a few weeks ago, CMB failed spectacularly on Shark Tank, flubbing their pitch and then turning down $30 million from Mark Cuban, the biggest offer ever on the show. Unbelievable. I would have taken the money and run. Delivering singles one match a day doesn’t work. People want choice, just look at Tinder. The Kang…
  • Unsecure Android Dating Apps Everywhere
    11 Feb 2015 | 12:18 pm
    Dating apps are fun to hack for knowledge and profit. No mention of iOS apps in this IBM story,  but this is not exactly surprising. Dating site apps are so easy to crank out these days, security is an afterthought at most companies. An analysis conducted by IBM Security found over 60 percent of leading dating mobile apps on Android are potentially vulnerable to a variety of cyber-attacks that put personal user information and corporate data at risk. The IBM study reveals that many of these dating applications have access to additional features on mobile devices such as the camera,…
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  • 5 Reasons Why My Kids Do Chores

    3 Jul 2015 | 7:19 am
    Our dishwasher broke last week. I came home last week Thursday to a flooded laundry. The next day the children went on leave. We only had it fixed yesterday. So in case you didn’t get it – we had no dishwasher for a week, 4 kids were on leave AND Jane was off on Wednesday. In case you STILL aren’t getting it – there were 4 kids (plus myself and David) at home for 50 something meals using enough crockery and cutlery to stock Boardmans! AND THE DISHWASHER WAS BROKEN! Got it? Ok good. My children have to pack and unpack the dishwasher daily on alternate days so despite…
  • Quick and Easy Lunches with Simply Chicken

    2 Jul 2015 | 1:05 am
    Afternoons in our house are my busiest times. From 13h00 I head out for school pick ups and am often only home after 16h00. On the days Jane doesn’t come, Emma has to come with me and the time in the car does test her patience levels. There are also days where she wakes up from her nap as I need to leave, which means lunch is often on the go or has to be prepared quickly. Simply Chicken has a range of products that caters for both of these types of meals. They have the Simply Chicken Viennas, which probably are the quickest and easiest meal for kids that there is, and there are few kids…
  • {Giveaway} Soil Voucher

    30 Jun 2015 | 11:00 pm
    For the longest time I have been searching for scented candles that will make my house smell divine. I have yet to find one that actually smells like it says it does and actually does waft through my house and doesn’t just make the 3cm radius it is burning in smell. I had all by given up but then I received a voucher from Soil to buy some of their products to try out. Browsing their online store I discovered soya wax melts so I added them to my basket immediately together with some citronella oil, preparation for Spring and all the baby mozzie and a burner. It arrived 3 days after placing…
  • {Product Review} COOL TO BE ME Educational Boxes

    29 Jun 2015 | 8:00 am
    I am slightly ashamed to admit that I do not take Life Skills seriously. It is the one subject that don’t really pay much attention to. I am aware that that is probably not the best attitude because the lessons children learn there, may seem unimportant but actually they aren’t. When we got sent the COOL TO BE ME educational box recently I was made more aware just how important social-emotional learning is. The COOL TO BE ME educational boxes is a home-based programme that is aimed and aiding social-emotional learning. The boxes are packed according to age and range from ages 5 – 10.
  • On being a mom to a teenager

    28 Jun 2015 | 11:00 pm
    This year I celebrated a first birthday and a 13th birthday. Both milestone years. Both with very different emotions. With the first birthday it is sort of a case of “been there done that” but I did pause for a moment back in February and appreciated that that was the last first birthday party my children would have. The thirteenth, however, was a first and totally unchartered territory. I think I have said it ad nauseum by now, but this teenage thing is super scary. Unlike the wealth of information out there about dealing with sleepless nights and tantrums and what not, there is…
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  • Why Sloppy Public Drunkenness Isn’t The Business

    1 Jul 2015 | 10:41 am
    It’s been a while since I’ve written. I briefly want to express my sympathies to the nine families who were affected by the church shooting in South Carolina. I share my thoughts on this in the next episode of the Negro Please Podcast. We still have a ways to go. To the gay and lesbian folks who happen to read my work, congratulations are in order for you all! Another small step was taken in regards to equality for all. There’s still so much work to be done for my people though. With that out of the way, I did some fake turning up this past weekend. I got together with some of my fellas…
  • Here’s Why LaMarcus Aldridge has to Sign With the Spurs

    Joe Sargent
    29 Jun 2015 | 9:20 pm
    Took a breather after a long NBA season. To sum it up quickly: I was right. LeBron James may have proved as much in losing as he would if he won. Somehow we’re already turning the page to next season, and that begins with the Draft and Free Agency. Last week’s draft came and went without my Pistons taking Justice Winslow (infinite sadness) and with the Knicks taking a gamble (infinite lolz). But the most interesting story in the NBA right now is the decision in front of LaMarcus Aldridge. According to multiple reports, the most likely destinations for Aldridge are the Los Angeles Lakers…
  • An Open Letter to Those Who Say, “Stay peaceful.”

    Keita Wheats
    18 Jun 2015 | 9:21 am
    While you were sleeping, a single white gunman opened fire on innocent people in one of the United States’ oldest African American churches, Emanuel AME church. Often referred to as “Mother Emanuel”, the congregation was established in 1816. What many thought would be a typical Wednesday night bible study, somehow was transformed into a horrific event where 9 lives were lost. I have questions. Since when are people not able to gather in a place of worship, without fear of dying? Why must we be afraid to go to the store, or swimming, or to church? Why do we have to be afraid to sit in…
  • Why Being Fiscally Responsible Is Sexy

    17 Jun 2015 | 8:46 pm
    It’s amazing how many layers to dating there are. The more time flies by, the more different things begin to matter more to me. These things aren’t usually things that you can see. They’re really ideas, attitudes, and philosophies I look for a potential prospect to have. In conversing with different people, I try to read their disposition on certain subjects. One subject that has begun to matter more to me as of late is finance. At 26, finances matter. When you date someone you look to see how someone manages their funds. It says a lot about someone who can live within their means. What…
  • Two Games Into the NBA Finals…Will the Cavs or Warriors Win it All?

    Joe Sargent
    8 Jun 2015 | 8:52 pm
    We’re eight quarters and two overtimes into a surprisingly (for me anyway) competitive NBA Finals, and I’m at a crossroads. Hardly anything has gone how I predicted. The Warriors can’t shoot. The Cavs took a game in Oakland. Stephen Curry is airballing game winners. LeBron James is carrying the Cavs (which I predicted) and it’s WORKING (didn’t see that coming). There is a mountain of evidence to suggest that this will continue to be a closely contested series, but I remain firm: The Warriors will STILL win in five games. I can’t claim to be as confident as I was a week ago (week…
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  • Are You Ready For a Relationship?

    28 Jun 2015 | 8:30 pm
    Before you jump online and start filling out a dating profile and joyfully browsing the singles in your area, it would be wise to take a moment to assess your readiness to enter into the world of dating. It is not uncommon for people to jump blindfolded into a relationship they are not truly ready for, nor is it uncommon for people to connect with someone who is not currently capable of offering all that a relationship requires. In both cases, both people get hurt when the romantic connection faces challenges. Relationships are not meant to be the source of our love and good health, rather a…
  • Overcoming Aversions to Online Dating

    17 Jun 2015 | 7:00 pm
    View image | Imagine yourself sitting down at a family dinner with your new partner by your side. You are introducing your parents and companion for the first time, hoping that everyone connects graciously and warmly. I am sure you can imagine yourself sharing the story of how you and your partner met, and about the moment you knew you were meant to be together. What you likely do not foresee is the tale going something like, “I knew we had an intrinsic connection when my heart fluttered wildly as I browsed his profile and read how much he likes Chaplin films,” or, “I…
  • Mobile Online Dating: The New Players

    5 Jun 2015 | 6:00 am
    In my last article, I discussed some of the original online dating services and how they are working as online dating moves to mobile. Today, I wanted to talk about some of the newer services that have had a focus on mobility since their creation. Coffee Meets Bagel This app is a new concept designed by three sisters living in the Big Apple and wanting to actually connect with other people, not just race past them. However, privacy and genuine interactions were fundamental to their goals. They list their three top values as follows: Unless you want to tell others, your dating life should…
  • Mobile Online Dating: The Online Originals

    29 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    Internet dating apps popped up and quickly changed the dating game as we knew it. Now, the mobile app trend is changing the dynamic yet again. As I see it, there are two segments of dating apps making it onto the smartphone and tablet mobile device scene. The first is the original, online-based dating websites that have been around for decades (really, launched in 1995!) that are now moving into mobile apps to stay on-trend. The second are the new straight-to-app programs with a new twist and new ways to make connections. I’ll talk about the first group here, and the second in…
  • Mobile Dating Apps Bring Culture Change to Online Dating

    22 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    It seems like there are dozens of new mobile apps popping up daily, but never did I expect to find so many focused on helping people to meet in person. Seems a little ironic, doesn’t it? Staring down at our cell phones and swiping and clicking in order to get connected with someone local in our area who we could potentially have met just by heading down to the local watering hole. I’m in my dating prime in the midst of this ever-changing tech-boom occurring in online/mobile dating, so it may prove difficult to give a hard-and-fast comparison to how online dating used to be, but it…
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  • How to Tell When a Topless Dancers is Not Interested in You

    29 Jun 2015 | 6:08 pm
    Negative Signs That She's Not Interested In You1.  You lean towards her and she leans back away from you.2.  She starts turning away from you.3.  She doesn't make eye contact with you.4.  She folds her arms across her chest.5.  Double crosses her legs at the ankle.6.  She touches her nose often while she's with you.7.  A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.8. When talking to you, her eyes keep glancing at other guys in the topless club.  She's probably keeping her eye out for her next customer.9. She makes no effort to talk to you. …
  • How to Meet and Date All the Women you Have Been Dreaming About

    21 Jun 2015 | 5:10 pm
    Now any man can meet and date all the beautiful women he's dreamed of going out with before, with the best-selling ebook,"A Man's Guide to Women!" This is not a superficial book with "come-on" gimmicks, 101 "perfect lines," or vague advice too general to be of any use.It's a practical guide that covers every aspect of dealing with single women from the first meeting to the successful relationship. It offers a completely new approach that will change your love and sex life foreverIt offers a completely new approach that will change your love and sex life forever. Most men are making…
  • Top 10 Dining Tips When on a Dinner Date with Women

    13 Jun 2015 | 6:54 pm
    The Top 10 Dining Etiquette Tips to Impress Single Women When on a Dining Date:Whatever you do, don't use curse words in your dining conversations. This can really turn women off and can even spoil your chances for dating her again and your potential relationship goes right down the drain.Don't bring your cell phone on your dining date. You don't want any interruptions and you want to give her your undivided attention. Also, you may mistakenly think that cell phones impress women by thinking that you are a important businessman or something. The women are going to be impressed by how you…
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    21 Jun 2015 | 6:33 pm
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    19 May 2015 | 9:11 am
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  • How to Do a Background Check on Your New Date

    17 Apr 2015 | 10:36 am
    This is a wonderful article from guest blogger, Alexandra from Background Hawk on arming yourself with information when meeting someone new. Enjoy, comment, and share!   It takes a lot of effort and calming of the nerves to get to know someone on a deeper level and actually trust them enough to want to go out on a real face-to-face date with them; and in the crazy world we live in today, if you aren’t 100% sure that the John you imagined meeting, really is who he says he is, then chances are you could be up for some major disappointment…or worse. There are a lot of people out there…
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    9 Apr 2015 | 10:28 am
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  • 6 Things You Should Never Talk About On A First Date

    Katy Horwood
    22 Jun 2015 | 7:10 am
    6 Things You Should Never Talk About on a First Date  First dates can be tricky for anyone, after the initial online connection (because let’s be honest, who meets in real life anymore?) Actually getting together can be nerve-wracking for even the most hardened of online daters. Got past the initial awkward introductions, find you have chemistry and want to put your money on a second date? 6 things you should categorically avoid discussing if you don’t want to scare you date away … Babies  Ah the old favourite. kids, babies, infants, nephews and nieces – basically any living…
  • 7 Fail-Safe Ways To Get Over A Break Up

    Katy Horwood
    17 Jun 2015 | 8:18 am
    Break-ups. Urgg – they’re s**t. Bad enough when you’re doing the dumping and need to live with the burden of guilt, worse still, when you’re on the receiving end of being ditched. Regardless of whether it’s out of the blue or you’ve seen it coming for a while, getting over a break-up is a bitch. However, fear not, there are plenty of ways to heal a broken heart. They might not dissolve the pain immediately but they will certainly see you well on the way to recovery. 1. Get drunk  Oh, I know, sensible grown-ups will tell you that this is the worst thing to do when you’ve…
  • 20 Signs You’re with the Person You Should Marry

    Alicia Drewnicki
    4 Jun 2015 | 1:42 am
    Are you feeling the pressure from friends and relatives who keep asking when you’re going to tie the knot? After being together a while, all couples get to that stage where they wonder whether to take the next ‘big step’. We’re all on the hunt for the ultimate keeper– but how do you know if your partner is ‘the one’? Getting married is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make in your life, so it’s important to be sure. If you’re questioning whether you’ve found the person you should marry – here are 20 sure-fire…
  • 20 Signs You Should Leave the Person You’re With

    Alicia Drewnicki
    2 Jun 2015 | 3:03 am
    Who said relationships were easy?  In a perfect world, we’d all love to have our own flawless fairytale romance where arguments didn’t exist and there were never any ‘misunderstandings’. In reality – being in a relationship can translate to bickering, pet hates, jealousy, the silent treatment and being sent to the dreaded ‘doghouse’. If your relationship is causing you headaches, remember, it’s perfectly natural to have moments of doubt. Perhaps you’ve had a fight recently, or maybe you’ve started thinking about your ex? If…
  • From Dating to a Relationship – 15 Ways to Tell the Difference

    Katy Horwood
    26 May 2015 | 4:52 am
    Ah, love’s young dream. What better feeling than the first throes of passion – when you can’t get enough of each other and spend your time in a constant bubble of fuzziness and butterflies. Dating is such fun – but, naturally, things settle down and sadly, the buzz of a new relationship quickly turns into the monotony of a stable one. It’s not all bad news though, what you lack in excitement and butterflies you make up for in box sets and bickering – I jest of course, relationships are *amazing*, ahem. So, how to tell that you’ve gone from casual dating to…
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  • LSA 026: Top 10 Dating Books for Men

    Stephen Nash
    3 Jul 2015 | 8:20 am
    The definitive list of books for men to read who want to improve their success with women and dating. NYC & San Diego-based dating coach Stephen Nash walks you through the list and discusses each of the 10, revealing why they are so uniquely helpful for men. A few of these are new for 2015, and his #1 book is the true "manual" for the modern day man. The post LSA 026: Top 10 Dating Books for Men appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • LSA 025: Susan Winter – Social Futurist, PUA Foil, Author, Dinner Guest, Babe & Friend

    Stephen Nash
    26 Jun 2015 | 1:00 pm
    Susan Winter has sought out "the worst men in the world", gamed PUAs (and more than lived to tell about it) and has actively explored all models of relationships for over a decade. This week's Lifestyle Arts Podcast features Stephen Nash's conversation with this amazing coach, author, babe and "social futurist" and she's got a lot to say. Hear about her adventures with "PUAs", the best date she's ever had, monogamy, older women/younger men, male/female dynamics, the challenges both sexes face in large urban areas and so much more. Get ready, get set for the incomparable Susan Winter. The post…
  • LSA 024: 6 Lifestyle Fundamentals for Attracting Women

    Stephen Nash
    19 Jun 2015 | 8:00 am
    Lifestyle is the "missing link" in the dating game for men. The choices I make about my time, activities, priorities and social connections inform inner aspects such as confidence and self-esteem, while also helping me form a healthy, thriving social circle. When I strive to improve with women and dating, I will be challenged. Focusing on lifestyle, therefore, allows me to grow as a man, meet new and interesting people and help me cultivate a healthy, positive attitude towards life and others. No dating gimmick or social technique can impact my dating, social and romantic life as focusing on…
  • LSA 023: Dating in NYC, Challenges & Solutions

    Stephen Nash
    12 Jun 2015 | 1:33 pm
    Dating in NYC can be super tough - WHY? Is there a solution to becoming more successful with women & dating here without resorting to lame pick-up tactics? Indeed there is. Episode #23 of the Lifestyle Arts podcast features Stephen Nash discussing the singular issue leading to the growing challenges in meeting and dating women in NYC, LA and other major, urban areas. He also discusses the solution, which essentially simulates what has ALWAYS worked to help bring men and women together - the growth of an expansive, supporting and thriving community. The post LSA 023: Dating in NYC,…
  • LSA 022: Steve Mayeda Interview – “The Sexual Life”

    Stephen Nash
    5 Jun 2015 | 11:25 am
    The Sexual Life with Steve Mayeda. Steve joins Stephen Nash on this week's Lifestyle Arts podcast to discuss the sexual life, masculinity, community, relationships, sex, name it. Learn all about his remarkable journey, from shilling out every last cent for a pick-up program nearly 8 years ago to now leading seminars empowering men to experience their own wild success with women, dating and in life. The post LSA 022: Steve Mayeda Interview – “The Sexual Life” appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
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  • Fan Mail Friday #17

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    3 Jul 2015 | 12:00 am
    In this one: How to keep calm inside and out. Why isn't there a show like this for women? Does alcohol matter? And more. Oh, and Maaaaazda... More at HELP US SPREAD THE WORD!  If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review!  This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Stay Charming!
  • 422: Marni Battista | Advice from a Crazy Ex-Girlfriend

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    1 Jul 2015 | 12:00 am
    If being parked in a bad dating pattern is your idea of a comfort zone, consider how a little discomfort will take you to a far better place. "Imagine two dysfunctional puzzle pieces out in the universe with a magnet..." -Marni Battista The Cheat Sheet: If you want to date out of your league, you just have to be 10% better than 90% of the guys out there. 10 things women wish you knew. How can we stop terrible dating patterns? Why do we keep dating people who are bad for us? Screening out the crazies (or screening them in, if that's what you're into). And so much more... Show notes at…
  • 421: Jonathan Bailor | The SANE War on Obesity

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    29 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    Modern science tells us how we can exercise less and eat more to naturally lose weight, avoid diabetes, and beat the obesity epidemic. "You don't cure diseases through starvation." -Jonathan Bailor The Cheat Sheet: Is sugar more dangerous than cigarettes? Why are there as many overweight people today as there were total people alive a century ago? Why does calorie counting fail for 19 out of 20 people who try it? Tell the difference between the quality approach vs. the quantity approach to wellness. Learn how to keep your diet SANE (Satiety, Aggression, Nutrition, Efficiency) for weight loss…
  • 420: AoC Toolbox | Screening and Qualifying

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    26 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    For better or worse, we mirror the company that we keep. Here's how we maximize its quality for the best reflection. "I'm selective with second chances, but I'm always willing to give a first chance." -AJ Harbinger The Cheat Sheet: Are you due for a friend audit? How do you tell the difference between "high value" and "low value" people? Learn how high value people build you up and low value people tear you down. Where do you land on the Value Scale? Low value people identifiers: the red flags. And so much more... Show notes at…
  • 419: Dorie Clark | Brand and Stand Out

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    24 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    The truth about the modern economy: you make your own credentials (and you don't need a middleman anymore). "All the advice from our parents is just absolutely wrong." -Dorie Clark The Cheat Sheet: The game of achieving success today has different rules than it did for our parents and grandparents. How does someone get recognized as a "thought leader?" How do you find and spread your own breakthrough idea? Innovation doesn't have to be difficult. Use the Niche Strategy to carve out your own area of expertise (and discover new ones). And so much more... Show notes at…
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  • Movie Spotlight: Overboard

    Jessica Druck
    2 Jul 2015 | 10:37 pm
    In honor of the 4th of July, and all things patriotic, bedazzled and 80s, I thought I'd celebrate one of my favorite movies: Overboard.Overboard is a scintillating tale of a bitchy rich lady who falls off her yacht and is taken to a local hospital where it's discovered that she lost her memory. To her rescue comes the hillbilly repair man she treated like dirt who claims her as his wife and turns her into his redneck trophy. It's quite fun.I know it's not your typical star spangled movie, but hey, Goldie Hawn wears enough red and white getups and bedazzles enough of her sunglasses for it to…
  • A Playlist For Every Single Feeling

    Jessica Druck
    18 Jun 2015 | 7:50 pm
    Because it's practically the weekend and we're all practically checked out, here's a little something to get you through whatever you need to get through before drowning in vodka and donuts for two days. Enjoy the playlist here!
  • Love Story No. 14: Realizing You Were Never In Love

    Jessica Druck
    9 Jun 2015 | 7:54 am
    Broken, beaten down, devastated and facing a life of emptiness.  This break-up was surely going to finish me off.  Or so I thought. The blunt end of her sentence resulted in an almost cathartic feeling in every cell of my body.  But I didn’t want it to be this way.  I want pain, tears but nope…nothing.  But I thought she was the one, my all, and now she’s letting me go, I demand to feel the sadness!My efforts came to no avail.  Try as I did, there wasn’t an ounce of pain present in my body. I think it had all been left behind in the relationship that…
  • How Long Should You Stay Single Between Relationships?

    Jessica Druck
    29 Apr 2015 | 9:21 am
    We all have that friend who's always in a relationship. You know, the person who went from "in a relationship" to "single," then to "in a relationship" and back to "single," then you hid them because your newsfeed has just been their relationship status and no thanks, Becky.It's so common these days for people to be on the market quickly after a breakup, after all, how hard is it? Break up today, be on Tinder tonight. Problem solved girlfriend.But how healthy is that? We've all heard a psychology professor or Dr. Phil say you need a little "me" time after a breakup: a little time to cope,…
  • BWB is on Instagram!

    Jessica Druck
    26 Mar 2015 | 9:32 pm
    Friday's have me like....A photo posted by Blog with Benefits (@blogwithbenefits) on Mar 20, 2015 at 2:06pm PDTSo I finally did it, I made an Instagram account. I've been thinking about doing this for a long time so I could share what inspires me on a day-to-day basis to write about what I write about, and last week I took the jump.If you're curious, here's a taste of what I've been sharing, and if these pics make you feel all warm and fuzzy, follow me @blogwithbenefits!#tbt to the king and queen of dance.A photo posted by Blog with Benefits (@blogwithbenefits) on Mar 19, 2015 at 8:05pm…
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  • The Secrets 2 Date a Girl (For Men Only)

    Dating Headshots
    25 Jun 2015 | 12:23 pm
      Clueless on how to date a girl? Looking for some dating tips to skyrocket your success in dating? Spend 10 minutes to learn the best dating advice so you can gain ‘unfair’ advantage against … Sourced through from: Even though it says “The Secrets 2 Date a Girl” it works for dating women too.  Dating can be hard.  That’s why we like to keep it as simple and straightforward as possible.  Here is a simple list that breaks down what women really want and how they behave. The post The Secrets 2 Date a…
  • The Desperate Dater- Part 2

    Dating Headshots
    24 Jun 2015 | 6:02 am
    ….Continued from last week.  Here are more things to watch for and RUN if they happen to you: Your date starts sentences with “Well, actually…” Nobody likes a know-it-all or to be made to feel inferior. Almost anytime a sentence is started with “Well, actually”, the speaker is refuting what the other person in the conversation has said.  We all know excitable people who refuse to ever be proved wrong and will vehemently defend the correctness of their position to a point of fault. Many people are susceptible to this when discussing topics they are passionate about.  If…
  • The Desperate Dater- Don’t Be One and Don’t Date One.

    Dating Headshots
    17 Jun 2015 | 6:46 am
    In the kindest and gentlest way possible I need to tell you something: do not be a desperate dater. Assert yourself and know that you deserve to be treated well. In short, know what your relationship deal breakers are and refuse to tolerate poor behavior.  Now, to clarify this a bit more. A deal breaker is an action or behavior that cannot be overlooked in a romantic partnership. It outweighs any other redeeming qualities the person may exhibit. I’m not talking about nitpicking trivial things, but instead refusing to settle on issues that point to a fundamental incompatibility between…
  • Tips for Dating While Unemployed

    Dating Headshots
    13 May 2015 | 5:18 am
    Have you put together a great online dating profile but are hesitant to respond to messages and chat invitations because you recently lost your job? While looking for a job is a priority, there is no reason that you have to completely ignore online dating or your search for love and romance because you are also hunting for a job. There is no need to hide that you are unemployed. You can be honest about the fact that you are out of work, just don’t monopolize the conversation by talking about it. No matter what your current situation you should not take over the conversation and job loss…
  • Tips for Online Dating After a Serious Illness

    Dating Headshots
    6 May 2015 | 5:18 am
    Going through a serious illness certainly does not diminish a person’s desire for love, romance and companionship. In some cases, it may make that desire stronger: once you have lived through a serious illness, you may be even more interested in living life to the fullest with someone by your side. There are online dating sites that have been created specifically for people with certain illnesses. You are not limited to these sites, of course, but for some people this provides common ground and a comfort level that they may not have on a general dating site. If there are no obvious…
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    Digital Romance Inc.

  • Never Settle: 5 Ways to Keep You on Track While Looking for Mr. Right

    Jackie M. Lee
    3 Jul 2015 | 5:00 am
    YOU deserve to be with the person who makes you feel your best. And never settle for anything... Read » The post Never Settle: 5 Ways to Keep You on Track While Looking for Mr. Right appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • 3 Mistakes Men Make When Approaching Women

    Kimberly Seltzer
    3 Jul 2015 | 4:00 am
    Besides the paralyzing effect that occurs when some men are attracted to women, there are other collective mistakes that men make when approaching women. Read » The post 3 Mistakes Men Make When Approaching Women appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • 10 Behaviors Cheaters Display

    Alexandre  and Adrian
    2 Jul 2015 | 5:00 am
    It's not easy to spot a cheater. Sometimes they're so thorough with their alibis and distractions that an affair can go on for years without the... Read » The post 10 Behaviors Cheaters Display appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • #1 Way to Keep a Man Interested

    Michael Fiore
    2 Jul 2015 | 4:00 am
    How do you keep a man completely interested in you throughout your relationship? Mike and Nora give insight into how to keep your man interested... Watch » The post #1 Way to Keep a Man Interested appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • How to Regain Control of Your Thoughts, Feelings, & Life After Love Betrayal

    John Taylor
    1 Jul 2015 | 5:00 am
    This article focuses on a relationship the offending partner has taken responsibility for betrayal and the goal is to stay together. Read » The post How to Regain Control of Your Thoughts, Feelings, & Life After Love Betrayal appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
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    Live, Laugh, Love, Shop

  • Beautiful Barcelona, Spain

    23 Jun 2015 | 11:34 pm
    Live, Laugh, Love, Shop Beautiful Barcelona, Spain My vaction officially started with my first stop in Barcelona, Spain. I’m not sure what my expectations were, but Barcelona exceeded any expectations I could have thought of. Barcelona is strikingly beautiful! The architecture, pier, fountains, Las Ramblas, sangria/cava, and its laid back atmosphere makes this a destination worth visiting. I thought the language barrier would be an issue, but surprisingly it wasn’t. I haven’t used my trusty English to Spanish ap since I’ve gotten here.  In a nutshell: I tried new…
  • Goodbye Flirty Thirties Hello Fabulous Forty

    17 Jun 2015 | 5:51 am
    Live, Laugh, Love, Shop Goodbye Flirty Thirties Hello Fabulous Forty Yesterday, I said goodbye to my flirty thirties and hello to my fabulous forties. In case you missed it, yesterday was my birthday. Last week, I was in my feelings about turning 40. I had such a fabulous time my thirties; I didn’t want to say goodbye or age another year. Time is moving fast. The older I get; the faster time flies. My feelings sparked my post from a few weeks ago Keep Calm I’m Turning 40. I spent most of my twenties married, and most of my thirties divorced. In all honestly, my life didn’t start until…
  • My Top Five Travel Essentials

    16 Jun 2015 | 6:59 am
    Live, Laugh, Love, Shop Travel season is officially here! I seem to think that anytime is a good time to get away, but most people do a majority of their traveling late spring and summer. Whenever I travel, I have five necessities that must go with me to my destination(s). Some have beauty/cosmetic items that they can’t leave behind. While others have tech items that they strap onto themselves to record all the action. Although I do love my tech gadgets, I don’t take then with me all the time. Here are my top five travel essentials:   My Top Five Travel Essentials by shawana-battie…
  • NOLA (New Orleans, LA) is Everything I Expected

    28 May 2015 | 6:46 pm
    Live, Laugh, Love, Shop I have an amazing time anytime I travel with my sisters. In February, we decided to do a girl’s trip to New Orleans, LA; neither of us had ever been before, so we jumped at the opportunity to book cheap flights during a sale. This is normally in January/February before the100 days of Summer take place. Some airlines offer cheap flights during the winter months. New Orleans is everything I expected. I’m ending day one with a tall hurricane, sore feet, and a full belly. I love the south and how friendly the people are. We don’t get much of that  in…
  • Blast from the Past: When Your Ex-Boyfriend Resurfaces

    22 May 2015 | 1:35 pm
    Live, Laugh, Love, Shop Blast from the Past: When Your Ex-Boyfriend Resurfaces Last week, I had a huge blast from the past when an old boyfriend sent me a message on Facebook. Needless to say, we’ve been chatting on the phone every day. Years ago, a psychic told me I already knew the love of my life. He would resurface in my life someday when the time was right. I know what you’re thinking, psychics are full of ish! They tell people what they want to hear; who doesn’t want wealth and love in their life? However, Madame Ruby words stuck with me. Every time an ex-flame digs from…
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    Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield


    1 Jul 2015 | 9:00 am
    Listen to an Interview with Lisa Shield at the 2015 Pillow TalkSummit   21 “Intimacy Experts” Reveal Their HiddenSecrets To A Better Love Life… FREE! Dear Clients, While I typically don’t send out these emails, I am excited to have been invited to be a guest speaker at the 2015 Pillow Talk Summit: Groundreaking Communications Techniques. Have the Sex You Want Now! Starting June 22nd, this 21 speaker, 11-day event is poised to be the sexual transformational event of the year. Here’s just a small sampling of what some of these expert speakers will be covering: • You’ll…
  • Online Dating: Getting Back in the Groove

    24 Apr 2015 | 12:43 pm
    Are you in a slump and need some help getting back into the online dating groove? Here’s the first thing you need to know: after a few months of online dating, it is inevitable to go through a slump and for feelings of futility and frustration to set in. This can feel especially discouraging if you’re doing everything can at your end to meet someone. It’s hard not to feel disheartened when the initial rush of emails you got when you first signed up dies down, your searches for a partner net fewer and fewer prospects, and you start to see the same boring profiles over and over again. But…
  • Being Too Strong Won’t Attract The Right Man

    30 Jan 2015 | 1:15 pm
    Right before my 40th birthday it hit me: being too strong wasn’t attracting the right man. It had been eight years since I divorced my first husband. I’d spent most of this time working on myself. Now it was time to put myself back on the dating circuit. As I started going out on dates, I began to question some of my long held beliefs about men, women, and relationships. Because I was a strong and independent woman, I had always thought that my ideal man would have to be stronger than me so that he would “challenge me” and “take the lead.” Now I began to wonder if there…
  • Life is a Gift–Accept It!

    21 Jan 2015 | 6:19 pm
    For most people, it’s a whole lot easier to get physically naked in a relationship than it is to get emotionally naked. Usually, when we take off our clothes for someone, it’s because we are giving something to another other person—namely, SEX. It’s a whole different story when we get emotionally naked and bare what’s below our skin. Our fear of rejection makes it hard to let down our guard and reveal ourselves to another person, especially when we want that person to find us attractive. No one can be more critical of us than we are of ourselves. But if we don’t even love and…
  • Why Being Happy Is The Best Gift You Can Give Your Partner

    3 Oct 2014 | 12:53 pm
    You have to be happy with yourself before you can ever be happy with someone else. When Pharell’s song “Happy” comes on the radio, he wants us all to clap along and feel happy, too. Granted, the tune is catchy, but have you ever listened to the lyrics? “Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof?”  Wow. That’s deep. He also posits “happiness is The Truth.” I wish it were that simple. While happiness has become a big buzzword in psychological circles, what happiness actually looks and feels like in modern society is still not clear. Are…
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    Dating Site Reviews

  • iDate Beijing Review and Recap

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    10 Jun 2015 | 3:20 pm
    It’s been about 10 days now that I have been back home from iDate Beijing and now that I have had time to get caught up with emails and reflect on the takeaways of this event, I wanted to take a few minutes share my experience at this conference with others. DISCLOSURES: First off, I […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post iDate Beijing Review and Recap appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • Single this weekend? Free offer May 1st – May 3rd 2015

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    30 Apr 2015 | 8:56 pm
    Hi friends! Great news. Friday (5/1/15), Saturday (5/2/15) and Sunday (5/3/15), ALL users will be able to communicate for free! This FREE Weekend will once again be supported their promotional TV commercials, increased online advertising and email marketing. What this means for you is more engaged users this weekend besides keeping more of your […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Single this weekend? Free offer May 1st – May 3rd 2015 appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • Most Popular Words Used in Dating Profiles by State

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    27 Feb 2015 | 9:05 am
    The week in random dating site news… I think it’s a riot how journalists bend over backwards to find and write stories about ‘online dating’, most of which are really not news. As a result I am going to start sharing just how random and useless the majority of these online dating ‘news stories’ are […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Most Popular Words Used in Dating Profiles by State appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • Videos from the 2015 iDate, Internet Dating Conference

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    27 Feb 2015 | 8:07 am
    Here are the videos from this past iDate 2015 Internet Dating Conference. This was the 40th such Internet Dating Industry Conference Event since the conference, trade show, and award ceremony launched. Also here is post conference wrap-up sharing a little more about what the event consisted of and who attended from the conference organizer Marc […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Videos from the 2015 iDate, Internet Dating Conference appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • eHarmony Free Valentines Weekend Offer Going Now!

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    12 Feb 2015 | 10:40 pm
    Hi friends! eHarmony, the winner of the best overall dating site award in our annual Golden Hearts Online Dating Site Awards has just emailed to share that this weekend their site is totally free to everyone. Here are the official days when the eHarmony free trial for Valentines Day will be going on: February 12th – 16th 2015!  […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post eHarmony Free Valentines Weekend Offer Going Now! appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
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    I Help You Date

  • How To Treat A GirlFriend

    Kevin Jani
    19 Jun 2015 | 5:30 am
    Almost every guys should how to behave or treat a girlfriend. There are few things to know for being a good boyfriend. As we know that boyfriends are not born great. They become good boyfriends by knowing how to behave with  the girl they love. The way she like to get treated. Be Nice. Be Gentle. Be Respectful. If you and your girlfriend together hangout in a group of friends, then don’t treat her differently at that time. Enjoy a lot with everybody and don’t let your friends feel that you don’t have time for them anymore. How To Treat A GirlFriend Many of time I see…
  • 5 Awesome Benefits Of Having Girlfriend

    Kevin Jani
    29 May 2015 | 9:27 pm
    Every one have their own choice. If someones fall in love it was not choice it was decision made by them to love each other.  Love to special ones gives extraordinary feeling to be happy. The best things with girlfriend can never be kept. They must be given away. A Smile, a Kiss, and Love. So here by I am talking about the 5 Awesome benefits of having girlfriend. #1. Someone To Take Care Of You We all need a person who is going to take care of us. Well having a girlfriend this thing we get easily, she will definitely going to take care about us. She will take care about food,clothes and…
  • 10 Things That Every Girl Want To Hear

    Kevin Jani
    27 May 2015 | 10:23 pm
    There are plenty of things that girls love to hear. Its seems that all young boys and man are wondering about that what she love most to hear? In most cases girls love complement and if you are committed then definitely she love to hear compliment. I did research on girls and found 10 best things that girls love to hear. Here’s a complete guide to help you learn exactly what girls wants to hear. #1. I love You “I love you” is always a good one to go to, but only if you actually do. Girls place much more importance to these three magical words. So, make sure you say it at the…
  • How To Impress Girl’s Dad

    Kevin Jani
    24 May 2015 | 10:54 pm
    After a great success of getting your dream girl as girlfriend, its time to move on and impress her dad. Always impressing her dad is tough compare to girlfriend because they have plenty of question to ask and many idea to underestimate us. Generally dad of every girls want guys like who have successful professional life and he know how to translate that life in to financial stability. Mostly this is the topmost priority. While before this meeting they never seen you, only heard of you and no matter how well your girlfriend has presented you in front of him, he will still judge you from…
  • Ways to Make Your Crush Like You

    Jaimin Kapadia
    21 May 2015 | 10:22 am
    Be Original:  When looking forward to make your crush like you. One is always trying to alter their personality to fit what you believe in your special person is looking for. Don’t do that. This will make you look and feel unnatural to go. And also make you special person go away. So no needs to show something that you aren’t and Be Yourself. Be Flirty: Being a guy, i know its a little hard to turn up the heat. But if your affords are right and fruitful when flirting you can get your special person can’t stop thinking about you. Flirt in a funny way that makes your partner…
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    Dating Sites XO

  • Check Him Out

    Heather Dundon
    2 Jul 2015 | 6:19 am
    Is the answer to dating site harassment? The site puts women in the driver's seat...would you use it to find a date?
  • Single Harley Riders

    Heather Dundon
    25 Jun 2015 | 5:31 am
    Single Harley Riders is one of the premier biker dating sites online. If you love your Harley it may be time to find someone to share your this the place?
  • Catholic Singles

    Heather Dundon
    18 Jun 2015 | 12:00 am
    Do the offerings at set it apart from the many other Catholic dating sites out there? We find out.
  • Ugly Schmucks

    Heather Dundon
    11 Jun 2015 | 5:55 am
    Ugly Schmucks is a dating site created specifically for "ugly" people to find each other. Are you ugly, or do you think you are? Might be worth a shot!
  • Justurk

    Heather Dundon
    4 Jun 2015 | 5:08 am is a dating site just for Turkish singles and those who love them. an you meet someone special here? Let's find out.
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    Mesh Blog

  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    3 Jul 2015 | 5:52 am
    You’ve made it to the long weekend–congrats! We’ve got you covered with the sweetest holiday bashes (minus massive firework-trekking-tourist-crowds) from backyard Brooklyn barbecues to pig roasts and patriotic burlesque. Heck, we’ve even got giant scrabble, OITNB trivia and meditative dancing to get you through until next weekend. Here’s to a happy 4th! FRI 3 The Usual Rejects: Jurassic Park Comedy Show Chain Theatre, 21-28 45th Road, Long Island City; 7pm; $15 After their sell-out shows for “Back to the Future” and “Terminator 2,” this…
  • Making the Right List

    Jessica Coyle
    1 Jul 2015 | 6:50 am
    We all have characteristics that we want out of a lover, ranging from “symmetrical breasts” to “never uses baby talk” to “calls his mom frequently” As we grow, the list usually evolves with us. Maybe it gets shorter, maybe it gets longer, maybe for a while it disappears and then comes back again with “practicing Catholic” added or deleted. College me had a list with two line items. - likes me - not a proven murderer Oh, self-hatred. These days, my list is longer. - funny - sexy - handsome - kind - likes me - not a proven murderer I’ve…
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    26 Jun 2015 | 5:07 am
    Ah, summer. How we love your shorter work days (Summer Fridays, anyone?) and longer nights. This weekend catch a flick in the park, dine on a rooftop farm, and kick off your morning with a waterfront workout. Whatever you choose to do for fun, do it in the sun. #summer2015 FRI 26 French Films on the Green: “Zarafa” Tompkins Square Park; 8:30pm; FREE Add a European twist to your Friday nights with this summer film series held in parks around the city. Tonight’s feature, “Zarafa,” tells an animated story about a boy’s escape from slave traders, his befriending of a giraffe, and…
  • Improv Your Relationship

    Jessica Coyle
    24 Jun 2015 | 5:25 am
    What is improv? Wait, Whose Line? That TV show from the 90s? Yes, but the improv you’ll find in big cities is different. It’s called long form, and it’s more akin to jazz than party games. Simply put, small groups make up short plays, typically around 25 minutes long. I’ve been doing improvisational comedy for a little over six years. It was a big reason I moved to New York City. I rehearse, take classes, intern, or perform improv four days a week, and while this exhausting schedule can make finding time for romance a bit challenging, when I do date I date better.
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    19 Jun 2015 | 6:07 am
    Whether you’re into stargazing, sipping a beer cocktail, or watching weird cartoons on a rooftop, we’ve got you covered with the best things to do from this weekend until the next. Happy Summer Solstice! FRI 19 Rebel Cupcake: Time of Our Lives Littlefield, 622 Degraw St., Brooklyn; 11pm; $10 This body positive queer dance party encourages you to come wearing “that outfit you can’t wear anywhere else.” Shake off the week’s worries to pop favorites from the 80s and 90s and live tunes from DJ Precolumbian (SXSW).  Special performances include roller skate burlesque plus,…
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    Attract The One

  • Real Talk: You Deserve More, But The Choice Is Yours

    Debra Smouse
    29 Jun 2015 | 5:00 am
    I talk to women all the time who are, well, sick and tired of being sick and tired of how their life is going. They are unhappy, unfulfilled, and just don’t see how life can change. They feel stuck behind the labels they’ve assigned to themselves. Mom. Wife. Sister. Grandmother. They tell me about numbing […] The post Real Talk: You Deserve More, But The Choice Is Yours appeared first on Attract The One.
  • Should You Burn “Your List” When It Comes To Meeting Mr. Right?

    Elizabeth Stone
    23 Jun 2015 | 7:30 am
    Recently I had the pleasure of being a guest on the podcast with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler. Among the things we discussed during that lovely talk were your dating list, and how women often use their what they want to sabotage themselves when it comes to finding love. Now, I’m a big supporter of knowing […] The post Should You Burn “Your List” When It Comes To Meeting Mr. Right? appeared first on Attract The One.
  • Want To Feel Sexier? 8 Ways to Boost Your Confidence Starting Now

    Debra Smouse
    22 Jun 2015 | 7:11 am
    When I prepared for the release of my group coaching program, “Make Your Inner Sex Kitten Roar,” I talked to both men and women about what makes a person sexy. The number one answer: confidence. I wish that I could hand you a beautifully wrapped gift filled with all the confidence you’ll ever need, but I […] The post Want To Feel Sexier? 8 Ways to Boost Your Confidence Starting Now appeared first on Attract The One.
  • Should You Get Married? 10 Critical Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Say “I Do”

    Jorden Roper
    9 Jun 2015 | 9:01 am
    Should you get married? While the thought of getting married can be exciting, it’s also a huge, life-altering decision. Believe me – I would know. I’ve been through a broken engagement, and even though my ex-fiancée and I weren’t right for each other, it still really sucked. I felt like my whole life had been […] The post Should You Get Married? 10 Critical Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Say “I Do” appeared first on Attract The One.
  • Why Taking Time For Self Care Isn’t A Luxury, It’s a Choice

    Debra Smouse
    8 Jun 2015 | 5:00 am
    Who has time to floss their teeth every day? Let alone use their electronic toothbrush for the allotted 2 minutes? And, honestly, who has the luxury of so much time that they actually remember to use sunscreen every day? And is there anyone out there – except maybe the rich and famous Housewives – who […] The post Why Taking Time For Self Care Isn’t A Luxury, It’s a Choice appeared first on Attract The One.
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    The Dating Captain

  • What is Social Proof? – PUA Definition Series

    The Dating Captain
    30 Jun 2015 | 1:57 am Term: Social Proof Social Proof is the actual evidence to prove what you’re saying to a woman is true. When storytelling and sharing DHVs in stories, it means a lot more to actually have things in your possession to prove what you’re saying. Think of the phrase “the proof is in the pudding.” People can say whatever they want, but it takes evidence for it to be believed. Example 1: Any guy can pretend they have tons of women who want them. By having a social media profiles that have women all over it via writing and/or pictures, that’s a good…
  • How to Stop Being Needy and Insecure

    The Dating Captain
    30 Jun 2015 | 12:02 am One of the major problems men claim to have, or are directly told they have (ouch),,is that they’re needy or insecure. Neediness, or needing/wanting approval and “OKs” from women is a genuine problem that men have. There are a few reasons why guys act in an approval seeking manner, and understanding them can help men to stop being needy and insecure in the future. There are also many types of insecurities, the one described in this article is the insecurity that has a root in neediness, which often drives needy and approval seeking thought…
  • What is Pre-Selection? – PUA Definition Series

    The Dating Captain
    28 Jun 2015 | 1:25 pm Term: Pre-Selection Acronyms: SMV (Selective Mate Value), SRV (Selective Reproduction Value), SMRV (Selective Mate Reproduction Value) Pre-Selection Pre-selection is what I consider to be the most effective way to get a woman’s emotions riled up. Pre-selection is when a man is with a woman (or women) and other women are attracted to him as a result. Pre-selection is also another way to describe jealousy/competition emotions that women feel when it comes to other women. A guy who is in a relationship with a woman will often experience his girlfriend getting jealous…
  • The Best Places to Meet Women

    The Dating Captain
    9 May 2015 | 11:48 pm Men always want to know where they can meet the girl of their dreams. This can happen any time, at any place. Whether it’s going for a jog and you pass by a woman walking her dog, or you park next to a woman and walk into a store at the same time, there are a variety of ways to meet that dream girl. Meeting women in the Summer or warm environments offers a variety of different venues to meet women as well, so I’ve included those in there own section. The following are the best ways to meet women. Best Places to Meet Women At Clubs and Bars A majority of people…
  • Best First Date Ideas, With First Date Tips

    The Dating Captain
    24 Feb 2015 | 11:45 pm Where to go on a First Date (First Date Ideas) When planning a date it makes things a lot less stressful to have a full plan laid out for the evening, if you know what you’re going to do there’s no reason to worry. Men are often stumped about the best options and places to go for a first date, or run out of ideas when they’ve been dating someone for a while. These first date ideas will help out with the planning of a date now or in the future. With an abundance of ideas you can use these for quite awhile. As discussed below in the tips, touch is the key aspect of a…
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  • Swedish Girls

    25 Jun 2015 | 10:45 pm
    The idea that Sweden is a tall, blonde, beautiful paradise is about as common as the idea that Iraq is not a great place to holiday right now. Having lived in Sweden for half a year now I feel a little qualified to provide a little advice on the seduction of you’re average Swedish Girl. I guess a genuine Swede would be able to add few things, but these are the views of an observer in the shoes of a tourist. Be prepared, along the way we are going to chop a few branches off the Swedish myth tree. Appearance The Internet seems obsessed with the idea that Sweden is full of tall busty women…
  • 38 Signs to know when a Relationship Is Over

    1 Jun 2015 | 6:16 am
    Your Girlfriend is very cold and distant lately. Something feels wrong, it seems like she lost interest in you and the relationship. You are afraid that she doesn’t want to be with you anymore. In this article, I’m going to show you different signs how to know when a relationship is over. Use this signs to find out if she doesn’t love you anymore. It helps you to know the truth before your relationship is coming to an end. Maybe there is still a chance to turn things around. However the more of these signs she is showing, the harder it will be to save your relationship. More…
  • 21 Signs She’s Girlfriend Material

    Sean Winn
    28 Apr 2015 | 1:00 am
    Cliché as it may seem, it is very safe to say that no man is an island. After countless first dates and constant night-outs, we eventually get tired of putting ourselves out there and wish that she will be “the one”. At the end of the day, perhaps what we are yearning for is to have someone who will be a constant part of our lives, day-in and day-out. Unfortunately, it doesn’t come easy. One tricky part of the dating cycle is knowing when to transition from casually going out and getting to know each other to officially being in a relationship. Here are 15 signs that can help you…
  • 10 Ways – How to get over someone you love

    PUAmore Team
    13 Apr 2015 | 12:08 am
    Recovering from a breakup or simply trying to forget an unrequited love can be a very daunting task. You may find yourself incapable of moving forward and convinced that forgetting that someone is totally impossible. This person is everywhere and moving on isn’t just an option as of the moment. Technically, this is pretty much normal for everyone who loved someone and is now trying to forget that someone. However, this is not how things have to be and should be. There is more to life than this pit of depression that you’re letting yourself getting sunk into. By simply doing some…
  • How to get a girl to kiss you – Videos

    Sean Winn
    20 Feb 2015 | 10:50 am
    In this article I will help you to find out more about how to get a girl to kiss you. I think the best way to learn something is to watch examples of how other people do it. Monkey see, monkey do. In the best case these videos are not staged, but real live examples. That’s why I have collected all videos that I could find which show you a few guys who approach girls in all kind of situations. You can learn different things from each and implement it in your own game. There is also another article that I wrote about 10 first kiss tips, which you should also check out for some…
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    Love My Brit

  • The UK Fiancé Visa: Accommodation

    Chris Martin
    7 Jun 2015 | 3:30 am
    There are a number of requirements couples need to fulfil in order to obtain a UK Fiancé or Spousal visa. In this guide we break down the accommodation requirements, to make it a little easier to understand. In our previous articles, we have discussed the evidence the sponsor will need to provide, the evidence the applicant […] The post The UK Fiancé Visa: Accommodation appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • The UK Fiancé Visa: The Financial Requirement

    Chris Martin
    31 May 2015 | 3:30 am
    One of the topics that we receive the most the most questions about is the financial requirement of the UK Fiancé Visa. It is no surprise, this is a confusing and convoluted topic. We have spent hours ourselves pouring over the guidance provided by the government, as well as advice from other couples and agencies, to […] The post The UK Fiancé Visa: The Financial Requirement appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • The Proposal: We’re Officially Engaged

    Chris Martin
    29 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    Recently, I proposed to my long distance girlfriend and it was the most exciting, exhilarating yet nerve wracking thing I have ever done. Chelsea and I have been in a long distance relationship since August 4th 2013. Since then we have visited each other on average about once every three months for about two weeks […] The post The Proposal: We’re Officially Engaged appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 3 – The UK

    Chris Martin
    22 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    At the end of March, Chelsea and I took our first true long distance relationship holiday. The original goal was to meet in the middle, so that we each travelled half the distance. However, we were unable to find anywhere between the UK & USA that could be called the middle. So, instead our plans […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 3 – The UK appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 2 – Italy

    Chris Martin
    15 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    Over the last few weeks, Chelsea and I have been on holiday around Europe. We made three stops along our way. The first was in Greece, the second Italy, and our final destination was the UK. In this article, we pick up where we left off. At the end of our time in Greece, I […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 2 – Italy appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • Older Men Who Like Younger Women Aren’t Creeps

    Nick Notas
    2 Jul 2015 | 10:07 am
    Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for the youngest age of a woman a man can date. So a 34-year old guy can date a 24-year old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 23 years old…that guy’s a pervert. Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But many people in society still look down upon older men dating younger girls. They think it’s creepy and even put them the same category as pedophiles. This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences. So much so, that they don’t go after women they’re actually interested…
  • Not All Long Distance Relationships Have to Fail

    Nick Notas
    25 Jun 2015 | 10:11 am
    Studies now estimate 14 million Americans are in long distance relationships. College students move across the country from their high school sweethearts. Someone gets a new job a few states away from their partners and they try to make it work. People meet through online dating, fly to meet up, and then continue building their connection through video calls.  The thing is, long distance relationships are hard. And from my experience as a dating coach, most of them fail. But I don’t think they have to. The #1 reason long distance relationships don’t succeed A lack of physical…
  • Podcast: Taking Conversations from Boring to Exciting and Sexual

    Nick Notas
    18 Jun 2015 | 10:43 am
      David de las Morenas & Dave Perrotta run a podcast called Beastly Gentleman. They teach men how to unleash their full potential in life, love, and career while still being a classy guy. So when they reached out to me to be on their show, I knew they’d be a perfect fit for all of you. They understood the values I stand for, aligned with them, and genuinely asked thought-provoking questions. They’ve interviewed incredible experts such as James Altucher, so I felt extremely fortunate to be on their show.  David and Dave being the beasts they are. For the episode, we…
  • 5 New Rules of Modern Dating

    Nick Notas
    3 Jun 2015 | 8:37 am
    It’s a god damn war zone out there! Okay, maybe that’s a little overdramatic. But for a lot of people, the current dating scene feels like a battle royale. We set-up dates over text that get cancelled last minute. We message dozens of people online and don’t get a single response. You meet up with someone, have an awesome time, and mysteriously never hear from them again. It has never been simpler to find a date without even getting out of your pajamas. Yet the tools that are supposed to make dating easier often leave us frustrated and even more lonely. I hear about it all the…
  • The Good Side of “Bad” Attitudes

    Nick Notas
    21 May 2015 | 9:44 am
      As I get older, I’ve become much more of a critical thinker. I used to be set in my ways: I’d form an opinion and take sides before seeing the whole picture. Nowadays, I try to look at things from all angles. I’m always trying to challenge my beliefs and the status quo. I’m always asking questions like… “Is this true? Well…why do I believe it to be true? Is it because I’m afraid to admit I’m wrong? Is it because it’s always been that way? Is it because it makes me feel insecure? Is there another viewpoint I should consider?” We became humans and rose to…
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  • Get More Sex With Adult Dating

    1 Jul 2015 | 9:31 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Sex is the predominant motivation for people joining an affair dating site. It might be that they want more sex, they want different sex or they want to enjoy the risk and excitement that casual sex offers, but sex is usually central one way or another. When you join an adult dating site like Marital Affair, you will find that your sex life improves significantly and you might even get more sex than you had ever dreamed of in the past. Lack of sex life at home A desire for more sex usually comes from a…
  • Married Dating in an Open Marriage

    18 Jun 2015 | 3:22 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Not all relationships are the same. They are shaped on the people within them and their personal beliefs and values. Therefore, what one coupled thinks constitutes a happy marriage will be entirely different from the next couple. Some couples prefer not to have a monogamous relationship and are quite happy for both themselves and their partner to have sexual relations with other people. This is often referred to as an open marriage. If this is the type of marriage you have, then married dating can be a…
  • Are Married Dating Sites Less Risky Than Unplanned Affairs?

    4 Jun 2015 | 3:28 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Affairs can begin in two basic ways. The first is a planned affair where you deliberately start on a journey looking for a sexual relationship outside of your marriage. The second is an unplanned affair that usually begins when you meet someone you are attracted to at work, within your social circle or on a night out. The question is which is riskier – married dating or an unplanned affair? Mutual contacts People interested in married dating usually have no prior connection and meet by placing…
  • Adult Dating for Gay People

    20 May 2015 | 7:34 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Adult dating is not just something for straight people to enjoy. It is also an option for gay people who are married or in a long-term relationship that want sex outside of their relationship too. If this sounds like an interesting idea that you would like to find out more about, then try using the following tips. Specify your preferences When you join an adult dating site, you will need to let people know who and what you are looking for on the site. In order to get across your requirements you need…
  • Adult Dating and Threesomes

    13 May 2015 | 6:45 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at One of the great things about adult dating is that it offers exciting opportunities to try new things that you have never had the chance to experience before. One such thing is a threesome. If a threesome is something you would like to try yourself, there are some points you should consider. The threesome fantasy What turns on each person is individual to them, but most people have a fantasy that they have always dreamed of fulfilling. One of the most common is a threesome as the thought of having sex…
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  • TEST II Yep

    3 Jul 2015 | 9:02 pm
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  • Think Like a Man! - Part I

    3 Jul 2015 | 9:02 pm
    I am now officially using two of the most superficial apps to date people: Tinder and Happn - I have to say I quite like the concept of Happn; however it doesn't work as it is marketed to. These two apps, which look more like games, give me more dating options than I could possibly handle. It's literally driving me crazy. It's as if the 'candidates' are being shortlisted all the time. Each single word counts. But.. damn! I just wanted some sort of meaningful conversation! Ok, Maybe...just maybe... being swept off my feet! I am not asking too much, am I?I lost count of how many messages are…
  • Online Dating Part I

    3 Jul 2015 | 9:02 pm
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • From Virtual Connection to WTF

    3 Jul 2015 | 9:02 pm
    You might remind Jack from the Virtual Connection post. You might be also curious about our date. Let's say that basically, I was right in my assumptions. I will follow my own advice from now on: Do not engage in excessive online conversation with someone before knowing them in person.So as most of you know, I was looking forward to going to this date. I had been exchanging texts with Jack for a few days and our conversations were quite elaborate and intense. There was some sort of virtual connection there (or maybe I was desperately looking for one).I was perfectly aware that I was creating…
  • Persistence to "MeetUp"

    3 Jul 2015 | 9:02 pm
    So after I broke up with Connor, I admit that I was feeling lonely. Plus, I knew that my flatmate was going on holidays for a while which only contributed to my panic. I would never imagine that I would feel as free, as independent and happy as I feel now! So before she departed, she told me I should 1) stop seeing Connor as it wouldn't do us any good and 2) do some activities and meet new people, not necessarily guys!I actually thought it was a good idea! First, I joined a few dance classes with my friend Esmeralda and we had a lot of fun doing it (We are still doing it on a weekly basis)!
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    The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful

  • A Potpourri of Married Sex and Asshat Advice From

    2 Jul 2015 | 8:00 am
    Hello Fair Reader. There are two of me now. My personal blog here and my relationship website where you’ll find the same ribald, inappropriate, yet hopefully helpful (?) advice about dating and marriage. Here’s what’s been going on over there: You’re Going to Need a Higher Power to Quit Your Asshat, Even If You’re An Atheist. Excerpt: My higher power looked like my dear acting coach, Jeff Corey. “I was raised Mormon, which didn’t suit me.   It made me suspicious of God. So I became agnostic. I wore my agnosticism like a Girl Scout merit badge.
  • She Lost Her SoulMate, You’ll Be Surprised at What Helped her Through her Grief

    30 Jun 2015 | 8:00 am
    Yoga includes a whole new vocabulary of words and phrases. Judy Freedman is my guest writer today. I love this story about how a passion for yoga lead her out of the grief she suffered when she lost her husband. Judy writes: This year, I started training to become a yoga instructor. For fellow yogis – my blog post will remind you of why you practice. For non-yogis – come along for the ride – maybe I’ll entice you to try a class or two. Why I Love Yoga I began my yoga practice about seven years ago, shortly after losing my husband. It was a way to physically and mentally focus and…
  • 5 Reasons I Sometimes Want to Leave my Husband

    27 Jun 2015 | 8:00 am
    Today I’m lucky to have fabulous author, Kathy Radigan on my blog. She’s beautiful, funny and kind. Come to think of it, I don’t think we can be friends after all. Sigh. Kathy writes: I’m a huge believer in marriage. The idea of two people, gay or straight, deciding to make a lifetime commitment to each other is one that always makes me smile. My husband, Joe and I, recently celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary. We’ve been very lucky to have spent most of these years very happily married. But I’d be lying if I told you that I’ve never wanted to pack up my…
  • Growing Up Slutty

    25 Jun 2015 | 8:00 am
    The kickass Kelly Robert’s piece “Growing Up Slutty” absolutely blows me away. It’s a must-read for women of all ages. Fierce. Powerful. It sets Slut Shaming back on its heels by reclaiming the word “slutty” the way Eve Ensler reclaimed the word “c&nt” in the Vagina Monologues. Kelly writes: Who knew that the path to sexual enlightenment could happen driving north on Interstate 35, past Iowa cornfields, on the way to a country music concert you didn’t really want to see? It did for me. It was a few years ago, and I was with my best friend…
  • 7 Tips to Feel Sexy, Healthy and Fresh Each Day

    21 Jun 2015 | 9:00 am
    This June I’m turning the big 5 – 0 in a lovely villa in Tuscany along with my two best friends, whom I’ve known since the 4th grade. All those years ago, sitting out on the baseball field at recess we spoke in hushed tones about the ways our bodies were changing with the onset of puberty. We all grew at different paces, but there’s one thing we all would have agreed upon back then. Writing, for the whole world to see, about the importance of “feminine freshness” would have been death by mortification. But if there’s one thing I love the most about women…
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    Get A Beautiful Girlfriend

  • Creating an Abundance of Choices

    Captain Jack
    30 Jun 2015 | 10:13 am
    I’ve been coaching off and on for almost 10 years now. Most men struggle because they don’t know WHAT to say when they are engaged in a conversation to start the relationship down the path they want… ..or… …they have so few women in their life they don’t get enough opportunities to make the connection. Fortunately, both of those problems are solvable and already solved.  In getting a Beautiful Girlfriend the first situation you want to handle is to recognize that you’ve most likely structured your life (or it just sort of happened this way with not…
  • The Search

    Captain Jack
    30 Jun 2015 | 7:58 am
    Now that you’ve seen that we are talking about a Game where both Players can win we can start laying the groundwork. It is how to FIND and then ATTRACT a woman. But, even before that, you have a few decisions to make. The first thing you have to decide is that you really WANT a beautiful girlfriend. For the best chances of long-term success you shouldn’t just get sucked into a relationship by a woman who knows how to push your buttons. Nor should you SETTLE because you don’t think you can get a woman with the qualities you want. Neither case would be fair to either of you.
  • A Game Where Both Players Win

    Captain Jack
    30 Jun 2015 | 7:07 am
    This is Part 3 of a series. If you haven’t read the previous post in this series go here… or, if you haven’t read ANY of the posts go to the beginning of the series here Have you ever thought why it’s called “The Dating Game?” Or, why it’s been called a “Game” for hundreds of years? And… why men who see a lot of women at once are called “Players?” Remember, that book from the 1990s called “The Rules” by Fein and Schneider which gave women a set of ‘Rules’ to follow in Dating? The Courtship process…
  • Life Unraveled

    Captain Jack
    30 Jun 2015 | 6:32 am
    This is Part 2 of a continuing series. If you haven’t read the previous post then go here. Or… if you haven’t read ANY posts then start at the beginning. In late 2003 my marriage unraveled. I knew the divorce papers were coming, I just didn’t know when. I FELT like it could come any moment so I dreaded every knock on the door and every unrecognized car in my parking lot. But, there wasn’t a whole lot I could do so I just waited. One particular afternoon I was sitting on my couch eating a bowl of “Lucky Charms” cereal when I heard a knock on the door.
  • How to Get (and Keep) A Beautiful Girlfriend

    Captain Jack
    29 Jun 2015 | 5:34 pm
    Welcome! This site is all about “How to Get (and Keep) A Beautiful Girlfriend”. If you’ve heard about me before you know I pioneered a lot of innovations in mid to late 2000s in the area of meeting women. Most of them had to do with getting to sex as quickly as possible because at the time that is EXACTLY what my goal was… however, I learned after a few years of that it wasn’t all it was cracked up to be. So, I switched gears and started thinking more in terms of relationships. Interestingly, when I talked to other guys this is MOSTLY what they wanted to achieve…
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  • How to Have Sex in the Office without getting caught

    30 Jun 2015 | 9:00 am
    The post How to Have Sex in the Office without getting caught appeared first on
  • Work guide Top 13 Tips on How to Tell If a Guy Likes Your Body Language

    5 Jun 2015 | 9:00 am
    13 Tips on How to Tell If a Guy Likes Your Body Language Men have always been elusive creatures. Their body language is normally less expressive than women’s. And more women like men that are mysterious, especially when considering them for long term relationships. Men are also known for speaking a little bit less, so […] The post Work guide Top 13 Tips on How to Tell If a Guy Likes Your Body Language appeared first on
  • Advice for your dating profile to date British guys at work

    22 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    How to date a British guy at work Have you had a very classy British man from work that you absolutely wanted to go out with? In one of my jobs, he was one of our bosses. I think he was a dream guy in the eyes of a lot of women. He was handsome, […] The post Advice for your dating profile to date British guys at work appeared first on
  • Why do men cheat? Analyze the men at work

    18 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    Why do men cheat? In this post we’ll take a deeper look at why men cheat.  We thought it could be fun so that you could have fun analyzing the men at work to see if they could be potential cheaters… But first of all, did you know that 40% of men cheat with a woman […] The post Why do men cheat? Analyze the men at work appeared first on
  • Ever shied away from guys? Learn how to catch ‘Em

    14 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    Ever shied away around guys? Learn how to catch ‘Em at work! Have you often shied away around guys? Would you like more guys to come and talk to you? And did you know why shyness creates barriers with men? If your goal is to attract men’s attention fast, then shyness is a barrier. But did […] The post Ever shied away from guys? Learn how to catch ‘Em appeared first on
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    Pass the salt

  • Rhe Kiss

    Robert W Kingett
    22 Jun 2015 | 9:28 am
    We slowly draw closer in the enveloping blackness. My porch light illuminates his chocolate face as we draw closer, collapsing the distance of our feelings. Crickets cheer us on in this game of chance. The warm air places a heavy … Continue reading →
  • The Needy Reporter

    Robert W Kingett
    1 Jun 2015 | 6:54 am
    It’s late at night and I am amazed that I am here on an assignment. I am actually here to interview a few athletes, because my editor wants me to write about something I could care less about, sports. I … Continue reading →
  • The Boy on the Bus

    Robert W Kingett
    22 Mar 2015 | 2:17 pm
    Usually, I work from home, where a bathroom trip equals twenty steps and the effort it takes to pull my pants down and sit on the porcelain throne. Since I started my new internship, however, I’ve become just as adventurous … Continue reading →
  • The Job applicant

    Robert W Kingett
    28 Feb 2015 | 7:19 pm
    If someone tells you to always expect the unexpected when dating, believe them with every inch of your soul. It isn’t that people will fall out of the sky unexpectedly, but people will definitely do some weird things. To them, … Continue reading →
  • You can now subscribe to dates on your kindle

    Robert W Kingett
    31 Jan 2015 | 9:09 pm
    Just in case you didn’t see the new link in the navigation area, people can now read my dates on their kindle! I also will be doing some disability related dating writings as well such as, how not to offend … Continue reading →
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    Stranger's Face

  • How To Choose The Right University Course

    Socio Dynamo
    26 Jun 2015 | 9:43 pm
    WHAT COURSE SHOULD YOU CHOOSE? COURSE CHOOSING GUIDE In this world full of needs, the best choice will be the future job on which it is the most needed by the community as a whole in our planet. The most needed job will be the job which will have more opportunities in the future depending on the market’s stability. But is that all there is to choosing the course you want? Unfortunately the answer is a big NO. Ask yourself this question before you waltz in to a university and check the boxes on what course you will enroll, “Do I want to be a _____”. Visualize yourself after you have…
  • The other guy

    25 Jun 2015 | 3:40 pm
    My seatmate has been absent since two days ago so the chair beside me has been empty since then. My chair is just beside the door, and every time a late comer arrives, I serve as the door man. “Mr Ted, kindly open the door” I think it’s cool that my professor remember my first name, it’s just the first week of classes. I’m actually not kind, but seriously this is the 5th late comer and its already 1:40, and is it that difficult to knock? I reached my arm beside the door and turned the bar to unlock. And comes the princess of the class, Alyssa, every males target…
  • Don’t Rate Women.

    Socio Dynamo
    17 Mar 2015 | 7:40 am
    We are all humans, and as humans. I hope that we are all aware that we have feelings. The main topic of this article are about men who are giving ratings to women based on their physical attributes.  The effects of rating women and how can rating a woman destroy our “game”. 2 years have passed and there are still a lot to improve on about ourselves, not only that it correlates to how we interact with women. But the way we become a better person. 2 years have passed and that I feel like an idiot because I have just figured this out by now. RATING WOMEN IS NOT HELPING ! I also rate…
  • Go Out More

    Socio Dynamo
    11 Mar 2015 | 6:07 pm
    Studying the dating game and being an expert at it takes a lot more than just reading a book and applying the new profound social skills that you have learned. Being attractive is something that varies from time to time, and there are a lot of factors why women’s preferences changes. But a woman will always pick a guy with no insecurities and can bring fun in the relationship. The trick is not to have fake stories you can tell a woman to make yourself look like a fun guy to be with or a man of value. Females are smart beings and that faking stories and personalities will not get you…
  • Hit That Reality Wall Hard

    Socio Dynamo
    10 Mar 2015 | 8:03 am
    It has almost been 3 years since I was introduced to the dating game. The transition from loser average frustrated chump to pick up artist is very hard and there are a lot of obstacles to overcome. But today I can no longer say or even claim that I am pick up artist. The harsh reality is that I am a good conversationalist, though I can see and read the intentions of every person around me but there’s a force that prevents me from gaining the goal that a pick up artist is dreaming to have. There are different goals a person have but the deal is it’s not really the outcome but the…
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    The Daily Dater

  • A Secret Way Into His Mind

    1 Jul 2015 | 8:00 pm
    About a year ago, I began coaching women a secret way into a man’s mind. My first female student was actually my former personal assistant, who desperately needed help weeding out the wrong men. I found out that many of the techniques I previously taught only to men worked BETTER for women. Today’s Tip: Learn […] The post A Secret Way Into His Mind appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • When Your Speech Gets In The Way

    Garrison Cohen
    30 Jun 2015 | 8:30 pm
    How You Speak Tells Her How You’ll Be In Bed… I have a childhood buddy named Fred who I recently visited back in Boston. He’s a great guy with a huge heart. He’s a total “You could run over his cat and he’d still be your buddy” kinda guy. But Fred has one of those common […] The post When Your Speech Gets In The Way appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Why Are Picky People Unlucky in Love?

    Julie Ferman
    24 Jun 2015 | 5:00 pm
    Are You One Of Those PICKY People? Look up the word “picky” in the dictionary, and my guess is that you wouldn’t want to be described this way: Niggling, persnickety, fussy, finicky, particular, anal, demanding, snobby… the list of yucky adjectives goes on and on. Bottom line, to be picky is to look for what’s […] The post Why Are Picky People Unlucky in Love? appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Men: Know This Ultimate Cheat Code To Get Great Girls By Your Side

    17 Jun 2015 | 9:58 am
    So, years ago I used to play video games. Ahem… okay, maybe SOMETIMES I still play video games, but I digress And I sometimes use cheat codes when I play the games.  I know, I know… bad monkey… but I can’t help it.  Sometimes the game is just too damn hard. Just like with women. […] The post Men: Know This Ultimate Cheat Code To Get Great Girls By Your Side appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Get The Basics Down For Better Results With Women

    Kimberly Seltzer
    17 Jun 2015 | 8:43 am
    “Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society.”-Mark Twain If you want to make an impression and be unforgettable with women, you need to at least update your wardrobe. As long as you know the basics, building a closet of wardrobe essentials for men is actually a lot easier than […] The post Get The Basics Down For Better Results With Women appeared first on The Daily Dater.
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    Sexy Confidence

  • 7 Signs You’re Dating A True Gentleman

    Adam LoDolce
    2 Jul 2015 | 7:11 am
    A modern day gentleman makes himself “presentable”. Has modern dating killed the gentleman? Many single women say yes. But I disagree. It’s just a matter of knowing what to look for in a man (and weeding out the guys who don’t meet your standards). So I decided to create this video outlining the 7 signs you’re dating a true gentleman. From here on out, the sexy confidence community will only accept men into their lives who they’d consider a true gentleman. Capisce? Watch the 7 Signs You’re Dating a True Gentleman   Have you ever dated a true…
  • Why Men Suddenly Pull Away

    Adam LoDolce
    25 Jun 2015 | 8:05 am
    Have you ever started dating “the perfect” guy and out of no where he suddenly pulls away? In this week’s short video I give four reasons why a man might retract in a relationship and what to do about it. Watch “Why Men Pull Away” Have you ever had a man suddenly pull away? How did you handle it? Leave a comment below. Your Coach, Adam
  • How To Stop Caring What People Think

    Adam LoDolce
    18 Jun 2015 | 7:39 am
    “Yup, I’m wearing the bro-iest shirt I own. Why? ‘Cause I can.”Six years ago, I decided I was going to be a “dating coach”. It was random, weird, and socially unacceptable to most people. So very quickly I had to learn how to stop caring about what people thought, because literally everyone on planet earth had an opinion about my work. Now maybe you’re not trying to become a dating coach, but you probably still have people telling you what you should or shouldn’t be doing in your life. They might judge you for being single or always try to give…
  • The Harsh Reality About Why Some Relationships Fail

    Adam LoDolce
    21 May 2015 | 6:02 am
    Relationships fail for all sorts of reasons. Maybe there wasn’t chemistry. Maybe there wasn’t long term compatibility. Maybe the timing was off. Or maybe, just maybe, there was something VERY wrong with someone in the relationship. In this new video I review a very basic, but critical reality about why relationships fail. Check it out. Have you ever dated someone like this? Are YOU the person I talk about in this video? Let me know in the comments section below. Your Coach, Adam
  • 7 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Need to Bring Back

    Adam LoDolce
    14 May 2015 | 6:18 am
    Dating has changed more in the past 20 years than in all of human history. Most of it is good, but some of it is NOT so good. So in this week’s video I wanted to outline 7 old fashioned dating habits that we need to bring back. Enjoy the video If you agree, then please share it with your friends. Let’s bring these habits BACK! Also, did I miss any old fashioned dating habits that YOU want to bring back? Let me know in the comments below. Your bud, Adam    
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    Getting to TRUE Love

  • Is There a Chance He'll Want to Become Serious After Awhile And "Come Back"?

    3 Jul 2015 | 2:45 am
    Is there a chance, or am I just wasting my time? Our beautiful friend, Eve, is dating a guy that has told her he doesn't want a commitment, and she's wondering what to do next. Here's her story: Dear Jane, First and for all, thank you for all the good advice and real life stories. I have learned a lot from them. My story is similar to some I already read, although I feel there is a nuance which makes me still doubt my situation. The end of March, I met a guy through mutual interests (we were both playing Music at the same event) and after adding me on facebook, we quickly started chatting…
  • 4 Habits to Bring You Closer to Love

    30 Jun 2015 | 2:45 am
    Smile - it makes you feel better (and more attractive) instantly! You say you're done. You say you're ready to find the love you've been searching for your whole life. But do you really mean it? It's time to start living like you mean what you say. No more excuses, no more putting your love life on hold while the days slip away. Yes, it's going to require some work on your part. But this is one where you set the pace. How quickly you want this to happen for you is completely up to you.  It's time to start paying attention – really listening - to that self-talk you do every day. Start…
  • I'm Acting Desperate and I Can't Seem to Stop Myself!

    26 Jun 2015 | 2:45 am
    Why do I feel so desperate? How do I stop this? Our beautiful friend, Ally, has been burned recently in her online dating life, and now wonders if she can trust her new guy. Here's her story: Hi Jane, I've been reading your blog and watching your videos with interest. You seem like such a kind woman and the advice you give really does make sense to me. It's just so hard to follow. The willpower needed is extraordinary. I recently split up with my boyfriend of 12 years. It was my decision. He wasn't abusive or unkind. We just grew apart. Something wasn't right. We didn't want the same things…
  • But I Love Him

    23 Jun 2015 | 2:45 am
    But that feeling is so strong! What's to love? What really is so loveable about him? Is it the way he treats you? Is it because he behaves so lovingly towards you? Or is it instead, because of the feeling you have when you're with him? In that short time span, it feels like you've found everything you've ever wanted in a guy. The way he makes you feel. The excitement he brings to your life, your world, just by being with him. But is it really about him at all, or simply the feeling that you get from being around him because of everything you believe to be true about love, but what in reality,…
  • Daddy's Little Girl

    19 Jun 2015 | 2:45 am
    You're a little girl again. He's coming in the door after work. You run as fast as your tiny legs can carry you to meet him. He catches you in his arms, picks you up and swings you around. You're daddy's girl; he adores you. He comes over to your little play kitchen where you've made some special pretend cookies for just the two of you to share. He sits down at your little table and you pretend to eat them together. You're growing up. You're a teenager now. Your dad has just arrived home from work. He knocks at the door of your room. "I've got a surprise for you", he calls. You open the door,…
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  • 5 Tips That Will Get You Out Of The Friend Zone

    28 Jun 2015 | 4:26 am
    So you made one of the 3 toxic mistakes and ended up in her friend zone? These tips will help you discover the typical “friend zone signs” and I’ll even show you how to get out of the dreaded friend zone FAST! Let’s get started: The expression “friend zone” is very misleading. Being “friend zoned” by a woman most likely means that you’re not really considered her friend. The expression is commonly used to describe someone who has an attraction towards another person who doesn’t feel the same. While men have been known to place women…
  • Good Openers When Approaching Women

    17 Jun 2015 | 8:20 am
    Every guy understands the value of a good pickup line. After years of shoving my foot into my mouth while trying to talk to a gorgeous woman, I decided to learn about pickup lines that work. It changed my life. Before I learnt how to come up with good openers when approaching women, my love life, or lack of it, was a constant source of embarrassment. I would go out with my friends, most of who were great pickup artists, and end up going home alone, depressed, and disgusted with myself. If you’re reading this article, I bet you know what I mean. I know you’ve read or heard about…
  • Top 7 High School Dating Tips

    15 Jun 2015 | 3:09 am
    Dating in high school is a tricky subject because high school students are underage and there are many fun things they are not allowed to engage in, including; engaging in sexual acts and alcohol consumption. Dating in high school, however, is highly recommended as it allows students to learn more about themselves, develop a personality and prepare for life as adults. This is the time teens make mistakes, learn from them and move into the real world smarter and wiser. Objectives of High School Dating The main goal of high school dating include; developing your own personality in the context…
  • Things To Consider In Getting Back Together With An Ex

    7 Jun 2015 | 2:36 am
    When my ex and I broke up, we decided that we would remain friends. After all, we were friends before we started dating. We did not make any conscious effort to make a change in our usual routine when we were still together. We would still hang out together after classes (I was in college that time). We would go to the mall, eat somewhere or watch movies together during weekend. We would even have sex occasionally. After sleeping together a few times, I thought, nothing is really changed. It is as if we never even broke up in the first place! It would have been fine except that I felt the…
  • Online Dating & Flirting Tips For Men

    2 Jun 2015 | 12:40 am
    Online dating can be a great way to meet new people and explore romantic possibilities at just about any point in your life. It is fast, easy, and, on some websites, completely free. However, a lot of men have trouble figuring out how to get started because they have never done this type of dating before. Before you go looking for different websites, it is strongly recommended for you to think about a few simple online dating tips for men to see how you can get started. There are many online dating games that you can look into as well, but, for the most part, this guide will focus on…
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  • Independence Day

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    3 Jul 2015 | 2:13 pm
    It's Independence Day tomorrow.  My married lady friends are always telling me to enjoy being single because the other side is overrated.  That's interesting coming from the married ladies.I do like being on my own, perhaps too much...
  • Genuinely Interested

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    1 Jul 2015 | 10:54 am
    Some reminders for myself and others who may need it.  If a guy is genuinely interested, it will show in his actions, don't listen to his words.  He'll plan ahead and pick a restaurant (because he agreed to do it or because he wants to impress you).  He'll happily pick you up and not b*tch and whine about the traffic he's endured.  He'll want to go away with you for the weekend, not just talk about it.  He'll want to help if it seems like you need help (this could be as simple as helping you put on your coat, assembling an Ikea shelf, mock interviewing for your…
  • Living Together

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    29 Jun 2015 | 9:18 am
    This article talks about living together before marriage and divorce rates.  Should I ever get married, I do not want to live with him until we are actually married. I don't believe in this living together "to see if we get along" stuff.  You should know if you get along before moving in.  I'm sure you've had some sleepovers if you've been dating for a while.  If you really like each other, you will work it out, not just end the relationship/move out because he whistles in the shower, she has 200 pairs of shoes, or other reasons you may have.
  • I Didn't Even Like Him

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    27 Jun 2015 | 8:36 am
    Many married women have told me "I didn't even like him" when we first met.  Yes, they are talking about their now husbands.  Maybe these men grew on these women or maybe these women settled.  As long as they are happy in/with their relationships, it doesn't matter.When I first met New Leaf Guy, I liked him.  There was a spark on both our ends, perhaps that was because we made eye contact that lasted more than four minutes and that NYT article is sorta right (no, I did not fall in love at first sight).
  • I'm Starting To Feel Bad

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    26 Jun 2015 | 4:27 pm
    I'm starting to feel bad for New Leaf Guy.  Not bad enough to call him back.  One of my guy friends who can't stand the guy (based on what he's heard) was pleading his case for him at lunch today.
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  • The No-BS Guide On How To Follow Up After The First Date

    Thomas Edwards
    2 Jul 2015 | 12:32 pm
    Credit: I regularly contribute my expertise with the writers of AskMen on various topics on dating and relationships. Here's one of them.Everyone seems to have a different opinion on when — and how — to follow up after a promising first date. You want to air on the side of forward (but not too aggressive) and you don’t want to come on too strong. But then again, you don’t want her to think you’re too into her, too fast.So before you start counting the minutes in between text messages or obsessing on what to say to the beautiful woman you just went out with, take a…
  • How to Effectively Compliment a Woman

    Thomas Edwards
    1 Jul 2015 | 12:10 pm
    A lot of times, clients, friends, and readers ask me how to approach a woman with a compliment. My rule is simple – “Sure, go ahead an compliment her, but if you are, please compliment something specific, like the color of her dress or earrings. But the best compliment you can give a woman is on her personality and you won’t be able to do that unless you talk with her first.” Fortunately, the guys over at Insidehook created a cool graphic below that succinctly describes the best way to compliment a woman.Spoiler: Compliment specific that's not physical and keep it moving.
  • 10 Things You HAVE To Do Differently On Your Next Date

    Thomas Edwards
    25 Jun 2015 | 12:29 pm
    Credit: I regularly contribute my expertise with the writers of AskMen on various topics on dating and relationships. Here's one of them.If you’ve been single for a while and can’t seem to get past the first date (much less find a girlfriend), then maybe it’s time to stop thinking that all women are “too picky” or “too demanding” and instead take a long, hard look at yourself. You might think you’re doing the right things and asking the right questions, but as these dating coaches will tell you, you need to start doing things differently if you want to impress…
  • 8 Signs Your Dating Game Needs An Upgrade

    Thomas Edwards
    18 Jun 2015 | 12:18 pm
    Credit: I regularly contribute my expertise with the writers of AskMen on various topics on dating and relationships. Here's one of them.Hey you — how many times have you written and rewritten that text to the girl you had an amazing night with? Or how many times have you aimlessly swiped on Tinder while on the john, never making an effort past emojis and clever one-liners you never move forward from?With the new digital era of dating in full swing, it can be tough to navigate a pretty-much uncharted territory on the journey to finding lifelong love. (Or just a date for…
  • How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You [Video]

    Thomas Edwards
    12 Jun 2015 | 12:12 pm
    Here's another video I did for the New York Post with another not-a-dating-expert. This time, it's Ashley Brooke Roberts and I sharing our advice for getting any guy to fall head-over-heels in love with you.
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  • Do’s and Dont’s for Dating a Widower

    29 Jun 2015 | 12:05 pm
    Do’s and Don’ts for Dating a Widower It’s not unusual to feel some apprehension or have concerns about dating a widower. The idea of a man losing his wife is heartbreaking and it can be difficult to know how to get close to someone who has dealt with something so incredibly devastating. Be patient and […] The post Do’s and Dont’s for Dating a Widower appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • 20 Tips on Dating a Divorced Man

    23 Jun 2015 | 11:43 am
    20 Tips on Dating a Divorced Man Some women have reservations about dating a divorced man. You might worry that the ex-wife can make things complicated or be bothered—jealous even—by the idea that he said “I do” to someone else. There must be something wrong with him because he couldn’t make a marriage work. He’ll […] The post 20 Tips on Dating a Divorced Man appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • 25 Online Dating Tips for Women

    14 Jun 2015 | 9:56 pm
    25 Online Dating Tips for Women Currently there are over 40 million men and women in North America searching online and dating sites for the right person to spend the rest of their lives with.  With online dating becoming the norm, you’d be doing yourself a great disservice to not find out what you can […] The post 25 Online Dating Tips for Women appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • Is Sex Texting Good for Your Relationship

    9 Jun 2015 | 6:21 pm
    Is Sex Texting Good for Your Relationship Sex texting, or sexting as the kids are calling it, can be seen as good and bad depending on who you ask. And with sexting becoming ever more prominent in our world, you can’t help but wonder if it’s a good for your relationship. While no one else can […] The post Is Sex Texting Good for Your Relationship appeared first on Finding A Man.
  • How Can You Tell if A Guy Likes You: 6 Clues You Might be Missing

    2 Jun 2015 | 4:05 pm
    How Can You Tell If A Guy Likes You: 6 Clues You Might Be Missing Having trouble figuring out if a guy likes you? It’s torture, isn’t it; not knowing if he’s interested in you or not? Trying to read between the lines without jumping to conclusions is enough to drive a gal batty! A […] The post How Can You Tell if A Guy Likes You: 6 Clues You Might be Missing appeared first on Finding A Man.
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