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  • "Between" - Popular App For Couples

    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business (Mark Brooks)
    22 Oct 2014 | 12:35 pm
    THE STAR - Oct 21 - Between is a couples app that started three years ago by South Korean mobile app company. Moving beyond the Korean market, Between was made available in Malaysia last year when the company expanded its operations to the South-East Asian region. Between is a private social network between two people where they can keep in touch via IM as well as save and share photos of their special moments together. by Chong Jinn XiungSee full article at The Star See all posts on Between Summarized by
  • Why I'm Soooo Glad I'm Not a Serial Monogamist

    Dating | YourTango
    22 Oct 2014 | 6:31 pm
    Spending time alone between relationships is the best way to learn how to be with someone else. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Warning! Are Difficult People Sapping Your Energy?

    Judith Orloff, M.D.
    23 Oct 2014 | 1:43 pm
    Relationships are always an energy exchange. To stay feeling our best, we must ask ourselves: Who gives us energy? Who saps it? Difficult people can leech the energy right out of you. Learn how to successfully deal with five types of these “energy vampires."read more
  • Girls initiating conversation? - Recent Questions
    24 Oct 2014 | 12:46 am
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  • ‘I Can Change Him/Her’ syndrome: Don’t tie your worth to trying to control the uncontrollable

    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.
    Natalie (NML)
    23 Oct 2014 | 3:36 pm
    When people share their stories with me and a recurring theme emerges, I ask: If we look at this story a different way, why are you consistently attracted to and involved with partners who pretty much need to spontaneously combust into another person with a different set of values and habits in order to make you happy? Many people believe that if a person loves you, they’ll change and make you the exception to their rule of behaviour and when this doesn’t happen, they personalise it and blame their worth. Why is our happiness and sense of purpose tied up in whether we can get…
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  • Warning! Are Difficult People Sapping Your Energy?

    Judith Orloff, M.D.
    23 Oct 2014 | 1:43 pm
    Relationships are always an energy exchange. To stay feeling our best, we must ask ourselves: Who gives us energy? Who saps it? Difficult people can leech the energy right out of you. Learn how to successfully deal with five types of these “energy vampires."read more
  • Need a GPS for Navigating Life's Challenges?

    Susan Heitler, Ph.D.
    23 Oct 2014 | 11:40 am
    Aiming for personal happiness and positive relationships, yet having trouble finding your way? What are your options when the pathways that you thought would lead to well-being feel instead like they are leading to disappointment, frustration, work difficulties or family, relationship or marital problems?read more
  • How the Judge Ruined My Perfect Divorce Day

    Barbara Greenberg, Ph.D.
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:34 am
    What to expect on divorce more
  • How to Find a Supportive Community Online

    John Corcoran
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:33 am
    Do you ever feel lonely online? You know, you’re flipping through page after page of your so-called “friends” on Facebook or some other social media platform, but you realize you are actually quite lonely?read more
  • The Secret Shame of Domestic Violence

    Deborah King
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:10 am
    Domestic abuse is a secret shame that can ruin lives. Let the truth heal more
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • ‘I Can Change Him/Her’ syndrome: Don’t tie your worth to trying to control the uncontrollable

    Natalie (NML)
    23 Oct 2014 | 3:36 pm
    When people share their stories with me and a recurring theme emerges, I ask: If we look at this story a different way, why are you consistently attracted to and involved with partners who pretty much need to spontaneously combust into another person with a different set of values and habits in order to make you happy? Many people believe that if a person loves you, they’ll change and make you the exception to their rule of behaviour and when this doesn’t happen, they personalise it and blame their worth. Why is our happiness and sense of purpose tied up in whether we can get…
  • When we’re afraid of letting ourselves or others ‘off the hook’

    Natalie (NML)
    15 Oct 2014 | 2:39 pm
    Being let off the hook is about being released out of what could be an unpleasant or at the very least difficult situation, or being released out of something that we don’t want to do. When we feel that we or someone is on the hook for something, it’s fundamentally tied to a sense of obligation, after all, if we didn’t feel that we or they were duty bound to do something, we’d opt out without fanfare. The decision to step away wouldn’t be laden with such turbulent emotions and even a fear of appearing forgiving. Two scenarios in life are likely to hold on tight to the negativity…
  • Buffers: When You’re The One That They Turn To When They’re Unhappy With Their Current Relationship

    Natalie (NML)
    9 Oct 2014 | 3:42 pm
    We are creatures of habit and have to pay close attention to where there are running themes in our lives because it points to where we are not only repeating a pattern of thinking and behaviour but that we’re doing so because we’re getting something out of it. A recurring theme that some Fallback Girls/Guys experience in unavailable relationships is being the person who lends a willing ear, a shoulder to lean on, and even a bed to lie in for people who are having doubts about their current relationship, who want to have a bitch and a gripe about their partners, and who essentially…
  • Despite ‘good points’, we deal with the consequences of people coming as full packages

    Natalie (NML)
    1 Oct 2014 | 3:22 pm
    Any toxic relationship that I’ve been involved in, has always kept going due to me essentially cherry-picking what I wanted to remember about the person and the relationship whether romantic or otherwise. While I did spend most of my life feeling wounded by my father’s absence and the sporadic periods or even moments spent with him, what I mostly remembered was how I felt around him and the happy times, which of course there were some but I’d admittedly romanticised the hell out of them. I’d selectively remember spending visitations with him and how thrilled I always…
  • Understanding why it’s difficult to be trusting when discrepancies with a person’s dating profile or story are discovered

    Natalie (NML)
    24 Sep 2014 | 2:52 pm
    Picture this (adopts Sophia from Golden Girls voice): You meet somebody on a dating website (read: introduction website after all, you can’t actually ‘date’ on it), you exchange a few emails and texts, maybe you chat on the phone a few times and then you meet up, hopefully within the first week or two because beyond that you get into building sandcastles in the sky territory. Between reading their profile, viewing any photos and these initial exchanges, you glean information about that person but at some point, maybe when you meet up, it comes to light that this person…
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  • Road-Testing a High End Stroller: A Look at the Stokke Xplory

    Leena Bandhoo
    3 Oct 2014 | 11:40 am
    Buying a new stroller doesn't have to feel as overwhelming as buying a new car. In our We Love, You Need series, we ask parents to review the latest baby gear -- from bargain steals to splurge-worthy buys. Our latest review is of the pricey Xplory stroller from Stokke, which starts at $1,000 without accessories. Here's what our mom reviewer had to say:
  • Weekend at the Parents? How to Get It On in a Full House

    Heidi Raykeil
    27 Aug 2014 | 2:17 pm
    Let's face it, sex at your parent’s house (or worse, the in-law’s!) can be tricky. Between the awkward bunking, all that family around, and the total lack of privacy, it often seems hardly worth the effort. But hey, it's still your vacation! Here's how you can sneak in some lovin'.
  • 20 of Our Favorite Lunchboxes and Water Bottles

    Daria Meoli
    21 Aug 2014 | 1:48 pm
    Whether your kid will be packing bologna sandwiches or quinoa and bean sloppy joes, what makes the food the most fun to eat is the lunch box it is packed in.  Here we go way beyond the brown bag lunch options to include some of this season's hottest characters and coolest colors. Game On! Dabba Walla
  • Ninja Turtles, Colorblock and 18 More Stylish Backpacks

    Daria Meoli
    21 Aug 2014 | 1:46 pm
    Oh, the pressure of picking the perfect backpack. While back-to-school sneakers run out of rubber by January and the ankle length jeans purchased in September look like capris by March, the backpack is expected to last until June. That is quite a style commitment for a kid. Here, we've rounded up 20 of our favorite hardworking backpacks for the new school year.
  • 31 Fun Activities to Do With Your Kids Before Summer Ends

    Jenna McCarthy
    25 Jul 2014 | 2:20 pm
    Is your summer flying by? Don't let it without making time to pitch a tent in the backyard, catch fireflies, have a water balloon fight -- or one of the 29 other fun activities listed here! How many can your family check off your bucket list this summer?  
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    Single Mom Seeking

  • Come out and hear me at Lit Crawl on Saturday, Oct. 18

    30 Sep 2014 | 12:08 pm
    I’m thrilled to be reading with Lit Camp — the juried writers conference sponsored by the SF Writers Grotto — during San Francisco’s annual Lit Crawl on Saturday, October 18. Six writers will be sharing tales of poor judgment, lack of regret, and possible depravity. I’ll be reading a piece called Please Me, about a desperate trip to Good Vibrations…. I encourage you to come to any of the Lit Quake events in October. They’re so much fun! If you’re in the Bay Area, please join us at 6 p.m. on Saturday, October 18: Upstairs at the Elbo Room 647…
  • Small as an Elephant: Book Give Away with Jennifer Jacobson

    15 Aug 2014 | 10:21 am
    Small as an Elephant, by Jennifer Jacobson, is one of the most beautiful, heart-wrenching middle grade novels I’ve ever read. Jack’s mom is gone again. This time, she has left 11-year-old Jack alone on a campsite in Maine. When he wakes up, there is no sign of his mother, who suffers from bipolar disorder — no rental car, camping gear or food. Can he find his way back to Boston before the authorities realize what happened? I’m honored to have Jennifer here today to chat about her gripping novel. Thank you! Q: Ever since Jack can remember, his mom has been unpredictable,…
  • Snapshot: How to blend your family and have another baby

    5 Jul 2014 | 7:29 am
    When I sent an over-the-top enthusiastic email to the lovely Jessica Ashley from Sassafrass — because, wow, it’s amazing how much we have in common, including our ages (42), our years as single mamas (almost decade for each of us), the whole “Oh, you have two first names” comment we both must get, and now our growing families — I was a little worried that my eagerness might scare her off. Fortunately, Jessica seemed to take my enthusiasm just fine because she wrote back, “I’m totally in.” Please welcome Jessica, former senior editor at Yahoo!
  • Write on Mamas Giveaway!

    10 May 2014 | 9:39 pm
    On Mothers Day, this one is for you, mamas! Thank you for picking up your kids when they fall and holding them tight. Thank you for giving and doing it all when you’re out of steam. On that note… I’m thrilled to introduce you to the Write On Mamas! Founded out of a desire to connect, the Write on Mamasis a group of more than 40 moms — and one dad! — who meet online and in person to write, revise, and share. They’ve recently published a fabulous collection of essays about how parenting shaped them as writers. It’s a book full of promise. Ms.
  • A Smidgen of Sky: Book Give Away with Dianna Dorisi Winget

    10 Apr 2014 | 1:10 pm
    When Dianna Dorisi Winget got married, she became an instant mom to a 4-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter. Their mother had died from cancer two years earlier. Dianna and her husband went on to add another daughter to their family. That experience is what planted the seed for Dianna’s first novel. I recently read her debut middle grade, A Smidgen of Sky, and the story softened my heart. Piper Lee, a spunky girl from the South, is determined to stop her mother from getting remarried. Her dad disappeared in an airplane crash four years earlier, and Piper Lee still holds onto the hope…
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  • Bossman Show (JR The Bossman presents TrueSpeech Thursday)

    JR The Bossman Show
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    JR The Bossman (@JRTheBossman) and The Bossman Show (@BossmanShow) presents TrueSpeech (@myTRUESPEECH) Thursday where JR The Bossman and TrueSpeech dish knowledge to people on a vast array of topics ranging from life, sports, relationships, dating, business and a whole lot more. JR & Speech were joined by Aspiring Actress and Published Model Joni Viera (@realjoniviera). Stay connected with all things Bossman Show (@BossmanShow) at Check out The Bossman Show on AM 1100 Atlanta on at…
  • KiwK yet another test....FML

    Kickin* it with Krystal
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    I will eventually move away from broadcasting with BlogTalkRadio and onto my own network if it's the last thing I do. This shit is personal now mufucka! I'm just testing out audio, making sure this even airs after BTR experienced technical difficulties. If you're bored and want to chat, give your girl a call.   347-327-9710
  • I No Wan Marry!!! Na By Force???

    Moby Sugars Croonings0
    23 Oct 2014 | 8:00 pm
    Lmao.... As Nigerians, you get to a certain age and time in life when folks around you either ask you upfront "When are the wedding bells ringing?" Or say stylishly, "We are praying for you oooh!!! Your bone of bone and flesh of flesh will locate you before this year ends!"  Huh???? Beht..... What if I no wan marry???  We'll be talking about the decision to marry or not  marryon this show. You do not want to miss this episode on the Croonings... Let's swap tales ??  
  • Late Night Love with Beverly Lynne

    The Being Talk Radio Network
    23 Oct 2014 | 7:51 pm
    World famous adult superstar Bevely Lynne talks love, sex and dating with Palm Beaches #1 Hometown Radio DJ Ron Ash.  Call in and ask your questions.  We look forward to hearing from you. Beverly Lynne was born on October 31, 1973 in Sellersville, Pennsylvania, USA as Beverly Lynne Hubscher. She is an actress and producer, known for Terror Toons (2002),Bikini Chain Gang (2005) and Bikini a Go Go (2004). She has been married to Glen Meadows since April 22, 2006.
  • Healing Addiction, Part 4- Addiction and Attachment

    Beyond Abuse Radio
    23 Oct 2014 | 7:30 pm
      Relationships are the stuff of our deepest pain and joy.  They can leave gaping holes that cause great vulnerability to addiction, and they are also a large part of healing addictions.  Ed Khouri shares a fascinating piece of research that links trauma through early attachment problems to dopamine receptor density that affects the ability to regulate pain, pleasure, and emotions.  That sets the bar for the level of relational joy in people’s lives.  Propensity for addiction increases radically when relational joy is low.  What can be done to increase our joy bonds?  Lots!  Join…
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • Internet Dating Moderation Survey (Mark Brooks)
    26 Oct 2014 | 9:23 am
    OPW - Oct 20 - Feedback is the breakfast of champions, and we're hungry! We want to know what you do to moderate your internet dating site? Please answer this survey and we'll let you know the results. The price of the survey results report is your time to fill it in. If you work at an Internet dating site please take this 6 question survey This survey is kindly sponsored by Thanks for your time and consideration. Post by Mark Brooks @
  • Online Dating Hasn't Killed Matchmakers (Mark Brooks)
    23 Oct 2014 | 1:07 pm
    CHICAGO TRIBUNE - Oct 23 - A matchmaking school is reporting growing enrollment. "People have dating overload - they're on Tinder, Match, OKCupid," said Talia Goldstein, co-founder and CEO of Three Day Rule,'s "white glove" matchmaking partner. "People are getting so confused by all the options that they are looking for someone to help them." Three Day Rule charges $3,5K for three months of personal matchmaking and $5K for a six-month package that includes date coaching, styling and professional photography. Some matchmakers say their clientele is getting younger. Business models…
  • There's An Online Dating 'Tipping Point,' According To A New Study (Mark Brooks)
    23 Oct 2014 | 1:01 pm
    HUFFINGTON POST - Oct 23 - A new study published in the Journal of Computer-Mediated Communication describes an online dating "tipping point," when too much online communication before a first date causes a person to idealize someone they're interacting with prior to actually meeting them face to face. That "tipping point" occurs after 17 to 23 days, according to the study. by Rebecca AdamsSee full article at Huffington Post Summarized by
  • Hinge Is Giving Tinder A Run For Its Money (Mark Brooks)
    23 Oct 2014 | 12:00 pm
    BUSINESS INSIDER - Oct 22 - Like Tinder, Hinge lets users see profiles of single people nearby. They can like or nix a profile. Unlike Tinder, Hinge only connects friends of friends. At the end of 2012, Hinge only had $32K left in the bank. Justin McLeod's, Hinge's founder and CEO, raised $100K a few months prior, but only a few thousand people were using it. $25,000 went to a hail-mary pass: a massive 2K-person launch party in Washington. Two weeks before the party, Apple rejected Hinge's app. The morning of the party, Apple finally approved the app. Hinge is now one of New York's hottest…
  • "Between" - Popular App For Couples (Mark Brooks)
    22 Oct 2014 | 12:35 pm
    THE STAR - Oct 21 - Between is a couples app that started three years ago by South Korean mobile app company. Moving beyond the Korean market, Between was made available in Malaysia last year when the company expanded its operations to the South-East Asian region. Between is a private social network between two people where they can keep in touch via IM as well as save and share photos of their special moments together. by Chong Jinn XiungSee full article at The Star See all posts on Between Summarized by
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    WordPress Tag: Dating Relationships

  • Why We Need To Keep Chivalry Alive

    James Michael Sama
    6 Oct 2014 | 6:36 pm
    Look, I know we are not in medieval times. People hear the word ‘chivalry’ and ask me if I want to bring back every chivalric code of battle and weaponry and somehow revert the rest of our societal constructs back to the theocratic dark ages. Well, it would be cool to be knighted… But besides that, I think we are all mature and intelligent enough to understand that discussions of the New Chivalry Movement focus on the modern interpretation of the word, often associated with people showing respect and courtesy to each other on a daily basis. In the context of my articles, it…
  • all too familiar.

    6 Oct 2014 | 4:24 pm
    It feels weird being back here again…not texting each other every day, not seeing each other…this is all too familiar. I know that right now, we both need to not be in contact in order to move on…because as long as we’re still “present” in each other’s lives, we’re not going to let go. It sucks because I’m finally coming to the realization that I need to start doing what’s best for myself, even if it’s not what I want. For example, I’m going home in a couple of days and I’m staying there for about a week. I really…
  • Here's What Nobody Tells You About Meeting Women

    James Michael Sama
    6 Oct 2014 | 9:10 am
    As men in the 21st century, the vast amount of ‘advice’ permeating the interwebs regarding the subject of meeting women is often littered with Pickup-Artistry and similar methods that claim if you just pay the few thousand dollars to spend the weekend with the masters, you will be able to walk into any bar, and bookstore, or by any outdoor cafe and leave with a slew of phone numbers, or maybe even a woman. Easy! We live in a society of instant gratification. We want what we want, and we want it now. We don’t want to have to work for it or put in any real effort, we just want…
  • Desperately Seeking The Guy That Got Away

    6 Oct 2014 | 8:37 am
    A dating and relationships friend asks, “I found the one who got away over a decade ago. I have his address and he lives a few miles from me. Long complicated story behind it, but am I crazy if I knock on his door or walk passed his house??? If he’s married and has kids, that is my closure. But I’m totally excited I found him. What would you do? Oh and we were friends for years before he disappeared from my life.” — “…before he disappeared from my life.” Your own words should guide you somewhat on your decision, and due to your unfruitful past…
  • 13 Reasons Women Don’t Date Nice Guys

    Koty Neelis
    6 Oct 2014 | 5:29 am
    My So Called Life – Season 1 1. They completely forget women have a sexual side to them. Just because someone is nice doesn’t mean they’re going to be a good partner or that they’re the right fit. Nice guys think simply because they’re nice a girl should want date them. They don’t get it takes a whole lot of other qualities and factors to make sexual chemistry and dating happen. 2. They don’t always go for the nice girls either.  They’ll date a nice girl but only for the sex. She’s not the kind of girl they’d introduce to their…
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    Dating | YourTango

  • Here's Why Hot People Only Want To Date Even Hotter People

    amanda chatel
    23 Oct 2014 | 2:00 pm
    A new study by EliteSingles has confirmed what every average looking person the world over has feared: that they are undateable, at least in the eyes of someone really good looking. A total of 500 singles on EliteSingles' site were asked how attractive they thought they were, then they were asked to rate the importance of looks, wealth, and a few other particulars, in regards to an ideal partner. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Be Honest, Do You Do This When Your 'BAE' Gets Sick?

    23 Oct 2014 | 1:31 pm
    Check out the weirdest things that couples who are in love do when they're sick and see if any of these totally apply to your relationship! Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • How To Communicate In A Way That Won't Scare Him Away

    23 Oct 2014 | 6:47 am
    The relationship is new, you're excited, and sharing your thoughts and feelings seems like a great way to build connection. Turns out, too much chatter at the start of new love can be a serious turn off. YourTango Expert Ronnie Ann Ryan, The Dating Coach, explains. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • 10 Lyrics That Make Us Wish Taylor Swift Was Our Dating Coach

    23 Oct 2014 | 6:44 am
    Even if you're not crazy about Taylor Swift, the girl's got tons of dating experience. It's no surprise that her lyrics are full of dating do's and don'ts that everyone should keep in mind. Find out if you should stick with your current relationship or if it's time to "Shake If Off." Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
  • Why I'm Soooo Glad I'm Not a Serial Monogamist

    22 Oct 2014 | 6:31 pm
    Spending time alone between relationships is the best way to learn how to be with someone else. Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post:  Suppress Thumbnail from Showing on this post read more
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    Online Dating Insider

  • Second Life Creator Builds Next-Gen Virtual Worlds
    23 Oct 2014 | 3:10 pm
    In the early 1990’s I was part of the Boston Computer Society Virtual Reality Group. We built clunky virtual worlds viewable in scary head-mounted monitors and at any time someone in the group had very expensive high-performance computers on loan from various vendors. Things died out over the next few years, the computing power just wasn’t there to make the worlds look realistic. Fast forward to 2003 when Linden Lab launched SecondLife. More computing power and no head-mounted display required, but the navigation and tools were too geeky for most people. After that wave of hype,…
  • Tinder Turns on The Revenue Tap
    23 Oct 2014 | 2:12 pm
    Tinder is going to offer freemium services in a few weeks. The new premium service will likely let users break away from location limits and expand their Tinder reach. “We are adding features users have been begging us for,” said Rad. “They will offer so much value we think users are willing to pay for them.” Greg Blatt, the head of IAC’s Match division predicted Tinder could earn $75 million in 2015. Let’s put that number in an envelop and revisit it a year from now. What’s the over/under for them reaching $75 million? I would imagine that around 5% of Tinder users…
  • Crowdfunding A New TV Pilot, Love’s Bounty Hunter
    23 Oct 2014 | 8:52 am
      Love’s Bounty Hunter is a new comedy series that reveals the inner workings of a fictional online dating company and the people who play Cupid there. Our story follows Claire Desmond, who is coerced into signing a contract with America’s largest online dating company, Love’s Bounty Hunter, as a “featured dater” in Los Angeles. She’s entirely at the whim of the Love’s Bounty Hunter computer algorithms and must go on at least one date with every match the computer finds for her. In the series, the regular cast of characters will be supplemented with featured cameos…
  • Cupid Subscriber Count Plummets
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:07 am
    I always thought of Cupid as Spark Networks with more adult services. Judging by their current situation, I stand by this. Cupid, which runs subscription-based dating websites such as, and, announced £3m ($4.9m) in pre-tax losses for the six months ending June, an increase of 20% from the previous year. Show me niche dating network that’s not running a deficit. This is par for the course. But then, scary subscriber numbers. At the end of June 2012, Cupid’s sites had 113,000 paying subscribers; by June 2014, they had just 48,000, each…
  • Zoosk IPO: The Offering Price Is Everything
    20 Oct 2014 | 11:44 am
    Seeking Alpha has an article about the planned Zoosk IPO. A couple of datapoints for those tracking this evolving situation. High Operating Expenses Raise Red Flag: The extremely high operating expenses (72% of revenue in fiscal 2013) raise concerns that this is a company simply buying its users with little network effects and/or organic growth. Based on options granted in April 2014 at an exercise price of $7.72, we can assume the pricing discussions are in the range of $8-$16. The question arises though: Is any price in that range a good incentive to purchase shares, or could this be a…
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    Harassed Mom

  • Its all about the mundane here I am afraid!

    23 Oct 2014 | 7:58 am
    So my little #mundahappiness challenge has taken off better than I anticipated. My twitter and instagram feed are full of photos and updates (I am behind on blog reading so haven’t checked their yet). Thank you so much to everyone who is joining in! If you haven’t joined us then you can start now. Julia asked me this morning why there are no posts. There are two reasons. The first is that I have been busy and today our Santa Shoebox Drop Offs started so its crazy crazy. But the second reason is a little disturbing for me. I just haven’t had the inspiration/desire/motivation…
  • The wheels on the bus go round and round (and round and round)

    20 Oct 2014 | 7:07 am
    This post is part of a new challenge I have started over at Blog Share Connect - please join us. Its going to be fun. I moan often about the driving around of my many kids in the afternoon. It is tiring and no really a whole lot of fun especially now that its warmer. It’s not all bad though, far from it. There really are a lot of reasons why it is great to be able to play moms taxi in the afternoon. Jack is always so super happy to see me. Every single day. Last week I was a little bit late to fetch him, the look on his face when I arrived was priceless. I get to stalk watch Cameron…
  • Standing up for yourself is NEVER wrong even if you get pushed down again.

    16 Oct 2014 | 6:44 am
    Articles and posts about bullies are everywhere. Stories of teens committing suicide as a result of bullies are almost a daily occurrence. I have blogged about it. Kiara has been bullied. Sharon has blogged about it. Bullies are everywhere, everyday. Wikipedia defines bullying as follows; Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively dominate others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. One essential prerequisite is the perception, by the bully or by others, of an imbalance of social or physical power. Behaviors used to assert such domination…
  • If you are happy and you know it, leave a comment!

    15 Oct 2014 | 2:09 am
    I had about three blog posts in my head yesterday but I got so distracted with the next #jozimeetup and catching up on blog reading etc etc.that I missed my window to actually write at least one of them. So this morning I sat down ready to go because I had three options to choose from so I figured it would be a quick thing! WRONG! Here I sit 3 hours later and still NOTHING. I considered the post I had planned about bullying but then figured theirs enough fuel on that fire at the moment BUT there is still a post to come, then I wanted to write about teaching my kids to stand up for themselves…
  • Parenting just got real!

    13 Oct 2014 | 1:24 am
    There is nothing more overwhelming that giving birth. That moment you are handed that screaming little person is possibly one of life’s greatest moments. You are overwhelmed by every emotion there is  – fear, love, panic, wonder, admiration – you feel it all at once every few seconds but the love is rather overwhelming. I don’t you realise it until the second day when the sister comes to do those first vaccinations and you hear your baby scream, I remember wanting to punch the nurse with every single baby. You realise in that moment though, that you would lay down…
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    Shmitten Kitten

  • RE-POST: "I Feel Like My Chances of Finding Love Are Hopeless" via The Frisky

    17 Oct 2014 | 11:48 am
    I'm not sure if you've seen it, but I've been doing an advice column called "Make It Stop!" over on The Frisky for the past few months. Mostly I field questions about pesky co-workers and thorny family problems. But this week's question was the most profound one yet. It was about how to deal with feeling hopeless in love. I've re-posted it in its entirety below. I'm proud of my answer and I thought it might help some of you out there that are struggling with the same thing. And if you have any questions you want to submit, email me at Hopefully I can nip…
  • Real Talk: I Need A Date To My Friend's Wedding

    29 Jul 2014 | 6:37 am
    As wedding season draws to its (merciful) close, I'm faced with one final nuptial hurrah, courtesy of two of my nearest and dearest friends who -- in a shameless attempt to make the rest of us feel bad about our lives -- had the nerve to fall madly, dizzily in love with each other. They're getting married this fall, and I will almost certainly be invited with a plus one. Which raises the question: who the hell am I taking to this wedding? Tempting as it would be to reinstate my OKStupid or Tinder accounts and troll for tail, the more practical approach seems to be tapping into the pool of…
  • Flippin' Our Shades At Author and Blogger Samantha Irby

    25 Jul 2014 | 12:34 pm
    Samantha Irby is my favorite writer. Her blog, Bitches Gotta Eat, is one of the best blogs I've ever read. And her debut book of essays, Meaty, is brilliant. People in the book industry talk a lot about having a "voice" in writing and I didn't really know what that meant until I read her stuff. Her voice leaps off the page (or screen or whatever device you read her stuff on). It truly feels like she's talking directly to you. It's incredible. And everything she writes--whether it's about dating, sex, friends, or family--is fresh, honest and relatable. She hails from my hometown of Chicago and…
  • Tip Our Hats: Guys Who Stake Their Claim On Me

    23 Jul 2014 | 12:06 pm
    I love, love, love when he does little gestures to let everyone around us know that we're together. Like when we're ending the night at his corner dive taking down beers the way Ryan Howard would take down pitchers. I catch him looking at me a little too long, and then he leans in for a quick kiss. I'm in Blush City, population: me.Or when we're splashing around at the beach with all my friends and he swims out to where I'm dog-paddling (at 5'1'', it's not that far from shore), wraps my arms around his shoulders and lets the water lap around us as we sway with the waves.  Or that…
  • Attention People With Dilemmas: I Can Help!

    21 Jul 2014 | 2:03 pm
    I'm not sure if you've heard, but I'm writing a NEW weekly advice column over on The Frisky called, "Make It Stop."So far I've taken on sneaky roommates and reality TV-shaming boyfriends. And last week I put the kibosh about pesky co-workers and nosy drunkards.Have a question you want answered? Email me: with the subject "make it stop" and I'll try my best to help you nip some shit in the bud.
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  • [INTERVIEW] Charlamagne Tha God on His Journey From Prison to Radio

    Guest Post
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
      Defy Ventures invited Charlamagne Tha God, a New York City celebrity DJ, to speak to 50 men and women who were applying for admission to Defy Ventures’ nationally recognized entrepreneurship training program. These 50 men and women had served prison time and looked to Defy to help turn their street hustle into legal entrepreneurship. This was the first day of their journey. They would train to compete for $100,000 in startup funding through “Shark Tank”-style business plan competitions judged by investors and CEOs. Charlamagne came to inspire the entrepreneurs-in-training to stay…
  • What Is With Female Marriage Proposals?

    22 Oct 2014 | 6:12 am
    Blurred gender roles are a norm in today’s day and age. Most of us want equality for both sexes in all facets of life. Ideally, this would be the case. The truth is that for this to be, there will be some resistance in some instances. For instance we have today’s subject of marriage proposal. Now some of us may feel that a woman proposing to a man would be tacky. Some simply thing that it isn’t right. We’ll explore this today whether it be in this post or in the comments. But the bottom line is that this here lies the same “what’s good for the goose”…
  • Who’s the Best QB in the NFL, Right Now?

    Joe Sargent
    20 Oct 2014 | 9:05 pm
      In case you missed it Sunday, Peyton Manning passed the most overhyped QB of all time Brett Favre in career passing touchdowns. He only needed 246 fewer games, 1,514 fewer passes, and managed not to also set the record for interceptions in the process. Seriously, get Brett Favre tf outta here. Anyway, that got me thinking: is Manning the best QB in the league right now? We’ve seen Tom Brady decline. Drew Brees is looking as mortal as ever right now. Does Manning still hold the WWE belt at the league’s most important position? Only one way to find out: shoddy internet analysis…
  • He Wants Me to Meet His Parents, But Who Else is Worth Meeting?

    19 Oct 2014 | 9:05 pm
    You guys are in a blossoming new relationship and you’ve moved passed the awkward stage of “What are we?” You’re not pulling your hair out in frustration because the future is unclear. You are officially his boo thang and now you want to know exactly how serious he is. Well, a good measurement of this is the people he makes an effort to introduce you to claiming you as his own. So now you want to know, “Who’s truly worth meeting?” This list was made in order of appearance or meeting. However everyone is different so some may not apply. Note that,…
  • When Feminists Attack Male Bloggers

    Dr. J
    17 Oct 2014 | 6:37 am
    I love the Internet. It’s the only place where people create fictional images of themselves and then project that image until they either develop a following or earn notoriety. At times that notoriety is for being absolutely ridiculous. And while I’ve been no stranger to attacks on the Internet by people who have created an online persona, it never ceases to amaze me when I’m in some mess. If you haven’t heard, I ended up in some tiff with a certain feminist on Twitter yesterday. It was silly and I had to seriously resist the urge to act silly too. In fact, when someone is already…
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  • Funny SMS Shayari For You!

    23 Oct 2014 | 9:13 pm
    Safar lamba hai, Dost banate rahiye,Dil mile na mile, Hath badhate rahiye,Taj na banaye, Costly padega,Har taraf Mumtaj banate rahiye.Suno!Mehsoos karo,Badal ki Garaj,Bijli ki chamak,Barish ki ek ek bond,Tum seCheekh cheekh karKah rahi hai,The post Funny SMS Shayari For You! appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Raksha Bandhan SMS

    23 Oct 2014 | 3:10 pm
    I just want to let you knowYou mean the world to meOnly a heart as dear as yoursWould give so unselfishlyThe many things youThe post Raksha Bandhan SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Love Propose SMS In Hindi

    23 Oct 2014 | 8:51 am
    Gam Mein Muskuraney Waley Ko RUlaya Nahi Jaata,Baadal Ko Baarish Se Juda Kiya Nahi Jaata,Pyar Ho Jaata Hai Jataya Nahi Jaata,Kisi Ko Keh Kar Apna Banaya Nahi JaataThe post Love Propose SMS In Hindi appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Shayari From Fanaa Movie

    23 Oct 2014 | 2:45 am
    Dur Humse Jaa Paoge Kaise,Humko Bhool Paoge Kaise.Hum Who Khushbu Jo Saanson Mein Utar Jaye,Khud Apni Saanxon Ko Rok Paoge Kaise..The post Shayari From Fanaa Movie appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Janamdin Shayari

    Heeren Tanna
    22 Oct 2014 | 8:39 pm
    Dua hai Ki Kamyabi ke har sikhar pe aap ka naam hoga,Aapke har kadam par duniya ka salam hoga,Himmat se mushkilon ka samana karna hamari dua hai,Ki waqt bhi ek din aapka gulam hoga. Happy Birthday====================================================Har din se pyaara lagta hai hamein yeh khaas dinJisse bitasna nahin chaahte hum aap binVaise toh dil deta hai sadaa hi Dua aapkoPhir bhi kehte hai mubarak ho aapko yeh janamdin====================================================Khushi se beete har dinHar raat suhani raat ho.Jis taraf apke kadam padeVahan phulo ki barsat…
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    Online Dating Guide

  • Does Asking a Woman Out Quickly in Online Dating Work?

    22 Oct 2014 | 9:29 pm
    I’m a big fan of getting to the first date quickly in online dating. I wrote about this in detail in my article on planning the first date. I didn’t realize this when I started my website, but it turns out that lots of people giving online dating advice hold this opinion too. Personally, I had success with this approach. But one reader contacted me with some doubts: I have a question regarding when to ask a girl out through online dating. I’ve read a lot of advise saying that a guy should ask for a first date within the first four or five emails. Some advice suggests even…
  • How to Write an Impacting Profile

    21 Oct 2014 | 10:58 pm
    While filling out a dating profile, have you ever felt you were merely indulging in egotism, or worried over how to present yourself in an honest yet alluring fashion? I remember feeling a subtle yet smug satisfaction at being able to speak in depth about myself, what I wanted from a partner and posting my favourite pictures of myself. After all, who does not find some pleasure in showing the world how wonderful they can be? Yet, another layer of me felt conflicted about the process of creating a profile due to a fear of making statements about myself that I knew were not permanent truths,…
  • How Do I Approach a Woman I See Every Day But Don’t Know?

    19 Oct 2014 | 12:19 am
    For me, online dating was a godsend: I always had trouble approaching women in day-to-day life. For example, if I’m remembering correctly, I only got two phone numbers at a bar in my life prior to online dating (and one of those only applies if Applebee’s counts as a bar). It was always something I overthought and the benefits of online dating propelled my ability to find and connect with people. If you’ve read my guide, you know that after I started dating online I did get much more comfortable approaching women (it had reached a point where rejection didn’t matter…
  • Dataclysm: Insights from an OkCupid Cofounder

    7 Oct 2014 | 10:28 pm
    OkCupid is one of the higher quality free dating services out there. It was created by very passionate people who were genuinely excited to craft the perfect algorithm for matching couples. Of course we all know there’s no such thing as a magic formula to find the right person for us, but with the huge pool of people trying online dating, it sure doesn’t hurt to be able to narrow down the options with decent accuracy. Coupled with a nicely polished website and creative features, OkCupid has been many people’s first dip in the online dating waters for many years. We tend to…
  • September 2014: Save 50% at eHarmony

    25 Sep 2014 | 5:24 am
    eHarmony is offering a new promotion where you can get 50% off of the 6-month subscription. To take advantage of this, enter the promo code GET50OFF when signing up for the six month subscription. For many of us new to online dating, six months may sound like a long commitment. However, with a promotion like this (where the price drops to about $29.95 a month), there’s more reason to give it a try. If you don’t already have a free account at eHarmony, you sign-up here Lots of Promotions at eHarmony this year I do my best to discuss every eHarmony free weekend on this website and…
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • How to Avoid Boring Conversation with Women

    19 Oct 2014 | 10:38 am
    Avoid Dull Subjects Sometimes it is the girl who keeps the conversation on a subject uninteresting to you. If she is really interested in it herself you can cater to her for a while, but you should eventually try to change the subject rather than suffer too much boredom yourself. You can probably find something interesting to both of you.
  • Amazing Pheromone Cologne Drives Women Wild for Sex!

    12 Oct 2014 | 6:32 pm
    This powerful pheromone cologne containing a secret rare ancient Hawaiian pheromone formula discovered by scientists drives women wild for sex! Would you like to turn beautiful single women on instantly? Would you like beautiful hot girls to ignore your face and stare at your pants? Can you picture yourself with a harem of horny gals wondering what it is about you that they can't resist? What would it be worth to you for sexy gorgeous single women to want to share their warm, writhing bodies with you? How would it be to have women get hot and horny just from a whiff of your aroma? You can get…
  • Some of the Best Dating Tips Ever to Succeed with Women

    5 Oct 2014 | 9:50 am
    Don't always do what women expect you to do. Someone who does exactly what is expected on cue is boring. By being a little unpredictable, you become elusive, you keep women on their toes, wondering about you, and slightly insecure with respect to where they stand. If they expect you to try and make a move sexually - don't. If they expect you ask them out for Saturday night, ask them out for Tuesday night. If they think you aren't interested, call out of the blue. If they expect you to call that night, call the next day. You must convince a girl that she would be lucky to be with you. You may…
  • How to Attract Topless Dancers with Celebrity Status

    25 Sep 2014 | 6:25 pm
    If you are a celebrity, movie star, rock star, wealthy, don't try to hide it. Exploit it to the max, but be cool and don't brag.              Your celebrity status will attract topless dancers like a magnet. If you have a yacht, mansion, Lexus, airplane, etc., let her know about it. It will make a big impression on her because these girls are obsessed with money and material things. They are true "Material Girls."              Just overlook the fact that she may just…
  • How to Pick Up Sexy Flight Attendants in the Air

    18 Sep 2014 | 4:21 pm
    Here's  how to approach  them in the  air, if you want to  give it  a try:  After you're  in the air and things  have calmed down and  things are slow, ask the flight  attendant  for  some  coffee. Try  to establish  some  eye  contact  while  she's taking your order  and be sure and give her a warm and sexy smile. Literally try to melt her  with your bedroom eyes and tell her, "You sure look great today." When she returns with your coffee  say, "Being a flight  attendant sure…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex

  • are you in need of a loan

    22 Oct 2014 | 11:31 pm
    New Question - Hello,my names are grace anderson I am from california.....things have not been going too well for me...the bank I borrowed money from threatened to take over my house...but then I my friend introduced me to this loan company...I asked for help from them and they really helped me do you have any finiancial problems??

    22 Oct 2014 | 3:00 pm
    New Opinion - Am so happy and want to thank lord Orangan tutu for relocating to the united states and helping me get a spell to get my husband back. don't be decieved by fake spell casters from west africa. Lord orangan tutu is the real deal. a powerful and genuine spell caster that i was introduced to here in texas united states. all i do was send a text to his phone (+1 512 758 4614) and also sent a corresponding email via ( and he got to work and i saw results in less than 4days. Take my testimony and use it to guide yourself in searching for a real and powerful spell…

    22 Oct 2014 | 2:58 pm
    New Question - Am so happy and want to thank lord Orangan tutu for relocating to the united states and helping me get a spell to get my husband back. don't be decieved by fake spell casters from west africa. Lord orangan tutu is the real deal. a powerful and genuine spell caster that i was introduced to here in texas united states. all i do was send a text to his phone (+1 512 758 4614) and also sent a corresponding email via ( and he got to work and i saw results in less than 4days. Take my testimony and use it to guide yourself in searching for a real and powerful…
  • How i won my boyfriend back from my twin sister

    21 Oct 2014 | 9:23 am
    New Answer - Have never believed in the supernatural or talk less of spell or even voodoo.In my head there was nothing on earth that was ever going to get me involved in such thing but life as we know throw s**t at your door and some how the doors opens up and let it strike you.************* About five years ago if anyone had asked me if i trust my twin sister with my life, believe me i would bet my life on it that i can.I couldn't even bring myself to think that my twin sister can put a knife at my back Yes i know everything about our childhood and youth age was always about who is better…

    20 Oct 2014 | 12:43 am
    New Opinion - Have never believed in the supernatural or talk less of spell or even voodoo.In my head there was nothing on earth that was ever going to get me involved in such thing but life as we know throw s**t at your door and some how the doors opens up and let it strike you.************* About five years ago if anyone had asked me if i trust my twin sister with my life, believe me i would bet my life on it that i can.I couldn't even bring myself to think that my twin sister can put a knife at my back Yes i know everything about our childhood and youth age was always about who is better…
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  • The Clooney Choice: Marry Your Equal

    8 Oct 2014 | 10:45 am
    George Clooney; photo courtesy of BAFTA/Michael Kovak It could happen to you  George Clooney has made headlines for something besides dumping his latest leggy beauty—this time, the tables have turned: he married her! “Her” is stunning human rights lawyer and author Amal Alamuddin, whom the Hollywood heartthrob and seemingly confirmed bachelor married in a lavish star-studded ceremony late last month at Venice’s Aman Canal Grande Hotel in Italy under an archway of imported white roses. Not to diminish the importance of Clooney’s past loves, but they weren’t his…
  • Brad & Angelina Tie the Knot—Big Whoop

    3 Sep 2014 | 10:40 am
      The wedding of the century? Isn’t that supposed to be YOUR wedding? OK, I know very few of us are as genetically blessed as Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, and it isn’t likely that anyone reading this is an Academy Award-winning movie star (though I never say never)…but come on. For the amount of hoopla the surrounding the power couple’s wedding, you’d think it was like we discovered the two came out as aliens from a distant planet. OK, so let’s get the details out of the way first (you know you want to hear them if you haven’t already). The…
  • 7 Shocking Facts About Infidelity

    1 Aug 2014 | 7:12 am
    #143920085 / Are we genetically predisposed to stray? Infidelity is a subject that fascinates me. As I’ve aged, the thought of it—of cheating on the person you’re meant to love and honor—makes me sick. If your relationship isn’t working, why not either put some effort in, or else end it before you’ve hurt the person who’s meant the most? It’s a pretty critical statement to make, true, but everyone views things differently. Some people simply can’t be alone, and so cheat to segue from one relationship to another, while others think…
  • Watch the Steamy Fifty Shades of Grey Trailer

    28 Jul 2014 | 6:22 am
    Fifty Shade of Grey trailer It’s finally here! We all had our top choices for who we wanted to play Christian Grey in E.L. James’ best-selling Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, and the role eventually went to Burberry model Jamie Dornan with Don Johnson and Melanie Griffith‘s daughter, Dakota Johnson, playing leading lady Anastasia Steele. The books, which featured love, sex and domination (perhaps not in that order) were the most buzzed about thing of 2011. How will the film fare? The jury’s not out yet, but we do know that the trailer broke records as the most-watched…
  • When It Comes to Love, Father DOES Know Best

    12 Jun 2014 | 12:35 pm
    #177148881 / Father Knows Best  isn’t just an iconic, Emmy winning sitcom of 1950′s and 1960′s, but it’s also, in my case, a fact. My dad does know all (or most): especially when it comes to my boyfriends. When I was 14, he simply shook his head when I tried to date our next-door neighbor who, though sweet, was a bit simple. He shook his head when I fell in love with the the (dyed) golden-haired soccer star in high school, saying he was a “nice boy, but not for me.” I got more than admonishment when I snuck out of the house late night to…
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    Online Dating

  • Test for STDs at Home? myLAB Box Launches

    13 Oct 2014 | 8:50 am
    Pioneering myLAB Box Empowers You to Take Control of Your Health by Screening for Major STDs Anytime and Anywhere. Let’s face it, the conventional STD testing process is so riddled with inconvenience and discomfort, it causes many Americans – possibly even you! – to skip their annual exam. With the ability to test remotely via mail and receive lab results electronically innovative new service, myLAB Box, is set to transform the way we test, talk and think about STDs in the US today one click at a time. Try it out today and save 20%, it is easy as 1-2-3: 1. Order your box at…
  • An Online Dating Guide for the Rest of Us

    26 Sep 2012 | 6:35 pm
    We all have that coworker, sister-in-law or neighbor that found her fairy tale ending on an online date-to-love site like or eHarmony. We use social media for everything else, so it’s no surprise that nearly 20% of us have now tried online dating. Now that it’s an acceptable and “normal” option, how do we play the online dating game and win? The truth is, most of the anxieties and pitfalls of dating are the same on and offline. And landing that first date with your online sweetheart might take a little more social media savvy than you think. Consider these tips to grabbing…
  • Required Reading: The Authoritative Guide to Safer Sex

    Online Dating
    18 Sep 2012 | 1:24 pm
    Conventional wisdom tells us to practice safer sex. But what does safer sex really mean? Asking your peers and consulting the Internet can lead to information overload, and you may not be getting the truth. Professionals say that many people are grossly misinformed about safer sex and so they suffer the consequences. Check out our  six-part guide to safer sex.  All of the information presented has been carefully examined for accuracy and credibility – this is a guide you can count on.  Start here, or jump to a section of your choosing: Part I: An Introduction to Safer Sex Part II:…
  • Not Your Mom’s Grinder: All You Need to Know About Grindr

    Online Dating
    30 Aug 2012 | 4:51 pm
    First launched in 2009 by founder and CEO Joel Simkhai, Grindr is arguably the best “geosocial networking” and location-based mobile app for gay men. It is currently used in over 192 countries and includes millions of members; at any given time, 71,000 users are logged onto Grindr and close to a million users log into the mobile app daily. Grindr has been described by users as a “revolutionary dating tool,” as well as the “scariest gay bar on earth.”  Either way, Grindr has made an indelible mark on the dating scene for gay men, winning awards like the “Best Dating…
  • 29th Edition of the Carnival of Online Dating

    Online Dating
    30 May 2012 | 2:00 am
    Welcome to the May 30, 2012 edition of the Carnival of Online Dating! This is the twenty-ninth — and final — edition of the blog carnival, and we really appreciate those who have submitted their links for inclusion. Rediscover our previous editions by visiting our Carnival of Online Dating archives page! Dating Tips & Advice Tom Hass presents Thinking Vs Feeling posted at Personal Hack. Aleksey presents The First Date posted at Get Social Blog. Jon Rhodes presents Bodybuilding Hypnosis posted at HypnoBusters, saying, “This article shows you how you can use hypnosis to…
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    WeLoveDates » Blog

  • Want To Date a Rich Person? Better Make Them Laugh!

    Elizabeth Marie
    20 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    One of the most common qualities that both men and women claim to look for in a potential date is sense of humor. But just how important is someone who can make you laugh in the long run? A new study and accompanying infographic from reveal that 1 in 4 Americans say a solid sense of humor is the number one thing they want in a partner, above looks, money or morality. The study goes on to say that of the singles who love to laugh, 34% have an income between $100,000 and $124,999…which is to say, they’re rich. So what is the correlation between laughter and wealth?
  • Best Social Media Campaign Award Winner at the White Label Dating Awards

    Elizabeth Marie
    20 Oct 2014 | 11:19 am
    We’re thrilled to announce that we’ve won the Best Social Media Campaign award at the White Label Dating 2014 Partner Conference. It was a great event and we are honored to take home this award! As always, we’re looking forward to even more social media fun, whether that be interactive maps, award winning dating advice blog posts, flowcharts or competitions! Thanks again to everyone at White Label Dating! Image via whitelabeldatinginc on Instagram. Speaking of social media, are you following us on: Twitter Facebook Pinterest Youtube G+ Just checking! Join the fun! Best…
  • Ladies’ Guide To Making Yourself Feel Glam Over 50

    Alicia Drewnicki
    19 Oct 2014 | 5:01 pm
    Glamourous goddesses over 50, it’s time to embrace your beauty and show the world how gorgeous you truly are. From style tips to makeup tricks and having the right attitude, WeLoveDates is here to give you the boost of self-confidence you need. Here’s a guide to feeling glam over 50. 1) HOW TO FEEL CONFIDENT Top Tip 1: The first thing that comes to mind is to smile – there’s nothing more beautiful than a woman who enjoys life and looks happy. If you feel confident inside, you’ll radiate this and glow. Top Tip 2: Look at your mature idols for inspiration. A lot of…
  • Nine Women You Should Experience Dating Before Settling Down

    Kevin Murray
    17 Oct 2014 | 9:51 am
    There comes a point in every man’s life when he just doesn’t have the physical or mental energy to compete in the dating game; going out to some bar and paying for a random broads nine dollar drinks gets old. You want more, you need more. But, before you’re at piece with settling down, you have to make sure you’re in the right place to do so. Back in the day, people used to date high school sweet hearts and live happily ever after – those days are long gone. Now there’s years of college, careers and temptations of social media combined with dating sites. This makes single life…
  • One on One With Nixalina of Sex & London City

    Elizabeth Marie
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:00 pm
    Nixalina is the beauty and brains behind Sex & London City, one of the UK’s most popular dating, fashion and beauty blogs. Sex & London City just won Cosmopolitan UK’s 2014 Blog Award for Best Sex and Relationship Blog and Nixalina is the brand new resident dating vlogger for Metro UK. So, it’s safe to say she knows a thing or two about this whole dating game! Nixalina was kind enough to answer a few of our dating, fashion and beauty questions–let’s get started! 1. What is the #1 dating mistake you see women making? And men? Being too keen too quickly. It…
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    The Art of Charm Podcast

  • Peter Sage | Why Certainty Is A Myth (Episode 330)

    Jordan Harbinger
    22 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Become a complete version of you. “It’s not about what skills you’re born with, it’s about the mindset you develop.”-Peter Sage The Cheat Sheet: How to stop swimming in GOOP (and what goop stands for). (16:50) The question to ask to shift your perspective on a situation. (28:30) Why knowing something is useless. (31:00) The two emotions that align your heart and your mind. (41:20) A tip to change a woman’s mind. (55:30) What’s the difference between manipulation and intent? (57:10) And so much more… Most people in the world are living with…
  • Scott Barry Kaufman | Mating Intelligence Unleashed (Episode 329)

    Jordan Harbinger
    20 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    It only takes one. “Assertiveness and kindness is the combination most attractive to women.” -Scott Kaufman The Cheat Sheet: Dopamine is the pleasure molecule: true or false? (7:25) Scott defines a true alpha male. (18:40) The Dark Triad revealed: is it as ominous as it sounds? (19:10) What is positive psychology really about? (31:00) Why chat-up lines don’t work. (39:50) Mate copying: what does the term mean? (43:10) And so much more… If you’ve listened to the show before, you know we don’t buy into the whole “alpha or beta male” mindset…
  • Guy Winch, PhD | Emotional First Aid (Episode 328)

    Jordan Harbinger
    17 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Negative self-talk amplifies painful experiences. “We need to monitor our emotional health like we monitor our physical health. It has nothing to do with self-esteem, it has nothing to do with masculinity.” -Guy Winch The Cheat Sheet: Why avoidance doesn’t work and can actually make areas of your life worse. (10:30) Chronic loneliness is like smoking a pack of cigarettes a day: true or false? (16:50) Stewing vs doing: how and why to avoid the former. (26:20) Why affirmations are not useful. (36:20) Failure distorts our perceptions: the study that proves this. (41:35) How…
  • Dandapani | Monk with a MacBook (Episode 327)

    Jordan Harbinger
    15 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    No one has the right to hold you back. “There’s nothing more important than knowing who you are, the path you are on and its final end.” -Dandapani The Cheat Sheet: Why you should make your bed every day. (5:10) They watched 30 minutes of the news in his monastery: true or false? (14:20) The hierarchy of where to spend your energy as a parent and spouse. (27:50) What the law of thermodynamics has to do with relationships. (35:05) Affectionate detachment: what is it and do you need to implement it? (46:20) Why happiness should never be your goal in life. (54:05) And so…
  • Alex Kouts | The Art of Negotiating (Episode 326)

    Jordan Harbinger
    13 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Negotiating isn’t just about what you want. “The person on the other side of the table is terrified of losing you, terrified of losing the negotiation and losing face to somebody else, so you can leverage that if you know it.” – Alex Kouts The Cheat Sheet: Why everybody’s price is an f-you price, according to Alex. (11:15) How to emotionally prepare for awkwardness of negotiations. (23:20) BATNA: what is it and why is it so important? (31:10) Why women are better at negotiating than men. (32:30) When to apply the silent strategy. (35:05) What’s the nuclear option…
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    The Indie Chicks

  • How to Handle Sexist Comments at the Office

    Lexi B
    23 Oct 2014 | 7:07 am
    We have all been there. Sitting at our desks, minding our own business, doing great work, and then a colleague drops by and asks a completely inflammatory question that makes you want to verbally attack them. You can’t attack just...
  • Coming up from Rock Bottom

    Michelle Oeltjen
    23 Oct 2014 | 4:09 am
    My 28th birthday. A day that should have been spent celebrating by having lunch with co-workers and going to the drive-in movies with friends turned out to be one of the most horrific days of my life. As I was...
  • Treat Yourself to These 9 Solo Dates

    Julie Zantopoulos
    22 Oct 2014 | 7:12 am
    A true badass knows that she doesn’t need others to have an amazing time. In fact, sometimes it’s the time she spends with herself that’s the most amazing. Whether it’s a mini road trip, a pamper day, or bettering your...
  • How to Get Promoted: 5 Things To Do Right Now

    Renee Claybion
    22 Oct 2014 | 4:00 am
    Let’s be honest, with the recession and financial crisis we’re facing today, most people are lucky to even have a job. For those who are lucky enough to still be employed, moving up can seem like an impossible feat. But...
  • An Open Letter to Renee Zellweger

    Chiara Mazzucco
    21 Oct 2014 | 8:07 pm
    Dear Renée Zellweger, I’m afraid I owe you an apology. I, like many other people on social media, learned about your new face through a Facebook post, forcing me to guess, “Which Hollywood Starlet Is Now Completely Unrecognizable?” I’m a...
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    Dating pictures |Online Dating Photos | Dating Headshots

  • Dateless? Time to Revamp Your Online Dating Photos

    Dating Headshots
    23 Oct 2014 | 8:45 am
    Were you still dateless last month? Don’t think for a minute that the problem is with you. Take a look at your Online Dating Photos.  There’s someone special out there for each of us; we just have to find each other. And that’s the trick, isn’t it? Whether you’re young, time-strapped and singly focused on building a career, recently divorced and struggling to adapt to the modern dating scene or a silver-haired fox ready to embrace new experiences; finding that special someone can be like looking for a needle in a haystack. What you have to do is improve your odds. In effect, you…
  • When to Pick Up the Check?

    Dating Headshots
    21 Oct 2014 | 7:42 am
    When is it time to pick up the check?  Who picks up the check is one of those thorny subjects for which there is no single “right” answer. Changing social mores have turned the long-held tradition of “the man pays” into a bewildering muddle. Making things even more confusing, expectations about who pays seem to vary with age. The findings of a 2008 online poll by Elle magazine and point out just how confusing the check issue has become as illustrated by the contradictory results: 66% of men, particularly younger men, want women to help with the check after the first couple…
  • What Do Women Want?

    Dating Headshots
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:09 am
    What Do Women Want? That’s a question for the ages right? They say men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and the differences between the sexes do often seem to be worlds apart. Interestingly, scientists now say that a lot of that has to do with the way male and female brains are hard-wired; but changing social mores also play a significant role. Since the dawn of feminism in the 1960s (actually much earlier than that, but for simplicity we’ll use the ‘60s when “the times, they were a changin’”), women have been pushing for an equal seat at life’s table (especially  in…
  • Post Break up Dating Tips

    Dating Headshots
    14 Oct 2014 | 5:14 am
    Ending a relationship is distressing, yet you will recuperate. It just takes time. Just how much time depends upon you, how invested you were in the connection, just how long you were together, the conditions that tore you apart and your strategy to break-up recovery. When you’re done wallowing in self-pity, blaming your ex-boyfriend and deciding on apart every minute of your life together– all flawlessly regular responses to a bad breakup– it’s time to close guide on your old connection and welcome the new chapter in your life that is about to begin. The road to…
  • Are You a Normal Dater?

    Dating Headshots
    9 Oct 2014 | 8:30 am
    So are you a normal dater?  Despite our efforts to appreciate the uniqueness of each person, there is something in the human psyche that pushes us to be “normal.” Maybe it’s human herd mentality; but while we each want to stand out from the crowd and be considered exceptional, we also find comfort in being just like everyone else – normal. The problem, of course, is that everyone defines “normal” just a little bit differently. What you consider normal could be considered either boring, risky or risqué by someone else. What each of us perceives to be normal depends on a veritable…
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    Digital Romance Inc.

  • Dating and the Digital Age: The Dos and Don’ts

    Ian Oliver
    23 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    Dating - We live in a time where we get information when we want with little to no delay. Here are a few do’s and don’ts when it comes to dating and waiting in the digital age... Read » The post Dating and the Digital Age: The Dos and Don’ts appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • How to Weed Out the Wrong Men When Dating Online

    Kavita J. Patel
    23 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    I want to share with you a spin on a question I get asked all the time about dating online. How do I weed out the wrong men when I’m messaging them online so I don’t even need to waste my time going on a date with them? Read » The post How to Weed Out the Wrong Men When Dating Online appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • 6 Quotes to Remind Us Why We Love Love

    23 Oct 2014 | 4:00 am
    Dating is tricky. Decide what’s important to you, seek more information on your philosophies and hold true to them. Figure out what love means to you and find someone who measures up. Read » The post 6 Quotes to Remind Us Why We Love Love appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Why Do Men Love Dirty Talk So Much?

    Felicity Keith
    22 Oct 2014 | 6:00 am
    "Talk dirty to me..." Why is dirty talk so arousing to him? Read » The post Why Do Men Love Dirty Talk So Much? appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • What Does it Mean to Be Exclusive?

    Claire Casey
    22 Oct 2014 | 5:00 am
    You've been dating for a while, and you're ready to take things further, to get a deeper commitment. What does it really mean when the two of you agree to be exclusive? What, exactly, goes into a commitment like that? Read » The post What Does it Mean to Be Exclusive? appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
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  • About What Raven-Symoné Said

    8 Oct 2014 | 1:43 pm
    SHAUNTEE About What Raven-Symoné Said I, like many others watched Oprah’s Where Are They Now interview with Raven-Symoné. Many of you may remember her as adorable Olivia on the hit show The Cosby Show from way back when. On Sunday’s episode, she made one statement that I knew would cause a stir on social media. She stated: I’m tired of being labeled, I’m an American. I’m not an African-American. I’m an American.” “I connect with Caucasian. I connect with Asian. I connect with Black. I connect with Indian. I connect with each culture.” As I expected, it caused some to go on…
  • Ray Rice Scandal: Would You Help A Victim of Domestic Violence

    29 Sep 2014 | 8:43 am
    SHAUNTEE Ray Rice Scandal: Would You Help A Victim of Domestic Violence I was watching Queen Latifah’s talk show last week and found myself cheering her on when she mentioned the whole Ray Rice situation. In case anyone has been living under a rock for the past month or so. Ray Rice, an NFL player, was caught on camera in February putting the smack down on his then fiancé in an elevator. The next month, she married him despite the infamous elevator altercation. What is it about elevators this year? Anyway, the NFL suspended him indefinitely, and the Ravens terminated his contract. And of…
  • Nothing New: My Thoughts on Donald Sterling

    30 Apr 2014 | 12:00 pm
    SHAUNTEE Nothing New: My Thoughts on Donald Sterling I’ve been working in corporate America for 20 years. I got my first job at a law firm when I was 18 years old. With that being said, I’m no stranger to people pretending they’re not racist as hell while acting as though they’re ready to get in a circle and sing “We Shall Overcome” with us black folk. When Donald Sterling’s Black/Mexican girlfriend recorded his racist rant and it got publicized, let’s just call this the side chick revenge, I was in no way surprise.  There is no way an 80 year old white man can be…
  • Dating & Religion: Changing Your Beliefs for Love

    24 Feb 2014 | 11:27 am
    SHAUNTEE UPDATE: As with any tabloid or rumor; this one has been found to be false. Janet & hubby are reported as being blissfully in love. Although this story was false; it was certainly a good topic with great feedback. Feel free to read more here.   Dating & Religion: Would You Change Your Beliefs for Love? Photo Credit: Janet Jackson married business man Wissam Al Mana and then basically dropped off the face of the earth. There have been no photographs of her looking blissfully happy or any regular sightings of her since she announced she was retiring and…
  • ShoeMint Haul: A Girl Can Never Have Too Many Pairs of Shoes

    17 Feb 2014 | 8:13 am
    SHAUNTEE Shoe Mint Haul: A Girl Can Never Have Too Many Pairs of Shoes During this deep freeze, no one wants to go out unless they have to. When you do venture outdoors you have to put on so many layers of clothing until you don’t feel like it’s even worth it.  The question now becomes what do you do with all of the glorious free time one has while stuck indoors. The answer is simple; you shop! Well at least that’s what I did; right along with cursing myself for not living in the south. A girl can never have too many pairs of shoes; so when ShoeMint kicked off their shoe slice…
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  • No More Token Resistance From Women?

    23 Oct 2014 | 6:43 am
    This article on the recent “Yes Means Yes” law in California generated some controversy. It features a letter from a recent male college graduate. He talks about an experience with a woman he went out with: One night I ended up back in a girl’s room after a first date… She had invited me in and was clearly attracted to me. We were kissing on her bed, outer layers of clothing removed, but when my hands wandered downward she said, “No, wait.” I waited. She began kissing me again, passionately, so again I moved to remove her underwear. “Stop,” she said, “this is…
  • Are Direct Openers Better in the Day Than the Night?

    21 Oct 2014 | 6:23 am
    In general, the “opener” (or conversation starter) that you use does not really matter. What matters is that you are speaking genuinely and from your heart. If you feel like opening indirect by complimenting her earrings, then do that. If you feel like just expressing your appreciation of her beauty, do that. But there was a reason why Mystery and other early PUAs focused on indirect openers. They were approaching women in bars and night clubs. In those places, the women assume you are hitting on them. The nature of the mainstream night club or bar on a Friday night is that women…
  • Ready to Meet & Seduce Women? Get Live Training in NYC: Nov. 7-9

    17 Oct 2014 | 1:46 pm
    If you will be in New York City the first weekend of November, join my weekend intensive boot camp: a full-weekend intensive course in attraction, seduction and social growth with two NYC dating coaches. About 30% of the time will be in-class lectures, theory, principles, drills and exercises. 70% will be in the field, talking to women, flirting, sexually escalating, and pushing your social boundaries. We are intentionally limiting this to only Five Clients. We want to dedicate tons of time and personal attention to each client and make sure they make rapid progress. The Boot Camp is a…
  • Don’t Be a Creepy PUA

    16 Oct 2014 | 6:49 am
    European dating coach Steve Jabba recently made this video below about PUA guys in London, but the same lessons apply here in New York and elsewhere. I think there are a lot of guys that see crazy antics on YouTube and think they can pull off these things in real life. They are socially maladjusted or socially retarded, and end up hurting themselves more than helping. They follow stupid self-improvement advice under the guise of “getting out of their shell.” They are also susceptible to the trap of flash game. Steve mentions when he saw a guy literally chasing a girl down the…
  • Positive Energy and Getting Physical on the First Date

    11 Oct 2014 | 7:38 am
    The last 3 clips of my talk with Sarah of about her first date with her future boyfriend. Check out part 1-3 here and part 4-6 here. Part 7: Connecting with her and positive energy Part 8: Their first kiss and more on physical escalation Part 9: Connection, sexual openness and the path of improvement Positive Energy and Getting Physical on the First Date
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    Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield

  • Why Being Happy Is The Best Gift You Can Give Your Partner

    3 Oct 2014 | 12:53 pm
    You have to be happy with yourself before you can ever be happy with someone else. When Pharell’s song “Happy” comes on the radio, he wants us all to clap along and feel happy, too. Granted, the tune is catchy, but have you ever listened to the lyrics? “Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof?”  Wow. That’s deep. He also posits “happiness is The Truth.” I wish it were that simple. While happiness has become a big buzzword in psychological circles, what happiness actually looks and feels like in modern society is still not clear. Are…
  • Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.!

    24 Sep 2014 | 3:49 pm
    Thank you to for naming me as one of their top 17 dating coaches in Los Angeles! Read their list here! Add A CommentThe post Lisa Shield Named One of the Best Dating Coaches In L.A.! appeared first on Dating and Relationship Coach - Lisa Shield.
  • Do Younger Men Find Older Women Sexy? The Answer Will Surprise You!

    15 Sep 2014 | 12:19 pm
    “She’s just the sexiest woman alive,” said my male client, a guy in his early 30′s who was fit, kind, and looking to date a woman like the one he was talking about. You’re probably rolling your eyes right now, thinking that he’s referring to Megan Fox or Jennifer Lawrence. Maybe you’d be pleasantly surprised, or even shocked, to know that he was talking about Diane Lane, who is 19 years his senior at 49 years old! Why did my client find this older woman so irresistible? “It’s less about age and more about…the way some women make…
  • How I Celebrated the Happiest 10 Years of My Life

    11 Sep 2014 | 2:30 pm
    Last night at 8:30pm marked 12 years since my first date with my husband, Benjamin, and 10 years since we were married. We met in the early days of Internet dating, at a time when few people would have even admitted to posting a profile online. For me it was just the opposite. All my life, I had felt incredibly shy around men, and I never liked having go out in public and trawl for them.  So, I thought Internet dating was a godsend, and I told everyone. I knew that I needed lots of practice dating. For the first time I could get as many dates as I wanted and meet a lot of different men.  I…
  • 5 Ways to Stop Being A Dazed and Confused Dater

    19 Aug 2014 | 3:35 pm
    It’s happening again: you find yourself staring at your phone, waiting for a text back from someone you thought you had a particularly good date with. “But the night went so well!” you tell a friend, perplexed by the abrupt end to the previously steady flow of communication. As the negative thoughts begin to flood your mind, you start to make a mental list all the things you might have done wrong: a joke that fell flat, that shirt you were unsure about, a kiss that was good for you…but was it good for him? No matter how hard you try to reassure yourself, you can’t stop wondering,…
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    Dating Website Reviews

  • Launches New iPad App.

    Jason Lee
    21 Oct 2014 | 6:58 pm is one of the leading dating sites in existence and of course the largest dating site in the world as well and how they maintain their position of industry leader year over year is by adapting to the latest technologies and staying ahead of the pack. If you have not used in the last […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Launches New iPad App. appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • ‘Online Dating Association’ Has Few REAL Associations!

    Jason Lee
    21 Oct 2014 | 12:40 am
    Last week I strolled onto an obscure new website calling itself the ‘UK Dating Awards’ . This organization is now preparing to hand out, you guessed it, ‘Their OFFICIAL UK Dating Awards’. I am not going to link to the site because after reviewing their process (or rather lack thereof) I found there to be […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post ‘Online Dating Association’ Has Few REAL Associations! appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • 2015 Golden Heart Online Dating Awards Nominations, Coming Soon!

    Jason Lee
    19 Oct 2014 | 4:30 pm
    I am happy to share that our list for the nominations for the best online dating sites for 2015 is going live this week. This year we’re covering more niches than we did in 2014, our first year of Golden Heart Online Dating Awards. However, we are also simplifying things as well to make it […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post 2015 Golden Heart Online Dating Awards Nominations, Coming Soon! appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas)

    Jason Lee
    19 Oct 2014 | 3:25 pm
    Since 2004, iDate the Online Dating Industry Conference and Awards show has grown to become a more and more valuable networking and educational event for those in the internet dating business. The conferences now spans much of the globe with events all over the world. However, the main conference and the one that is most […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Annual Online Dating Industry Conference is January 20th-22nd 2015 (iDate Las Vegas) appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
  • Interview with Lisa Clampitt President & Founder of the Matchmaking Institute

    Jason Lee
    10 Sep 2014 | 2:52 pm
    Today we are exploring where online dating and matchmaking cross paths with Lisa Clampitt, President & Founder of the Matchmaking Institute. IT’S 8 ON ONLINE DATING, our continuing series of online dating industry interviews. I am happy to share a recent interview I had with matchmaking and relationship expert Lisa Clampitt. Lisa Clampitt is the President & Founder […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Interview with Lisa Clampitt President & Founder of the Matchmaking Institute appeared first on Dating Website Reviews.
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    Dating Sites XO

  • Whim

    Heather Dundon
    16 Oct 2014 | 6:50 am
    Whim is an LA-based dating app that's got the right idea. Show you a couple matches, suggest a restaurant, and get you out on a date TONIGHT!
  • SingldOut

    Heather Dundon
    9 Oct 2014 | 7:29 am
    New dating site using DNA mapping to find your perfect match.
  • Sugar Baby Australia

    Dating Sites XO
    2 Oct 2014 | 9:46 am
    Sugar Baby Australia, a division of Sugar Baby Meet, is the most widely-used sugar baby/sugar daddy dating site in Australia.
  • Gothic Match

    Heather Dundon
    25 Sep 2014 | 5:05 am
    Looking for someone who shares your dark outlook and love for eyeliner? is the #1 Gothic dating site in the world.
  • Same Plate

    Heather Dundon
    18 Sep 2014 | 5:30 am
    Same Plate is a dating site created by foodies, for foodies. Meet people with similar interests in fine dining, ethnic cuisine, or specialty diets for dating or a meal!
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    Book Review. Dating. Stories. Rants. Poetry.

  • How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 2

    26 Sep 2014 | 7:46 pm
    How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 1Kissing techniquesThe close your eyesTell the girl to close her eyes in the middle of conversation or dancing. If she resist, tell her you won’t kiss her. If she closed her eyes, you know what to do. Note: The girl knows what’s happening here – she knows that you will kiss her. She just doesn’t want to look like a slut. She wants to be a victim – the victim of the circumstance. It’s called the victim mentality. If she closes her eyes, there’s a 100% that you will be able to kiss her (obviously). Another Note: Build sufficient sexual…
  • How to Kiss Random Girls in the Club - Part 1

    25 Sep 2014 | 7:36 pm
    John: Please visit my girlfriend's awesome blog www.kikaysikat.comIntroductionKissing a girl in a club is not only a natural phenomenon but also an acceptable form of fornication in our culture. The exchange of saliva and other body fluids with a stranger in a club is viewed as fun, exciting, and sexy. The only disgusting or nauseating thing you can found in clubs is two guys eating each other faces. It’s opposite, two girls making out, gives us the hardest boner.Kissing makes our body excrete serotonin (the good feeling hormone) that makes us happy as a villain. Ecstasy too has the same…
  • Hank Moody is not just a Fictitious Character

    7 Aug 2014 | 10:48 pm
    Hank Moody sees the world differently. They say he was dark in his writing, but in person he always lean towards the brighter side. He’s a positive, happy-go-lucky, and I-don’t-give-a-fuck-on-the-outcome person. He sees problems in a fun challenging way. Seeing the world as an absurd place rather than a dark hole that saps life. He believe that you can’t always get what you want in life, but you don’t have to frown or be negative, because most of the times, you get what you need.He loves women. He desires them but not in a lecherous way. He desires the companionship. The banter and…
  • Rant: Women and their Shaved Pudenda

    6 Aug 2014 | 11:53 am
    Ladies today had gone too far on the sex positive feminism. They always say, "men do it." They say, "men have sex for fun." They say, "men watch pornography." They say, "men posts their sexual exploits on blogs." "Why not us?"Do they really think that's the path to liberation?Aside from the fact that women are men's greatest weakness, they are the fairer sex. If they act like fucking looney toons, watching pornography, walking around topless, posting on blog that they had just fucked a guy and what not, what will happen to this society of ours?This society needs to preserve that sweet smell…
  • Book Review: Diary by Chuck Palahniuk

    29 Jul 2014 | 7:24 pm
    I was kind of sad when I found out that Chuck Palahniuk was gay. I don’t know why. I don’t hate gay people. It’s just that…why the fuck are you gay? You could be my hero. But I could never tell my future kids that my hero was gay.On Diary.For the first few pages, I wanted to tear up my kindle. Chuck Palahniuk’s voice was so unique he was giving me hard time understanding him. If I don’t like a book after reading a few pages, I usually delete that shit on my kindle. Or in a case of a paperback, I wrap it in a piece of paper and send it as a gift to a friend. But I love…
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    Bachelor Uncut

  • The Joys of (Swiss) Sex

    Bachelor Uncut
    22 Oct 2014 | 8:42 am
    If you live in Switzerland, you apparently have the best sex life. Do you know which other countries topped the list? Why generations of immigrants continue to come to North America is beyond me, especially when it seems every other country is much better off–at least in the getting laid department (and isn’t that THE MOST important thing?) At least that’s the story according to the folks at Alternet. They compiled a list of the most Most Sexually Satisfied Countries and Canada and the U.S. are nowhere to be found. Are we really just prudes in promiscuous clothing? Here are the…
  • I Lust New York

    Bachelor Uncut
    20 Oct 2014 | 7:35 pm
    If You Can Fuck Here, You can Fuck Anywhere! New York City. It isn’t just a Mecca for commerce and the arts; it also happens to be the thriving epicenter for all things SEX. Whether you’re looking for a casual fling, or are just desperate to get any kind of action, the Big Apple has got you covered. It’s uninhibited, it’s in-your-face and, much like your very first hand job, it can leave you with a gratifying memory that will last a lifetime. But what makes the world’s greatest city the best dating pool to swim in as well? I’ve always considered New York (and by New York I of…
  • My Favorite Sex Facts, Part One

    Bachelor Uncut
    17 Oct 2014 | 7:09 pm
    From slamming to swallowing, the X-Rated world is just filled with juicy tidbits! If you think sex is just about random flirtations, heavy petting and the sacred penetration, you’re missing some of the more interesting subtleties (and cool, “behind-the-scenes” factoids). The great thing is that there’s NO shortage of sexual fun facts that would make for perfect conversation-starters at your next dinner party–provided you’re with the right crowd. Here are some of my favorites. Click ‘Next’ to Continue.  
  • Successful Girlfriend, Rocky Relationship?

    Bachelor Uncut
    15 Oct 2014 | 8:47 pm
    How one macho man turned his own insecurities into the best orgasms of his life. When Brad started working for his girlfriend’s mega-successful PR firm, it marked the beginning of what would become a very tough road—at first anyway. Like most alpha-males, he was used to calling the shots in his previous life as an independent commercial painter. And he had always fashioned himself to be a great provider (as a single dad) for his two children. Just like Mr. Sinatra, he did it all his way. But what a difference a year, the shitty economy and a new girlfriend can make. With times getting…
  • Top Five Hottest Italian Women

    Bachelor Uncut
    13 Oct 2014 | 5:42 pm
    Here are five Italian beauties who can make your heart turn green, white and red (and your penis turn purple). When I raved about the wonders of Greek women a while back, I hadn’t expected so many Italians to take it personally. My inbox proved me wrong however. And so, as a Bachelor who’s always considered himself to be an equal opportunist when it comes to Mediterranean pussy hotties, I thought it only fair to give some important shout-outs to those Italian bombshells who can give any Greek goddess a run for her money. Here, then, are five babes who prove Italy’s best…
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    Tao System Of Badass

  • 5 Mistakes Most Guys Make – Relationship Advice

    Alauddin Mia
    27 Sep 2014 | 9:39 pm
    You can find endless amounts of relationship advice online, in books, from friends….wherever. But regardless of what action you take on the dating advice you find, just try to avoid these 5 dating mistakes. Mistake #1 – Being Too Nice I know it sounds crazy but its true. For whatever reasons women aren’t attracted to the nice guys. Ever wonder why the most attractive women tend to fall for the bad boy? Its because she has a deep level of attraction to him. And while I am not advising you to go out and be a jerk to every girl you met, I am saying that trying to be a nice guy to win her…
  • Online Dating Site Reviews

    Alauddin Mia
    8 Sep 2014 | 9:27 pm
    Finding True Love on the Web It’s been estimated that approximately 30% of web users have romance and dating on their mind when using the Internet. The popularity of online dating sites has grown, with more and more people finding their perfect match by using these sites. However, not all of these sites work in the same fashion. If you’re looking for love online, here is a review of 12 of the most popular sites to help you find the one that is right for you. Online Dating Site – If you’re looking for a bit of help in finding Mr. or Ms. Right, eHarmony could be the perfect…
  • How to End an Extra-Marital Affair

    Alauddin Mia
    8 Sep 2014 | 9:12 pm
    here are many reasons that may have led you to become involved in an affair outside of your marriage, and if you are reading this article, you are likely trying to determine the best way to end the affair and move on with your life.  You’re not alone. Infidelity is alarmingly prevalent in our society today, and no matter what reason you have for your indiscretions, the tips that follow can help you put an end to your affair once and for all. Be Sure that You’re Ready to End the Affair In theory, it’s easy to walk away from a lover, especially if you are married, but in practice, it can…
  • Rebuild Trust in a Relationship After a Marital Affair

    Alauddin Mia
    2 Sep 2014 | 7:36 am
    When one of my friends got caught cheating he asked me, “Can I get my ex back even after I was caught cheating in the relationship?” The answer to his question wasn’t an easy one, but once I realized his sincere desire to rebuild trust and to restore the relationship, I gave him some advice on how to go about it and How To Regain Trust. Some may say cheating on your partner should always end a relationship but you want to regain trust in someone. Well that really depends on the couple.  I feel every relationship can be save if the couple involve really want it to make it work. Perhaps…
  • Sanctify your marriage relation

    Alauddin Mia
    14 Aug 2014 | 7:53 am
    it is appropriate for me to begin with the relationship of people. if you are a young adult and contemplating marriage, it is paramount that you consider deeply the lifelong commitment you will need to make to marriage partner. if you have decided to have children, you will be required to assume an even larger responsibility. According to capture his heart program marriage is the first institution that god gave to mankind. it is a sacred institution, that has been reduced to a sexual institution. if you don’t like one partner, hop over to the next. we are acting like animals instead of…
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    The DayGame

  • Crucial Conversational Elements of EVERY Best Pickup Artist

    Serge Solonenko
    23 Oct 2014 | 10:10 pm
    Crucial Conversational Elements of EVERY Best Pickup Artist Flaking is a huge problem for guys in the beginning stages of learning daygame. A lot frustration and problems arise from this. It’s been a huge problem for us here at The Daygame as well, but after hammering away for many years we figured out the small root cause of the problem. It comes down strictly to your interaction with the girl, your commitment to improving your approach, keeping on plowing through your sticking points and improving all your weaknesses to get a very solid number. However, the next set of ideas are more than…
  • 5 Strange Loopholes Used by the Best Pickup Artists

    Serge Solonenko
    21 Oct 2014 | 10:31 pm
    These 5 Strange Loopholes Are Used by the Best Pickup Artists   It’s important to realize that for you to become the best pickup artist you can be you must avoid being The Interviewer or The Hairdresser. You’re likey naturally jumping from one topic to another if you’re still learning how to push the conversation along it’s destined path. One way you can stop jumping around is to practice teasing out further information from a girl so she expands a topic, offering more of her thoughts. The easiest way to do this is to have quite genuine interest in the topic and her real opinions…
  • A Woman Is

    Serge Solonenko
    20 Oct 2014 | 6:47 pm
    A Woman Is… A woman is your biggest nightmare and your biggest joy. A woman is a classical mystery murder novel without an ending. A woman is a universal free flowing energy waiting for direction. A woman is an empty vessel of chaos waiting to come alive through a man. A woman will hate you and love you simultaneously. A woman is a free caring soul waiting for someone to unleash her inner child. A woman loves boundaries because she wants to cross them. A woman craves your attention and validation so she can feel beautiful. A woman prefers the fairy tale white lie, over realistic truth.
  • A Day Game PUA Uses These 3 Crazy Vibing Techniques

    Serge Solonenko
    18 Oct 2014 | 3:20 pm
    Why Does a Newbie Day Game PUA Fail in the Vibing Phase Sometimes?  Once you’ve hooked the girl, your goal is to slowly drift away from any kind of structured communication and stop trying to bring anymore value to the interaction. That’s overly gamey and does more harm than good. Realize when you have to stop. A strong day game PUA thinks of his first 60 seconds as a pre-planned “assault” on a beach to establish your presence there. Now that you’ve established yourself, you can focus on simply channeling your value through a more conventional means. strong day game pua Keep on…
  • PUA Day Game Openers Are Dead ?

    Serge Solonenko
    14 Oct 2014 | 9:00 pm
    PUA Day Game Openers Are Dead ? There is a huge obsession with PUA day game openers in the PUA community. It’s quite hilarious and for some reason a lot of beginners who get into the community are thinking there is a magical opener that drops her panties in under 10 seconds. We’ve been day-gaming for over 4 years and are still searching for this panty dropping opener. Email us when you find it. We’ll write a sensational post about it immediately. For some mystical reason a lot of guys have this notion that a magical opener exists. The girl will hear your magical line and get down on…
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    Mesh Blog

  • Stop Playing by These 4 Dating Rules

    Alexandra Wee
    22 Oct 2014 | 10:18 am
    Sometimes, change can be pretty darn fabulous. Just a few years ago, online dating was tabooed as a “last resort” for the older/desperate/socially awkward crowd. Today, it’s quickly become our favorite matchmaking choice: an easy and spontaneous way to look for love. Click. Swipe. Swoon. Those knight-in-shining-armor days? Long gone. No more waiting by the phone for him to call, and no more pacing by the door, hands too clammy to ring her doorbell. Daters today have taken on a new mindset: if you want something, just go for it! That said, here are four dusty dating rules we dare you to…
  • Monday’s Mix: Namesakes

    Yeni Sleidi
    13 Oct 2014 | 10:09 am
    Got someone on your mind this Monday? Maybe you’ll spot their name in this playlist. And remember, hit “private mode” before you listen to it 10 times in a row.
  • Reading Between the Texts: A Definitive Guide

    8 Oct 2014 | 3:37 pm
    Dating during the time of texting has made courtship easier… and messier. On the one hand both parties have the ability to virtually and rather non-intrusively check in whenever they want. But on the other hand — what in God’s name did that text mean? The phrase lost in translation has rarely seemed so apt. Below we attempt to outline some common texts and timing of said texts and what they might mean for your blooming (or rapidly decaying) relationship. The Morning Wake-Up Call:   A chirpy 8 am ping — unless it’s a reply to a forgotten late night text — often means…
  • Beta Week 4: More Features, Freebies and Updates!

    Alexandra Wee
    8 Oct 2014 | 10:17 am
    Happy  October, Meshers! Can you believe a whole month has flown by since we launched into the Beta life? Crazy, we know, but we wouldn’t have made it this far without you. For starters, you helped us gain more than 1000 new users in the past three weeks alone. And, thanks to your feedback, our team’s been able to create tons of new features that we can’t wait to show you. So give yourself a pat on the back (we did!) Newly Added Features: Safety from Catfishes Improved international filtering ensures that you don’t get reeled into someone’s online dating scheme. We want you to feel…
  • 6 Ways to Recover from a First Date Faux Pas

    29 Sep 2014 | 10:28 am
    Ah, first dates. A necessary evil for all of us who never want to go on another again — so don’t blow it. Nah, we kid.  Relax and have fun, afterall you’re sussing them out too. That being said, there are some very human errors that may happen in that tiny window between stranger and possible romantic partner that could shoot you in the foot before it even gets out the door. Thankfully, we’ve provided a few ways to swoop in and be your own savior when a first meeting with someone promising is beginning to look like to may be your last. ERROR #1: Lateness Hovering Around The Half…
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    Over 40 Dating Site

  • The secret of successful 40 plus dating

    8 Oct 2014 | 7:35 am
    What is the “the secret of successful 40 plus dating”…It is fair to say that online dating is an appealing and more affordable place to meet new people. After the age of thirty five plus, (for some of us, and for a variety of reasons), it can be difficult to go out and meet members of the opposite sex in traditional settings, bars and clubs for example. Worldwide, there has been a 57% increase in the use of online dating sites, so tip no one is to just take the bit between the teeth and Join. In the first instance, when writing your profile pay careful attention to spelling and…
  • Dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:32 am
    Clothes reveal what is really going on internally, according to an American psychologist who explains what your frock can tell the rest of the world about you….so how do you dress for success ladies when 40 plus dating? Top of the frocks is still the little black dress, it is named as the favourite wardrobe staple by 64% of women. The little black dress was created by Coco Chanel in 1926 and paved the way for a colour that was normally worn for funerals. Typical problems fall into several categories, here are just a few of them: wearing office clothes all of the time; buying designer labels…
  • Over 40′s dating tips for men

    6 Oct 2014 | 6:31 am
    Mature dating, or in this case over 40’s dating tips for men, is written with the best of intentions and hopefully will help you relax and enjoy your online journey. Try to keep it as local as possible. Too much distance in a relationship can be off putting, especially if you are really busy people. Secondly it is meant to be fun. We know it is difficult to put yourself out there, warts and all, it is easy to be someone else in this digital age. What women want however, is the true you, your authentic self. Leave your super ego at home, speak from the heart. If you are not who you say you…
  • The Increase in Plus-40 Dating on the Internet

    5 Sep 2014 | 6:47 am
    for the over 40s is something of an industry shocker. Quite simply, nobody foresaw just how popular online dating for over 40s would be. In 2012, there was a 57% increase in online dating amongst the over forties, and today 33% of couples have met online. By 2040, this figure is expected to rise to 70%. Internet dating is a growth industry. Clearly something is going right. Why No Stigma? In the old days there was something tinged with sadness about dating remotely. People would fill in a questionnaire in the newspaper and send it off, with the hope of meeting someone. Online dating has…
  • Getting back on the scene after divorce

    2 Sep 2014 | 4:03 am
    Getting back on the scene after divorce  Divorce is one of the single most upsetting and disturbing things we can go through as adults. It is often immensely hurtful, particularly when there are children involved. Divorce can leave your confidence shattered, and some people wonder whether they will ever be able to trust a partner again. How can you get past these understandable feelings of anxiety, and back into your stride when dating over 40, after a divorce? Take Your Time Don’t rush things. If you are still grieving for the end of your marriage, don’t push yourself to start a new one…
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    Why Men Leave

  • How to Maintain a Long Distance Relationship

    Uju Morah
    23 Oct 2014 | 7:08 am
    Long distance relationships do not rely on physical love, long distance relationships are driven by the love that inspires your heart, mind and soul. ― AnonymousI was always in search of true love— nursing the feeling that my prince charming would suddenly appear out of the blue and save the damsel in distress. Reality dawned on me when I ended up having several failed relationships that dealt me some hard blows, and taught me things I refused to learn the easy way.I remember talking to a close friend of mine back then, asking him when I was going to find my soul mate, the one who…
  • Been Cheated On? How to Trust Again

    Uju Morah
    15 Sep 2014 | 7:11 am
    “I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”— Friedrich NietzscheThey say trust is the bedrock of good and successful relationships. Have you ever felt like you can’t seem to trust people any longer? Maybe because of past bad experiences? Trust me- I have been there. So many people find themselves dealing with how to trust after being cheated on.Now trust goes along with loyalty.If your significant other can trust you- it means that they can take you at your word, and this brings confidence. If you have trust in an intimate relationship,…
  • Opening The Kimono: Behind The Scenes

    Elizabeth Stone
    5 Sep 2014 | 10:09 am
    I was invited to be a part of this blog tour by Debra Smouse, a colleague, life coach and fellow writer. Her work is centered on helping women fall in love with their lives and invite the kind of decluttering that brings about widespread mindset shifts in people’s lives.Debra is currently working on several big projects, including a self-published self-improvement book on growth, a memoir and an eBook specifically for her newsletter subscribers.In addition to her roles as writer and lifestyle coach, she is an “expert detangler,” centered on helping her clients achieve greater clarity…
  • How to Overcome Any Setback, Keep Your Husband Interested

    Elizabeth Stone
    8 Aug 2014 | 6:34 am
    Well hello! The last two weeks have been hectic! Lots of things going on! Check out what looked interesting this week:This was particularly helpful to me this week, since I’m juggling everything at one time and sometimes it seems impossible:The Secret to Overcoming Any Setback [PsychologyToday]I loved this piece about creating a remarkable life:The Dare [MidlifeMidwifeProject]Wondering how to keep things from getting stale in a long term relationship? The answer is love nuggets. Find out what they are:How Do I Keep My Husband Interested? I Make Him Lunch Everyday [YourTango]Okay, so I…
  • How to Stop Being a Doormat: 6 Ways You’re Getting Walked On

    Elizabeth Stone
    29 Jul 2014 | 2:36 pm
    Do you have crappy relationships with men? Do you feel like you’re struggling to gain men’s attention or when you finally meet someone, they take advantage of you? Do you feel like if someone only treated you as well as you treated them, that your life would be on track?Wondering how to stop being a doormat to a man? Here’s my list of six signs you’re behaving like one and how to remedy each.1. You’re a Yes WomanIt doesn’t matter if you’re tired, if you don’t want to, if you’re broke or you have to work, when he calls, you come, period. You are allergic to “no.”…
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  • Tinder – 12 Pick-Up Lines that work!

    7 Oct 2014 | 4:29 am
    Currently you should know the truth about tinder and after you have set up the perfect tinder profile, you got many matches. Now you ask yourself, which lines are the best to open her and get the conversation started. At first make yourself clear that there is a huge difference between opening girls in real life vs girls on tinder. These girls use tinder, because they want to be approached and if they match with you it means they are already waiting for your line. The only problem is, that she also gave 10 to 100 other guys this opportunity and just like Sperm Wars, the best one will win.
  • Escalation – 3 Hints to consider

    23 Sep 2014 | 1:04 pm
    Escalation takes a PUA’s new-found ability to approach and be friendly with random people, and converts it into a means to achieve more than friendly conversation. However this process can be a minefield to the uninitiated, and particularly when you are new to the game, your brain looks for an “excuse” for each step, wanting a socially acceptable justification for every action. I have found one particular technique to be very helpful in creating the ‘excuse’ your brains need. This backdoor should work not only in your mind, but in hers (never forget that the girl is likely to be…
  • The Perception of Difficulty

    8 Sep 2014 | 12:11 pm
    I managed to squeeze my lunch into the 10 minutes I had before boarding my train. Not an especially unique story, but people were looking at me as though it was offensive to eat 250g of salmon, 250g of cherry tomatoes, and a whole avocado in a train station. They probably would have been even more shocked to know that all of those ingredients had been acquired 10 minutes beforehand for less than the cost of their big macs. This is not meant to be a lesson in healthy eating, but rather a demonstration of how easy it is to do the right thing. Whether it is eating healthily, going to the gym, or…
  • Advantages of Dating Psychos

    27 Aug 2014 | 9:05 am
    You know what, I took the first option months ago. I haven’t been with her about 7 months. I mean, we love the chase, we love to conquer, to succeed, to put in our meat flag and scream “victory”. But Sean, whats the point of dating a psycho? Its a lot of work and they can get you into a huge mess. You could end as another “investigation discovery” show. Part of the game, for me, is to be experienced, to know human behaviour, to recognize good opportunities and bad ones, and been able to take a chance when I tough the time fit. This girl has issues. Her emotional…
  • She doesn’t want a relationship

    Sean Winn
    22 Aug 2014 | 7:41 am
    I recently got this interesting question from a reader and I’m sure many guys have faced a situation where the girl is better in controlling her emotions than themselves. That’s why I wrote articles like How to be less sensible man and why you need to control your emotions. This time it’s about the situation when you want a relationship but the girl wants to keep it casual: I started dating this girl, the sexual connection was awesome. The problem was, I wanted to change the only sex nature of the relation, into a normal relationship. It was like I was the girl and she was…
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    Love My Brit

  • Vlog #1: Harrison Hot Springs Anniversary Celebration

    Chris Martin
    11 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Chelsea and I took a short break to Harrison Hot Springs, British Columbia to celebrate our belated one year anniversary. As we are dating long distance, we were not able to be together for this special occasion. But finally, we were able to celebrate it in person! We also thought it would be a great […] The post Vlog #1: Harrison Hot Springs Anniversary Celebration appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Top 20 Activities To Do in Person for LDR Couples

    Chris Martin
    2 Oct 2014 | 11:00 am
    Most long distance couples will spend a significant time apart, so what little time you do have to be together in person becomes very precious. We all want to make the most of that time, enjoy ourselves and make it as special as possible. So we have compiled a list of our Top 20 Activities for […] The post Top 20 Activities To Do in Person for LDR Couples appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Love My Brit Photoshoot!

    Chris Martin
    27 Sep 2014 | 3:30 am
    During our time spent together in America this September, we had the opportunity to have photos taken professionally by a friend of  Chelsea’s. We loved the idea, and immediately headed for Fairhaven (a historic district of Bellingham, WA) for our first ever Love My Brit photoshoot. We wanted to incorporate the theme of both English […] The post Love My Brit Photoshoot! appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Finding Accommodation for Trips with Airbnb

    Chris Martin
    24 Sep 2014 | 3:29 pm
    Most of the time when you visit your partner, you will have guaranteed accommodation with them. However, this is not always the case. When Chelsea has visited me at university in Lancaster, she has been able to stay with me in my rented house with my housemates and I. When I have visited her in […] The post Finding Accommodation for Trips with Airbnb appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Weekly Featured Couple: Stephanie and Patrick

    Chris Martin
    22 Sep 2014 | 9:18 pm
    Our featured couple this week is Stephanie and Patrick. With an 8 hour time difference between them (California to England) we can certainly relate to their situation! This couple met through friends at church almost five years ago and have been dating ever since. How Did You Meet? Hello! My name is Stephanie and I’m […] The post Weekly Featured Couple: Stephanie and Patrick appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • How to Remain Dignified While Being Rejected

    Nick Notas
    23 Oct 2014 | 9:11 am
      I looked around the club and saw her. She had tanned skin, tall black boots, and danced hypnotically with her girl friends. I had to meet her. A dozen guys stood around the room, holding their drinks and leering. No one had the guts to go up to the group of girls. I wanted to be the guy to do it. With the help of some liquid courage, of course. I downed my drink and walked towards her. My legs felt like jello with every step. I stopped in front of her, smiled, and said, “Hey.” She gazed into my eyes and returned a smile. Her friends listened closely. I thought to myself, Yes, Im…
  • How to Reject Men Safely and Respectfully

    Nick Notas
    17 Oct 2014 | 6:22 am
    Being rejected sucks. But rejecting someone can suck just as much. Contrary to what many men believe, most women don’t enjoy turning someone down. It’s awkward. It’s intense. And it can lead to uncomfortable or even dangerous situations. Because of this, women try to reject others “gently” to protect themselves. Ironically, this usually ends up hurting men more and causes worse problems for everyone. I’m here to show you how to reject men in a mature, respectful way that’s in your best interests, too. Where problems start  You can’t avoid hurting someone’s feelings…
  • Should You Try to Get Your Ex Back?

    Nick Notas
    9 Oct 2014 | 7:14 am
    Yesterday I was on the phone with a long-time client, Jon. Jon told me how he finally feels like he’s in a good place. His business is thriving, he’s grown tremendously as a person over the last few years, and he’s casually seeing two gorgeous women. He then asked me, “So, do you think I should reach out to my ex, to see if anything’s still there?” This surprised me. Why? Because of the way he phrased the question. I have an endless supply of guys asking me, “How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?” They’ve already made up their mind and are determined to win her at all costs.
  • Do or Die (Literally): The Surefire Way to Achieve Your Goals

    Nick Notas
    2 Oct 2014 | 9:12 am
    You can bet Raymond went to Veterinary school. If you don’t get this picture, click to watch the video.   During a drive the other day, I listened to “Quitters, Inc.” by Stephen King. It’s the tale of a married man named Dick Morrison. An old college roommate runs into Dick and refers him to a company called, “Quitters, Inc.” With their help, his roommate successfully quit smoking and got a big promotion at work. However, he’s unable to reveal exactly how they turned his life around. Dick eventually decides to go for a consultation. He meets with his case officer Victor…
  • How to Avoid Having a Shitty Relationship

    Nick Notas
    26 Sep 2014 | 5:19 am
      We all know about the running joke that romantic relationships are a source of misery. We grew up on shows like Married With Children where Al Bundy hated having to hang out with his wife Peg. We hear friends challenge each other with, “You’re so whipped!” And serious couples give us ominous warnings such as, “Don’t get married.” or “It’s all good now, but wait until the honeymoon is over.” These may make us laugh but they also reinforce that our partners are a burden on our lives. It’s true that maintaining a happy, healthy relationship takes work. But that…
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    Marital Affair » Blog

  • Better Married Dating with Performance Enhancing foods

    17 Oct 2014 | 12:58 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at In this day and age of Love Shops, sex toys and artificial stimulants, it may do us well to remember that there are several natural ways to enhance sexual performance, many of which can be found in the food we eat. In most instances, these food items may already be part of your diet. But, if they are not, it would be pretty easy to incorporate them into your daily routine and ensure that your married dating experience is as enjoyable as it should be. Go nuts Most nuts and seeds, such as cashews and…
  • 5 Motivations That Fuel a Marital Affair

    9 Oct 2014 | 5:32 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at In today’s modern world, with rumours of high profile celebrity hook-ups and the ability to easily share our own photos with a secret friend, it can often seem like sex, or at the very least some innocent snogging, is on everyone’s mind. With such thoughts in mind, today we’ll be exploring five common reasons why men and women start an affair. For each reason, we’ll look a little bit at the differences between the sexes to better understand what gets everyone ready to dive under…
  • Is There An Optimum Length for an Affair Dating Journey?

    2 Oct 2014 | 9:04 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Affair Dating stories are as individual as the two people involved in them.  Some last for several years, even a lifetime, while others may fizzle out after one night.  Is there an optimum length for an affair?  Should they be long, short, or does it really matter at all?  These are some questions that married partners who are active in affairs outside of the marriage may ask.  The answer is that it depends upon your preferences and several other factors that may be affecting your life. Reasons…
  • Is Your Married Affair Leading to More than Just Sex

    25 Sep 2014 | 6:42 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at You’ve been in an extramarital affair that has been based upon mutual sexual attraction for some time, but something has changed.  For some reason you don’t have the same feelings for your man (if you are having an affair with a married man).  You may wonder what is happening.  Could it be possible that your affair is becoming about more than just sex? There are some tell-tale signs that may signal the sexy romps with your married partner are transforming into a different kind of marital…
  • Smart Phones are changing the Way We Cheat

    18 Sep 2014 | 3:54 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at For those of us who are in the married affair dating game, there are great new advances in technology that are making it easier than ever to connect with people and stay better in touch. It is a fact that smart phones are changing the way that we cheat on our partners. New and improved applications are available that help us maintain a higher level of privacy and keep snooping spouses from tracking our activities through our smart phones. Old cell phone technology vs. increased privacy measures Up…
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  • The Unspoken Truth About How To Get Girls To Want You

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:20 am
    you have success at approaching women and getting their number, then you may feel like you will be able to succeed with them from that point forward. They are attracted to you, right? They did give you their number and agree to a date, but that doesn’t mean that they want you. You need to impress them and seduce them in order to make them want you. Let’s talk about seven ways how to get girls to want you. #1. Have Female FriendsStudies have shown that when women see other women desiring a guy, they too desire him. While your female friends may not desire you in an intimate type way,…
  • The Ex Recovery System – Get Your Girlfriend Back!

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:09 am
    There is hardly any long term relationships that goes without fights and break ups, but if you are a couple made for each other or if you believe her to be the one, then you are going to come together again, after some conscious effort for a reunion, especially on your part, as girls are privileged to receive loads of attention, or you can also call it the law of nature.If you really want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back then there is every reason to believe that you can resolve the blunder you have committed. Identifying the reasons that have made your girlfriend walk away from you…
  • The Tao of Badass Ebook Review

    12 Oct 2014 | 12:01 am
    Joshua Pellicer is the first to admit that he didn’t understand women at one point. In fact, he will tell you that it is not usually the woman’s fault a guy is rejected; instead, the reason is that guys just don’t understand women. Now, he successfully coaches men in various ways to bring the best out in guys so that they can land the woman they want, and he has even written an eBook. Following are four reasons to read The Tao of Badass eBook written by Josh. #1. Learn Something That Isn’t Taught OftenIn many dating books, various methods are taught on how to ‘play’ a girl and…
  • How To Use Affirmations More Effectively To Help You Attract Ladies

    11 Oct 2014 | 11:53 pm
    Right now, you are saying many affirmations to yourself about your ability to attract women, whether you know it or not. Those affirmations are having a direct influence over your ability to get women.If you are affirming negative things about yourself then you will not be able to attract women easily; however, if you are saying positive things about yourself then you will have much more luck with women.Following are five steps to help you start affirming positive things to yourself that help you attract women.#1. Decide Where Your Strengths AreFirst, you need to focus on the positive traits…
  • 10 Positive Affirmations to Help You Attract Beautiful Women

    11 Oct 2014 | 11:45 pm
    Attracting beautiful women may seem like rocket science to the uninitiated man. If you’ve experienced being turned down by a lady or being passed over for another guy more often than you’d like, don’t despair. Even if you feel like a failure, there’s a way to turn things around. Change your attitude and your mindset through daily positive affirmations. These thoughts train your subconscious mind and in turn, translate to positive physical actions. To start you off, here’s a list of 10 positive affirmations that help you to attract beautiful women. Chant them to yourself daily and…
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  • 8 Ways to Be Cheap and Save Money

    23 Oct 2014 | 1:05 pm
    Have you been tightening your purse strings after a little overspending?It’s the little things that count, so consider these interesting tips to help you save money.1. Separate your bananas: This will keep them yellow for longer. Bananas produce ethylene, a gas that causes them to ripen. Separating them can slow down that process.You can also slow down the ripening process by wrapping a piece of plastic cling wrap around the crown of the banana bunch.2. Store your lettuce: Seal it in a zip-lock bag with a moistened paper towel to add days of leafy goodness to them.Get 10% Off all…
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    23 Oct 2014 | 5:49 am
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  • HOT Female Gym Teacher Caught Sleeping With Young Student Multiple Times INSIDE CATHOLIC SCHOOL

    23 Oct 2014 | 4:57 am
    When Megan Mahoney offered to coach one of her young, male students in basketball, she apparently had more than athletics in mind.The 24-year-old Catholic school teacher from Staten Island has been charged with 30 counts of statutory rape and four of criminal sexual acts for her relationship with a 16-year-old student, which happened between October 2013 and January 2014.Mahoney, who was the assistant athletic director and assistant girls’ basketball coach at Moore Catholic High School, began a months-long affair when she offered to give the teen a little extra help with basketball.She…
  • Kwankwaso Accuses FG Of Frustrating His Presidential Ambition

    23 Oct 2014 | 3:41 am
    Kano state Governor, Rabi’u Musa Kwankwaso has accused the federal government of deliberately his presidential ambition, saying that he has been blocked severally from using public places to declare his aspiration in Abuja.Kwankwaso said,  on two occasions, his campaign committee had sought different venues in Abuja for the declaration ceremony but they were denied by the powers that be.He however described the act as irritating and undemocratic.According to him, “the Eagle Square proposed venue seems to be impossible, even the International Conference Centre, as we are now…
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  • How to Share Your Household Cleaning Without Fighting

    21 Oct 2014 | 1:14 pm
    A great part of the people are not usually keen on providing the household cleaning duties. If we are honest, we often avoid all these annoying cleaning chores not because we are too busy but also because we somehow feel reluctant to take our part in these activities. Of course everyone needs to contribute to the clean and welcoming environment in their homes, but sometimes we find it difficult to share the household chores with out partner in the right way. In order to avoid the disputes on this question you had better find ways in which everyone has takes an equal part in this activity. We…
  • Why this sugar daddy got into the sugar dating world?

    Sugar Daters
    16 Oct 2014 | 12:57 pm
    Note: This is a contribution post by an anonymous Sugar Daddy. The views are his/her own and may not always reflect Sugar Daters views. It is posted as it is received, not alterations have been made. It is a question I have been trying to answer myself since I began. I continue to refine the answer now about 12 months after exploring the option. As I roll the answers around in my head at times it sounds quite cogent and plausible, whiles sometimes it sounds like I am only justifying my actions. Brief background: I am a single (divorced) man in my mid-forties, living alone with one child in…
  • Announcing Sugardating Diaries

    Sugar Daters
    11 Oct 2014 | 1:03 pm
    It’s only fair to hear about your experience(s) with sugar dating. Sugar Daters would love to hear from all the readers who would like to be a part of our Sugardating Diaries. Every Friday we will post one of your stories or experiences on our blog. All you have to do is remember a few simple rules while writing your post: Sugar dating can be of many different types, intimate or not, we’d like our readers and writers to open their minds and speak from heart. This is not a competition nor a judgment court You don’t have to be a member to submit a post, anyone from anywhere can be a part…
  • 5 quick facts about sugar babes!

    Sugar Daters
    10 Oct 2014 | 2:43 am
    If you’re still wondering why you should sign up as a sugar daddy with us then we can help with some facts about sugar babes: There are more sugar babes than sugar daddies. Actually, far more! – The best of the lot in Scandinavia! Sugar babes have between 3 to 5 photos in their private albums. This allows you to browse more pictures than you can with an incomplete profile Over 25% of all sugar babes are looking abroad. Sugar daddies are thus welcomed on our platform from around the world Over 80% of sugar babes are under 30. Most of them are not looking for a rich sugar daddy,…
  • Sex Toys – It is playtime

    Sugar Daters
    17 Sep 2014 | 2:09 pm
    Sex Toys InfographicSource: Ann Summer’s Website Did you guys think that adults don’t play?  We know you all have been watching this space for some sex talk on our dating blog. Well, here you go then.  Today we will talk about adult fun world – Sex Toys. Sex toys are not unheard of. Just like sugar dating, sex toys are also something people do hide facts about, especially if they engage in “adult fun” ;). At sugar daters, we believe, it is okay to have fun. In fact, if you know how to have good sex and please your date or partner then the whole hoo haa about “Beautiful…
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  • Online Dating Part I

    23 Oct 2014 | 11:03 pm
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • Jack, Virtual Connection

    23 Oct 2014 | 11:03 pm
    Ok, so I know that I have other topics that I should be writing about first: my two first Tinder dates from last week; how I ended up going to the movies with Connor as friends (don't ask); the Mr 'Right Kind of Wrong' who I have already mentioned several times but haven't actually written a proper post about him; etc.But I am going to have my first date with Jack tonight and I wanted to write about him before I actually meet him.So who is Jack and why Jack? Again, I took a name from the same book that inspired the name for Connor. Don't ask me why. The book is nothing special but I found it…
  • TEST II Yep

    23 Oct 2014 | 11:03 pm
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  • Offline Dating Part I (Club)

    23 Oct 2014 | 11:03 pm
    Clubs and bars are by far the places where I had met most people during all of my life and where most of my dates originated from. It is just so easy to meet new people there and it worked perfectly fine as a teenager. Nowadays? Not so much...No matter which club I go, it seems like I only attract the attention of the youngsters. Okay, I know, 27 is not exactly old, but seeing how long men take to mature, I do not think I'd be at the same stage in life as a 20 year old kid! And then again, there is so little in common between a girl like me, who practically left everything behind in pursue of…
  • Whatever you do, do not pretend that you like Jazz

    23 Oct 2014 | 11:03 pm
    First of all, let me start my first blog post by giving you a clue of how unstable and undecided I am to the point I do not even understand myself: Why is the title of the blog "Ready To Mingle"? Because after a constant string of unsuccessful relationships, (which contributed to me not being able to be single for longer than a month - Yes, I have a problem)  I am surely not "Ready To Mingle",  I am damn "Ready To Be Single"!If there is any expert in matters of subconscious matters of the heart, they might be able to clarify this.So I was reading this book where girl meets…
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    I Quit Dating

  • I Didn’t Follow The Rules – Tinder Tumble: Six Date Stumble – Part VI

    23 Oct 2014 | 7:44 am
    I convinced myself and everyone around me that I was a going to be a confident socialite with a carefree attitude who was going to date multiple people like a “Charlotte-esque” pick-up artist. This was the way modern people date and I was finally going to put my monogamous dating patterns to rest. I was […]
  • Love Written on the Sidewalks of Los Angeles

    22 Oct 2014 | 12:09 pm
    Despite everything, there is still LOVE everywhere….It just might come in a different way….. Found Message – Taken by Me in Los Angeles / 2014
  • No One Wanted to Hook Up With Me – Tinder Tumble: Six Date Stumble Part V

    21 Oct 2014 | 1:37 pm
    One thing that caught me completely off guard during my brief foray into Tinder was how normal everyone seemed to be and how rampant the “illusion of  normal” was. I don’t know what I was expecting, but given the apps reputation, I was definitely expecting more surprises that ultimately led me to disguise. I didn’t […]
  • Helpless Finding Help in the Self-Help?

    19 Oct 2014 | 9:58 pm
    I was in Barnes & Nobles today browsing in the self-help section. I’m sure those of you who have been following me on this journey are thinking, FINALLY! This whole “I Quit Dating” charade is over and this girl is finally going to get back out there. She’s seeking help! And if you thought that, […]
  • Swiping Soulmates – Tinder Tumble: Six Date Stumble Part IV

    18 Oct 2014 | 10:54 am
    Brown hair, Blue eyes…Swipe…Swipe… David, Michael….Swipe..Swipe… All these faces…All these names….All these photos…All these people with their hobbies.. Their friends…Their lives….or at least the part of their lives that they’re comfortable sharing with the world. Partly truth, Partly lies… They share the most perfect part of their lives…. This one has a nice smile. This […]
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