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  • Show #107: Secrets Men Will Never Tell You

    Dating Advice for Women - Dating Tips for Women | Single in Stilettos
    Suzanne Oshima
    22 May 2015 | 9:16 am
    Find out the secrets that men will never tell you. Once you know the secrets, it will help you succeed at dating.
  • Why Serial Monogamy Is the New Marriage

    All Sex, Love & Life
    Katherine Woodward Thomas, M.A., M.F.T.
    21 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    I have heard the intimate yearnings of thousands of women who long for love. Strong women.
  • Right man; wrong continent

    Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40™
    Dating Goddess
    22 May 2015 | 11:41 pm
    He was not classically good looking. He had a pronounced nose and craggy face etched from decades of intense work. But his entrancing blue eyes made everything else fade away. He stood straight so his fit 57-year-old body seemed decades younger. And when he looked at you, it felt like he really saw you. He listened and asked intelligent relevant questions. The combination was sexy — my married gal pals felt it too. He was divorced. We met speaking at a conference in Singapore. We spent all our downtime together the next 3 days. I invited him to a small dinner party with some of my pals.
  • Why are you up so late😂? - Recent Questions
    26 May 2015 | 3:43 am
  • It’s Not Fair!

    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.
    19 May 2015 | 3:12 pm
    Why am I still stuck?, is a question that I’m asked pretty much every day by people who find it difficult to move past somebody or something not living up to their hopes and expectations. They are gutted by disappointment and struggling to keep their head above water as they struggle against the tide of self-criticism and blame. Sometimes as humans, we fall into the trap of feeling entitled to not be disappointed. We set our hearts on something or we work out, even if it’s subconsciously, a set of conditions under which we feel that we will be ‘OK’ or where we’ll…
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    Baggage Reclaim: Empowering advice for helping you offload your baggage & discover the great you that already exists.

  • It’s Not Fair!

    19 May 2015 | 3:12 pm
    Why am I still stuck?, is a question that I’m asked pretty much every day by people who find it difficult to move past somebody or something not living up to their hopes and expectations. They are gutted by disappointment and struggling to keep their head above water as they struggle against the tide of self-criticism and blame. Sometimes as humans, we fall into the trap of feeling entitled to not be disappointed. We set our hearts on something or we work out, even if it’s subconsciously, a set of conditions under which we feel that we will be ‘OK’ or where we’ll…
  • Are you hoping to strike gold as soon as you get on a dating website?

    12 May 2015 | 2:43 pm
    Back in the day when I first started blogging (can’t believe it’s about to be eleven years – eek!), I briefly dabbled with using a website to meet a potential date. I describe it this way because the term ‘online dating’ is so misleading; they are introduction websites, not some sort of technology that we can use to simulate a relationship, though goodness knows many thousands try. Until we meet and date a ‘prospect’, they are just that and we are essentially at ‘stage 0′ until such time. All the texting, calling, IM’ng, sexting and…
  • We must stop caring too much for those who care too little for us

    5 May 2015 | 3:15 pm
    People who think that they are mighty and powerful and who think that they can force you to oblige their wants and in fact demands even if they are contrary to your own needs etc., and all while encroaching on your rights as a human being, aren’t so powerful and mighty once they realise that you don’t give a beep. It’s at that point that they realise that you just don’t care that much that you’d do you an injustice just so that you can prop up their ego. What you must understand about people who rely on a sense of superiority on their part or obvious signs of you…
  • I’m still standing. You’re still standing. We’re still standing.

    29 Apr 2015 | 1:57 pm
    There’s this falsehood that many people who are in the process of improving their self-esteem, addressing unhealthy or redundant habits, or who are thinking about doing any of these things, subscribe to, and it’s this idea that once we tackle whatever it is that we think has held us back and even “grow up” as such, that we will not be knocked by things anymore. We believe that once we do what we feel that we need to, that we won’t be put to the test. But, how would we know that we have the courage to deal with things and how would we know the length and breadth of what we’ve…
  • We need to talk about “selfish”

    21 Apr 2015 | 2:40 pm
    When we suppress and repress our own feelings, opinions, needs, expectations and desires, we become oversensitised to those of others and develop a pesky habit of taking ownership of their feelings and behaviour. It’s as if in silencing us and being on high alert, we think that we’re feeling their feelings and thinking their thoughts, causing us to anticipate and forecast doom while burdening us with ‘duties’. When we take ownership of other people’s feelings and behaviour, we spend a lot of our time grappling with doubt, guilt and shame. We fear that we are being…
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    Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40™

  • Right man; wrong continent

    Dating Goddess
    22 May 2015 | 11:41 pm
    He was not classically good looking. He had a pronounced nose and craggy face etched from decades of intense work. But his entrancing blue eyes made everything else fade away. He stood straight so his fit 57-year-old body seemed decades younger. And when he looked at you, it felt like he really saw you. He listened and asked intelligent relevant questions. The combination was sexy — my married gal pals felt it too. He was divorced. We met speaking at a conference in Singapore. We spent all our downtime together the next 3 days. I invited him to a small dinner party with some of my pals.
  • When certainty is a bad thing in dating

    Dating Goddess
    10 May 2015 | 8:44 am
    Both genders say confidence is one of the most appealing attributes in a sweetie. However, there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Certainty is part of both. Here’s an example of when certainty turned unappealing. Mr. R had been calling and texting for a few weeks as he was making arrangements for a flight to meet me. He was so certain I was “the one” — without yet meeting me, he’d deleted his profile from the dating site. In one of our calls, I’d mentioned a friend was coming from out of town for a big birthday party we were throwing for me…
  • The woo dance

    Dating Goddess
    22 Apr 2015 | 1:59 pm
    Wooing can be exhilarating, fun, and exciting. It’s nice to be the recipient of a man’s attention and affection. It’s especially nice when he’s good at it, but not so good it seems practiced. I’ve been the recipient of good woos and not so good ones. The latter wooers seem clumsy, perhaps out of nervousness or lack of confidence. The former seem relaxed; the wooing feels natural, comfortable and sincere. But of course, that could also come from frequent wooing. This week I’m the target of a man’s woo who seems sincere and not overly practiced. But I…
  • Cruisin’ for love

    Dating Goddess
    16 Mar 2015 | 8:11 am
    I’m on an 11-day cruise. It’s not a singles’ cruise. Am I here looking for love? Yes and no. I’m speaking onboard. But I’m also got my eyes peeled for eligible men. Unfortunately, many more single women cruise with gal pals than men. Plus, out of 1800 passengers, I’d say only fewer than 50 of us (not counting children) are under age 60. Not that I’m limiting my search to those under 60, but it would be nice if he wasn’t too far beyond that age. I know there are healthy, energetic, vital men 65+, but on this ship more have health issues when they…
  • When a former date passes on

    Dating Goddess
    23 Feb 2015 | 11:58 am
    One of the unexpected experiences of dating after 40 is when someone you dated dies. I’ve had it happen twice now. Of course, death occurs at all ages. It’s just shocking when it’s someone you have met and become even a little fond of. During the Oscar show memorial of those who died this year, I was shocked to see the name and pic of a man I dated briefly a few years ago. During our dates, I noticed he had a few drinks every few hours, from several mimosas or bloody Marys at breakfast, to two Irish coffees mid-morning and/or mid-afternoon, beer, wine or a few cocktails at…
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    Single Mom Seeking

  • Rules for Running Away: Contemporary MG. The Writer’s Voice

    20 May 2015 | 9:33 pm
    Title: Rules for Running Away Genre: Middle Grade Contemporary Word Count: 38K words Query: One deep secret, two 12-year-olds on the run, and countless AMBER Alerts. In Rules for Running Away, Annie Berger finds a ripped up letter from her dad in the recycling bin and realizes her life until now has been one big fat lie. Now Annie is determined to meet her dad and find out why her mom kept him a secret. Unfortunately, her dad has been writing from prison – where minors aren’t allowed without an adult – and there’s no way Annie can ask her mom or step-dad to take her. Her…
  • My blended family in the New York Times: He Was Ready to Be a Stepdad. Was I Ready to Let Him?

    22 Feb 2015 | 4:41 pm
    Today at The Motherlode in the New York Times, I write about the first time I let my now-husband “solo” with my daughter: he forgot to feed her, and I “forgot” not to yell at him in front of her. I had to learn to let them become a family. Thanks for reading… He Was Ready to Be a Stepdad. Was I Ready to Let Him?   Photo by Michael Kirby Smith for the New York Times Post Footer automatically generated by Add Post Footer Plugin for wordpress.
  • My favorite picture books about love

    13 Feb 2015 | 1:23 pm
    In honor of Valentine’s Day, a list of my favorite picture books with a love-theme. Some new books I’m reading with my toddler these days… and ones I’ve saved from a decade ago when I read to my older daughter: Found By Salina Yoon My sister recently gave us this sweet books, about a bear who finds a lost stuffed toy bunny in the forest. He begins to worry. After all, the stuffed bunny must feel lonely and want to return safely to its owner and home! But as Bear diligently searches for the bunny’s owner, posting notices high and low, he begins to grow attached to his…
  • Come out and hear me at Lit Crawl on Saturday, Oct. 18

    30 Sep 2014 | 12:08 pm
    I’m thrilled to be reading with Lit Camp — the juried writers conference sponsored by the SF Writers Grotto — during San Francisco’s annual Lit Crawl on Saturday, October 18. Six writers will be sharing tales of poor judgment, lack of regret, and possible depravity.  I encourage you to come to any of the Lit Quake events in October. They’re so much fun! If you’re in the Bay Area, please join us at 6 p.m. on Saturday, October 18: Upstairs at the Elbo Room 647 Valencia St. San Francisco, CA Can’t wait to see you there!   Post Footer automatically…
  • Small as an Elephant: Book Give Away with Jennifer Jacobson

    15 Aug 2014 | 10:21 am
    Small as an Elephant, by Jennifer Jacobson, is one of the most beautiful, heart-wrenching middle grade novels I’ve ever read. Jack’s mom is gone again. This time, she has left 11-year-old Jack alone on a campsite in Maine. When he wakes up, there is no sign of his mother, who suffers from bipolar disorder — no rental car, camping gear or food. Can he find his way back to Boston before the authorities realize what happened? I’m honored to have Jennifer here today to chat about her gripping novel. Thank you! Q: Ever since Jack can remember, his mom has been unpredictable,…
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  • Hey, Sailor! Need a Fleet Week Hookup?

    Twanna A. Hines
    22 May 2015 | 11:46 am
    Watch the video. That crazy sexcapade called Fleet Week is raging through New York City’s streets, mattresses, dark alleys, and parks again. I love it because men and women from the Navy, Marines, and Coast Guard certainly deserve sexual healing. News items about sex in the military have traditionally highlighted: Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell; barring same-sex unions; and sexual assault. At a time when women Newsweek reports women in the armed forces are now more likely to be assaulted by a fellow soldier than killed in combat, we certainly need media coverage of such stories. At…
  • I Did it! My Cherry Blossom 10 Miler Race Results

    Twanna A. Hines
    13 Apr 2015 | 10:10 pm
    I was at the race start line stretching when I thought I heard the announcer say, in passing, something like: “Due to an accident involving personal injury, today’s course will only be approximately 9.5 miles because a portion is already closed as a crime scene.” ‪Turns out I was right. The for the Cherry Blossom organizers re-routed the course while US Park Police investigated the incident. Ah, DC! Never change. Or, maybe, change a little bit? I hope everything and everyone was safe. Stay healthy out there, lovers. Sunday, April 12, 2015Washington Monument…
  • How To Keep Your Orifices Clean & Healthy

    Twanna A. Hines
    10 Apr 2015 | 4:30 am
    Maybe I’ve been out of the loop, but I hadn’t heard of Vani Hari until the recent press. For a pretty good summary of her schtick, read The “Food Babe” Blogger Is Full of Shit. I don’t have any personal views about Hari. She probably wanted more orifices gobbling healthy eats (good!), but maybe she was a bit uninformed? “Our food education is woefully inadequate,” Salon smartly notices. “Many people still don’t know what makes a meal genuinely healthy.” I know certainly didn’t until relatively recently! I like shoving whatever I…
  • Watch This: An Interracial Threesome Love Triangle

    Twanna A. Hines
    8 Apr 2015 | 4:08 am
    Hot blasian love! When’s the last time you saw an interracial threesome love triangle on a theater’s stage — including a delicious blend of skin tones? Never? That’s what I thought. Woolly Mammoth Theatre Company‘s world premiere play Lights Rise on Grace is a gritty love story about a shy daughter of Chinese immigrants, Grace, who falls in love with a charismatic young black man, Large, who goes to prison for a bit and falls in lust with a white guy named Riece. If you live in or near Washington, D.C., come see the 8:00 pm show next Thursday, April 16th.
  • Here’s What I Learned About Life By Writing About Sex

    Twanna A. Hines
    7 Apr 2015 | 4:09 am
    There’s a reason you can make anyone fall in love with you if you ask them 36 Questions. (Psst, the Times’ mobile app guides you through the list.) Question #11 gives it away: Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible. Apparently, we’re all such sad, broken, happy, fragile, interesting, contradictory, strong and confused little individuals that piecing together those tiny, intimate fragments with someone is exactly what makes them care for us. Writing sex columns and answering the very tough questions people ask about relating…
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  • What Makes a Family: An interview with the Henderson-Strong's

    Donta Morrison
    25 May 2015 | 10:00 pm
    Same-Sex Marriage is legal in 37 of the 50 United States. It is a definitely controversial issue -for some- that further redefines the word 'family'. Earlier this year a video entitled "Love Has No Labels" was released and went viral. It is a simple statement that has couples of diverse make-ups stand behind a screen that only shows their skeletons. When the couples emerge from behind the screen viewers are amazed to see various degrees of love i.e., gay couples, interracial relationships, different faiths, etc. which showcases that true love has no color, gender, or sexual…
  • Open For Discussion May 2015

    9 Comm Media
    25 May 2015 | 9:00 pm
    "THE INNERMIX SHOW" #Life #Love & #Relationships Monday 9 p.m pst Hosts: Simply D & Jules Call in talk Live 347-857-1344 Hate everyone it's that time of the week again on tonight's show it is a fan favorite open for discussion May 2015. this is the episode where you the fans friends and family control the outcome of the show we want to know what you want to talk about as we revisit some of the high points over the last few weeks and answer some of the questions that have come in since the last open for discussion episode we look forward to the interaction :-) Follow Us…
  • Hummin Along

    25 May 2015 | 9:00 pm
    Supporting our Brothers and Sisters of Humanity,  addressing the underlying stigmas and programming embedded in the consciousness of man and working towards symbiotic relationships for us all. It’s essential for us to break down these barriers of division in order to establish unity among humanity. Come Hummin Along with us towards global change!    
  • Dating Today With Fernando Uribe-Monday May 25, 2015

    Dating Today with Fernando Uribe
    25 May 2015 | 8:30 pm
    Coming up, I will discuss some of the freaky stuff we encounter while dating or meeting new people. 
  • Living Intuitively in the Fifth Dimension

    5D Vibes
    25 May 2015 | 8:00 pm
    Intuitive co-hosts, Alana Kay and Fawni Ruhf, take callers questions about the concept of living an intuitively guided life in the Fifth Dimension. What's keeping you from your best life in the heightened energy? Alana & Fawni will help you find your bliss by providing intuitive insights that will help you raise your vibration. Alana is a Spiritual Intuitive Master Teacher and author of Heaven is Here, Our Ascent to the Fifth Dimension. Fawni is a Metaphysical Practitioner, Ordained Metaphysical Minister and holds a Bachelors Degree in Metaphysical Science from the University of…
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    Dating advice for men & women

  • What Caused The Guy Got Losing Interests in Me?

    Chris Tanny
    21 May 2015 | 2:48 pm
    So a guy called me back a week later. Said he’s been crazy busy, said to give him a shout or stop by the restaurant. That he’d call me again in the next couple of days. He just called and said he wanted to take me for dinner next sat night. Said he was feeling […] The post What Caused The Guy Got Losing Interests in Me? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • Is He Playing It Cool Or Just Not Interested?

    Chris Tanny
    21 May 2015 | 2:46 pm
    So a guy called me back a week later. Said he’s been crazy busy, said to give him a shout or stop by the restaurant. That he’d call me again in the next couple of days. Said he might have some time but things are still kind of crazy with work. His own business on […] The post Is He Playing It Cool Or Just Not Interested? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • Know If A Girl Likes You Through Text?

    Chris Tanny
    21 May 2015 | 2:45 pm
    Is there anyways that any of you can think of to kind of test whether a women might like you back (ie body space etc.)? I am in college and there is this really good looking girl that I like. Need some help here. Also, what is the best ways to approach asking her out? […] The post Know If A Girl Likes You Through Text? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • Getting Over An Ex Who Has Moved On You Still Love

    Chris Tanny
    20 May 2015 | 10:41 pm
    She’s in like a semi relationship, which I figured would make things easier since I know I don’t want to be with her. I’m not exactly the type to go out and pick up a girl. I’ve learned to start talking more with people but it’s been a year since our break up and I’d […] The post Getting Over An Ex Who Has Moved On You Still Love appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
  • How To Approach An Ex About Getting Back Together?

    Chris Tanny
    20 May 2015 | 10:40 pm
    She was my first girlfriend so when we broke up I was emotionally screwed. I did everything in my power to get better and I did. The responsible way at least no hookups, drinking, smoking, just all naturally sit around a mope until I was over it. Now she wanted to be friends but as […] The post How To Approach An Ex About Getting Back Together? appeared first on Dating advice for men & women.
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    Online Personals Watch: News on the Dating Industry and Business

  • A Chinese Policeman Builds The World's Top Gay Dating App - Blued (Mark Brooks)
    25 May 2015 | 10:08 am
    FORBES - May 25 - Ma Baoli, who goes by the alias Geng Le, had been a policeman in the northern Hebei province for almost 20 years. He was forced to quit the job in 2012, when people found out he had secretly moderated Danlan, a gay website, at night. China has no anti- discrimination law in place, meaning a lot of people, especially those working for government, choose to hide their sexual orientation. Ma Baoli started Blued, a dating app similar to Grindr. Now Blued boasts ~20M users, including ~6M abroad. Last year Ma raised $30M at a valuation of $300M. This year he will start talking to…
  • Ashley Madison: Infidelity Could Be A $1B Business (Mark Brooks)
    25 May 2015 | 10:03 am
    BBC - May 25 - AshleyMadison attempts to raise $200M in an IPO in London - which would value it at ~$1B. This isn't the first time Avid Life Media, Ashley Madison's parent company, have sought an IPO. In 2011, the company attempted to list in Toronto, but was forced to withdraw its offering. European investors might be willing to overlook a few things if the top line figures look good. But some potential investors have questioned the firm's numbers, after former staff and users have complained of a plethora of fake profiles on the site. The company admits many people sign up and never…
  • Dating App Coffee Meets Bagel Launches In Sydney (Mark Brooks)
    25 May 2015 | 9:52 am
    NEWS.COM.AU - May 25 - Coffee Meets Bagel, the dating app that turned down a $30M offer from Mark Cuban on the US TV series Shark Tank, is launching in Australia. Coffee Meets Bagel introduces users to one match every day and they have 24 hours to pass or like their counterpart. by Jennifer Dudley-NicholsonSee full article at See all posts on Coffee Meets Bagel Summarized by
  • BeehiveID To Host Fraud Prevention Webinar On June 4th (Mark Brooks)
    25 May 2015 | 7:01 am
    OPW - May 25 - BeehiveID is hosting a webinar called “Traditional Fraud Prevention is Costing you Customers” on June 4th. There will be two sessions - at 9AM CST and 3PM CST. You can register here. BeehiveID helps ensure that people online are who they say they are in person. It analyzes an individual's social media history, their friends and posts to determine whether a genuine person or a spambot is posting. In this webinar, BeehiveID we will examine transactional tools traditionally used to fight fraud - how they work, and where they fall short. BeehiveID team will show you how person…
  • iDate Beijing Update (Mark Brooks)
    25 May 2015 | 6:56 am
    OPW - May 25 - I'm in Beijing now, at the very fine Crowne Plaza U-Town. Marc Lesnick informs me that we have a stellar room full of senior executives attending from the top dating sites in Japan, India, China, and Australia. Dating operators represent OVER 90% of the attendance. Normally its 60-70%. Past Asian iDate conferences have been intense discussion and learning sessions so I'm looking forward to getting more insight and updates on this vast burgeoning market. Post by Mark Brooks @
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    Savvy Miss Love & Sex

  • Business & Life Coaching for Savvy Women!

    18 May 2015 | 12:05 am
    Do you feel there's a bigger and better life you're meant to live? Is it time you made a living doing what you love or achieved a long-term goal?
  • The Single Gal's Checklist

    16 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    When I went out for cocktails the other night, I took mental notes of my single-girl night out checklist: cash, keys, lip gloss, cell phone. But what else do we need to navigate our single gal lives?
  • Top 10 Men Women Fantasize About

    13 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    Why would we want to settle for some dime-a-dozen, regular Joe when we can hold out for our true fantasy? Savvy Miss looks at the top 10 men women dream about.
  • Top 10 Things Every Single Gal Must Experience

    18 Mar 2015 | 12:00 am
    The other day my girlfriend called up to regale me with yet another of her single and fabulous stories. This one involved cocktails, a hot tub and a couple of sexy strangers. It reminded me of my own single days, and for that matter my own pair of sexy strangers. After we hung up, I got to thinking...
  • Why He Doesn't Think You're Fat

    15 Mar 2015 | 12:00 am
    By now, the whole “Honey, do I look fat in this?” scene has been fully unmasked as the farce it is, useful today only as a reference to stand-up comic hacks. But be aware that the sentiment behind it lives on in more modern variations, including: “I look fat in this,” (a subtly aggressive form,...
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  • 10 Outdoorsy Date Ideas For NYC Couples

    22 May 2015 | 1:06 pm
    weheartit Consider helicopter rides and lobster dinner on the water, to name a few. We've got you covered with plenty of unique ideas and places to make sure you score a second date. Keywords: date ideas, Romance, first date attire, ask him out, dating chemistry, second date tips, second dateBookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • From breakup to breakthrough

    22 May 2015 | 10:25 am
    So, it’s time to let go. Maybe the other person has disappeared, told you that it’s over, or you simply know in your heart of hearts that the relationship is not workable.  Whatever the circumstances, breaking up is tough and we all want to feel better as quickly as possible. As tempting as it is to move on immediately, I’d like to encourage you to slow down.  Please don’t miss the opportunity to turn this breakup into the best thing that has ever happened to you.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 9 Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore

    22 May 2015 | 7:18 am
    When you're new to a relationship, the flutter of attraction and romance can disguise the reality of the person you are dating. If you're not paying attention to these 9 red flags, you could find yourself in a relationship with, not the person of your dreams, but the partner of your nightmares. The first 4 red flags focus on their past, their past, their past. 1. Past history of abuse. 2. Past history of addictions. 3. Past history of cheating.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • Warning! 11 Reasons Why Men Disappear

    22 May 2015 | 2:05 am
    When a man disappears, it’s no accident. Here’s some of the reasons why 1. He’s not that invested in you, in the first placeSometimes, men will spend time with a woman with no real intention of ever having a long term relationship with her. In those cases, when your time is up, then it’s up. The relationship was never going anywhere anyway, and you’re better off without him. Sometimes it’s not because of how you are, what you said or what you did. It’s just where his head is at….or is not at, more importantly.Bookmark/Share this post with: read more
  • 10 Signs You're A Sapiosexual (And Smart Guys TURN YOU ON)

    21 May 2015 | 11:22 am
    weheartit There's nothing sexier than a man who can work his way around any conversation. If you're a sapiosexual, here are your biggest turn ons when it comes to dating a smart guy. Keywords: smart guy, smart guys, sapiosexual, intelligence, SexyBookmark/Share this post with: read more
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  • McDonalds – Know Our Food

    25 May 2015 | 11:00 pm
    When I was a student our campus was on Pretoria CBD and there was much excitement when a McDondald’s was built within walking distance of our campus. The amount of burgers, chips and milkshakes we consumed during our 3 years is probably rather shameful! Over the years McDonald’s, like many other fast food outlets and brands, have taken a beating in the media. Images of pink slime are spread around Facebook, they are accused of causing obesity, their milkshakes apparently are made of potato – the list goes on and on.  I am not going to get into all of those allegations right…
  • Fiery Fours – what not to do.

    25 May 2015 | 2:16 am
    I wish I could competently title this post “Fiery Fours and 10 tips to tame them” but unfortunately David and I are wading in a swamp of tantrums and defiance with our four year old (well almost four) and the light seems very very dim right now. While I can’t, with any confidence, tell you what to do to deal with  toddler, I can tell you what not to do. Do not give in. If you do you will find your four year old running around the lounge wielding a steak knife wearing only 3 day only underpants in freezing temperatures. Stand strong! Do not allow them t skip bath time every…
  • Let’s just have a chat!

    22 May 2015 | 8:01 am
    When I neglect my blog it really does feel like one of my kids. I feel guilty for not giving it the attention it deserves and needs! This week has been one of those weeks. There has just been little time to sit down, let alone think about content. Also I may have been watching all 3 seasons of Chicago PD and Chicago Fire! So I am taking a break and just going to full you in on whats happening in our corner of the universe. I think I have sorted out our routine with regard to work. This week was a little out because attended a media event on Tuesday so lost a working day. For the most part…
  • What’s more important – your feet or your face?

    20 May 2015 | 4:17 am
    Yesterday McDonalds treated a few of us to an afternoon of spa treatments at Life Spa in Rosebank. It was just what I need, the chance to take some time out just for me. I have wanted a pedicure for weeks now, it is my one beauty indulgence and I do try to get one done at least every 6 weeks but lately I just haven’t had the time to squeeze it in. (Weak excuse I know). So I was super chuffed yesterday when two of the treatments were a mani and a pedi and not just spa mani and pedis but our nails were painted as well. Such a treat! My therapist started chatting to me about facials…
  • The tired – it is in my soul

    18 May 2015 | 3:03 am
    You know how you hold it together until you don’t? You keep the balls in the air, the wheels turning, the mouths fed and then you stop, have a look and the balls are bouncing next to your weary slipper clad feet, the wheels have stopped and the fish fingers are burning. You stand there, too tired to even care. Not the tired that a nap will fix, the tired that has weaved it’s way into your soul. The tired that sits behind your eyes, making them heavy but unable to close. The tired that makes you want to sit in the puddle of chaos and just be because dealing with it, facing it, its…
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  • I Have A Newsletter, Yo!

    8 May 2015 | 10:47 am
    Me, basicallyHey guys! I haven't posted on here in a while, as I've been too busy slurping ice coffee now that the weather is above 75 degrees. As a head's up, I started a weekly newsletter as a fun way to talk about whatever I'm obsessed with. Things I love. Things I wish I could set on fire. Movies, TV shows, beauty products, phone apps, maxi dresses; they're all fair game. You can read the first missive here and you can sign up to receive updates delivered to your inbox below.Enter your email address, darlin'powered by TinyLetterIn other news, I’m co-teaching a three-hour workshop…
  • Flippin' Our Shades At Food Dude, "FX Movie Download" Host, and All-Around Renaissance Man, Adam Gertler

    9 Mar 2015 | 12:15 pm
    Chef. Harmonica player. Reality TV star. Sausage King of Venice Beach. Karaoke champion. Comic book nerd. Host with the most. Is there anything Adam Gertler can't do??Philadelphians probably remember Adam as the chef at Locust Street's dearly departed The Smoked Joint: A Barbecue Experience, where both his cooking chops and his karaoke skills were on frequent display. (Yes, that was him, answering to "Doc G" and scooting around the floor flat on his back, squawking along to "Midnight Rambler" on his harmonica, his flame-embroidered suspenders hoisting his chef's pants up). He has since…
  • Just Between Us: 6 Things I Will No Longer Put Up With in Bed (and Neither Should You)

    23 Feb 2015 | 1:04 pm
    After more than a decade of sexing my way around town, I've learned a thing or two. Like, that sex on the beach should only be enjoyed as a cocktail. Or that you don’t necessarily have to know his last name-–or his first name-–to enjoy the ride. And with all that hard-won knowledge comes this list of the inane bedroom behaviors that I simply will not abide any longer, and that no self-respecting woman should suffer, either.Ladies, nod along. Boys, take notes.1. The Early Morning JackhammerPOUNDPOUNDPOUNDPOUNDPOUND. You wouldn't want this mishegas outside your bedroom window, right?
  • Quick Rant: Everyone Is in Love but Me

    9 Feb 2015 | 7:49 am
    Picture this: the sun is rising in New York. Or at least, I suspect it is. All I can see is a sullen glow behind the clouds, the sky and the roadside slush mired in the same 50 shades of grey (see what I did there?).I shut the blinds on yet another snow-blown morning while it wintry mixes all over the city and grab that reliable portal to the world when it's too cold to venture outside: my iPhone. And what's blowing up Instagram? Swaying palm trees and enormous drinks with no fewer than three unnecessary (yet campy and delightful) garnishes. My guy friends are in singles resorts named…
  • Real Talk: He's Too Hot for Me

    5 Feb 2015 | 10:59 am
    Before the Self-Esteem Police censor this post, I wish to assert proudly that I love the way I look. My body isn't as thin as it was when I was a high school cheerleader...This is not me...but it does all of the things that I ask, including hoisting me up and down the five (!) stories of my walk-up apartment and playing an immoderate amount of co-ed softball. I have pretty blue eyes and legit NYC style. I clock a solid 7, even on a bad hair day.But the truth is, there are some guys out there who are so goddamn hot, I simply have no business sleeping with them. And yet, I am. And it's awesome,…
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  • Is College As Necessary As It Once Was? (Podcast)

    20 May 2015 | 11:49 am
    Negro Please is back for Episode 2! In this episode the  guys continue their discussion from episode one. They cover their personal college experiences as well as discuss whether or not college is still a prudent decision heading into the real world. Was/Is it really worth it? Find out what these guys think. DamnPops is a writer and podcaster on the staff at SBM: “I’m not a biter, I’m a writer for myself and others. ” Follow me on Twitter@DamnPOPS and @NegroPPodcast . Also, subscribe on iTunesto the Negro Please Podcast and visit our website here!  
  • 14 Reasons Why Each Team Should Win the NBA Lottery Tonight

    Joe Sargent
    18 May 2015 | 8:36 pm
    Are you there, God? It’s me. Please make this happen! Before I even get started, please take a moment to drink in the majesty of the above picture… (still drinking…) I played the NBA Lottery Simulator on and got this on the FIRST try. Clearly the Pistons will win the Lottery today. DON’T YOU DARE RUIN THIS FOR ME! Ok, so the NBA Lottery is this evening, and for hopeful fans of losers, this is our Super Bowl. In every sport, there can only be one winner. That means about 97% of us end the season on a sour note. Some earlier than others. But the Lottery is why we keep…
  • Confession of a “Church Girl”: Stereotype or Struggle

    Guest Post
    14 May 2015 | 7:24 am
    “So you’re a church girl,” he said. I laughed to myself. Here we go. “No, I’m Christian who happens to be a woman,” I said. I’m a preacher’s daughter and grew up in church all of my life. Now I’m fully aware of the stereotype and misconceptions that come with being the “church girl”. Let me see if I get this right. We’re freaks. We say we go to church. We shout on Sunday mornings, but get us in the bedroom and we have you shouting “thank you Jesus” and throwing up hail Mary’s. Waiting until marriage is a cute theory but let’s be real, who does that these days!?
  • How Can Your New Lover Measure Up To Your Ex In Bed?

    14 May 2015 | 7:10 am
    This past weekend I was able to watch Chris Rock’s “Kill The Messenger” stand up special again. If you’ve followed my writing you know that I gain a lot of inspiration from stand up acts. We laugh at most jokes because we relate. Kill The Messenger is one joint that grew on me over time. My favorite bit in that stand up was Chris’ bit on relationships. There’s a part where Chris says “Men cannot go backwards sexually and women cannot go backwards in lifestyle.” In regards to men not being able to go backwards sexually, I laughed. Check out the clip below of the whole bit.
  • What the Hell Does Roger Goodell Have to do to Ruin the NFL?

    Joe Sargent
    11 May 2015 | 7:58 pm
    If you care about sports at all, you’ve no doubt learned that the NFL handed down a ridiculous suspension/fine/loss of draft pick punishment to the New England Patriots and Tom Brady. By any reasonable measure, this was an overreach by Roger Goodell, a commissioner whose reputation and legacy are wholly defined by missteps like this. This situation begs the question: Is there anything Goodell can do to mess up the NFL? And by “mess up” I mean the only thing that matters…f*ck up the money. So far, Goodell might have pulled off the trifecta of gross mismanagement. He’s close to…
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  • Dostana SMS

    25 May 2015 | 11:04 pm
    Dosti Mausam Nahi Apni Mudat Pori Kare Aur Rukhsat Ho Jaye Dosti Sawan Nahi Toot K Barse Aur Tham Jaye Dosti Aag Nahi Sulge Bharke Aur Rakh Ho Jaye Dosti Aftab Nahi Chamke Aur Dob Jaye Dosti Phool Nahi Khile Aur Murjha Jay Dosti To Saans Hai Jo Chale To Sab Kuch Hai Jo Toot Jaye To Kuch Bhi Nahi The post Dostana SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
  • Bas Ek Bar Wapas Lautne Ka Man Karta Hai

    Heeren Tanna
    25 May 2015 | 5:00 pm
    "Bas Ek Bar Wapas Lautne Ka Man Karta Hai Aaj Har Wo Din Jeene Ko Man Karta Hai. Kuch Buri Batein Jo Ab Acchi Lagti Hain Kuch Batein Jo Kal Ki Hi Batein Lagti Hain. Abki Baar Class Attend Karne Ka Man Karta Hai Dopahar Ki Class Mein Aakhein Band Karne Ko Man Karta Hai. Doston Ke Room Ki Wo Baatein Yaad Aati Hai Exam Ke Time Pe Wo Hasi Mazak Yaad Aati Hai, College Ke Paas Jaggi Ka Dhabe Ki Yaad Aati Hai Tab Ki Bekar Lagne Wali Photos Chehre Pe Hasi Laati Hai. Apni Galtiyon Pe Tumse Daat Khana Yaad Aata Hai. Par Tumhari Galti Dekhne Ka Ab Bhi Mann Karta Hai. Ek Aisi Subah Uthne Ka Mann…
  • Deepawali Msgs

    Heeren Tanna
    25 May 2015 | 10:52 am
    Is diwali pe humari dua hai ki apka har sapnna pura ho, duniya ke unche mukam apke ho, shoharat ki bulandiyon par naam apka ho! Wish u a very Happy Diwali! Khushian ho overflow,masti kabhi na ho low,dosti ka surur chaya rahe,dhan aur shorat ki ho bauchar, aisa aaye aapke liye DIWALI KA TYOHAR Sri ram ji aapke ghar sukh ki barsat karen, Dukhon ka naas karen. Prem ki phuljhari wa anar aapke ghar ko roshan kare. Roshni ke diye aapki jingagi me khusiya layen. Happy deepawali 0 days 312 hours 18720 mins.. 1123200 seconds The post Deepawali Msgs appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS…
  • Jo mausam beet jata hai dobara kyon nahin ata

    25 May 2015 | 4:44 am
    Jo mausam beet jata hai dobara kyon nahin ata kahin se laut ker bachpan hamara kyon nahin ata yahan anay ko to har din kissi ke saath ata hai jesay is dil ne reh reh kar pukara kyon nahin ata who jis ki lo mohabbat ki jabeen ka istara thi to phir rastay mai hamary wo roshan sitara kyon nahin ata bohat heart hai ab bagon mein jab kalian chataktin hain hamary dehyan mein lehja tumhara kyon nahin ata kabhi phelay hoay pairon se jab kirnein jhalakty hain tasawur main un ankhoon ka ishara kyon nahin ata bhatakta phir raha hoon din ke is weran jangal mein mehakti sham ka rangeen kinara kyon nahin…
  • Hindi Friendship SMS

    24 May 2015 | 10:34 pm
    Kuch saalo baad najane kya sama hoga, Najane kaun dost kaha hoga, Phir milna hua toh milenge yaadon mein, Jaise sukhe gulab milte hai kitabon mein The post Hindi Friendship SMS appeared first on Hindi SMS Shayari - Dil Ki Baat SMS Ke Saath.
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    Online Dating Guide

  • Mobile Dating Apps Bring Culture Change to Online Dating

    22 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    It seems like there are dozens of new mobile apps popping up daily, but never did I expect to find so many focused on helping people to meet in person. Seems a little ironic, doesn’t it? Staring down at our cell phones and swiping and clicking in order to get connected with someone local in our area who we could potentially have met just by heading down to the local watering hole. I’m in my dating prime in the midst of this ever-changing tech-boom occurring in online/mobile dating, so it may prove difficult to give a hard-and-fast comparison to how online dating used to be, but it…
  • eHarmony Free Weekend Memorial Day Weekend 2015

    21 May 2015 | 9:40 am
    eHarmony is having a free communication weekend starting on Thursday, May 21st and running until the end of the day on Monday, May 25th 2015. As has been the case for the last year or so, eHarmony is offering a free weekend while a US holiday is happening. In addition, and again something they commonly do now, the free “weekend” is more than just the weekend with this event running over five days. Personally, I think the regularity and the length of these events make this a great promotion to try if you’ve never used eHarmony. I say this because eHarmony has unique features,…
  • Tech Etiquette for Online Dating

    15 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    When it comes to online dating, it’s vital to know how to manage the different types of technology you’ll be using. Whether you’re sending a message on a dating site, writing a text message, engaging in an online chat or meeting in person, there is a lot that you communicate without even meaning to. Here’s everything you need to know to make a great impression no matter what type of technology you’re using. Sending a message A lot rides on that first message you send to someone on a dating site, so choose your words carefully! Avoid generic compliments or cheesy…
  • Feast or Famine: Managing Your Online Dating Emails

    8 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    Online dating can be frustrating when it comes to the number of emails you receive. Whether you get too many emails or too few, you can encounter problems that inhibit your success on a dating site. Here’s what you need to know about both predicaments and how to make the most of your online dating emails. View image | Receiving too many emails When you first join a dating site, you might be inundated with emails. This is a particularly common situation for women, but men may also struggle with an overfilled inbox. The first thing you need to learn is how to differentiate…
  • eHarmony Mystery Offer, May 2015

    1 May 2015 | 7:39 pm
    eHarmony is having a “mystery offer” which is offering people who sign up the chance to get up to 50% off of a subscription. This Mystery Offer Weekend is running from May 1st to May 4th, 2015. This promotion is available for eHarmony in the US and Canada. If you want to try out the mystery offer, you can do so here. An Alternative to Free Weekends? This promotion appears to be an alternative to the eHarmony free weekends, or at the very least it has similar timing. Since this is the first time I’m seeing this, I’m not even 100% sure how the mystery offer works. If I…
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    The How to Meet, Date, Seduce Women Blog

  • How to Look Good and Attract Hot & Sexy Women for Love, Romance, and Sex

    12 May 2015 | 5:26 pm
    TIP #1 - Yes, sexy single women are attracted sexually and romantically to men with nice bodies and having a fit body usually means that you take care of yourself and take pride in your body.However, there's one way that fitness can backfire on you and actually cause women to lose interest in you. Let me explain...if you are an exercise freak and your whole life revolves around body building and all you can talk about is your body and exercising, this can turn off women who don't share your enthusiasm. Due to your obsession with yourself, they may even think you are self-centered and stuck on…
  • Why Sex is Important to Women

    2 May 2015 | 4:09 pm
    Probably the biggest mistake that men make in understanding women is underestimating just how important sex is to women. It is easy to see, however, how men would fail to recognize sex as being a major motivation to women. It has always been socially acceptable for men to desire sex, and even to be open to others about their desires. A woman who lusted for sex as considered a whore or slut. Women were even afraid to admit to themselves that they had desires because of feelings of guilt that society heaped upon them.Thus, the female sexual desire is not something that has been talked about…
  • No More Just Friends with a Woman - Turn Her Into Your Lover

    26 Apr 2015 | 1:46 pm
    No More Just Friends...Are you always the friend, never the lover? As soon you become close to a single woman, she finds another guy to be her boyfriend?It's easy to change "just friends" into much, much more. Simply stop waiting around for the woman to make the first move. Let your close single woman friend(s) know that you want more from your relationship (for example: seduction, intimacy, romance!). Put the idea into her head that you want to be intimate. You have to stop spending lots of time with women -- becoming close, sharing secrets, being the confidante -- but not getting what YOU…
  • How to Attract Women with Your Looks

    19 Apr 2015 | 1:49 pm
    TIP #1 - Yes, sexy single women are attracted sexually and romantically to men with nice bodies and having a fit body usually means that you take care of yourself and take pride in your body.However, there's one way that fitness can backfire on you and actually cause women to lose interest in you. Let me explain...if you are an exercise freak and your whole life revolves around body building and all you can talk about is your body and exercising, this can turn off women who don't share your enthusiasm. Due to your obsession with yourself, they may even think you are self-centered and…
  • How to Conquer Women

    11 Apr 2015 | 10:47 am
    Ever since the days of the cavemen, men have lead and women have followed. Our new powerful audio cd called, Conquering Women arms men with the secrets and power they need to always be in control of and conquer women. Men can finally take back what’s theirs-- CONTROL and DOMINION over all women.The gloves are off; the day of reckoning is here. It’s us versus them. There will be a winner in the battle of the sexes, and it will be you. In this all new audio CD, Gary Brodsky (One of the top dating experts in America) teaches you to CONQUER WOMEN. It’s for any man that wants to be in…
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    Leftos - Lessons for the Opposite Sex


    24 May 2015 | 4:59 pm
    New Answer - Hello My Name is Jessca Edwards from USA,I just want to share my experience with the entire world on how i got my Ex Husband back and saved my marriage, At least i can say to the world that there is a real spell caster on line called Dr. Ofemo i have benefited from the powers fro the Dr. Ofemo because through his help my Ex Husband has been restored back to me and filled with love within 24hours that i contacted Dr.Ofemo i was not having an idea of what to expect but after proper explanation and i followed the instruction that Dr.Ofemo gave and my relationship was reveal back, i…

    24 May 2015 | 4:58 pm
    New Answer - Hello My Name is Jessca Edwards from USA,I just want to share my experience with the entire world on how i got my Ex Husband back and saved my marriage, At least i can say to the world that there is a real spell caster on line called Dr. Ofemo i have benefited from the powers fro the Dr. Ofemo because through his help my Ex Husband has been restored back to me and filled with love within 24hours that i contacted Dr.Ofemo i was not having an idea of what to expect but after proper explanation and i followed the instruction that Dr.Ofemo gave and my relationship was reveal back, i…
  • the powerful spell caster that got my ex back for me

    17 May 2015 | 8:52 pm
    New Answer - I never know that spell caster is real, I thought they are fake until I met with professor adam ajayi. my name is Jessica i want to testify about a great spell caster that help me cast a spell that bring my ex boyfriend back to me without any delay. I broke up with my ex with just little misunderstanding hoping we will get back shortly,but things was growing worse until i contacted Professor adam who help me with his historical powers to bring him back, without charging me any money for his work, i have never believed in a spell caster until i come across Professor adam it will…
  • Dr. Wakina is the answer we need to get back our lover

    16 May 2015 | 7:14 am
    New Opinion - It’s certain that there must be fallout in any unfruitful relationship that has lasted for more than five years. It came to a stage in my life that I wanted something real to happen between me and my BF who promised to marry me. We got engaged June last year on my 35th Birthday, which was one of the best days in my life, my dreams where becoming real. I was happy that I will finally settle with the man I love after dating him for more than five years. I waited for six month so we can get married, but he never mentioned MARRIAGE after the engagement day. All was not right with…
  • Dr. Wakina is the answer we need to get back our lover

    16 May 2015 | 7:12 am
    New Answer - It’s certain that there must be fallout in any unfruitful relationship that has lasted for more than five years. It came to a stage in my life that I wanted something real to happen between me and my BF who promised to marry me. We got engaged June last year on my 35th Birthday, which was one of the best days in my life, my dreams where becoming real. I was happy that I will finally settle with the man I love after dating him for more than five years. I waited for six month so we can get married, but he never mentioned MARRIAGE after the engagement day. All was not right with…
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    Sugar, Spice and a Little Advice

  • Quote of the Day

    19 May 2015 | 9:11 am
    I have hope for the future, not because I feel it is owed to me but because I have too curious a nature to not see what I contribute with my existence. I have faith because I desire above all else to leave the world better for having been in it.
  • How to Do a Background Check on Your New Date

    17 Apr 2015 | 10:36 am
    This is a wonderful article from guest blogger, Alexandra from Background Hawk on arming yourself with information when meeting someone new. Enjoy, comment, and share!   It takes a lot of effort and calming of the nerves to get to know someone on a deeper level and actually trust them enough to want to go out on a real face-to-face date with them; and in the crazy world we live in today, if you aren’t 100% sure that the John you imagined meeting, really is who he says he is, then chances are you could be up for some major disappointment…or worse. There are a lot of people out there…
  • Quote of the Day

    16 Apr 2015 | 5:22 pm
    Duty without honor is merely a burden to those who choose to let their actions be guided by praise; but those who would choose honor above reward find a contentment that lasts forever.
  • Quote of the Day

    9 Apr 2015 | 10:28 am
    Dream big. Work towards that dream. Get that dream. Repeat with another dream.
  • Quote of the Day

    8 Apr 2015 | 9:42 am
    It doesn’t matter if your first step is small, as long as you’re moving forward.
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    WeLoveDates » Blog

  • You Want to Pull? – Work on Your Sense of Humour Not Your Six Pack

    Katy Horwood
    20 May 2015 | 1:58 am
    Funny men are sexy. Fact. And nothing works better, when you want to pull a girl, than making her laugh. Whilst I recognise that other attributes can be important, when it comes to the most effective way of becoming irresistible, my advice would be to relax, rediscover your killer sense of humour (come on boys, you’ve all got one somewhere) and polish up on those jokes. Good looks? Meh … so dull. Yeah, nice to look at for 15 minutes, but you really want to get my knickers off, I mean have a long lasting relationship with me, then making me laugh – it beats a chiseled jaw any…
  • 8 Reasons why you should love being single

    Katy Horwood
    12 May 2015 | 4:01 am
    You want to know what I’m sick of hearing? And it’s got nothing to do with general elections or royal babies – Im sick of hearing people moan about being single. Wtf? Being single is awesome! Granted there is a lot to be said for being in a good relationship but, until that happens, stop sweating it and enjoy some time to yourself.  Being single *does* have its perks. Real freedom  Aka, not having to to consult someone else when you make a decision. Yeah, ok, this is the part you tell me, you can still have freedom in a relationship and do what you want –  Rubbish.
  • 8 Things Every Woman Should Know About Dating Men Over 50

    Jacqui Wright
    6 May 2015 | 3:44 am
    Believe it or not it can be a bit trickier when you’re dating over 50. It all depends on what you’re looking for of course but ladies, be prepared to meet some of these guys. The Complainer – This guy likes to whinge. If you’ve been the one to arrange where to meet he will most likely complain about the location, the parking, the weather, the traffic he encountered on the way and most definitely about the price of a coffee in Costa. Keep calm and just try to keep the date short. That pile of ironing is starting to look appealing now. The Style Icon – While you should…
  • 7 Reasons to Have a One Night Stand

    Katy Horwood
    30 Apr 2015 | 2:05 am
    When it comes to sex, people can be pretty up-tight about rules. There are endless theories about the ‘perfect’ time to first have sex with someone – with the most recent survey suggesting that a third date is the right time to first get frisky with a new partner. As idealistic as the notion is, when the chemistry is there, there is no reason not to seize the moment and strike while the iron is hot. Life is short is it not? Be it the beginning of something wonderful or a sizzling one night stand there is more than one reason why, every so often, we should blow the rules, and get…
  • WeLoveDates – Black Dating

    Rosie Valentine
    16 Apr 2015 | 9:40 am
    WeLoveDates – Black Dating is a post from the: WeLoveDates blog
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    Lifestyle Arts

  • LSA 020: The 11 “80/20″ Actions That Drive Your Dating Success

    Stephen Nash
    21 May 2015 | 12:58 pm
    The 11 most important actions you can take to improve your success with women and dating. If, like most men, you're busy with life, work and fun, doing what is proven to work and eliminating everything else is not only important, it's a lifesaver. The 80/20 principle states that 80% of our results in life come from 20% of our actions. In dating, what is that crucial 20%? Which skills and actions are worth the time, and which are a huge waste? I cover the 11 specific things to do including the only technique you will ever need to meet new women, 4 killer online dating tips, how to leverage…
  • LSA 019: What is Lifestyle Arts?

    Stephen Nash
    15 May 2015 | 12:23 pm
    How lifestyle is the most important factor in your success with women and dating, plus coverage of "attraction". Also, Stephen discusses the new brand and name: Lifestyle Arts.The post LSA 019: What is Lifestyle Arts? appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • The 10 MUST Read Books for Men (REVISED)
    19 Apr 2015 | 7:09 pm
    I devour books, and so should you. I worked with an awesome guy over the weekend, and I recommended a few great books to him to read to further his studies of social dynamics, masculinity, dating & relationships. I decided then to post a list of these books, for your interest. YES, I recommend some books […]The post The 10 MUST Read Books for Men (REVISED) appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • NYC Meetup Set for May 2nd

    Stephen Nash
    14 Apr 2015 | 8:19 am
    I’m excited to announce that I’m planning to host monthly meetups here in New York City (and in San Diego, when I’m there)! The first one is all setup, and here are the details: Date: Saturday, May 2nd Time: 4-6pm Location: NYC (exact location will be given when you sign-up below) Cost: $10 This month’s topic: The […]The post NYC Meetup Set for May 2nd appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
  • LSA 018: The Direct Approach
    20 Feb 2015 | 1:45 am
    Ever see a beautiful girl and want to approach her but aren't really clear on what to say? AND, do you dig serious adrenaline rushes? Then my direct approach is the technique for you. Simple, elegant and clear - it's the ultimate "carpe diem".The post LSA 018: The Direct Approach appeared first on Lifestyle Arts.
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    The Art of Charm | Confidence | Relationship & Dating Advice | Biohacking | Productivity

  • 407: Dan Millman | Way of the Peaceful Warrior

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    25 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    Everyone is a peaceful warrior in training. "Heroes and cowards feel exactly the same fear, they just respond differently" -Cus D'Amato The Cheat Sheet: hy doesn't he like to use the word spirituality? What is FAST defense? Do you have to travel in order to grow? How to act with kindness, bravery or other emotion, even if you don't feel it. What is Dan's "outside in" approach to growth? And so much more... Today the words New Age, spirituality and personal growth have been overused and even bastardized by so-called gurus with personal agendas and self-interests. But our guest for episode 407…
  • 406: AoC Toolbox | Attraction

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    22 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    Attraction is more than just sex. “Attraction starts before we even open our mouths” -AJ Harbinger The Cheat Sheet: What's The Art of Charm definition of attraction? Why the first 60 seconds are critical to attracting a woman. How to make people gravitate to you. AJ's suggestion for getting a great suit without spending a fortune. What is the one physical feature humans look at on everyone else? And so much more… When you think of attraction do you immediately think of sexual attraction or physical attraction? You're not alone if you do! But that's just one component, there are three…
  • 405: Adam Nesrallah | What Spies Teach Us About Reading People

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    20 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    Reading people takes practice. "Y
  • 404: Andrea Waltz | Go For No

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    18 May 2015 | 12:00 am
    Getting a no is part of the process to get a yes. "No one ever died from getting a no" -Andrea Waltz The Cheat Sheet: Why did her husband propose while she was trying on shoes in Macy's? How to reframe your model of failure and success. The one simple way to get in the top 10% of business. What is focused failure and how can you implement it? The key to dealing with fear of failure in the moment. And so much more... For most of our lives we've been programmed to go for the yes. But what if getting a yes was as simple as getting more noes? Our guest today says it is, and she's got the…
  • 403: AoC Toolbox | Your Third Place

    AJ & Jordan Harbinger: If I write my author field like Pat Flynn or John Lee Dumas and interview people like Tim Ferriss and Mark Cuban, I'll get more traffic, right Richard Branson? ;) (
    15 May 2015 | 11:09 am
    Everyone needs a third place. "You can find these in every community" -AJ Harbinger The Cheat Sheet: Why the third place is disappearing. The four criteria to use when choosing a third place. Why clubs are not a good option. How TV has replaced the third place. How to be welcome and become a "regular". And so much more... Have you noticed how nearly every sitcom has a hangout spot? Cheers' spot was well, Cheers. Friends had Cafe Perk. Seinfeld had the corner restaurant. How I Met Your Mother had the nearby pub. But why don't more Americans have this go-to spot, this third place in their…
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    Blog with Benefits

  • How Long Should You Stay Single Between Relationships?

    Jessica Druck
    29 Apr 2015 | 9:21 am
    We all have that friend who's always in a relationship. You know, the person who went from "in a relationship" to "single," then to "in a relationship" and back to "single," then you hid them because your newsfeed has just been their relationship status and no thanks, Becky.It's so common these days for people to be on the market quickly after a breakup, after all, how hard is it? Break up today, be on Tinder tonight. Problem solved girlfriend.But how healthy is that? We've all heard a psychology professor or Dr. Phil say you need a little "me" time after a breakup: a little time to cope,…
  • BWB is on Instagram!

    Jessica Druck
    26 Mar 2015 | 9:32 pm
    Friday's have me like....A photo posted by Blog with Benefits (@blogwithbenefits) on Mar 20, 2015 at 2:06pm PDTSo I finally did it, I made an Instagram account. I've been thinking about doing this for a long time so I could share what inspires me on a day-to-day basis to write about what I write about, and last week I took the jump.If you're curious, here's a taste of what I've been sharing, and if these pics make you feel all warm and fuzzy, follow me @blogwithbenefits!#tbt to the king and queen of dance.A photo posted by Blog with Benefits (@blogwithbenefits) on Mar 19, 2015 at 8:05pm…
  • Advice Every Woman Should Know Before Turning 30

    Jessica Druck
    19 Mar 2015 | 7:57 pm
    This video has everything: Dating advice, life advice, and even bangs advice, and after watching this, I really wanted to be Judy Greer's friend. Scratch that, best friend. She just gets watch it and spread the word.P.S. BWB is now on Instagram! Follow away for inspirationnnn! @blogwithbenefits
  • The Worst First Date Ideas, Ever

    Jessica Druck
    24 Feb 2015 | 10:54 pm
    Got a first date with someone? Congrats, but before you slick your hair back and make dinner reservations, read this:1. Taking a girl to Sizzler and adding a side order of how your ex "used to this" and your ex "used to that" and then topping it off with a few longing looks at the waitress for dessert.2. Going to the club and dancing behind her like a Backstreet Boy before asking if she wants to come up for a night cap of “do you give head?”3. Inviting her over for dinner because you whipped up your famous video games a la carte so you can show off your sweet Tony Hawk sk8er…
  • Low Key Ideas for Valentine's Day

    Jessica Druck
    11 Feb 2015 | 10:53 pm
    Are you someone who celebrates every holiday Target sells festive sprinkles for in their dollar bins? Do you like chocolate? Do you love reasons to throw back some wine? If you answered yes to any of these questions, keep reading.Valentine's Day is almost here, and I'm not really one for making reservations at some fancy restaurant or leaving my house on this day honestly (because I love stretchy pants), so I compiled a list of things you can do for Valentine's Day with your boyfriend, girlfriend, galentines, dogs, cats, or even just yourself, because you're worth it.1. Make a heart-shaped…
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  • Tips for Dating While Unemployed

    Dating Headshots
    13 May 2015 | 5:18 am
    Have you put together a great online dating profile but are hesitant to respond to messages and chat invitations because you recently lost your job? While looking for a job is a priority, there is no reason that you have to completely ignore online dating or your search for love and romance because you are also hunting for a job. There is no need to hide that you are unemployed. You can be honest about the fact that you are out of work, just don’t monopolize the conversation by talking about it. No matter what your current situation you should not take over the conversation and job loss…
  • Tips for Online Dating After a Serious Illness

    Dating Headshots
    6 May 2015 | 5:18 am
    Going through a serious illness certainly does not diminish a person’s desire for love, romance and companionship. In some cases, it may make that desire stronger: once you have lived through a serious illness, you may be even more interested in living life to the fullest with someone by your side. There are online dating sites that have been created specifically for people with certain illnesses. You are not limited to these sites, of course, but for some people this provides common ground and a comfort level that they may not have on a general dating site. If there are no obvious…
  • Suddenly Single? Tips for Getting Back into Dating Pool

    Dating Headshots
    29 Apr 2015 | 11:38 am
    If you’re newly divorced, recently separated or are coming off a long-term relationship that went sour, jumping back into dating can feel like diving into a shark tank. If you haven’t played the field for 5, 10 or 20 years, taking that first plunge back into the dating pool can be a shock to the system – terrifying, exciting and a little intimidating. The dating landscape has changed significantly over the past decade. Stepping back into the dating scene after an absence is going to feel like walking onto an alien planet. Nobody does the bar scene or fix-ups anymore. Dating action has…
  • How to Bite Back in Dog-Eat-Dog World of Online Dating

    Dating Headshots
    22 Apr 2015 | 5:04 am
    We know, online dating can be tough.  In the dog-eat-dog world of online dating, it’s every man and woman for himself. The constant consumer complaints about unfair business practices and lousy customer service have made it crystal clear that when you join an online dating service, you’re pretty much on your own. Despite their lofty promises, you just can’t count on internet dating sites to have your best interests at heart. The only people they seem to care about are the dead presidents pictured on the cash their members keep shoveling into their coffers. But enough sour grapes.
  • Why Selfies Don’t Make Good Online Dating Photos

    Dating Headshots
    8 Apr 2015 | 6:06 am
    When you sign up for an online dating site, you want to make a good impression right?  A selfie certainly sends a message, but is it the one you want? If you are like most people, you are busy and you signed up for online dating services with one goal in mind: to meet more people. Among those new people, hopefully there is that special someone who is a great match for you and your goals. One of the best ways to do so is to spend a considerable amount of time on your online dating profile.  Put Your Best Foot Forward In fact, crafting an engaging profile is one of the best online dating tips…
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  • Talking about Inner Game on the Love Systems Podcast

    Chris Shepherd
    11 May 2015 | 9:55 am
    So, in addition to my appearance on News Talk 1010 last week, I also sat down with Hootie to contribute to a new episode of the Love Systems Podcast. In this episode, I go a bit deeper into some inner game concepts, and discuss poutine, confidence and how your beliefs affect your actions. If you haven’t listened to the Love Systems podcast, it’s one of the top “new and noteworthy” podcasts in the self-help section, and we already have some really great episodes on fitness, opening, entrepreneurship and body language. So head on over to Itunes and check out my interview…
  • Interview with a “Real Life Hitch” – My appearance on Newstalk 1010.

    Chris Shepherd
    7 May 2015 | 8:25 pm
    They billed me as a “Real Life Hitch” this week when I appeared on The Night Side with Barb DiGiulio, and it was an awesome experience. We spent 90 minutes talking about dating and answering people’s questions live on air. This was my first time on live talk radio, and I’d like to thank Barb and her staff for making me feel really comfortable and welcome. Anyway, it got some reactions on twitter: Anyway, you can listen in on the audio below. And if you’re interested in checking out my bootcamp May 22nd in Toronto, check out the schedule at…
  • Interviewed in the Toronto Star

    Chris Shepherd
    4 May 2015 | 6:52 pm
    So, the Toronto Star did a story on me this weekend, and for the most part, I’m pretty happy with the way it was covered. The writer, Robert Cribb, sat in on my bootcamp for a weekend and interviewed some of the guys attending. “The belief in your head determines your actions,” he says philosophically, his fist slicing through the air to emphasize key words. “You have to be thinking that you’re worthy of her, that you have something to offer her. Otherwise, you’re giving off the needy vibe.” The resulting nods around the table serve as an outward expression of…
  • Reddit AMA (Now Closed)

    Chris Shepherd
    18 Apr 2015 | 9:56 am
    Update Apr 21, 2015 Well, the Reddit AMA is now closed, but thanks to News.Com.Au for writing a story about us. Update: 4:36 PM eST Hey guys! Just wanted to let everyone know that my Reddit AMA is now LIVE. You can visit the link here. I have been answering questions since 1pm – about 40 people so far!  I’m going to take a break, but I will still check back this evening, so feel free to ask me anything!   The post Reddit AMA (Now Closed) appeared first on .
  • MISSION: Change your game NOW with Qualification

    Chris Shepherd
    3 Dec 2014 | 2:45 pm
    Three of the most common questions I get from guys, online or in seminar are: How do I stop running out of things to say? How do I get women to open up about themselves instead of being boring? How do I get women turned on, and chasing ME? The answer to ALL these questions (and more) is Qualification. Qualification is one of the most POWERFUL tools that you can use in your game, but it’s also one of the ones that most guys ignore. In this post, I’m going to show you how to fix ALL these problems, using a simple technique that I teach in my bootcamps. I want you guys to go out and…
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  • How to Make Him Feel Like He Can’t Live Without You

    Valarie O'Ryan
    25 May 2015 | 5:00 am
    Getting a man to commit to you may seem frustrating. These are the things a man really needs in order to feel like he can't live without you... Read » The post How to Make Him Feel Like He Can’t Live Without You appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • 5 Signs You Are Dating the Wrong Guy

    Polina Solda
    25 May 2015 | 4:00 am
    Have you ever met a guy who seemed to have everything going for him? Here are 5 signs you are dating the wrong guy... Read » The post 5 Signs You Are Dating the Wrong Guy appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Could Having Kids Be a Good Thing When Dating After Divorce?

    Lyn Paul
    24 May 2015 | 6:00 am
    If you have just recently become divorced, then you may be asking; When do you think it is a good time to start dating? I have young... Read » The post Could Having Kids Be a Good Thing When Dating After Divorce? appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Are Your Thoughts Creating Your Divorce?

    Boni Lonnsburry
    24 May 2015 | 5:00 am
    How do you know if you are creating long-term happiness or an inevitable divorce? Answer these three questions honestly—and if you have... Read » The post Are Your Thoughts Creating Your Divorce? appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
  • Top 5 Dangers to Your Relationship… And How to Avoid Them!

    Amber Neal
    24 May 2015 | 4:00 am
    When dating in a big city, there are things that you need to think about as you navigate the dating world. TOP 5 DANGERS to your relationship... Read » The post Top 5 Dangers to Your Relationship… And How to Avoid Them! appeared first on Digital Romance Inc..
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  • Blast from the Past: When Your Ex-Boyfriend Resurfaces

    22 May 2015 | 1:35 pm
    SHAUNTEE Blast from the Past: When Your Ex-Boyfriend Resurfaces Last week, I had a huge blast from the past when an old boyfriend sent me a message on Facebook. Needless to say, we’ve been chatting on the phone every day. Years ago, a psychic told me I already knew the love of my life. He would resurface in my life someday when the time was right. I know what you’re thinking, psychics are full of ish! They tell people what they want to hear; who doesn’t want wealth and love in their life? However, Madame Ruby words stuck with me. Every time an ex-flame digs from underneath the earth’s…
  • Keep Calm I’m Turning 40

    19 May 2015 | 5:52 am
    SHAUNTEE Keep Calm I’m Turning 40 – I’m Treating Myself Big Time Every day it seems like time is moving faster and faster. In little less than a month, I’ll be saying goodbye to my flirty thirties and hello to my fabulous forties. As I reflect on my thirties, I can say I had an incredible, fantastic, and excellent decade. My thirties were awesome to say the least; I spent most of my twenties married, and almost all of my thirties divorced. I learned so much about myself, and I appreciated the freedom, I grew up just a little bit, and each year, I strived to be a better me. Next…
  • Baltimore, Freddie Gray, and the Killing of Unarmed African-Americans

    1 May 2015 | 1:29 pm
    SHAUNTEE Baltimore, Freddie Gray, and the Killing of Unarmed African-Americans The recent homicide of Freddie Gray in Baltimore is tragic to say the least. I remember a time when most African-Americans /Blacks felt safe around the police. Now, when I see a police officer, all feel disgust, anguish, and uneasiness. I know that not all police officers are bad neither are all African-Americans, but it’s  hard to digest the recent killings of unarmed black men. When you combine poverty with depravity and throw police brutality in the mix; the result is a bunch of angry people with nothing to…
  • Love Yourself Enough to Know Better #KylieJennerLipChallenge

    22 Apr 2015 | 8:31 pm
    SHAUNTEE I remember as a child and pre-teen being rather insecure about my lips. My lips in conjunction with my expressive eyes are trademarked features of mine since birth. I find it hilarious and somewhat sad that young women will now go to extreme measures to pull off the #kyliejennerlipchallenge. What is the purpose and why is it that young women try to emulate the wrong people? Why am I reading about young women lips exploding? That’s crazy, stupid, and so not cute! I guess no one ever told these young women you can achieve fuller lips with makeup. As my southern elders would say,…
  • Women Went Crazy Over Lilly Pulitzer for Target

    20 Apr 2015 | 11:19 am
    SHAUNTEE Women Went Crazy over Lilly Pulitzer for Target In the case of Lilly Pulitzer and Target, the phrase the early bird catches the worm comes to mind. The Lilly Pulitzer much-anticipated collection for Target hit the stores yesterday. The items available online were sold out by 8am! Crazy suburban women adorned in pastels, and floral prints  tore Target up in an attempt to grab clothing and housewares that were available. The rest of the people bought out the items to sale on eBay. Crazy for Lilly!!!!!!! Photo Source: Instagram User iq2thepon The downer for me was that Target did not…
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  • What a Rude Rejection Teaches Us About Ourselves

    19 May 2015 | 1:43 pm
    The other night I was out with some friends at a bar in the city. Towards the end of the night, I spotted one of the most beautiful girls, if not the most beautiful, of the entire night. I decided to walk over and try to talk to her. She’s so hot she probably has a boyfriend (she seemed to be in a group of guys and girls). And she also didn’t seem in a very good mood as she was talking to her friend. But I don’t really care. I walk up to her and her (also extremely hot) friend, totally confident and relaxed, and say “Hi, how are you doing” with a smile. No…
  • What She Means By “I Want to Make Friends First”

    17 May 2015 | 4:58 pm
    If you look at women’s online dating profiles, a lot of them say “I want to make friends first, and then see where things go from there.” She wants to become “friends” with a guy, before getting into a sexual or romantic relationship. Women might often say this in person as well. But we are all familiar with the “friend zone”: where a girl sees you as a platonic friend, but not a real candidate for sex or dating. So what’s going on here? Does she want a guy to be a “friend” before sleeping with/ dating him, or not? Here’s the…
  • Kill the Ego to Attract Women

    13 May 2015 | 1:17 pm
    What is your “ego”? Ego has different definitions. My definition of “ego” is: your false sense of self or identity, along with the feelings and beliefs associated with it. I’m not spiritual, but a lot of this discussion is inspired by the writings of Ekhart Tolle. When you think about it, the ego is the source of countless problems in our lives: feelings of being threatened, diminished, anxious, feelings of dread, foreboding, regret, depression, feeling oppressed, victimized. Ego plays a huge role in men’s problems with attracting women. It is one…
  • Your Conversations Will Get Exciting When You Get Exciting

    9 May 2015 | 1:36 pm
    There’s an old saying: only bored people are boring. Your conversations with women are a direct reflection of you and your personality. Of course, some women just don’t want to talk, or they are just boring people with poor conversation skills. But for the most part, if you find your conversations are dull, flat and dry, time and time again, the common denominator is you. The great thing about conversation is that it can be improved and mastered. By understanding what makes a conversation unique and interesting, you can pinpoint specifically where you are slipping up. In my…
  • How to Improve Your Looks Fast: Get Clothes That Fit

    4 May 2015 | 4:20 pm
    Men’s fashion has a lot of different elements. You have colors, patterns, sizes, and the overall look or personality you are projecting with your clothes. I can personally attest to the significance of clothing. At one point when I was improving my skills with approaching and meeting women, I made a big change to the way I dressed. Literally overnight, my results improved dramatically, on every level. I was getting more looks from women, more eye contact, and better responses when I approached them (more smiles and openness). When I did get into conversations, they lasted longer. I…
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    Dating Site Reviews

  • Single this weekend? Free offer May 1st – May 3rd 2015

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    30 Apr 2015 | 8:56 pm
    Hi friends! Great news. Friday (5/1/15), Saturday (5/2/15) and Sunday (5/3/15), ALL users will be able to communicate for free! This FREE Weekend will once again be supported their promotional TV commercials, increased online advertising and email marketing. What this means for you is more engaged users this weekend besides keeping more of your […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Single this weekend? Free offer May 1st – May 3rd 2015 appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • Most Popular Words Used in Dating Profiles by State

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    27 Feb 2015 | 9:05 am
    The week in random dating site news… I think it’s a riot how journalists bend over backwards to find and write stories about ‘online dating’, most of which are really not news. As a result I am going to start sharing just how random and useless the majority of these online dating ‘news stories’ are […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Most Popular Words Used in Dating Profiles by State appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • Videos from the 2015 iDate, Internet Dating Conference

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    27 Feb 2015 | 8:07 am
    Here are the videos from this past iDate 2015 Internet Dating Conference. This was the 40th such Internet Dating Industry Conference Event since the conference, trade show, and award ceremony launched. Also here is post conference wrap-up sharing a little more about what the event consisted of and who attended from the conference organizer Marc […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post Videos from the 2015 iDate, Internet Dating Conference appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • eHarmony Free Valentines Weekend Offer Going Now!

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    12 Feb 2015 | 10:40 pm
    Hi friends! eHarmony, the winner of the best overall dating site award in our annual Golden Hearts Online Dating Site Awards has just emailed to share that this weekend their site is totally free to everyone. Here are the official days when the eHarmony free trial for Valentines Day will be going on: February 12th – 16th 2015!  […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post eHarmony Free Valentines Weekend Offer Going Now! appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
  • 2015 Online Dating Awards Winners Announcement

    Dating Site Reviews by Jason Lee
    1 Feb 2015 | 11:53 am
    Consider this your filter of thousands of dating sites, a totally honest and thorough look into the best dating sites based on ages, interest communities, and niches. 2015 Online Dating Site Awards Winners. Hello! If you are a first time visitor to DatingWebsiteReview ™ you may not yet be familiar with what my web site […] Rating: 0/10 (0 votes cast) The post 2015 Online Dating Awards Winners Announcement appeared first on Dating Site Reviews.
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  • How To Impress Girl’s Dad

    Kevin Jani
    24 May 2015 | 10:54 pm
    After a great success of getting your dream girl as girlfriend, its time to move on and impress her dad. Always impressing her dad is tough compare to girlfriend because they have plenty of question to ask and many idea to underestimate us. Generally dad of every girls want guys like who have successful professional life and he know how to translate that life in to financial stability. Mostly this is the topmost priority. While before this meeting they never seen you, only heard of you and no matter how well your girlfriend has presented you in front of him, he will still judge you from…
  • Ways to Make Your Crush Like You

    Jaimin Kapadia
    21 May 2015 | 10:22 am
    Be Original:  When looking forward to make your crush like you. One is always trying to alter their personality to fit what you believe in your special person is looking for. Don’t do that. This will make you look and feel unnatural to go. And also make you special person go away. So no needs to show something that you aren’t and Be Yourself. Be Flirty: Being a guy, i know its a little hard to turn up the heat. But if your affords are right and fruitful when flirting you can get your special person can’t stop thinking about you. Flirt in a funny way that makes your partner…
  • Best Way To Seduce A Girl

    Kevin Jani
    20 May 2015 | 5:15 am
    When you are friend with girl, you most likely know the feeling that appears more and more along your getting to know each other. When you both are good friend you must be share each and every thing about yourself, thats make good impact. Never lie in relationship it creates a negative image. Always try to be real in front of her. If you overwhelm a girl by being too forward, she will draw back you. Best advice for seducing to girl is that remark her most difficult point, I am taking about her most difficult problem. Always look forward to talk about her problem. She definitely like to share…
  • How To Impress Girl On Whatsapp

    Kevin Jani
    15 May 2015 | 11:33 am
    You can’t “get” anyone to do anything. The best you can do is to present yourself from your best side, and see where that leads. Meanwhile world is growing faster on internet. From child to adulthood every person love to spend time on Whatsapp. So for couple Whatsapp is the best app to chat they can share pictures, videos and many more thing and using some skill they can impress girl by talking with girl on Whatsapp. While chatting with the girls forget about impressing girls. That’s not how it works. People don’t fall in love because they’re impressed mind…
  • 10 Scientifically Verified Ways To Be More Attractive Men

    Marshal Desai
    15 Mar 2015 | 11:29 am
    Being attractive doesn’t mean being physically good or having good looks.  It’s in the way you present yourself, how you talk to people, with whom you hang out with – plus a whole lot more. Be funny. Studies have proved that women are attracted to whose who make them laugh. In one study, a psychologist found that the guys who tells a joke is three times more likely to get a girl then the people who don’t. “The effect of a great sense of humor on women’s attractions might be partially explained by the fact that funny people are considered to be more social…
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    Dating Sites XO

  • On the Rebound

    Heather Dundon
    21 May 2015 | 5:04 am
    On the Rebound is the creepiest or the craftiest dating app around. Want to know which of your Facebook friends are recently single? This app will tell you when to ask them out.
  • Armenian Match

    Heather Dundon
    14 May 2015 | 7:07 am is one of only a handful of Armenian dating sites. Looking for an Armenian single? We take a look at what Armenian Match has to offer.
  • Wingman

    Heather Dundon
    7 May 2015 | 7:54 am
    Wingman is among the newest iOS apps on the market and it's designed to help you meet people while you fly.
  • Write A Love Letter That Sweeps Her Off Her Feet

    Dating Sites XO
    3 May 2015 | 9:16 pm
    "What will impress her most is that you dug deep and that you wrote it."
  • Fitzus

    Heather Dundon
    30 Apr 2015 | 5:50 am
    Do you want to find your perfect fit? If you live in or around the UK and are into a fit lifestyle, sign up for
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  • 7 Ugly Mistakes Women Make That Ruin Any Chances of a Relationship

    Jennifer Finney
    1 May 2015 | 10:21 am
    No one is perfect. In fact, dating would not be quite as much fun if everyone were. However, there are ways that can ruin the dating experience. The below tips are ugly mistakes that women should not do when dating. Being Too Available Initiating most of the contact and instantly responding to any correspondence from [&hellip
  • How to Date on Facebook

    Jennifer Finney
    1 May 2015 | 10:14 am
    Have you ever spotted a cutie who commented on your friend’s Facebook photo? Facebook can actually be a great way to meet and date people. However, there are rules to follow in order to make sure that you don’t e-sabotage yourself. Rule #1: Don’t friend too soon Sending a friend request before an actual conversation [&hellip
  • 5 Mistakes Men Make That Can Ruin a Relationship

    Lisa Reynolds
    1 May 2015 | 9:55 am
    The majority of men in this world are kind, wonderful people with huge hearts so this article is in no way dissing them. It is about the 5% who don’t fall into that category. Although in that 5% there is probably a lot of good people, just not good boyfriend material or possibly they haven’t [&hellip
  • Date My Pet Dating Safety

    Date My Pet Staff
    16 Apr 2015 | 12:58 pm
    Online Dating Safety Advice Tips Online dating can be a safer experience than traditional dating. It gives you a wider scope of choice and you can remain at a distance until you are ready to meet. If you’ve never tried it before or if you are worried by any stories you may have heard, here [&hellip
  • 5 Things to Say to Remind Him He Needs You

    Lisa Reynolds
    20 Mar 2015 | 10:36 am
    It is really very easy to say the things that show a guy you care and yet, especially in long term relationships where we take the guy we’re with for granted, we tend not to. Mostly because in a long term relationship we feel like we’re past such openly loving gestures and to an extent [&hellip
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  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    22 May 2015 | 5:49 am
    It’s BBQ season! It’s time for tasty treats and lazy Sundays. Kick off your three day weekend with some rollerskating, African dance, and a day at the beach! FRI 22 Free Rollerskating at Brooklyn Bridge Park Pier 2 Roller Rink; 3:30pm-6:30pm; FREE admission, $6 skate rental Get your long weekend rollin’ with free public skating at the park. Wheel around to Top 40s tunes while you scope out a killer view of the New York Harbor. Pack a picnic to recharge with after a few rounds then gear up to play with the rest of the Pier’s amenities like bocce ball and shuffleboard. FRI 22…
  • I’m a Feminist. Buy my Drink.

    Jessica Coyle
    20 May 2015 | 6:39 am
    Hi, sexy guy. Hooray, you’re just as cute in person as you were on Mesh! We exchanged some fun messages, and now we’re finally meeting at that neighborhood bar you or I suggested. Nice to meet you. I’m a feminist. I believe in wage equality, paid maternity leave, and Black Widow’s right to sleep with or not sleep with however many Avengers as she chooses. Being a feminist is a large part of how I identify. But I still want you to pay for my drink. I know, I know, it’s an outdated representation of a reinforced gender binary. Here are some outdated…
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    15 May 2015 | 6:13 am
    Kick off your weekend in the East Village with Ukrainian dancing then move to Greenpoint for a vegan skin care market. Or, head up to Harlem for Vendy-winning eats and round off in SoHo with a night of international short films. Wherever you start it, we hope your weekend is as good as every weekend should be! FRI 15: East Village 39th Annual Ukrainian Festival E. 7th St. between 2nd and 3rd Ave.; all day May 15-18; FREE admission Eager to re-build after the devastating March fire, the East Village kicks off another year celebrating its vibrant Ukrainian community. Stroll down 7th for a…
  • Why Bother With New?

    Jessica Coyle
    13 May 2015 | 6:31 am
    Your author, exhausted from picking out a new username. My sister and I are both online daters. I talked to her recently about trying a new site, and she reacted with the deep, exhausted sigh of a woman considering switching religions for a third time. “The surveys…” she finally uttered. “I just can’t with the surveys.” I get it. I’m a decade-long veteran of online dating. That’s pretty weird for a 30 year-old, not just because I was logging into dinosaur-era dating websites on my Tangent computer while my peers were hooking up on the quad (I assume?) but also because, well,…
  • Mesh Date Night: The Best Things To Do This Week

    Alexandra Wee
    8 May 2015 | 5:52 am
    With spring sprung, we can finally get our hands on everything we love about New York: mega-rad music festivals, food markets galore, and plenty of pop-up shops. This week, check out the Cajun music scene, a cookout complete with fresh fish tacos and ice cold beer, a mother’s day craft market and tons of sweet shows to get you in that feel-good mood. Happy Friday! FRI 8: GhostBusters Screening + Marshmallow Roast Videology, 308 Bedford Ave., Brooklyn; 7pm; $8 Grab your seats for this Friday flick and say hello to your favorite supernat’-battlin’ team. You’ll even get your own…
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    Attract The One

  • How To Stop Beating Yourself Up Over Your Past Mistakes

    Debra Smouse
    25 May 2015 | 7:15 am
    “Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.” –Ralph Waldo Emerson […] The post How To Stop Beating Yourself Up Over Your Past Mistakes appeared first on Attract The One.
  • “I Tried To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back And… What Do I Do Now?”

    Elizabeth Stone
    12 May 2015 | 1:20 pm
    Hi Elizabeth, I’d love to get your advice on my situation. I was with my girlfriend for a little over a year. I started pulling away emotionally around the year mark. I had the upper hand the whole relationship (as bad as that is to say). In any case I became increasingly emotionally unavailable and she […] The post “I Tried To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back And… What Do I Do Now?” appeared first on Attract The One.
  • 11 Brutal Reasons Why You Should Dump Your Married Boyfriend Like a Hot Potato

    Elizabeth Stone
    12 May 2015 | 6:41 am
    There are some really good reasons to avoid dating a married man BESIDES the glaringly obvious, 100%, completely valid moral argument. When we shame people and use morality as a coverall, the other rationale behind why one should stay far away often get lost. It also makes the whole thing into a race to get […] The post 11 Brutal Reasons Why You Should Dump Your Married Boyfriend Like a Hot Potato appeared first on Attract The One.
  • Single? 2 Secrets to Upgrading Your Love Life Now

    Elizabeth Stone
    4 May 2015 | 4:00 pm
    If you’re single right now and want not just someone— but the right person in your life, this is for you. I want to talk about two dueling forces that when harnessed correctly will get you anything you want in your life— love included. Those two things are standards and hard work. Let’s start with […] The post Single? 2 Secrets to Upgrading Your Love Life Now appeared first on Attract The One.
  • 3 Things To Never Say In A Fight

    Elizabeth Stone
    30 Apr 2015 | 12:03 pm
    Have you ever damaged your relationship during an argument? It’s sure easy to do. One minute everything seems to be going fine, and the next something has slipped out that you just can’t take back. That’s why some things should be off limits. Dr. Gottman has devoted his professional career to understanding what makes relationships […] The post 3 Things To Never Say In A Fight appeared first on Attract The One.
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  • The Best Places to Meet Women

    The Dating Captain
    9 May 2015 | 11:48 pm Men always want to know where they can meet the girl of their dreams. This can happen any time, at any place. Whether it’s going for a jog and you pass by a woman walking her dog, or you park next to a woman and walk into a store at the same time, there are a variety of ways to meet that dream girl. Meeting women in the Summer or warm environments offers a variety of different venues to meet women as well, so I’ve included those in there own section. The following are the best ways to meet women. Best Places to Meet Women At Clubs and Bars A majority of people…
  • Best First Date Ideas, With First Date Tips

    The Dating Captain
    24 Feb 2015 | 11:45 pm Where to go on a First Date (First Date Ideas) When planning a date it makes things a lot less stressful to have a full plan laid out for the evening, if you know what you’re going to do there’s no reason to worry. Men are often stumped about the best options and places to go for a first date, or run out of ideas when they’ve been dating someone for a while. These first date ideas will help out with the planning of a date now or in the future. With an abundance of ideas you can use these for quite awhile. As discussed below in the tips, touch is the key aspect of a…
  • First Date Conversations and Questions

    The Dating Captain
    10 Jul 2014 | 4:03 pm When on a date with a woman the conversation should always be stimulating. Whether it’s while you’re eating together or on to the activity part of the evening, you should always be engaged and interesting. Guys are always afraid they won’t know what to talk about on a first date or even when they’re dating in general. It will help ease anxiousness about what to talk about if a guy has some things in mind prior to the date. Similar to setting up the date, when things are already planned there’s nothing to be nervous about. Having these…
  • The Best Alpha Male Movies List for Guys

    The Dating Captain
    5 Jul 2014 | 12:58 pm Alpha Male Movies Watching alpha males in fictional or reality content, can help a man replicate what he’s seeing. If you’re trying to “fake it ’til you make it” or need some quick visual pointers to boost confidence, then entertainment is the place to seek it. In movies that are meant for a male audience, typically the protagonist is an alpha male, and many times the villains are as well. I consider these alpha male movies the best for guys looking to improve themselves and they’re some of the most badass films for men in general. xXx…
  • Mental and Physical Self-Improvement Guide for Men

    The Dating Captain
    30 Jun 2014 | 11:24 pm Self-Improvement Guide In order to be successful with women, friendships, and in business your mind and body need to be aligned and centered. Self-improvement of the mind and the body can make you look better, feel more energized, perform better in the bedroom, and boost your confidence. The following are the best ways to achieve a balanced mind and body. 4. Working Out Working out is the most obvious item that needed to appear on this list. Unfortunately, there are multiple caveats that often go unmentioned and get left out. Many articles that focus on physical…
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  • The Proposal: We’re Officially Engaged

    Chris Martin
    29 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    Recently, I proposed to my long distance girlfriend and it was the most exciting, exhilarating yet nerve wracking thing I have ever done. Chelsea and I have been in a long distance relationship since August 4th 2013. Since then we have visited each other on average about once every three months for about two weeks […] The post The Proposal: We’re Officially Engaged appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 3 – The UK

    Chris Martin
    22 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    At the end of March, Chelsea and I took our first true long distance relationship holiday. The original goal was to meet in the middle, so that we each travelled half the distance. However, we were unable to find anywhere between the UK & USA that could be called the middle. So, instead our plans […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 3 – The UK appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 2 – Italy

    Chris Martin
    15 Apr 2015 | 11:30 am
    Over the last few weeks, Chelsea and I have been on holiday around Europe. We made three stops along our way. The first was in Greece, the second Italy, and our final destination was the UK. In this article, we pick up where we left off. At the end of our time in Greece, I […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 2 – Italy appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 1 – Greece

    Chris Martin
    7 Apr 2015 | 7:25 am
    Chelsea and I have not posted much to Love My Brit recently, but there is a good reason for that! We have been on our first true holiday together. Like many LDRs this is not our first time together, we have made plenty of visits between the UK & USA before (which you can read […] The post Chris & Chelsea’s Eurotrip: Part 1 – Greece appeared first on Love My Brit .
  • Top 20 Things Being in a LDR Has Taught Me

    Chris Martin
    11 Mar 2015 | 3:30 am
    Long distance relationships can be an enlightening experience. They are certainly not easy, and no-one chooses to be in a long distance relationship, it is just an unfortunate circumstance. However, through all the difficulties, there is a lot to be learnt. In all honesty I think that being in a LDR with Chelsea (which you […] The post Top 20 Things Being in a LDR Has Taught Me appeared first on Love My Brit .
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  • The Good Side of “Bad” Attitudes

    Nick Notas
    21 May 2015 | 9:44 am
      As I get older, I’ve become much more of a critical thinker. I used to be set in my ways: I’d form an opinion and take sides before seeing the whole picture. Nowadays, I try to look at things from all angles. I’m always trying to challenge my beliefs and the status quo. I’m always asking questions like… “Is this true? Well…why do I believe it to be true? Is it because I’m afraid to admit I’m wrong? Is it because it’s always been that way? Is it because it makes me feel insecure? Is there another viewpoint I should consider?” We became humans and rose to…
  • How to Be A Workplace MVP and Get Paid Like One

    Nick Notas
    14 May 2015 | 9:39 am
    “The job is what you do when you are told what to do. The job is showing up at the factory, following instructions, meeting spec, and being managed. Someone can always do your job a little better or faster or cheaper than you can. The job might be difficult, it might require skill, but it’s a job. Your art is what you do when no one can tell you exactly how to do it. Your art is the act of taking personal responsibility, challenging the status quo, and changing people. I call the process of doing your art ‘the work.’ It’s possible to have a job and do the work, too.
  • 9 Bullshit Excuses You Use to Avoid Meeting Women

    Nick Notas
    7 May 2015 | 9:07 am
    Recently, I got a call from the first friend I ever started going out to meet people with. We’d both built different lives on different coasts and it had been 2 ½ years since we last spoke. He told me he was flying back to Boston soon to see family and wanted to share some exciting news. I had no idea of what to expect of him. I knew him as a shaggy-haired drummer with little fashion sense. He’d been scared of talking to women and always had an excuse ready to psych himself out of it. We’d pushed ourselves for years to become more confident, social men. But I didn’t know whether or…
  • Can Men and Women Really Be Friends?

    Nick Notas
    24 Apr 2015 | 8:40 am
    Few questions spark a more passionate debate than this one.  When asking women, you’ll usually hear, “Yes!” When asking men, you’ll usually hear, “Of course not.” or “Only if the guy is gay.” This sucks for many women to hear. It’s depressing to think that no man can be a real friend, no matter how well you get along. However, it’s not that black and white. I think the correct answer is, “Yes…but only under the right circumstances.” Growing up, two of my best friends were girls. But I’ll admit, things were made easier because I was never physically attracted…
  • How to Have Sexual Conversations with Women

    Nick Notas
    10 Apr 2015 | 10:39 am
    “My friend and I just made a bet and we want you to settle it. Who do you think masturbates more — men or women?” I’d just read some pick-up advice that told me to approach girls in bars with that question. And I was positive I was going to get slapped that night.  They stared back in disbelief and laughed nervously. One of the girls scoffed, “Are you serious right now? Why are you even asking us that?” I was mortified. I felt ashamed. I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm..I’m not trying to be weird. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They…
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  • Adult Dating for Gay People

    20 May 2015 | 7:34 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Adult dating is not just something for straight people to enjoy. It is also an option for gay people who are married or in a long-term relationship that want sex outside of their relationship too. If this sounds like an interesting idea that you would like to find out more about, then try using the following tips. Specify your preferences When you join an adult dating site, you will need to let people know who and what you are looking for on the site. In order to get across your requirements you need…
  • Adult Dating and Threesomes

    13 May 2015 | 6:45 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at One of the great things about adult dating is that it offers exciting opportunities to try new things that you have never had the chance to experience before. One such thing is a threesome. If a threesome is something you would like to try yourself, there are some points you should consider. The threesome fantasy What turns on each person is individual to them, but most people have a fantasy that they have always dreamed of fulfilling. One of the most common is a threesome as the thought of having sex…
  • Adult Dating for Shy People

    6 May 2015 | 10:31 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at When you are shy, any form of dating can be difficult. However, adult dating may be particularly problematic as it will take you out of your comfort zone and it requires meeting new people on a casual basis. However, if this is a specific fantasy of yours or a lifestyle choice you have decided to make, sex dating is not an impossible dream. Here are some tips to help you be successful on an adult dating site like Marital Affair. Anonymity One of the biggest advantages of sex dating online for shy…
  • Adult Dating for Mature Couples

    29 Apr 2015 | 9:04 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at Age is no barrier when it comes to finding sexual fulfilment. Although affairs are typically associated with people in unhappy marriages, this is not always the case. There are many very happily married couples who enjoy the experience of adult dating together in their mature years. Joining an adult dating site If you are both in agreement that adult dating is something you want to try, then you can sign up to an adult dating site either individually or together as a couple. Just fill in the profile…
  • How to Seduce a Man on an Adult Dating Site

    22 Apr 2015 | 8:19 am
    Adult Dating, Affairs, Sex Dating, Married Dating and much more only at If you have decided you want to have an affair, the first thing you will need to do is to find a man to share this experience with. Obvious, right? But how do you go about it if you’ve never done it before? Well, once you have joined a dating site, you will need to seduce a man to tempt them into meeting you. Here are some great tips for seducing men on an adult dating site. Post a good profile picture The first impression that anyone gets of you on an adult dating site is your profile picture. It is…
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  • 9 Social Media Sites to Use to Snag Yourself a Date

    23 May 2015 | 5:11 pm
    Looking to get a date without actually going out there and meeting people face to face? Here comes the power of social media sites to the rescue.Though some romantic traditions remain popular today, the world of dating has largely changed. One of the greatest reasons for this change was the invention of social media. Social media provides singles with access to literally thousands of other singles with just a few clicks of a mouse.This incredible phenomenon is currently shifting dating culture into a much more fast paced version of what it used to be.In the past, a boy would call a girl on…
  • All I Ask Of You

    22 May 2015 | 3:31 pm
    Be love,In all its forms,Not just words that dissipate into air,Love me,Truly love me,Wrap me with the words you proclaim,Tie me down,So that I may feel them bind my soul,My heart,Love me in all loves physical forms,Celebrate me,Adorn my mind with your charms,Leave me wishing,Wanting,Nothing more,Than your nourishment,To feed my hunger,Desires,Until the bitter end,Of life,Love me,Truly love me,With all your heart.
  • A Little History of Seduction

    22 May 2015 | 3:29 pm
    Ohio passes a statute that makes seduction unlawful. Covering all men over the age of18 who worked as teachers or instructors of women, this law even prohibited men from having consensual sex with women (of any age) whom they were instructing. The penalty for disobeying this law ranged from two to 10 years in prison.Ohio’s seduction law was not the first of its kind. An Virginia law made it illegal for a man to have an “illicit connexion (sic) with any unmarried female of previous chaste character” if the man did so by promising to marry the girl. An 1848 New York law madeit illegal to…

    22 May 2015 | 3:22 pm
    Let me say this first ….If we’re comparing ourselves to someone else, then we’re doing our self a disservice. Our experiences, skills, talent, drive, motivation are all what make us valuable.  This absolutely applies to both our personal and professional lives.  Is it about confidence or something else?I have this ongoing… let me rephrase…never ending conversation with one of my friends, and it drives me bonkers sometimes.  She constantly questions her ability to do good work.  She compares herself to her predecessors and fails to see…
  • How to avoid exam stress!

    22 May 2015 | 3:06 pm
    Exams can be so stressful and frustrating here are some tips to help avoid exam stress:1) Everyone has exams and tests and pretty much everyone gets nervous or worried this is normal but there is really no need to panic you can only try your best you cant do any more than your best.2) Use time wisely and to the best of your advantage. Revision can be boring and everyone has different techniques here are some: revise for 10 mins then have 10 mins break revise for 20 mins then have 10 mins break then 30 mins revision and 10 mins break and so on just build up that level of concentration, Make…
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  • Gentleman rating

    28 Apr 2015 | 11:55 pm
    Today we are introducing a new feature on called Gentleman rating. Gentleman rating is developed to ensure that our members communicate in a proper way with each other. Since there previously has been cases of rude and sometimes even abusive messages we are introducing a system so that the users will be able to rate the messages they receive. With Gentleman rating, both male and female members on SugarDaters will be able to rate one another since we do not only want the men but also the women to be ‘gentlemen’ towards other users. Whether you want to rate…
  • Women seek a “Fifty Shades of Grey”-relationship on Sugardaters

    6 Feb 2015 | 2:17 am
    Fifty Shades of Grey is a worldwide success and the movie adaption of the first book has premiere next week. The very atypical partnership between Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele has opened the eyes of the society for an alternative kind of relationship. Many fans of Fifty Shades of Grey are surprised that a dating site like Sugardaters, that makes this kind of relationship possible, exists. In many ways, you can argue that a relationship, as the one described in Fifty Shades of Grey between Anastasia and Grey, is a sugar daddy/sugar babe-relationship. A relationship between a sugar daddy…
  • Do’s and don’ts for your online dating profile

    22 Jan 2015 | 2:17 am
    Nowadays online dating profiles are a widespread way through which we meet and date with other people. It is and easy option, through which people can communicate and learn things about each other. Although many people are still reluctant to accept the online dating profiles, the truth is that almost every person has such one. You can easily make an online dating profile, within a few simple steps, however, there are useful tips that you need to know if you want to present yourself in the best possible way. Another important moment concerns the personal information that you reveal within…
  • Two Is Better Than One: Shared Experiences

    5 Dec 2014 | 2:18 am
    If you are in a couple, maybe you will find it easy to understand this article. If not, I will be glad to give you my arguments why being in a couple is better than living all alone. It is true that everything depends on the type of person that you are, and on the stage of your life that you pass through, but you can agree that being in a couple has its benefits, concerning many experiences. Everyone understands fun and joy in its own way and that is why couples often argue about how to spend their free time together. If I have to be honest, however, despite all the arguments I always find it…
  • Sugar Dating – Why Stigma When Fantasy of All?

    Sugar Daters
    10 Nov 2014 | 2:32 am
    We have created this Sugar Dating discussion thread especially for those who would like to enlighten us with their “for” or “against” arguments. Our research and Online Dating industry stats show that the industry is going strong since past decade. Why do people consider sugar dating to be a stigma and then sign up for such services at the same time?  Rules: No promotional links unless it is your own original content and you belong to our industry as well You must be 21 of age at least No profanity or hate speech Please respond by commenting (moderated but quick…
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  • TEST II Yep

    26 May 2015 | 1:53 am
    Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Aliquam feugiat nulla quis eros vestibulum convallis. Quisque vestibulum quis tellus commodo eleifend. Integer malesuada purus a lacus dignissim, id sollicitudin elit pellentesque. Praesent ipsum elit, vehicula at laoreet vel, porttitor sit amet erat. Praesent efficitur nec ipsum in rhoncus. Cras pellentesque lacus non urna euismod malesuada. Duis in felis at felis cursus iaculis. Nulla ullamcorper ullamcorper magna id lacinia. Mauris fermentum efficitur maximus. Nullam mollis, felis tempus imperdiet cursus, quam elit fringilla leo, sit…
  • Think Like a Man! - Part I

    26 May 2015 | 1:53 am
    I am now officially using two of the most superficial apps to date people: Tinder and Happn - I have to say I quite like the concept of Happn; however it doesn't work as it is marketed to. These two apps, which look more like games, give me more dating options than I could possibly handle. It's literally driving me crazy. It's as if the 'candidates' are being shortlisted all the time. Each single word counts. But.. damn! I just wanted some sort of meaningful conversation! Ok, Maybe...just maybe... being swept off my feet! I am not asking too much, am I?I lost count of how many messages are…
  • Online Dating Part I

    26 May 2015 | 1:53 am
    I have decided to ignore my friend's advice about a) stop meeting guys in bars or clubs; b) stop considering meeting guys online.I was so keen on breaking option b that I have in fact downloaded the most popular 'dating app' out there: Tinder.I am pretty sure we can skip introductions about the Tinder phenomenon: As simple as that, it allows you to be comfortably superficial and without judgement, feel free to give a chance to only those who you think are attractive. Attraction, that's part of the deal dating wise, isn't it? Well, Tinder is very very keen on saving you time, say thanks to…
  • From Virtual Connection to WTF

    26 May 2015 | 1:53 am
    You might remind Jack from the Virtual Connection post. You might be also curious about our date. Let's say that basically, I was right in my assumptions. I will follow my own advice from now on: Do not engage in excessive online conversation with someone before knowing them in person.So as most of you know, I was looking forward to going to this date. I had been exchanging texts with Jack for a few days and our conversations were quite elaborate and intense. There was some sort of virtual connection there (or maybe I was desperately looking for one).I was perfectly aware that I was creating…
  • Persistence to "MeetUp"

    26 May 2015 | 1:53 am
    So after I broke up with Connor, I admit that I was feeling lonely. Plus, I knew that my flatmate was going on holidays for a while which only contributed to my panic. I would never imagine that I would feel as free, as independent and happy as I feel now! So before she departed, she told me I should 1) stop seeing Connor as it wouldn't do us any good and 2) do some activities and meet new people, not necessarily guys!I actually thought it was a good idea! First, I joined a few dance classes with my friend Esmeralda and we had a lot of fun doing it (We are still doing it on a weekly basis)!
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    The Woman Formerly Known as Beautiful

  • What Women Like In Bed, From The Most Interesting Man In The World

    25 May 2015 | 7:25 am
    There’s nothing more encouraging than a man-of-a-certain-age who dedicates his all to keeping his lover on her toes (or perhaps her knees?). In response to my recent post, 2 Secret Things Women Want in Bed, (a penchant for 50 Shades of Gray-style ravishment with, hopefully, more proficient prose) this ladykiller left a comment outstripping (so to speak) my most inspired married sex treatises. With his years of experience he confirms what I’ve long suspected, which is that for women the most powerful sexual organ in our bodies is the brain:     Speaking as a mere…
  • I Love These Guys and Their Quest to “Craft a Cup of Wellness” at Java Elixir!

    20 May 2015 | 9:28 am
    Chris & Chris. Faces you can trust and that you compulsively want to mother. I want to make them pancakes and pack their lunches before they go off to work. 1. I love easy ways to make my life better. PLUS 2. I love innovators. EQUALS 3. The fresh-faced, passionate, Canadian (i.e. likable) entrepreneurs Chris Tester and Chris Kim of the new, kickass brand, Java Elixir. Chris Tester was in a smoothie shop one morning watching workers add all kinds of health-boosting supplements to what was basically a sugar-laden, unhealthy treat and wondered why he couldn’t do the same thing, but…
  • What do Returning War Veterans and Stay-At-Home Moms Have in Common? And How Can we Help?

    19 May 2015 | 10:57 am
    If you haven’t read former war correspondent Sebastian Junger’s latest piece in this month’s Vanity Fair, The Never-Ending War: The Bonds of Battle, get off of your ass and go get it. Especially if you care about the veterans returning from Afghanistan and Iraq. I’ve long had a passion for war literature and an interest in the psychology of men and women who put themselves on the front lines, both as journalists and soldiers. Partially because these people seem larger-than-life, eminently fuckable and badass like Charlize Theron in Mad Max: Fury Road. But mostly…
  • Mary Jane Minkin M.D. Answers All of My Questions About How Menopause Affects Sex

    18 May 2015 | 7:00 am
    Vaginas. Half of us have them. If you’re reading this you may have one and if you don’t have one, you would probably like to be acquainted with one, so this applies to you, too. One day around year fifty the wonderful, multi-tasking vagina will begin to change. Mine, it goes without saying, is still a Maserati. Fast, sleek and a bit of a show-off. But as the last year of hot flashes have made very clear, the times they are a changing. To that end I was thrilled to be invited to a Google Hangout with a thankfully hilarious, astute, no-nonsense OB-GYN Dr. Mary Jane Minkin, the…
  • When The Man You Loved and Lusted For Changes Forever

    14 May 2015 | 3:49 pm
    My mom Kathy was the primary caregiver for my stepdad Guido after his stroke for six-and-a-half grueling, painful and often beautifully poignant years before he finally passed away. This fictional story is inspired by her journey and will be part of my forthcoming novel: Married Sex: Fact & Fiction. I love you mom. The Golden Years by Shannon Bradley-Colleary It’s been four years since Beth has worn makeup. She stopped after her husband Ned’s stroke. There didn’t seem to be a point. But today she removes her reading glasses to apply newly purchased eye shadow. Heather Glory,…
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  • Wingmen Wanted for Dallas Domination (Again)

    Captain Jack
    19 May 2015 | 9:19 pm
    Wingmen Wanted to Roll Side-by-Side with Captain Jack for Dallas Domination… Tough Mixed Sets. Hot, “Bitchy” Dallas Rich Girls. Late nights. Outrageous bar tabs (if you drink). Close calls with angry Orbiters and Boyfriends. …but, glory, stories and wild tales to tell as we own the City once again. 2005-2009 the Dallas Pickup Scene was one of the hottest in the country. We had El Topo, Sinn, Dr. Dave, yours truly (Captain Jack!) and a few others innovating in ways that have now become standard Community ideas. Now, I’m looking for a new crew. Your current skill…
  • 9 Dating Hacks to Improve Your Dating Life Fast

    Captain Jack
    7 May 2015 | 5:42 pm
    Making huge improvements in your dating life can seem like a mystery, especially if you listen to the silly ideas based on ‘common sense’ or ‘tradition’ (be nice, just be yourself and other idiotic things). So, I’ve compiled a list of these dating hacks based on my own experience in massively improving my dating life and the lives of many other men via coaching and teaching. 1. Talk to As Many Women As You Can (even ones that are not your type). When you talk to everyone you get out of your head. You get your mouth moving and get comfortable talking and…
  • Attract Beautiful Women Fast with Sexualized Compliments

    Captain Jack
    1 May 2015 | 8:06 am
    There’s a certain very simple tactic that hits like an atom bomb when used properly. I’ve seen everything from her jaw drop, to blushing, to shortness of breath to a sly smile spread across her face before leaning forward and promptly… …Shoving her tongue down my throat! Girls can be so forward sometimes. I often do little experiments where I’ll DENY myself certain tools or tactics when I’m gaming to see how I adapt. For example, I once went out for a couple of weeks and wasn’t allowed to ask for any contact info or TimeBridge. I had to try to get the…
  • How to Learn Pickup

    Captain Jack
    24 Apr 2015 | 9:08 pm
    This is an article on ‘How To Learn Pickup’ based on my 10+ years of experience. I first started to learn pickup shortly after my divorce. I had gotten into a relationship fairly young and gotten married with little experience in the dating world. Then, in my late 20s I found myself thrust into this strange world of unwritten rules and people way cooler than me. To make things worse, I was severely out of shape and in debt. I loved women. I was intrigued and fascinated by them. I enjoyed talking to them and interacting with them but I couldn’t seem to get THEM to be…
  • How to Regain Your Killer Instinct!

    Captain Jack
    21 Apr 2015 | 6:04 pm
    If you’ve lost your Killer Instinct so to speak I’ve got some tips for you. I’ve lost it a few times in my life and had to get it back! If you’re on my email list you know about the divorce. The divorce itself actually helped me get it back. It was all the crap BEFORE that hampered it… lawyers, courts, bills from lawyers, fighting with ex… all energy draining. I won’t go about this in-depth here because I wrote about how to handle a break up already. But, quickly the solution to that was to get active. I started going out and working on something that…
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  • Advice for your dating profile to date British guys at work

    22 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    How to date a British guy at work Have you had a very classy British man from work that you absolutely wanted to go out with? In one of my jobs, he was one of our bosses. I think he was a dream guy in the eyes of a lot of women. He was handsome, […] The post Advice for your dating profile to date British guys at work appeared first on
  • Why do men cheat? Analyze the men at work

    18 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    Why do men cheat? In this post we’ll take a deeper look at why men cheat.  We thought it could be fun so that you could have fun analyzing the men at work to see if they could be potential cheaters… But first of all, did you know that 40% of men cheat with a woman […] The post Why do men cheat? Analyze the men at work appeared first on
  • Ever shied away from guys? Learn how to catch ‘Em

    14 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    Ever shied away around guys? Learn how to catch ‘Em at work! Have you often shied away around guys? Would you like more guys to come and talk to you? And did you know why shyness creates barriers with men? If your goal is to attract men’s attention fast, then shyness is a barrier. But did […] The post Ever shied away from guys? Learn how to catch ‘Em appeared first on
  • 3 simple step on how to tell if a guy likes you at work

    11 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    How to tell if a guy likes you at work? Does he like me or does he just want to be my friend? This is a especially delicate at work. In this articles on how to tell if a guy likes you, I describe 3 simple things to look for so that you know if you […] The post 3 simple step on how to tell if a guy likes you at work appeared first on
  • How to date a French guy at work – Short guide

    7 May 2015 | 9:00 am
    What you should know before dating a French guy at work Do you have a French guy at work that you want to date or maybe just have fling with? French are known for being spontaneous, direct and romantic. Here is a list of of what you should know about French guys. #1 They love Elegance French […] The post How to date a French guy at work – Short guide appeared first on
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    Background Hawk

  • Intelius Review

    Sally Reiling
    20 May 2015 | 7:58 am
    Today I’m going to take a look at another background check service, and walk you through this Intelius review. This is definitely one of the better services that I’ve tested, and I’m pleased to say I can give it the green light. Read on to find out what is good about it, and what negatives I found. Service name: Intellius Services offered: People Search, Employment Background Check and CRB. Service stared: 2003 Pricing: $3.95 - $49.95 one-off. (Trial also available). Rating: 90 out of 100. Recommended? Yes Learn More What does Intelius offer? Intelius is a people…
  • Secret Spy Cameras for Dating

    Sally Reiling
    15 May 2015 | 12:45 am
    The words hidden camera and dating really don’t mesh that well together but sometimes there are reasons you want to record a date, such as capturing hard evidence that someone is cheating, or that he or she has sinister plans that you need to capture on footage. Long gone are the days where pinhole cameras were only destined for spy movies, these guys have become really great versatile tools we can use to get some concrete evidence. Before you head out to buy one though, there are a few basic requirements your camera needs to meet before you can trust its capabilities such as: Kudos if it…
  • International Background Check

    Sally Reiling
    13 May 2015 | 10:31 pm
    Doing a background check on someone that resides in the same country as you is relatively easy and you can always use resources such as the public records on both state and national levels to verify the details, but getting a check done on someone on the other side of the world might require a little more effort. Inevitably you would want to get a private investigator or a verified and trusted Background Screening company to do this job for you, because they really do know what they are doing. Doing an international background check requires comprehensive verification of details and typically…
  • How to Spy On People

    Sally Reiling
    12 May 2015 | 10:13 pm
    The concept of spying on other people has enjoyed many developments over the last few years and it can either be seen in a good light as a tool that can help you obtain hidden information or it could be seen as a form of stalking. The latter is not the topic of discussion here, and instead we want to focus on bringing you smart ways to spy on people in cases where it can help keep you and your loved ones safe. Before you embark on any spy mission though, you should be well aware of the fact that it is illegal to install any type of surveillance software on someone’s personal belongings such…
  • How to Hide a Camera

    Sally Reiling
    11 May 2015 | 9:35 pm
    Hidden cameras have an undeniable value that they add to our lives and can be used in many ways. The trusty old nanny cam, for one, can be used to establish the kind of care that your children or even your parents in an old age home are getting when you are not around. The trick comes in when you want to make sure that your camera is properly disguised. But there is light at the end of the tunnel though, because if you can image it, then it’s probably plausible due to the fact that cameras can be hidden in plain sight these days if you go about it the right way. There are a few steps that…
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    The Daily Dater

  • 3 Awesome Reasons To Stop Online Dating Right Now

    David Wygant
    21 May 2015 | 10:24 pm
    What you’re going to read here may surprise you. I’m about to give you 3 reasons why you should stop using online dating sites today. Before you panic I’m not telling you to stop online dating permanently. It’s not like you have to give us cigarettes or coffee for life, but like anything, online dating […] The post 3 Awesome Reasons To Stop Online Dating Right Now appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • 5 Ways To Keep Your Momentum with Girls

    21 May 2015 | 9:34 pm
    Momentum guys, it’s one of the things I consistently see missing from the community at large. This is a crucial skill in itself, the loss of which can occur in several different ways all of which will slow your growth to a crawl. I’m going to cover the following on momentum: How to build it […] The post 5 Ways To Keep Your Momentum with Girls appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • End the Frustration with Hard To Get Girls Now

    21 May 2015 | 1:45 am
    As a single woman and Dating Expert, you will often hear me quote, “Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” And, as much as men and women hate to admit it, there is always a game in the game of love. I know, because I have played many and have prided myself on being “hard to […] The post End the Frustration with Hard To Get Girls Now appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Adam Gilad On How To Get the Best Dates Online

    Adam Gilad
    19 May 2015 | 9:34 pm
    CLICK HERE TO HAVE THE RIGHT MAN ONLINE The post Adam Gilad On How To Get the Best Dates Online appeared first on The Daily Dater.
  • Adam Gilad & The Science Behind Online Dating

    Adam Gilad
    19 May 2015 | 9:32 pm
    CLICK HERE TO HAVE DEEP ONLINE ATTRACTION The post Adam Gilad & The Science Behind Online Dating appeared first on The Daily Dater.
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    Sexy Confidence

  • The Harsh Reality About Why Some Relationships Fail

    Adam LoDolce
    21 May 2015 | 6:02 am
    Relationships fail for all sorts of reasons. Maybe there wasn’t chemistry. Maybe there wasn’t long term compatibility. Maybe the timing was off. Or maybe, just maybe, there was something VERY wrong with someone in the relationship. In this new video I review a very basic, but critical reality about why relationships fail. Check it out. Have you ever dated someone like this? Are YOU the person I talk about in this video? Let me know in the comments section below. Your Coach, Adam
  • 7 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Need to Bring Back

    Adam LoDolce
    14 May 2015 | 6:18 am
    Dating has changed more in the past 20 years than in all of human history. Most of it is good, but some of it is NOT so good. So in this week’s video I wanted to outline 7 old fashioned dating habits that we need to bring back. Enjoy the video If you agree, then please share it with your friends. Let’s bring these habits BACK! Also, did I miss any old fashioned dating habits that YOU want to bring back? Let me know in the comments below. Your bud, Adam    
  • How to Break Up With Your Boyfriend

    Adam LoDolce
    7 May 2015 | 7:29 am
    Break ups suck – but someone has to do it when the relationship is broken. Break ups REALLY suck regardless of whether you’re the “breaker upper” or you’re the “broken up with”. And that’s exactly why I believe so many people stay in bad relationships. They’re terrified of the confrontational break up moment. Although this week’s video might not relieve the pain and sadness involved with break ups, it will at least give you some tools you can use if you do decide to break up with your boyfriend. Watch the video “How to Break…
  • The Best Friend You Want to F#%K

    Adam LoDolce
    30 Apr 2015 | 7:12 am
    Rip your clothes off cause this is about to get friendly REAL quick. Everyone and their mother (literally) thinks they know the formula for the “perfect relationship”. Or worse, they know what’s the “perfect relationship” for YOU. If you google “What is the perfect relationship”, you get over 55 Million responses. How is anyone supposed to figure out who is the perfect match for them? Well in this week’s video I attempt to simplify all of this for you. And be warned, this video is a bit of a rant… Have you ever found a relationship like…
  • 10 Realities We Need To Accept About Modern Dating

    Adam Lodolce
    27 Apr 2015 | 7:09 am
    Things change. Dating has changed. Rather than objecting to it, we can embrace it. We can adapt and improve. We can evolve. 1. Technology plays a role. We can complain about it all we want. We can say it’s negative and detrimental to the health of human of communication. Either way, we won’t change anything. Technology is going to rule the sphere of communication from now on, and it’s something we have to adapt to. You have to make efforts to make dating more personal. You have to be brave enough to do both. Communicate clearly and honestly using both technology and face to face…
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    Getting to TRUE Love

  • Getting Over "The One"

    22 May 2015 | 2:45 am
    It's been FOUR months and I still cry about him almost daily. One of our beautiful readers, Kat, was in a wonderful long term relationship with a great guy, only to have it all fall apart as soon as she told him she was ready to take things to the next level - sound familiar? Here's her story: Hi Jane, I am a big fan of your website and read your posts regularly. I am trying to follow your advice and move on from a man I thought was "the one", but I am having a very hard time. We were introduced by a mutual friend. Initially I thought he was nice, but I wasn't really interested. I went out…
  • But I Don't Want to HAVE to!

    19 May 2015 | 2:45 am
    Ugh! Why do I have to do this? I hear these words from so many of you. "But I don't want to have to!" Whether you're talking about meeting new men, going to singles events, signing up for online dating, going to new places, finding your passions, following your interests, your response is so often the same. We want it the easy way. The way that said he was The One and your search was over. The way that said that you didn't have to put yourself out there – again. The way that had you imaging your future together and it felt so good! The way that finally gave you the answer to address all…
  • I Just Want It To Be the Way It Was

    15 May 2015 | 2:45 am
    I put myself out there everyday, only to feel rejected afterwards. One of our beautiful, sweet readers, who has asked to remain anonymous, has been in a long distance relationship with her boyfriend of a year and a half, and has gone through quite a roller-coaster of difficulties, including cheating. I've chosen to call her Plumeria, after the beautiful and fragrant flowers that are used to make Hawaiian leis. Here's her email: Jane, My relationship with my boyfriend has been going on for about a year and a half. We started dating after I got out of a two year relationship the same time that…
  • So Where Is He?

    12 May 2015 | 2:45 am
    But still he eluded me. Where is this illusive soul? Where does he hide? Where does he spend his time? What places call to him, and who are the people he spends his time with? I know this is what you're really asking. Where is he? And where do I find him? If there was one question I asked myself a thousand times, it was this one. There was no one who understood just how elusive he could be more than me. I had searched everywhere for him. Different provinces. Different states. Even different countries. But still he eluded me. I saw so many of my girlfriends meeting and marrying ordinary men…
  • What Should I Do? He Says He Wants to Slow Things Down

    8 May 2015 | 2:45 am
    Things were going so well, but now he wants to slow things down! One of our beautiful readers, who has asked to remain anonymous, is in a new relationship where the sparks were flying. After they were intimate, he has said that he wants to slow things down, and now she doesn't know what to do. I've chosen to call her "Daisy", because she reminds me of all the beautiful spring flowers blooming right now, finding out just how beautiful – and how worthy – they truly are. Naturally. In their own time. Here's her email: Hello, I am very confused and don't know what to do. I met someone and we…
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    Dating Advice For Guys » Dating Advice For Guys

  • Tips On Flirting With Girls Via Text — A Comprehensive Guide For A Fun & Flirty Experience

    23 May 2015 | 3:07 am
    Remember the time when flirting was possible only by personally meeting the girl? Letters were fine for long, sensuous, and romantic messages. Yes, you could flirt over the phone but calling a girl ten times a day was the fastest way to put her off by coming across as desperate, needy, and more than a bit creepy. So, the only option you had for some harmless flirting was to setup a personal meeting. Well, things have changed today, and they certainly have changed for the better. If you love to flirt, then you ought to put your hands together for the person who invented text messaging.
  • How NOT to Speak to Women

    15 May 2015 | 3:02 am
    Would you like to know what makes a girl run away? I’m willing to bet that you do. This way, you can experience more success in your romantic endeavors. Understanding the female mind is crucial, if you want to get a girl’s number and have her lusting after you from the outset. So, what is my motivation for telling you this? Well, it depresses me how many men miss out on the chance to have a fulfilling love life, due to their lack of knowledge. Regrettably, many guys fail to attract the women they really desire, simply because they approach things in the wrong way. Avoid being just…
  • How Success with Women Changes Your Life in General

    Sebastian Harris
    4 May 2015 | 1:14 am
    When I decided to learn how to seduce women I had no idea that this simple decision had such a major impact on my life. When I made the decision to overcome my fears of women and to approach them in an honest and direct way, my only goal was to find a girlfriend, no matter how long it took. Eventually, I reached this goal. However, the fact that I now have a wonderful, supportive and beautiful girlfriend is not the only thing that changed in my life. I can tell you from my own experience that making the decision to become successful with women will not only change your dating life, but also…
  • Dating Tips For Introverted Guys

    30 Apr 2015 | 4:11 am
    Pop quiz! Do people tell you that you need to be more outgoing and sociable to meet women? Do people tell you that you’re a good listener? Do you hate going to noisy, crowded clubs? Do you hate going to parties? Do you feel worn out after going to a big bash? Do people describe you as mellow or easygoing? If you answered “yes” to these questions, you are an introvert. It is relatively simple to meet women at bars and parties if you are a naturally outgoing guy who thrives in a crowd. However, if you are the kind of person who does not like to make small talk or feels drained…
  • What Are Some Good Things To Say When You Are Flirting With A Girl?

    24 Apr 2015 | 3:48 am
    Pity the guy who comes on too strong and talks to a woman’s breasts instead of her face, the one who opens with a cheesy line and a leering grin. Ever wonder how certain guys are able to hit all the right notes with women? While good looks help, you need to know some of the good things to say when you are flirting with a girl. You need charisma and the right set of personality traits, as well as a good sense of humor and good manners to pique their interest. Gone are the days when buying drinks and cheesy come–ons ruled the dating scene. Flirting is an incredibly powerful and fast…
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    Adventuresaurus Girl Dating Blog

  • Memorial Day

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    25 May 2015 | 8:48 am
    It's Memorial Day.  For me, it's always a reminder that we are about halfway through the year.  I finally gave this blog a facelift.  Other than that, nothing to report for the first half of the year.   How about you?
  • This Is What It Looks Like

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    24 May 2015 | 10:13 am
    I had a drink with a guy friends last night.  He's in his late 20s/early 30s and was talking about how he is absolutely totally in love with the girl he is currently dating.  They've been dating for a month, he plans on asking her to be exclusive in the next few weeks because he doesn't want to lose her to another guy.  And, sex is the last thing on his mind (he has not tried to move it into the bedroom).This is what it looks like when a guy is really into a girl, none of this "sorta with" rubbish.
  • Interested Guy Friends

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    22 May 2015 | 12:45 pm
    Want to know which of your guy friends might be interested in you?  Talk about other guys.  I have guy friends.  I never thought some were interested in me because I wasn't interested in them and didn't see the signs.  However, every time I talk about other guys, they tear the other guys down.  I wasn't even doing it to try to get a response, I was just talking about life, dating adventures, being single, et al.
  • Other Dates

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    20 May 2015 | 9:47 am
    New Leaf Guy is in Asia or Europe or somewhere.  As Victor Hugo said, "When a man is out of sight, it is not too long before he is out of mind."  We talked before he left and he's sent a couple of emails, but largely out of sight and out of mind.I practice what I preach, I'm not "sorta with" him.  I don't get hung up on one guy unless there's some kind of DTR (define the relationship) talk, which would involve labels.  He's told me he is not dating anyone else, but that could always change, so I don't take it very seriously.  And, he hasn't asked me to stop dating…
  • Clever Lady

    Adventuresaurus Girl
    19 May 2015 | 11:54 am
    When I ran into this spectacular looking man the other night, one of his lady friends came over to talk to us.  She was acting like we may have met before and insinuated that she's met many ladies through him, so many that she gets them all jumbled in her head.  Clever lady, she wants him all to herself and wanted me to believe he's a Don Juan (which he could be).
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    The Professional Wingman® – Dating & Lifestyle Strategy Blog - The Professional Wingman®

  • Attention Single Guys: Who Wants an Opportunity to Work with Thomas Edwards?

    Thomas Edwards
    11 May 2015 | 8:15 am
    Everyday, I get tons of emails from people like you who want to work with me — and many times, for me. As you know, I’m very selective with who we work with but I (and my team) do eventually respond to every inquiry no matter what.But after a conversation with the team, it hit me: Even if some people may not be a good fit to work with me, that doesn’t mean they can’t work with me and my team in some capacity. And it certainly doesn’t mean that I can’t personally be there to help them reach their goals, either.I really want to help as many people as I can. So what I’m going to do…
  • Dating While Unemployed, Will She Cheat Again, and Perils of Online Dating

    Thomas Edwards
    8 May 2015 | 10:10 am
    Credit: This week was a fun week in the media for me. One thing I want to do more here is share the content I produce or get featured elsewhere. The content is relevant and I want to make sure you see it if you’re just a reader of my blog and not following me on Twitter, Instagram, or Facebook.Monday, I gave tips on AskMen on how to tell if a woman will cheat on you again. Some clues seem obvious, like “not having sex with you.” However, other clues might be overlooked and are actually more obvious than “not putting out.” Click here to read the article, “Will She…
  • #AskWingman: Interest Beyond Looks?

    Thomas Edwards
    30 Apr 2015 | 10:46 am
    On the first episode of #AskWingman, a reader asks, “How do you determine if a guy has a general interest in you beyond the physical?” See my answer in the video below. Ask Thomas a Question
  • Can Cold Showers Improve Your Dating Life?

    Thomas Edwards
    24 Apr 2015 | 8:54 am
    Earlier this week, my wife sent me the video below, saying I could write about my workouts and the fact we like our showers at different temperatures.Since we’re on the topic, I don’t get my wife sometimes. She’s the only person I know who will take a volcanic-like hot showers right after a workout. It’s crazy.I like hot showers like the rest of them, but that’s ridiculous.Anyway, let’s get back on track —Cold showersSince I’ve started T25 Focus — yes, the fitness program from the same guy that created Insanity — I’ve been looking to additional ways to boost confidence…
  • Quotes From Friends: Overheard Approaches

    Thomas Edwards
    22 Apr 2015 | 12:15 pm
    Credit: In this segment, I'll highlight an inspiring quote I hear from friends of mine. This one comes from an anonymous friend from the other night. We were out with a small group of guys and a few of them darted off to the bathroom, leaving me and my buddy behind to grab drinks at the bar.My buddy saw two attractive women and decided to just go in and talk to them. He leaned over and said, “I lost my friends & I’m looking for them, but in the process of finding your friends, I guess you can make new ones along the way.” Unsurprisingly, the women were receptive…
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    Finding A Man

  • How to Ask a Guy Out

    24 May 2015 | 12:49 pm
    With a lifetime of advice telling us not to make the first move, it’s no surprise that women are a little clueless when it comes to how to ask a guy out. There is definitely something to be said about playing coy and letting him make the first move, but sometimes a guy just isn’t as quick about it as women would like. You can wait it out and hope and pray with all your might that he gets up the courage, or you can take matters into your own hands and give him the gentle push that he needs. That’s what this article is all about. The following tips teach you how to ask a guy out without…
  • How to Get a Guy to Ask You Out

    17 May 2015 | 9:31 am
    Have you been crushing on a guy and waiting for him to ask you out? Are you starting to wonder if it’s a lost cause because you think he doesn’t seem to want to be more than just a friend? Have you met up a few times accidentally on purpose in the hopes he will bust a move? Are you starting to feel like a stalker instead of the woman of his dreams? Do these questions sound like the thoughts that have been going through your head for the last few weeks, months, or even years? Don’t give up just yet, because the advice you are about to learn will show you just how to get a guy to…
  • How to Show a Guy You Like Him Without Being Overt

    10 May 2015 | 9:11 pm
    Have your sights set on a guy? Secretly longing to make him yours and live happily-ever-after and want him to know you like him without knowing quite that much? Smart move! Giving a guy the hint that you’re interested can go a long way in piquing his curiosity and getting him to stand up and take notice. The key is to do it without coming off as so obvious that you seem desperate, or even worse: creepy. These tips tell you exactly how to show a guy you like him in ways that are subtle with just a hint of sexy. Smile… Seriously, a smile really is worth a thousand words! And the right…
  • 7 Tips Older Women Dating Younger Men Need to Know

    5 May 2015 | 3:28 pm
    7 Tips Older Women Dating Younger Men Need to Know Hats off to the likes of Demi Moore, J-Lo, and the many other celebs who have shown the world that there’s nothing wrong with older women dating younger men. It’s not that women haven’t been doing it for ages, but having these shining (and incredibly sexy and powerful) examples have taken it from some sort of seedy or desperate cougar versus cub cliché to simply two people with an age difference coming together. More and more older women are seeking to attract younger men because influential women are setting the standards by following…
  • How Can I Convince Him To Respect Me

    16 Apr 2015 | 6:45 pm
    How Can I Convince Him To Respect Me Healthy relationships are going to be based on respect. There are some men out there that continually disrespect a woman because they’ve never been shown how not to. That is not say that these men are not capable of showing it, but you may need to help them learn how to go about doing this. You can do this in a number of ways including being able to present constructive solutions when there is a problem, try to be open minded and see both sides of things and being able to respect yourself first. Some men have never exhibited these skills or they have…
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